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This episode was so important for me to hear. I’ve been navigating a seriously toxic work environment where I am being bullied every day and I have put off transferring for fear of not making as much money (despite my money being constantly messed with by incompetent/vindictive co-workers). I had already decided that I needed to just bite the bullet and transfer but I was wavering until I heard this episode. Just hearing “if you’re being bullied, leave!” Was the push I needed. Thank you ladies, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:56 PM
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I LOVED this episode! I have definitely gotten flack over the years for my standards and preferences, I’ve even been told I’m body shaming men just by saying I’m not interested in a certain trait. Even if I didn’t say it was a negative! I’ve been told to lower my standards for years but when I experiment with that, those men are even worse than the others. Case in point, when I was 22 I went out with a guy I met on OLD. He was, to not mince words, really fat. He looked a little chubby in his pho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 02:05 PM
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I basically developed a very strict bubble in my former city, I avoided the buses and mostly took the train very short distances. I moved to a place where it was only 2 stops to my job, only took it during the day, and I would Uber late at night. Unfortunately it got really bad again last year because the threat was no longer just the possibility of sexual assault but covid. I just didn’t leave the house at all, which made me sink into becoming a recluse for sure. I ended up moving across the co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:28 PM
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A few years ago I actually developed agoraphobia after a particularly awful experience being sexually harassed by a homeless man on public transportation. It had been happening for years (I’ve even been spit on and once had to sprint a mile home at full speed to escape a man who announced to the full bus that he was going to rape me, no one stopped him and the driver let him off the bus with me) but this one time just made my brain shut down though I don’t even remember what happened now. I hard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:16 PM
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I’m a big fan of Spokeo, rarely do I struggle to find information on a guy. I also use Mr Number, it’s a popular app for sex workers so if a guy sees them and is violent towards them or calls them and wastes their time, you’ll find that out too. I’ve found many men on there who I never would have guessed would be interested in prostitutes. Just another method of vetting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:12 PM
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I rarely have an issue with men who prefer to monologue, rather I attract men who have absolutely nothing to say so I just carry the conversation. I won’t accept it anymore but in my youth I definitely went on way too many dates with “quiet” guys who actually were just boring and uninteresting and looking for a woman to spice up their life. On the rare occasion I get a long winded guy, I do have a lot of fun coming up with new ways to get him to shut up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:41 PM
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I decided to try out a dating app that’s been recommended to me a lot lately. I paid for a month of premium membership so I could have unlimited likes. The month will be up on the 10th and I have had not a single match. The guys who like me are disgusting and I can spend hours on there without liking anyone at all. I’d say in a month I most likely have liked less than 20 men. My area is particularly bad for dating in general but even worse if you have any sort of standards. Ugly, boring, alcohol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:37 PM
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I’m a little late but I absolutely loved this episode, I religiously listen to Natalie as well and so having this crossover was amazing! I wanted to also add on to the part where she talked about not showing men her blog, it’s exactly why I don’t share my social media with men I am dating. Social media is for me to connect with my friends across the world and I also use my IG feed as a sort of memory bank/diary of major life events. I don’t need a man reading and analyzing, potentially judging m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:31 PM
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Names, a sleeve that looks like he just wanted a sleeve to be “tatted up” instead of carefully chosen pieces, badly done tattoos (going to a scratcher is a sign of bad decision making), lip prints, their last name, anything to do with trust, loyalty, or family. Also any time a man wants to tell me about his future tattoos, says tats or tatted up, asks me where I got mine done (like they’re going to go there 🙄) or uses improper names for anything about body modification is a red flag and I immedi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:28 PM
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I absolutely think I engaged in poly style relationships because of my own low self esteem, thinking that well if someone doesn’t want me full time at least part time is something. It just plays on our insecurities and internalized misogyny. Sometimes I’d look at the other people my dates were also dating and be disgusted. The constant comparison was rotting my brain and making me look down on other women. Not something I ever want to do! I do love the putting friendships at the same level as ro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:12 AM
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What they don’t realize is that it’s not anarchy if it’s the norm. Even “Relationship Anarchy” style relationships aren’t subversive, it’s literally just bad communication and no commitment. Like most heterosexual relationships!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 02:55 AM
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I absolutely think that the Gay community has become “you must be like this” and it’s frustrating to me! I would love to date a woman, I have in the past, but it’s impossible to find a monogamous woman thats not interested in some sort of kink dynamic. A few of my gay friends are poly and I just don’t understand it, it brings them more drama and heartache than it does joy and love like they claim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 02:08 AM
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I tend to be pretty good when it comes to walking out on a date I’m not enjoying, from saying I don’t feel well or just straight up “I want to go home.” But my favorites are tied, one was when a man told me he wasn’t pro choice. I had pikachu face (nothing about him even gave the indication that he would hold that view!) and then I said “this date is over. I am leaving.” Stood up and walked out. The other, we got the bill and he was shocked by it (only $70, what a cheapskate) and he demanded we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:44 PM
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I dated a man with horrible sleep apnea which meant he snored so loudly it destroyed my sleep for the year we were together. He tried everything, except going to the doctor. He complained constantly that I wouldn’t cuddle with him at night, forced him to lay as far away from me as possible, and hated that I was always reaching out to poke him to make him roll over on to his side which slightly helped the snoring. But he still would not go. It’s been 7 years and I’m sure he’s still out there, sno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:35 PM
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Omg I just said that to a friend TODAY 😅 I say it constantly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:38 PM
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I loved this episode because I just decided to end a friendship with a coworker that was showing not only massive pick me tendencies but also was extremely toxic and very much the kind of person that always thinks that everyone is purposefully out to get her in every situation. Her lunch break got changed because of something I requested that affected her. I realized she was unhappy with it and fixed it with our supervisor but the way she was treating me afterwards made me realize that it was a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 08:25 PM
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I love this! My coworkers keep on insisting to me that a guy who’s “medium ugly” but funny is good enough and I’m like, nah sis. I’m not looking for “fine enough” I’m looking for AMAZING!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:53 AM
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I’ve had a hard and fast rule for about 6 years of “no head, no sex until I’ve had an orgasm” I like blowjobs, I like sex but my best way of having an orgasm is for them to go down on me. If they won’t, then the sexual encounter is over. Period. Having boundaries is important and if you hate doing an act, no matter what it is then it’s ok to say no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:49 AM
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Even during my worst pick me days, I still always would say that men see traits in women that THEY actually have and project their hatred onto us. They are the ones that are jealous, catty, gossips etc. As I’ve gotten older and learned the error of my ways, I see it more and more. I’m at the point where I have next to no male friends because I just don’t see good traits in men for friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:43 AM
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I absolutely loved this episode! I attempted to read the article but could only get a few paragraphs in due to the poor writing and the awful website. Loved the critique of the writing and there were so many great moments! Definitely one I’ll be revisiting in the future. Keep up the great work ladies, I’m obsessed with the pod and listen the MOMENT I get the new episode notification 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:35 AM
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This is wonderfully said! My mom stayed with my step-dad for 24 years, even while he was abusing me. She finally decided to leave him last year when the pandemic forced her to realize he’s a violent, gaslighting narcissistic asshole despises his own family and only cares about himself. She said to me when I was 16 she couldn’t leave but her eyes were finally opened and I’m so happy for my younger siblings still at home. They hate him too, no one is sad about this! Even my moms family is thrilled…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:19 PM
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Oh please, I see men in their 20’s every day at work and their skin looks absolutely awful. Somehow looking like a teenager with acne while already having a receding hairline and wrinkles forming. And the men in their 30’s? Horrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:14 PM
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Yes! I do the same thing! I teach a specialized subject to adults (vague for the lurkers lol) and they’re constantly telling me to start an advice podcast and that I’m soooo wise haha it’s all thanks to FDS and a few other podcasts I listen to obsessively!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:06 PM
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This is so true! Especially in certain cities, I would get far more attention very dressed down and casual. It annoyed me because I love dressing up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:19 PM
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Yep! I won’t download an app to speak to someone. No snap, no kik, no WhatsApp. I won’t give them my IG or FB. You don’t need to see my social media. You don’t need to DM me. You can wait until I am ready to give you my phone number, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:00 PM
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Omg when she called him a beta male I lost it 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:49 PM
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All of men’s problems are of their own making. Men are more likely to be raped by other men. Men complain about not being able to show feelings? That’s the society they set up They’re sad because a woman treated them poorly? Well, what did they do to her?! I feel no sympathy for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:40 PM
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I LOVED this weeks episode! So much of it pertains to my former life. I kept on saying “yes! True!” Over and over again. To combine some of the topics, my biggest struggle being bisexual has always been the assumption that because I’m bi, I must want threesomes and I must be kinky. There’s been so many strides made for acceptance for gay people and that we’re just like everyone else, so why then is it assumed that every bi woman must be a freak? Even if people accept that I don’t want threesomes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:35 PM
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This is so true! I am bi and I used to date poly people a lot because I don’t settle down with one person until I know it’s serious so I went along with it before I realized how much I hated dating people with partners and also, how am I supposed to find one if they’re all...you know, taken?! I dated a woman who had a husband and she was so clearly a lesbian. Her internalized homophobia kept her from leaving him, she could only be sexual with women if she was drunk because she was so nervous abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:26 PM
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Here is your award for best comment I’ve seen today 🥇😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:39 PM
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Sexual compatibility being soooo difficult to find is a bullshit lie that porn sick, BDSM obsessed men tell themselves and force onto women. Compatibility is not that difficult. Do you last longer than 2 minutes? Do you respect me, want me to enjoy myself, and don’t cause me physical pain? Do you bathe regularly, look attractive, and treat me well? Then we’re most likely going to do very well in the bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:55 PM
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Unfortunately I am also dealing with a whole mess of other medical issues that all decided to pop up at once! I recently moved and started setting up new doctors and it’s been like a non-stop rollercoaster! Thankfully, one of the things I made sure to prioritize is a therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:17 PM
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So I brush twice a day, floss, and mouthwash but I have a ton of cavities, one of my teeth broke where I had a childhood filling, and I have very little enamel. She immediately asked if I have acid reflux! I have to get a ton of dental work done unfortunately but I’m glad I know now. My old dentist was working on the cavities but blamed it on me not taking care of my teeth despite me telling him I do! New dentist gave me antibiotics for one of my teeth that needs a root canal to deal with the pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:02 PM
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Wow, this applies to my life right now. I recently moved 3,000 miles away from my home for many years. I have been setting up many appointments due to having a lot of health issues and my world has been rocked by finding out things my old doctors never knew, the biggest of all my dentist telling me that my years of teeth struggle and pain is due to my acid reflux. I never knew, I blamed myself, wondered what I was doing wrong despite following every instruction and being so fastidious...it’s all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:16 AM
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This is exactly why I gave up on Facebook, I had so many bans I was over it. I got a 30 day ban once for sharing a cute selfie from my memories two years before that had the caption “soft boys are trash” FB didn’t have a problem with at the time I posted but just sharing the memory post got me 30 days. Scrotes and horrible people love to scream about being censored but censorship on the internet is truly targeting any woman who dares to express displeasure at society’s status quo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:01 AM
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I had a super extra pickme friend who was treated with distain by the women of our larger friend group and she confided in me at one point that she had no close female friends and hadn’t for years and it made her really unhappy. I thought that she was misunderstood and being judged for her perceived behavior from 8 years before when she met all these people. Well, turns out she really is the pickle supreme. the pickme Queen. I saw it ramping up over several months, after I had spend the summer s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:54 AM
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Sure! ShallonXO (her YouTube is great too), Quality Queen Control, The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, and Before Breakfast are the ones I’m mostly listening to! I searched keyword podcasts in here and found a ton of recommendations so I have even more to listen to but I wanted to focus on these to start! I listen to Before Breakfast first thing when I wake up to start my day with good productivity advice and it keeps me from immediately opening social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:38 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:25 PM
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I am sorry for what you went through and proud of you for getting out! I will say that “expert” is wrong, we are absolutely a threat to men but not in the way they think we are or in the way they are to us. We refuse to allow them to treat us like garbage anymore, we refuse to be broken by them, to continue the status quo. We are a threat to the LVM, the ZVM, to a society that doesn’t want women to succeed and be happy in our own right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:29 AM
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I’ve been lurking on another account for months and I slowly started applying FDS to my life but then recently, I have a fire under my ass to actually commit fully. The podcast was huge in that, being able to listen to FDS principles while I’m going about my day has changed everything for me. I’m listening to other podcasts about becoming HV, making plans to level up my life in every aspect, and just yesterday I got hired for my dream position instead of going with the same job I’ve done before!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:21 AM
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I was actively reading it while she was doing updates and each one sunk me further and further. To know that someone who you love and who you think loves you could do something so terrible, something that could literally kill you is chilling. I don’t want to live my life as a paranoid person but those kind of stories make me feel that way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:15 PM
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I won’t even date a man who has Snapchat. You are a grown man, why are you using that? I prefer men who don’t even really use social media at all. Clout chasing, looking at half naked women, feeling the need to document their every move to their friends? It screams LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:03 PM
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