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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What are you doing for your man on Valentine’s Day? Oh no no, HE wants to prepare a meal and dessert (and flowers it seems) for ME. 😂 with no strings attached! He stated I bring out the romantic in him so he’s been very excited to treat me tomorrow.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/23 03:03 AM
6	What are you doing for your man on Valentine’s Day? We have only been dating for about three months, but he enjoys the holiday. I’ll be going over to his place after work and he is very adamant about preparing a meal, dessert, wine, and a movie. Honestly I haven’t been with someone who openly enjoyed the holiday, so I will happily bring him flowers and a small trinket for him to think of me by.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/23 09:37 PM
5	Disrespect will be your Downfall This right here is what I see modern feminism push back about. “Well I shouldn’t have to remind him! He should JUST KNOW” “I don’t feel like babying my man so I’m not offering to help him remember to take his shoes off.” It’s that lack of care and understanding that is the blunder I feel. I think more often than not, many forget men kinda do think differently (not all but quite bit!). The men I have come across simply don’t multitask, they kind of one track mind things. So I see nothing wrong wi…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/23 05:10 PM
2	Noticing the shift on social media Very relatable! I can say the only social media platforms I’m on is Reddit (very selective), YouTube (just for digesting content), and Pinterest (again only selecting images as lifestyle/style/food/home inspo). I am currently dating a man who, when we first started talking, stated he was not a fan of social media and purposefully is not on it, just enjoys podcasts and YouTube content videos. Tbh I was suspicious but thought to my ex husband who was ALWAYS on it (liking a bunch of photos, “trolli…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/23 04:38 PM
11	BF Meeting Friend He's Slept with Before As someone just finishing up a divorce from someone who also began “recreationally a few times a year” to doing cocaine several times a week and becoming addicted, I second this. While it doesn’t happen to everyone, it opened my eyes that if I really am not comfortable with something in the beginning, I shouldn’t be accepting it for the future. Not saying it would have happened to OP but I know my story isn’t an anomaly unfortunately.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/01/23 06:19 PM
3	What was your timeline? This timeline makes me feel so comforted! I got married at 27, then divorced at 30 (he had a drug addiction and he was not comfortable giving that up, and wanted me to have a chance at a normal marriage with a loving husband). We had tried for kids at one point but unsuccessful, (he had a child already so I was stepmom). When I got divorced (I’m 31 now) I instantly became insecure if I would be appealing to men again and able to have kids (with fertility decline talk online I’ve seen). So far it…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/23 11:22 PM

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