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fears being hurt By a bj or hj? Not all sexual contact is penetration, you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 01:59 PM
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How old are you? Have you tried gaming now and, if so, are you satisfied with the quality you get? Might be that younger chicks want feels and drama you no longer provide, since you have matured past that point. At my age it has become increasingly easier to spot for lower/higher maintenance partners, depending on what you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 08:56 PM
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I'm not quite catching the nuance of being/becoming, but I do agree on your general train of thought. Maybe you're shooting for the flawed "only good vibes" culture that's so prevalent in this mostly BP world. In that case, it's valid to point out the difference between becoming your own rolemodel through honesty, acceptance and facing demons and achieving success by spending as little effort as possible through decreasing of standards. However, I think there's an unspoken age requirement to ide…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 09:58 PM
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Being the father to yourself that nobody else ever was brings the joy of unconditional giving. Freedom, order, responsibility on your terms. It's not easy, but I've found meaningful peace in this. Not sure about the dark desires you describe, but the peace part works wonders.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 12:35 PM
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3 stages of recovering from trauma: Describing your memories in a safe environment Describing your feelings Reintegrating in society doing normal everyday stuff What OP is doing is necessary. I don't think many of his friends "get" red pill.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/22 08:47 AM
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I'm not an expert regarding this, but: Style. Find a look you want to have & go for it. Fit. Make sure it fits you well and you feel good in it. Color. A beginner tactic is to find palette of 3-4 colors that go together well and make the whole wardrobe out of them. Quality. I feel the best wearing quality rather than fast fashion items, even if it means a smaller wardrobe. They last longer, tend to look and fit better. Occasion. Focus on improving one at a time. Have a good look for your job. Th…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 10:19 PM
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Good stuff. What did you do to put yourself in positions where women could see your competence? In social situations.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 11:07 AM
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Where would you like to lead this "friendship"?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 10:38 PM
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"in the fourth quarter of 2020, men earned a median annual salary of $55,744, while women made a median annual salary of $46,488" in USA. It's a mental thing. Too many people (men and women) are driven by outside sources like main stream media, social media, psychological trauma, false promises etc. However, I have faith in kids nowadays. While few fancy hard work, most pay attention to mental challenges more than any generation before.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 10:28 PM
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Well, what would you do in their shoes? To me it's expected behaviour. There's nothing here to be bitter about. This is a wonderful opportunity to explore the world of blockchain, offshores, how taxes work. It feels so good to get smarter, I wouldn't want this any other way.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 10:17 PM
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Don't be angry, guys. This is a kid/dog misbehaving. It's really not their fault, if they don't know any better. Lead by example, show them how it is to be in a good relationship. Teach them what's important. Sense of humour, patience, status in your community, cooking skills, good taste, genuine happiness, honor, respect, a plan, skills, stability, excitement. Everything in moderation. I have yet to meet a woman to whom superficial things were a problem, if presented with a good, balanced, fun …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 10:06 PM
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Their brainwashed minds don't excuse any amount of anger towards them. They don't know any better. Teach, listen, be patient, lead by example.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 09:42 PM
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In her book “Trauma and Recovery,” Herman (2015) cites types of experiences that make lasting trauma more likely: being taken by surprise, being trapped, lacking protection against the elements (heat, cold, etc.) to the point of collapse, getting injured, being physically violated, being exposed to extreme violence, witnessing grotesque death. The three stages of recovery are therefore not necessarily sequential: Establishment of safety Remembrance and mourning Reconnection with ordinary life Cl…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/22 12:31 AM
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Interesting take. I see this as questioning market structure. When in doubt, people start asking questions. To keep your clientele, you have to give reasonable and sound answers. I'd ask you what would be a real question then. But that's too vague of a question to have a real answer to. Let's say you bought a car based on some fundamentals, but it has started to act up after 3 years. Suspension isn't as good as it seemed to be after all. Is engine any good then? What about transmission? What are…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 03:35 PM
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Why do you think this is about emotions and not missing answers to said questions?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 10:24 AM
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I don't think this is the right way. She thinks you use her just for sex. You starting to look for it elsewhere will just show her even that isn't satisfying to you. Being your little slut 75% of the time doesn't sound too bad. In my opinion, finding your purpose and mission might help in this situation. Maybe she needs a purpose in her own life. And she wants you to give it to her. But you can't give what you don't have.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 10:19 AM
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This boils down to: Xyz happening to me is good or bad depending on if I can deal with it in a healthy way. Xyz can be anything. A broken person is cold nothingness. Growth is the most beautiful thing. Thanks for your comment. This thought will go in my journal. And thanks to LR, too.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 08:34 PM
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Either way, it doesn't matter. In 200 years nothing you do matters. If so, why not do it?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 07:30 PM
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Does it come from a place of "I am quite cool and they seem nice, we could all benefit from a little chat every now and then"?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 08:21 PM
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What's the difference between a compliment and offending a woman? This advice feels like giving dynamite to kids.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 05:56 AM
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Can you make new friends at places you hang out already? Like get gym-buddies, hang out with people at internship etc. Widening your social circle sometime is as good as getting dates and vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 05:47 AM
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A book called "Never eat alone" changed my perspective on finding and creating opportunities, networking and much more. Good luck, bro. We got you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 08:31 PM
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Best way to improve your writing is reading good authors. Of course we have some great minds on this sub, found by sorting "top all time". My personal favorite is "a method of journaling", which got deleted from reddit, but can be found on trp.red.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 07:51 PM
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You have a good point. Pick a thing that is good (useful + beautiful), play the long game, be your own keenest fan, observe and improve endlessly = best life. Idea and enthusiasm is good, however your writing could use some improvements. Have a thesis. Describe end goal. Mention 2-3 obstacles. Have 3-5 immediate actions towards achieving said goal. Time-tested personal experience in conclusion. You're DEER'ing your own post. Stay strong, brother.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 07:40 PM
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Where do you find cool people outside of work? I'm in real estate and work alone. Next step is scaling up with a helper. All of my accounting and legal stuff is outsourced. Not much to go around. I kick-box, snow/wakeboard, swim and socialize fairly often. Not a party animal, which amounts to ~3 new friends per year. Early 30's. Friends from way back have become fat and lazy. Vaz has a band, what about the rest of trp'ers? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/21 08:13 PM
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"she, she, she". Where were you when all of this went down?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/21 02:08 PM
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That's the goal. Do you know how Roman empire fell?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 05:56 PM
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Yes. We all thought we are killing it in our early 20's. Some of us actually did. Then life happened, revolution died down and high energy folks turned to niche markets to make a good buck. Every generation gets old and new guns come.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 11:19 AM
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Read the sidebar and books and you're set.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 12:55 PM
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I'm both. Tell me what I've misunderstood.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/21 03:28 PM
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muh evil upper class No, they don't matter to me. It's not about from whom the tax is collected nor the proportion it makes. The larger point is if you want some, you've got to give some. Everything has it's price. The price of government's assistance - taxes/financial freedom. It's a spectrum with safety on one end and freedom on the other. Government subsidies/help/assistance are for the unfortunate and wicked. Sometimes it's of great use, sometimes not so much. And the system is abused from b…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 09:29 PM
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Look up how taxes came to be. Who invented it. Why? In exchange for what? Do you occasionally meet rich people? Do they pay taxes for their yachts? Cars? Houses or weekend trips, etc? For gods sake, take Trump for example.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 05:18 PM
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do what makes you happy That's "coping" in his book.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 04:22 PM
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Where is the specific advice B-b-but advice = coping.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 04:19 PM
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GLO: "You shouldn't give a fuck." Me: "But I don't give a fuck." GLO: "Yea, don't give a fuck HERE." Me: "I like this better." GLO: "No, what you like is stupid." 😐 Bro, really?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 04:14 PM
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Only poor people pay taxes.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 04:07 PM
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Thanks for sharing. It seems you've grown and learned a lot.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 11:21 AM
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I otherwise would prefer to not have done in hindsight Like what? If you don't mind sharing.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 09:18 AM
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Sounds like you prefer older/more mature women and it's fine. I don't get what the beef is about. As we dive into deeper layers of a personality it sure can reveal traumas of many different sorts, but then again any behavior can lead to that.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/21 05:16 PM
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"Soo... How did you gals meet?"
/r/TheRedPill06/02/21 10:01 PM
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Would you describe your preferred long term partner as being a soulmate to you (and vice versa)?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/21 09:40 PM
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This is true to type a / slutty type chicks Why do you keep acting like sex is something essentially bad? It isn't. It's fun. It's natural. Everybody likes it. Women who are more reserved and maybe LTR oriented usually won’t risk sticking their neck out like that and the higher quality ... What the fuck man. Awalt. She's not going to love you like your mother does. Noone ever will. And it's good. It's how it should be. Talking about quality women who abstain from sex on trp... What the fuck. the…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 11:59 AM
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Ask yourself a lot of questions (introspection), 5 of your closest friends play a big role in your life, vet them carefully (healthy and challenging environment), and maybe try to get a mentor in a sphere you're interested in (to envision what life might turn out to be). That's your past, present and potential future. Act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/21 04:46 PM
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So we should all turn to god?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/21 02:30 PM
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It has nothing to do with religion, but the practicality of concept instead. Part extreme-ownership, part science experiments. No need to mix science and religion here, since they each answer a different question. One - how, the other - why. TRP is widely perceived as a praxeology (among it's practitioners).
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 10:59 PM
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You probably do realize that there are a lot of filters to conversations like those. How attractive you are Where on the spectrum 18-35yo she stands Was there any kind of attraction before Does she have any immediate options These conversations can turn real bad real fast if she's older/low smv/optionless/not attracted to you. There's a point where shit becomes sour and sad. Don't spend your evenings like this. If she's young/attractive/likes you, just talk about sweet nothings instead. Have a g…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 11:12 PM
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More like she doesn't love you, she loves the IDEA of you. In this particular case she was shown evidence, that she's not dating a unique and genuine man, but an internet forum in a shell of one. She doesn't care about you. You, as a person, are not a part of her relationship with you.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 10:56 PM
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I talk about redpill with women While this doesn't neccessarily harm you, it also will not get you (a)head.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 10:32 PM
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Also remember, that true Alpha is a mythical creature. Just... be attractive, guys. C'mon.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 10:21 PM
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I worked 70 hour weeks, made wise investments and retired at 30.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/21 11:11 PM
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This is what I recall from it. Writing this down helped me realize the parts I haven't fully understood myself yet.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 11:16 PM
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Gatekeeping internet forums now, I see. And it gets to you because your meme-feed subscriber list is directly proportional to your dick size, right?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 01:38 AM
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On difference between destructive/productive and the virtue of irritability. Anger, as any other emotion or feeling, can be extreme or moderate. Namely, a person can be anywhere on the spectrum from too angry to extremely angerless with moderately affected in the middle. Too much anger means a person is expressing it unjustly towards somebody for the wrong reasons, at the wrong time, in inappropriate duration or manner. The same applies to being in extreme deficit of anger where some level of it…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 01:24 AM
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It doesn't change the fundamentals of a human being. We still feel the same emotions as 3000 years ago. We are still afraid of the same things. Friends, hobbies, our mission is just as important as ever before. Humans and their interactions have not changed for thousands of years. It's the same operator, but different tools. Master the mind, not the tools, and you will prosper. It has all been written a long time ago. And you have the means to practice all of it. Get on with it, brother. People …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 09:22 PM
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This is real shit brother. Not even remotely. My country was occupied for 50 years. Our intelligence annihilated. Language forbidden. Religion/culture/literature illegal. Traitors celebrated and regulars terrorized. With no end in sight. We prevailed. We killed them like dogs in corners in partisan warfare. Language was spoken in resistance movements, culture hidden but practiced. Nobody cares about you. As far as you and me are concerned, they need us. Obedient, but working and breathing. Two t…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 09:08 PM
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What did he fix? I'm not from US, don't follow politics much.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 08:47 PM
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Extremism, as well as any other movement, can be destructive or productive. There lies a small yet significant difference.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 08:40 PM
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What the fuck are you cucks scared of? This is just an internet forum you get your mind straightened a bit. This is not your bank account. This is not your real life friends. This is not your future business opportunities. This is not your irons at gym or home. Don't you dare fucking panic. Little pos. Be cool. Go outside. While you stroll down the street to get groceries, talk to your neighbors. Ask them how they're doing. Try to hang out with them sometime. Go out with your friends after work.…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 08:11 PM
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So Chads now post sobbing questions on TRP, instead of the other sub. What's your point? Get yourself together and define your question, Chad.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 02:26 PM
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I think you misclicked threads.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 08:35 PM
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Who are you, really? Name me 2-3 things taken from you and it destroys you as a person. What's your mission in life?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:14 PM
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not having a fucking clue about how to express their emotions productively and authentically Can you suggest me a reading material on this? NMMNG and TWOTSM arrived early to my christmas - do they relate? Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 05:48 PM
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Hey Silly assumption ... A sarcastic joke/answer/detail about your day ... A proposal to meet. It's a gouging tool to see if you're not retarded or dangerous. Same as cold approach. A mindset of sharing your smooth life helps. A mindset of needing anything from her blows.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 03:00 PM
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You missed the part where you were in dire need of that pair to save your face and you took them like a man. The part where in the grander scheme of things those gloves were a stepping stone. The part where you wore them with dignity, you were respectful, for they helped you achieve your goals. The gloves also saved your gym partners and they had one more set of skills to practice against. They could gladly accept the adversity and grow physically as well as toughen up as men mentally, all thank…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/20 10:07 AM
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I took it as a vivid peom of a downfall.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/20 01:42 PM
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Thanks for your input. Don't worry about OP and the like, they're big fishes in a small pond. About the topic: It's pretty self apparent what you should do in a social setting once you're accomplished and stay somewhat true to red pill principles. It becomes clear what you should avoid and what to try to emulate. What increases and what decreases your social status. What brings you misery and what - prosperity. It comes from two virtues, I think. 1 Game recognizes game and 2 you become a lot mor…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 08:29 PM
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important that you do win according to your moral code People often forget how big it is to try new things, challenge yourself and eventually make mistakes. Things can't be good or perfect or absolutely true for much longer than a moment. Or hellish and torturous for that matter either. Because at that point something has to change for better or for worse. And that's good. That's how progress is done. Being stale at any point is as good as being dead - nothing happens, nothing matters.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/20 10:05 PM
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What could be the issue? Go all in and you will see. But you fear the cost. Remember that relationships are open market economy. Give some, get some. As you have noticed, she's giving her best. She knows what it's worth, trust your gut on this one. What's the price for said goods? Guess. And it's something she couldn't get anywhere else. Her behavior is going to change when she has what she's after in her back pocket or when it's slipping away. You will see.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 01:40 AM
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There is, but that's user confusion. Sidebar here sets things straight. These days a feature of young folks seem to be a lack of reading skills.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 10:24 PM
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For those who forget the past are deemed to repeat it's mistakes. Read some sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 08:08 PM
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That's a different sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 07:49 PM
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That's a generalisation and it depends on your end-goal.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 07:46 PM
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CholeSTEROl. TestoSTEROne. Such social constructs as marriage and feminism have been around just very lately, comparing to a timeframe of 3,5 million years of human brain development. Our brain has evolved for a looong time and everything is wired as it is for a specific reason. We can control a very small part of it when it comes to primal needs such as mating, food and fear. The rest is pretty much a set chain of reactions. Which is very different for men and women. Understand said phenomenons…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 07:40 PM
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That's the reason your plan has to be bigger than that.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/20 02:04 PM
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You just want to see more fights with him. It's purely egotistical. Put yourself in his place. The dude hasn't lost a single round in any of his fights. He's already up there, you just don't want to lose the dopamine rush when you see him stepping in an octagon for a sure win because your brain thinks it's you. You see this, you feel this, therefore it's you. A false feeling of accomplishment. Could it be that you fill your sense of deep achievement this way instead of actually doing something w…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 09:18 AM
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What a lot of guys here don't realise is that OP's struggles and realisations are a phase in his journey. A phase necessary to grow immensely in various facets of life now and later on. The mastery of inner game. And he's nailing it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 08:44 AM
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Build more legacy fighting whom? Name me three people he should fight to build more legacy.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 08:06 AM
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Awalt. Love isn't respect. You can build lasting relationships only on one of those.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 05:15 PM
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And the difference is? But really.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 04:52 PM
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I see your point and have the same question - did he make the decision with his own best interest in mind? However, we don't know what influence the loss of his father has left on him and really there isn't anybody else to fight in his division aside GSP at catchweight to build any more legacy than he already has. There actually isn't much to gain for him to keep fighting. GSP did the same - got some money, diversified his investments and now lives carefree in the best shape of his life. Aside f…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 04:51 PM
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Just drop this idea and lead by example. "Acta non verba still holding true since 890 BC".
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 03:59 PM
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Tought by whom? Imagine the mess of publicly deciding what a true Alpha really is. Because it's very important. What a shitshow that would be.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 03:18 PM
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You're being autistic about it. The more you have to stress this the more they know you lack the experience to deal with shit. Don't get me wrong, it shows some value if it mostly isn't brought back up again. Good for you. But for the times they do, they are "quite clearly" disrespecting your boundaries, aren't they? Until you acknowledge that and point it out, you're translating lack of skill to handle this shittest. Dude, take this personal and try it out. You're here to grow, right?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 02:51 PM
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You're throwing her in an ocean with no land in sight. Give her your boundaries. Tell her these questions were fun in the beginning, but it's starting to irritate you. Either she knocks it off or you find more exciting things to spend your time on. And actually stick with what you say. Don't be a retard and make it as a threat or come over as butthurt, however. This way you are putting boundaries in the wast, frightening ocean and it in time becomes a friendly and cosy pool she enjoys dipping he…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 10:54 AM
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The cost of experience is mistake. Thinking a lot about things what actually matter and things that don't helped me to get over with what little fear of failure I had. My mother genuinely encouraged and trusted me a lot when I was growing up. I think fearlessness of failure correlates to this a lot. I have a friend who had it completely opposite. He turned out shy, doubtful, never gets it together to even try things. Back to the point, I asked these questions to myself over and over until the ri…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/20 09:12 PM
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Imagine you are a 22yo female looking for some fun. Age is not a requirement for getting feelz. She sets her tinder preferences to 40-45yo men. How many of them are worthwhile? What do you think? Few and far between. That's a time waste for her even if she would be cool with you in person. Consider setting your age to something lower in app and being honest about it in person, if asked. That kind of info doesn't matter irl. It's how you feel about it that counts.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 08:38 PM
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Time will pass anyway. We might as well become the best men possible while at it.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 08:17 PM
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"They" The moms or the dads? There's a difference.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 09:18 PM
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We often judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions, however we should strive to do it the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 09:03 PM
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Do it. Handrails to the moon and back.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 03:19 PM
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Have you tested this?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 03:51 PM
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I don't. How is your core/cardio/legs bruv?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/20 08:39 PM
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Thanks. Much valued content. One of the programs that can set you for life.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/20 08:38 PM
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How are your legs/core/cardio? Not much art in isolation.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/20 08:31 PM
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Reminds a lot of rants Carl had. Or probably is still having. About noobers taking everything here for face value, cranking it up to 12 and wondering why that shit doesn't work. All FRs must be larps, right? All comes down to be attractive, don't be unattractive. Comments for users joined this sub less than a year ago should be disabled. Stay cool, TRP. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 07:10 PM
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Good post. I enjoy this community and shooting the shit now and then. Also reminds me not to get complacent with entertainment this place provides and look for it in real life. It's out there somewhere. And it's much better in real time. Godspeed.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 07:06 PM
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I don't see where you got this from. It wasn't mentioned he went exclusive with her. She's exclusive with him. Not neccessarily he with her.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 08:29 PM
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Clean your house because you enjoy your space neat and clean, not because somebody tells you have to. Great post, I have some thinking to do now.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 09:31 AM
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Keep it to yourself. Why do you find it neccessary to bring it up as an argument? This isn't a place to crank your respect bar up a little. Nor do we give street cred. You can learn from constructive criticism. It's purpose is to improve your weakest links. Your expectations are too high and opposition is taken way too personal.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 09:36 PM
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Why do you put such an emphasis on other people's opinions when confronted with alternative point of view? Nothing against it being too try-hard, but why?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 09:31 PM
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Thanks for your input, I found your point of view interesting and I gained deeper insight on things that are happening in my life atm. You have a healthy attitude and thanks for your time and staying cool throughout this discussion. My opinion, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 09:28 PM
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Dude, I sometimes enjoy your comments, but you've got to tone it down a bit if you wanna keep shedding light on us
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 03:38 PM
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I second the hair thing, but mainly that it's 50% physical, 50% mental game. Work on your weakest parts, whichever they are. Be it posture, tonality, storytelling, perfume, higiene, chiseled body, meditating, strong male mentor etc. Recently I've just been happy to have found trp. I'd be much worse off without it. You know all the answers. Ask.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 10:10 PM
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This. Money buys your time and attention. Acquire wealth, buy freedom.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 10:44 PM
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An inexperienced woman's opinion on relationships is as useful as that of a 22yo male virgin.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 10:31 PM
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highly developed ability to make you want to take care of them As opposed to what? They are relatively upfront about stuff. And that's what men value.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 10:26 PM
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It's a phase. This is normal. You'll get through it. Try to hang out with cool people from now on. Less reading, more fun times out there.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 10:21 PM
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The message is good, but your article reads terribly. ⅓ of a ⅓ was about a fictional person, the rest was your perspective, however you returned to that fictional character as a conclusion. Is this story about you or Mike? Ditch one or the other. Your main idea of shortcuts and cutting yourself short wasn't discussed from any perspective at all. I'd say 2 perspectives as a minimum. The dialogue parts were incomprehensible. Formating. Nothing against your ideas, but improve your storytelling.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 10:06 PM
2

I get it, you're right. However, it's a spectrum. Mental health is important, to me atleast.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 12:08 AM
1

Yet how many of us can relate. It could have very well been the next guy, of which there's no shortage of... Guys, take care. Have close friends.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 09:09 PM
3

based primarily on how you treat each other Yes. And you, as a man, should know that first mates don't want to see their captains crumble and ask for their guidance. Man up and treat your first mate respectfully. First mates also know not to bother good captains with their increasingly more awful shit-tests. A smooth sailing is how they express their appreciation. You're spot on with your observations. I'm not so sure about course of action though...
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 02:56 PM
21

Because it's not even you she's dating. It's her IMAGE OF you. You've got to realise that, if you're dating a woman, you, as a person, are not even a part of the equation. It's what you provide. Be it affection, desire, status, safety, tingles etc. She doesn't care what your thoughts and feelings are. Neither do you care about her professional achievements.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 10:39 AM
1

Good stuff, but I'm afraid this doesn't fit here. Glad you took the right path and you'll get why someday.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 09:37 PM
6

No, I didn't write it as properly as I should have.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 10:54 PM
4

Because. Pussy. Is. Hostage. And it doesn't want to be.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 08:47 PM
3

No. It's whoever feels more guilty about forcing dicks down their throats by not reading the signs that that's what she really wants. It could be any ethnicity. And that's a symptom, not The Reason.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 08:29 PM
14

Except that females never felt like getting punched in the face. They were happy on how it was. People forget that women got voting rights globally about 30 years later than males who didn't own any land, give or take some.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 08:21 PM
58

They are holding pussy hostage. Look up testosterone levels on 25 yo kids now compared to 25 yo kids 50 years ago. Men can't take pussy anymore. It has to be given now. Pussy doesn't want to hand itself over. It wants to be taken. Pussy mad now. Our sons ask now: "what do you want in exchange for your pussy?" And you just don't ask fish how to catch it. We're fucked.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 08:17 PM
16

So AF will be struck down together with BB as a punishment for majority's lack of game in the west. Eventually. Interesting. It seems by this point they would rather tear out their eyes than give some pussy to betas. And I get why. A huge "please, come rape us" to middle east. I don't see a turning back from this.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 03:58 PM
10

Wasn't too long, could have included more examples, your language reads very easy and is on point.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 02:46 PM
1

First things first - I'm not disagreeing with you on your observations and I don't want to neccessarily change your opinion. You want change. Alright. How do you intend to fight back? Who would support you? And why would the elite allow it? Realistically, there's no means to acquire any meaningful change. No power, no money, no support. Slavery is as high as it has ever been. Jobs pay historically lowest because of outsourcing. Coorporational capitalism has taken over democracies worldwide. It's…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 11:23 PM
2

I get the frustration and support a choice of being proactive rather than reactive, but what would you gain by throwing a revolution? More pussy? It's up for grabs to anyone willing to put in the work right now. More money? A free market is a perfect opportunity right as it is. Power? Over whom and why would you. You'd gain much more enemies than allies. To change the society and it's viewpoints? Why? Seriously, why? Because your beliefs are better and you (we, trp) have proof? Nobody cares. And…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 09:14 PM
1

Agreed. Leading by example is all what's left. But there's no use fighting the system. It's way easier to outcast than to reason with you.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:16 PM
1

Sounds reasonable. I've noticed the same pattern with any radical ideologies - boring individuals and reek pretentious wanker-y
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 07:58 PM
1

So... What would you suggest they do instead?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 09:11 AM
1

It's not about what you do. Or What you have. Or who you know. It's about how you feel about it. Imagine a rich man and a poor man. Either one of them can feel like an accomplished warrior or a miserable shell of a man. And it changes everything.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 09:07 AM
3

Journaling has a massive impact on the way you think and perceive things. Find The Method of journaling here on trp. You'll know it's the one when you'll read it.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:58 AM
3

Name me 3 things (or less) I'd take from you and it would destroy you as a person. Things you have full control over.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:52 AM
3

The thought is not to abstain yourself of anything, as it creates more desire, but to change your mindset towards it. The book (as I've understood thus far) doesn't limit the amount of orgasms you should have, but the means you use to achieve them (less porn, more imagination). Bad wording on my part in previous comment.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 04:47 PM
1

So you basically had a woman ask you a question, sperg out by taking it seriously instead of AA or AM and decided to post about it in a "mens" forum for a good measure? Look at my post history. This post tells me enough.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:51 PM
12

Look up easypeasy hackbook on quitting porn.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 11:56 AM
2

I thought about op while working today. It feels like you're biting the hand that feeds you. I'm very grateful to have found trp. It's helped me a great deal. Many years later than you, though. Consider it a heads up to being familiar with this wisdom so early in life. A better post would have been to write about how you struck a conversation with those old dudes, asked questions, what do they do far a living, what were their aspirations at your age, what did they expect from life, what did they…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 11:11 AM
23

Yea, I agree. For me it was I didn't want it as often anymore. Once a week was the new normal.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 09:29 AM
1

10 years from now you're going to think very, very differently. You think you're the first one to have these exact thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 09:10 AM
46

There recently was a pdf on quitting porn. It said that you can fap as much as you want without using porn. Sound advice. Tried it, changes stuff for good.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 08:55 AM
0

Said man does. Need I elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 10:09 PM
-1

By communication. Now what would be the ways people communicate information with?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 09:03 PM
8

What is your post really about? We are each broken in our own way. "Stop liking things I don't like!" Well... who are you to tell what's good and what's not? It's better to have a joyful mgtow than a hateful red piller. Or happy church-goer than destructive agnostic. Whatever floats their boats. I do some of things you say don't work in a RP matrix. I have my reasons and I've found a balance I feel good about. You have yours. So what?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 08:53 PM
2

Meaning is given, not found.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 08:48 PM
6

I never got why other flairs like building power and finance are not popular on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 12:22 PM
1

More power. That movement has radicalized. But we all know what happens with radical movements.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 08:27 AM
3

A solid post. There was something minor I didn't agree in the beginning, but the rest was very good. Thanks. I started approaching this year - very fun, learning a lot. Feels good to know rp, enjoying myself a ton. It seems to be growing on people around me too.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 12:06 AM
5

I thought Vasya was in his 40's...
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 11:58 PM
3

Boxing. Because of footwork. Then add niche stuff (bjj, wrestling, muay thai, kickboxing, krav maga). In any combat scenario it's not power or skill that determines the end result. Position is the key. You can have all the power and it woun't mean jack when full mounted. You can know all the tricks from bjj and it doesn't matter when facing 3 guys. Every fight starts standing up. Next possible scenario is ground. Next possibility is a weapon. Position, position, position. Footwork is very import…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 10:51 PM
2

Yea, boxing is where it's at in street brawls. All else is niche.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 10:38 PM
1

Maybe. Thanks for discussion.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 07:36 PM
1

Calm your tits. It's still being a provider. Don't be mad at me for telling your shit doesn't make sense. It's clear to me that nice lies > harsh truth for you. But why? I would explain to you how desire works and how plates sometimes spin themselves and how it contradicts your one-true provider way, but something tells me you won't get it.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 05:14 AM
1

By suggesting a strategy of an attention seeking provider? Really?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 10:06 PM
1

Women have dual mating strategy. You see one and try to rationalize the whole behavioral spectrum off of it. You have half of a narrative - affection. Desire is what you've left out.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 06:50 AM
1

Lack of ambition. Reasons vary.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 09:03 PM
85

Money. Sell phones. Sell debt. Sell "life". Sell drugs to deal with mental problems screens created. What's sad is the internet is their default plane of operation. When real life fails on them (and it will), the go to escape is going to be internet. Demand creates supply. A vicious cycle of online and no-life. Plug in your I.V. cable and upload yourself to stratosphere.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 02:48 PM
9

You're daytrading in a bear market. Go long. Reading: posts sort by: best: all time. Use flairs. I suggest Finances, Building power, Field reports in that order. Maybe some of Theory if you're new.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 07:13 AM
5

It's a forum of sexual strategy. Base rule. What did you expect?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 06:21 AM
1

Right on point with the smarts.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 05:46 AM
2

It works literally. Literally the same as with skilled labour. Just the other way around. Amazes me you can't see this correlation. You are not wrong. You are half right. Your thought process is correct. Up to a point. A terrible sheetrock hustle might have just been that - a terrible experience. I bet you struggling was a much more pleasant experience to your frontman and boss, don't you agree?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 08:56 PM
-1

is the best way gives you more options Measured by who? You're confusing facts with feelings. Nothing wrong with feelings, if you articulate them correctly.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 08:34 PM
4

You only know one side of the coin. How old are you? Back in my work days first thing in a job interview was a test of skills. How much do you think an ironworker makes? A boilermaker? A sheetmetal guy? A pipeliner? And that's just one industry. Logging. Roofing. HVAC. Oil rigs. You name it. There's life outside your cubicle. I know you feel it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 07:41 PM
3

It gives you lots of options in life that simply are not available to the uneducated. Dude. You think education > skill. Why? Skill gives you lots of options in life that simply are not available to the unskilled. Seems about right too, eh? In trades: manual labor 5yrs, side hustle 5yrs, own gig with worker ants under you for the rest of yrs. Doable in much fewer years if you're smart. There's a world out there you don't know about.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 07:16 PM
20

Oh I believe. But like many of us, I believe Patrice, too, was really deeply dissappointed in what makes women tick. It just came out as hate.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 11:32 AM
30

A dissappointment so deep it's being expressed as hate.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 08:38 PM
16

I could do an entire post just on the art of asking questions. Yes, please. Solid post.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 08:36 PM
5

You should see a world with power and responsibility excluded. A dream come true, right? Yoga mats everywhere. And stop with the Trump bs. He's bent it more than once.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 07:52 PM
2

Some guys can't hold through the silence in a conversation. Old content is a no-go zone to them. Give 'em time.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 07:42 AM
4

And this kicked your forming friendship to the curb, because he never did those things with the right mindset so you distanced yourself and he thought that it kinda doesn't work and you are talking endlessly about hypothetical unaplicable shit, right? Enjoyed your story.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 08:26 PM
3

I've noticed most fit guys tend to be on the red side of spectrum. Look for balanced, multi-directional, open-minded personalities. With discipline. As some mentioned, sharing a mission is important. That's the way to widen your circle. Then your filter comes in play. I've been very lucky with my RP friends. My kickbox coach, a guy from said practices, two of my neighbors with whom we started to work out together regularly. One of whom (32) was very familiar with RP concepts but hadn't put it al…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 12:17 PM
1

Yes it is. While society as a whole bears some similarities with corporate world, it is much more difficult to break and reasemble on a whim. Thus frame sometimes falls in the hands of the unknowing.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 08:19 PM
2

there was never a golden age for our masculinity So what? Why do you care? Even if we would have had it for a moment in any time in history - would it matter to you? Would your life be different now? If yes, and for the better, then assume there was one. However, in reality, it doesn't matter. Once you realize that meaning is something you give, rather than something that is given to you, the concept of "bigger picture" will shift from external to internal. Everything you ever needed is inside y…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 03:12 AM
65

We, as a society, have no clue on what the fuck we are doing. A baby in the middle of a pool that seems like an ocean. There are borders to it somewhere, but we don't know where. We are actually led by the clueless with sociopaths and losers tagging along. And it's fine. That's how progress happen. We can tell good from bad only when it's happened years or decades ago. The pale blue dot floating in catatonic nothingness indefinitely. Meaning is bestoved by us on things of our clueless choosing. …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 11:20 AM
2

IF you are HIGH value man and she has a high n count, she will lie and tell you it's less. IF you are HIGH value and she has a low n count she will reveal a number close to the real. However, she will never tell what a slut she was for one of the dudes. IF you are LOW value man she will lie and tell you a relatively high number as a shit test. EVEN IF she tells you her n-count is 1 before you. My LTR ex from long time ago is married now. I was her first. Her husband I'm almost sure is her 2nd no…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 08:04 AM
2

These dudes saying knowing is best and it means a lot assume somehow that women wouldn't ever ever lie to them about something so important. What a bunch. Solid post, thanks OP.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 07:45 AM
2

Go to the store and DGAF about the rest. While there, throw a jumping rope in the cart. Then get home and jump your fat ass to the moon and back. And the next day. And the next day. So on. Yesterday I did 6 sets of 3 different exercises for a total of 1300 skips at the end of my workout. Solid 10 minutes of jumping. Feels sooo good.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:17 PM
5

Passion is an indicator that is determined by your actions.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:08 PM
5

Yea, this. Hoes are for sexy time and bros are for everything else. That's your lesson.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:56 PM
2

Keep your pace man, I'm just saying a number like 200 is possible.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 03:42 PM
3

Doing 100 pull-ups in however many sets every other day will get you to 200 in a month.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 01:25 PM
13

Thank you for sharing. It has been appreciated. Pain is weakness leaving your body.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 04:01 PM
2

Okay, what are some real life examples? Like Japan or Korea or any private same-sex school for that matter. Any data on that?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 03:37 PM
2

What do you think - how important is her social status to a woman? And what would be the best way to find out where her status stands? Also is social status something you gain and forget or does it fluctuate constantly?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 03:34 PM
21

Oww, man. That hurt to read.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 03:30 PM
1

Love is something you share and give to people around you. "The glow". Fear (you can't deal with) is something you run away from and block mentally. I think you're right about the behavior, but not sure if you've got the reason right. Please share if you think otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 03:27 PM
3

Hell yes. It's full of examples and it reads fast. Make sure you take notes on how to actually do the process and write a summary in your journal afterwards. A red piller recently wrote it like this: Components of a habit: trigger, action, reward. The key to changing a habit is NOT to try changing the trigger or reward, but to definitely change the action. The missing link that makes activities "habit forming" is the desire/expectation of the reward. Substitute the action. But read the book. Ver…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 09:42 AM
1

What? You want me to write a "short summary" of how Freud perceived male/female relationships? Are you fucking serious?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 07:51 PM
3

Dude. What the actual fuck are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 07:47 PM
5

The most important factor of developing and keeping a habit is discipline and action, not ego/motivation. Power of Habit by C. Duhigg tells us about habits. And stoicism tells us about action. Actionable men, prudance, deliberation. Motivation and ego are feelings. And do you know what feelings are for? Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 07:21 PM
3

Jung, Freud, Prince by NM and really all of the stoics if you have the right mindset. Are you going to put effort into it and actually read any of it? Most likely no. So chug on.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 02:12 PM
1

And what's the end goal you propose people should have in life? I see none. But that's just... not wise.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 06:38 AM
6

You generate desire towards you. How? There's more than one book written on this subject.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 06:28 AM
9

Okay. How does this tie in the theory of: "start with the end in mind"? For example, a person wants to be physically fit, socially active, have meaningful long-lasting relationships and achieve relatively high level of independence by the age of 80. He likes being outdoors and has an old bicycle. So he decides to take up road-bicycling as a hobby. Doesn't see himself selling cycling gear, so he decides his professional carreer might be something else. Well, being social is a part of his end-goal…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 10:03 PM
2

Blasian. You were right. Good content.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 02:05 PM
1

Most times it doesn't matter what a man does or what he has. What matters is his attitude towards it. "Inner game". Sounds like you had it under control. Good for you that you have moved past it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 02:15 PM
1

Towards your life. Were you stoked about the situation you were in or were you uncertain where life would take you?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 01:27 PM
2

It's all about your attitude. What was your attitude like at the time of said relationship?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 05:01 AM
2

You forgot that everything she says happened is actually what she FEELS happened.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 03:01 PM
2

You have never moved objects using sheer power flowing through your pumped mucles in a room full of people and realised that not one of them could do what you just did, haven't you?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 11:51 PM
1

I have both Jung and Power of Now on my shelf in to-read section. Will get there eventually, but I have failed to see any other types of love than romantic idealism thus far.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 11:43 AM
1

Good point. Where can I read more about this?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 07:41 AM
1

Do you have a place to go and do your own stuff? Like an office area or a workshop, to do all the reading and writing. I'm not suggesting you need one. It's just what helps me get my stuff sorted. Right now I am not sharing my space with anyone, but it's hard to imagine having deep introspective thoughts with a TV on or someone cooking nearby.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 09:22 PM
1

Will check him out, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 02:53 AM
2

Thanks for this post. I was once good with this. A good refresher.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 09:53 PM
3

Beauty and the Beast. Untamed wild horses. Everything that's wild, free and primal. Chicks dig it. To tame and change such a thing would be the ultimate validation. The power of their beauty. And we know what happens when the beast is chained and tamed.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 09:36 PM
8

It's different times now. Once it was totally unacceptable to be a single mother. Is it still the same? In some places - somewhat yes. In some places - increasingly no.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 10:33 PM
3

That's not what I'm saying. I don't have an opinion about marriage at all. Ease off a bit. I said RP doesn't stand behind any opinion. It doesn't have an opinion. It's a toolbox. A wrench doesn't think about your baseless assumptions. However, you can use it to stop a leak or open a floodgate. Or not use it at all. This isn't an ideology. Why are you seeing one?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 10:08 PM
12

Your ability to change reality is proportional to truthfulness in your perception of said reality. Making things happen = sexy. You can't change reality if your perception of it is delusional. I've also come to develop a theory, that traveling to New-Zealand is a common dream among many many girls I've met because that's the last place on earth to have had uncivilised men - cannibals. I would like to debate this theory of mine sometime.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 10:01 PM
4

Women are unknown to a self unknowing man. Thus the solution is also unknown. Nature of a woman is known to a self knowing man. And the solution is self.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 09:49 PM
12

RP isn't telling shit. Its not an entity. It's a toolbox. Stop looking for your father, he's not coming. It's just you.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 09:37 PM
4

There are exceptions to everything. Just a thing to keep in mind. Do everybody get a tattoo when someone dies? No. Can everybody cope with death equally well? No. It depends.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 09:22 PM
14

Lack of impulse control. It's also a way for a person to escape a mental maze he's stuck into. He makes a symbol out of it in a well known place that reminds him of it so he doesn't have to think about it all the time. It's like writing things down on a piece of paper to free your mind from an idea. Then come back at it later and figure it out. The more complicated and symbolical the tattoo, the more complex the metaphorical maze a person is stuck into. It's a way of not dealing with your proble…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 09:04 PM
3

The same for me. I've got to make that book club thing happen one way or another.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:47 PM
5

So not a lot of answers but a lot of good questions. Sounds perfect. Glad I bought his books too. Thanks for the post. One more thing - do you talk to someone about what you have read and your interpretation of it to strengthen your understanding? Or is it just you? Reading Aristotle, I've thought about joining/making a book club to discuss his ideas. It's a lot to take in.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 02:44 PM
3

Dude. She made a mistake. Humans do this. We are all faulty. And your father wasn't present enough. Otherwise he would've had a talk with you about this. Same for me. I think the key aspect is exposure. Exposure to good and bad. To see wealhy and poor, success and failure. And self belief to take thr right decision.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 02:36 PM
14

I'm halfway through Aristotle's Ethics. It's good. How is Nietzsche? He's somewhere in my line-up.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 01:51 PM
2

Yea, those constant shit-tests and comfort-tests you mentioned? That means she has a better option on mind. If so, go then. Leave. Not gonna stop her. Pandemic outside? Naah, she's gonna be fine, she's got options. Glad I'm not one of them.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 04:47 AM
3

No. There is no one "you" across your lifetime. People change. So do you and "you". For that transition to happen succesfully, one has to break and bend himself multiple times in a lifetime. We all know a person stuck waay years back when "man, those years were the shit, right?". For example, women. Also other people. Remember, a man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble, and the sculptor. Learn to love suffering. For life will bring you ups and downs you never imagi…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 09:15 PM
1

We see them as girls we met. Not women they have become. That's something Rollo and many more hold true. I don't see it being your experience thus far, and I respect it. There's no turning back from RP.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 01:43 AM
-2

And you stand by a principle of truly loving women for the status and sex they provide, right?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 12:06 AM
2

Up until couple of centuries ago 1 in 17 men had offspring. Think about it. The rest were peasants. Mercenaries. Slaves. And childless. 94% of men. What about those who did, the 6%? These men were exceptional and it paid it's dividends. But you are still young to rp. The way you talk about love, women being proof of status. See far and wide, for the path is long and dangerous. But take courage with you. For you will need it. To know what deep, profound fear looks and feels like. And fear you wil…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 10:29 PM
14

Conquest. Victory. Adventure. Discoveries. Be an inspiration. Be someone to fear. To honor. To start a revolution. A cult. To lead a nation. Look who was it that drove civilization, science, discoveries of new worlds. Women are just a small part of what drives men far and beyond. Look at those men who fall "head over heels" in love for women these days. Are they really capable of anything great? Those awaken might. Most never do. The time we live in...
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:38 PM
13

Dude. Yes. Work the field. Bad timing though...
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:26 PM
7

That's something you create together. Because both of you want it. We don't neccessarily NEED babies from her. Nor marriage. Marriage as a concept isn't as old as you think. Harems are much older. We don't want marriages. We want more men in our tribe to beat precious resources out of those bastards north by the lake. Esentially.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:25 PM
21

And yet we all have fallen deeply in love at some point in our lives. It might come out of perception that you are building something special together. Then that perception gets shattered. Turns out she built a lot for herself. And maybe some for you, occasionally. She did it for various reasons. Some of them are pure lizard brain. Some are hamster in a wheel. Turns out you should have done the same for yourself. One might wonder, which way is true and which is your wicked delusions. Is a man su…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 05:56 PM
2

Undesirable people - distance. Cut time, attention, affection. Minimise influence. Desirable people - opposite. Give to givers. Take from takers. Brute agression and bald confrontation towards backstabbers, rats, liars, drama queens works wonders. Who are you going to push around more? The kid that takes it like a bitch or the man that knows his uppercuts? Lift more.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 05:50 PM
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Undesirable people - distance. Cut time, attention, affection. Minimise influence. Desirable people - opposite. Give to givers. Take from takers. Brute agression and bald confrontation towards backstabbers, rats, liars, drama queens works wonders. Who are you going to push around more? The kid that takes it like a bitch or the man that knows his uppercuts? Lift more.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 05:49 PM
7

Your thought was lost to me too. I don't disagree with you. And there's nothing to agree on either... What is important? Many things matter. Also nothing matters.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 10:37 PM
6

Too few men are better FYI
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 10:15 PM
2

The likely outcome in both situations is that she has to change her workplace. Either you tell her or not. Just let her quit now and do it on her terms. Frame.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:52 PM
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Good sleep 30%. Good food 30%. Lifting 30%. Do you have your sleep in order? The remaining 10% is good fucking.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/20 01:13 AM
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Should be top reply. Have a nice one.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/20 01:08 AM
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Disagreed. Having children makes them appreciate resources more. Not men. We are just an unwanted byproduct.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 02:26 PM
6

Naw man. Give the traditional religious rural girl some fine tuned BB and watch hypergamy 101 first row. Traditional christian/islam/whatnot - are you really going to wait it out until marriage? Or does 3rd date rule applies just the same? In that case it's just same old CC with woodland camo over it. Converting to a certain religion doesn't work either because that just means you are doing it for a possibility to catch some tail. It's not about the rural girl either. Cuz Tinder. Enough said. Wh…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 01:01 AM
2

Treat your family the same as your girlfriend - they are a puppy. Bad behavior - dread. Cut down on attention affection and time. Good behavior - reward them with your experiences insights and positive feedback. You make your progress and occasionally your friends will help. Choose your friends carefully as you are the average of 5 people you spend time the most with. Anybody brings you down and don't support you on your path - cut them loose. Stop hanging around them. Get confronted about this?…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 11:47 AM
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Yea Finally some good news was something to blaze through. A very good read. One question though, what is an AMA?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 09:10 PM
1

Watch him on jre. Powerful.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 11:24 PM
1

Thanks for sharing that experience. Puts things in perspective.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 10:34 PM
1

"Maybe I just lack the vision... but I truly don't believe it's possible to change the world from blue to red." It isn't possible. Why would you want to? My guess is to prove everybody that you are special. For them to be eternally grateful to you for showing the light. It's never going to happen. OR you can go and try it for yourself, if you're brave enough. "while at the same time live (what seems like) a life that's trying to "fit in" with the "bluepill world"" You don't fit in with the bp wo…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 10:13 PM
1

It's not "sick of fucking her", it's "of putting up with her shit" ffs
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 10:01 PM
2

"Everything is about sex. Except sex. That's about power." - our father. SMV isn't be all end all. Remember, abundance mentality. Not to have a oneitis for Susan who gives godly sex but has bpd. And not to have oneitis for SMV. In case you suffer a terrible train accident and lose your penis. /Patrice/ Abundance mentality in life. To know you are going to be in peace wherever it takes you. It's never about what you have. Not about what you have achieved. Not about what other people think about y…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 09:41 PM
2

He was operating in her frame for 2 years. That's not neccessarily the most productive thing you can spend your time money and attention on. It might not all be completely wasted. But "It wasn't worth it /this time/." - OP I'm not saying you are wrong. But you aren't right.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 09:29 PM
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Dude. I don't want to bash you. And I won't. But do you really want to vent your emotions on your girlfriend? I thought that's what friends are for. Not your gf. Nor wife. Nor plate. Things you talk about don't add up to me. I get where that's coming from but you can't achieve blue pilled dreams with red pilled mindset. Maybe I don't fully get your point and I certainly don't know your situation. But my suggestion would be to try it. Try everything you imagine a ltr would be like on a plate. Ful…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 07:53 PM
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Your insecurities will always impact your relationships. It's a matter of your confidence at one point outweighing your insecurities. Build your strengths, face your insecurities, have a goal oriented mindset. Figure out what you want in life. To be fine with the scenario playing out? Dude. No one is going to hand you the life you want. It's either you working for it hard as fuck or the curb. Does it answer my question? I don't care about your answers. Nobody does. Not even your mother. You are …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 03:22 PM
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Not even once stating your goals. Asking for advice once every 3 pragraphs. What is it that you want? For yourself. What is your goal?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 02:39 PM
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There's not a single thing you did right. However, it depends on what you are trying to achieve. Lurk more, read sidebar, lurk some more. If you want to get good at something, buy and read books about it. Girls like honesty. The only tipe of honesty you should practice, however, is being honest to yourself. First figure out what you want to do. Then we'll talk.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 02:22 PM
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You play it for yourself. If you are going to give up on trp, you will give up on yourself. Women are an accessory, not purpose. You make your purpose.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 03:39 PM
1

I never had one. It hurts. But it's getting better. Thanks to me and you, trp. I must go to sleep now. Tomorrow is saturday and my small business needs me.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:08 PM
2

"Who's talking about being a boyfriend" You failed a shittest.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 06:13 PM
1

Don't argue with a teenager. If you're not having fun, you're doing it wrong Argument is never about what she says it is about. It's either about you not spending ebough time with her or you being somebody below her smv. Course of action: offer to go out sometime together if you feel like it or ignore and focus on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 06:06 PM
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Check out 36 questions that lead to love. They are fucking great questions set up by smart people with intention to dig deep. They are cool while on a blue pill, but very very telling under the red pill. Dug out a couple of red flags with my ex early on. Also they are low energy stuff, don't bring them up on a high paced setting.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 12:15 PM
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Sexual market value
/r/TheRedPill23/03/19 06:08 PM
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