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chunkycolors/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:57 AM
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What were you saying?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 04:00 AM
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I like how you want a civil conversation but you begin with “fuck ass” lmao.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:26 AM
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women analyze us just as we do them. you could have predicted your situation
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:28 PM
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why not practice willpower? sure, quick fix would work, but eventually you’ll have to work on resistance and not caring about her. what if you have a job/cute girl/friends/whatever requiring you answer the phone? another solution you could block her. your willpower needs heavy work if you can’t manage to not reply to a girl dude
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:01 PM
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i would keep my phone on and use it for other people. move on and do other things in life
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:44 PM
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Did your dream end with a foursome too?
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:34 AM
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It can be easy. Don’t over complicate a simple situation. She definitely has your spine if it’s not easy to do with her.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:35 AM
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If you enjoy being drowned by a girl then continue. If you value yourself then stop paying someone to live their life. Unless you value her financial state more than your own.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:10 AM
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what state and where is the date location? maybe legal advice would be better for this
/r/askTRP18/08/18 07:45 AM
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I don't talk unless I have anything to say. One of my worse traits I have is that I start talking far too much when I actually have things to say. Idk if it's just me but I do not understand this lol. You don't seem quiet from what I've read so maybe you are more talkative than you think. You might have annoyed people so they just talk shit behind your back.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:51 PM
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What would you say your personality is like in public? What behaviors do you have that would enforce that? I’m in a similar position. I don’t talk unless I have something to say to help the group I’m in. Some have told me they feel intimidated by me because they know I’m smarter than them so they don’t want to fuck with me. Or you could just be boring to others. If this feels like a good balance for you then good. If you feel like it can be better then figure out what you want changed and then a…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:11 PM
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shhh!
/r/seduction09/08/18 08:21 AM
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what was the secret
/r/seduction08/08/18 06:18 PM
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More specifically, you’re looking at a girl who doesn’t answer exs in the middle of the night when you’re with her.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:54 PM
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But he had the leverage of having the conversations?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 06:28 PM
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You have an entire lifetime to do relatively whatever you want. You can have a wife and kids but if you have specific expectations that might fail. Learn what you want. Learn to depend on your actions and mentality to get what you want. Your purpose is defined by only you.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:36 AM
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I’ll bet $10 she (or someone she hires) can find a loophole in that contract allowing her to fuck you over if you annoy her
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:17 AM
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don’t let anyone hold you back from living the life you want to live. “TRP is all about fucking them and not getting taken advantage of” if you don’t understand the answer to that then read the sidebar or advice on posts.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:20 PM
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Seems she is stringing you along. Canceled multiple times. If she was interested she wouldn’t have canceled or had issues with your intentions.
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:00 AM
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Have you tried showing interest in her body or in meeting up? Or only in her interests? Looking for sex isn’t bad and neither is looking for a relationship. Both have benefits for both people. If they don’t feel a spark then that’s their first impression of you and that’s hard to change, but take note of what happened and maybe you can figure out a common occurance and change it if that’s in your power
/r/seduction20/07/18 01:26 AM
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What is your approach in text? Have you tried approaching women in person? I’m guessing that maybe the women dismiss you for being nice because you were only nice because you thought you could get sex out of it? That’s a turn off. If you don’t see women as anything other than a sex object they definitely won’t want a relationship with you. Idk what you’re showing your intentions as to others, whether that’s for sex or relationship
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:26 AM
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Download a hook up app or ask around. Sex is easy to find. If you want a relationship you’d have to contribute more to the relationship than your desire for sex most likely but you might find someone who just wants sex.
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:18 AM
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“I’ve done my part” It sounds to me like you expect someone to date you because you have an interest in taking care of yourself? If you just want “regular” sex are you looking for a fwb or an actual relationship?
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:14 AM
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accept that you can’t control others. if you depend on others for your mental well-being it won’t work out well. just accept it and then do what you can for you
/r/askTRP18/07/18 04:21 PM
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do you think you worry too much about what she thinks and does?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 04:52 AM
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Personally I interpreted the post’s question as having doubt, so it seemed to me as he is in denial. You’re right that it can be hard to ignore reality, although sometimes it can be a repeated process of going through the stages until it sticks for good.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:44 AM
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If you think it’s bad then it is. It doesn’t have to be bad. If you see this as a cruel reality it’s not going to be a fun time for you. Being fit, rich, and confident are not necessities for getting a girl. Though those never hurt you. Those are more for benefiting yourself and can also be attractive to women. Really though, what makes us different from wild animals? We wear pants and cover ourselves up? At the end of the day we get naked and fuck like animals.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:04 PM
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It might be in your history
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:12 AM
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Think of it this way, it’ll be even harder to say the wrong thing.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:32 PM
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In your third paragraph it seems you have a certain mentality that is keeping you grounded in the past. Yes bad things have happened to you but they will only make you as much as you let them. You’re living here and now. Who are you trying to prove yourself to? Yourself or others? And what are you trying to prove during dancing? If what you bring to social situations are complaints and whines then that’s not fun for anyone. You have to change your mindset and behavior. Talk about things you have…
/r/seduction06/07/18 12:18 AM
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“I hate her, don’t want anything to do with her” does this not give you any indication?
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:19 AM
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Then try it out. Make a field report once you accomplish what you desire.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:34 PM
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ok. is this ex the one you dated for 4 years?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:20 AM
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oh but he has said that he has read it :) so he must have thoroughly understood it and come to the conclusion that his perspective is an exception :) :) :)
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:42 AM
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i think it’s hurting him more right now cause he’s choking on it
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:26 AM
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are you talking to yourself?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:24 AM
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I’m interpreting the photo as advice for a woman. For her, this would work so she can get what she wants. For a guy who just wants sex this would be a red flag.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 01:17 AM
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Sure. But for the women’s perspective, they typically don’t want casual sex. They want a provider and stability. For the men’s perspective, this would all be apart of tests that we would hopefully see through and then appropriately next.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 01:06 AM
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I feel like this is similar to what this sub encourages except for the women to do. Some of the shit here are major red flags for women but it doesn’t really matter
/r/askTRP28/06/18 12:57 AM
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Absolutely. There is no way it could go wrong. You have it all thought out.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:02 AM
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If you want the mental and physical benefits of lifting, yes it is necessary. Only way is hard work.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:50 AM
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Sounds like a solid plan but you forgot to mention marriage
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:46 AM
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He reminds me of that fish from Finding Nemo. Just keep swimming. He just won’t stop fucking swimming!
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:36 AM
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Anything can be abuse if you’re sensitive enough. “My wife says that I created in her mind a power imbalance by systematically destroying her self confidence.” So she’s blaming you for her shit self esteem? It’s not you being actively abusive when she doesn’t choose to love herself. She’s playing the victim card and of course the therapist will validate her.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:51 PM
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Exfwbs are deal breakers for me but exbfs are okay unless she clearly isn’t over him. I can understand if she has a friendship with him that isn’t sexual and I think that’s fine. Not all girls are like that but it seems it’s not uncommon.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:21 AM
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try to do something to get your mind off her. do things that require thinking of something else or doing something to relax.
/r/seduction23/06/18 02:01 AM
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sounds kinky ;)
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:52 AM
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Try imagining it with an extroverted and excited personality.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 12:37 AM
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Could you explain to me how you are not going back to her but you are still getting with her? It’s not like you’re denying contact with her. Complying is going with what she wants. Which is what you’re doing from what I’ve read.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 08:51 AM
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well who else can he blame when he fails besides himself? us
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:44 AM
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The black and white is that she is doing something you don’t like and have told her not to do. And you keep going back to her and letting this happen. You might have a spine with other women but with this one she has you when you’re with her
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:26 AM
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Yes like femdoms. Could also be a guy taking control sexually too. They can be submissive or dominant depending on what the client wants
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:22 AM
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By being dominant
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:39 PM
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I know for certain the age of consent is 16 in certain countries but it’s only for nonexploitative sexual activity
/r/askTRP16/06/18 12:57 AM
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You want me to copy and paste?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 12:47 AM
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This seems like a common question that could possibly have an answer in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 12:44 AM
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What u mean by too late to do it?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 12:38 AM
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Whenever you fail, it’s only true failure if you don’t learn something from it. In the example you gave, it seems you had smooth sailing until you bore her. You know what you did so you can learn from your past. I think your attitude of focusing on other things like working and lifting will be good for you. At least for a break
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 08:35 PM
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and if he does talk about it, it will most likely backfire. his intentions are good but acting on that is just stupid
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:35 PM
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do you remember the rule from fight club?
/r/askTRP14/06/18 07:42 AM
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Yes. Keep doing what you’re doing and focus on one pussy to maximize all pussy /s
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:25 AM
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If you feel like fapping would help you in some way like focus, do it. If you spend hours a day wanking or watching porn, stop.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:01 PM
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At least she’s the one 😍
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:19 PM
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Sounds like you’re going there. Have fun with that
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:21 PM
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So are you going to play her game because you miss her?
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:19 PM
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I think she’s gone now and you should next her
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:26 AM
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Sounds like you’ve already won her regardless of what she says. As long as you don’t fail the tests she’ll be throwing at you since she might be resentful
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:07 AM
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How do you know she wants you back? Did she do something or was she just talking? She could just be looking for validation of why someone would go through the effort to win her
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:00 AM
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Tbh I feel like her using the word “immediately” gives her peace of mind in the moment but she would be fine coming back to you when she’s calmed down. Just treat the text as a shit test. You’re the prize and she gets to win you, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:50 AM
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If you accept the new attitude then you’re following her frame I think
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:37 AM
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Lmao I think you’re onto something....
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:10 AM
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Yes she liked that she could control you more
/r/askTRP11/06/18 03:49 PM
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lol if that is your attitude why do you try if you KNOW you will fail? change your attitude and smv doesn’t need to be that high. compensate with what you can
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:00 AM
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I laughed at "You know, solid, at least a 4.5 outta ten." lol
/r/askTRP10/06/18 03:52 AM
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Why do you want her at your house? Convenience? You have something to show her?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 03:42 AM
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That depends on what your personal standard is of decent
/r/askTRP10/06/18 01:09 AM
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did you actually read the side bar or take into consideration that the advice you don’t want might just be the exact advice you need
/r/askTRP10/06/18 01:03 AM
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So the only advice you want is to stay focused on her and convince her to come to you or what
/r/askTRP10/06/18 12:30 AM
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Lesson learned, don’t talk to girls!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 07:41 AM
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Ghost her, fake your death, or explain that you are gay are my personal favs
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:31 AM
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I only use two of them rarely. I use 😂 when I don’t care/don’t know what to say and 😩 when I don’t care but I pity the person or situation but can’t say that.
/r/seduction02/06/18 10:13 PM
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Read and experiment.
/r/seduction02/06/18 07:08 AM
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your life must be so hard 😩😩😩 why would she ever do such a thing?! 😭😭😭 that bitch! 😡😡😡
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:38 PM
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the more time you keep thinking about her and her life is wasted on your own energy. you say you blocked her but you made a long post about her and keep commenting about her with other guys and wantinf revenge. it obviously does still matter to you and you know it’s a problem
/r/askTRP30/05/18 08:27 PM
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Just be sure to block her from your mind now. As long as you’re letting her rent a room in your head it’s like you’re stalking her instagram or facebook.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:22 PM
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You have the right to be salty but is that really the best use of your time?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:18 PM
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you’re still being a beta even though you’ve kissed or had sex. you’re comparing yourself to others and you’re continuing to self pity yourself... you’re alive yet you keep thinking shit like you can’t catch up and how you’re in such a bad position but just do what you can and quit being a little bitch man 😂
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:33 PM
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Bro, if you want to feel better stop swimming in a pool of your own self pity. You went through shit, lost some shit, and that’s the past. Who you are now is someone holding on to the fantasy of what was. You want a girl to treat you like a king and give you her pussy, but if you don’t have the desire to do anything for yourself that’s not going to happen. Doing what you’re doing right now and pitying yourself isn’t helping you in any way
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:17 PM
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Don’t wait for her. Move on and go on with what u got to do to be a better person and grow from this
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:20 AM
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Are you planning on seeing her again?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 08:42 PM
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why are you purposely typing like that? it seems like more effort to do that than to spell correctly. if you bring it up then you probably care at least a little, since you’re also asking this question. if she doesn’t want to speak to you why do you care? she’s a plate
/r/askTRP27/05/18 06:04 AM
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I feel like this is one of those things where you’re not supposed to eat where you shit, shit where you sleep, sleep where you eat, etc because using your camera career and skills to meet people and turn it into a sexual relation won’t end well 100% of the time. Women can say that they didn’t feel that way or that it wasn’t consensual, regardless of what went down. If you’re trying to network and get big with photography you don’t want to have a negative reputation. She will probably have told h…
/r/seduction22/05/18 07:40 PM
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Depends on what your mentality is. Varies for each person
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:30 AM
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You implied taking her back by saying “Best case for her now is she returns but as a bottom of the barrel plate”.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:06 AM
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But why consider putting your ex back in the barrel at all?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:52 PM
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Any updates yet?
/r/askTRP14/05/18 12:49 AM
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Like tantric sex? If she has come back 3 times I think you know the answer
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:26 PM
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I used to swallow water and other drinks loudly but then I tried swallowing differently and I think that might be something worth trying if no medical person could find a solution
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:47 PM
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Can I request a video/audio of you swallowing? If there’s no deep health issue causing this, you can probably train yourself to swallow quieter. Practice with sips of water and swallow slowly. Slowly so you can determine what part of the swallowing makes the loud noise and you can change it, since it’s not common for loud swallow noises. Sometimes certain amounts will make different sounds than lesser amounts but it’s something you can practice.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:13 PM
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Accept what happened in your past, and become content with where you are. Like you said you can’t change it so you gotta accept it.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 12:48 AM
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she didn't make you do anything. you let her control you. why say sorry for setting boundaries? she's playing with her own feelings it seems like and then projecting that onto you, why say sorry for not wanting to be bashed by her name calling? you feeling terrible is you not being in control of yourself. don't let someone else dictate how you should feel.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:30 PM
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Curious, why is 7 the magic number?
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:14 PM
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If she comes back then she comes back but otherwise she canceled and is ghosting you.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:32 PM
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Is the sucking implied for her or for your own position? Reading this I think you meant that it sucks for her but she might have interpreted it as sucking for you? That might have done something to your frame, like you showed her your neediness. That could explain her reaction
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:37 AM
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So agree and amplify?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:40 AM
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I think my trigger moments are when I start spiraling with negative thoughts by thinking negatively of myself or being unproductive because I don’t “feel like it” that day. It takes dedication and consistency to keep that from happening. The fact that you can acknowledge your trigger moments is a step forward. You know the consequences of what happens when you give in to “one pizza” and watching some tv. To help you push through these moments it can be helpful to reflect on your past and what yo…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:21 AM
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Ever been called something with a negative connotation in attempt to get a reaction from you? Basically what redgunnera wrote
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:52 AM
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Does it really matter that she was into you before? lol. Are you asking about the relationship between you and the girl or you and the white knight
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:13 AM
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Haha yeah. She’s tried imposing her beliefs on me but gave up when she realized I wasn’t going to be her literal slave. “We” have tried rationalizing our feelings before and all that happened was the woman went on and on about how I was making her feel by me living my life and how I should change myself for her needs. Really comical stuff. Yes it is exhausting constantly being on guard in my own home, I knew the answer but I just needed another perspective in case I wasn’t thinking right. Thanks…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:59 PM
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It annoys me when she goes after my personal possessions to try and get an emotional reaction from me. Or some type of control. That’s some shit a little sibling would do, not a middle aged lady. I know the real solution is to move out but financially I cannot afford that but I was hoping for a technique I could try to make her redirect her anger towards something productive or herself.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:29 PM
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Not so much afraid as I am annoyed. Being followed around the house hearing a woman scream at me about how I never listen to her isn’t something I’m scared of. I’ve tried to reason with her a few times and then it practically breaks her, she starts stuttering and looks worried. Then a split second later she reacts with anger and then decides to spit somewhere. I think it’s funny but annoying that she decides spitting is the best thing to do in that moment. And I’m pretty sure my dad is scared of…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:25 PM
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How could I command respect and open creating dialogue with someone who is highly irrational? For context my mother got mad I washed the dishes without asking her and she spat on my electronic. Then followed me around the house yelling about how I never listen (that part almost made me laugh tbh) to her, then since I wasn’t listening she spat on my laptop. I feel like I would be stupid for trying to reason with someone like this? Or maybe I’m missing something. My family doesn’t have any goals, …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:21 PM
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for example, my mother spitting on my computer or following me around the house doing nothing but yelling about how I “never listen to her” blah blah, because I did the dishes without asking her. stupid stuff I think but idk. I do what I normally do but it gets annoying (I’m pretty sure me being annoyed is just me not holding frame well) hearing her voice in the background and when she decides to do something stupid like spitting on electronics. I feel like there’s an obvious answer that I’m jus…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:12 PM
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yes
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:08 PM
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If skating brings you some type of positive fulfillment then it’s good. I skate street too. It’s a nice little workout depending how far you go and it gets you from point a to b. I’ve outgrown a few hobbys as well, including skating, but I get back into them when I feel like it. I think it’s good to cycle through each hobby as I get into it for a few months/years and move onto something else as I see fit/depending on if I have goals for it.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:04 AM
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