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| 33 | Is it just me or do men not know how to talk to women anymore? It seems like every conversation involves some sort of pick up artist technique instead of being genuineNo wonder! It's a healthy reaction that more people need to have. I'm 21 now but I've been hearing that word since 17 and it has done me not a bit of good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:48 PM |
| 54 | Is it just me or do men not know how to talk to women anymore? It seems like every conversation involves some sort of pick up artist technique instead of being genuineI think that's why she wrote it with quotation marks, as in "this is what a scrote who saw her would think". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:25 PM |
| 133 | Came across this today I have no wordsSex dolls condition men like this to treat female-shaped things like vessels for violence and extreme perversion with zero consequences. Like with anything pornographic, they will feel the need to escalate, and eventually abuse real women. Rapeable companions are NOT the answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 16 | Women not being silent and submissive is somehow a threatScrotes who don't believe rape victims should get eaten by a shark | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 11:30 PM |
| 51 | That time my ex complained to me that the girl he was trying to cheat with was only trying to sign him up for a multi-level marketing schemeI'm so sorry you had to deal with his donkey ass sis, but on the bright side your taste in profile pictures is immaculate!! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:09 PM |
| 15 | I just can’t. The duets with these couples is just disgustingI think the overwhelming majority of men would do this for less than 1k | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:05 PM |
| 65 | This shit 🤮What he really meant was: "that's awful for you bro, you're gonna have such a hard time convincing her to perform like an oiled up circus monkey so your disfuncional dick can get hard" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:18 AM |
| 202 | Yep.Both of them have leg hair in the picture. Why are men only offended by hers? Hypocrisy much? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:22 PM |
| 116 | I want, nay NEED, this tattooed on my forehead.I'm a proud feminist with a sense of humour, but in my experience it's women who tell the best jokes. They're actually well thought out and witty, unlike male humour which is 99/100 about sex, bigotry or 'mah wife is a nag'. And they dare be offended when we don't laugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 09:58 AM |
| 6 | Saw this on my Facebook feed and was a bit stun that this was enough of a problem that it warranted a group fighting against it.Probably shock value so women stop scrolling, empathize and read the important text. As for men, I'm afraid the answer is different and much more disgusting... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:48 AM |
| 53 | Equality only where it benefits men. This is why we don't pay on datesI don't think constructive criticism is an attack. We as women should be able to analyse and be against what other women preach as long as it's done from a place of respect and mutual building. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:53 PM |
| 55 | These are the men who want you to be honoured they let you be in their presence.A man whose first reaction to a threat is to link it to sex (your friend being scared of the dog somehow led him to think of fucking) has the mentality of a dormant rapist, if he hasn't already acted upon his sick ideas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 11:52 PM |
| 48 | Don't be an empath QueensThis is such a terrifying metaphor because it's true. While you focus on the small light you can see flickering inside them, they're only thinking about consuming you and taking advantage of all you can give them. They will suck you dry until you're just a husk. It is very much a predator-prey relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 02:33 PM |
| 8 | "I don't have to do chores, I work" (a rant about cleaning)The male brain is literally no different from the female brain. It's just that most men are taught to be entitled parasites who only care about their success and their male peers' opinions. It has nothing to do with biology and all to do with them thinking that women are lesser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 52 | Having guy friends growing up made it much easier to adopt the FDS mentalityI was the cool girl in my male friend group in middle school and let me tell you, it wasn't any better than what you described. Some of them treated me like trash, made sexist jokes to my face and messed with my belongings because apparently I'm way sexier when I'm mad, chased me around with dead bugs to make me scream, laughed at my face when I called them out until I started crying, and more. The others watched and were too afraid to say anything in front of their friends but expected me to li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:49 AM |
| 26 | Imagine being this much of a pathetic degenerate. 🤢🤢🤢I've got another one! RDW: "Rapists dehumanizing women" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:34 PM |
| 69 | Imagine being this much of a pathetic degenerate. 🤢🤢🤢Prostitution is sexual coercion under the threat of impoverishment, therefore rape. No woman who sells her body to men she wouldn't have a sexual relationship with if money wasn't involved is freely consenting. No matter what leftist dudebros want you to believe, this is a non debatable fact, like many economists and social theorists (famously Marx and Engels) have already stated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:33 PM |
| 17 | I just realized beauty is power. It is why men have wanted to possess us, as if I'm an object. I might not be as big or strong as men, but I'm powerful through my femininity.Very well put! I think these topics make it clear to see who reached FDS through the radical feminist school of thought vs the liberal feminist one. Female beauty doesn't let you control the reactions of those who are attracted to you. If a man finds me sexually appealing and wants to rape me or abuse me, how is beauty going to help me defend myself? How does it aid me in improving my life and succeeding in my personal goals beyond positive discrimination by an employer who prefers 20-something … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:05 PM |
| 40 | Learned my lesson (daddy issues)You've still a long way to go before you are done healing sister... Please don't force yourself to list the qualities of the predator who showed you so much abuse and toxicity. Keep yourself safe and stay the hell away from that worthless man and his enabling daughter. Much love and strength💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:41 PM |
| 18 | 🤔but who am I to judge I will damn well shame people (read: men) who derive their pleasure from physically abusing women. There's no safe way to have sexual violence enacted upon your body. Those women need and deserve help, and the idea that we're "judging" them by being against BDSM culture just isolates them further imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:56 PM |
| 7 | To lonely women starving for affection, DON'T ENGAGE WITH INCELS/LV MEN. My story.... TW: Suicide+forced marriage+blackmail+stalking. This is to serve as a warning!!...yup. A disgusting incel I knew from highschool who was infamous among girls there for watching porn in class guilted me into undressing in front of him the one time he got me alone. Never again am I going to feel inadequate for being called a prude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:41 PM |
| 24 | Nah, sis"AND YOU SHOULD TOO" HAAAAAA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:18 PM |
| 29 | The marriage subreddit is filled with woman "bragging" about their husbands doing things they should already be doing. The subtext: Its only special because most men are irredeemable LVMs....because his boss is out of town too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 08:18 PM |
| 11 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.Sis I'm sorry but have you ever heard of the patriarchy? So many women act like stray kittens because they literally don't know better!! They've been taught since they were little kids to coddle and soothe and obey men, and then they were told that that's all they would ever amount to. They're basically survivors and yet you think they're "pathetic". Now you want to open their eyes and instead of showing them compassion and sisterly love you decide to dump all of their flaws in their face and ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 17 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.1) XXChromosome has male admins and pinkpill isn't nearly as big a community as FDS. 2) I agree with you that the "woe is me" mentality can be exhausting and derail the conversation a little bit, but I don't think anyone here is patting them on the shoulder and telling them that all will be better if they stay. Without sadness and shock there's no identifying abuse, and without identifying abuse there's no healing. "Rising above those issues" is impossible without awareness, and that's what thes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:26 PM |
| 18 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.Which subreddits help abused women work out their issues again...? Last time I checked Reddit was a cesspool of womanhating incels run almost exclusively by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 14 | Friends with benefits for what?She's the prettiest fuckboy I've ever seen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Do you ever imagine flexing on your ex? How do you stop?This!! I don't think discipline is universally helpful when it comes to feelings. Sure, some people will be able to break through with brute force and finding new things to keep busy, but what some of us really need is patience, understanding and being in touch with our own emotions. Why do you think you might not be over your ex? Perhaps you haven't given yourself proper closure yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 12 | Anyone grew up with families whose parents treated their male siblings better?You sound like a total role model! Congratulations on thriving with nothing but your own talent and hard work 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | reminder ladiesThank you so much for the explanation!! I guess it doesn't sit right with me to have a man pay for a lot of my stuff because at the end of the day he will expect reciprocity in other ways. I find marriage and childbirth self-sacrificial and risky (and that's really not me) and if my partner was the provider type I'd be expected to take care of the feminine labour like having babies or being a house- keeper. I've seen my mum give up her dreams of an outdoorsy job because her bones were too weak a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:32 AM |
| 10 | reminder ladiesI avoid traditional men like the plague lol. This may contradict FDS principles but I don't want a man with the provider mentality. I just want an equal who puts the same amount of effort and care into our relationship as I do, not a second daddy who will give me an allowance and buy me shit from time to time. Maybe I'm too young and inexperienced but that's not what romance is to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:05 AM |
| 199 | Another tale from the vault: Before FDS, I used to have to persuade men to wear a condom by telling them I was pro-life. To really sell it, I would look them directly in the eye, smile gleefully, and tell them that if they ever got me pregnant, I would keep the baby.It's not that great a strategy even for casual sex. Reproductive abuse is a thing: many men will want to tie you down through a baby so they have a personal maid/sex toy at their beck and call. Men use the expression "don't stick your dick in crazy", but if crazy happens to stick his dick in you (which is much more common imo), you don't want to be putting ideas of wanting a baby and being a pro-life, child loving, redpilled tradwife in their heads, because many will become more invested instead… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 02:11 PM |
| 76 | Im not raising LVMs....my sons wrapped all the gifts this year.I turned 20 this year. I've started buying Christmas presents for my close family members and friends because I've come to realize that setting aside 20€ so I can get granny/auntie/helpful classmate a gift, then wrapping it with care and writing a card is much more fulfilling than buying yet another pair of jeans or a lipstick tube for myself. That's not something boys my age have realized yet, and I fear they never will. They don't buy any gifts willingly and they show zero gratitude/tenderness… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*I love playing typically macho games like shooters or roguelikes (animal crossing too, I'm not as limited as some of my male peers lol), but if a man ever did this to me I'd be seriously pissed off!! We either game together or we don't at all! This is like me going to a restaurant, ordering for myself and deciding that he'll be fine just watching and cheering me on while I stuff my face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 9 | Having to tell a grown man that he shouldn't invite his mom to your dates should make you rethink your relationshipMy dad came with me to my first date ever when I was 13 and I'm MORTIFIED to this day. I don't know how a grown ass man who's been living with his girlfriend for two years lacks the social awareness preteen me had. Mama's boys are wack 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 15 | Imagine being this Pornsick 🤢🤢For these coomers: Amazing games where you get to help others and make important decisions <<<< teras worth of samey, fake ass porn Really shows what they believe is a good time investment huh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Rejecting patriarchy is hard. Let’s get that shit straight right now.I will trim from time to time because it's second nature for me to feel embarrassed about my body hair, but hell yeah sister!! Hairy armpits all the way!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:39 PM |
| 59 | A man thanks the wrong author for writing his wife's new favorite book even though her name is clearly written on the book coverMen give compliments to feel good about themselves. They couldn't give two shits about whether she's actually the writer or not, and that "I thought you might enjoy hearing it" really gave him away... If she was a consolidated author, do you really think pretty words by a man who can't even read her name correctly (or bother reading her book) would have any relevance at all? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Reminder that it's ok to not be ok. Feelings your feelings/Missing someone is not wrong and is totally valid. Just be sure that you're not letting yourself fall into toxic situations again, because you're in a bad place temporarily. If you need support, we got you!I'm not bulletproof. Sometimes my mental health starts getting these little cracks and threatens to shatter into a million pieces like it has in the past, but now I know I'm strong enough to put them all back together into a new, improved me if or when it happens. Growth is not linear, but I'm always growing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 02:20 PM |
| 19 | non FDS mainstream humor. They know.Tamagotchis deserve to be higher up on the fun escale. They were such a big part of my childhood 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Your “value” on the market will NOT decline with age.That's the problem, I don't want to get married. I don't even want a man! I'm a very independent person and also a febfem, so I know that what I feel is the fear and unhappiness that others have projected onto me. Still, it's very hard for me to shake off my family's comments and I end up double guessing my truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:32 PM |
| 44 | Straight for a man's thoughts.It's harder for guys to get pussy than for girls to get dick is what he meant. But then again, dick is abundant and low value. I don't know about him, but I'd much rather have all the social and physiological benefits that males do and have fewer desperate weirdos trying to get a sniff of my cooch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:31 PM |
| 25 | Did you know that "aftercare" was a thing with BDSM?It absolutely is trauma bonding and men are sickos for making so many women believe that sexual violence could ever be followed by a cuddling session | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:25 PM |
| 32 | Your “value” on the market will NOT decline with age.I'm 20 and I feel so scared... My older female relatives who have stayed unmarried seem happy and they're cool ass women but everyone else says they're weird and lonely. Even if I've never been explicitly told that I should get married and have a family soon, everytime they're criticised it's like their criticising me! Growing old and impossible to love makes me so afraid, sisters... I know it's not true! But I still feel like I'm throwing my youth away by focusing on my education instead of fin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:49 PM |
| 49 | *chirp chirp chirp*You know... Since it says that we're basically crazy if we expect a man to spoil us... What I meant is: it doesn't matter whether they're expected or not to spoil us, they should want to spoil us anyways, because that's what one does when they're in a loving relationship. Do I make more sense now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:19 PM |
| 64 | *chirp chirp chirp*Wtf does it matter if he's "supposed" to spoil me or not? We all should enjoy doing nice things for the person we're in a relationship with! Why else would I have a boyfriend/girlfriend if not to treat them with love and tenderness? I won't settle for any less than full reciprocity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:39 PM |
| 274 | On sex educationGirls are usually much more mature when learning about genitals and sex education in my experience. They'll worry about periods, unwanted pregnancies and not being "good enough" for their boyfriends, while boys will just laugh at dick jokes like apes 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 11:22 AM |
| 7 | A dude commenting about how women that shave their head are disgusting, later said he’d live his gf if she gets cancer...Why do men indeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 02:48 PM |
| 31 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits continues their Pro-Pedophile agenda by smearing FDSers concerned about protecting gay youth from predatory adult men as “hateful”. Makes extremely homophobic claims that FDSers are “Political Lesbians”.Exactly! How are we anti gay when what we want is to protect gay youth from being groomed by pedophiles? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:27 PM |
| 136 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits continues their Pro-Pedophile agenda by smearing FDSers concerned about protecting gay youth from predatory adult men as “hateful”. Makes extremely homophobic claims that FDSers are “Political Lesbians”.Bisexual or gay women who have suffered male abuse to the extent that they want nothing to do with them and opt for building their lives as far away as possible from males, usually surrounded by other like-minded women. Some liberals also use it to refer to straight women who have chosen to remain relationship and childfree because they're not satisfied with men's standards of behaviour. Basically, if you don't want the gender that disproportionately abuses, rapes and kills your own gender in yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:36 AM |
| 3 | BDSM grosses me out so much. To any women reading this, don't allow anyone to pressure you into doing that. It's misogynistic as hell.Sure, and maybe some people like just a little pain outside of sex. Is there nothing wrong with that too? A small cut here, skipping a meal there... If it hurts it's NOT okay for you even if it feels good. When you link pain to pleasure you're rewiring your brain away from self-care, self-love and self-esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | BDSM grosses me out so much. To any women reading this, don't allow anyone to pressure you into doing that. It's misogynistic as hell.Please do tell us the long story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 8 | The ONLY acceptable 50/50I think it's play-fighting. He's trying to hide the smile and act mad to tease her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:34 PM |
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