ciamiano Archive

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1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? I'm not putting the blame on other people. In no way am I blaming men, just the way we have structured society. Equality doesn't mean putting women on a pedestal and making men suffer, it just means that we should be treated the same	/r/MensRights	30/01/23 04:54 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? doesn't mean they should be treated differently. so we agree. Tabula Rasa This would get us into a whole debate about nature Vs nurture It hasn't been disproven. We just take a more interactionist stance today. Basing everything on biology is an equally determinist way of thinking, ignoring free will. I'm not going to deny that there are biological differences between men and women, but quite frankly I don't care. I don't think biology should have any impact on how anyone is treated or the oppor…	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 04:35 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? But I don't understand your point. I'm a woman, I've entered the STEM field. Should I just not do that because it's not what the majority does? Do I deserve to be treated any differently because I'm a woman and have decided to perdue this career? For me at least, gender is a social construct- the only difference between men and women at this point is how we are socialised, and that accounts for what type of career they pursue.	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 04:07 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? Interests aren't exclusive to someone's gender, cHaD.	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 04:01 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? I'm a feminist and I don't have men. Therefore, I'm not a misandrist. You're welcome!	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 01:33 PM
0	How to avoid misandrists in real life? Just because I talk about women's problems, it doesn't mean im denying that men also have them too. Disadvantages include longer prison sentences, This is completely unfair, yep. But also, most violent crimes are committed by men. Women are more likely to be victims of domestic abuse. Males maintain higher risk of being victim to personal crime than females. To deny this is just a coincidence, and has nothing to do with the way men are socialised is stupid. suicide rates at 4x women You're gonna…	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 01:32 PM
0	How to avoid misandrists in real life? If feminists had said the elite are trying to oppress everyone, I’d support that, but no, the villain had to be some rich man who only doles benefits out to other men (still don’t see the benefits your movement claims I have.) But I'm saying that the patriarchy does oppress everyone, and that the people that benefit from that are the elite you mention. It's not a man, it's a system. Have you ever been followed home by a stranger in the street? Have you experienced class mates staring at you and …	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 03:17 AM
0	How to avoid misandrists in real life? How are you just going to brush over the fact that roe vs wade was overturned like that? Never claimed that the wage gap existed in that sense. But like, why are women the ones who are expected to take less overtime for family arrangements? Look, I'm not disagreeing with your points. I am grateful everyday that I am so privileged to have been born in the western world, and I fully accept that we have many of the same rights. I still experience sexism though. Men and women, especially in the way …	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 01:54 AM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? Why are we going to condemn a matriarchy for a hypothetical lmao. Anyway, I already established that I don't agree with a matriarchy either. Who put that system in place? Men. The patriarchy defines toxic masculinity, defines male roles, its values, its characteristics, and demand men accomplish them. It says that men have to be stoic, to be emotionless, to be the hero. Men have prove their manhood by surrendering their individuality and denying their humanity. That's why they're the ones on the…	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 01:27 AM
0	How to avoid misandrists in real life? The fact that the ruling even happened in the first place shows that the state can oppress women, hence the need for feminism. The majority is not good enough. Imagine the feminist movement didn't exist- how much worse would it be? Who says I agree with the draft? That's literally a way the patriarchy negatively affects men.	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 01:12 AM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? Bodily autonomy	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 01:05 AM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? Curious to why you think there is there no such thing? And women can uphold the patriarchy, it's a systemic issue not one where we are just blaming men. I'm not advocating for a matriarchy or anything, just think we should all be treated equally lol	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 12:53 AM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? ok, you can say that it looks more masculine. but I still don't understand why it matters. Why are we going to stop a woman from exercising just because it doesn't conform to your idea of what she should look like? Think we're just going to have to agree to disagree lmao. All I wanted to get across was that not all feminists are man haters hahah. Thank you for the discussion :)	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 09:31 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? But do you not see that women have been oppressed and subjugated throughout human history, and that's why they haven't built up human civilisations, or built corporations? How could they when men have always said they were the best at doing so, and literally denied them the opportunity to do so? Women around the world were barred from even learning how to read and write as recently as decades ago - and there are places on this planet where some still are. That's why feminism started, and what yo…	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 09:18 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? Men can get fitter without taking it to that extreme as well. What is purely masculine about packing on muscle? It's literally for aesthetic purposes	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 09:13 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? But how are men intrinsically better? What facts do you have that prove they do it best?	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 09:08 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? Because she wants to raise her self esteem? Because she wants to get fitter? Because she likes how it looks? Because it gives her something to work towards? Because it lifts her mood? Because it reduces stress? Because of any of the reasons a man wants to? It doesn't matter. She wants to. We have free will. Who cares if you consider it feminine? The realms of masculine and feminine are social constructs. You don't have to be using Reddit right now. How is that masculine in the slightest? You're …	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 09:06 PM
0	How to avoid misandrists in real life? false :)	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 08:52 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? I have feet. I can kick a ball. I have arms, I can do construction work. I might be better than you at both things even though I'm a girl. Or, I might not! Literally, who cares??? The more people in construction, the more buildings get built. Football is a game, so what if a woman plays??? Why are we going to deny people fun because their 'biology' makes them not as good as men?	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 08:50 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? But why shouldn't there be? If it has no effect on anyone, why does it matter what anyone does? Who determines what we should and shouldn't do? How are they better? For arguments sake, I'll say that women do it better than men. I mean, there is there is literally established evidence that women’s leadership in political decision-making processes improves them- for example, councils in India discovered that the number of drinking water projects in areas with women-led councils was 62 per cent hig…	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 08:46 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? I don't understand. Women can also be bodybuilders too. It literally does not matter- how is a woman in a gym affecting any man there?? What other examples can you give? lol then I'm going to say that you don't understand what predominantly means. I'm not saying there aren't women in charge, just that there are far more men in powerful positions. https://www.unwomen.org/en/what-we-do/leadership-and-political-participation/facts-and-figures	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 08:37 PM
1	How to avoid misandrists in real life? ok, what opportunities do you think men should have that women shouldn't because of biology? I do understand what a figurehead is. Systems are in place for men to predominately be the ones in charge, therefore we live in a patriarchy no matter how much power you believe them to have	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 08:17 PM
-3	How to avoid misandrists in real life? But that's such a determinist viewpoint and completely ignores the fact that we have free will? Ok, sure, men might be stronger for example, but so what? Why should we deny women certain opportunities because of biology- we're an evolving species. I can accept that we are not the same biologically, but I don't know why this matters socially. I believe we've reached a stage where gender roles are just a social construct. Surely the very fact that it's still run by male figureheads contradicts the…	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 08:01 PM
-7	How to avoid misandrists in real life? It's a gender issue though, and women are at the forefront of it. To use ‘fem’ in the ‘ism’, is to give females the boost that they have been lacking for centuries.The movement started because women were (and in many regards, still are) oppressed. To achieve equality, the patriarchy has to be dismantled, which most starkly has a detrimental effect on women, but also on men which we of course should acknowledge. Humanism focuses on human agency opposed to a supernatural entity- it's a completely …	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 07:47 PM
-3	How to avoid misandrists in real life? feminism is about gender equality and equal rights- that's the reality. yes, there are people who have become hateful towards men, but that's now what true feminism is. I don't think that the majority of people who call themselves feminists have that viewpoint.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 07:36 PM