chrisieg66 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Hot girl you’re talking to farts- how do you handle it?		chrisieg66	/r/seduction	02/05/19 11:50 PM

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2	Don't know what to think anymore I dont know about that man. Maybe we have different definitions of "best version of yourself". You seem to be conflating material and financial success with overall confidence. My best version of me, includes being confident, disciplined and measured in any situation including with women. But to get there you first need to take whatever steps neccessary to address the problem, which could be addressing self esteem issues in therapy, learning how to be more extroverted, or just in general learnin…	/r/seduction	14/04/25 03:05 AM
2	Don't know what to think anymore I think Myestery Method was popular for those who needed a shortcut to confidence via a framework/script that would be more like a formula for them. In the long run, if you want any semblance of true happiness you're going to have to be yourself or you'll never be loved for who you are. Learning how to be the most confident version of yourself will by extension allow you to better control the frame , and make the girl seek your validation because you're doing all the Game principals naturally.	/r/seduction	13/04/25 08:47 PM
4	I don't want to but I'm about to drop this girl, and it kind of sucks. Seems to me like you were never really sold on wanting to be in this relationship in the first place, but when you said "im not on that relationship energy" you felt her slipping away ..so you capitulated, and now youre feeling weary, go figure. Get a hold of yourself bro, you sound like your foot is half out the door and youre just looking for an excuse to end things. If you wanna be single, let this girl free and stay single.	/r/seduction	13/04/25 07:04 PM
2	How do I approach guys at the gym? How do I approach guys in general!? Hmm...I think the gym is tough for pickup in general. Just because you can blow up your spot or get a reputation if things don't go well. One thing I like to do in the gym is compliment someones tats or gear. While I'm passing by, after the inevitable "thank you" you can be like "hey my name is ________, I see you here all the time, what's your name?" After that, you can get into something deeper like "are you training for something? Do you compete? PLay sports? Ask questions until you find comm…	/r/seduction	09/04/25 12:32 AM
5	Would you consider this red flag, high maintenance? There are pros and cons with a girl like her. Pros: -You'll be the primary decision maker and she will likely be submissive to you She probably wont be blasting much femminest rhetoric in your ear or complaining about how the WNBA deserves better pay(if that's what youre into) She will likely be okay with doing most of the cleaning and cooking around the house and be fine with primary gendor roles Cons: -You'll likely pay for most things You'll have to be taking charge most of the time and doing…	/r/seduction	17/04/24 09:03 PM
0	Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghosted Who's giving advice? I actually don't think I have enough characters in this textbox to give you the advice you need, if I even wanted to give it to you lol	/r/seduction	25/09/22 06:35 AM
0	Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghosted I asked, just not with my words	/r/seduction	24/09/22 02:42 AM
0	Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghosted "asked" to kiss her... ...Bro...Sad disappointed face	/r/seduction	23/09/22 11:47 PM
1	Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghosted Congratulations on the sex "my guy" we're all very proud of you, and not skeptical at all. Does it suck having to validate yourself by telling me you had sex last night? You may not like me bro, but just read this thread back to yourself and ask yourself. "Is this smug pompous asshole on the other side of the internet right? Am I actually projecting my insecurities even over Fucking reddit? And i'm not shaming you for it either. Just learn from it, be better from it.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 11:43 PM
0	Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghosted Mad incel vibes from buddy here. Get a little more defensive next time cuz it's not obvious enough how insecure you are.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 01:01 AM
2	Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghosted That's just literally not true at all. This is the problem with this sub. It's the blind leading the blind. I've had many, many second dates...where the girl seemed timid, and suspicious that I just wanted a piece of ass, so I waited for the second or even third. Every situation is different. Anyone who groups all women into "they all want this" or "they all think like that", doesn't know at all what the fuck he's doing or talking about.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 12:58 AM
10	Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghosted First of all, why no paragraphs? why would you subject us to that clusterfuck of charactors? Second, while I can appreciate and even admire your candor here about how much it stings, you gotta man-up. These things happen to the best of us. Why didn't she answer back? WHo knows, maybe she didn't enjoy the date as much as you did. Who knows why, but who cares? You may never know, and it hurts and it sucks but guess what, there's millions of others out there, so pick yourself up and get back out …	/r/seduction	22/09/22 12:51 AM
9	Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghosted "Kiss her on the first date or she'll think you're a pussy". Literally the most retarded and "bro" piece of advice i've seen on this sub. Even if the date is going well, you still need to gauge her body language, the vibe in general...not every girl wants your tongue in her mouth on the first date.	/r/seduction	22/09/22 12:45 AM
7	Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships? Buddy, 90% chance you either marry this girl, or you stop being friends after this. 10% chance you get a soft landing here. Let see	/r/seduction	17/09/22 03:26 PM
20	Shit test about my birthday, what do? Stop texting her and see if she re-initiates conversation . If not, move on, this one aint for you.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 03:39 AM
19	Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships? Yeah 100%, it's kind like it's own testimonial. Like if this was a creepy, meathead incel-bro...Probably that girl wouldn't be with him. Also, if your friend is outgoing enough, she can do the approach for you and make friends with the hot blond by the pool table	/r/seduction	17/09/22 03:35 AM
70	Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships? I mean, if you think you're going to fuck the chicks you're friend-zoned with....I would say probably-the-fuck-not. But, with that said....There's absolutely value in female friendships as long as they're balanced, give and take. I have female friends who are single and it's actually very underrated, they can help you understand the female psyche, critique your Tinder profile and cold approaches and yes-maybe even introduce you to friends. Not to mention you already have higher value when you go…	/r/seduction	17/09/22 03:15 AM
0	If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfires Nah, I get where you're coming from, but this ain't it man. The big truthful take-away from this whole paragraph is: "Don't fall into the mindset of I gotta impress her" When I go out with a girl and she acts like that I just rip on her for giving short answers and being dry and let her know she's acting like a bitch so lighten the fuck up and have some fun. Then I proceed to immediately have fun myself even if she isnt. That's what it's about, you doing you.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 03:09 AM
2	Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women? I’m 5’7, 31…and I do well for myself. I recognize that my height may deter some women, but the truth is that we usually make a bigger deal about it than they do. We’re all playing the hand we’re dealt here and no one’s perfect. If I can make her laugh, show her I may be short but I’m still more fun than the last 10 guys over 6 feet that she met you think she’s going to say no? I don’t. And if she does? Fuck it, her loss..my height is who I am (like it or not). Feeling sorry for myself and being …	/r/seduction	12/06/22 04:03 AM
0	Probably the best cheat code I've ever found "Will not work in South Florida. " Best disclaimer ever.	/r/seduction	18/02/21 02:18 AM
1	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? Ain’t that the truth.	/r/seduction	06/12/20 06:55 AM
1	I sent him a risky text, this was his response... help? Personally I think it was a swerve. If i'm looking for something, I'm returning your first serve with something fun and flirty back, or something to get the fire going like "when are we celebrating your bar?" < that doesn't take much creativity. "Congrats, you're hilarious" was a slip IMO. But there's always the chance this guy is part of the clueless 20% of guys who REALLY need it drawn in crayon. If you have a set of lady-balls, you'll just throw the "let's go out and celebrate" and see what h…	/r/seduction	05/12/20 08:31 PM
2	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? 30M- When I was younger in my early 20's yeah maybe it was a bit awkward. Now not really, I've done a lot of foul sexual shit and a kiss is very innocent, doesn't carry as much weight as it use to. Nowadays, it's more just a prelude to bigger things. The significance of it has dropped so has the awkwardness.	/r/seduction	05/12/20 08:16 PM
1	How do you not get jealous hearing about guys your age who are way more successful with women? I think this is a very important point that gets really blurred in the background of constant porn watching and bro-culture. I was totally guilty of falling into this mind-set and once I saw how much I was hurting women who wanted company, a real connection and all of that, I finally started seeing things more clear. But i'm 30 now, so it happened with age. Too much Porn can really mess with a guys head in this respect.	/r/seduction	16/08/20 07:29 PM
2	100 approaches and still nothing Hats off to you for having the biggest balls in the room. One thing I will say, and it’s hard to offer without watching what you did...some girls have that body language of leave me alone I don’t want to be bothered. Other maybe waiting for a bus, bored, got ditched by friends and are the perfect target. Profiling their situation and reading their vibe has made a significant difference for me personally.	/r/seduction	20/07/20 04:25 AM
1	100 approaches and still nothing Did you actually do all of this recently, during the pandemic and all? If yes, that fact in and of itself needs to be thrown into the mix. Also, and especially...this would mean you probably just went to a variety of public places like parks, stores, beaches ect...meaning you were not able to really zero in on the places women commonly go when they want to be seduced....Like bars, clubs and lounges. Still, 100 is excellent. I just don't get the part where you said "I still struggle to approach…	/r/seduction	19/07/20 05:45 PM
1	Alternatives to stop jerking off so much? This. All of it. I had to figure this out at 30. I still feel grateful for the lesson though.	/r/seduction	10/03/20 01:15 AM
2	Lost my virginity at 33yo!! I don’t know either of your ages/life situations, but my particular conundrum was that She was my first and only lay. I never went through my Fuck boy stage, never did Tinder, never got laid by all kinds of different women (plus my gf at the time was getting comfortable). So we broke up, and I made all of that happen. It’s a good thing I did because it taught me a lot. There’s a good chance him leaving you had less to do with you and more to do with his personal goals/wants/feelings. I wish you …	/r/seduction	18/02/20 07:37 PM
6	Lost my virginity at 33yo!! May take another 33 years for you. Don’t fuck it up. That’s some negative shit right there, ignore that. I think a friends with benefits situation might work in your favour. Let you drain your balls while practicing shooting layups. Would not recommend settling with your first, caused me problems trying to do it in my 20’s. What now? Ride the hot streak, keep approaching like it’s your job. This hot hand will be fleeting, but use it while you got it. Let it ride!	/r/seduction	18/02/20 05:36 AM
1	Can u reach a level in game where girls want to pull you and make moves on you ? Like maybe if you vacationed to an island where there was 10 guys and the rest of the population was 400 women. Other than that situation, maybe if you just went to a club opening sets and not closing. Just introducing yourself chatting them up and moving on to build more value. I've seen this work before.	/r/seduction	29/12/19 08:50 PM
9	A girl invited me to her place for coffee. How do i make the move ? Okay I'm gunna walk you through this: Bring gum, for a few reasons but first and foremost that you won't have coffee breath. As soon as you get to her place, i mean from the very start...keep a strong emphasis on your body language, posture and intonation. Make sure you're touching her plenty when you get a chance to (not forced cuz then its just weird) but make sure that force field of touching is broken really early so it's not awkward later. Be flirty, cheeky, but respectful- if she thinks yo…	/r/seduction	29/12/19 08:31 PM
1	What’re Your Hobbies? Current: Hockey, Capital markets/investing, Repairing cars, talking Politics, standup comedy. Just started at a boxing gym to get more confidence physically and learn something new, really want to get good at this. Would also love to learn how to dress better without looking like a yuppie tool-bag.	/r/seduction	27/12/19 03:18 AM
3	My Tinder Tips It's True. Can't let yourself get emotionally invested at the beginning no matter how good your chemistry with her is. I think most guys get excited when they see a girl responding back at first and then once the early spark fades there's a lot of confusion, disappointment and frustration Gotta approach these matches with no emotion clouding your judgement. It's not your catch until it's on the boat. Fortitude and persistence is the name of the game.	/r/seduction	05/05/19 10:38 PM
15	My Tinder Tips I like em'. Very good advice. To add to the list: - The jig is up on those pics with you holding a cute puppy. That play doesn't work anymore fella's, they're onto it. Try a pic of you doing something funny or somewhere interesting. - The sad reality is that you don't exist as a person until you meet her. Hate getting ghosted? So did I. I found I was 80% less likely to get the ghost treatment if she met me in person and realized I was an actual good guy. Get that first date as soon as poss…	/r/seduction	05/05/19 10:24 PM
7	I don’t know how guys handle rejection so easily. I got rejected all night at club and feel like crap. This is terrible advice lmao. True confidence comes from within, not from porking a bunch of 4's and 5's. Sinking a bunch of layups will not magically make you an ace from the free-throw line. I'd say read "The game" by neil strauss, and Understand that rejection builds a thick skin, but don't allow yourself to feel like shit afterward, go back and improve your approach..get better from it.	/r/seduction	02/12/18 06:36 PM
7	A Peppercorn Of Interest Kills The Vibe; Minimal-Effort Game Is Needed. Disagree, A) Minimal effort game won't work because any poor schlub reading this and applying it OBVIOUSLY CARES about getting women, therefor making the concept as a whole complete contradiction. B) With all these girls getting approached and having their boots kissed by guys who are 8's and 9's,'if you happen to be a 7, you're shit outta luck. A girl wont fuck-down just because you're watching TV at a bar. This is such a beta wallflower technique, no one digs a wallflower. C) Do they have trem…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/16 05:53 AM