| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 9 | Beauty pageants - for the male gaze? For the women gaze?I’ve heard through the grape wine that beauty pageants, Ford model contests and the like are a “selection process” for rich men. High escort type thing. Donald trump used to (is??) be a heavy beauty pageant sponsor. We know what he did in the 80s. Arab sheiks buy and sleep with the winner/runner ups of Ford models contest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 2 | On Pornhub blocking russian users. A strategic move and some history lessons.Thanks. I did not know that but that also makes pornhubs move more calculated and obvious that it’s all a strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 08:21 AM |
| 23 | On Pornhub blocking russian users. A strategic move and some history lessons.Thanks. You phrased it better than me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 06:43 PM |
| 152 | What is a yellow/orange flag?If we are talking signals…then I interpret yellow/orange flags as mixed signals which makes it a red flag. Like if you notice something about his energy and it’s not THAT bad (rationalization) then you deal w it as a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 09:18 PM |
| 34 | Men and PowerThis was a beautiful read. I love the Bible references. Edit: just add. I know studies have shown religious men cheat less than non religious. Ana psychologist on YouTube said the same thing and it hasn’t so much to do with religion but with a specific set of morals one decides to pursue. So bibel aside and on to your topic, I think a man with a strong moral compass is important to look out for. And I think men this age have lost it. What has replaced the moral compass in men that the big religi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Casual Sex Confusion“Your type” is mentioned in the book “come as you are”. It basically boils down to anxiety. Read the book and get a therapist are my recommendations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:24 PM |
| 45 | Female Dating Strategy Podcast BONUS: Lundy Bancroft, Part 2 - Dating Red Flags & How "Sexual Liberation" is Being Used to Control WomenI noticed he cut off you guys abruptly as soon as the discussion mentioned terfs and trans issues. Crazy that’s it’s so dangerous to talk about certain issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:43 AM |
| 61 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!This is gold. Like you really really nailed this. This is some IT stuff. I really like how you highlight his good looks and how you really liked the attention and felt attracted to him. It was the same for me. So a guy I dated did almost to a T the exact same thing. The fade was so brutal, I clutched to long on. I’m talking I was the only one who asked questions for months when we texted.it felt like everything was reversed in the end. I was chasing him as he was pulling away. I only have one th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 10:36 PM |
| 44 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesIt’s not entitlement. It’s a very calculated tactic. He is using an authoritative voice to make the victim open the door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:47 PM |
| -5 | Globally, most cultures, books, movies, media, the internet etc portray attractive women or women in general as bitchy, manipulative etc. The whole mean girl trope is so false in reality. In fact in real it it men who are manipulative, liars backstabbing, bloodthirsty, murderous & many worse thingsI kind of disagree. The mean girls who bullied were always some of the popular pretty girls because they could get away with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:09 AM |
| 70 | FDS is BACK!Can anyone explain the low effort posts rule? If I comment on a thread with “yes queen” I get banned? Or do y’all mean not to share simple tiktok videos??? I’m just confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 08:56 AM |
| 10 | First dates, vetting tips, precautions, safety.Agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-InCan anyone link me the link to the thread of the tiktok woman who folded her husbands underwear? I can’t find it. It was epic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:12 PM |
| 105 | Polygamy only benefits menThis is why lib fem is a scam. Listen to these 3rd world women who actually have to live in places were polygamy is practiced and deal with the consequences. I bet all of them hate it and would wish a different life for themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 04:11 PM |
| 8 | Do you believe that men are only as faithful as their options?Yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Disappointing Role Models: Athletes, Only Fans, and Toxic boyfriendsYanet is on of??? So disappointed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 07:41 AM |
| 7 | Women react to ripped men.Check out the YouTube comments. The guys are spitting FDS facts before FDS even existed loool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:43 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021Can I make a throw account and comment/make posts on FDS? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 03:17 PM |
| 9 | I'm newly divorced, and today is my wedding anniversary. I just want to share my thoughts.Don't' be so hard on yourself, you did what you thought was best at the time. It scary being older with kids, leaving someone and being all alone or also scary deciding to divorce and not knowing what is going to happen. Your fear wasn't without reason. I've done some shitty decisions myself and all I can say is be kind to yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 34 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.It was and 15 years later I'm still not over it. It messed me up big time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:41 PM |
| 135 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.0:22 the guy kick his leg up to hit the girls head. This reminds me so much being bullied at school by a group of guys. Like imagine being one girl (not even having a group of friends, I was bullied) and dealing daily with groups of boys like this. They intimidated me just as the girl at 0:22 did as I was trying to get away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 05:29 PM |
| 24 | It’s 2021- no more getting scammed for straight women.🌺 Reject casual sex and normalize sex as an extension of a loving relationship for our youth.This. I see in the comment section the physical punishments highlighted like STDs, unwanted pregnancy, abortion BUT imo the emotional ones should be highlighted too. The feeling of being used for sex and dumped, falling for a fake persona and realizing it after sex, getting a bad reputation, knowing all his friends know the most intimate details about you in bed, people that don’t like you and are glad for bad things happening to you know intimate stuff you don’t want them to know, pictures that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 10:57 AM |
| 16 | What advice would you give to your 20 year old (or generally younger) self?Omg preach. I work in a blue collar job and this is the truth as a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 11:39 AM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on "small violent" acts?Going with your gut is where it's at. It's a super important point in the book "why does he do that". If YOU feel like it's threatening then it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:30 AM |
| 6 | What's your opinion on "small violent" acts?You are more right than you think. In the book "the gift of fear" the author talks about pre-incident behaviors. This is what you are talking about. Small behaviors that indicate BEFORE the actual violence what is to come. here is a link from FDS about this topic. VERY IMPORTANT https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ezw4qz/preincident_indicators_of_violence_from_gavin_de/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 9 | What's your opinion on "small violent" acts?If you feel threatened by it This OP. Listen to this. If YOU (!!!!) feel like it is a threat then it is. This is one of the important highlights in Lundy Bancrofts book "why does he do that" when asked ( paraphrasing) how would you determine if a guy is going to be violent to you. He basically says that no one, not the cops, not the social service lady, not even him the author would be as a accurate as THE WOMANS OWN INTUITION. trust your gut. If YOU feel like it's violent then it is. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:22 AM |
| 31 | Reproductive StrategyLundy Bancroft from the book “why does he do that” talks about this. Interesting how 2 people (op and you) have noted this without referencing his book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 23 | The negative neurological consequences of BDSM, written by a psychiatristThis article is the shit. Needs to be printed out and plastered on every campus. This post needs like 10x gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:28 PM |
| 13 | Post all the high-value stuff you have ever experienced from any manHow did you guys meet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:43 PM |
| 5 | LISTEN to what your date says and make note of it- if they say something that doesn’t sit right, follow your intuition!Can anyone explain this to me. I went on a date first date with my abusive ex and he drive us to this four star restaurant to eat. He picked me up and payed for the dinner. But in the middle of the dinner he asked if I could excuse him, he had to give a guy a package from his car. And I was like wtf, what package, drugs? So after the date I didn’t want to see him. When he explained himself I gave him another chance. So stupid. But a guy bought a a small auto part from him and he decided to meet … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 6 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Please listen to me. False promises that are “off”. It’s in the book the gift of fear as a pre-indicator of violence to come. I live in a VERY safe European country. After my first date with my ex he sent me a text saying he dreamt about monsters and that he will always protect me. I thought ok. But I was never in danger when we dated. Nothing happened that made me need him to promise to protect me. WELL he tried showing me down a river couple months later a cold winter night.among other things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:54 PM |
| 6 | A Man Seriously Compared Not Being Able to Comment on FDS to Nazi Germany.I burst out laughing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:53 PM |
| 11 | TRP guide on how to manipulate a woman to do abortion when she doesn't want to. I want you guys to read this and protect yourselves.I took the link away. Dm me girls if you want the link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:18 AM |
| 8 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?I wish I could agree but my very abusive ex had a decent group of friends and he was scary abusive once the mask was off. The red flag was that they seemed all “red pill”. Eg his best friends told me when I first met him “ I like young girls” and his wife told him infront of me before going out “ don’t make me jealous this time” to the same guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?THIS. omg Scarface. My very abusive ex loved that movie. And he generally didn’t watch any movies. In fact the first time he met me he said a line to me that the main character says to Elvira. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:09 AM |
| 13 | Making A List & Checking It Twice - Maintain Objectivity When Datinghell yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:33 PM |
| 14 | Sisters, know that pedophiles are everywhere. Protect yourselves, your sisters, your daughters. Unsurprisingly, there is #notallmen commentary on the thread.yeah what is up with that phenomena? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 2 | This is why you have your own money on the side (link)here is the link: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/22sj7s/hiding_money/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Gigi Engle and Suzannah Weiss wrote back to back articles in Men’s Health on how to choke us out. “Feminist” writers pandering and promoting sexualized violence to men has got to stop.Omg You know what this reminds me of? Long time ago there was all time post on Reddit. A guy strangled his girlfriend. She was completely naked and he took pictures and posted it on reddit saying that “it was harder than I thought”. He left her on the bed, dead and all, for her son that was coming home from school to find her. Never made the connection until this post about how dangerous men are that use strangulation. She was naked in bed when he strangled her so I wonder if they were having se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:00 AM |
| 6 | Don’t settle, you’re doing just fine.👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Your dignity comes first no matter how much you think you love him. Period.this comment is one for the FDS handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 10:56 AM |
| 51 | Couple I’ve known since HS. Together 11 yrs and SHE had to propose, after yrs of bringing up marriage. She’s also in a PhD program at an Ivy League — she can do way betterMy thought too.Classy french chic and the smarts to back it up. Killer pose too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Damaged babies and broken hearts: Ukraine's commercial surrogacy industry leaves a trail of disasters as parents refuse to accept the baby they ordered.Ok! I get it. Thanks for explaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 06:19 PM |
| 6 | Damaged babies and broken hearts: Ukraine's commercial surrogacy industry leaves a trail of disasters as parents refuse to accept the baby they ordered.The whole, "helping people who can't have children themselves", is a myth on par with, "the happy prostitute". can you explain this last sentence. I don't get it. If the parents can have kids themselves why do they go for a surrogate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 05:56 PM |
| 3 | So, what if you're into military type men?ok | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/20 09:51 PM |
| 10 | So, what if you're into military type men?Thanks. I'm not in it for the benefits. Do you have any advice on vetting? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/20 05:06 PM |
| 7 | So, what if you're into military type men?Any tips for vetting military guys? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/20 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Your future if you end up with a LVMmy thought too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Beware of aggressive drivers/truck guys.I laughed so hard. A+ for this text. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 09:03 PM |
| 2 | A couple of reminders not to date older guysthank you for this link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:12 AM |
| 16 | [Advice] How to talk to an "alpha" guy and look cool while doing it.no I drive a fork lift lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] Mean girl at work, also how not to become the older bitter woman?This one was clever | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 2 | [Advice] Mean girl at work, also how not to become the older bitter woman?thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | [Advice] Mean girl at work, also how not to become the older bitter woman?thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/20 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Book Series Recommendation: The Amy Vanderbilt Success Program for WomenI looked thru Etsy and eBay and couldn’t find any of these books.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/19 07:27 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsI started a law of attraction pinboard in my home. I want to develop good habits and first one was clean everyday for 10 min which I've done well. This month I'm starting with tracking my calories intake to loose weight. Slow and steady baby. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/19 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Woman asks on askmen how she can make things better for her husband who works and studies full time. Thought you guys would like this.Was also looking at this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/bbi0fy/what_is_something_women_think_men_find_hot_but/ This comment was awarded gold 19 times. I guess it makes it worth paying attention to. Helplessness. It does not make me feel more like a man to help you through a bunch of simple bullshit daily tasks and listen to you agonize over minor, forgettable issues. It makes you look like a useless complaint factory. Am I your man or your dad? I'll fuck you or your mom. Pick o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/19 05:22 PM |
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