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| 14 | [FR] Lunch time approach with HB8. | churchfart | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 04:59 PM | |
| 6 | Guide to being sexual without coming off creepy. | churchfart | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 01:12 AM |
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| 2 | I think some of you can relate to thisI think it's worse when you have sex (or fap) after heavy drinking and then post-orgasm, you have that intense sensation of needing to pee forever. Often times I admonish myself for fapping while saying, "You knew this would happen. Now here you are unable to go to sleep." | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Wink game?Are you Matthew McConaughey? If not, winking is laughable or creepy. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 08:12 PM |
| 2 | The Napkin Rose, or how I got over AA and learned to love the gameUnless the girl asks, "are you making one of those napkin roses?" in a flat tone indicating she's seen it before. All the while your drunk buddy is desperately trying to fold a rose with the "if you build it they will come" sort of determination. At least this is how I've seen this done 80% between 4 different guys who did this (all independent of each other). One time it didn't seem weird, but it didn't accomplish much. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Feminist interviews Neil Strauss, author of The Game. She likes him.I'm a dude and I like him. He can discuss many things in an eloquent, intelligent manner yet it seems humble and approachable. | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Ten Phrases to Keep Your Conversation Exciting But TruthfulHey, that's Juggler from the game. He's known for being an exceptional conversationalist. | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 03:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Lunch time approach with HB8.I've been brushing up on my baby destroyer patterns. | /r/seduction | 02/04/11 02:42 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Lunch time approach with HB8.To be fair, her big head made her lips look small and I might've missed. Eventually, when her neck gave out from all that pressure, I wanted to have no part of it. J/k she didn't have a big head. She was actually really cute and I wasn't a noob or anything at the time but for some reason I just blurted it out. I think a part of my brain used to sabotage myself just to have a funny story later. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 07:22 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Lunch time approach with HB8.Next time, I hope to name close! | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 07:20 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Lunch time approach with HB8.Actually, these are thing I've said to girls before (not babies). Be prepared for her to lash out and embarrass you verbally if you you say the Kmart thing. Also, one time I was with a girl on her couch, watching something on her laptop and for some reason, when she made the puppy dog eyes at me, I told her she had a big head. Awkward 5 mins, then I just left. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Giving something back...I have taken so much...Your timeline echoes mine without the initial break up. I was 21 and pretty social to begin with. Someone mentioned the game, I read it in a week, thought it was fascinating, then used the "sexual predator" and "best friends test" that weekend with major success. For the next two years, I don't think there wasn't a single moment I wasn't thinking about game. Body language, positioning, opening, being alpha, story telling, etc while coming up with my own material and keeping a big .doc file that … | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 03:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2nd date F-closeI bet it would. The description of the fruit said it makes anything sour taste sweet. Vagina pH is generally acidic (sour) while semen is supposed to be a base so I bet that vagina would be mighty sweet. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 12:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] 2nd date F-closeYou sure have seduced me with your forbidden fruit sin berries. Intriguing. I might try them. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 01:25 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Total newb: 3 days, 2 chicks, and a jealously plot?Halfway through reading that, my eyes started doing the "oooh everything looks so far away" thing. Anyways, it really sounds like know what you're doing. Ie. Knowing when it's okay to buy a girl a drink and when to stand your ground. Trust your instincts. It kind of sounds like you just like how hot she is...plus what guy doesn't fall a little for a hot girl after he grabbed her ass? I would just treat her like a platonic friend. Seems like the type of girl who will string you along until the bi… | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Grocery store cashier - me 24, she ?? younger - The ApproachThis is kind of like a Field Report from some time ago. Generally, if you're the nervous type game is difficult but might as well try right? Grocery store pickups were really hard for me more than bartenders / waitresses especially because you only have a couple minutes to make an impression and other customers will be annoyed with having to wait if you try to chat her up. Out of probably 15 or so grocery store cashiers I've hit on in the last 5 years (I've lived a lot of places) I've only had s… | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Grocery store cashier - me 24, she ?? younger - The ApproachWow...I can't believe I never thought of that. Some places it's 21 but always over 18. Kudos. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 12:28 AM |
| 6 | How are you supposed to respond to (un)intended touch?"You know...in some countries... that's considered foreplay." Anything depending on your frame. Just don't say anything cliched like "you owe me $5" and don't treat it like "OMG, this is my chance!" | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 11:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl calls you 'cute'.Affirmative. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Oh my god I feel like Neo..It's been years since I read material. I just learned from doing it for so long. But here, let me go to "New Here? Please read this post" for you. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/ Ctrl + F "Body Language" and "IOI" | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Oh my god I feel like Neo..Ah...philosaraptor. Duh. That philosophical rabbit hole goes deep for everything. It even applies when you think of politics...a part of it is still survival of the fittest no matter how skewed policy can be with the ultra rich getting richer. There is definitely something sacred about sex and reproduction. You still crazy though. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Oh my god I feel like Neo..Thanks. It put things into perspective when I used to think "How did I ever get laid before this stuff?" Humans have been getting ass for thousands of years. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 09:30 PM |
| 24 | [FR] Girl asks me out for a coffee, then she talks a lot more than meBack in they day, there was a term called "social robot" that applied to guys who learned "rules" for the seduction game and stuck to them like unbreakable truths and only used scripted lines. You don't need to follow the rules. They're general theories that universally are true when talking about people as a whole. If she likes you and you like her, cool. You're doing something right. Most guys struggle to get the girl talking so you already have that going for you! | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 07:44 PM |
| 9 | What do you do when a girl calls you 'cute'.IT'S A SHIT TEST! If that girl grabs your dick at the bar, tell that her hands are cold! Neg her! "You're cute!" "I guess that makes one of us." NEEEEG! | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 03:52 PM |
| 2 | [TR] texting report this is a sticking pointIt's been 7 months? Girls will find a way to see you and find time if they're interested. They'll just drop shit to see you or they'll suggest a different time versus a generic response. She's a flake; it's lost for now. Drop it, work on being awesome, and maybe you'll run into her again and she'll see how great you are. PHONE GAME is just a logistics tool. It only works if you already have attraction / comfort. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Oh my god I feel like Neo..Dude, you crazy. I see where you're coming from but you crazy. I wouldn't say it's suppressed; just not passed down. A lot of us just didn't have fathers or male role models who could teach us how to mack. A lot of guys not on seddit or other seduction boards get it naturally but can't communicate what's going on. People fuck. Some of us are just nerds about it. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Oh my god I feel like Neo..I wouldn't get a book on it...the resource you need is available everywhere...people. What helped me the most is thinking prior state versus post state when you introduce a variable. Observe people and how they react when someone of the opposite sex walks in. Observe their reactions to anything. No one is the same although I listed some common examples under Nexism's post. This is why looking at prior and post state helps. A girl playing with hair isn't an IOI if she was doing it before. If she … | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 02:36 PM |
| 1 | The Call BackYeah. It's weird how texting right away works. This became a regular thing after one night I was out and I got a girl's number. I always text girls my number right away because I dont want her later to think "who is this weird number messaging me?" That time I decided to have fun with it so I remember saying something like "you are such a brat :P" and we got into parallel conversations like we both had a secret we were hiding from everyone else. Our mouths having 1 convo, our thumbs/phones just … | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Oh my god I feel like Neo..Congrats! I loved that stage of seeing the matrix for the first time. It'll get way more fun now where you'll be able to recognize them subconsciously and act accordingly without thinking "hey that's an IOI." I never had AA but never really cared for cold approaching. However, I can spot IOIs like a hawk so I never really feel like I'm approaching. Remember that game doesn't have an on / off switch and you're gaming everyone...you're gaming the hot girl you haven't seen yet but she probably spot… | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 02:12 PM |
| 8 | Oh my god I feel like Neo..It's everywhere if you do a search. Examples: Plays with her hair, fixes her shirt, grooms herself in anyway (to make herself look presentable), rubs her neck, sticks her chest out, sits up straight, crosses her legs towards you, casually somehow ends up standing close to you (proximity)...it can be anything. Like a poker tell. Spot her tell. Pretty much if she changes her positioning or has a physical reaction after noticing you. Unless she runs away or makes a disgusted face. Those aren't IOIs… | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Looking for feedback on convo, I plan on bringing her Kettle Corn to her work tomorrowBecause you said "don't worry about it" she's going to wonder what is going on and slightly be excited. When nothing happens, she'll be kind of sad and it'll work to your advantage. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Looking for feedback on convo, I plan on bringing her Kettle Corn to her work tomorrowOnly exception to gifts creating attraction is if she's going through something emotionally bad in her life and your beta sympathy is giving her a shoulder to cry on and she mistakes that feeling of connection as attraction until she's over the initial problem so she keeps making excuses that she has to do laundry when you try to hang out on weekend nights so she can't see you until you randomly run into her at a restaurant with her girlfriends and some guys you don't know ...oh high school. Gla… | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Looking for feedback on convo, I plan on bringing her Kettle Corn to her work tomorrow100% agree with ImKumarYo. Keep your game private unless you're clowning around on fb just to be funny. Personally, you'll look back at this convo and it will be kind of embarrassing. Good job giving a time and date but if she says she can't make it, leave it at that. A girl that is interested WILL reschedule or suggest something. Be careful if it's a vague "oh next time" because some girls will string you along. NICE save with the "don't worry about it." It's actually one of my favorite things … | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 10:46 PM |
| 3 | The Call BackHere's what I've been told and something I figured out that works for me. First, the advice I was often given was to not leave right after getting her number but to stick around and continue with your conversation. Also, to give her a nickname, tease her, or have some inside joke so you can use to anchor back to your discussion when you call/text. This is good advice; just don't call her "princess" out of the blue thinking it will stick. Have a solid, engaging conversation and mention something … | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Guide to being sexual without coming off creepy.Go on... just kidding? ... Seriously though, I don't speak Japanese but Korean "kinky" talk isn't so great either. Portuguese was crazy hot in bed. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Guide to being sexual without coming off creepy.Aww. Please share experiences why you think this is wrong. Ambient, please don't kill yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Guide to being sexual without coming off creepy.Português! Amo pão de queijo! Boa noite. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Guide to being sexual without coming off creepy.Agreed. I appreciate your perspective because I can speak another language. American culture is pretty forward but not about sex; especially not with sexual language. American sexual culture is very suppressed as evident by how we treat sex as a horrible adult thing that's worse than violence - movies are rated R for boob flash but PG-13 for tearing a guy up with bullets. This is why innuendos and knowing "what's up" without BLATENTLY acknowledging it are necessary. It shows that you know what g… | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 01:32 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Peacocking to solve AA: Ridiculous or ridiculously easy?Also, if it's a bar with music and young people (not like a quiet local neighborhood pub), it makes you look weird and socially unaware which is generally not attractive. EDIT: Major props for going out and trying it. | /r/seduction | 29/03/11 05:37 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Peacocking to solve AA: Ridiculous or ridiculously easy?I think it's gimmicky. I think too much of pickup discussions revolve around gimmicks and going out of your way to "give shit to this girl" which seems very try hard unless you have very good frame. For example, reading a book sounds good...preoccupy yourself versus standing there awkwardly, use as neg, etc but when you step back and put yourself in another person's point of view, you'd think "Why is he reading a book in a bar? Why doesn't he go to a cafe? Weirdo. Must be a gimmick to try to get… | /r/seduction | 29/03/11 05:35 PM |
| 3 | A challenge to myself! What do you think?You should do it in November for charity but you should also do it now. If you wait until November you might rationalize your appearance as a charitable cause which might negate the impact on your psyche you want. Go to a coffee shop or run errands with unwashed hair. You don't have to open girls and try to close but make friendly conversation with cashiers, people in line, etc. It's not like you have a dildo on the head or look like a beggar but do something just enough to step you out of your … | /r/seduction | 29/03/11 03:10 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with a virgin.Are you willing to date this girl for months without sex, let feelings grow, then maybe sleep with her? If not, let her get this life experience elsewhere unless your values don't mind sleeping with someone without caring for her feelings at all. You should "let's be friends" her not as a ploy but for real. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 07:37 PM |
| 1 | [RANT] Text and ChatI used to hate texting and always thought "man up...call her". I'm not sure when this changed but texting is definitely useful. Face to face is definitely the preferred form of communication but there is a slew of awkwardness that can happen between getting a number and seeing each other face to face again. Texting helps ease awkwardness if the relationship is still premature and she's uncomfortable. Text is on her time, she can think of responses, reply when she wants. Talking has a time obliga… | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Ask Seddit: What were your "game-changing" seduction experiences or materials?My experience: You've heard there is no magic bullet (there isn't) but it's helpful thinking there is one. It leads you to shorter terms goals while the overall process spans years and it's so gradual you might not notice. That game changing fountain of wisdom you seek will constantly change yet you will keep looking until you get sick of the material and it starts to get repetitive. Along the way, you won't think "finally I found the fountain!" but rather it's a reactive realization one day whi… | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 06:50 PM |
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