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A more serious comment, women will worship the ground you walk on at 6’2-6’6 as long as you don’t have something massively wrong with you These conversations and interactions and stuff will mean the avwrage height men make for good friends and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:55 PM
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Every sentence is more wrong than the last goodness me. The women will tell you you’re a good person bro don’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:49 PM
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This is something I’ve been trying to say for ages, personality stuff is all well and good for friendships but that will not get you a relationship. So many people somehow refuse to acknowledge this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:09 PM
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I agree, I think for many people it’s a comfortable connection to make, man is single because he must either be a hermit or repulsive to be around but very few people are actually like this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:08 PM
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Very good take
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:07 PM
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The difference between friendship and dating is that the two people are meant to be mutually attracted to each other. I think that's more the problem guys are running into, they can't find someone who is attracted to them. The whole 'personality' stuff without attraction is just a friend. I think the number of people who fit the description you've put out is just lower than you think, most guys' social lives are relatively fulfilled outside of the romantic aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:11 AM
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I don't think guys want the treatment hot girls get, most guys just want one person who isn't fat, ugly or a terrible person but oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:43 AM
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They'll do anything but admit the quite part out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:38 AM
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You forgot the parentheses The bar is in hell (if you are attractive), put that in next time as it changes the whole course of your sentence!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:37 AM
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Bow down and have no boundaries or standards of your own probably lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:36 AM
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Once I saw the first line I knew who this was by without seeing the username, boring
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:35 AM
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A few people asked you to make a profile as an average man and get your personality to shine through you can put up or shut up so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:16 AM
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<image> She argues like this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:13 AM
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They are beating her ass in these comments man, she can’t even be her usual bad faith self properly because this argument has even less substance than her normal ones
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:12 AM
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Very few are asking for DEI, they’re just pointing out that looks matter, which women seem to be unable to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:11 AM
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She wants to shelter her worldview that there is no foul in the world, and the world is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:09 AM
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Yo they smoked you in the replies idk if you saw 🙏🏻 Just try and look past your bias for once
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:09 AM
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>Man doesn’t meet attractiveness threshold therefore one of two things happens, either he is outright not regarded and therefore unable to show his personality, or he becomes a friend. There is quite literally nothing else to it, no need to overcomplicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:08 AM
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Massively chronically online + hyperfixation on gender war imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:59 PM
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You don’t care about my responses because I exposed your weirdo tactics on a previous thread, that’s all. See you when you post this same bs post again the second your cooldown period expires because you have nothing better to do than wait for it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:41 PM
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It’s human nature to find attractive people attractive but it’s members of one gender who will insist they are above all that. That’s actually the only agenda I even have, the dishonesty on that topic is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:36 PM
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I may have, not sure, but the wilted rose at the end of my comment indicates it was tongue in cheek, but you’re not one to pick up on social cues to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:34 PM
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‘Pretty privilege is 100% real, someone would be stupid to deny pretty women get treated better than uglier women, what? Of course that doesn’t apply to men somehow, don’t be ridiculous’ Essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:27 PM
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All she does man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:26 PM
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If she was a judge women’s conviction rates would fall to 0% and she’d use it as evidence to show women can do no wrong because men commit 100% of crimes 🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:26 PM
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Man doesn’t meet attractiveness threshold therefore one of two things happens, either he is outright not regarded and therefore unable to show his personality, or he becomes a friend. There is quite literally nothing else to it, no need to overcomplicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:25 PM
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I’d say they have easier access to both imo Also someone else touched on this, it’s more acceptable for women to complain about relationship issues so they are more likely to do it irl, or on social media platforms like tiktok or ig where their names are attached to it whereas men are more likely to come onto more anonymous forums like reddit which might also contribute to why we see more complaining from men on here. I hadn’t thought of this until another commenter said it but it makes sense to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:07 AM
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Exactly, this is why no disgusting, violent and misogynistic men get into relationships, woman run away from people like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:04 AM
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Good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:01 AM
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First time receiving consequences for your nasty comments and you crash out Everyone including yourself knows what you meant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:59 AM
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Hmm I think the difference comes in the single woman more likely has options/knows she can easily get into a relationship if and when she really wants to whereas a single man rarely if ever has that sort of validation, so the unsettling idea they may never find someone creeps in and begins to feel real. Those two are different states of being despite both being single Also anecdotally I have seen more women who jump from one relationship to another, seemingly from a lack of ability to be single …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:42 AM
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Yeah it’s the last part that stands out to me in particular. I have seen her commenting before about how women are the main allies to that community but she uses them flippantly as a gotcha, many such cases of people appearing as ‘allies’ to appear like good people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:57 PM
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I don’t understand your alternate reality, which you view as reality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:38 PM
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Nah bro you don’t get it bro, character and mentality bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:35 PM
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You made like 10 comments to the other guy below and not one was rooted in reality, nor useful to anyone in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:32 PM
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I don’t control the level at which you spew nonsense (I wish I could)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:31 PM
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Vague platitudes because your argument has no substance? We have lost the impact of shame in this society man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:30 PM
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I read your definition below
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:29 PM
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Plenty of single men have ‘character’ and can’t get dates, that’s an insane oversimplification to make lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:28 PM
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Incredible that someone's brain can be wired in a way to come to the conclusions you do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:25 PM
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No data to back this up btw
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:24 PM
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She thinks of herself as a major LGBT ally as well but she uses homophobic dogwhistles
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:23 PM
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Argue someone’s point ❌ Ask questions to distract from the point ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:19 PM
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I swear I’ve seen a variation of this title posted to this sub by this user like 10 times at this point…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:50 PM
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I think it’s better for my sanity if I don’t pay more attention to this sub haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:48 PM
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Research on if you can find studies relevant to the post shows you cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:42 PM
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I personally see women do it more, like the user who posts multiple times a day, but either way that stuff is very bad faith most of the time imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:42 PM
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Exactly what I would have said but with less profanity 😂😂 Redditors think every topic in human history needs to have a peer-reviewed study which has been replicated otherwise it didn’t happen, it’s a waste of time interacting with them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:36 PM
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It boils down to ‘women are wonderful’ effect and also the fact that usually they’re more valuable to a man than the man is to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:33 PM
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People that comment this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:31 PM
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I think nobody is wrong in this situation but men and women approach from different angles and there's a disconnect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:28 PM
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I genuinely don’t think you’ve interacted with a man born after 2000 because this comment is just ‘I read articles that Gen Z are bad’ The proportion of people who fit what you describe in your comment is so small
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:28 AM
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Also I would be shocked if the mean age of people commenting in this thread was below 40. Most of these comments read like 40+ year olds regurgitating the caricature of Gen Z that has been painted to them by news articles, very loosely linked to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:26 AM
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‘That was the 90s’ And that’s all I needed to read 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:22 AM
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Nobody infantilises women more than other women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:53 PM
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Fair, my bad! But then you’re even more wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:26 PM
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Until a man rejects them and their first insult is to call them gay Or the rampant biphobia against bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:25 PM
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Unless you work for hinge batting this hard for dating apps is crazy + sad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:12 PM
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I mean sure, not really relevant to anything but yeah sure you got it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:11 PM
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Yeah to maintain a successful relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:04 PM
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I don’t remember calling you hyperbolic And I’m still waiting for your recording of ‘A Bug’s Life’
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:03 PM
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Ok, I’m asking why you said that specific bit though, that’s the entire gripe I had
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:03 PM
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Both can be true btw, it was an extension of your logic but making a joke out of it because it was so stupid, and the joke involved hyperbole ✅✅✅ on all 3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:10 PM
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And? I didn’t deny that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:09 PM
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Nah it was just stupid you mentioned the fact the bug’s life characters are ants as if that was relevant in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:09 PM
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Woah there!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:00 PM
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Record the film and send it here otherwise this plot is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:59 PM
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Someone’s life btw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:15 PM
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Why did she not quote it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:14 PM
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Not really, as it isn’t an insult if someone actually offered reasoning or a train of thought for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:13 PM
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It’s a tactic to devolve the debate into nonsense so she can never be proven wrong, I pointed out to her earlier that she does this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:07 PM
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That’s hypocritical as she asks a question in nrarly every comment, grown woman acting like a lazy baby and she can’t take what she gives smfh Because she posts like 50 times a day she’s the main driver of the traffic on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:03 PM
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Hey! She said ant not bug, checkmate!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:59 PM
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Ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:21 PM
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Read like a book dawg you are so simple
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:02 PM
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1, 2 and 3 just do not matter if you’re tall and/or attractive, or if you have an emotional hold over someone 4 sure, 5 and 6 sure, but I thought people were allowed standards 7 again doesn’t matter if you don’t meet the physical attractiveness threshold to be in that position If I lied like this and told ugly women men don’t want them as much as pretty women because they must be horrible selfish people I would look insane. The same logic applies to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:13 PM
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‘Years’ is fucking crazy man, but yeah I said in another comment, no room for nuance or common sense is a sign, everything needs to be exactly quoted or it didn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:09 PM
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Shit is stupid man, she’s acting as if the bug’s did not talk in the film and they were scuttling around not doing anything 😭 ‘Where did I say that find me a direct quote’ ‘You didn’t, it’s a mix of hyperbole, joking and extending the logic you used to show how stupid it was’ See how I can predict her replies before she even does it herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:07 PM
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Nope but nice try man good effort 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:57 PM
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I cannot be arsed to go and find a screenshot man but that is what people say. And those same people pull their favourite boogeyman word out when you disagree. All I can say is take my word for it and if you don’t want to then fair enough. And your first para is dumb, it’s like me saying ugly women don’t do worse than pretty women because of their appearance. One would be stupid to suggest that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:53 PM
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Dude copied in part of a comment and replied with something completely unrelated 🥀 Your argument style is like 95% distraction based, you try lead someone to find an exact excerpt from your essays where you apparently said something, then you turn the argument into whether or not you said the actual thing rather than keeping it about the topic at hand I have seen bad faith arguers many times I know how to snuff them out and I have seen all the tactics. And no, I cannot be arsed to find an exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:53 PM
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I would believe you if this thread was the first one I've seen!! I have seen the goalpost moving over weeks and a few months, not falling for it! Again to be clear I do not mean to be negative with this bit, if you would be comfortable with finding that information out about yourself it might be a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:41 PM
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Another example, third or fourth one in this thread alr I watched that film ages ago so I don't even remember it, but it's funny you mention the fact they're insects as if that has any role to play in the point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:30 PM
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Another example of my other comment haha Anyway you seemingly disregarded a bug's life because they're bugs not people, so it's an extension of that logic, south park is as real as a bug's life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:23 PM
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I'm not exclusively referring to this thread with my comment, just what I have picked up from you while lurking and reading through, and again I don't mean to use the spectrum as an insult I genuinely think you display signs of it through your comments And again the second part you responded to was not in reference to this specific thread either Another thing, you always need information spoonfed to you and refuse to acknowledge it if it doesn't fit your script, again that is a sign
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:21 PM
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Yeah my other comment was spot on cos what
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:11 PM
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If I told you to stop eating or drinking, would you survive for long? That is what you're doing to her by telling her to not move goalposts!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:05 PM
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Using your logic 'south park' is a cartoon and therefore is an illegitimate thing to bring up, sorry, blame the one who made the rules (yourself) And my apologies again for not keeping a journal of every film, video and book that I consumed, and the morals portrayed in them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:04 PM
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Not even in a negative way but the way she argues makes me believe she falls somewhere on the spectrum, the obsessiveness/hyperfixation, constant asking questions instead of responding to what's being said to her, lack of nuanced thinking These are all signs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:02 PM
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Is this OP a known weirdo, I shouldn’t have bothered engaging with the thread then man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:31 AM
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Maybe.. because most men can’t get into a relationship so want advice on the thing they are unable to do before looking for advice for something multiple steps away Maybe though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:30 AM
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Assholes who aren’t successful aren’t failing because they’re assholes. And btw, yes, a lot of bluepill advice is ‘just treat women like humans and you’ll easily find someome bro’ (everyone except the worst people in society does this already) You may not personally do it, but it’s a common piece of advice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:29 AM
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<image> This is why men are not listening to bluepillers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:27 AM
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To my knowledge, with my 3 closest female friends, one has more guy friends than girl ones, but the ones she does have are not into white guys, another friend's circle is her fiance's one from their church who are in relationships with people within that community, and the other only has a handful of friends each of whom are taken. So no luck so far, all that's left is to ask more of my less close friends, which are less strong connections so I will not be holding my breath there. And my friend'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:42 PM
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Not misogynistic in the slightest. But yes everyone does have autonomy, I have the ability to choose any one of the 0 women interested in me since I turned into an adult to enter a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:34 PM
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People are looking for a specific look of guy, it is worth asking but very obviously a futile exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:25 PM
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Women control the dating market nowadays, they have the opportunity to come and go as they please because they’ve got the luxury for finding someone new at the snap of a finger Completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:24 PM
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Idk man I use the dating apps, I have a nightlife, I meet friends and friends of friends. I’d say that’s a reasonable amount of putting myself out there. The only thing left to do is approach women in situations where we have explicitly been told to not approach them, like in the gym or in public or at activities. So I guess that’s it, I’ll go out of my way to ruin women’s days so there’ll be no doubt left about how much I put myself out there. Thank you! And for the record in Gen Z most women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:20 PM
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I’ll do the hard work for you but I’ll refer you back to my original comment “New advice golden nugget dropped: just face rejection and social pressure until you're 30 without letting it affect your psyche bro!!! Previous generations have not had to deal with the bullshit going on in Gen Z and it remains to be seen what the long-term effects will be” Back to where we started
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:15 PM
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Bro *you* are the one insinuating friendships will just lead to relationships because it’s impossible for them not to, if I scroll up I can find something you said not far off this. I for sure am not the one saying that. I can say stuff like I’m funny, a good listener, can converse about a variety of things, and other stuff. Again if I had no redeeming personality traits I would not have friends. None of this matters unless someone is attracted to you initially
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:13 PM
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Soon come for me too otherwise it’s joever 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:08 PM
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The stats on single men 18-25 will blow your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:05 PM
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It’s typically generic stuff like ‘you don’t put yourself out there enough’ which isn’t even true lol, so essentially I haven’t received any good answer Which leads me to believe that it’s because I do not meet the 7/10, 6 foot looks threshold which would greatly improve my chances, but that’s the quiet part nobody wants to say out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:04 PM
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This comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:01 PM
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The other reply here got it, the people who say ‘just treat women like humans and your looks will not matter’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:59 PM
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Thanks for taking over
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:59 PM
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Yeah friendship turns into dating if you’re attractive or massively lucky this is all it boils down to, you can have a million friends and it will still boil down to this. Are we genuinely denying human nature just to appear like we’re morally superior?? I can use myself as an example, I don’t need to look too far, I have many friendships, male and female, different groups of people etc. not once has that remotely led me close to a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:58 PM
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‘Game’ is not real, two guys can say the exact same thing with the same delivery and the result depends on how they look. ESPECIALLY true in Gen Z, appearance matters more than ever. People socialise as friends, to get into a relationship you need the physical attraction aspect, otherwise you’re a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:55 PM
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I do, I do, and I’m very well connected and full friends wise thankfully
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:53 PM
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I see both sides of that debate, either way that’s their right, I just wish they’d be honest and say their standards rather than offering false hope in order to appear like more righteous people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:52 PM
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The amount of people who fit this description of having no friends, not going out and not meeting people is so so miniscule to the point where it’s statistically not worth mentioning Almost all perennially single men have full social lives minus a relationship, you want to justify your position by making them out to be this or that but it isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:50 PM
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You’re describing making friends which I, and I assume most people, do not have any problems with Relationships require an entirely different set of characteristics, mostly physical
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:44 PM
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Society is faaaar more isolated and colder nowadays, and on the topic of relationships the level of distrust between genders is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:43 PM
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Way to miss the point! I'll forever defend someone's right to preference. Men will largely admit they value physical appearance in women, whereas I see so many women try to make out that they are above human nature and would never judge a man on his appearance. My agenda is date who you want, just be honest about your standards, there's nothing wrong with them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:39 PM
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Ahh I love being the one to make this format of comment, I like it, but yes you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:04 PM
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New advice golden nugget dropped: just face rejection and social pressure until you're 30 without letting it affect your psyche bro!!! Previous generations have not had to deal with the bullshit going on in Gen Z and it remains to be seen what the long-term effects will be
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:48 PM
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People do this, there's only so far it can take you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:21 AM
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Yep, it's a way to give false hope to people to shut them up, game is not real
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:19 AM
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‘Tense’ is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:19 AM
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Everyone that isn’t disingenuous or ignorant knows exactly what I mean and no amount of funnily reframing what I said will change that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:13 AM
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This only works if you’re tall or not a Gen Zer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:11 AM
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You’d be surprised how many people tell men this, not only that, but the people who disagree with the notion get called the big bad i word
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:08 AM
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The plan is working then. Women do want to be approached, but only by attractive men, the rest are to be funnelled to dating apps to never be heard from. The men who are allowed to successfully approach are those who are attractive enough to acceptably break the social code women have set and who also don’t care about what women say just a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:07 AM
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Yes, it makes people feel good to punch down on someone who they feel is inferior to them morally or socially which is why people tell themselves ‘incels’ are either evil or hermits or something else similar. It makes them feel righteous that they fight the noble battle against such bad people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:16 AM
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🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:51 PM
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\<sup>Illiteracy</sup> rate contributor in the comment above
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:30 PM
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What an answer to a very simple question that is /s Feel free to post this somewhere tbh man, if this is your life’s peak feel free, let’s see what people say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:26 PM
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I hope so too, and I wish more people could see this, idek if like-minded people to you would agree with you that’s how badly you’ve debated. Anyway I’m sorry to say that you’ll have to go back to your lonely Reddit life unless you explain to me why you didn’t make a hypothetical which was equivalent both ways. Just one answer! Look how much I have done for you and I ask for one thing in return
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:22 PM
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I could tell the difference I’m fairly sure, I’m not an old man who hangs with dwarves and kids, freak. Why don’t you want to use an equivalent example to make your point? Answer me this one question and I will extend your time with me, if not I’m sending you back to contemplating your pitiful life. 40+ year old man, but yeah, if you cannot answer that one question, you are running away and therefore have lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:14 PM
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Dumbass The initial example was a 5’4 woman to 5’9 man, a 5 inch difference Your hypothetical is a 5’10 man telling apart a 6’11 person, 13 (thirteen!) inches taller And you equated the two! Dummy! Why not use an equivalent example, like a 5’10 man telling apart a 6’2 man from someone else? Why would you not use an equivalent example? I do wonder man Man in his 30s or 40s btw. You must be very loved and sheltered to be this dumb and have made it to this age, a lot of people helping and supportin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:06 PM
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Your hypothetical doesn’t work given that you more than doubled the distance. (I still reckon I could probably tell the difference between 6’11 and 7’2) If you used the same difference distance we can talk, but you wouldn’t do that because you’d be unequivocally wrong, there’s me biting at your bait. That is all actually wrt debating, on a serious note, I’m assuming you’re in your thirties or fourties from how you type, you should have a wife and kids and you’re arguing with someone in his early…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:57 PM
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Bye bye uncle!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:40 PM
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‘It’s been shown’ and it’s a shit hypothetical which has maybe a 50% chance of being true, which also has no relevance to the argument at hand , so wrong in 3 different ways at least👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I used to argue like this when I’d ragebait my friends when I was like 15. Sad life you have, I’m grateful you’re bearing that cross and not me 🫡 If you’re ragebaiting let me know please!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:34 PM
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False equivalency woop woop A foot taller v 4 inches And I’m not even certain I couldn’t, reasonable chance I could, and again, only an idiot would compare 5/6 and 13 inch differences from the POV But I guess that’s what you are man unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:15 PM
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That’s more than an entire foot taller 💀 even when taking into account proportions or whatever that’s still way off I’m only maybe willing to hear this about the girls who barely make 5 foot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:58 PM
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If I saw a 6’2 and a 6’6 person from my 5’10 perspective it would be relatively a fair and similar experiment and that height difference would be clear as day Unless you exclusively hang around dwarves and children, in which case you’re right bro 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:00 PM
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Yeah this has to be ragebait, desperate guy, I reference something I have seen 2 or 3 times and you take it and run and make it the only thing you argue against. Keep in mind again at no point did I claim it to be frequent , you made the rest up in your mind. If you’re above about 25 you are sad as fuck for that. Women may not tell if a 5’10 guy (5’9 is a stretch) claims 6 foot if they have no other person nearby for perspective, if there are many men who are actually above 6 foot next to them t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:53 PM
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You’ve changed your argument like 3 times so I’ll just outline what I have to say and we can work from there, if you can be bothered to come out of your Redditor shell Height matters, and a FOUR inch difference (>10cm) in height is noticeable irl when two individuals are stood next to each other. These are my only two arguments And somehow you disagree with two things that any sane person would consider a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:35 PM
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You type like this bruh💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:31 PM
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‘Trigger’ in 2026 is crazy, no wonder you think height doesn’t matter, you’re from a generation where it mattered much less. Each time I have seen a freakishly tall person, they’ve cleaned up, and when such a person isn’t there, the tallest people otherwise can clean up. Keep in mind this isn’t even my new argument, I just repeated something I said earlier but you failed to read. Women really don’t care about their man having the skill of literacy I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:25 PM
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Btw at no point did I insinuate I see this regularly every time I go out you just latched onto that because you have nothing else to argue on. You’re clinging onto the least important part of what I said so desperately. I said it’s something I ‘have seen’, which means I have seen it 2 or 3 times. Typically the more common but still worshipped by women height of 6’2/3 is fine in a club. Redditors will argue the 1% and ignore the 99% instead of admitting they’re wrong 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:19 PM
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That statistic is definitely not skewed by countries with a much shorter average height than Europe 🔥 The guy arguing a 4-5 inch height gap is not noticeable when those two people are stood next to each other is not the one larping about going outside 🔥 You may genuinely not have been outdoors in the past 6 months with how you’re sounding
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:08 PM
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Struggling as a woman on apps is like having a ferrari and losing a race to a human
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:02 PM
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Comparing seeing people in a club in front of you v on a TV (or in a stadium far from you?) and you think you cooked? Not sure you’re in a spot to use the word larping 🙏🏻 I have seen guys maybe 6’7/8 ish get surrounded in a club in a way that would be fitting if it was CR7 or Messi Height that stands out gets worshipped in that setting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:58 PM
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Also the case in the UK! And tbh if someone wants to have high standards I say let them, I take issue when those same people turn around and say they have no standards and looks matter very little to them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:55 PM
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It would be like me noticing a difference between someone 6’2 and 6’6 which i definitely could
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:54 PM
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I’m 5’10 and there’s a clear difference between me and my friends who are 6’2/3 ish for example In a vaccuum you’re right that they couldn’t tell from just me alone but in a social setting that becomes very difficult to hide very quickly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:51 PM
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I’d love an ‘antidote’ to my pessimism but I’ll believe it when I see it The only people I know at 5’7 ish who have success with women of any description are ones who date in a specific religious community where the dating pool is tiny Are you above 30? That might play a role given that this is worse within Gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:49 PM
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Thank you! Someone made a post alluding to the opposite which I completely disagree with People on apps are not from a foreign planet, they’re members of the same society in real life, if you’re unattractive on an app you’ll likely not get attention in a club, exception being if you are tall as that stands out even in the dark
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:38 PM
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Then he got massively lucky! I think of all the times I’ve been out I’d say minimum 85%, conservatively, of the times I’ve seen men with women at the club, the guy is over 6 feet, and the remaining 15 would be guys who are not too far from that The scenario you’ve described is something I have genuinely never seen in all of the times I’ve been to the club
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:26 PM
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Women will only speak to you in a club of you’re 6 foot or above. I would argue heightism is more prevalent in clubs than it is on dating apps, it’s to that degree Source: I go out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:53 PM
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I wish I could do the same for my city and within my age bracket (18-25)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:41 PM
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Right and wrong, women are not to be blamed for having standards, they are to be blamed for lying about their standards to appear like morally superior people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:38 PM
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If the serial killer is 6’2 and the normal guy is 5’10, the women will pick the serial killer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:33 AM
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Wrong and stupid lol, men who are tall and good looking can put bullshit on there and get success, anyone below a 7/10 is cooked more or less regardless of anything they put on an app Please reflect on your worldview 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:24 PM
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Telling that user to not dodge a comment is like telling me or you to not breathe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:22 PM
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The main poster on this sub doesn’t understand objectivity and subjectivity 🥀 I don’t even agree with you but that response is so ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:15 PM
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I think it’s almost impossible to not be around height queens unless someone goes to a mountain and disconnects from society, and I like the city I live in
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:51 PM
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I’m not stooping to your level, let me know if I can dm the link to the post or tell me to disengage on this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:49 PM
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‘Some’ (most) and it’s equivalent to brainrot, and it poisons the well for everyone else, again preferences are preferences so I don’t even mind that I mind when people are pretentious and dishonest to make their preferences appear less shallow than they actually are, that’s my only agenda, women can prefer whoever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:48 PM
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<image> I can dm you the link to the post and you can respond on here, cba to screenshot a comment just for you to say ‘that’s just one woman that isn’t representative’ I know the game man I’m not falling for bullshit ragebait 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:47 PM
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I’m not! Hope this helps 🔥❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:44 PM
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<image> Replace leftist with whatever the fuck you identify as lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:43 PM
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Porn boogeyman because you have nothing left fairs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:42 PM
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Every man knows this btw, but women want us to believe no woman ever has thought with her vagina Then men get called incels for seeing through the bullshit And repeat And because I know you’ll say women never said this, they did, everyone knows it except you who turns a blind eye to anything that disagrees with your sheltered worldview, and no I cba to find examples, nor a peer reviewed empirical study, it doesn’t change my life if you want to be wilfully ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:23 PM
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So just cut my dating pool by about 90% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:42 PM
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See like a lot of your worldview is based on refusing to acknowledge anything that disagrees with it, you’re your own obtuseness away from your worldview crumbling I respect the shamelessness almost, if someone says something that challenges my view I can just say, ‘Nope, this doesn’t happen’ and then I can never be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:29 PM
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Not sure which post that is, but women lose all self respect around tall men so I can get the idea without finding it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:18 PM
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This kind of stuff is disingenuous because you’re expecting a peer reviewed study of something that doesn’t exist, stop being obtuse and use some common sense, I was just on a comment thread full of women claiming this, but I’m sure that doesn’t suffice because the sample size was below 10,000 so it doesn’t count! Every man knows women care about height, women are just mad when men mention it because it bursts the bubble of female moral superiority when we can see how alike women and men are dee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:17 PM
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If you’re tall
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:08 PM
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Not allowed to link other subs it seems and the post got removed already because women can do no wrong, workaround of some kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:49 PM
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Someone made a post on the dating advice sub like half an hour ago go find it, the comments are women saying they don’t care about looks, bullshit lies like that fuel the mentality your post is complaining about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:44 PM
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You got us dude, we all met up at an AGM to pull this narrative out of our ass, idk if I’m allowed to link other subs but go on a relevant discussion post on hinge, tinder, bumble, dating advice, dating, gen Z and more subreddits and you’ll find plenty of examples. If you want to be obtuse in order to remove common sense from the discussion let me know so I can stop engaging
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:42 PM
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OP is mostly right but she’s so close to being completely right man, it’s frustrating to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:30 PM
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The thing is internet women are the ones who push the incentive for being a good person bullshit, and men get called incels for disagreeing with it ‘Women don’t care about looks and height, they just want to be respected, just don’t be a misogynist and you’ll slay’ WOMEN and bluepill men are the ones saying this, then stupid men listen, it doesn’t work, then they’re the incel for wondering why it doesn’t work Less stupid men see through the bullshit and get called incels anyway for daring to dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:29 PM
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Just don’t listen to advice period, it’s either wrong, useless, redundant or out of touch Even men’s advice isn’t good tbh, everyone gives shit dating advice, don’t listen to people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:22 PM
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Men also don’t give good advice tbf, nobody is worth listening to for advice on this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:18 PM
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Generally speaking everyone gives shit advice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:18 PM
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Also true this is more of a debate than advice sub, with that being said the advice people give on any sub is terrible and not worth listening to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:17 PM
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But this is what women actually say to them? Unless that is your point and I misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:16 PM
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Oh absolutely not, their advice is so so shit, men’s advice is also largely not good, just don’t listen to people, they don’t know shit and also face different circumstances to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:14 PM
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🙏🏻🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:30 PM
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I honestly don’t think so, I’d say the opposite, where women believe they’re superior to men, might be a case of gender bias on each of us in fairness I think a lot of people especially on this sub are very keen to paint men as immoral and disgusting so women seem better in comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:30 PM
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It might be hard to become one but I’m gonna try my best, seems to be a piece of cake when you get the hang of it You acknowledging physical attraction matters is more than like half the people on reddit are prepared to admit so respect for that at least lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:26 PM
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Valid! But I do find that the reaction to them differs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:20 PM
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If I declare myself POTUS does the term President change meaning? Anyway I agree that actual misogyny should be shunned for the record, but most people’s definition of misogyny involves acknowledging that at some point in human history, a woman has wronged more than 0 people ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:18 PM
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How does a gender claim to only value personality and not be able to suss this out 😭 that’s your one job, or so you claim (unless looks matter more than everything else wink wink) Maybe I just need to work on becoming a manipulator if it’s that easy regardless of looks. Maybe that’s what people mean when they say personality matters wow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:16 PM
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Those words have lost their value through being overused to hell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:11 PM
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I want to be able to complain on the internet, which I can do tbf, but without seeing myself and people who hold similar opinions to me be smeared. It isn’t a free speech issue it’s more a double standard issue of ‘why can you complain about me but you hate me if i do the same thing’ complaint
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:07 PM
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Logically tracked reply further down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:05 PM
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0/3 on the adjectives, but tell me this, if misogynistic and harmful men are so hated for their opinions and behaviour, why do so many people have toxic relationships? Wouldn’t you just filter those people out? Women hate men who aren’t attractive, regardless of their attitudes towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:05 PM
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Who’s going up to women in the subway and being misogynistic or harassing women except crackheads or drunkards or something 😭 Even in this thread women are justifying hating men because of ‘what men say online’, such as what? The only places you see actual vitriol against women are if you go out of your way to go to 4chan or something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:02 PM
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My source is common sense, everyone not being disingenuous knows what I said is true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:54 PM
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Nah I don’t want to criticise women, I want to be able to voice valid, lukewarm complaints without being called an incel misogynist! Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:54 PM
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Thank you Sir🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:48 PM
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They get upvotes in subs concentrated with like minded people, the supposed ‘manosphere’ has become a mainstream issue in politics, and schools are being trained to prevent men from disagreeing with female groupthink Is there such a standard for women? As a man you will get called a misogynist for having the most lukewarm complaint about women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:48 PM
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Fact btw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:46 PM
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A 6’2 raging misogynist will always be more successful in dating volume wise than a normal 5’10 person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:44 PM
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Well men’s hysterical bonkers opinions get demonised, in this thread it’s just women justifying equally hysterical opinions of women, and that’s the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:39 PM
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🐔 🥚
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:34 PM
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If they’re tall they can do whatever tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:33 PM
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Chicken and egg, women post plenty of bullshit online and we’re told to believe that ‘it isn’t representative’ so why can’t we afford the same grace to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:33 PM
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It’s because they can’t deviate from ‘the world is fair, good things happen to good people, if something bad happens to you then you deserve it’
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:15 AM
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Ah i should add a /s onto my comment, I do agree with you, but people seem to think not taking rejection well is a men only behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:03 AM
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If you reject a woman of any kind based on her appearance you’re gay and something is wrong with you, but women do not have egos simultaneously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:54 AM
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Idk man I can only speak for myself, when women are honest about physical preferences I respect that more than lying to appear like a bastion or morality, most people see through the pretentious bs Better for someone to have high standards and be honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:52 AM
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How would women function if they didn’t have a convenient scapegoat? Why won’t you think of the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:50 AM
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Men men men men men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:28 AM
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I think if old people stopped acting like they know better like 30% of bad comments would immediately vanish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:41 AM
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Blue pill smells like shit, red pill smells like sweaty clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:33 PM
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Most of us can’t even if we wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:52 PM
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Idk man it’s an assumption based off what I have seen, not completely baseless. If you want gross generalisations on people someone hasn’t met scroll up to the top and read the original post again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:03 PM
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Satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:56 AM
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You've made multiple long writeups bashing on men in a short space of time, we can assume safely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:55 AM
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OP has to be larping as an incel or something idk, not sure how someone can live in the real world and come to those conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:53 AM
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Wow, commitment to the bit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:51 AM
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Satire? I'll bite actually, no, men don't feel entitled to a hot woman, no, men do not want to date a fat single mother, some men want split costs and uneven housework but you're overstating how many, no, we don't want my kids to be raised by a single mother, yes, men want to be present in their children's lives, some men may be unfair with domestic work, some will not. So all in all like half a valid point in that entire essay of bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:50 AM
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A shy tall and/or handsome man will have no issue getting attention, and an abusive tall and/or handsome man will also have no issue getting attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:29 PM
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ACTUALLY a good and interesting perspective!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:33 PM
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Impossible for this to exist as all a man needs to do is treat women like humans and they’ll flock to him romantically, this is what redditors have told me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:33 PM
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Idk man are people meant to have comments on hand like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:47 PM
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Just now on the GenZ sub under a dating post, but rest assured I’ve seen it loads here, to the point where it’s an inside joke with people, I don’t have the imagination to make that up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:01 PM
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I just replied to a comment on another sub saying this as timing would have it, but I have seen it so so many other times!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:58 AM
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Tbh I skimmed the post as I was walking, but i’m not being insulting, I’m repeating the genuine advice I see women on here give men who make similar posts, why is that insulting?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:41 AM
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If you showered more often and had a better attitude men would treat you better!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:33 AM
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While I don't think women should be made to actively check other women's behaviour, it's wild how many women expect men to do that with other men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:32 PM
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You're right, men are also often told to check other men's behaviour in a similar way which has always been very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:31 PM
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I am meant to be personally responsible for other men's behaviour but women aren't allowed to even acknowledge the wrongdoings of other women, cold world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:28 PM
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So so many women do this and try to do the coy thing of saying they didn't mean it as an insult after
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:04 PM
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Men taking credit for women's actions is terrible, unless of course the action in question is bad
/r/MensRights04/04/26 03:36 PM
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Wrong. 1- Many many women do not understand banter themselves, either that or are deliberately dumb to put off someone they don't like 2- No way to demonstrate this if women will not speak to you in a romantic context 3- Most people who fail at dating have functional social lives otherwise, involving female friends who they can speak to, socialise back and forth with etc. perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:50 PM
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You say that, a lot of people will say looks do not matter haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:44 PM
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Women can also have fragile egos
/r/MensRights31/03/26 02:38 PM
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Booooooring
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:03 PM
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Just be happy you’ve never come across it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:47 PM
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Sooo many women use being gay as an insult and then do the coy thing of 'if you took it as an insult that's on you!' very tiring to argue with and it's acceptable apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:12 PM
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Intelligence (height and attractiveness)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:51 PM
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People are not doing this irl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:49 PM
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Valid point, but I see women do this loaaads too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:29 PM
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Patriarchy is the reason I had to go back outside because I forgot to lock my car! Patriarchy is the reason I didn't take the trash out!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:27 PM
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Source: Santa Claus
/r/MensRights27/03/26 09:39 AM
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I’m 22 so yeah rather not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:45 PM
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At least you have people to consider and the agency to make an informed decision on all of these things! Men also have to sift through women who may not want the same thing, but with the numbers also being actively stacked against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:38 PM
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Idk seems like an evening version of going for coffee. Low stakes and more opportunity for speaking to one another
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:39 PM
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Bluepilled so hard that you went blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:34 AM
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'11% of all journalists killed in 2021 were women, stop killing women journalists' this type of thing has been around for a while
/r/MensRights18/03/26 10:16 AM
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Most women won't admit looks matter because they want to appear less shallow and like better people than men, but it's good we can be honest about looks mattering to women as well. The person you replied to is right, I rarely see men saying looks shouldn't matter and dating is fair, you're saying this to the wrong set of people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:51 AM
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Spot on, idk how someone can possibly aim this towards men lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:50 AM
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This post reinforces the idea that if you reword blackpill talking points they get widely agreed on lol. It's usually women who will insist looks don't matter, as long as everyone can be honest about that then there's nothing wrong with women having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:49 AM
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Best of 3 bad options sure, you frame your points v weirdly, anyone who is abusive is fully responsible for it of course. But for some reason there are both dumb and smart women who let themselves fall victim to obvious manipulation. I think they fall into 'I can fix him' mode when a man is attractive to them or has a deep emotional connection with them already. It isn't a woman's fault if she is manipulated, but choosing better can improve your chances of not having it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:02 PM
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It isn't a gendered thing, men can fall for obvious cheaters, gold-diggers etc. just as women can fall for cheats and abusers and both will then use it to generalise the other gender
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:52 PM
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Idk man I was told women are so smart but they also don't have the agency to not be manipulated by known bad people, who often tend to be dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:49 PM
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You are right about BMI, it’s a limited metric, men with a lot of muscle would also fall under overweight, I imagine plenty of NFL players must do so, more goes into it that the number on the scale
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:44 PM
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Wow man, I assume it skews worse the older people get, but as someone in my early 20s that’s like the main physical standard that’s set in stone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:22 PM
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This is a lot more than I thought it was
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:16 PM
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Yeah, they desperately want to have the moral high ground
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:59 PM
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Strawmanning much? Most men are fine with someone who just isn’t fat, I guess in America that’s having a high standard but I’m not from there so it’s a reasonable standard elsewhere!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:57 PM
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What does that short have to do w anything lol, anyway you're partly right so better than your usual. Being a good and respectful person to be a good and respectful person is the right way. Nice guys don't finish last, unattractive ones do though, a handsome bad man is better off than an ugly good man, but being a good person would benefit both of them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:09 PM
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Just repackage/reword blackpill talking points and more people agree with them than you'd think, including women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:31 PM
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Women likely don’t want to be entertained by him if he’s in the situation he’s in so the suggestion is kinda redundant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:47 PM
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'Dumb statement' 'Oh wow so many triggered people downvoting' Both genders think something is wrong with the other's standards anyway, and both argue that the other is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:40 PM
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Well that number for me is the initial attraction so just looks, and within say 3 years either side of my age. So essentially over half the people 19-25 I find physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:47 PM
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A lot of people in denial in here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:55 PM
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An average man will have less romantic success than a super unattractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:54 PM
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At least 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:53 PM
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Idk it's surely implied
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:51 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:06 AM
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A lot of men will defend basically anything a man does, a lot of women will defend basically anything a woman does. Both of those are wrong. Issue solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:47 PM
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Yeah sure why not, now what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:07 PM
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'Hypothetical' people are superhumans. 'If I was a man' 'if I was your age' etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:39 AM
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I feel like you guys were agreeing with each other but the wires got crossed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:38 AM
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If it disagrees with my worldview it is fake
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:33 AM
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Classic strawmanning to cling onto any semblance of a point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:34 PM
5

What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:26 PM
8

No you’re right, people don’t ever ignore red flags because of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:10 PM
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Meh he’s referring to a fairly common narrative that people peddle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:09 PM
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Kindness is the best trait if you want to keep a relationship, attractiveness is the best trait for getting into one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:59 PM
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I mean plenty of people’s advice centres on that train of thought, despite it being clearly untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:58 PM
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Number one attractive trait is being attractive, everything else comes after
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:56 PM
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I thought there was no gender disparity on apps though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:33 PM
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Idk how true it is as I'm not a woman, I think the more natural thing is to want romantic connection though, my gut tells me a lot of people are posturing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:39 AM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:44 AM
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Other guy got said of the good points, also worth keeping in mind that when a woman eventually settles for such a guy, there’s a decent chance he will be compared with people she has been with prior etc. which creates an unhealthy experience dynamic. There’s also the question of has she settled for me because I’m stable, would she have chosen me if I was in a room with her priors, or if her priors had shown more interest in remaining with her etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:41 AM
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Yes, but that's for them to work out. As long as you're honest about preferences I'll defend your right to have them though, but yes that is often a consequence that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:14 AM
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I don't get how people will deny this it's funny mental gymnastics. Unattractive or even mid man will rarely get a chance to show whether or not he is relationship material because he is filtered out by looks 99% of the time, I don't see how this isn't accepted as fact
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:10 AM
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There's nothing wrong w them being looks driven, they just deny the fact because they want to be morally superior to the neanderthal males that they dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:01 AM
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Taken man theory
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:00 AM
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Being similar to any man is seen as a moral failing, so they lie to appear morally superior
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:14 PM
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Holy strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:49 PM
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'My husband is 5'2, bald and 370lbs but he likes arts and crafts so I fell in love with him look at how not shallow I am everyone'
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:42 PM
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Few people disagree w this deep down, for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:31 PM
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I think so, but if asked be truthful still
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:15 AM
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A lot of people view being a man as a moral failing and will do what they can to appear better than them. Like there’s nothing wrong with liking people with attractive traits so you can just own it no problem. I acknowledge there’s outliers both ways before someone comes in and says that but generally speaking height is important
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:07 PM
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I won’t say all or even most women do this, online isn’t a reflection of irl etc. but it was funny/sad to see women online making fun of Nick Fuentes height when he met up with the Tate brothers, Clavicular and all that lot. Among all his character flaws as well as everyone else there plenty seemed to deem his height as the thing most worth making fun of
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:29 AM
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First non-garbage post fair play good take, having good social skills is better than not having them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:32 PM
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Oversimplified and wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:31 PM
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They will never respond to this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:25 PM
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5,6,8 yes, 1,2,7 valid no for 3 and for 4 depends how you look tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:30 PM
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^ doesn't know anyone on here personally just super super hates every man alive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:20 PM
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The implication that ugly and/or heavy women don’t have options 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:21 AM
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Yeah not how anything works, some people might do it, most people have the integrity to not lie, not least pretend to be a horrible person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:18 AM
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Women shame other women for promiscuity all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:20 AM
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This user is too funny lol, unless you verbatim copy what they said they refuse to acknowledge it, no room for grace or even common sense, very Redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:38 PM
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I don’t get it, is the bar in hell or is it higher than ever because women don’t need a man nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:08 PM
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It must be because he posted about reading books or knitting or some other hobby, any link to the Lamborghini is purely coincidental!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:06 PM
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You’re copying bits of my comment then your responses aren’t relevant to what I have said!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:06 PM
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Spot on, OP’s view on men is in line with some of the most misogynistic men you can possibly find
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:04 PM
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😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 good luck to you dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:01 PM
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If 99% of people are unsuitable and at fault then look inwardly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:57 PM
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Men have it easier biologically yes, idk how to solve that issue though! The other part of your argument is just funny because it’s just straight untrue. Women can control whether or not they want to hook up with someone or if they want to vet their character and look for a long term option, a small minority of men have that luxury, while a huge majority of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:55 PM
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Can a good man also be single, surely his personality would attract someone, right? Such is your implication if looks matter so little. There’s a very good reason a lot of people lie about their heights, it’s because they listen to what women do, not say mixed in with a lack of integrity to lie, but it works because again, appearance actually matters when getting your foot in the door, to genuinely argue against this has to either be ragebait or gaslighting Also a lot of bad things are reframed …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:48 PM
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Since I’ve begun browsing this sub I’ve seen women saying only women who are bad, exhibit red flags themselves, lack self awareness will tolerate bad men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:36 PM
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Surprised nobody was underneath to gaslight you somehow, I guess it’s just such a clear cut example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:29 PM
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What does the word implication mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:28 PM
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I can believe that, doesn’t mean women don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:27 PM
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Chris Brown, Wade Wilson, many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:24 PM
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Not just women, but people lie in surveys all the time, sometimes use common sense rather than demanding everything be backed up by peer-reviewed empirical studies lmao it isn’t a far-fetched claim
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:23 PM
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The implication being that every single man is a moral failure and evil, and toxic or abusive relationships do not exist because bad men’s personalities will be filtered out. If you think that’s true, then OK
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:20 PM
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Being a good man helps you maintain a successful relationship when you get into one. It doesn’t benefit someone when they want to actually get into a relationship, nor does it benefit someone on dating apps or if they want a hookup. It’s just good to be a good person in life, it won’t attract someone to you if you’re not good looking in their view
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:57 PM
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Is this person a know poster of garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:48 PM
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You’ve come around full circle to victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:46 PM
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😭😭😭 bad faith isn’t even the word, guys know ‘being nice’ won’t work but they keep being told what the guy above said, but if you don’t want to be reasoned with then ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:41 PM
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It’s a cycle where both sides will see the other being unempathetic (generous) about them and in turn be petty and vitriolic back and it just keeps going. No clue why people refuse to acknowledge issues exist for everyone, and when they do acknowledge them it’s to revel in someone’s suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:19 PM
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I didn’t say you said that women have it easier but you’ve gone to lengths to make that gap seem as small as possible. If women want to hook up they can easily do it, if they want a long-term relationship they can gauge the character of someone and do that. Like 80+% of guys don’t have that luxury of choice, and I’d say feeling unhappy or insecure about that is quite valid, that much can be acknowledged without showing how eager you are to dismiss any concern a male may have
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:50 AM
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Sure, but also if you’re that good looking people will approach you before realising that which is a privilege most don’t have
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:30 AM
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Not denying they aren’t loud about it, equally loud is the widespread villainisation of mostly normal people who wish they could take part in a normal human experience. Downplaying the fact that women have it far far easier in dating is wild
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:29 AM
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They’ll tell you what you read does not exist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:20 AM
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Hard to discuss in good faith with someone who dismisses valid concerns of others as crying and whaling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:17 AM
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For women (50%) and the top 20% men (10%) so for 60% per cent of the population yes, but your logic is not there whatsoever, you're right but not in the way you think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:40 PM
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Nowadays yes, historically women were defo oppressed though, but now the patriarchy is a boogeyman used to blame men for anything bad in the world going on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:35 PM
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