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If what you argue in favour of would be as obvious as the fact that water is wet, you’d be able to provide proof very easily. But since you can’t, you backtrack from the conversation. Nice move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:35 PM
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Prove these patterns are oBsErVed bY aLL mEn. Until then, it’s just your own opinion, to say it mildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:47 PM
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Except I’m not talking about sth entirely different. The majority of discourse about not needing men is about intimate relationships and being self sufficient in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:48 PM
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Bruh you claimed your 3 sisters were your source. Also you threw in some anecdote about some fat girl ‘saving’ her friend from you. So if you don’t see how my source is correlated to what you just said, then your source and observations about gender dynamics also fly out the window. Try and use logic for a second-a cockblocker friend wouldn’t stick for too long in a group. To act like that it’s a common thing among women just shows the lack of thinking that goes into these arguments. Sure, some …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:46 PM
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We all have to live bro. Even if you are single, you still need a job to sustain yourself in some sort of way. Society will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:39 PM
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And 99% of the times I see that phrase online or I hear it irl it’s about not needing a relationship with a man. But I know ppders will argue until they are blue in the face that the square is actually a circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:38 PM
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Because the ‘we don’t need men’ is about intimate relationships, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:30 PM
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Kudos to the guy friends that do this. Also it’s pretty logical a cockblocker wouldn’t last long in a friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:32 AM
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Why do men resort to all these made up scenarios instead of accepting the reality that in the vast majority of cases she just wasn’t into you and the friend helped her get out of the conversation? Move on to someone that’s actually interested instead of living in your little bubble. Source: 2 older brothers and countless men who I’ve observed my whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:18 AM
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Maybe because all of our lives we’ve heard ‘not all men are like that!’ whenever we wanted to share our experiences. It’s a two way street and the one sided appeal to individuality has been going on for way longer for men. We’re just catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:19 PM
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you’re asking why people would post rage bait on ppd. this is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:24 PM
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That’s the point of rage bait-here is a dude that believes this actually happened and then one of the reasons he gave is that people have no reason to lie on ppd chat. I broke my just lurking rule for ppd because of the disappointing replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:18 PM
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I just want to tell all the people that believe this story there is a 3 digit number on the back of your credit card. You can DM me that and you will have an unexpected surprise happening to you in a few days!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:08 PM
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imagine not figuring out this is bait
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:31 PM
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Even if you are a husband you have plenty of time to contest paternity and say you don’t want to be the father and they won’t just fill your name on the certificate. Saw that in plenty of cases were either the couple were going trough a separation or a long divorce but the wife had a kid with another man. Duh-the court approves your request. There are roughly 1.5k requests approved yearly. Saying all paternity tests are outlawed is disingenous and doesn’t take into account the fact that men also…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:06 AM
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Because if you can order one trough court they are obviously not outlawed. And the whole bullshit about a woman imposing a baby on a man shows you are the hostile one that wants to further this wrong image of how the law here works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:33 AM
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You are the one that’s completely ignorant because the point is only the paternity tests issued by court AFTER YOU CLAIMED YOUR CHILD IN THE PAPERWORK are recognised as valid. The others are null because if you have suspicions of not being the father, the law considers you shouldn’t claim that kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:23 AM
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I’m going to frenchsplain you that a father still has to claim the kid as his own because unlike you I know it from experience, not from ‘what I’ve heard’. A paternity test is null in face of the law if you already claimed your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:13 AM
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Search for fat women that always try to distort what ‘thin’ or ‘midsize’ means. They are the ones that constantly lower the bar for what a tin woman is, there is no conspiration made by skinny women to support fat positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:03 AM
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Paternity testing is not outlawed in France. The point is that you have up to 30 days to claim the child. After you claim it, paternity testing won’t reverse the legal implications of you formerly claiming the kid as your own. There is no law that allows a woman to impose you a kid that’s not yours, please for God’s sake at least read the laws of other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:58 AM
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His general Chadness…that I’ve already told you is a carefully curated image because that’s his job. And he works for that, he didn’t just came out an eboy out his mom’s vagina. Damn PPD is slow today
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:19 AM
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Thanks for the advice, I’ll comment where I want and what I want. I just asked why men are so sensible about it, an answer to that question would have been more helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:18 AM
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Obviously around 90% of girls around her age think older men are unattractive, that’s why they don’t date them. So she can say what the majority of women her age thinks and she would be correct about that. I don’t get the sensibilities men have around this-I am married to a man that’s 7 years younger. I know it ain’t the norm. I know men his age are not attracted to women my age tipically. Yet I understand and let them be instead of starting countless discussions on the internet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:08 AM
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MGK is a niche dude that dresses himself and literally makes music for that niche. If you think he’d have the same success just for walking on the street because he’s some sort of Chad you are delusional. Also the whole ‘women don’t care about the process’ is dumb. VERY dumb. Because they obviously care and select for the individuals that have what it takes to go trough the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:02 AM
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Look at the median age difference between couples-the average is 2.5 years. So the point is that when it happens, it’s rare. So if a girl says she thinks older men are gross, high chances are she is honest because duh, the majority of couples are age matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:29 AM
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Yeah bro, the fact I get up at 6 am everyday to go to pilates dosen’t say shit about me. The fact that some dude puts years into counting macros and lifting also doesn’t say shit about him. Wake up, the c0pium is strong if you really believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:21 AM
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I lost around 30 lbs from 18 to 19 and the difference was something I never expected. But you know, instead of writing borderline hysterical things on the internet I realised the fact I lost weight and took better care of myself also said a lot of key things about who I am. If you put effort to be attractive to other people, it’s fairly logical that effort will be rewarded. If you don’t, that’s a signal you don’t want others to consider you. edit: it’s actually more like 70 lbs, i forgot kgs are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:56 AM
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The dudes here that make posts about personality not counting and emotional connection being a disney fantasy should mention their dating history before having any sort of credibility. Because not having even one semi succesful relationship means you’re just talking from outside the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:26 AM
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Thanks for your comment. I’ve seen this dynamic over the years because I’ve spent some time in Morocco in various occasions. It shattered the image I had of a traditional women being nurturing or submissive. There is constant testing and pushing boundaries-whoch I guess makes sense if you really think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:03 AM
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Approaching a dude is just one aspect of empowerment (and I personally think it’s a tiny one compared to the others). Also my comment was about who approaches more between these two groups of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:00 AM
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I’ve lived in both liberal and conservative places and if you tell me the difference isn’t that significant you’re just straight up bullshiting me. I’ve befriended both liberal and conservative women over the years and there’s many differences in the way they date and approach relationships. Also I’ve worked in fashion for +15 years at this point. I really wonder why so far I haven’t met a colleague of mine that’s a man married or dating a conservative👀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:53 AM
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the usual c0pe that he must be unattractive or they’ll throw buzzwords like soyboy around without any actual argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:26 PM
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Bringing ideologies in dating is really, really stupid but if you really want to see who is more judgemental of men conforming to traditionally masculine behaviours just take a look at the left leaning and right leaning women and see: -who initiates or approaches a guy more if they are interested -who expects to have every expense paid vs who doesn’t mind splitting a bill -who doesn’t mind a man taking paternity leave and being involved in the household versus who is generally against them -who …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:17 PM
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Staying single and getting some casual fun on the side is preferable to being in a relationship just for the sake of not being single. Also helped me achieve great things in my career. Not all men that have casual sex are PUAs or fuckboys. In fact the ones that I slept with were pretty great fwbs and I even ended up marrying one. Seems like my pair bonding ability is working just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:01 PM
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No, older women generally tell younger women to not waste their time with men that don’t add anything to their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:25 PM
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If you consider democrats in america to be socialists, the political compass is a foreign language for you brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:53 PM
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Yes, it’s ‘media propaganda’ that people want autonomy over their lives and choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:46 PM
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Yeah, I’m sure the housewives that couldn’t open a bank account, have a job or leave their shitty husband would openly say they are unhappy. After all, those were such good times we decided to break free from that!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:34 PM
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The modern man is just as fat and judging by the rants he makes online he is a really insufferable company. No wonder women don’t throw themselves at him. Also measuring happiness is a bs argument. You can’t measure something for which you have no objective unit of measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:27 PM
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You don’t get it. Doing all that crap just to bed with poor, ugly or mentally ill women is a reward. Fuck being non chalant like all the normies out there that touched grass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:38 PM
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Any man seeking to date women casually should probably take a moment and wonder why he has to go to these lenghts to get with women that are basically ugly, poor or mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:35 PM
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The true sign of someone not being able to argue a point-resorting to insults middle scholers use.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:19 PM
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Do you realise the same conclusion would be drawn if you looked for the same thing in the case of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:09 PM
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what source you have for the homongenity claim dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:01 PM
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Sure you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:40 AM
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Then you didn’t know a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:58 AM
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Where’s the actual proof women get away with infidelity more easily than a man? Or that they often hold little to no remorse? Also holy shit there are some absolutely deranged comments on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:48 AM
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I think there are still some gendered lines we need to fight that shape our biases. Once we analyse these on a societal level I think a lot of the issues we debate in these online spaces will become irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:11 PM
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I think it’s very hard to do something to help on a mass scale since men aren’t very accepting of feminist ideas or feminist women. Probably class conciousness will become more popular and the men and feminists realise they are forced by their circumstances to join forces.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:51 PM
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Feminism adresses a lot of the reasons why men from marginalized communities have it hard. From critiquing our lack of social nets of support, gun violence, the discrimination and hardships they face when they try to exercise class mobility, poor mental health services, labour exploitation under capitalism and so on. I think plenty of feminists are open to discussion when you make a claim like that. I did plenty of times since I’m no diehard feminist myself and had insightful conversations. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:42 PM
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You have no proof feminism doesn’t allow dissent from the dogma. In fact feminism is not even a dogma at this point, it has reached a plateau and now appeals to more marginalized demographics and strives towards inclusivity. We already heard redpill is a toolbox. Full of questional language, dehumanizing theories about women and misoginy but the apologists will always ignore that. Also this ‘you can’t criticise women’ shtick is very tired. Especially since you hang around ppd and online spaces l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:28 PM
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I really wonder why redpill got quarantined. It’s not like the answer is very clear if you take into account the unfortunate events that follow because dudes get indoctrinated into these spaces. But I don’t expect redpillers to actually hold themselves accountable that their philosophies and playspaces are breeding grounds for dangerous individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:13 PM
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Sure, I read enough on the trp subreddits and found way worse shit than ‘i hate women’. I read dumb tweets about women everyday. I read dumb comments on this very sub about women lacking logical thinking, being irrational and all sort of negative shit. I guess our internet overlords didn’t got the memo they are supposed to be gynocentric edit: i forgot about the dude that was commenting here on every thread how all women are useless hookers and warm wetholes. sounds worse than ‘women aren’t wond…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:04 PM
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The fact you claim it’s taboo to say what plenty of men and other women say everyday is misoginystic. Literally all sort of stuff is said daily about women but y’all live in this fantasy where y’all can’t voice these opinions because the society is gYnoCenTriC
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:49 PM
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It’s not taboo, of course no one is always wonderful regardless of gender. But y’all also shit a ton of misoginy over that one sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:30 PM
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Even more sus things you are saying. I find it very funny how redpillers have this inner Karen they have to tame in order to still fit with the majority of people or be considered decent dating prospects. I’d be pissed to if I couldn’t be honest with the people I’d want to date about what I actually believe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:27 PM
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I didn’t say it’s a full lie, I said you just avoided to mention the sus parts because you know even people criticising feminism would raise an eyebrow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:22 PM
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so you’re not telling the actual truth, you just sugarcoat your actual beliefs so it’s more socially acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:21 PM
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And you think a woman that is aware of red pill ideology won’t ask you what your stance is on certain delicate issues redpillers love to spazz about? Or you think she’s just going to ask you what’s your favourite colour? edit: feminism is disliked, generally people don’t compare it to the kkk and nazi. that’s sus even for people that dislike feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:16 PM
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you: i am a redpiller, i mask it so good, wahmen don’t know it also you in the same thread: feminism is like the KKK and Nazi!!!☕️☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:13 PM
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he doesn’t get what the casual in casual sex stands for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:32 PM
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I am empowered by doing what I want, idk why the fact that men also like casual sex means it’s automatically bad or anti feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:09 PM
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You don’t need a lot of experience to get good, you need to be a social person and a lot of things will fall into place. The fact y’all try to make a dude making 250K+ a year that’s tall, fit, good looking and has a ‘good personality’ seem like normal or common is concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:01 PM
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As I said, him being shy was the missing puzzle piece. Not every dude sucks that bad at dating that they can’t even get dates despite being conventionally attractive. It’s not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:49 PM
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This kind of brainwashing actively hurts men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:53 AM
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Let’s do some basic math and see if we can solve your problem: Not everyone on dating apps is looking for wife/husband material or for serious relationships. There’s a good part of people that are there to have fun and mingle. 2.Entitlement-often times men describe this caricature of a girlboss woman and act like the majority of modern women are like that. It’s obvious you’re not an individual that is very flexible or accepting of women not adhering to more rigid gender roles. So we exclude them…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:02 AM
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let’s be real, how many tall, fit and financially literate guys struggle with dating or getting dates? i wouldn’t call them incels, but there’s some missing puzzle piece in their situation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:38 AM
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She didn’t bitch about anything, she just stated a fact and you went into attack mode and spit cookie cutter arguments. Maybe you should think twice about not liking entitled women, looks like they would be a match after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:23 AM
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I think your expectations of finding some space of balanced discussion about dating and relationships on an online anonymous forum are unrealistic. Also saying the Tater tots or radfems are the worst of humanity is a stretch since there are sex traffickers or murderers or arm dealers out there, ya know. I mostly come here to entertain myself on the daily chat, not because I think this place serves as a compass or brings useful perspectives about dating. And if this place makes you feel in any ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:33 AM
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there’s a lot of toxic discourse here but saying here are ‘the worst men and women humanity has to offer’ is very drama queen of you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:14 AM
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funny when people that are not wealthy tell rich people how to manage their money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:47 AM
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That was probably the worst comparison I’ve seen someone make in a long time. This is why all the hamstering John’s do is so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:02 AM
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Sure, plenty of men will say they did everything right. Then you start to question them about the state of their relationship or marriage and you realise that’s just a cop out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:48 PM
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idk why you think these cookie cutter arguments johns repeat all over again are going to sway my opinion. The majority of people will agree actually seducing someone to sleep with you is like winning a competition while paying a sex worker is more like a participation trophy. Doesn’t matter if you’re some insanely rich handsome dude that’s bored with dating or whatever, it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:36 PM
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So it’s a shortcut that requires no effort or skill to seduce someone, just like I said. I don’t care how rich men justify it or if they feel dating is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:12 PM
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depends on how rich you are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:56 PM
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Don’t really care what reasons men have to go to sex workers. Meeting someone organically or hooking up after a night out requires more skill and effort than just paying someone that does this as a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:38 PM
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yeah that’s a dad bod. no i don’t think it’s sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:13 PM
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If it’s legal and safe, it’s obviously okay to do. Sex work or prostitution are shortcuts to getting sex and because of the lack of attraction I don’t personally think they compare to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:08 PM
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then don’t get married or have any kind of long term relationship. we were talking about a specific scenario in which the womam gets the most of the blame usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:42 PM
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or maybe just be a sexually interesting husband if you want your wife to find you sexually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:34 PM
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Not in my experience. I did some research on the topic and the most interesting thing I found was a reddit user that claimed a wand damaged his nerves and he gradually lost sensation in his fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:21 PM
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don’t forget the endless posts where men whine women don’t know what their match in physical attraction is and overrate themselves. ppd is pure comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:10 PM
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It depends. You can honour part of those vows but cheat because you think that’s the only option that is going to sustain your marriage. People are complicated and act in ways we don’t always understand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:08 PM
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Lots of reasons-kids, shared financial assets, very strong guilt about breaking up the family. These are the most common explanations I’ve been given when I asked the wives that did this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:04 PM
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and you’re not entitled to her fidelity either in that scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:56 PM
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you sure know what the hormones do lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:00 PM
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Yeah they do get pleasure from being intelectually compatible with their partner, you’re blatantly wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:32 PM
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The problem is y’all try to argue this point and fail because plenty of college educated women are also attractive. There is no clear dichotomy and since y’all claim men find a variety of women attractive, obviously the ones that also have some formal education or work in the same field as a man will get educated men because of proximity and shared interests
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:18 PM
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If there are people out there that actually believe in defeatist shit like this, I don’t see what kind of rational argument can be made to convince them. Thinking that average guys work their asses off to stay in a relationship or get dumped at the drop of a hat is the sort of delusion that has a league of its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:09 PM
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your last sentence is very removed from the reality of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:13 AM
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didn’t even try to dominate you sweetie, you must be submissive by default
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:29 AM
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my uni was more like 75% men and 25% women. still saw some stunning girls there, they just didn’t care about girly stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:48 PM
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where do you live that you don’t actually see hot people at least once in a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:27 PM
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you didn’t make any actual points or gave any examples, i understand why you are backing out of this discussion wink
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:23 PM
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something like ‘those guys must be rich!’ or saying the women are not actually attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:21 PM
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Seeing that plenty of average men around me have girlfriends or hook-ups or got married, I’m sure it’s not an impossible mission to find some girl that would be interested in me. All this black-pill philosophy gets thrown into the bin when you actually look at the couples around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:38 PM
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It’s not ego or fantasy, people have their own autonomy and the majority of us don’t need or want a ‘leader’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:31 PM
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Submitting how? The majority of women do their own thing, seems that there’s a segment of men that want to live the fantasy that they lead something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:19 PM
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I didn’t need to talk to all of them about their dating life, I just had to like the photos of them and girls on social media to see they were getting dates and relationships. Or see them interact with other women when we went out or had college parties. Only on ppd and reddit you’ll find so many stem guys that make 6 figures, go to the gym, groom themselves and still claim to somehow have zero luck. edit: i also loved how one of the most upvoted comments from a man says he would feel creepy if …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:25 PM
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The word ‘submission’ is devoid of any meaning in these spaces that talk about dating and relationships. I dated men that were taller, stronger or slightly richer than me, that doesn’t mean I submitted to them or whatever. And that applies to the majority of women, it’s 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:10 PM
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Yeah, it’s really simple when you’ve got something that pulls people to you. Until I changed my career I was always surrounded by guys since I was in STEM. There were plenty of dudes that didn’t end up on ppd or red pill spaces to whine about women because their dating life was fine. They were social and likeable and didn’t have to go trough a whole process of transformation in order to get women to give them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:35 PM
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You stop the cap since you act like people should just give you chances. I know men like to victimise themselves that they are being called ‘creepy’ but the truth is that in a lot of cases the lack of social skills and reading cues is creepy. A man can be approached for many reasons, not just because he’s conventionally hot. If you are very intelligent, confident, outgoing, have a great attitude or something that atracts a woman you will get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:25 AM
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Wow, you discovered people like to be approached by individuals they find attractive? Crazy knowledge right here. Your chances are severely reduced in any place you would want to approach if that is your sort of thinking. You can try and build some kind of bond with other women and see if there is any spark there but men want this kind of thing to be easy like ordering fast food. That’s why the DMs are filled with guys thinking that’s a good approach. Women approach men, we just don’t do it like…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:11 AM
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Of course, you have an excuse for every socially acceptable gathering to not approach women. How is suggesting meeting people online a joke when there are people that form reationships after meeting on a discord server? Online you have a great shot to find communities where people that share your passions or niche interests gather and form friendships or relationships with them. The post you linked says how she finds it hard to have platonic male friends, she didn’t say it was offensive to appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:51 AM
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Get out the house to the places where people gather to have a good time (clubing, parties, pubs, board games nights) or do it online. There are so many options, it’s crazy men complain that the majority of women wouldn’t like to be approached in a store or at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:06 AM
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that spouse stayed at home because of a mutual agreement. it is justified to support her financially after years of her honouring the agreement and sacrificing her financial independence. getting a job doesn’t happen that fast. you are the prime example of why women should think about following these traditional gender roles because men will disrespect and downplay them and try to avoid accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:16 AM
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no one believes you aren’t mad. try harder next time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:45 PM
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cool, now go back to being mad about feminists and shit that happened 8 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:39 PM
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thank god we have a genius like you that’s ahead of society. i’m not wrong, but you probably don’t understand what equating feminists to 1st cousins of racists imply
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:52 PM
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if this was something about racists it would have been something legitimate to complain about. but i understand how some dude that says ‘feminists are barely people’ thinks he’s some discriminated poor class
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:49 PM
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imagine feminists living in your head rent free like that, he’s gonna stay mad for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:03 PM
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yeah, they deserve to pay alimony because they KNEW before what marrying a spouse that doesn’t have the financial means to support herself. please stop findig excuses for men that don’t want to face the consequences of their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:27 PM
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such bullshit. just because people come from rich backgrounds that doesn’t mean they won’t be loved by their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:00 PM
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jealousy is a disease, that’s why those dudes in the comments can’t cheer for a man that proposed to his hot gf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:56 AM
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Research companies started by women then. You’re not really arguing in good faith, you just want to be inflammatory
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:50 PM
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Dude, your frustration is oozing out your pores. Melinda Gates or Mackenzie Bezos are very capable self made women that contributed to their husbands succes. Actually those husbands valued their inpit and intelligence. Keep seething
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:21 PM
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Too bad I never met you then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:41 PM
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I didn’t take it as a personal attack, I just pointed out men are not really lining up to date a woman that earns more than them in a lot of cases. Or at least not long term The law takes care of some of the problems stay at home wives might encounter, but they still have to deal with the challenge of entering the workforce after being at home for years and not really having any profitable skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:16 PM
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I don’t know why this discussion is always about women not wanting to date me that earn less. I’ve dated men that earned less than me because they had other things going for them, but it ended up as some power struggle because they are not comfortable with the situation. Motherhood and homemaking are presented as valid lifestyle, but they have big cons when you are financially dependent on someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:35 AM
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Shouldn’t have wasted my time with you then, it’s clear you just want to play the victim card.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:28 AM
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No, it’s been said times and times again what ‘toxic masculinity’ refers to but it falls on deaf ears with people like you. One example of displays of positive masculinity is camaraderie. Or the curiosity to see how things work or how to fix them. Or being solution oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:18 AM
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Entrepreneurs are not the only ones that look into the future. Also all those women that got billions after divorced helped those men in their bussiness endeavours and pursuits, so you might want to rewrite that comment because it’s only based on your feelings and not facts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:44 AM
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That has been confirmed by your first comment on this thread./s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:42 AM
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ok, your treshold for insults might be very low. not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:35 AM
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‘understanding the assignment’ is a meme
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:34 AM
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that was not an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:33 AM
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All those studies about pair bonding, drug use, personality disorders or mental health issues apply to both men and women, so it’s a moot point. Average men get laid and it’s easy to see that if you had casual sex at one point in your life. Anyway, as I said my question was about the math behind this, not the same old tropes about casual sex that have been shared on ppd thousands of times
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:03 AM
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i think you are framing this wrong-the strong feminist is happy with her choices, she would be miserable swaping places with the housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:55 AM
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Is this some wattpad fanfic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:26 PM
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it’s dumb to say men shouldn’t be held to the same standard. men have casual sex mostly with women, shaming women just means you want to restrict the acces to casual sex for other dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:22 PM
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Yeah, arranged marriages are great. Your family pairs you up with someone you might not feel drawn to in a romantical way and you just tolerate him or her for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:56 PM
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And I often see men saying women are like teenagers or can’t be rational. Don’t take all the shit you see online seriously, there’s a good chunk of people that just say outrageous things for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:34 PM
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I never agreed with that. Just like a lot of things in life, casual sex can be bad or it can be good. Depends how you go about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:30 PM
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In the vast majority of cases yeah. I always tell people to look at the dudes or girls that locked your type of partner and see what worked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:17 PM
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Wrong. My father or brothers never dated men, so they don’t have the knowledge and intuition my female siblings have. Just like my older sister told me once ‘everything you bring home, I’ve already seen that and I’m not impressed’. I won’t seek the advice of people that never dealt with men in a romantic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:44 PM
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What rebuttal is needed? This level of paranoia speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:26 PM
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they’re not that many and they’re not down for long periods of time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:16 PM
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someone that provides actual numbers, thank you for understanding the assignment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:12 PM
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Not when I dated my now partner but I used to keep my options opened before I met him. We were a great match from the start so there was no point or appeal in entertaining other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:27 PM
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this was a much better answer compared to all the recycled ‘women fuck chad with no effort’ replies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:25 PM
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still not able to make a point after a few hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:17 PM
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i get what you’re saying but my question was about who are the men having casual sex supposed to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:04 PM
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damn, these dedicated sluts are going to have a lot of work to do. better to legalise it and offer them some benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:44 PM
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I would agree with you because it sounds logical on paper but I was raised muslim and I saw a lot of men trying to get away with experiencing things that are not allowed by the culture and then have a stroke when muslim women do the same. So I don’t think women giving up casual sex is the solution to this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:40 PM
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You said ‘ALL western women are fat’, it was a fairly logical question dude. As I said, snowflake behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:39 PM
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we do understand it, no one likes to feel like they miss out on experiences other people had
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:36 PM
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so you start acting like a snowflake when someone asks if your wife is fat? self report here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:35 PM
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Standard gaslighting-if a man doesn’t care about the things you care he is a cuck. Also I scrolled down and saw you get heated when that girl asked if your wife is fat. Opinion discarded lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:31 PM
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Not really, i was just asking. I live in a very liberal bubble, I don’t expect my reality to be the default everywhere in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:26 PM
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we know, anything that doesn’t conform to your experience is cap
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:23 PM
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that’s also my experience but I wanted to get more perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:05 PM
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Doesn’t answer my question but I guess PPD is not the place where dudes like Terrence Tao hang around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:04 PM
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so in order for the majority of men to have casual sex, then almost every woman turns into a bad relationship option? i was asking about the math behind this sort of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:01 PM
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no, half your post was meaningless and loaded with insults. typical of someone that can’t argue a point without projecting on others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:58 PM
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can PPD help me with this math problem-if casual sex is good for men but bad for women, who are these men supposed to have casual encounters with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:50 PM
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This is just a rant about this sub and doesn’t even match reality. You just took the occasion to throw a bunch of meaningless words around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:44 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever been with a man that wasn’t sex positive so I know there truly are men that are non-judgemental about this. I just find it funny that he thinks he can fake this kind of attitude so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:22 PM
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do y’all ever actually get ‘toxic masculinity’ diesn’t mean all display if masculinity are toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:13 PM
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ok, i just wrote down in my notebook to advise women to never open up about past sexual encounters to men because they will fake being supportive. thank you for the tip
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:07 PM
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Do you realise men have casual sex with women? Obviously gay dudes don’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:56 PM
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start learning that tiktok dance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:35 AM
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eh, she’s a multiple DV offender. i see her pr team is really working over time for the ‘perfect victim’ narrative but that doesn’t excuse the fact she lied a lot and provided very questionable evidence. the public is over them both
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:20 PM
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genuine question because i know people that worked with depp and he’s been a raging asshole for years-how can we as outsiders decide what was reactive or reciprocal abuse? the point of a court is to determine who comes with the most solid evidence and amber just didn’t have that on her side
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:57 PM
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wow, you just came to the same conclusion as us
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:28 PM
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is this the plot of season 4 of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:08 PM
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not the peak of his abilities, that was in his 20s. mbappe achieved a hat-trick at 23 in a world cup final, he won’t do that at messi’s age
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:32 AM
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i guess we got spared of hearing ramenez la coupe à la maison for the next six months, i’d say that’s a win for us
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:04 PM
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it was one of the most entertaining games i’ve seen. i’m sure you’ll enjoy the celebrations in argentina, messi truly is the goat of football
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:07 PM
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you’re the one that should get over it since you inserted yourself in a topic solely about men to whine about women. incredible mental gymnastics on your part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:06 PM
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where did i imply it doesn’t apply to both? you excel at being triggered by imaginary things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:53 PM
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you seem to have problems staying on topic. too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:34 PM
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not for the first 70 minutes of the game lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:02 PM
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congratulations argentina, now i’ll go get drunk because we were so close to it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:00 PM
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honestly we were pretty poor today, we got lucky with mbappe. all the problems this week probably contributed to this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:48 PM
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damn france this is fucking crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:37 PM
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what were you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:46 PM
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the funny thing is all these made up rules are forgotten if you’re hot or if they are too desperate for companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:28 PM
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I get what you’re saying. I remember when we won our first world cup when the tournament took place in Paris. Nothing managed to bring us together like that did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:56 PM
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I’m from France🤣. Honestly I think y’all have better chances to win, our team can be pretty inconsistent and this was a hard week for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:30 PM
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me too, france doesn’t look so good🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:21 PM
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Thank you for your kind reply🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:31 AM
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So, maybe she met many men that fit her niche over the years. It’s really not hard to get what she’s saying, you’re just combative for the sake of it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:28 AM
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You can work on yourself and the way you market yourself to others. And of course people are one note on the surface, this is literally what I said-no one’s going to give you the time of the day to show those deeper layers if there’s nothing attractive about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:46 PM
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on-fleek is outdated, upgrade your gen z lingo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:59 PM
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There are people that are one note. No one is going to see how much of a ‘layered and complex’ individual you are if you don’t spark their interest to get to know you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:18 PM
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I became a widow at 29. It was hard to get back in the dating game because I tought no one would want to deal with me. After I got in a better mental place, I started to date again. I started dating men that had good careers and their lives sorted out in the 30-38 age range but most of them came across as pretty guarded. Somehow, the stars aligned for me and I met my fiance that’s six years younger than me and our relationship has been great so far. It’s natural to not get so much attention sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:08 PM
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Stop being just nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:53 PM
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Being nice doesn’t replace having a personality. Being nice is the default in society and no one gets shit just because they act nice. Your mom tought you basic decorum, she was not supposed to pick a personality for you. That’s your job as an individual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:12 PM
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it’s a song with a catchy rythm almost everybody understands what he raps about. except red pillers appearantly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:21 PM
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or maybe redpill just takes some common sense and then shits a lot of misogyny on top. that’s why people just avoid the alpha/beta/monk mode/dumb acronyms crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:15 PM
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if you know you want this, then go for it. no one’s stoping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:19 PM
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girl you’re 27, enjoy your life. work on yourself and be social, you’re going to be fine. figure out what works in dating for you by EXPERIENCE, not by what some loners say on the internet to make women feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:12 PM
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choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:44 PM
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it’s not just the food abundance, it’s also the fact american food is mostly crap. i stayed for two weeks in america and had the worst stomach aches and acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:03 PM
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that’s true, slid in my DMs and I’ll fly you to Paris. promise i won’t harvest your organs or stuff like that, don’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:59 PM
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And very often those ONS involve using a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:39 PM
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we do. also don’t really need to be drunk to get laid to someone attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:41 PM
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you’re funny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:38 PM
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I doubt she’s an incel but there are always ways to pump up your attractiveness. I was around 35 when I met my fiance so I can speak from experience: Take care of your appearance, use SPF and moisturizer every day, find the style that suits you Move your body. People give generic advice to go to the gym but that might not be your cup of tea. So explore other options-dancing, pilates, cycling, yoga or whatever sounds good to you Be social and get out your house. That’s probably the most important…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:19 PM
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you’re not the head of the family just because of your genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:01 PM
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no, i guess it got replaced by dubai porta potty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:01 AM
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you’re just dodging the initial question with a poor analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:55 PM
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do you expect me to further engage if you ignore my initial question just to change the goalpost?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:35 PM
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I did learn a lot about males and had a lot of fun. Also I’m sure I got some things out of my system and I am capable now to have a monogamous relationship because of that. Before I explored different options the idea of being with just one man was incredibly unappealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:28 PM
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i don’t see how ‘every woman being an attention whore’ (which is obviously bs) means you can’t tell they put in effort to pursue you or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:25 PM
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how confusing can it be to determine if someone actually puts in effort to have a bond with you? it’s pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:18 PM
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what better argument than ‘i put effort when i’m interested in a guy’? that’s how it’s supposed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:03 PM
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I don’t agree with that and I think you are limiting this to young men only when men of any age can be victimis of that. This is like the third time I hint at this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:41 PM
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Ashley Graham has a perfect face for modeling and the hourglass shape, it’s obvious why she’s popular. I don’t think getting guys that would desperately fuck anyone is as great as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:19 PM
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I didn’t skip it, I validated it. But it’s not some new phenomenon, it just has a bigger reach now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:18 PM
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Just like fat women can show their bodies and that doesn’t mean they are sexually desireable all of a sudden. Looks like we reached the common ground. Advertising clothes for all shapes and sizes to reach more customers doesn’t mean fat or disabled models are portrayed as ‘desireable’ by default. The point is to gain profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:39 PM
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That’s why I said ‘plenty of women’. No deflections on my part, just you skiping words because it’s convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:37 PM
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There’s just two plus size models that are relatively popular. Also that ‘I need a big boy’ song just got viral and everyone’s showing their dad bods on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:26 PM
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Firstly-can you actually name a male model? The market is much much smaller for men fashion so you asking about their popularity isn’t relevant. The balance is equal between fat men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:19 AM
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There are fat guys that model. I work in fashion and the trend is to be inclusive of all sizes. Just go take a look at the SavagexFenty website and there are plenty of fat dudes modeling lingerie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:54 AM
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You’ll see the crowd of men that says shit like ‘travelling is a red flag’ would date an attractive woman that travels if she ever looked their way. If you’re hot, all these made up rules are broken. Go see what the world has to offer and don’t concern yourself with this kind of stupid takes. There’s a man out there that will happily join you on your adventures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:53 AM
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How so? Plenty got married and enjoy their sex lives without carrying what others think about that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:19 AM
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ever heard of this cool thing called a condom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:10 AM
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dude just wants to rant, get out of here with your common sense and logic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:42 PM
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It wasn’t that hard for me. Like I said, similar people tend to gravitate towards eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:13 PM
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I come from a family of 5 kids, so anything more than that and I sideye it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:58 PM
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i enjoy the little perks of having a partner that others find attractive. but it’s not something i looked for specifically, it just happened
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:31 PM
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It’s been years since I dated someone that was low n, I didn’t have any negative experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:26 PM
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i know where i’ll hang around more in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:03 PM
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is this daily community more entertaining than the threads? i feel i can’t really participate in a lot of them since i’m not a certified artificial womb expert
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:55 PM
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you’d be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:45 PM
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maybe i cuckolded him already👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:40 PM
1

who is forcing you to do anything? take as many breaks as you wish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:25 PM
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Sure, there are some situations when OF girls extort a lot of money from men. It doesn’t even have to be an OF girl, there are plenty of other sites where that happens. Apart from that your comment is bs, I’ve read enough comments here to see that plenty of women offered nuanced takes. But as I say, some men will just extract what they want and twist it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:53 PM
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Yup, the situations both suck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:49 PM
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As I said, I love ppd for this batshit crazy takes. Sex, especially in a longterm relationship, is about constantly seducing your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:49 PM
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He obviously listed some authors and tried to seem knowledgeable. But absolutely all the people he mentioned would agree with me. He’s just too lazy to put in work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:19 PM
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I used to not really care. Then I met men that cry online about people that point out these sex industries have dark sides to them and saying it’s misandry or whatever buzzword they find. So from now I’m torn on that because I absolutely don’t like obtuse people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:24 AM
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you’re really obtuse if you think no one says a word about those issues, especially about women being victimized in the porn industry. it’s so funny how men like you pick and choose the criticism they want of the sex industry just do they can play victim online
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:17 AM
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plenty of low n people can be shitty or leave you in times of need as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:16 AM
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How financially accesible would they be tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:34 AM
1

sorry darling, you weren’t that high on my list of priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:28 AM
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Be careful guys, this dude spits 2nd grade insults
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:06 AM
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no, holding both those positions is the only position that aligns with feminist values
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:30 AM
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i think you’d be very low on the list of people i would go for intimacy advice. the enthusiasm is appreciated tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:40 PM
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yeah, a man that can seduce a woman is obviously an idiot🤣. this is why i love coming here, it’s pure entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:22 PM
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then i assume you also find this whole post ridiculous, that would be the only logical train of tought
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:19 PM
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You seem to be the only one confused here. Luckly my fiance ain’t as confused as you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:13 PM
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What cake? She has a husband that dried her vagina and wastes her best sexual years, poor girl doesn’t eat any cake. The only thing her husband gives in return is mental abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:00 PM
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If you really need an explanation why seduction is needed, you are the one ill educated for a relationship. I see an arhitect of a future dead bedroom here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:59 PM
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obviously it’s very hard to escape this cycle of psychological abuse. high chance she’s also depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:50 PM
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It’s obviously insecurity because paternal fraud is estimated to be between 1-3%. If you are in a monogamous relationship and your spouse/gf/partner never gave you a reason to doubt her, you are just projecting paranoic toughts on a woman that’s in the most vulnerable period of her life. Talk about having basic empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:24 PM
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Good for her, i hope she reads the stupid comments people make and laugh at them
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 09:44 PM
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The idea of traditional relationships is one that is pretty foreign to me since I’ve rarely encountered people that have a partnership like that. Ever since I was a kid, the moms were also working, dads knew how to cook and spent a lot of time with the kids. My country was probably among the first to introduce paternal leave. So yeah, it works and it’s probably the dominant relationship model in the west nowadays. I think the fact some people argue they should “lead” by default is a form of narc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:05 PM
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Sounds like you just assume women act a certain way, can’t really argue with someone wearing horse glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:30 PM
3

you can have your peace of mind. that doesn’t mean it’s not up to the woman to decide if she wants to deal with that type of insecurity or not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:03 PM
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There’s absolutely no benefit for the vast majority of women that are faithful. Paternity fraud is something between 1 and 3%, so 97% of women get no actual benefit. It’s very weird to frame it like that. The only ones that benefit are the men having doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:47 AM
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I think the above average man is the better bet. That means he’s not superficial and can prioritise other characteristics in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:08 AM
1

Why shouldn’t it be? I reached a certain level, looking for an equal means you’re preferably there too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:27 AM
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The high sociosexual people don’t give af, they just get freaky together. Those are the people that are on my radar and we generally do a great job of finding eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:54 PM
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