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Oh, that's enlightening, a failure rate in excess of half has always struck me as being odd, in the sense that it would seem to discourage both participants from wasting their time, effort and money. However, I do still wonder about the wider data of marriage - how many people cheat in their marriage, how many people continue in an unhappy marriage because they feel trapped by finances, by their family situation, by necessity? How many people feel enriched by the experience? I look at the marria…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 09:47 PM
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People aren't meant to fuck exclusively, it's true with women, it's true with men. This idea that you're always going to be out-alphaed by some other guy is flawed, the fact is you're always going to be that which she knows and is not curious about if you're exclusive and you know each other like the back of your hand(s). Whereas the next guy she meets is going to be somebody she doesn't know and remains curious about. This is why aloofness, and maintaining an air of mystery, is among the best t…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:57 PM
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A girl I know describes every guy she fancies as being 6 foot 2. I've met these guys and they're smaller than me, and I reckon I'm a smidgen over 6 feet (I'm measured at 6 foot 1 when I go to the nurses, but she's generous so I downscale it because I'm OCD for accuracy). My theory is that women attribute attractive qualities to men they find attractive, hence the guys they are attracted to or who they're fucking, they exaggerate in their mind. That's why they over-estimate the size of a number o…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:55 AM
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Everything has to be an addiction nowadays. I spent some time forgoing video games and pornography and I didn't really see the point. It didn't affect me in any way, negatively or positively, not making use of either of these things. I think people are looking at the wrong causes for the disconnect. We have a fractured society in which people treat one another as temporary sources of validation and emotion. Men are social creatures no matter what people think, it is the lack of strong, reliable …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 01:08 PM
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You have to understand that there's a good reason why, in a feminist society, men will be shamed and made to feel bad about their sexual experience, especially their lack of. It means that men who have "missed out" are constantly inflating the value of sex, and by logical extrapolation, the value of the female. Having men be shamed, especially by one another, is the best thing for creating a train of willing betas who, later in life, will inevitably value the female far higher than they ought by…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:15 PM
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I'm fed up of these dissection threads. I can read for myself without a broken commentary.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 03:42 PM
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One thing I've noticed the more I've been going to the gym isn't necessarily the way women are attracted to me. Don't get me wrong, I can tell that more women are attracted to me, even though I can't necessarily see myself the gains that the scales tell me I have made (and no, not all fat, although a little). The change I've noticed the most is that women do not disrespect me any more, ever. They shit test occasionally, yes, but I used to get outright disrespect from women (not often, but often …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 11:27 AM
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More modern HIV Tests, that look for antibodies and/or p24 antigens, are reliable much sooner after exposure than commonly believed. I know that in the UK, if you go to a GUM Clinic, you are advised that HIV is generally detectable within a month post-exposure, whereas any test taken after 3 months is accurate in all bar a very extreme sub-population (i.e. those who already have compromised immune systems). In fact, the NHS website says as much: "Most HIV tests in the UK involve taking a small s…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 11:22 AM
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I think the problem is less solitude and more human nature. We tend to value, as individuals, the things that we do not have. Therefore, where sex and meaningful relationships (be they inter-sexual or merely close friendships) are scarce, we covet these things, and place a higher value on them than is perhaps necessary. Another issue within this is that when something is scarce, we develop the mindset that it shall always be scarce, which makes the act of addressing the scarcity and redressing i…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:55 PM
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Women don't want a man for whom things are scarce, this applies to wealth, to options, to sexual access. Why are people so surprised? Can you honestly tell me that you were the guy who wanted to hang with the fat, useless slobs at school, or the guy who wants to associate with the timid, weak losers of the world, whose primary achievement in life is winning the sperm race? No disrespect intended if any of those things apply to you, I'm just saying that people are attracted to attractiveness. Ult…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:32 PM
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I disagree. Being possessive over women is a vice, that I can agree with. But, the biggest problem guys have is being loyal to their women, when they should always be mindful of superior options. A woman is always mindful of superior options, but that will not stop her from being possessive and loyal, to the necessary degree, within a relationship. A man should do the same, insofar only as it does not put his own self-interests at risk. Women are transient, there are times when they want to be p…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 04:06 PM
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Guys like OP are stupid. You shouldn't talk about philosophy, politics, or any of your thoughts on life, because they're what make you enemies. People don't want to hear what they don't know or like, they want to reinforce their own beliefs, irrespective of whether they are right or wrong. Yet all of that is irrelevant, because the fundamental mistake you made is the same one that your friend made. You were so egotistical that you could only believe that you were right, and that you should force…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:02 PM
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You either like a girl or you don't, I don't know why you have to call women pigs with lipstick. It's not really relevant to any discussion here to demean women in that way. If you don't like the calibre of woman you ONS, then meet women in a more natural environment, where the emphasis is not on being dolled-up, and where there isn't so much loud noise, and other antagonistic factors, that drive you towards making bad decisions with your penis. But don't go around dehumanising everybody you mee…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 12:46 PM
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I think this sub is unnecessarily cruel towards the forever alone types. Yes, it is easy to give up, to give in, to identify with your negative beliefs, but this is an easiness carried over from one's nurture, from a multitude of years of being shunned, of being treated like a punch bag, of being not merely rejected, but dismissed, at the best end of things ignored, at the worst end of things discarded, like a piece of rubbish. I am not saying for one moment they should be applauded, merely I th…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 04:31 PM
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I knew a girl who told me that she liked guys with abs and a bit of muscle. She had a bad experience with a guy with abs and a bit of muscle, in the sense that he strung her along, didn't tell her he had a girlfriend, didn't even fuck her, and left her in a mess of emotions so wonderfully poignant, I laughed at her for days. Within six months, her feelings had been re-built towards deflection, whereupon she told me that she didn't like guys with abs, it didn't look normal, and she did so with a …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 09:07 PM
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You won't get over it in the way you think. There's a lot of denial on here about oneitis. The fact is that oneitis is not a state of mind, it is a deep-rooted programming. If you have been obsessive about a girl for two years, you're not going to get over her in less than that amount of time again. And you're not going to get over her in the way you think. If you never fucked her, there will still be some sense of yearning, of a feeling unquenched, unsated, unfulfilled. It sounds bleak, but the…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 04:44 PM
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Many men are a long way from being themselves, and many more are a long way from being the best version of themselves. The problem with the whole be yourself thing is that men have followed it, seen it fail, then looked for the deceit afterwards. In actuality, it is conceit that is the problem, coming from within, not without. It is when you tell yourself that the idea of 'yourself' that has persisted for decades is actually who you are that you run into the false feedback loop, and struggle for…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 05:35 PM
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The problem with hypergamy is that it encourages a ruthless short-term mating strategy in women that severely damages their long-term mating strategy, either in terms of their ability to bond or in their ability to be attracted to men who are ostensibly in their league. Is it healthy or good for a woman to be perenially (emotionally) single throughout her 20s, before settling for a loyal beta? I don't think it really works for either party. I think it's important to understand that the whole dat…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 07:14 PM
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Be careful of judging womens' friendships based on the masculine idea of friendship. A woman's friendship with a woman is not that different from a woman's friendship with a man, in that it is lacking in virtue and loyalty. Guys who are in the so-called friend-zone aren't always permanently in the friend-zone, either. If you're attractive you're attractive, if you're not, you're not. Plenty of women will go out with guys they've been friends with, it just irks with some men that they're going ou…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:49 PM
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Be more of an asshole than last year, without being an actual asshole. Give less of a fuck than last year. Exercise more (and I exercise a lot), masturbate less. Eat better. That said, these are my every day resolutions. I disagree completely with the previous member who said NY resolutions aren't a good idea, I think they can be used by anybody to improve their life. The problem is that the weight of your inertia quite often exceeds the full extent of your maximum willpower (I stole that quote …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 12:58 PM
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I want to deadlift 200kg, squat 150kg, bench 100kg. Obviously, I want to bang 9s, sort out my career situation. I have climbed mountains. Lifting is important to me and has been since I took it up seriously (which is basically since joining this sub). But these are not really things that contribute to this image I have. If I have discipline, the other things will come, whatever they are.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:06 PM
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I swear 99% of posts that begin [FR] on here are utter bollocks. It's my fault for reading them.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:37 PM
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This is a real problem for real men in the modern world, in that they'll never live up to the Twihard generation's (aka Woman 2.0) fantasy man, no matter how red pill said guy becomes. You're competing against a fantasy man, a perfect ideal of male sexuality; the billionaire, immortal, 6ft+ super-sexy super-confident super-aloof super-sexual super-man. It's basically just a shit world to be a man in, if you desire companionship with women. Because companionship with women scarcely exists, you're…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 07:32 PM
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I've never known anybody be particularly unkind to ugly women. That is not to say that there are not incidents in which people are unkind to ugly women, but the problem with the essay written here is that any special privilege afforded to attractive women, which generally exceeds the norm by some considerable distance, is considered as unkindness and a slight when not also afforded to less attractive or ugly women. This is something that we, as men, cannot relate to, having rarely been offered a…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 06:34 PM
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Not without a very strong will. The problem isn't missing out on young sex (love is just an irrelevant term here, it's young sex and only the sex that matters to young men), it's the feeling of shame and rejection that follows you into later life. It's the stigma that surrounds the ageing male virgin, that he's unworthy in every way, irrespective of his personal success. This culminates in a pressure that comes both from within and without; the sense, first of all, of a personal shame, at having…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 04:09 PM
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I don't think any of these guys paid 5k for the woman, they paid for the worldliness of the woman. As she says, she made herself interesting, she made herself connect. She constructed a personality that was sensual, intimate, intriguing. How many women have any of us met in our life who are actually interesting beyond their sexuality? When I break a woman down I like into her personality and her sexuality, I find that I am gearing so heavily towards the latter because there is very little of the…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 03:21 PM
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By that graph, women believe that men's 'physical qualities', aka, actual attractiveness, are fairly consistently high between the ages of 20 and 40. And aesthetic attractiveness is, ultimately, the prime enabler in sexual relations with women. That said, taking women's collective word on what they believe they find attractive is foolish.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:11 PM
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No, it's more sinister than that. Men and women are using their pets as surrogate girlfriends, boyfriends, wives, husbands, to make up for the inadequacy of their relationships. The intimacy afforded by an animal is often far less transient than that offered by another human being in the carousel that is modern relationships. It is actually very sad, for anybody who sees this trend for what it is. There are lots of very lonely men and women out there, and that's just the ones who are in relation…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 01:53 PM
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I don't really understand threads like this. All the women you meet are going to have had sex in a variety of positions with a variety of people, whether it's on film or not.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:31 PM
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50% of women believe they have a plan B.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:46 PM
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I still have some sympathy for women. They trade in the currencies that society tells them they ought, yet when realisation hits that their professional success, their qualifications, their possessions, etc., are nothing, it is a slow realisation, it nags and it persists and it takes years to finally uncover the awful, naked truth. And at that point, many modern women find themselves having to develop elements of themselves that they had never even considered before, or things that people had al…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 08:49 PM
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Does The Big Bang Theory piss you off because it's accurately portraying real-life? All my guy friends are in similar situations with women. Many of my male work colleagues are in similar situations with women. I have one friend who's like me in that he doesn't see the value of a woman and doesn't get heavily involved with them on that basis. He's a freak, and so am I, apparently. While one of my male friends isn't allowed to watch the game tonight, unless it's at a venue she finds to be accepta…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:13 PM
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I don't feel like I'm qualified to give anybody tips. I improved my writing by reading a lot and keeping a diary. I write in my diary every day and that's really the only opportunity I have to practise, other than when I'm writing on here. My belief is that writing is a skill like any other, in that it rewards you for the amount of hours you put in. Read widely, learn to enjoy reading if you don't already, and try and emulate the skills of the writers you like, as well as the ones you don't like…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:40 PM
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Alpha is an internalisation of a state of mind that, once attained, never concerns itself with whether or not it is alpha.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 08:37 PM
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I'm an autodidact where writing is concerned - I taught myself from a very young age.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 04:04 PM
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I'm not fretting. I guess my contention is that this sub is often overly concerned with that which is within only because of the effect it shall have on that which is without. There are guys here obsessed with getting into the top 10%, but there are two things that are not talked about enough: Being in the top 10% is not the same as being happy For some people, the top 10% is simply unattainable I know that sounds unpleasant, but it's true. For me, red pill began when I started thinking in terms…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 10:01 PM
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I know it's demoralising, but ... there's actually no point pursuing this lifestyle and dream if you don't actually want it. Swallowing the red pill for me has been a realisation of truth. I don't want to be in the top 10% of men in the sense that women will perceive me as being in the top 10%. What I mean by that is, I don't want to work damned hard to up my SMV just because it will up my SMV, especially because being a wealthy bachelor is never how I foresaw my life developing. In actuality, s…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 09:35 PM
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Tinder is a place where princesses, from the beautiful to the downright ugly, seek out alphas to fuck. The prettier said alphas are, the better. Frankly, applications like Tinder serve only one purpose - they artificially raise women's SMV while accentuating the disposable nature of men. If you're not in the top 20% that is talked about on here, the utility of Tinder, and other online dating/hookup websites/applications is limited. That is not to say you cannot succeed, but your effort to succes…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 08:08 PM
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There's no point appealing to a sense of reason where women are concerned. They don't care why something isn't fair, they don't care for mitigating factors, they care only for positive discrimination (where it favours them), for equality (where it favours them), and for female privilege (i.e. in the form of chivalry and a masculine code of protectiveness, of honour, again, where it favours them). Deep down, feminist women are aware of the fallacious nature of some of their arguments. But their s…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:58 PM
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My experience is that women will assign you an SMV in the first 30 seconds of meeting you and will shit test you accordingly in order to re-frame that SMV. But, ultimately, your behaviour will determine whether she views you as attractive or not irrespective of the external perception of your SMV. This is where a lot of inexperienced virgin guys fall down, because they think that their being a virgin is unattractive when what they're actually mistaking is cause and symptom. Their being a virgin …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 05:34 PM
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It's easy to say I wouldn't do it because blah blah, whatever, but I think that's all just social conditioning. If you're single and someone is down to fuck, where's the problem? My only argument against comes from analysing the kinds of women who do this shit. They're low quality women and you know that straight off the bat. They're the very kinds of women who enable RP and sabotage the romantic ideals that many would like to see prevail. Hence, it's a cycle of pain within which women who cheat…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:25 PM
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I don't think anybody falls in love instantly, I think this is the male-hamster working in overdrive, where guys convince themselves that it's love at first-sight to help rationalise their perception of the world which is infected by scarcity mentality. Women don't fall in love instantly because they're realists and because guys are abundant. But that doesn't mean that anyone falls in love more quickly than anybody else, it depends very much on whether love is an actual definable emotion, or whe…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:47 PM
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I think there's an adjustment period to assimilating any new information, and within that adjustment period, you often over-adjust to the point where you become the complete opposite. While in some people's eyes, this is a bad thing, I personally think it's a good place to start as it gives you the enlightening experience of seeing from both sides of the loser/jerk dichotomy, and witnessing first-hand how much more attractive the latter is. That's kind of where I am at the moment, basically just…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:38 PM
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Stories like this make me grateful for my incel years. Had I been sexually successful at a younger age, I would have been a full-on beta, and for all of my failures in life, I have a place of my own, money that is my own, a measure of freedom for myself, and crucially, I stumbled upon red pill at a great time for me, in my mid-twenties, before I'd made the kinds of mistakes I would otherwise have made. The most important thing I recognise is that women in my peer group are starting to hit the wa…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:14 PM
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A virgin hasn't suffered enough at the hands of the opposite sex to appreciate their true nature. Oh, I am sure there is some degree of suffering, but it's better to have never loved at all ...
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 03:41 PM
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If I feel flummoxed by a shit test, I usually just laugh and tell them it's cute when little girls try to act like women. It's a fluff response but it's worked for me.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:52 PM
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No, there is nothing wrong with you using objective standards for yourself. There is everything wrong with certain kinds of people - those who are rebuilding their life and are newbies getting into a sport - getting carried away and damaging their self-esteem and pride by thinking that x is average, that y is elite, etc. Goal setting is a different thing entirely and is something that everybody should indulge in. My post never suggested otherwise, merely I said that the fight is against the self…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 07:01 PM
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I love nofap but it's full of guys doing it for all the wrong reasons. Quite probably the bluest sub around, in more ways than one.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 05:26 PM
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I hate threads like this (I say with a sigh). Too many people start their 'lifting career' by chasing rainbows, by measuring themselves against where they 'should' be, by measuring themselves against who they should be as good as, or better than, or whatever. Just do not do it, under any circumstances. There is one fundamental concept you need to learn if you're going to a) enjoy weightlifting and b) not develop a complex when comparing yourself against others. That concept is this: you are only…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 05:22 PM
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When you were a child, you wanted to be the wizard, you wanted to be the superhero, you wanted to be whatever. The guys and girls who are blue still think this way. Their problem is that they are nothing but fully-formed children living in hope of their fantasies coming true. The difference between them and us is that our dreams and fantasies were shattered by the inconvenient nature of reality. If I want to escape reality, I read a good book. I make sure I come back again afterwards, mind.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:30 PM
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The worst thing isn't the number. It's that their number is a flexi-number: it changes depending on the reality they're facing at present. No girl would admit to such a high score in reality, but when you can boast about it on the internet, it's a different thing. That's why you should always go into any encounter with a woman assuming that she's a slut, until proven otherwise. It's guilty until proven innocent.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:25 PM
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It's nothing to do with red pill, it's nothing to do with what we believe. The basic truth is that you shouldn't forcefully advocate your philosophy on life. If you do, you're preaching, and nobody wants to hear that shit. I have friends who don't know what I believe, because I don't tell them. Why would I need to? We play sports, we hang out, we watch music, we go on holiday together. We're not looking to change the world or social dynamics. When we're talking about women, I'll give them my vie…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 03:37 PM
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All but the least attractive of women have their orbiters. What you should have said is 'if the woman is young'. An attractive man has many impedements to defeat before he can be spinning plates; his sense of honour, his feminised nature (if he's like 95% of modern men), his anxieties about women. I know a ton of tall, reasonable looking guys who are perenially single. They have all the wrong ideas about the dating game. And the women who date them are entitled as fuck. If these guys were women,…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:39 PM
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You sound pretty entitled, you've made some positive changes, you think your philosophy is 'the best' because it's yours, and because of this, you don't merely demand respect, agreeability, validation, etc., you expect it. You're basically being a dick about it. If people don't agree with you, accept it, move on. Find new friends if you don't like your old ones. Say thank you to waitresses, it's called having manners.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:34 PM
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Women only have to exist to attract orbiters. Men have to work to be spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:21 PM
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I read through all of that and I swear I had to stop and think at least half a dozen times, certain that the latest bullet point in the series of bollocks completely contradicted the one that preceded it. Then I remembered: native woman speaking fluent womanese.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 03:19 PM
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Again, I'm with you on that, but I want to see a world in which these guys take the same path. Or better yet, a world in which the terms and conditions aren't so skewed against the average (or below average) guy that they are ostracised in such a fashion, with scant hope to call upon, where their only refuge is a small corner of reddit. That sub is a damning indictment of the state of the world. We have to give a fuck about these guys because nobody else does.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:45 PM
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I agree with that but it's easy to be stuck on one course by the sheer weight of your inertia and the determination of the rest of the human race to stick the boot into you because you're abnormal, you're a virgin, you live with your parents, etc. This is especially true of young men. What these guys represent is society's devolution to a point where it cares not at all about young men (except when it needs to fight a very big war). If we don't give men value when they're young, and build their …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:36 PM
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I disagree. I can't not have sympathy for them.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:59 PM
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Maybe. The point to remember here is that men and women are adversaries in many respects. Our goals are rarely mutual. When you see that girl next to you, in bed, when she opens her legs for you and invites you in, when she tells you she loves you and whispers sweet nothings in your ear, remember. The only person who can look after a man, and a man's interests, is the man himself. The law doesn't care if your wife drags you into sex under false pretences, your friends aren't going to care, other…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 07:41 PM
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As far as reddit is concerned, I mostly only read this sub now. I think I found this place through nofap. Or maybe it was by random. Either way, I find it a lot harder to read nofap any more. I still value a lot of things in nofap but I orient them more around my own selfishness than previously. I like to beat myself at my own game to better myself, whereas before, I don't know what my motivation was. I guess I wanted to prove I wasn't an addict. I'm still subscribed to spaceporn, because I love…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 06:42 PM
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She says she really, really, really, honestly and truly, loved him. Guys, there's the love of a modern woman for you. She loves you so much that she'll betray you in the worst possible way (for a man to be betrayed, anyway). Forget about love. It doesn't exist.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 04:01 PM
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Yup. I'm sure glad I found TRP while I'm young, unmarried, and without children. The youth I may lose, the others ... never.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 06:40 PM
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I'm not sure that no one here hates women. That's the opposite extreme of opinion. There are men here of all types, of all different experiences. I would be amazed if there aren't a number who genuinely do hate women, and whose contributions reflect that. It is for that very reason that one can find 'evidence' within this forum of misogyny, especially if that is what you are looking for, and present to the world a load of bile claiming that 'red pill is misogynistic'. But, who cares? This sub ne…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 02:29 PM
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I don't think that's the point. It's an analysis of the state of delusion that resides deep within the modern female, and is conditioned into them from a very young age. Yes, women want rich, famous men to dote on them. The problem is that many women think that they deserve rich, famous men to dote on them, without them putting any effort into themselves whatsoever. Vapid, pointless existences are what many of these women lead, waiting for that which they are entitled to to fall into their paths…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 12:10 PM
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Exactly. Genuing kindness is a virtue, something to be treasured and lauded for its selflessness. Kindness, when used as a currency in the hope or expectation of sex, is creepy and pathetic. Chivalry is a virtue. Chvialry, when used as currency in the hope or expectation of sex ... ... you know what I'm getting at here. I think the sad reality that we all have to accept, though, is that when somebody is kind to you, 9 times out of 10 it's because they want something.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 11:41 AM
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You can't shake it. You can't cure yourself of your humanity. I know that some people on here disagree but RP doesn't turn you into a nihilist. Only thing you can do in situations like this is accept it as a part of you, and not be dragged back towards her. Develop yourself and develop your life. A life well lived, and the passage of time, these are the only things that shake feelings like this.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 04:20 PM
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I reject what I don't like because of feels.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:17 PM
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Ultimately, you can only ever enlighten yourself in any subject. Any attempt to enlighten others is merely offering them your perception of enlightenment and thus, any information they acquire from you is diluted. This is why, when you learn something new, you often struggle to immediately handle the full weight of information. You juggle with it, you look at it from all angles, until eventually, you have your eureka! moment, where that information seems to drop and inhabit you, and it seems so …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 07:37 PM
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I was gonna say ... am I going mad or what? I'm not sure it's necessarily pro-RP in terms of the philosophies here, but the article is actually really, really good, and even draws upon a lot of young women who are basically spitting out red pill truths left, right and centre. The young college girls in particular are enlightening - 40% of their college is men, but only 20% of them are dateable (aka fuckable, aka alpha). There's some great stuff on there.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 05:29 PM
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The article seems to be pretty red pill to me?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 04:37 PM
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You've got to remember that a lot of what people say in those threads is based on the desire not to say what they think, but to be popular on the internet. Merely observing social dynamics in reality proves the point that the desire to be popular shall always compromise the desire to be true to one's beliefs, especially in those who are weak-minded. I also don't really get why people cannot differentiate between liking something, and perceiving it as truth. For me this is an extension of working…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 04:09 PM
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I think the difference, in a woman's eyes, is largely the same as the difference between 'creepy' and 'hot'. It's not what you wear, it's how you wear it. As for these guys ... meh. They're the ones who go depressive and kill themselves. I feel sympathy for them. I'd like to see a world in which they had been raised as men, not as accessories to be worn and used by women in whatever way they prefer. Yeah, they're all a bit of the nerd persuasion, but no man is beyond help. It's just that their l…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 01:18 PM
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It's easy to blame your parents, but I imagine a lot of us were born into families in which both parents worked, leaving us malleable and not fully-formed when we entered the school system. Whereupon a horde of willing teachers, more of them female than male* I should add, set upon us and moulded us in the image that they so-desired. Personally, I did not spend sufficient time with either of my parents to become at all like them. They were at work, they were busy. It was at school that I became …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 12:35 PM
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Don't be fooled into thinking that this is a woman-hating, misogynistic sub of bitter men. It's a sub meant to study the species that is woman. It is anthropological. It analyses a woman's actions and tries to draw commonalities from actions that manifest repeatedly in all manner of women. Some people hate women, some love them. There is no common ground. But the basis for all of this is reality, and it draws upon real events to present conclusions that society generally hides from, because of t…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:27 PM
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Don't listen to the shit from guys who are trying to troll you and say you're not alpha enough. There's 3,500,000,000+ guys in the world. Someone is always going to be more alpha, or more niche, or momentarily more interesting, or more in the right place at the right time to fuck your girl. This is the way shit goes down. The only person you can ever really trust is yourself, and even then you can only trust yourself to be yourself (you can't expect that you'll always do the right thing). Frankl…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:16 PM
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I get the impression that a lot of guys reach a point where they still love women collectively, but cannot invest love in an individual woman. I think it would be irrational for me to hate women for their nature. I have always said that any one person is a sum of their flaws, and that to have any kind of relationship with somebody, you must like them because of their flaws, not in spite of them. Women are the sum of their flaws and you have to accept it and get on with your life (whatever life i…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 10:12 PM
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Is she that bad? I think her candour is refreshing, as is her loyalty. Another woman in the same situation would be fucking other guys and drawing up her escape plans.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 05:36 PM
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In real life, anything can happen. RP is best practice, most probable outcome, not fact.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 05:31 PM
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Atheism isn't the truth. It's a faith position, just like all the other ones. Now if you'll excuse me, I'll keep my red pill and my agnosticism as my two positions of sanity in a world that keeps trying to tell me everything else is right. Or wrong.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 01:50 PM
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I agree with this but I would add that being yourself isn't actually the worst idea ever. Be your unashamedly masculine self might be a better way of expressing the whole 'be yourself' idea in a manner that would encourage success. Nice guys tend to prioritise the feminine - i.e. fluff - side of themselves when they are told to be themselves. That is to say that they become to a woman what another woman would be, a confidant, an emotional tampon. What they need to be pushed towards is the inner …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 01:42 PM
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If you're gonna do all that shit for her, you might as well suck her cock while you're there.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 12:48 PM
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(replying to posts above and below) To be honest, I set six months as a standard because I was presuming that any guy who placed any kind of value on himself wouldn't simply fuck anything that moved. Given the choice, I'd honestly rather have died a virgin than fucked something horrifically unattractive simply to lose my virginity. There's a big problem with men I know in that they'll pedestalise pussy even if it's attached to fugly. What the fuck is wrong with these guys?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 11:51 AM
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I have to say, I'm convinced that the best cure for virginity is to stop masturbating and to stop watching porn. If somebody has the willpower, give them six months of neither of those things, and they'll find somebody to take their penis. I say this as somebody who's spent a fair while on 'nofap'. Too many modern guys have too many comforts with which to cling to. I know guys with girlfriends/wives who spend more intimate time with porn than with their woman. I always wonder who their woman's c…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 07:05 PM
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Women are bad friends, anyway. They give bad advice. They don't give a shit about anything in your life. They'll judge you and bitch about you, and you can be sure that anything you say to them will be known the world over within 24 hours. Women are acquaintances, unless you're fucking them.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 02:05 PM
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Marry me ... lol. Lol lol lol. I cannot stand it when a guy sends me a 'lol'. Fair enough if guys on here use lol in texts but I don't like it all. At least if you're gonna be whiny and needy and desperate, be serious about it, or don't. Don't take the middle ground of 'I'll be your guy ... lol. Maybe? But if not, then I was only joking. Because I don't want to be rejected, right.'
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:20 PM
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I think you're being way too idealistic in looking towards a future in which our reality becomes the consensus reality. Boys are seeing their masculinity attacked from the moment they are born. Boys are being raised either by big boys, or worse, women. When they are so indoctrinated, how on earth can you expect more than a minority to 'see the light'?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:44 PM
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There's nothing linear about a woman's vocabulary. Cute and sweet can be used as shit tests to attempt to emasculate you. I've been described in such a way by women I know are attracted to me as a way of trying to incite a reaction. It's better to simply assume attraction and behave as a man would in pursuing said attraction, instead of over-analysing one word that is used to describe you.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:09 PM
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I read stuff like this and I see all kinds of things. Pretentious language to try and blow herself up. Convoluted rationalising to portray herself as equal to, if not better than, the men she 'gives herself' to. It comes back to the new trope of 'empowerment'. Anything and everything is empowering to a woman who wants to hamster herself into those thought processes. Whatever.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 04:00 PM
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Guys in their early 20s aren't generally driven, in my experience. They're happy with the fundamentals; sex, shelter, food. You need to take a few kicks and punches in life before you find drive, sometimes. You need to find an anger within yourself and turn it into passion. Quite often, that anger starts with a woman ...
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 03:56 PM
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These guys care too much. They're just feminised drones thinking they're getting back at the system. You know the best way to handle women and relationships in general? Stop caring. The moment you care, that's when they grab you by the balls and never let go. Honestly, who gives a f*ck who rejects who? You don't get life points for winning the rejection game. It goes back and forth and then you kick it into touch. You know the moment you're no longer in the grey zone? When you decide you're not.…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 01:59 PM
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No-one is going to listen to me about TRP because I'm not going to talk about it. I don't feel as if it's my duty to guide everybody I know towards a different philosophy on life, simply because I believe theirs is wrong. It's like preaching. Believe what you want, but I don't want to hear about it. That's why I seek out like-minded individuals to discuss and expand my own belief systems.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 12:43 PM
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It mystifies me that people will SEE the truth, BELIEVE the truth, yet refuse to assimilate with the truth. I've said this once already, I was disgusted by this place when I first got here. I almost broke down and cried. I didn't cry for myself - I cried for all the cunts who had lied to me. I cried for the things I'd missed out on because my life paradigms were all wrong. These people don't want to go RP because they are their own victims. Try living red pill for a year and see where it takes y…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 05:17 PM
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I came to reddit through nofap. I was mega blue-pill back then - read thru some of my posts and you'll see that. Everybody on there is mega blue-pill as well, which is why I sometimes post antagonistic things on there now just for the fun. My experience of nofap has been excellent. It makes me think that porn is one of the things that has emasculated men of recent generations - as much as the sexual revolution and the rise of feminism. It can't be good for a man to sit at home masturbating to pe…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 04:52 PM
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I find a lot of the stuff posted in this forum to be disgusting. Not because I disagree with it. It's disgustingly, horribly true. I think it takes a certain level of open-mindedness to come into this sub and start deconsctructing your social programming. It's hard to destroy the social paradigms on which your entire life was founded, and start all over again. But you know what? This sub has instilled a massive sense of confidence in myself. Just knowing, understanding, and relating this stuff t…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 09:41 PM
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In fairness to the guy, this is a sub about seduction. He's giving you tips on how to seduce. Wherever you stand on women and what they represent, this is about sex and the means and ways of getting to a point where you are sexual with a woman.
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