chroniconeitus Archive

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4	What advice do you wish someone told you before you first entered the bar/club scene? Go somewhere that plays the kind of music you like and with people you like. You're more likely to meet someone you have a lot in common with and you're more likely to fit in easier knowing the songs. Don't be afraid to have fun. Drink shots or buy a round if you want. Bust some awful shapes and dance like your Dad if you want. It's better than standing in your corner looking on Facebook because you're bored. If you go somewhere loud, going outside is great even if you don't smoke. Great place t…	/r/seduction	20/02/13 06:25 PM
1	The club scene seems pointless to me but it has the hottest chicks. Solution? I've always thought alternate music clubs (rock, indie, punk, dubstep) are better. It gives you something to talk about with people you meet and you're more likely to find someone you have a lot in common with.	/r/seduction	23/12/12 03:52 PM
1	Forget seduction, you guys have taught me how to just have a good time. British chicks are difficult but we're still working hard here in the UK! Out of curiosity, how was her bitch-shield amusing?	/r/seduction	16/10/11 01:03 AM
1	FR[15]: In a rut. =/ I find it easier alone too. When you are out as a lone wolf you are the leader of your own one man wolf pack, and you are making the decisions with confidence and not being subservient to another friend who seems to have naturally emerged as the leader. You are the leader. The hardest thing to get past is the approach anxiety. I do this by just asking random people random questions such as where the nearest shop is to buy cigarettes. Then I ask the bouncer or bartender if it's busy tonight. I co…	/r/seduction	11/10/11 04:44 PM
1	FR[15]: In a rut. =/ I'm in a similar rut. Although younger than you (21) I'm in a similar situation because here in the UK the drinking/clubbing minimum age is 18 but most people tend to start going out to bars at the age of about 16 because a lot of the doormen are very lenient and let pretty much anyone in to venues. I feel old already! I've finished University (college in US terms) but most of my friends are still there, or have girlfriends, so no-one wants to go out, my main reason for lone sarging. I've lone s…	/r/seduction	10/10/11 09:58 PM
1	Oneitis Is Starting To Seriously Hurting My Game I'm feeling your pain as well. And likewise, I got it even when it wasn't a serious thing. However my problem is that I'm kicking myself. Unlike the other way round, she seduced me, I had her, rejected her, regretted it and begged for her back. It was completely fault my and not hers. If she had rejected me I would be able to get over her easily because it's her loss. If I could go out and fuck 10 other women then I wouldn't have oneitus! It's a vicious circle but you'll climb out. There is no m…	/r/seduction	18/09/11 12:14 PM
1	What the fuck is wrong with me? The first approach you make will be the hardest.	/r/seduction	05/09/11 07:56 PM
1	Smoking and Pickup. I want to quit but feel like I would be losing an vital tool I only smoke when I go out now, and the only time is buy cigarettes is a 10 pack before going out. I would never smoke otherwise. It is a better way to start conversations. Clubs are far too loud nowadays for any meaningful conversation to take place (other than banter) unless you're seated in the corner, seats which are usually taken up. Or, if you want to give up completely just bring a lighter out with you.	/r/seduction	04/09/11 06:24 PM
1	I've fallen into "acquaintance zone" with a girl. How can I get us talking like friends again? On to the next. At least you tried but your mistake was not managing to keep up with her or potentially ask her out. You'll learn from that. She came and found you at that party so she wanted your company and attention but maybe you just weren't confident enough to say anything interesting/escalating. As you say oh well. Move on and keep at it, she won't be the only hot girl you'll win interest from. Go and find more and good luck with it. :)	/r/seduction	30/08/11 10:49 PM
1	I've fallen into "acquaintance zone" with a girl. How can I get us talking like friends again? "this gorgeous, sweet girl with the prettiest smile you have ever seen. I knew just from looking at her that she was someone I wanted to get to know" could easily be from a novel lol. But I can understand why those responses bore you because "being more alpha" is far more easily typed than done. How long have you not talked to her for? I really don't think it would be weird unless it was for over 2-3 weeks. But the thing is man, you've got to just make your mind up. What are you going to do? You…	/r/seduction	30/08/11 06:17 PM
2	Just started here... Welcome. :) College is a great environment for this stuff, and I wish I had made more of college than I did. So good luck.	/r/seduction	29/08/11 10:20 PM
1	I've fallen into "acquaintance zone" with a girl. How can I get us talking like friends again? Your story sounds very romantic. Maybe you care too much, she probably isn't the prettiest girl in the world out of over 3billion but if you think she is just ask her how she is next time you see her. What does she study at College? Where is she from? What are her interest? Ask her about them it will be better than small talk.	/r/seduction	29/08/11 07:54 PM
2	[FR] Trying to get a date with a HB8 car saleswoman trying to sell me a BMW convertible. I'm skeptical of trying to chat up a girl who is trying to sell me something, whether it be promo staff in clubs, girls in shops, charity fundraisers in town centres etc. I don't know if they really want to chat or just want my money. But I find it a good way to warm up and get my Approach Anxiety out the way. Because even though they just want your money it's a guaranteed easy conversation with a likely hot girl. Also, girls like this might sell cars or work in bars so they probably get dozens …	/r/seduction	29/08/11 07:24 PM
3	[FR] Learned some very valuable lessons last night as a recovering AFC. Night didn't end the way I wanted, but I'm on the right track. Think on the positives. You went from standing quietly in the corner to getting in amongst the crowd. It doesn't matter if you didn't get a number. Repeat what you did, you will meet many more girls and plenty more opportunities to #close like a boss.	/r/seduction	29/08/11 12:25 AM
1	On Assuming Attraction by Brad Branson from the RSD Newsletter "Why are these types of guys naturally good with girls? The short answer is... Because they are dumb." They are not dumb, they just haven't been driven to over-analysis of themselves and constant mental masturbation. So is it trying to say being a bit deluded is a good thing?	/r/seduction	29/08/11 12:22 AM
3	I'd like to make an offer: be vulnerable The incredible use of acronyms makes people's stories of going out and having fun seem systematic, and it's a bit depressing.	/r/seduction	29/08/11 12:18 AM
1	The old Catch 22 rears its ugly head once more Ah hugs man, you've had a tough time and judging by you feeling like shit breaking someone's heart, you seem like a Good Guy Greg who doesn't deserve this. "I know that strength, dominance, and aloofness are what "works," but I hate having to play games and hide my true feelings all the time. I'd just once in my life like to have a partner with whom I could just be honest without fear of losing her." It could be your fear of expressing your true feelings that is limiting you, perhaps? I'm cluele…	/r/seduction	28/08/11 07:54 PM
8	Anyone else come to seddit anyway but realize a majority of the information here doesn't apply to them? "I feel like I missed out on so many experiences I should have had in high school or the dorm life of a university. I'm in the states but due to my age I can't drink yet." I assume you're not even a quarter of the way through your life yet, so you really haven't missed out on much.	/r/seduction	28/08/11 07:42 PM
1	I might be Seddit's greatest challenge yet. Wow. Apart from a three of the bullet points and me being a little younger, I could have written all those bullet points myself. "I don't care enough. I really want to want to be better at this." I used to be like this, only reading Seddit occasionally and passively with no real desire to get better but a devastating incident with a woman only recently motivated me to sort myself out. Though the fact that you stated you were successful and good-looking is good surely, but it's clear that you don…	/r/seduction	28/08/11 07:33 PM
3	How many people over 20 are still virgins? 21 but it's weird because I kind of don't feel like I am, even though I am, if you know what I mean. I know you're 25 but 25 is still young. You just need to stop kicking yourself and thinking that you've wasted time and opportunites because you haven't. You might have learnt the hard way that you need to embrace sex and go out and do it but that's the hardest thing. I'm struggling with that now.	/r/seduction	01/08/11 10:27 PM
1	Off like a light switch It was probably because you didn't sleep with her. I was seeing a girl recently and if I had been reading this subreddit properly while I was I would have noticed the BLATANT fact that she was begging for me to sleep with her on more than one occasion. After I choked on the third chance, she gradually stopped answering my texts, started ignoring my calls and took efforts to avoid any social gatherings with mutual friends that I would have likely attended.	/r/seduction	19/07/11 06:29 PM
1	Sorry Seddit How much worse can it get and how can I stop it getting worse?	/r/seduction	17/07/11 11:25 AM
1	Sorry Seddit I can see the logic to this. But it's exactly what I'm working on now, and it could take about a year. Also it means I'd be out of practise if I wasn't picking up chicks then. I could have a nice £50,000 a year job, a nice flat, an Audi A4 etc, but I still wouldn't have many friends and I certainly wouldn't be able to pick up girls, apart from gold diggers.	/r/seduction	17/07/11 11:00 AM
1	Sorry Seddit Read the fastseduction.com/youarenew. This is excellent. Thanks. Although reading the bit about why ordinary girls get laid makes me worry that I might have just been lucky with the above mentioned girl? Edit: Also started reading Without Embarrassment. I like the style of it, but I'm past the stage of being a socially awkward nerd now.	/r/seduction	17/07/11 10:55 AM
1	Sorry Seddit I've already read it but do sometimes need a re-read every so often.	/r/seduction	17/07/11 12:52 AM
1	Any seddit member in Berlin would like to help me out on my game? You can't be the only Mexican in Berlin! Also, I assume your fluent in Spanish and English? If so use that to your advantage. Get involved in Berlin's nightlife, tell people why you are there for a couple of months.	/r/seduction	14/07/11 11:32 PM
1	A Most Adroit Maneuver What's the five question game?	/r/seduction	14/07/11 11:19 PM
1	No point now, what a shitty day. She's smart, funny, beautiful; everything you're afraid to let yourself want. Internet hugs man, I know how you're feeling. If you attracted a girl like this, you can do it again. Come back on Seddit when you've calmed down and get back to the drawing board.	/r/seduction	14/07/11 11:09 PM
1	FR of 18 months of slow progress, where now Seddit? How do I find girl as high quality as this again Seddit? I know I can but I just don't know where to look and I don't know what I clearly seemed to have been doing so well again.	/r/seduction	14/07/11 10:37 PM
1	FR of 18 months of slow progress, where now Seddit? Good reading there. I am riddled with chronic oneitus but I am working on it by doing everything I enjoy, running, blogging, Djing, playing FIFA but it's difficult when there aren't many females around (in my hometown in England which is a bit of cockfest) so I don't have faith that I will ever have such a golden opportunity again. I can psyche myself up with the stuff Tofu was saying because I know I can attract some hot girls, I just forget it in the most crucial situations. Cheers for the goo…	/r/seduction	14/07/11 02:50 PM
1	FR of 18 months of slow progress, where now Seddit? All done with University, trying to start my own online news website at the moment. I will get out there, I'm just worried that the invisible psychological cockblock will return. I hope HB9 seems irrelevant one day but I still can't help but think what could have been. Will approaching more girls, getting #closes and k-closes make me forget about her? Because at the moment it isn't but that's probably because I'm not doing it enough. It just feels annoying that I seem to have taken one step forw…	/r/seduction	14/07/11 02:38 PM
1	FR of 18 months of slow progress, where now Seddit? Yes it's annoying being able to do everything apart from actually have sex. The HB9 is definitely out of the window, I fucked it up. Where am I going to get as good an opportunity with a HB9 who looks like Natalie Portman again? Problem is I've left Uni now, I live with my parents, I'm unemployed, I don't have enough money to go out more than once a week, all my friends are AFCs. Believe me I am working on all of the above problems it's just how do I get out there?	/r/seduction	14/07/11 02:08 PM