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Well, you may have a point (arguable, but I won't get into that). What we should take from him is that he had the courage to approach this girl. I'm betting he feels awesome, even if nothing comes out of this interaction. "You miss all the shots you don't take - Michael G. Scott" - chocorroles
/r/seduction10/07/15 10:29 PM
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It is (un)surprisingly very effective. I think the reason is that everyone wants to be treated as a human being, not a trophy or a piece of meat. When you engage with women, try to engage with the person. And share your thoughts with theirs. That drops panties more than any PUA stuff, more than any alpha male stuff. It's hard to explain, but if you have good friends and/or siblings, you know that feeling. That caring about, interested on your friends/siblings... that's what you need to be able t…
/r/seduction03/07/15 04:09 AM
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Overall, me 70%, her 30%. And it's usually like that with other stuff such as movie tickets, going out to drink or other stuff.
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:31 PM
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You put it a lot better than I did! And yes, your bullet about friends is absolutely on point.
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:27 PM
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I agree! I know tons of girls who look thru facades very easily (my GF included). They tell me about this PUA guys who try to flirt with them, and the all say "Trying too hard". Just like you said, dethroned by their own "alpha" confidence.
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:26 PM
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I feel that there is something to it, but in very particular situations. Overall, there are a lot of other factors that are way more important. Think about, what do people want to find? Someone fun to be around. Not a provider, not a strong individual. FUN. :D
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:24 PM
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I think "nice guys" aren't actually nice. Not long ago, someone posted a link to a book "No more Mr. Nice Guy" that points out how "nice guys" are actually self centered who do nice things for exchange. They do nice things so girls sleep with them. That's being a douche. I don't do nice things for sex, I do nice things for people I care about. I listen to people and engage in their conversations. I add my perspective, without thinking I'm above them. Commanding attention is not something that yo…
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:22 PM
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Exactly! Loosen up, take things lightly, enjoy the moment. You are in charge of yourself, you don't need to be in charge of everything.
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:10 PM
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Confidence is tricky. Sure, there are points to the "indifference" part, and it at least make women think twice about the guy (positively). But, when I'm out, I don't think about if a women likes me or not. I'm meeting people. I notice when they like me, and it makes me happy, but that's not what I'm looking for. And I think women know when a guy is comfortable and not needy, and they like that. I would also add "don't take shit too seriously". Learn to laugh about yourself and be light hearted.
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:09 PM
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Do you have any sibling? Or best friend? How do you behave with them? That's it, girls are people just like them. Treat them as such. Don't take stuff too seriously.
/r/seduction02/07/15 04:35 PM
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While I appreciate your effort, I think you are focusing too much in appearances and proving yourself to other people, which is exactly the opposite of confidence. I would suggest dropping the "alpha male" concept, because this itself tells a lot about how you perceive people on different levels, looking to place yourself into the high level. You want to know why "alpha males" are perceived as such? Because they treat all the people with respect, they listen people, they value their opinions. Th…
/r/seduction02/07/15 04:33 PM
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I agree with you. The emotional connection is incredibly important for me as well. I realized this after a series of ONS and meaningless hook ups. It's much better to connect with someone!
/r/seduction12/05/15 01:42 AM
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She is, and I (we) had a lot of fun during the dates, just good times. We've been dating for 1 year now. :D
/r/seduction11/05/15 10:25 PM
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I feel that you are thinking way too much into this. The girl clearly likes you, but doesn't want to get down just now. Maybe you feel that you are investing to much energy without seeing any return, but that's how some relations go. My current GF didn't kiss me until the 6th date or so. Some girls are a little more conservative, and want to know if you are just playing or are looking for a fling. Don't play games, tell her what you want; or ask her what she really wants. Maybe she tells you tha…
/r/seduction11/05/15 08:34 PM
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Of course. I went to catholic school through elementary, girls/boys were separated, so when I changed schools in what would be 8th grade, I had barely talked to any girl. I was so shy up until the last year of high school. And I played football as a running back (in Mexico though, not as big as in the US). It wasn't until my 22 years that I developed any "game", and it was restricted to international students at my college. But thanks to this sub and my athletic background (in shape, sports guy)…
/r/seduction10/11/14 03:51 PM
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That's awesome dude. Some guys are naturals, some of us are average, and some are shy/introverts. Trust me, you weren't the first and certainly won't be the last to approach these girls. I've approached lots of girls, so many. So much rejections. But one of the ones I did approach, is my GF now. Do it. A "no" is infinite times better than never knowing. Simple algebra.
/r/seduction02/11/14 11:44 AM
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I wasn't that old, 22 (almost 23) at the time I "finally" lost my virginity. I thought that I was getting behind, missing on the best thing ever and other stuff that you probably think right now. But you know what, I was waiting for a good girl who I really liked to lose my virginity. And it was the smartest thing I could have done. You know, that first time... WAS pretty embarrassing. I started off well, but soon the pressure cracked me and I was unable to keep it up. Yeah, that bad. The girl w…
/r/seduction08/04/14 03:05 AM
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Well done there. Clearly my english is not that advanced lol. (Not a native speaker).
/r/seduction08/02/14 12:55 AM
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Not at all. It's certain that while adopting a "game mindset", as you call it, certain people will perceive you as one. I've had girls calling me a jerk, even though I have always been clear about my intentions and up front about no commitment, just casual sex, for instance. Does that make me a jerk? No. And i'll tell you why. I care about the girls I go out with. I talk to them every now and then, and not just looking for a sex encounter. Just to chat and know how they're doing. They know what …
/r/seduction06/02/14 10:04 PM
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Dude, i'm 5'5. Height is not stopping me from getting girls. I admit, it's not like girls approach me 24/7, and while I agree that being taller helps a lot, it's all about playing your strengths. I've had girls telling me that at first thought i'm a little short, but that i'm a good guy to talk to and what not. I work out though. I'm closer to 165 lb (used to play football). I try to dress well. And I am confident. There will be girls who are attracted to guys like you, some to me, and some to n…
/r/seduction01/02/14 09:40 PM
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She led him on. I would have thought of it as a LMR at the point she mentioned him, as well.
/r/seduction17/01/14 03:37 PM
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This goes tied with how good looking your smile is. And i'm not trying to offend anyone here, but in my case, I know I have a nice smile. So I usually smile without it, to gauge the interest. If I note the slightlest interest, I smile with my teeth. Since I have a nice smile, they usually respond well. Of course, this is a very specific case, and I wouldn't dare to say it works every time. But I think it gives an idea on how to use what you have... if you have a bad "teeth smile", I guess as lon…
/r/seduction29/09/13 11:51 AM
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You didn't t need anyone to help you out man. As long as you're comfortable talking to girls. I'm sure you'll pull it off. First off. Work out a bit. You don't have to be super fit, bit it is going to help A LOT. Trust me, a month, two months of gym is going to lift your game up about 50%. Guaranteed.
/r/seduction09/08/13 08:50 AM
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Probably different in every country, but here in Mexico, it's almost unfair how easy it is. I have been to them just for fun, and I always end up K-closing girls. It's just about having fun, and making clear that you're into her by kino and such.
/r/seduction10/04/13 11:44 PM
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Great FR, I liked your wingman technique. Golden. As it has been said, you went there with the right mindset. And it showed, getting the number and almost K-closing. Would love to read a FR from you where you go for it!
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:56 AM
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I liked a lot your opening with the New Zealand girl. Great stuff. It really sucks that you drank too much, but I know that feeling. What happens to me (and likely to you) is that you get the don't care attitude full on. And that makes you more prone to escalation and heavy kino, but with confidence. Unfortunately, it was also your demise (in the later part of the night). It looked as if you had a chance for more fun with the HB7. Then again it's hard to ignore a HB9 when drunk. I liked the repo…
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:48 AM
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If you know you are going to be acting like this just because shes gonna be there: Head out to another party. It looks like you're overthinking it. Just try to not care about her. I know, easier said than done. But you've said it yourself, she has a boyfriend. Think about it: that girl thinks you're cute. You are CUTE. You think she's the only one who thinks it? That has changed my mindset a lot. From the first girl who told me I'm cute, now I assume I am. And that's how I approach girls. I know…
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:37 AM
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Dude, just take her out for drinks. You will both loosen up a little, which will help you with the talking. And as always, kino and eye contact. If she says yes to drinks, you're probably half way there ;) If you live in a country where 21 is the minimum age for drinking... Something playful where you can tease her. Mini golf is great, anything where you can play.
/r/seduction04/04/13 04:43 PM
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Dude, just take her out for drinks. You will both loosen up a little, which will help you with the talking. And as always, kino and eye contact. If she says yes to drinks, you're probably half way there ;)
/r/seduction04/04/13 04:41 PM
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I disagree. Women have an easier time when approaching guys, but as it has been said, lots of people look at it badly. In other words, I believe more women have shields than men. I might be wrong, but that's what I think.
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:38 AM
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