chnflore Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
91	Finally asked her out!	Field Report	chnflore	/r/seduction	13/06/22 05:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I can talk to people in a platonic manner but I don't know to approach and ask out women. I'm with you on that bro	/r/seduction	10/02/25 04:23 AM
2	How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me? You need to change your mindset about girls not wanting you. Believe it or not there's girls out there waiting for you, they just don't know it yet. Once you begin to improve your mindset and therefore your confidence, it'll make adopting the abundance mindset more feasible.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 04:40 AM
1	trying this sub at a recommendation, really need help 29m Look up "outcome independence"	/r/seduction	27/09/22 04:42 PM
1	Finally asked her out! I've definitely had instances where I let these opportunities (us two alone) slip right through my fingers. Not just with this one, but with others at work as well. Don't let a rejection hurt your ego man, shows that you're needy and need female validation to see value in yourself. I speak from experience, all my life I've sought approval and validation from women. But I'm coming to realize, that if they're truly meant to be in your life, they'll make an effort to do so. And those that don't, le…	/r/seduction	14/06/22 05:40 AM
1	Finally asked her out! Thanks man, means a lot!	/r/seduction	14/06/22 05:36 AM
3	Finally asked her out! Thank you! Yea we'll see, I'll keep seeing her around.	/r/seduction	13/06/22 10:30 PM
2	Finally asked her out! Ima do my best to keep it coming 😎	/r/seduction	13/06/22 10:29 PM
6	Finally asked her out! I was thinking the same thing. Regardless, she wasn't interested and now I know that for sure, instead of constantly wondering	/r/seduction	13/06/22 10:28 PM
12	Finally asked her out! Thank you for your comment! I'm hoping this will help me overcome my fear of rejection, especially when asking girls out while in a group setting	/r/seduction	13/06/22 05:26 PM
1	How does vulnerability lead to non-neediness? Sent you a DM	/r/seduction	11/06/22 05:02 AM
1	How does vulnerability lead to non-neediness? And to you good sir	/r/seduction	09/06/22 12:42 AM
1	How does vulnerability lead to non-neediness? I feel you my dude. 25M over here who doesn't have a lot of experience with women and who has, over time, become scared to death of female rejection (a.k.a neediness). It seems the only way to work at this is to take a few rejections. It's normal for us to be lonely, but I wouldn't regurgitate phrases like "I'm extremely needy and lonely" to women. Might scare them off, instead if they ask you something like: "Why were you single for so long"? You could say that you struggled with mental health,…	/r/seduction	08/06/22 08:03 PM
1	Rookies Guide to Approaching - Inner State Awesome, I'll have to try this out. Thank you bro	/r/seduction	07/06/22 12:15 AM
1	Rookies Guide to Approaching - Inner State Hey it looks good to me! Also, how do you go about adopting this mindset? I've gotten a bit more confident lately, but feel that I don't value myself highly just yet	/r/seduction	06/06/22 05:42 PM
1	Rookies Guide to Approaching - Inner State You have a beautiful way if writing my friend	/r/seduction	06/06/22 02:54 AM
1	How to act after a rejection? When you first start getting rejected it'll hurt. But eventually you'll build a "tolerance" towards that hurt. In other words, the outcomes may impact you at first, but eventually they won't	/r/seduction	17/05/22 07:54 PM
7	How to act after a rejection? Practice most likely	/r/seduction	14/05/22 06:04 AM