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1	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is I don't think I'm extremely attractive, but I've only been able to get NSA sex from tinder as a guy, I've never been in a relationship or been on a second date, even though that's what I'm looking for, so I don't know if what you're saying is true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 04:28 PM
2	“Just build a social circle bruh” isn’t a viable solution for average looking non neurotypical introverted men I don't think that I've ever seen someone call social skills homo or beta before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 05:17 AM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. How do I continue attraction?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 03:02 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. What did I misunderstand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 09:41 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. Yeah, I am happy that you met a guy who you get along with. Unfortunately, I don't have that luck when it comes to meeting people. I don't really think it's luck as much though in your case, as women can basically just get with any guy they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 09:03 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. I have very low standards for who I'd date. All I really care about is that she's not obese, and not annoying, but I've never had an annoying girl express interest in me, or obese for that matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 08:29 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. It's very nice that you have that nice things going for you, but I've never met a woman who was interested in the sort of stuff I liked before, and I almost never see women hang out in the groups I hang out in online related to my interests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 08:27 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. I'd date any woman who was interested, I wouldn't mind at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 08:20 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. I've never met a woman who even pretended to care about the stuff I like, and I have met hundreds of women in my life. Additionally, I have never had a female friend before, primarily because I have nothing in common with the women I meet. I have never been part of a mixed friend group with both men and women either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 05:21 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. So how do I find a woman who likes me then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 05:20 PM
2	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. Honestly, the only line that's ever worked for me was "Do you wanna have sex." Every other line I've tried using has lead to rejection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 04:41 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. I don't know how to joke or how to read non verbal tbh. My idea of romance is talking about the ancient greek word for kiss then kissing you to demonstrate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 04:24 PM
3	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. I'm asking when do women like guys then, if sex doesn't mean they like men. Your response did not answer my question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 04:14 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. I've never met a woman who's expressed a genuine interest in nature asides from my mother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 04:13 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. What is a self defense mechanism?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 03:44 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. I've never had a female friend and I've never met a woman I've shared hobbies with before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 02:17 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. My idea of a good time is visiting cool places in nature, or talking about classical academical subjects. I don't know how many women share that interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 01:48 PM
1	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. How do I make a connection?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 01:40 PM
0	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. Yeah I've never had any woman want to date me before, only sex, and usually I get rejected before the sex part anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 01:39 PM
4	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. I have rather severe autism, but I get away with it because I'm tall and decent looking, and most people consider me smart based on my hobbies. I see this as a huge detriment to my dating life however, because socially I'm quite unpredictable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 01:16 PM
5	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. Okay, so when do women actually like guys, if being good enough for a 1 night stand apparently isn't it. Kind of ridiculous if you ask me, because I've never been on a second date, not of my own choice, I've only had sex a few times with random women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 12:59 PM
8	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. Not true at all, I've had women who wanted sex immediately after meeting me turn around and reject me out of the blue for things I have done. I've been cold approached just to be rejected immediately after too many times for this to even be slightly believable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 12:54 PM
4	Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boring I almost never talk about myself. I mainly either just listen, or talk about things I find interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 05:55 PM
9	Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boring It's crazy because I have unique interests, but no woman I've talked to has cared. Almost like it doesn't matter at all...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 04:53 PM
3	The loneliness epidemic is a myth Definitely not autistic men, that's for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/23 10:50 AM
2	I'm a man and I'll say it. Women overall have it harder than men, ESPECIALLY in dating. It's easy to get a relationship as a woman at 30 years old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 03:48 AM
3	I'm a man and I'll say it. Women overall have it harder than men, ESPECIALLY in dating. I'd rather be a 30 year old woman in terms of dating prospects than be myself at 30 years old. Only the top few percent of men have better dating prospects than most women, and I don't have any prospects at all. Being older would make my problems worse, nor better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 10:36 PM
3	CMV: The ultimate reason dating is very hard for guys here is a lack of personal responsibility. Autistic women exist, but there aren't many of them. I'm a tall handsome autistic guy, and I've never had a relationship before due to my autistic behavior. I've even had autistic girls reject me for being too autistic before. I've been rejected for every reason under the sun, and I've had so many failed hookups that my body count would be well into the double digits if even half of them had worked out. Despite that, I'm still a virgin. Before you ask, I have relatively normal hobbies and intere…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 08:06 PM
1	Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex? Nothing wrong with it, I think just if someone is horrendous looking there isn't much anyone can do to help them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 03:21 AM
–	The reason "dating is hard" to a lot of people is because they are uneducated. I sent you a dm if you want to talk, thanks for the wisdom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 06:32 PM
–	The reason "dating is hard" to a lot of people is because they are uneducated. How old were you when you started gaining success with dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 05:31 PM
1	Men don’t care about love I'm still trying of course. It's just difficult because I'm autistic as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 04:18 PM
–	The reason "dating is hard" to a lot of people is because they are uneducated. It's not just saying autistic shit, it's my body language and eye contact as well. I'm tall and fairly attractive and I've had an awful dating life, just constant opportunities which I always fuck up, and regret. I've gotten close to having sex and then fucked up with more girls than most guys I know have even been on dates with. Maybe you're really good at masking, or you're significantly more attractive than I am, because what you're describing as your experience absolutely does not resonate w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 04:17 PM
1	The reason "dating is hard" to a lot of people is because they are uneducated. Or you're just autistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 10:09 AM
1	Men don’t care about love This is part of the reason I would much prefer to date an autistic woman over a neurotypical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 09:39 AM
1	Giving Chances is Low Value Given that I've never gotten even close to that point in a relationship, I can't say, but I don't think I would struggle with that particular issue. I've never even been on a second date before. Women are a lot more brutal when it comes to their treatment of autistic men than most people here would assume.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 09:38 AM
–	Do people actually go on dates? I have a lot of serious social issues. It really is that bad. I think you assume I'm exaggerating because neurotypicals tend to exaggerate, but it really really is that bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 12:48 AM
–	Do people actually go on dates? We don't understand emotions well, and we communicate completely transparently and logically, not emotionally or with hidden meanings. I think you can imagine how that translates into dating. Autistic people are usually incapable of being manipulative and wouldn't want to even if we could. Lastly, we're completely immune to social pressure, we do all our decisions on their own merits, not based on what others do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:37 PM
1	Do people actually go on dates? Us autists aren't even stupid usually, it's just a struggle when it comes to social interactions, generally speaking. That translates to romantic struggles as well, of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 06:28 PM
2	Giving Chances is Low Value I wouldn't ever not hang out with my girlfriend bc of sensory issues, I just need someone who's fine with a confident extroverted sperg.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 03:02 PM
1	Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex? Idk I just want a gf but I feel like the standards are so high as to be unattainable. I would like to help out other men in my position, but most of them don't deserve help at all. Every guy I've met who couldn't get a girlfriend was either horribly ugly, was a genuinely shitty person, or just autistic, and I'd argue that only the third category actually both deserves and could use help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 02:42 PM
1	Giving Chances is Low Value Reading this thread, I'm surprised by the sentiments from both sides. I would have no issues having a girlfriend who would be willing to help be become a better boyfriend and improve, in fact, that's what I would prefer. If I ever get a girlfriend, I want to treat her well and be the man who makes a positive impact in her life. Unfortunately, that's a near impossibility because I have aspergers. Women aren't interested in a guy who exclusively wants direct communication, and doesn't understand h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 01:24 PM
3	Men don’t care about love I've never been in a relationship and I write love songs about every girl I've liked. It's not even for the attention because I write them in classical latin, not in English. I've never truly experienced love but I have always wanted a relationship. I don't like the idea of casual sex, but that's legitimately the only thing I can get. It's very difficult trying to date as a man, especially if you actually do want a real relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:42 AM
3	How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game. This is true. I am an attractive autist, and ive been told I act like a serial killer so many times, it's not even funny. Also I have no dating experience to speak of even though I'm not misogynistic and I have friends irl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:27 AM
1	Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex? Yeah I once had a pizza that literally tasted like soap. All I want is a girlfriend, I legitimately don't want casual sex. I just find dating to be an extreme challenge because of my aspergers syndrome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 08:47 AM
–	Do guys here seriously never get approached by women at all? Not even indicators of interest? I get a lot of attention I think, more than most guys, but I don't notice usually, and I am unable to talk to women even when I do notice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 03:46 AM
1	Is it over for autistic or socially inept guys, or can they still do something about it? What are the most effective ways they can improve their social skills and personality? By you I meant a person in general, not you, because you come off as socially anxious, not autistic at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 09:24 PM
3	Is it over for autistic or socially inept guys, or can they still do something about it? What are the most effective ways they can improve their social skills and personality? Sorry I couldn't tell, I'm autistic lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 06:05 PM
2	Is it over for autistic or socially inept guys, or can they still do something about it? What are the most effective ways they can improve their social skills and personality? This has pretty much been my experience as a guy with aspergers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 06:03 PM
2	Is it over for autistic or socially inept guys, or can they still do something about it? What are the most effective ways they can improve their social skills and personality? That's kind of shitty dude. Why would you do that? It's so hard to date as an autistic guy, why would you make it harder?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:06 PM
1	Is it over for autistic or socially inept guys, or can they still do something about it? What are the most effective ways they can improve their social skills and personality? What if you're just autistic and not socially anxious?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:04 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? The issue isn't me being boring, I'm just weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 06:43 PM
2	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? I'm not blackpilled, I'm NT pulled. You can be ugly and pull as long as you're socialized well and neurotypical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 05:57 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? Because I'll support her needs and I'll listen to her problems, and in exchange she'll do what I want for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 05:57 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? How? I care about people for a lot of rational reasons, I just struggle with caring about emotions. I sympathize with people because of their experiences. However, I'm very low in empathy, and even then, I don't have much of an opportunity to even feel empathy because I don't notice people's emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 05:18 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? I have a genetic condition that makes it very hard to learn them, but I will take that into consideration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 05:12 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? I just don't care about their emotions, but I do care about them as people. That's pretty much all I want from a partner as well, just someone who can love me and be honest and enjoy time with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 05:11 PM
0	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? I'm not able to care about what they say if it isn't deep and meaningful, so I try to just make eye contact and pretend to care because that's what I need to do to have a relationship. I don't really feel many emotions in general, I just want a life partner. I don't care naturally about most the stuff people talk about so I just put a lot of effort into pretending to care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 03:54 PM
0	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? I am very confident and extroverted normally, my issue is that women think I'm weird because of my autistic behavior. I do understand your point, but it's depressing reading a thread of people saying they wouldn't ever date someone with impaired social skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 03:48 PM
1	Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them. I will check that out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 03:45 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? I make strange eye contact and my voice shows no emotion, and I tend to be self focused in conversations and I have to pretend to care about what other people think usually. I come off as a narcissist or psychopath if I try too hard to blend in, but if I don't, I come off as an autistic weirdo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 02:51 PM
2	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? It kind of is a learned skill, but for me it's consciously learned, not natural.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 02:47 PM
3	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? Treating me like everyone else, not ostracizing me or treating me like I'm "special" because of my condition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 02:19 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? Well it's just depressing when I can only get sex, and none of the women who I talk to would ever date me, even if they find me attractive. I just want a gf, but the only girl I ever got close to dating "sex-zoned" me after a week, and straight up told me that she would only ever objectify me. I would rather be a bit ugly and neurotypical than be in my current situation, because I just want love and romance like everyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:57 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? Most people I've met in general, not just women, are very intolerant of autism and autistic behavior in general, and this isn't just in dating. It just makes it very difficult to date because most women are blatantly ablist and not willing to talk to someone who displays autistic behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:51 PM
2	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? I'm extroverted and I do try in social interactions. It's just the harder I try, the more people tell me I come off as a serial killer or psychopath. I think your experience is true, in that some people don't try hard enough, but my autism is too big of an impediment for most women to be interested in me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:48 PM
2	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? It's just depressing knowing that I can't get a relationship ever because I'm autistic. I've had casual sex before but I hate it, but because I'm so weird to women, I've only attracted women that are trying to cheat on their boyfriend. I think I'm conventionally attractive, and I'm tall, but I wouldn't know that except from the results I get on tinder. Women in person treat me like a literal pariah, and I have never been on a second date before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:43 PM
-7	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? Okay so I deserve to never have love because I'm born with a social impediment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:34 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? Yeah this entire thread has basically just been "if you're autistic fuck off, you deserve to die alone and never feel love" It's very depressing hearing it from the horse's mouth, because I'm not even introverted, I just have trouble with communicating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 12:11 PM
1	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? I'm just reading through this thread and it's really depressing that basically none of the women here would be tolerant towards a guy with social issues. I suppose that's why most autistic men stay single their whole lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 12:04 PM
1	Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them. I mean there's very little you could do to help me. Women don't want to date me because of my autism and I have no clue what I could possibly do to fix that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 11:58 AM
–	If you’re autistic, you’re not the intended audience for blue pill advice The issue is that I constantly get told I act like a psycho or serial killer because of my autism, and there's nothing I know that I can do to fix that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 11:56 AM
3	Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them. It's kind of depressing realizing that most people have been in relationships before tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 03:51 AM
1	Not coming across as creepy to women when approaching is incredibly simple and boils down to 4 things, does not involve "mind reading", and coming across as creepy once will not ruin your life I'm a conventionally attractive 6'1 white guy from a middle class family, why can't I get a girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 08:00 PM
1	Marriage pairings and down syndrome - an observation Because emotional connection/personality is code language for being neurotypical and not being a complete ass to be around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 02:41 PM
3	If you’re autistic, you’re not the intended audience for blue pill advice I don't notice nonverbal communication at all, everything social for me is due to trial and error and guesswork. I've never gotten far enough with a woman to really go deep into my interests, but if I did, I probably just wouldn't talk about them much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 04:39 AM
1	Marriage pairings and down syndrome - an observation Ok then you're basically just saying fuck you to anybody with autism or aspergers. I mean that's been my experience but still...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 02:27 AM
2	Not coming across as creepy to women when approaching is incredibly simple and boils down to 4 things, does not involve "mind reading", and coming across as creepy once will not ruin your life Bruh how would you individually not be able to allow it? It's a social/biological construct, not a matter of just individual choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 02:23 AM
9	"Neurodivergence" has become a trendy excuse for dating struggles This. Autism makes it very hard to date, regardless of any other issues which could make dating difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 01:49 AM
1	If you’re autistic, you’re not the intended audience for blue pill advice I'm just very motivated and have some hope, so I don't want to give up. I will always keep trying to improve myself, and I want to find a real relationship. I know very few women would be willing to date me because of my autistic traits, but that doesn't mean it's totally hopeless, but I sincerely don't believe it will ever happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 01:46 AM
1	Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man? So don't be autistic...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 12:18 AM
1	Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man? So autistic, got it. Just say autistic, because almost all of those are common symptoms of autism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 12:14 AM
1	If you’re autistic, you’re not the intended audience for blue pill advice I agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 09:47 PM
1	If you’re autistic, you’re not the intended audience for blue pill advice Blue pill definitely doesn't work for men with aspergers, sorry to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 09:46 PM
1	If you’re autistic, you’re not the intended audience for blue pill advice This is terrible advice for an autist, I cannot tell if a woman is interested in me, and even if I could, the more I talk to women, the less interested they are in me. This type of advice is only good for slightly shy normal guys, not for autists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 09:44 PM
0	If you’re autistic, you’re not the intended audience for blue pill advice Blackpilled = understanding why genetics matter a lot for dating. I'm an autistic man and I've been rejected so many times in person that I see ever having a relationship as an impossibility now, but that doesn't mean I'll ever stop trying. I don't hate women I just want a woman who cares about me, who I can also care for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 09:41 PM
–	Not coming across as creepy to women when approaching is incredibly simple and boils down to 4 things, does not involve "mind reading", and coming across as creepy once will not ruin your life TL;DR: be neurotypical or else you are a horrible person and deserve to die alone. That's literally all that non-blackpill dating advice boils down to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 09:28 PM
7	Not coming across as creepy to women when approaching is incredibly simple and boils down to 4 things, does not involve "mind reading", and coming across as creepy once will not ruin your life Bruh why should I be excluded from something that everyone else does just because I have a social disorder?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 09:24 PM
14	Not coming across as creepy to women when approaching is incredibly simple and boils down to 4 things, does not involve "mind reading", and coming across as creepy once will not ruin your life Great so I have autism, does that mean I'm not allowed to have a gf and have to be single my whole life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 09:22 PM