chiyukichan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Father's rights, contract/legal documents before birth?	Legal Rights	chiyukichan	/r/MensRights	11/05/19 04:56 PM

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2	I didn't realize how bad double standards are til I had to call the cops. I am a woman and one of my best friends is a man in another state, he's like a little brother to me. His unstable wife kept attacking him. He would send me pictures of himself bleeding from getting punched in the face or dishes broken over his head. He actually has a medical disability and an implanted medical device that she would sometimes hit. He told me he wouldn't leave the relationship so I just begged him to please not get murdered. The least he could do was leave the apt. One time someon…	/r/MensRights	26/07/26 02:14 AM
0	female or male therapist, if it is about female abuse? I am a female therapist who treats individuals and couples. I always have a single breakout session with each partner in a couple to assess for safety. The men often think I am asking if they are abusive and I have to clarify to ask if they feel safe in the home or are experiencing domestic violence because women can also be abusers. Many of my male clients have reported childhood abuse to me included being sexually abused by a trusted female figure in their life. Abuse is never OK and I am sorr…	/r/MensRights	07/02/26 02:10 AM
19	Question for the women who are on this sub and support it. My husband is a combat veteran, I have a young son, and I am a therapist. I see how different systems and individuals impact these people I care about. I have sad and lonely male clients with no support who have endured disgusting abuse from their families of origin, romantic partners, or other trusted people. I want the world to be better and that means I need to look at the other side and what their life experiences are. I am very grateful to this sub for helping me see so many other points of…	/r/MensRights	23/01/26 11:51 PM
9	Dear women on this sub, what was your "red pill moment"? I posted on here asking about prenup info before we got married. A lot of guys told me the prenup might not matter much once children are involved since finances would be looked at for taking care of them through the fanily court system. We've been together 6 years and have 2 kids now. I changed careers and in a few years I'll probably be making more than he does. But currently he's been taking care of us as I've been in grad school and having babies. We regularly talk about roles, power dynamic…	/r/MensRights	01/06/25 04:47 PM
88	Dear women on this sub, what was your "red pill moment"? I'm divorced and got serious with my now husband. We wanted a family and he talked about how the family court system is stacked against men and it's so risky to take a chance getting married to not have half your life taken away. My first husband and I were too poor to argue over any financial stuff and didn't have kids. I really sat with what my husband said and thought "I want him to feel safe with me because I really want this to work with us." I offered to do a prenup knowing he has more ass…	/r/MensRights	01/06/25 01:44 AM
5	Women changing their last name is propaganda If you're open to sharing, may I ask why a woman changing her name is important for you?	/r/MensRights	26/05/25 12:06 AM
3	I am the Villain in my wife's paranoid delusions I'm the spouse of a disabled veteran and close to your age. Have you reached out the to VA? Do you have a social worker? You might also try asking on r/veterans for advice. If she poses bodily harm to you or someone else you might be able to legally get her committed to be assessed. I'm so sorry you're going through this, it's scary and you don't deserve to be treated like this.	/r/MensRights	26/04/25 01:23 PM
4	Bullshit research again - the orgasm gap Academia is lazy. A really great book I read a ways back is called Better Sex Through Mindfulness and the author pulls out some research about women's struggles with orgasm. It mainly boils down to state of mind. A lot of women complain there is no female Viagra but if your head isn't in the game the increase blood flow to genitals isn't going to help. Stress, unresolved past trauma, and lack of focus in sexual encounters are all mood dampeners. The author was holding mindfulness workshops to ad…	/r/MensRights	09/03/25 01:57 AM
4	"You just couldn't find a woman in your own country/you wanted a slave from the third world/you're taking advantage of those poorly educated girls" - How would you respond to this? Ask them why they think so poorly of these women who entered into a relationship of their own free will. Would that same woman understand marriage in her own country? Question whether they look down on all foreigners or just foreigners from certain places.	/r/MensRights	31/12/24 04:04 AM
1	I come in peace… I feel so much for you. I am a bisexual woman and know my experience is slightly different than yours. When I was dating women (I am married to a man now), I found them to be such a waste of time and energy. They were willing to eat up the attention and then never meet or leave me hanging. The bisexual women I had casual sexual encounters with didn't seem genuine and more like they were trying to prove their sexuality to themselves than to actually be in the moment and present with me. I was cas…	/r/MensRights	01/09/24 07:14 PM
3	What are the reasons for divorce I am a woman who initiated divorce. Both of us grew up with dysfunctional families and ultimately played the same roles within our marriage. He had mental health issues and I was codependent and made excuses for him and took care of him. The more I gave the more control he expected. I decided to leave because I hated my life, him, and I would rather be miserable alone than with another person. We were both poor so it was a simple no fault divorce that cost me $400 and I gave him half the apartme…	/r/MensRights	30/08/24 02:17 AM
-1	Are most people here pro life or pro choice? Non hormonal birth control still consists of copper iud, condoms, and diaphragm. It does suck hormonal seems to be the default for most. I realized it altered my mood so I used the options listed above. I wish they were promoted more because you can use them in combination. Also, so few women are aware of their own cycles and how to notice for ovulation. Imagine if women actually knew they were higher risk for pregnancy and just made smarter decisions during that time.	/r/MensRights	29/07/24 02:11 AM
3	ask your counsellor if she is a feminist? I am a woman currently in school to be a Marriage and Family Therapist. I don't identify as a feminist. I find a lot of my textbooks are very "men are the problem" line of thinking and it's very discouraging to me. You would think a field that relies on families actually coming in would try and be a bit friendlier to men. It's making me question all the institutions my son will have to navigate as he gets older	/r/MensRights	19/10/22 01:17 PM
1	Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is? I'm a divorced and remarried woman. I would say the divorce happened because we had an unrealistic expectation of marriage where the other person was supposed to be best friend and lover and provide any and all emotional support you need. His family also had generations of untreated bipolar and by the time we realized with him he had been too emotionally abusive to me to forgive/trust him. It was only to me, though, and not to anyone else he cared about. It was always said in private. I am remar…	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 03:44 PM
4	Coworkers told me to be careful around a girl we work with It simply isn't work appropriate conversation, I think that is the point. The person may have boundary issues to share something so personal with coworkers or be attention seeking	/r/MensRights	11/11/21 04:33 PM
1	UK: Women and girls are to get sanctuary in UK: Afghan females will be given priority to come here. OP: But the men left behind who fought against the Taliban will be killed. The way you wrote it sounds like "the Taliban forbidding this terrible practice is part of why I don't like refugees from there" which sounds confusing. My guess is you are trying to say that the culture's allowance of such a practice makes you not want to deal with their refugees?	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 07:16 PM
17	Called incel and misogynistic for asking Askwomen how to meet woman politely outside on a jog or something. I'm a woman and also got the autoban for commenting the other day. I've jumped ship on that sub and am just on r/trueoffmychest now	/r/MensRights	30/04/21 12:23 AM
16	A pretty good restaurant near my house. Even men's has a baby changing station. I will gladly keep giving them my money, food is great too. I worked in a downtown library where only the women's room had a changing table. Staff frequently requested that one be installed in the men's room based on customer complaints but facilities didn't think it was worth the money or effort. Happy to see establishments recognizing men care for small children too!	/r/MensRights	24/04/21 06:44 PM
2	I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrative Woman here, I wouldn't say I'm afraid of men at night, per se, but just scared for my safety in general knowing I am small and not capable of putting up a good fight if needed. But women are more conditioned to a fear response in general. I read John Gottman's book The Man's Guide to Women where he describes this fear response as something evolutionary. I do disagree with the narrative that men are to blame for women being scared. Do men feel irrational fear walking alone at night or just to a l…	/r/MensRights	23/08/20 02:23 PM
1	Father's rights, contract/legal documents before birth? Thank you for your thorough and thoughtful comment	/r/MensRights	11/05/19 11:32 PM
1	Father's rights, contract/legal documents before birth? Yes, Florida	/r/MensRights	11/05/19 09:25 PM
5	Does Marijuana ruin your game ? I'm a lady and if you're sharing then it makes everything feel easier: less anxious and inhibited, physically relaxed. There are also studies that show both men and women have more sex if they are cannabis users.	/r/seduction	13/07/18 04:29 PM
3	How do I let someone know that I only want something casual? I think asking outright what she's looking for (causal, serious?) and then sharing what it is you want. Then you can both decide if that's how you want to move forward. I was doing casual dating for a bit and usually chatted for a week before meeting in person. Each in-person meeting ended up discussing this (because for me I didn't want commitment, just friendly and fun). Good luck!	/r/seduction	01/07/18 09:47 PM