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chungkingxbricks/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:10 PM
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13

I am so. Fucking. Angry. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:38 AM
3

Ah, no. All those upvotes are from minute men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:25 AM
2

I’m so over this excuse. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:16 AM
3

I've wondered about Dr. Grande too. If you think about it, having a successful youtube channel where you're constantly giving advice and being praised is a narcissist's dream... I personally like youtubers who don't just sit in front of the camera jabbering away all day. They seem more genuine to me. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:24 PM
9

I think she responded professionally and as good as she could without getting involved. She's moved on from their relationship it seems and wants to keep it that way. She probably only spoke out because people were pressuring her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:10 PM
1

I only realized that when all this came out. I was shocked and sickened to say the least. And to think their relationship has been "stanned" everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:03 PM
2

I agree. It's as if we live in an age where we're not allowed to hold people responsible for their actions (this is a huge umbrella). It's frustrating and these people are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:14 PM
2

"I'm super honest." "I'm super smart." "Women love me." All the exact opposite and it took me years of brainwashing to finally see the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:35 PM
5

Apparently you're a "SWERF" if you don't bow down and say "sex work is work!" So swerf I am, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:29 PM
3

I hate how we let our emotions (or toxic males) manipulate us. I would've been this dumb at one point too. Not again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:08 PM
7

Yep, so many women are desperate to live up to society's standards of not being alone. It's sad and fuck that! Time to leave and stop procreating with narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:50 PM
43

The comment that "rape will increase if sex work isn't available" is one of the dumbest things. Pretty sure Ted Bundy's long term gf was sleeping with him. All I hear is lame excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:41 PM
1

I don’t think it’s empowering to them. I think they’re insecure and looking for validation. Just my thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:26 PM
1

I almost wish that a group of us ladies could get together and throw out our morals for a weekend and apply this mentality. Unfortunately we all know that the message would get lost. Edit: I meant the whole robbing men who look like they’re rich part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:25 PM
2

FACTS 💯 I’m fucking pissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:17 PM
15

Emotionally stupid males get offended by being called out. Who’d uh thunk it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:03 PM
5

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:53 AM
6

Goals minus the puppy fur.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:09 AM
2

Being that I am no longer in my 20s, that’s a definite yes for me. I’ve given rides and driven around way too many losers. That shits gonna stay in my 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:04 AM
6

My breaking point was lack of respect and losing his temper. I had put up with it long enough. I even told him that if he lost it on me one more time I was done. I owed it to myself to live up to that and I’m so glad that I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:02 AM
6

I can sadly attest that you cannot buy a man’s love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:43 AM
35

I don’t understand why any woman would think it’s OK for 36-year-old man to live at home with his parents. Unless something tragic happened, I don’t see how that’s attractive at all. He sounds like a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:21 AM
3

It’s like we don’t already know this. It’s so insulting how men think women are so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:27 PM
4

Dump any guy or friend who can’t take criticism when they’re wrong. That extra stress will cause too many headaches. Not worth it. Believe me, I know :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:22 PM
6

I’m sorry. That’s not right. I hope this community can help with any pain that’s caused. This community has been so helpful for my self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:21 PM
1

LOSER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:18 PM
4

The only credit I’ll give him and it’s still too much at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:15 PM
6

Man that dude is ugly as fuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:13 PM
14

Their egos are frail and those types can’t understand that women are not always the emotionally invested bimbo on screen. Ffs. Our world does not revolve around men and they don’t understand that? It’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:11 PM
3

My mom got me this book a while ago and I always felt bad for not reading it. I think my mom had good intentions (she definitely doesn’t encourage pick me behavior though she’s made some bad choices of partners bc of her abusive past). Guess it’s good I followed my instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:09 PM
13

Lots of mothers love to baby their sons and dehumanize their daughters. It’s internalized misogyny and very fucked up. Pisses me off so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:54 PM
3

I don’t feel bad for guys like this bc they’re clearly delusional. I’m sure she gave signs that she would not say yes. Also, some women don’t like super flashy shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:52 PM
22

Mine too. They're so fucking out of touch it's incredibly infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:16 PM
31

I bet if women masturbated to sexy, chiseled men constantly, the bf/fiance/hubby wouldn't like it too much. But they never want to empathize and see things from another perspective. Go figure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:32 PM
1

She has said that she's not a feminist in the past and to me, her saying she's "not not" a feminist is her still not being able to embrace the term feminist while also wanting feminism to embrace her. It's a cop out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 03:02 PM
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I could understand that if that's what she meant, but it didn't come across that way to me and she didn't really clear that up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:59 PM
1

I think she's super ignorant to think she's the only woman who "says no but men hear yes," the only woman that men hate, and the only woman to receive criticism for being "fragile." WTF is she on about? I think she was super mad and emotionally charged at the time because I can't reason why she would post it otherwise. She wants feminism to embrace her pick-me vibes while not changing her ways. She's so grossly privileged and I'll say it again, ignorant. Her responses to this post prove that eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:56 PM
3

Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:35 PM
2

Usually narcissists. Their truth is only their opinion but to them it is FACT. You can’t win with those people. Ain’t worth trying. No contact!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:28 PM
3

Same. The “lose you to love me” song really hit me in the feels. And “look at her now” is also empowering. I’m so glad that she got out of that situation. I hope that Hailey does one day too. It’s going to be very painful but very worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:57 AM
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He’s a straight up narcissist that’s why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:56 AM
2

I hate this guy!! 😡😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:53 AM
1

That was me sadly but not again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:19 AM
2

Sounds like a psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:51 AM
11

Smart women are less easy to control. They also will call you out on your shit and not just shut up and smile. Makes sense why most losers wouldn’t like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:55 PM
13

What a pathetic loser. I fucking hope that she leaves him in the dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:29 PM
1

I love that movie for sentimental reasons, but you have great points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:55 PM
3

There was a post a couple of months ago asking what the community thought of her themes and such. You can find it if you search her name in FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:28 PM
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Ok, but this video lines up so perfectly with the song and gives it a whole new meaning. I didn't get into the show, but just proves how just cus a man wants to fuck you doesn't mean he likes you. I wonder if that's the message they got across? I love this video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:27 PM
2

I’m not aware of anyone dragging her recently. Maybe she stumbled onto FDS and got triggered by that last post about her lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:15 PM
35

My narcissistic ex would threaten suicide when his ego was hurt. That's really all it takes with some men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:25 PM
3

Yass queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:22 PM
4

I don’t know either. She just got emotionally charged and had to post this? Guess she’s mad she’s never had a number one single? I honestly don’t know. Her musical themes haven’t changed either really that I can tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:17 PM
13

I really want to repost this on her post. Her stans r WIIILD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:40 PM
27

Was hoping someone posted this! I think it’s hilarious how she constantly claims to not be a feminist (in a condescending way) but she wants feminists to embrace her and her unhealthy lifestyle? I love her aesthetic but this is 😒 to me. Why say “not not a feminist?!” Im glad she realizes her past relationships were unhealthy but...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:35 PM
1

Every time I read a post by men about their wives on reddit, I’m less interested in marriage. It sounds like literal torture. Edit. Same when it’s women talking about their hubs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:30 PM
22

For real. Some men really be trying to break my back 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:27 PM
8

Yeah I mean...it just makes no sense. I can’t think of a dad who wouldn’t want a guy to take care of his daughter like that. I mean pay for dates. Obvs just another “feminist” man who’s actually misogynist if true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:26 PM
10

Same! I’m treated like an angry grandma because my life and worth is not ruled by appeasing men. Like that’s so fucked up of me. It never gets old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:20 PM
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It’s real sad how women think they need to find a man and so they just go with whatever loser they get. Women also know men are dangerous so maybe they think it’s easier to not poke the bear? In other news, I do think more and more women are realizing they’re happier single than in their marriages and are kicking men to the curb. All I can hope is for women everywhere to realize that. Being single isn’t the worse thing to happen. Dating/marrying a LVM can be. It can ruin you mentally and in so m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:16 PM
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Nope, he would’ve said it was sex gone wrong and blame her for “consenting.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:09 PM
2

“Crazybitchprobs”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:04 PM
1

She posted something today or yesterday about how she's sick of getting crucified for singing about glorifying abuse while other female artists like Ariana Grande sing about "fucking, cheating, etc." Lana still claims to not be a feminist but wants feminists to embrace her and her submissive notions. What do we think about this? I started to write a reply on her instagram then I figured she'd never see it, so I didn't. I think she needs to grow up? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:17 PM
4

It never gets old how men and women alike think if you're single, "you'll find someone eventually," like all single ladies hate being single. I'd say more single men hate it then single women. My main objective in life is not to find a man to love me. It comes with benefits, but so does staying single. My time is too precious to waste on a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:35 PM
8

Pick me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:32 PM
9

"Go on, take the money and run Hoo-hoo-hoo, go on, take the money and run Go on, take the money and run"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:36 PM
2

I feel seen ™️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:40 AM
3

💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:34 AM
14

He’s always seemed like a narcissistic asshole. Selena leveled up. Hailey unfortunately puts up with his garbage self. At least that’s what it seems like from an outsider’s perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:00 AM
3

Sadly, I accepted “accident” too many times. I now know that was rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:48 AM
2

Ew I hope she leaves. I hope she has a good support system. It’s so much harder to leave when you don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:25 AM
1

Leave him! He’s scary asf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:22 AM
10

I can relate. I dated a narcissist for 5+ years and it still affects me. We ended it for good a year ago. It’s a long story, but things he’s said to me still haunt me. Things like, “there’s a million other girls just like you,” or telling me I’m stupid and untalented. It’s been a process but I just try to remember that those things aren’t true. I try to focus on doing things for myself and validating myself. I also try to forgive myself. He brainwashed me so I try to give myself grace even thoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 04:55 AM
6

I could feel his hand on my neck. Don’t ever trust a man who does this to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:42 AM
4

I agree. It sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:35 AM
9

THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:23 PM
61

Yeah the male ego is the most fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:22 PM
39

It's a good way to sniff one out. If they get upset that you don't disclose or if they even ask you...red flag and a pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:21 PM
3

💯 they run when they’re figured out. If they can’t use and manipulate you, they have no interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:33 PM
2

Yeah my LTR was with a narc. He def fooled me. Been trying to learn as much as I can to prevent that from happening again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:31 PM
5

Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:29 PM
4

And he taped it! Yep he definitely didn’t know what he was doing...def TaLk To HiM about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:28 PM
8

Feel sorry for his wife 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:21 PM
6

Funny how LVMs love to insist they know more about women than women. Like if they would actually listen to this advice (from a woman), it would work. LVMs simply don’t care, are selfish, and need to be eradicated from the earth. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:20 PM
20

A common excuse my ex used to deflect responsibility for contributing anything to our relationship. Sex was the only thing he was interested in. I too was so stupid. Not again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:14 PM
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Marriage is definitely bad for WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:10 PM
11

🤮🤮🤮🤬🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:41 AM
28

Men whose name starts with J are a special kind of evil for me 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:38 AM
3

Yes!!! 🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:19 AM
4

I hope his dick falls off and she finds a better man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:15 AM
5

Yep narcissists use this tactic a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:53 AM
6

Even better is that most men purposely and calculatingly take advantage of women they believe have “daddy issues.” It’s every narcissist’s, sociopath’s, and rapist’s dream. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:49 AM
17

If I had a dollar for every time a man blamed porn and prostitution on women and their desire to take advantage of men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:39 AM
17

Fuck I knew something more sinister was up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:36 AM
4

I'm a fan, but I totally get you. She self proclaimed to not be a feminist which really pissed me off and made me realize I shouldn't look up to her. I'm a romantic so her music used to just do it for me. Now I only listen to her when I'm moody. I don't like the things she promotes and wish she'd send out a better message. Her fans are super loyal and would eat it up like anything she does. Overall, I just like her retro aesthetic. She definitely gives me vibes of the typical pop star who just w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:26 PM
6

truth about Lana Del Rey Thanks, I will check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:12 PM
17

Sounds more like an abusive monster to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:59 PM
36

Made a huge mistake of dating a narcissist. Didn't know it at the time. Had never even heard for the term. So many years lost and so much psychological damage. Don't do it. It's not worth your peace because sadly, your love is not enough to "save" him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:56 PM
3

The problem is if you treat women this way they become way less exploitable and many people don't want that. Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:55 PM
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These men are just upset that they have to think about consequences now - exactly how anyone of any privilege would react. Sounds a lot like the #METOO movement in the sense that men are now scared of being ~falsely~ accused of sexual misconduct. Yeah, no, you just don't want consequences which shows your male privilege. I struggle to think of ONE woman I know that hasn't been sexually abused by a man. Not just harassed, ABUSED. Men love to live in denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:28 PM
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LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:16 PM
6

Holy fucking shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:57 PM
7

Yeah my ex lives to feed off of others. Always finding someone to pay his bills or let him crash for a “while.” Manipulating people into giving him free drugs and booze (he’s an addict). I was that person too but thank Goddess I saw the light. It’s definitely helped that I had friends and family who knew he was bad news. Luckily my close circle has standards for me even if not for themselves lol. I hate all the time I wasted on that piece of hot burning garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:37 PM
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Yep!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:31 PM
9

Agreed! All good, sound points, and can confirm the accuracy. I’m done with broke dudes too. My longest relationship was with one and he constantly blamed me for his brokeness, claimed I was a gold digger (that’s why I dated a broke ass for years and years), and ultimately was just a whiny narcissist. Call me what you may, but I deserve better. I’ve never not had a job, pay for all my shit, have my own place, a couple of pets, etc. Why settle for a lame ass male? Good sex ain’t worth it either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:28 PM
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DoN’t PuT mEn DoWn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:17 AM
4

A slut has more than 5 partners by 30 lmao ok. Hope he never has children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:12 AM
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Unfortunately they would still just blame the woman. Why is it that so many men have no capability of self reflection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:03 AM
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One of the many hurtful things he said was after several years of dating when we were in a fight, “I only dated you for the consistent sex.” That was one of the honest things he said to me. One truth mixed with many lies. He’s as LV as they get. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:37 PM
6

Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:12 PM
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Ew. I honestly don't think I can lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:15 PM
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And people call us crazy. People love to live in denial don’t they? This is the patriarchy at its finest. If you still don’t believe in itafter hearing stories like this, you’re a deluded pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:58 PM
2

This picture makes me want to vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:20 PM
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I’d say don’t take their opinions seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:16 PM
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Oh man, the number of guys who’s love language is “touch.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:13 PM
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I mean he would clean when I asked him to and was very submissive but only when he was dressed in women's clothing. It was a humiliation fetish tied up with a crossdressing fetish. He got off on the humiliation of being called a she etc. I wish I had never accepted that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:52 PM
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I got jealous easily and became violent during heated arguments. Backstory: he’s a narcissist and I should’ve left after the first few months. Ended up staying around for 7 years. I became a person I didn’t recognize. He was the only man I’ve ever been in love with that I dated. Our relationship was terribly toxic. 😒 It changed me as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:00 AM
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Was like this with the only man I fell in love with. I stopped hanging out with ALL my friends pretty much. Now I’ve successfully weeded out all males from my life except family and coworkers. My female relationships are the most important to me now. I’ve realized men just tend to complicate things. Luckily my friends are true OGs who aren’t dramatic. While a lot are pickmeishas, I’ve been able to sway some to GC feminism. 🙌 It’s really been good for my mental health tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:19 AM
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How is it that women are seemingly more desperate for male attention and validation now than before? I mean I think I might’ve just answered my own question in my head but seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:43 AM
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Yep there’s dozens of women who would settle for anything. Not me. Not us. 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:35 AM
3

Yep. All my married friends (Like 3) are not happy and were pressured to get married bc of religion. I hate it for them. At least one of the guys is ok but the other two are total pricks and my friends won’t leave them. There are many reasons I don’t like religion and this is one. I can think of many women in my life, my mom included, who would’ve been better off not married to these men. The icing on the cake is that 2 of them have been married over a year or two and have never had an orgasm-wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:29 AM
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What a douche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:19 AM
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My ex’s fetish was humiliation. He’s fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:17 AM
12

Penis head. Not the good kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:23 AM
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Men like this are trash that should be castrated 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:18 AM
7

😒😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:13 AM
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Omg “6 foot 5 in heels” did we stumble upon the same jerk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:28 PM
4

Dump his ass. You will save yourself so much time and energy. It’s hard but you will get through it! He’s a loser 101. You deserve better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:51 AM
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Um... that’s a no from me dawg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:35 AM
2

Seriously! Campaign for LVMs to not procreate, ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:24 AM
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Mmmm yes all I wanna be is a ~good wyfe~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:15 AM
5

Smack or shake my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:12 AM
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I wonder if it has something to do with religion? I don’t know if she’s religious but I’m sick of women finding reasons to stay with a cheater. To me the kids are better off if you leave his ass. I think me and my brother would’ve been fine if my mom had left my dad way before she did. Beyoncé doesn’t even need his money so i don’t know what reason she came up with to stay. Anyone with a brain and dignity wouldn’t judge her. So many people are afraid of getting divorced because of what people th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:10 AM
3

Check, check, check, you get my point. By old self!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:46 AM
3

That made me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:40 AM
1

Um, what? Lmao. Please whoever you are, don’t fuck this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:21 AM
7

Ignore phone call. Block and never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:14 AM
2

God this was me and I wasn’t allowed to be mad about it lest he rage and scream at me. How I was that blind...desperate codependent pickmeisha. Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:11 AM
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She seems a bit nutty. I think Tommy Lee really fucked her up. Him and Kid Rock. Oh, and Rick Salomon...She has horrible taste...which is why I think she’s messed up with some kind of trauma. She’s been used, abused, and spit out by too many LVMs. She needs FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:01 AM
6

Damn I should be rich based on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:49 AM
1

LOL ok. Sure that’s gotten him HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:54 PM
6

This reminds me of the movie coming out called Promising Young Woman. It’s about a woman who pretends to be drunk at bars and gets taken back to “nice guys’” apartments only to punish them for their rapey behavior. Can’t wait to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:25 PM
7

This reminds me of me and my ex when we were in limbo. He was a narcissist but a damn crybaby. He cried constantly actually. I let that work for a while (I’d just roll my eyes and let him boo hoo-mind you it was usually over me asking something of him and him not wanting to do it). I remember one time close to when I finally pulled the plug, he started crying over something and I simply said, “you’re crying is not going to work this time.” He immediately went from full on snot sobbing to compose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:09 PM
3

Thank you. So glad I found this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:50 PM
37

Yes, highly insecure women who are riddled with internal misogyny. They probably get an ego boost knowing he chooses them (sometimes) over his wife. Just a guess. I personally hate homewreckers, female or male. I hate the cheater too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:12 PM
4

Disgusting 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:10 PM
6

No one would ever love me like them (god I hope not). I would never find another like them (again, god I hope not). That I’m too old and I’ve peaked. Meanwhile most men can’t believe I’m actually my age. That LVM was a narcissist and damn good at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:01 PM
12

Funny, because I gave up my dreams to pursue his, literally fed him, coddled his emotions, inflated his ego, stood up for him, let him live at my place too many days rent free (he lived with his dad rent free), finally stopped “badgering” him about not having a job (bc it made him feel bad), offered to literally take care of him financially and otherwise, never said no to sex, let his sex fetishes into our sex live (HUGE MISTAKE), let him go out with his friends and spend money on drinks while h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:56 PM
6

Yep and Corey was a real jerk too. I always liked Shawn but realized how shitty Corey was the older I got. Shawn wasn’t horribly different, but for the hand he was dealt, he could’ve been worse. At least he showed respect towards women and people in general the older he got. We got to see him really grow. Corey on the other hand, never did really grow past his teenage self. Please enlighten me if I’m wrong. Haven’t seen the show in a while, but Shawn’s shittiest behavior I can think of was when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:46 PM
5

Divorce his sorry ass, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:17 PM
14

Dump him, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:05 PM
51

His bit was so fucking funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:39 PM
3

Lol for fucks sake can women please stop procreating with these bum fuck pieces of shit? They’re helping to ruin the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:17 AM
1

🤪I bet a sad pickmeisha write this after sh stayed with her cheating baby daddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:10 AM
2

Vice is garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:00 AM
2

Just when I thought it couldn’t get worse, I keep reading and it does. Jesus 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:56 AM
12

Take her out with no money? That’d be the first and last date for me. He’s obvs LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:33 AM
11

I’ve always wanted to date a homeless man! Thanks, sis! But Wait...I have! 😕 (my bum ex who lived with daddy)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:29 AM
9

Yep!! God, it’s INFURIATING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 07:53 PM
36

Seriously this would solve a lot of the world’s problems. If women stopped having these losers’ children we would lose a significant amount of the population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 07:48 PM
2

Hm, well I'm open to that. I only want to have a child with a man if he's high value and will be a good father and partner, so we'll see lol. Got a lot more weeding out to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:27 PM
4

Fuck that guy. At least now you know you made the right choice. If you didn’t already, this is it. I hope u feel better. I know ur mind is probably being mean to you right now but just believe you are better off and you are valuable and deserve better. ❤️ let yourself feel the feels. Time will heal the wounds. I only know bc I’ve been there too. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:52 AM
5

Damn I like me a good beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:45 AM
8

FUCK 😞 I wanted to have kids in my late 30s with a man around the same age. Guess we’ll see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:40 AM
4

That’s DISGUSTING. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:39 AM
8

Thank you for this! All great points! Truth hurts. And if women really came together and had collective self respect, LVM would hopefully die out. All we can do is continue to have self respect and boundaries (plus everything else u said). 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:35 AM
6

Yeah...I don't either lol. I feel bad for her bc her slimy ex cheated on her with a basic looking nanny. I'm sure that fucked with her self-esteem. That's my only reason why she got with Blake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 04:55 PM
11

He’s never been attractive to me and this relationship baffles me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:59 PM
9

Yes! Absolute yes! Especially women who don’t want to be alone. Been there lol uhg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:15 AM
1

I thought I was the only one! I don’t see them often but I’ve seen my fair share and I don’t know why but it really turns me off too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:11 AM
1

Bad teeth, bad hygiene, back hair, and men shorter than 5’8.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:10 AM
6

That was literally my response to my ex who always claimed I just wanted money in a relationship. He was a broke ass loser who barely ever had a job, living with his dad while I was working full-time living on my own. I told him many times it wasn’t about the money, it was just about feeling appreciated. Telling him that I would feel appreciated and loved if maybe he took me out every once in a while or maybe went out with me and did some things that cost money. (I spent so much money on him cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:53 AM
6

What a horrible man. It’s so goddamn ridiculous to me that men get upset when women won’t do sexual things that they’ve seen in porn. I hate these types! And sadly it’s 90% of men! The only thing that I have a double standard about is that I am not down with a man that won’t eat pussy 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:25 AM
23

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:16 AM
5

Why not just buy a robot? Men are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 09:22 PM
8

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 09:12 PM
60

I'll always be grateful for 2 of my male gay friends who were physically present when my ex came banging on my door when I ignored his phone calls after a break up. His eyes were crazy and I'm sure it would've gone horribly if my male friends weren't there. He and one of them almost got into a fight too. I was conditioned to accept his abusive behavior by that point. That last freak out of his was the final straw, and with my friends there to support me, I finally felt strong enough to let him g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:15 PM
130

If it doesn't happen to them, it must not be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:15 PM
17

Great point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:56 PM
10

Penis Creature XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:35 PM
10

Hope she wakes up and hightails it outa there! Psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:32 PM
11

I just don’t think you can know someone well enough in 1-2 years but everyone is different. I also don’t want to get divorced so I’m not personally sold on the idea of marriage. Yes, my life experiences have brought me to this conclusion. I’m open minded, but pretty jaded. Now if I was engaged, I don’t think I’d want to be engaged for years unless I was scared of getting married but then I probably wouldn’t say yes to the proposal if that was the case. Just like I said no before. Glad I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:41 PM
4

Shit, been there too. Wtf is up with those losers? In my case, he had a horrible relationship with his mom and I think he wanted a woman to replace her in the mommy way. Grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 10:53 PM
5

And most women see that as romantic! That's why so many women marry absolute awful scumbags. The movies and media have fed us some tasty bullshit for some time now, and they don't seem to have any plans to stop. So much ignorance in humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:33 PM
12

"An overweight gamer" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:21 PM
3

Thank you. It was probably the hardest thing I’ve ever done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:24 AM
15

Oh my God. This reminds me of my ex. He would get upset that I was upset at him for treating me like shit. Everything was always my fault. He’s a narcissist and the worst kind of human. Fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:23 PM
3

It’s so depressing how many of my newly wed gal friends haven’t had an orgasm. And they waited until marriage with these men. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:05 PM
23

🙌🙌 also saw a woman say something like, “I am not an independent woman. I am a woman.” Talking about how you never hear someone say, “what an independent man!” They just say, “look at that man.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:10 PM
2

Confidence is definitely something I struggle with when it comes to men. I think it has to do with my father and dating a man like my father did not help. I always think that I have nothing to offer and it’s something I’ve been really trying to deal with and grow from this past year but some days it is very hard. I still struggle a lot. Any advice would be great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:01 AM
1

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:43 AM
3

Please run! The way he treated you after having sex is ridiculous. It seems like that’s all he wanted and he got it. Also him being super nice and love bombing you and meeting your friends and coworkers and him introducing his right off the bat is a big red flag and reminds me of my exes that were controlling or a bit mentally psycho/emotionally detached. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this but please know you are worth more than this and he is not worth your time. Keep him blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:31 AM
1

I mean, I’ve been saying I am not surprised because she is an American woman but by that I mean she is not down with the bullshit royal family crap. That she knows what she wants and will stand up for herself. A modern day American woman (well some of us).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:35 AM
3

I love that movie but I hate it at the same time because I feel like it’s completely unrealistic 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:31 AM
1

Ok thanks! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:22 AM
5

It’s sickening bc it’s our REALITY. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:09 AM
5

There’s always a higher standard for women but we never get credit for doing anything. It’s goddamn sickening. It’s also maddening that while so many women should be aware of this, they don’t believe in misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:34 AM
2

Can you tell me what OLD means? I tried to open the wiki page for the vocabulary page several times and it won’t load.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:31 AM
7

Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:13 AM
9

Any man that is living with his mother and not paying bills at the age of 53 is a complete loser. God he must be the hottest man to ever walk the earth for her to put up with that shit. It‘s sad how even smart women put up with the basic bare minimum from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:49 AM
5

Thank you for the support!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:36 AM
13

God, I relate so much to this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 10:53 PM
18

I finally broke up with a LVM last March after being together 5 years and then breaking up and going back and forth for 2 years...Uhg. He fooled me for the last time. I took the rest of last year to focus on myself and try to heal. I hadn’t really been dating because I really wanted to be alone for once. I decided to get on tinder towards the end of the year and matched with this guy that I ended up knowing from high school. We talked for about a month before he asked me to hang out for New Year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 10:37 PM
73

Someone pointed out how he doesn’t do this with boys. He also acts this way with Billie Eilish who just turned 18 recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:25 AM
13

Love her follow up tweet! Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 03:21 PM
4

Yeah dude cus you know...that commenter has probably never had sex but fapped relentlessly to porn. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:22 PM
2

Def porn if nothing else. Also, addictions cause ED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:05 PM
1

🤣💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:03 PM
2

Nope. That’s definitely NOT a guarantee. Look at his RELATIONSHIPS with his sisters. That’s more telling in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:58 PM
8

Oh no no no. I can’t even read this. 🤢🤮😡🤬🤬 Burn in the afterlife, you fucking MONSTER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:38 PM
17

Yep. No more losers for me. Period!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:36 PM
8

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:21 PM
3

WoW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:09 PM
61

LVM want a woman who thinks she's less than or unimportant so they cant manipulate and control her. This guy is def a LVM. Pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 02:50 PM
2

Good for you! May they rot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:21 PM
9

My ex would tell me no one liked me (including all my friends) when in reality they loved me. HE was the one they didn’t like. Hate that I fell for his lies (he’s also a narcissist) and I’m certain he’ll live a miserable life, but I won’t be a part of it, yippie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:50 AM
2

Yep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:59 PM
19

And it's the most telling if it's early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:48 PM
3

Loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:47 PM
14

Me too thank goddess. My support system saved me. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:00 PM
11

His nagging comment is a red flag. He’s not worth the mental gymnastics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:42 PM
5

😂😂😂🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:35 PM
26

My ex literally cried every time I told him I was upset about something. Of course it took all focus off me and put it all on him and his needs. I hate that I fell for it for so long. Glad he's gone. I still haven't forgiven him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:07 PM
75

I'm sorry. I've been in a similar situation. I started crying and he laughed at me. I then believed something was wrong with ME because I was crying. He is such a horrible person and I'm glad we woke up to their narcissism!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:04 PM
25

At this point, that response would get a proper "LOL" from me. See ya, sucker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:02 PM
6

That is hard, because unfortunately, in my experience, even my close allies do not take it well and label me as bitch. Men blow when it comes to women's rights lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 08:52 PM
15

I'm glad I'm finally at a point in my life where I can tell a man I'm not interested in them if they ask me out. No more excuses cus fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 04:24 PM
12

That was my first thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 04:21 PM
52

I'm trying to figure out if men have always avoided responsibility as long as they've existed, or if it is a newer thing to do (like newer centuries). I just don't understand. They will always blame a woman in their life for their problems while simultaneously never holding themselves or their male friends accountable for anything they do. This is opposite of most women I know. Most women also blame themselves for problems in their life (of course there's exceptions). It's things like this that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 04:19 PM
62

Time for women to be rude and stop playing nice just to not hurt a man's feelings. They sure don't mind if they hurt ours most of the time. Also in this scenario, she is not being rude. That is just how men have made us feel when we say no after they don't take no for an answer. If someone won't respect your boundaries, there is no reason to care about how your response affects them. They have disrespected you first while you were respecting them but fail to see that. Most people lack self-aware…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 04:16 PM
8

I don’t think the things you listed are kinky. They’re also not degrading as someone posted is the deal with a lot of male kinks. If something does seems degrading to you, steer clear because you deserve to feel happy and safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:54 AM
3

Lol, sure his apartment isn't always like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 11:09 PM
2

That's the benefit in the US too, but other than those things, I don't see the point. Those things aren't a good enough reason to me either for the most part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 10:46 PM
11

it really just puts it into perspective how much being a straight woman is an absolute curse. Facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 09:36 PM
3

That would be so useful for women everywhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 09:34 PM
8

Wow, good points. I'll add that whenever I tell men my stories, they just label me a man-hating feminist [because my anger has no grounds regardless of how abusive my ex was because "not all men are like that, and you just chose a shitty one, so it's still your fault,"] so there really is no win like you said. I will keep this in mind and try telling them how great I've been treated. It'll be an experiment if nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 09:33 PM
15

Convincing a man to marry you sounds horrible and like he really doesn't want to. That'll end up in divorce and cheating most likely. You can be monogamous without being married. She didn't say you have to be poly. I agree that marriage is bullshit. There's only benefits with children involved and when someone is sick or dies. Most women married to have an income over the ages. With more women taking care of themselves financially now, it doesn't make much sense to me, but to each her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 09:29 PM
15

these women believe their skiddlyboop is so magical and special that she will bring out the inner decent person and permanently reform an asshole It's true and unfortunate how many women believe they can change a man. I believed it once too. Men will tell you they'll change to make it worse. I just hope all women learn this is bullshit at some point. Men will not change, and if they do, they will revert once they've gotten what they want or once they realize they've been forgiven, i.e. they don'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 09:19 PM
2

This is a sad realization. I don’t want to settle for their BS validation. Any counter tips? I’m emotionally unavailable at all times and had my heart broken by a past love. We were together on and off for 7 years. He’s a narcissist so I decided to end it bc I finally saw my value. Do you believe all men are like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:16 PM
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