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| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manYou say assuming the worst, I say noticing a familiar pattern among sexists who don't want to appear sexist. I need to attend some real life stuff, I'll get to your last comment in a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manI covered the first half of your comment with the links I just sent so I'll move onto the status portion. The version of the memo I was reading didnt include citations so my bad for missing that, however I don't think they support Damore's argument since testosterone doesn't appear to affect men and women the same way, comparison based on T is a bit useless. "there may be sex differences in the effects of testosterone. Although in males, testosterone has been associated with decreased UG offers … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manThe point about my racist family members is meant to show that people who are behaving in blatantly biased ways may not believe they're doing so, even if they objectively are. Please refrain from saying I'm "making things up in my head", that's the kind of rude, condescending attitude I was referring to, basically calling me crazy or lying. I'm making an effort to be more civil to you and would appreciate some reciprocation. Saying you're "treating me like a man" is not an excuse. Adopting his p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manSorry if it's annoying but I'll respond to each of your comments in turn, I'm not at my desktop either. I don't have much to say in response to this first one, I think you misunderstood several things I said based on your reply and in one area you actually replied to yourself not me. The part where I was talking about white supremacy and n bombs was an example of the way people try to soften their language in order to appeal to a wider audience. I don't think there's evidence Damore is a white s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manAnd if I'm caught being as flat-footedly wrong about the memo as you have been, I'll admit I was wrong. waits : ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manGender is a social class, SES is a social class, sexuality is a social class, race is a social class, abled or disabled is a social class. Intersectionalism is about acknowledging and addressing those differences and different experiences that come from being man, woman, intersex or disabled, or gay, or rich or middle class or poor. You don't have to agree but all those factors will affect individuals in different ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manlol ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manI don't come to purplepilldebate and expect niceness, fuck just look at the comments here directed at me. Some guy is accusing me of lying, about what he didnt bother to specify, others telling me I'm just "bitching", calling me "sweetie"... I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, maybe I'm being defensive after all that and you didnt mean that feel comment in a sexist way, but you have been condescending and pointing out the way you behave is not a personal attack. And I don't think it has anyt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manHaven't lied about a thing, you do like being hostile though don't you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manPersonality certainly has a genetic component, but whether or not it predicts specific interests like math or science seems unlikely, imo. Going back to the big 5, openness to experience might predict that someone is more willing to try something new or risky but whether that something is sky diving, eating puffer fish, sleeping with lots of new people or traveling the world is less clear, and much more likely to be influenced by culture, environment and opportunity. So to clarify, personality m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/18 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manI have no idea what you're talking about but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manOh I have, but I save that kind of effort for people who aren't hostile and rude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manI'm saying you would need to first establish that any gender differences in personality directly influence how much interest men or women have in a subject and are NOT due to socialization, discouragement or discrimination. As in, for example, 75% of the difference in interest is due to socialization, 25% due to hard biological gender differences that have nothing to do with socialization. To note that women are more X and men are more Y is not helpful unless a direct causative link is found bet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manWhat is with your weird obsession with wanting me to "concede"? It reeks of desperation. Putting aside your less than courteous attitude towards me for a moment look at what you're demanding here: You read the memo and found nothing objectionable. I read the memo and found it objectionable. You are demanding that I convince you of my view with quotes from the memo you already decided was unobjectionable. And you refuse to take in anymore new information or criticisms about the veracity of Damore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manNo and here's why: You would first need to show that men and women's personalities are significantly different (studies show differences are minor and more significant within gender than between), and that those personality difference lead to different interests and abilities based on a biological or neurological component of gender and not to the long process of socialization over time, active discouragement or encouragement or discrimination. Damore has failed to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manYour blind faith in Damore and condescending attitude don't interest me. If you can't be bothered to read or respond to criticisms of Damore's argument until you are satisfied with your arbitrary condition that I prove to you he has male supremacist leanings, and given your unwillingness to even look at criticisms against his argument that seems highly unlikely, well that is enough to prove to me you're not here for an honest discussion and merely want to complain. I'm having a much more product… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manNow you have pointed out that there are other factors that could influence peoples interests in a field. That is true. That doesn't mean personality differences can't also be a factor. Do you understand yet how personality factors can translate into differences in ability? I understand what your saying, but where is the evidence that personality mediates interest in STEM personality mediates ability in STEM Rather than the fairly obvious examples I just listed of gendered pushback happening on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a mannoh, the FACTS are on my side!! See how hard I insist?? So I must be right!! ~you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manYeah and the FACTS are on my side, funny how that works. You're very hostile so excuse me if I don't waste my effort. Try google. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manBecause interest =/= ability. Because there are multiple factors that influence male or female interest that aren't tied to biology but upbringing, peer influence, etc. For example, when I was growing up math and science were well known as "boy" subjects, art, reading and writing were "girl" subjects. Boys and girls who crossed those lines were teased or even mocked. Many women who had initial interest in math and science have been discouraged from entering those fields and pressured more toward… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manToo. Many. Messages. A word of advice: take a hard look at the things you say about women before flipping your shit over me posting in AMR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manYeah I did, but I'm not going to waste extra effort on someone who condescendingly calls me "sweetie". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manIt's called intersectionalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manAnd you present no evidence but your own opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manOr you know, the actual dog whistles and not just the hasty backtracking to try and preserve some legitimacy and not seem racist/sexist. It's like everyone in the world can see what he's doing except conservatives/alt right. Just ask yourself how women having slight personality differences is supposed to translate into differences in ability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manYou have no idea what my views are, or that of feminists apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manNo, I think Damore was pretty obviously using cached alt right dog whistles. "Men and women are just different therefore diversity initiatives are a bad investment" basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manFuck man I already told you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manYou're ignoring all the data showing women are often penalized for asking. But yes, men who are modest also suffer a penalty, however men still tend to get the raises and salaries they ask for more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manRead my reply to the other guy itt, or read the actual article. I'm not your sweetie. barfs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manWhen we've settled the discussion on your original statements, I will. Convenient. There is still nothing you've produced so far that shows the memo is anti-diveristy or male supremicist. So far you're utterly unable to back those statements. There are many good arguments showing Damore doesn't understand the science he's trying to force into his mold, and that his conclusions are based more on his dislike of diversity programs than reality...none of which you have actually addressed other than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manI have edited my comment to add sources on women and negotiating, read them. And your "debate style" is incredibly arrogant and irritating. "Are you prepared yet you were wrong?" "I'll happily tell you where the new goalposts you've selected are wrong" Yeah you totally seem open minded and not like you already made up your mind at all. Check out those sources and tell me if you are prepared to admit you are wrong. Maybe think about if you really deserve to be so confident in your ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manDamore insists that personality differences (that are minor to begin with) somehow lead to differences in ability. "I’m simply stating that the distribution of preferences and abilities of men and women differ in part due to biological causes and that these differences may explain why we don’t see equal representation of women in tech and leadership. Many of these differences are small and there’s significant overlap between men and women, so you can’t say anything about an individual given thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manOne comment is enough thank you... Damore insists that personality differences (that are minor to begin with) somehow lead to differences in ability. "I’m simply stating that the distribution of preferences and abilities of men and women differ in part due to biological causes and that these differences may explain why we don’t see equal representation of women in tech and leadership. Many of these differences are small and there’s significant overlap between men and women, so you can’t say anyt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manThe ratio of men who have power vs women is still overwhelmingly in men's favor. Im not just talking about subjective quality of life but objective factors like wealth and power and social status. Class is an important component, no one denies a wealthy woman is better off than a poor man, but comparing poor men to poor women and rich men to rich women, men still come out with more power. Theres also the matter of social status as a class, men have assumed competency, they are the default person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manRead the comment I posted earlier, it contained several detailed links breaking down exactly whats wrong with Damore' s argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manThat guy thinks women are better off than men, despite men as a class having far more power and social status in society than women...similar to how whites as a class have far more power and status than minorities. If he thinks sexism against women is solved, I wanted to know how deep the rabbit hole went. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manOk, you are making it all up too. None of those thing ever happened to you either since apparently everyone lies all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manYour cognitive dissonance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manI was talking about the experiences you called "too dramatic" and "paranoid". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 07:49 AM |
| 0 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manWhat the hell is he disagreeing with? I already told you neither I or the author are arguing people need to pay for contraceptives or they're fascists. He's arguing with a strawman. Circlejerking is agreeing with you in a low effort way Not according to your sidebar. Circlejerking. “Circle Jerk” is a pejorative slang term referring to a positive feedback loop which occurs when an idea, belief or meme that is already customary within an online community becomes re-iterated and rewarded in a perpe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 07:39 AM |
| 4 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manI have experienced and observed a majority of the situations you so quickly dismissed. There's some cognitive dissonance in your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 07:29 AM |
| 4 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manI hope you never have to find out, but keep in mind red pill is also entirely self reports. Yet, somehow, red pill defenders never apply that argument to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manPrevalence and Characteristics of Sexual Violence, Stalking, and Intimate Partner Violence Victimization | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manYes I have and no that was not my impression. At all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manDo you also believe racism has been solved and minorities are better off than whites? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manThis has been thoroughly refuted. The people who study these things for a living would disagree. https://www.quora.com/What-do-scientists-think-about-the-biological-claims-made-in-the-document-about-diversity-written-by-a-Google-employee-in-August-2017/answer/Suzanne-Sadedin https://www.wired.com/story/the-pernicious-science-of-james-damores-google-memo/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manThis is why there's no real BP people left here. Shitty red pills circlejerk comstantly and the mods just let them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 04:06 AM |
| 5 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a man"but pay for my contraceptives, otherwise you're a fascist" Really? You don't think this belongs under automod? Neither I nor the author said that men need to pay for contraceptives, he's not responding to anything that was actually said or argued. He's making a low effort attempt at mocking the subject, not discussing in good faith. That is circlejerking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manAdded some discussion questions. Can you please keep an eye out for circlejerking in my post? It's already starting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/18 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Article Discussion On Rebecca Solnit: if I were a manSounds like you found a good one! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/18 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Why do you demand that men explain why they don't like sluts for marriage?I want sluts for sex. But I don't want to commit to sluts. I want a nonslut for marriage. Aren't you married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/18 05:04 PM |
| 6 | In light of this past year's events have Trump-supporting RPers been duped?Would you say the same thing if HRC had done it instead? This seems like a dodge. So the adult version of throwing a massive hissy-fit and shooting everyone including themselves in the foot. Stupendous show of judgement there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Why do women/blue pillers even visit the red pill?This is so disingenuous, have you read /r/TheRedPill? They link to feminist articles and "where have the good men gone" to shit on women all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 02:03 PM |
| 6 | Don't less traditional women fare better when it comes to dating?Sassy women, BPD women, more "fun" women, etc. I feel like men would look over a woman's inability to cook well if she was pretty and had an engaging personality and complimentary interests. How did you interpret that as "post their buttholes on Instagram"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s...I'm open to being convinced I'm perfectly happy with despising women Uh huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/17 01:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s...How about this: you self-reflect on why you despise women so much and I'll drink a vodka soda and "supervise" AKA stellar parenting skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s...Nah, you're clearly one of those thats unambiguously biased against women. Your comment history reads like Elliot Rodger Jr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 02:52 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s...Your post history tells me you've already made up your mind so why ask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 07:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s...You guys need a monk commune or something, get away from the world and take care of each other, build a life and community. Relationships are important but wallowing on whatever incel forum hating women and yourselves makes everyone sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 07:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s...Thank god | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 10:40 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s...No shit, but appearance is still what matters most for women due to that past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s...Second, a males attractiveness is a collection of the traits they possess; their looks, mannerisms, career, status, body language, voice etc. The real question is why it isn't the same for women, why do none of our other qualities or abilities or contributions seem to matter? Answer: women were basically just breeding stock for men for thousands of years, beasts of burden they were fond of but didn't see as equal so our value was reduced to what pleased men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmaWhy would I "acknowledge how hard it is" for incels? Not getting laid is pretty far down on the totem pole of personal and social problems and I especially don't care about shitty incels who gleefully chat about raping and enslaving women, doling them out as sex slaves for "fairness", fucking disgusting little shits deserve their fate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmawaaaaah, no one wants to touch muh peen life is so hard! no one has ever had worse problems than not getting laid! le incel plight is so difficult y can no 1 understaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/17 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmaSo you got rejected in high school and had one bad relationship and now you think letting your anger consume you makes you strong... nope, anger hollows you out inside and makes you mentally and emotionally brittle. Anger is a shitty roommate that drinks all your liquor, wrecks up your house and drives your people away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Does removing "men are scum" but not gendered slurs and abuse against women constitute a sexist double-standard by Facebook?No I don't know that because Facebook leaves stuff like that up all the time. It gets reported but Facebook refuses to remove it. You don't have to take my word for it, I posted multiple examples in the OP of Facebook receiving reports about gendered slurs, threats, harassment and violent, sexist "jokes" that time again "don't violate community standards, sorry!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Does removing "men are scum" but not gendered slurs and abuse against women constitute a sexist double-standard by Facebook?How do people keep missing that these things were reported and ignored by human moderators? Read the articles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Does removing "men are scum" but not gendered slurs and abuse against women constitute a sexist double-standard by Facebook?Facebook received reports and told people the comments/images didn't violate their community standards. It was mentioned in one of the articles that human moderators are the ones deciding labia cupcakes are indecent but violent, sexist jokes about raping and beating women are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/17 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Does removing "men are scum" but not gendered slurs and abuse against women constitute a sexist double-standard by Facebook?They don't even remove slurs and sexism that get reported, that's half the point here. What does China have to do with anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/17 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Does removing "men are scum" but not gendered slurs and abuse against women constitute a sexist double-standard by Facebook?Facebook responding to sexism against men: OMG they said men are scum!? REMOVED Facebook responding to sexism against women: eh, learn to take a joke bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/17 03:39 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] He's Asking For ItI put forward as much evidence for my position as you did yours: nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 07:10 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] He's Asking For ItYou're a man, aren't you? The only women that get chased after are the top 20 percent. Everyone else, the responsibility falls squarely on the shoulders of the woman to get the man's attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 02:24 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] He's Asking For ItMen who don't get any attention aren't the norm, that's like the bottom 20%. Even plain nerds gets chased after by other plain nerds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/17 12:26 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] He's Asking For ItGazing is better than commenting on my tits and trying to embarrass me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/17 12:24 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] He's Asking For ItJust because women can get male attention in gym clothes doesn't mean they don't put effort into their appearance for male attention. The point is some guys think you're "asking for" attention no matter what we wear and that's stupid. Existing in public = "asking for attention" in some people's minds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 05:48 PM |
| 10 | [CMV] He's Asking For ItWe get male attention even when we wear ratty sweatpants, greasy unwashed hair and no makeup to the store. There is no escape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: Where is the self-improvement or sexual strategy in this Red Pill post?Aww I missed the first discussion. Sorry for the re-post! I have a minor disagreement with you though, it really seems like they enjoy ripping on non-traditional women more than anything (blue haired man jawed feminist career women are deeply loathed). But I agree that the instant turn around from "enjoy the decline" to "bitch should've followed her womanly instincts and got married young and popped out kids instead of dating/career" is bizarre but then again many of them are disillusioned sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Women] Who were some of the creepy guys you knew?Did this post change your mind about women only thinking unattractive guys who "try to act like Chad" are creepy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: When TRP says "blue pill" do they mean liberal?Close enough, so you would agree TRP/MRA/Manosphere are closer to being "conservative" than liberal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/17 02:06 PM |
| 16 | Q4All: When TRP says "blue pill" do they mean liberal?not reliable sources Did they falsely report anything that Elam, Yiannopoulos or Straughan said or did? Anything that would negate what I said? You know the answer, retreating behind pretend disdain and "not reliable sources" is an excuse and we both know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/17 02:20 AM |
| 14 | Q4All: When TRP says "blue pill" do they mean liberal?Paul Elam is a conservative but AVFM is pro-gay-rights and is trans-inclusive (indeed Blaire White's first video appearance was, IIRC, an interview with Paul Elam). I don't see what "issues" he has with minority people. Why are Prominent Men’s Rights Activists Appearing on a White Power Radio Show? MRA grandaddy Paul Elam: Dogwhistling his way into the Alt Right? Paul Elam warns men: be wary of Asian women because they might cut your penis off Milo Yiannopoulos is gay and has a black husband. Su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/17 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: When TRP says "blue pill" do they mean liberal?Are you not counting liberal views of gender in that assessment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/17 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: When TRP says "blue pill" do they mean liberal?Blue means female frame. Illogical, delusional, non-rational, naive and stupid Misogyny is a conservative view... *popular with conservatives at any rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/17 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (12 November 2017)Ok I'll check it out! ...but I maintain that murder is generally bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/17 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (12 November 2017)I thought TERFs were anti-trans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/17 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (12 November 2017)I got yelled at in there for saying murder is bad. Is there an IRC for blue-leaning PPD cause I would hit that up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/17 12:51 PM |
| 5 | [Q4Women] Who were some of the creepy guys you knew?Reds think they are unattractive men who dare to hit on women. No, these guys just use it as an excuse for their own failures. I'm curious top get some actual examples from women so we can talk about why exactly they are creepy. It's hard to quantify other than they either don't pick up or ignore the usual signals of disinterest. You try to be nice to let the guy save face in rejection, but some guys take that as permission to push harder and things get awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?They didn't forget the consequences, they were aware of them and tried to take them on same as men if they couldn't remove the draft entirely. You condescending assumption is the problem here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/17 11:54 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?I proved you wrong, and then you pivot to accuse me of something I never said or implied. Trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?So currently there's no discrimination? When men in some countries in order to vote they are forced to be on the draft?? lol you're trolling, ok. buh bye! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/17 08:15 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?As a typical feminist you went to the advantages but forgot the consequences. Women got to vote without the responsability of the draft unlike men who only could vote if they were placed on the draft. If you just read women can't vote you're more naive than I thought, once again feminism gain a right without responsabilities but you're blind to it. Feminists know and have known that consequences come along with advantages, they have fought on multiple fronts to either eliminate or equalize the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/17 07:01 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?I wish you people would look up basic history before shooting off such condescending remarks, it's embarrassing. ...Eleanor Smeal, the president of the National Organization for Women, observed the other day, when she lobbies state legislatures in behalf of the equal rights amendment, male legislators frequently say to her, ''When you women fight in a war, then we'll talk about equal rights.'' 'Argument of Entitlement' That ''argument of entitlement,'' as Mrs. Smeal calls it, was one of the fact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?You said MRA's wanted to take the vote away from women you only link to one MRA. The Social Media Director for AVfM, who was invited to speak at the men's issues conference because she has a following among MRAs, because MRAs have no problem tolerating and even welcome those who want to take away women's right to vote or any of her other noxious views she's not the only MRA sympathetic to nazis cough cough Elam Karen Straughn I also love the fact that you link to Futrelle again despite the fact … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 01:20 AM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?By saying female on male rape shouldn't be categorized as rape is saying exactly that. Actually you said Besides him thinking women can't rape men? Agree to disagree I guess. And who is the dishonest one now? Still you. Andrea Hardie AKA Janet Bloomfield, Social Media Director for AVfM "Women should not vote, because they will never be subject, in any meaningful way, to the draft." "Great men make petty women seethe with rage #PenisEnvy #WhyWomenShouldNotVote If women COULD compete, they would. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 07:57 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?There's literally nothing stopping one from categorizing rape statistically into penetrative or made to penetrate. Maybe you should ask him about it, it's been like 4 years is that still what he thinks? Either way, to claim that is him saying women can't rape men is pure dishonesty. There's a difference between categorizing an act differently and saying an act can't even occur in the first place. You are saying it's the latter when it's the former. you and the rest of AMR is literally against me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 03:11 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?Besides him thinking women can't rape men? You said he thinks women can't rape men, but he's talking about distinguishing between penetrative vs made to penetrate as separate categories of sexual assault. That's not him saying women can't rape men... Now I see how you could think AMR is "literally against men's issues", this isn't a reading comprehension issue its just plain dishonesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 09:21 AM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?I see if I can find it as he said it some time ago on his blog I won't hold my breath, that sounds pretty out of character for Futrelle. Sure you didn't just misunderstand him? You have actually read his blog entries So nothing specific, just "blog entries" and commenting in AMR is enough evidence of him being against addressing men's issues? Weak. As. Fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 08:19 AM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?Besides him thinking women can't rape men? When did he say that, link? How is he against addressing men's issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 07:22 AM |
| 1 | QForRPMen: what is supposed to happen if people start to care about or understand the male “problems” in the sexual marketplace?I don’t know any modern man that would be happy being with a woman knowing fully well that she isn’t attracted to him and is only with him for his resources. I can think of a few RPers who could live with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 03:47 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?So what was all that whining about smearing people again? Is your entire argument projection based? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 01:47 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?What is the issue with Futrelle exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 01:43 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?Jaye has said that the suggestion the film was funded by MRAs (men's rights activists) is "a common lie that keeps spreading Evidence? Maybe she initially indeed intended to create a rebuttal of the positions of the MRM and just, during the creation process, realized that she couldn't go through with it because this would have been intellectually dishonest? hahaha Futrelle is probably the last person on this planet who is in the position to cricitize others for a lack of neutrality. What is the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 10:56 PM |
| 6 | When Bigotry destroys sympathy...(Discussion)I would guess because a. the historical ramifications of men's sexism is greater than women's, women never oppressed men as second class citizens and women still have catching up to do in terms of economic and social power b. the societal harms from men's sexism is greater than women's, men as a class aren't stereotyped out of powerful, high-paying jobs by women. Women don't write manifestos about how men don't belong in STEM. Women's sexism is still sexism, but the most it accomplishes is grumb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 04:43 PM |
| 3 | When Bigotry destroys sympathy...(Discussion)It's not, both are sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Is women's growing sexual freedom positive or negative for humanity?How has it been a disaster? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Is women's growing sexual freedom positive or negative for humanity?That would be the standard definition the human race; human beings collectively but more specifically societies where women have attained sexual freedom, 1st world countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 02:44 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?Thanks for the essay but you didn't address either point from my comment: Most of the funding came from subjects of the "impartial" film Jaye didn't hesitate to sell out to white supremacists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 02:38 PM |
| 3 | When Bigotry destroys sympathy...(Discussion)Do you think TRP is trying to dehumanize half of humanity as its purpose? I wouldn't say that's the main goal or anything, but it is a conscious effort to demonize women. You don't need to call women delinquent scum, or irrational, or call them all bitches, sluts, whores any chance you get in order to make women seem less romantically intimidating. More likely TRP appeals to men who already feel that way about women, and enjoy reading angry revenge fantasies about women "slamming into the wall" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 02:34 PM |
| 5 | When Bigotry destroys sympathy...(Discussion)I get you're trying to build an argument that all groups (feminism, TRP) are equally bad here but TRP is a conscious effort to dehumanize half of humanity, that's not the same thing as "groups have more sympathy for members of their own group". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 01:58 PM |
| 10 | When Bigotry destroys sympathy...(Discussion)They don't care, "taking women down a notch" is the point. Take women off the pedestal and throw them straight into the gutter. It's a conscious tactic they use to try and elevate the man's self-esteem and confidence and make women seem less intimidating. Kind of like the old "imagine everyone's in their underwear" trick to banish stage fright, but instead of everyone being in their underwear it's women are inferior, sub-human scum that men need to manipulate and control in order to be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 01:50 PM |
| 1 | So I finally got around watching The Red Pill documentary... who else?I heard it was a boring fluff piece, Jaye set out to be "impartial" and ended up getting most of her backing from her own film subjects. So MRAs got the propaganda hit piece they paid for, and Jaye wasn't afraid to sell out even to white supremacists to grow her audience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 01:33 PM |
| 2 | People who believe in the concept of "toxic masculinity": can you explain why the concept is needed?The institutionalized sexism against men both from the government, and from women voting with their pussies to breed 80% of men out wat is greater and more harmful than the institutionalized sexism against women. You can always find some fine print or exception of something being true, doesn't mean it's predominating, and that it should be given credence. You heard it folks, women choosing who to have sex with instead of men choosing for them is more harmful than sexism. You guys never fail to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/17 05:59 PM |
| 2 | People who believe in the concept of "toxic masculinity": can you explain why the concept is needed?Do you also think racism ended after slavery was abolished? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/17 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (08 October 2017)Oh no, she's one of the worst. You didn't see her interview with crying nazi? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/17 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (08 October 2017)Are there any well-known MRAs who aren't either sexist, racist or both? Asking for a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/17 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manYeah it's impossible to be a misogynist while being attracted to women, that's why all man-haters are lesbians! lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/17 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manYou sound annoyed. I'm annoyed too because RPers say men need clear instructions and guidance, rules for "robots" that need social undertones painstakingly explained step by step because they can't understand "be yourself" or how to not be desperate or a doormat. Then out the other side of their face they argue that advice about sticking your dick up someone's ass without asking and don't worry about women's pleasure and women are scum, women are inferior, women are less intelligent should obvio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/17 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manthe only thing men want from woman is sex As soon as you have sex, what do you really need a woman for? There's that woman-hating RP attitude, I knew it would surface eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/17 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manYou missed the point by a mile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/17 02:21 PM |
| 4 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manLo and behold, you need to feel out your partner in order to have a mutually pleasurable experience. Agree It is also the man's onus to be the initiator and aggressor. Disagree, why does he get all the fun? Please don't tell me you are one of those people that push continuous consent. If by that you mean I want to be asked before someone anally penetrates me and cares about my pleasure instead of assuming a couple minutes of caveman bang is enough then guilty as charged. If a man went to the Red… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/17 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manIf it's for robots why is telling men to shove their dicks in a woman's ass without asking, that she's a slave to be used for men's pleasure and if she doesn't cum it doesn't matter a good idea? Sorry but I don't buy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/17 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manAnd to a certain extent it's not really wrong in the sense that if you're genuinely "high value" (physically attractive, fun personality, status, whatever else you wanna factor in) he will have women chasing after him yes. I don't disagree with that, I just think trying to live it through women here is like being involuntarily included in their personal spank bank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manHyperbole? Did you not say send 2 texts for her 3 and A&A shit tests were rules of thumb? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/17 11:52 PM |
| 4 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manGame and the "uninterested man" is about communicating the confidence and social position and ability that women like....You aren't trying to act like she is dirt. You are trying to communicate that the two of you are on a similar level. When put into practice IRL maybe, when posting to TRP or trying to get women to grovel to a hypothetical alpha it becomes more masturbatory imo. I generally agree with the notion of don't blow up her phone, don't grovel, don't let her make you do petty shit, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/17 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Analyzing a RP theme: the uninterested manbut only Rick and Morty fans would be able to understand it. I like Rick and Morty, lay it on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/17 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4WOMYN When you fantasize about having the cock you always wished you were born with, How large is it and what color does your imagination paint it to be?;D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Men holding cats: sexy, or TOO sexy?damn women and their high expectations, so demanding ugh why is me doing literally the least I can not enough for you? go on and cuck me for another post. bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Implications of "she's not yours, it's just your turn"Well-said, if you were the kind of person who disliked manipulating and hating on women TRP would have no appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/17 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Implications of "she's not yours, it's just your turn"Have you ever met a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/17 12:54 PM |
| 6 | Implications of "she's not yours, it's just your turn"My follow-up question to you is, is it worth it? Is having a relationship where you constantly have to put the woman down in your head, remind yourself something can go wrong a healthy or satisfying way to live? Because TRP isn't just saying "watch out, shit happens" they attach a slew of woman-bashing to it that makes women a hostile enemy. There's a post on TRP right now with 200+ upvotes telling men to remember their woman is fundamentally lazy and selfish and her only value is sexuality. Why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/17 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why so little empathy for men who visit sex workers?Just like TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/17 01:28 PM |
| 5 | How many TRP "truths" do you think are a result of self-fulfilling prophecy?Most men with successful sex and relationship lives are RP; they just don't know of it. They're sexually successful because they are what I described earlier. Source? Evidence? Factual basis?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/17 03:34 PM |
| 0 | A short personal opinion surveyThat's what the article I linked is for, it has a good breakdown of some of the more inflammatory evo psych you left out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/17 12:34 PM |
| 2 | A short personal opinion surveyProbably because you scrubbed the most offensive portions in favor of the stuff most people will agree with out of context. *http://gizmodo.com/men-have-always-used-science-to-explain-why-theyre-bett-1797608461 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (30 July 2017)Why the fuck would a teacher want to share intimate sexual details with her students? Why do you think people are so concerned with what women do sexually? Why are some people so eager to bash a woman who had fun, consensual sex but not the man who was there with her? Why are some men so desperate to bring a woman down and call her slurs for something that harms no one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (30 July 2017)Oh no, you mean a woman might have had pre-marital sex and had the audacity to enjoy it? Let's all call her a slut and completely ignore the man who was there too, that'll teach women to enjoy carefree sex. That's only for men! And only men are allowed to fondly reminisce on past hookups and brag, any woman who isn't thoroughly traumatized by dick is a worthless slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:23 PM |
| 5 | Ex-RP Men: How do you handle this?My boyfriend is the same way, when we were first dating and I was insecure and asking questions about his past he refused to talk about it. I eventually accepted that it was a private matter to him and those feelings were just my own fears anyway. He's not under any obligation to divulge his past to me, or me to him, or your girl to you. If you like/love her, it doesn't matter, but the voice in your head saying "but what if she did a thing with someone else??" is not your friend. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/17 11:31 AM |
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