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Outer Game chrischeungchug/r/seduction16/02/21 05:53 AM
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No, they're paid for research, writing, and marketable results.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 08:57 PM
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Dude, there is nothing boring about your lifestyle. You're working, studying, and taking care of your body. You have friends you hang out with. That's pretty dope. "Amazing lifestyle" doesn't mean parties every weekend and spontaneous trips to Tahiti. It means you have fun and use your time well. Keep working hard. Then plan something BIG maybe once every 3-4 months. A special trip, a new adventure, etc., that you have to take time off work for. Take those risks. Doing this even just a couple ti…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:46 AM
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Does this feeling of wanting revenge ever go away without actually getting the revenge you crave? Yes, it does. The cure is happiness in your own life. You can't cure revenge by fighting back against it. You can only cure it replacing it with something better.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:42 AM
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She told you about the message and didn't reply. Don't be a fucking idiot and demand something that is neither necessary nor helpful.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:39 AM
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She's looking for commitment. What do you want? Figure that out.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:37 AM
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You need to be made mod of this forum
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:36 AM
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Who cares what looks good, cultivate your inner warrior and strengthen your body.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:34 AM
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It's not the nice things that turns them off. It's your desperation that does.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:33 AM
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Obviously. How do you study economics and not realize that abstract theory only yields market value when applied to a product or service that can be sold?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:30 AM
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Lol, you asked for it with the joke you made. She read the situation based on that. You have to figure out what you want. If casual is fine, then who cares? If you want something more, you're going to have to show her that you value her enough.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:28 AM
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Lol
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:25 AM
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Text her immediately
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:24 AM
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Text her the day after the date and set up the next one
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:22 AM
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Well, yes because the term itself is defined by society since SMV stands for Sexual Market Value. Markets are dictated by supply and demand. However, SMV accounts for maybe 10% or so of whether or not you succeed with women. I'm sure you've seen broke ass losers going nowhere who bang hotties left and right. Forget about SMV and focus on your REAL value, not market value.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:20 AM
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This is the right answer
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:18 AM
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Treat her the same way you treat everyone else
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:17 AM
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Looool You're not wrong at all, but you've got too much anger. It's not going to help you because women will easily detect that you are sexually frustrated.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:16 AM
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The hardest things in life are the simple things.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:15 AM
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Sounds like you need to get better at showing humility and respect. The way you wrote your post makes it clear you see yourself as above your coworkers. From a socioeconomic perspective, sure that's true and they know it. HOWEVER if you see yourself as more valuable as a person, that will be completely transparent and obvious to your coworkers. Work on respecting them and I guarantee you will see results. Consciously throw in self-deprecating humor if you have to, to help you get started.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:14 AM
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Walk up to her car, make sure you have her attention, smile, and communicate with your body language that you want to talk to her. Then remain still and WAIT for her to roll the window down to talk to you.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:11 AM
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The absolute best way to learn what frame is is to watch any video of Donald Trump speaking to someone.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:09 AM
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Laughing is a coping mechanism to cover up the pain and injustice. It's understandable that you've reacted that way when you couldn't defend yourself. You're an adult now, and you no longer have to be bound by those same rules. Practice and embrace the discomfort that comes with standing up for yourself.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:08 AM
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Learn how to tell stories well Then learn how to apply that skill in an improvisational way You'll be able to engross and entertain anyone, not just women
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:06 AM
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You're so insecure dude It's pretty clear what's going on. You want sex, she wants a relationship. You're worried she doesn't want sex anymore. She's worried you only want sex and nothing more. Pretty easy to see why neither of you have contacted each other for two weeks. You're going to have to decide what you want.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:04 AM
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Are you so concerned with a gay dude that you have to run to the internet and your boss to take care of it for you? What are you scared of? That he's going to rape you and forever soil your high SMV body with his gayness? Talk to this guy. Be honest with him and tell him that you'd rather your interactions with him become more purely professional.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:01 AM
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You are fighting a 13 year addiction. It will take much longer than a few months. Keep trying, don't give up, and don't be too hard on yourself. Addictions are coped with differently by everyone, so you'll have to learn through trial and error what works for you.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:57 AM
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Show appreciation immediately. Mean it. Don't do something in return.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:55 AM
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Man, what is this place teaching people. Submission has absolutely NOTHING to do with initiating or not. Submission means she shows you respect and defers to you. She could do 100% of the initiating and still be submissive. She's a plate, why do you care? If you're fine with just having sex, then this is how it's going to be. If you're looking for something more serious, then...5 weeks in may not be long enough for a woman to start initiating plans. Especially if you banged early.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:54 AM
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Yellow flag. Don't jump to conclusions but remember that it happened. If she shows more evidence of lacking emotional impulse control, then you might want to reconsider seeing her or find out what it is she might be coping with.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:49 AM
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YES you can. Stephen Hawking was in a wheelchair and was very strongly desired. You're getting shit tests because you're not being yourself. When you're incongruent and trying to act a certain way, everyone can see it. Genuineness is the most important aspect of your demeanor.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:47 AM
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Believe what you want, but your friend's dick is not why he gets laid. His game is better than you think it is and better than you're willing to admit to yourself.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:44 AM
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Alright, that's fine. However, the ultimate goal of the Red Pill is to grow into your role as a masculine man (which takes years of cultivation and letting go to do).
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:41 AM
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Be honest. Men have no reason to hide anything.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:33 AM
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Don't look for bad mfers. They're not alpha, they're insecure boys who cover up their weakness with bravado. Masculinity and confidence are embodied in strength, emotional intelligence, and gentleness. Observe the way this man handles a snake: https://youtu.be/f-84aygfssY?t=123 I don't understand a word he says, but watch his demeanor. He's calm, but quick to react when he needs to. He's brave but not foolhardy. Patient but not wasting any time. He doesn't fight harder than he needs to. He doesn…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:29 AM
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To be a masculine man you need to learn how to be strong AND how to be gentle. Stop looking at other people. Their lives have nothing to do with you. Love yourself by pushing yourself but ALSO being gentle while you're at it. Don't beat yourself up.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:16 AM
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I was in a similar place as you at age 17. Nice guy syndrome, good student, well known for being an athlete (went on to play with a D1 scholarship). I was popular enough for people to talk to me at school, but not to get invited to the cool parties outside of school. Throw all the Red Pill theory stuff (SMV etc) in the trash for now. It's all true, but it's not really helpful to stew on it right now (not until your mid-20s). In high school and college you're going to see plenty of "loser" douche…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:11 AM
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No one will be able to describe properly to you what masculinity and confidence look like. You'll have to seek out masculine and confident men in your life to observe and emulate until you find your own style.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:00 AM
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Lol. You looking for a job? I want to hire you as my copywriter.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:56 AM
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Be a man by showing it doesn't affect you. Smile at her and say "thank you." She won't shit test you again.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:54 AM
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Get off the dating apps.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:53 AM
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Going outside will teach you more than any book
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:52 AM
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You've gotta be both guys in one. Behave according to the context. Sometimes I'm more of a clown than anyone else. Other times I get serious and demand that people listen. Having versatility to your personality is interesting to anyone, not just women. Don't talk like you're James Bond at a party. You'll look like a douche. Don't clown around when people are deciding where to go out to eat. You'll look like a juvenile idiot.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:51 AM
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You've gotta get out of your head man. She didn't post that in response to you. She's not even thinking about you. If you want to go after her, you've gotta man up and follow up if she doesn't respond. She's got a busy life. Why would she prioritize you when you haven't even taken her out yet? You don't have a "hook". Too many guys here don't understand what "not being needy" is. They think a woman has to be jumping all over them in order to go on a first date. WRONG. You've gotta make some move…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:46 AM
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They are either: Bluepilled and benefitting from ignorance Naturals who know what's up without obsessively talking about the red pill over the internet.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:43 AM
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I don't. After doing half a thousand cold approaches and dating different women, I am clear on what I want now and what kind of woman and marriage will support my mission. I've moved on from a machine gun approach to a sniper rifle approach. In your shoes, I'd focus on cold approaching in your every day life. Don't wuss out and talk yourself out of approaching a woman when you're getting groceries, going to the bank, and waiting at a train station.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:40 AM
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They have many options, and you weren't option #1
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:36 AM
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Many of the experiences that have jaded the men who come here occurred after several decades after marriage. I'm sure that 11 months in to all of those relationships, they would have described their woman in a very similar way as you have.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:35 AM
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I'm not shaming him, I'm pointing out what he might not be seeing. As men we respect each other enough to trust that other men won't take it personally when we point out their issues.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:30 AM
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LOL I'm sorry you have issues getting friendzoned.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:29 AM
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Lol, way to take it personally and make it about you.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:27 AM
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Exactly. Professional - treat her as any other colleague.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:35 PM
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No
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:34 PM
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Checked your post history. You seem really jealous and insecure, and her friend is probably right about you.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:32 PM
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Mostly IL but if you want you can bridge with a text or two in the days leading up
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:29 PM
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Just be you and appreciate the friendships you make from it. It sounds like they adore you right now. Don’t change because of some dumb TRP shit. You will gain and learn so much more by being genuine.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:26 PM
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Find different circles. Business/academic fraternity, student gov, fitness groups, etc
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:21 PM
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Hookup culture
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:15 PM
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Noooooo. No no no no. This is about character. It’s not that people literally want to make fun of small dicks. They want to make fun of men who are insecure about something as dumb as dick size. If you show you accept and love yourself there is nothing to laugh at you for.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:07 PM
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LOOOOOOOOOL Bro we don’t wanna kill the poor woman
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:04 PM
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Stop watching porn, stop jerking off.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:04 PM
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You posted some good stuff, but the conclusion that he had to number close and couldn’t escalate farther that day bc of a cockblock is pretty fucking stupid. OP was doing everything right and very well could have banged that girl that night without going the date route and risking flake/cooldown/logistics etc. He just made a dumbass mistake by not being honest when rejecting the cockblocker. Part of pickup is adapting and gaming in any situation. Dates are easy and formulaic, and relying only on…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:00 PM
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Dude... You were fucking killing it. KILLING IT. You did everything right. Isolated the target, AMOG’d like a bawwws, and you were friendly to the cockblocker. Then you made the terrible mistake of lying to the cockblocker because you didn’t know how to be a man and give her an honest NO. How did you think that was going to play out? “No I’m taken so I won’t hook up with you, but well even though I’m taken I want your friend”? How pissed would you be if a woman gave you this treatment? “No thank…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:55 PM
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Be a man and be honest
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:48 PM
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Who knows, couldhave been any number of things you did wrong. No matter how good you get at pickup these shutdowns will ALWAYS happen.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:45 PM
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Who knows, couldhave been any number of things you did wrong. No matter how good you get at pickup these shutdowns will ALWAYS happen.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:45 PM
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Keep on bro you’re doing great!
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:44 PM
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Try this next time. Be completely serious, and assertive. Look them in the eye, and wait for them to finish. When they’re done, say, “Yeah, I have a small penis. It’s true. So what?” DON’T smile or play it off as a joke. Then don’t say anything. Let them flail. I am willing to bet they will never do this again.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:42 PM
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Hey bro, we’ve all been there. Is she really interested in a college because of a guy she’s acquainted with? Maybe? If’s farfetched, but who knows. Ultimately it doesn’t matter. Don’t press someone on hypotheticals. It only shows insecurity. Tell her those comments are disrespectful because those actually happened.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:36 PM
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Comebacks don’t make you a badass or confident. That has to come from within. Love your body. Live with it. Cherish your body and that you even have a penis in the first place. A confident man doesn’t even need comebacks.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:30 PM
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Bro, your penis is wonderful. Imagine the sad state of people who would try to hurt you for the way your body is. Don’t listen to them because it is about them, not you.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:17 PM
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Treat her like anyone else. A man takes rejection with grace. She will respect and appreciate you for it too
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:06 PM
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improve myself physically and financially before going after girls No. If you have that mindset you won’t even do well in those pursuits because you will be obsessing over girls as this “reward” for your physical and financial improvement. Only to find...you still suck just as much because you didn’t actually talk to women. So if you want women, then go talk to women. It’s like looking for a job. Don’t wait until you’ve done 8 different self study courses and gotten professional help on your res…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:03 PM
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Alright, hear me out. 95% of “redpillers” won’t understand what I’m about to say. Being a man is about going for what YOU want. It’s obvious you’re a monogamous man. Doesn’t make you bluepill. Be honest with her because this is clearly tearing you apart. Tell her whatever you need to. Tell you you want her to stay, etc. You regret it forever if you didn’t express yourself honestly to her because TRP said “oneitis, spin plates, don’t DTR, etc etc etc”. If any future together is not in the cards, …
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:58 PM
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I’m sorry your mom hurt your family. One of the most important parts of the red pill is that we need to accept that men want to inseminate hot young bods and women want to have it all. We’re supposed to understand these natures, not hate them. Your dad is heartbroken and you should do everything you can to support him but he is also a grown man and it is not your job to protect him from harm. I hope you can come to forgive your mom someday. Even if you can’t understand her, this has to be a grue…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:45 PM
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NO, it’s not cool, but it’s not your role to demand justice from her. That’s what a boy does, not a man.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:40 PM
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I was about to say “possible but it’s a maybe” until I checked out OP’s post history and YUP you got it.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:24 PM
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Compliments are not simping. Pressing them on after she puts herself down however does make you a chump and an enabler. Say this: “Oh your hair sucks, your smile is bad, and you’re not cute? Sure, if you say so, but I still like you.” She’ll be putty in your hands.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:22 PM
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Just because your friend had a hot angry fuck after blowing up on his gf doesn’t mean you should try to emulate that. If you’re asking this question, then it’s not honest to your personality. Tell her what’s okay and not okay. The outburst into hot angry fuck route is kind of high level and nuanced and requires a strong relationship. If you have to wonder if you should do it, then you shouldn’t.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:19 PM
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Don’t use them
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:16 PM
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You’re insecure about your masculinity, and it’s obvious to whoever is giving you these shit tests. They are only saying them because you obviously get flustered. How to respond? Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:15 PM
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You’ve sort of got it backwards. If you want women, go and get women. An overweight broke ass loser who plays video games all day can score with plenty of women if he knows how to talk to them. Don’t make life changes to “raise your SMV”. Make life changes to grow as a man.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:14 PM
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Dude, you were in the wrong. She didn’t owe you an explanation, and what you did became harrassment. Don’t interrogate a woman when you suspect dishonesty. Just man up and move on. You couldn’t handle the pain of rejection, so you had to take your pain out on her. Your feelings are not her responsibility. Yeah, it sucks that she led you on. We’ve all been there. But you need to drop your vendetta against a woman once that happens.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:06 PM
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Being caught with a dick in her ass, probably. There’s no way to know. Stop looking for red flags. Look for green flags and go for what you want.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:59 PM
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This is because you and many other commenters here have no idea what being masculine really means. Some of those “effeminate” men you are looking at (with jealousy) have way more alpha traits than most guys at the gym with decent warrior bods.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:57 PM
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LOL I know right? It’s sad.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:56 PM
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Yes. It means you aren’t being a man in some sort of way. Shit tests are congruency tests. Probably impossible to know just by yourself what exactly it is you’re doing wrong. You could ask her.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:54 PM
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Work on yourself so that when things get better you are ready
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:52 PM
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Well done
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 09:55 AM
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INTJ is actually not a terrible match for you. It’s the pedagogue, which is 5th best. INFJs and INTJs both have strong Willpower which is literal crack to an ENFP. They have an unparalleled ability to make you feel wanted, which is what ENFPs crave, so it makes sense to fall for INTJs.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 09:46 AM
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Okay interpret that as a comfort test perhaps but that’s not the main issue dude. The main issue is you don’t know WTF you want. You say she’s your fwb and then at the end ask us to check you for oneitis. What do you REALLY want with her? Figure that out, tell her, and neither of you has to get hurt.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:39 AM
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No
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:36 AM
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I suppose so. Well, since we’re on the topic - your golden pair is INFJ, silver is ENFJ. Both are types that tend to more naturally have “alpha” traits.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 09:32 AM
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I agree with purpose. And I can’t tell you what that should be for your life. However, I think my point is more that you seem to give off an air of emotional desperation. Why should a man love you if you don’t love yourself first?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 09:18 AM
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Wow, impressive. You’ve really done a great job tackling many of the things that ENFPs naturally struggle with. (I also thought you could be a Shadow-focused INFJ). This does slightly change some of the motives that I’ll apply behind what you’ve shared, but the general principles remain the same.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 09:14 AM
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Well if it’s a Christian text, it should be saying a woman puts GOD first.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 08:10 AM
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You can’t teach your man to man up. He needs to learn that from another man.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 08:08 AM
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Don’t look for a TRP man. Just look for a man who is that - a MAN. If that’s what he is, then he will be living an RP life with you. Don’t put RPW on your dating profile. Rather, show your femininity so that you attract masculinity. And kill that desperation. You know what you want, which is wonderful, but it’s clear you are seeing the rest of your life as almost worthless if you don’t have a man.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 08:05 AM
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You sound like an INTJ.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 08:00 AM
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