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The higher the count, the more likely she is a liability to cheat, be dissatisfied or end the relationship. The higher the count, the higher the divorce rate. What is there to not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:15 AM
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To flat out answer the question "at what height is a man's dating life hindered" the answer is anything under 6'6. The ease at which men of this height can date shows that anything lower is a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:49 PM
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Its accepted that top value men have sidepieces, and typically return back to their wife after affairs. If a woman has a top 10% guy and he stays fully monogamous, you are quite lucky. On the other hand, since men and women feel jealousy and have sex for completely different reasons, usually a woman will switch partners because the relationship is not satisfying and the clock begins ticking down for the end of it. From a genetic standpoint, ideally a man is supposed to sire many children with di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:24 PM
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This, I worked hard and now am making $1k per day at work, I am on track to increasing that as well. I also became much more physically fit. Being 31, I face the same issue as you. There was nobody to give me a little support on the way up. I find women who wait at the finish line and pick the winners as highly opportunistic, and now I have no way to filter out these women. I can't see myself commiting to any woman for more than a few months at a time for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:07 PM
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Absolutely not. Especially if I didn't have kids of my own. If we're talking about a couple where both parties have already had kids that were old enough to to provide for themselves, that could be considered for a less serious relationship. It's still a big strike/red flag though and far from ideal. Not raising somebody else's bloodline.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:11 AM
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I think OP should just wait until he reaches his target weight and waste minimal time trying to date until then. Women typically wait at the finish line and pick the winners. You're in a lower class than all non-overweight and rich people. Luckily, you can fix yourself in a matter of months it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:41 PM
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Good chance your parents wouldn't be together if they had today's circumstances 40 years ago. Your mom would be a serial monogamist and your dad would be an incel or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:16 AM
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It's my own personal opinion that sexual liberation and I'm talking about hook-up culture, porn, onlyfans might have its merits to some, what I see across the board is that it has had a negative effect on men's respect for women. It paints the picture that women in general are easy sluts. There's a lot of dudes that don't need that misconception. It rubs off on women who aren't playing part too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:11 AM
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Same thing with most people overestimating their driving ability and intelligence. it's super common for people to overestimate their attraction levels. Throw in some thirsty DM's and you have people thinking they're in high demand. Deep down people want to believe they're special. I think it's very common, I know tons of women who are going to be "forever girlfriends" despite wanting to be engaged and are in huge denial, and a lot more women that overestimate how many men are willing to purpose…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:50 AM
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I don't, because I don't take dicks anywhere. I've done anal and some women love it. Who fucking cares? If it's someone you need to err on the side of caution with, cut ties. It's like someone's partner saying they fucked 200 people before, but it was totally a mistake. Obviously use discretion. You're just arguing some untenable standpoint about a fictional woman who we know nearly nothing about. You sure have a hard time hearing about a fictional woman taking it in the ass and are randomly try…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:02 AM
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I'm talking about unrelated achievements that pull respect in any situation. Having some abilities, talents, respectable skill, something aside than genetic looks that shows you're more than a pillow. Same way men get respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:53 AM
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Acting a certain way is going to come off as fake 100% of the time. Respect for actual accomplishments, hard achievements and abilities are not gendered and will consistently generate respect if you're around normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:42 AM
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It's literally the deciding factor in how long a LTR can go on for and can turn a partners life into pure hell. Nobody with a brain skips that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:21 AM
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Then you're not picking very successful men. Not saying it like it's a bad thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:23 PM
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Men have a much simpler view of what makes a woman "perfect" and it has very little to do with her mind. What a wholly ignorant statement. Any man with a brain can conceptualize every aspect of their perfect woman, just as well as any woman. Including their mind and behaviours. Men are just socialized to have a higher threshold for the bullshit aspects of their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:19 PM
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Good point, I'll remember the golden shower thing to test sexual compatibility before I end it. Yes it is a blown up issue, there is literally a gatekeeping post at the start of this thread. Theyre waiting for a cis male to comment about shoving tampons up the urethra and other lulzy tropes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:13 AM
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Flip flopping between two untenable standpoints is a skill that women like this are masters in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:06 AM
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Okay, but the likely problem was that Chad's cock was way too big for her ass. It fit in her pussy awesomely though! It was worth botching every future relationship with lesser males too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:04 AM
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Literally anyone would lie and say they hated it in this scenario. Like are they going to say "yes my ass was pounded so good that I crave being his little slut to this day?" The real problem is that they picked a dude who used and abused them and the forbidden fruit was tasted. Now lies like this have to be said to keep the Plan B man from seeing the darkness every single day the relationship lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:00 AM
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Those guys have no reason to commit to you so there never was a future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:47 AM
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Traditional women are a thing of the past. That shit you can let go of. Men want women to go half because they are not traditional. There, now you can stop finding this type of argument interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:43 AM
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You'd have to figure out where their self worth is unrealistic and hit it from there. Most people need a reality check. More likes on social media doesn't mean you're hotter, being fat is a dealbreaker to many, the percentage of people that make 100k per year is maybe 15% of people (that number is smaller assuming you only date men or women, not both), having a fling doesn't mean you're actually in a certain dating league. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:18 AM
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Apparently it's a bad trait and there's a massive slew of information online about why having an aversion to blood itself makes men undatable genetic dead ends. Go ahead and google "my boyfriend won't have sex with me on my period" and among the first rapey fuckwit articles you have bangers such as "Dump your partner if they won't have sex with you on your period, says expert" (nothing to do with the obvious blood aversion, mostly about how your bf is a pig who doesn't respect a bodily process) …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:05 AM
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The only thing that really bothered me is when a girlfriend actually got upset because I wouldn't have sex with her when she was bleeding. I was called selfish, but really I just have an aversion to blood. Some small amount at the end of the period whatever, but where there's going to be visible blood dried up all over my cock is something I want to avoid. I draw the line for bodily secretions at shit, blood and pus. Go me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:35 AM
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Exactly, I'm not an alcoholic just a wine enthusiast.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:30 AM
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Nah, money isn't as impressive because the illusion of limitless options on dating apps and social media. Just like the illusion of some highly good looking men committing, there's also the illusion of plenty of rich guys to go around. Maybe a way to ground oneself would be to think that every other female on tinder can get 100 likes in 15 minutes too. Not to mention the idea of being overwhelmed by choice to the point it can break your circuitry. Ever try to buy a showerhead off Amazon?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:11 AM
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That's for Dr.Chad to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:13 AM
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It was rude to just say that, but saying something like that would usually mean they're actively planning on ending the relationship on the spot. For being settled on, I'm pretty sure it's a common and widespread idea that men hate it and it's pretty easy to know which person you are in the scenario. This kind of thing is probably more common than most people realize, because the guy will typically not comment about it. Guys know that arguing about a woman's past to her is a fruitless activity. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:57 AM
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Taking a line of what I typed out and acting like it answered my question doesn't make you seem as clever as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:32 AM
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That's true, the guy who actively wanted you to regret it somehow was weird for vocalizing it. Most guys will just let the relationship fall apart or next a woman for this. Silent judgement is not meant for your radar and usually hits the guy only during a moment a clarity. The way they treat you should not be any different, but it will usually have an effect on his decision making process regarding you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:16 AM
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If you banged countless [people] and now suddenly decide to settle down with let's say [Pat]. How can [they] believe that you actually love [them] unless you truly regret your past sexual life? Most people pick a road and stay course. Few people are going to argue that someone with dozens of previous partners are going to finally settle on a single monogamous successful relationship. If somebody gets off on having sex with new people as characterized by their past, they will keep fucking new peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:05 AM
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So just because somebody holds this certain opinion, you are suddenly jumping to the conclusion that their lives must be ruled by women somehow, and a huge obsession is present? There's also a lot of guys who do get plenty of attention from women who are privy to things like OP's post and just exploit it. In fact, the dudes I know that date the most know about this stuff already and are just non-comitting as a consequence. Society paints a really ugly portrait of modern women even to the men you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:37 AM
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To be honest, I'd say a healthy percentage of men would do worse than allowing to have a bag covering their face. Regular guys make compromises regarding poor compatibility, being disgusted with her sexual history, being taken advantage of etc. all the time, because they rarely even have a shot of getting a relationship going. With the whole sex positive movement, men know theyre likely not to be the "Plan A" and are being settled for. So sure, just bring out the paper bag anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:10 AM
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Marriage material means a good provider who pays up a nice lifestyle and has cute banter. It's the runner up consolation prize position to be in. "Not marriage material" covers totally undesirable men, and also men who could call her any day and have her drive 2 hours to be the fourth woman this week he carelessly fucks and will never commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:49 PM
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Absolutely. You understand the current demographic of women. It's not useful to try and express that this is a hugely common dealbreaker for men of all strata. If a woman has already made themselves hard to love and commit to, you might as well just avoid them or stay limited to commitmentless fuckbuddies. Trying to explain this to someone who has made themselves hard to be respected, loved and comitted to is useless and they'll only get defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:42 PM
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People know nobody wants to be on the second string, it's just that that is not what happens in practice, because people are selfish and encouraged to be. It's just sad that by default, the widespread sex positivity movement ensures that the guy getting married later on knows almost for sure that he is not her best. Shes been with guys better than him in every aspect that used her. That is not a healthy assumption to have in the background, but it's so likely it can be assumed from any normal wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:32 PM
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Like, why the kids of middle class guys? I know kids don't have dating profiles but all im imagining is that meme with the "don't talk to me or my son ever again" wiener dogs. How can you tell someone's income by their profile too... You can't. Most of your exciting poor guys are middle class hipsters vibing as poor people for aesthetic. Winnebago travellers, hippy nature types, dude who seemingly only owns a motorcycle and nothing else... Whatever though, most guys already know to never really …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:24 PM
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I dunno, I think this is all stuff that makes guys seem cooler to other guys. It means literally nothing and possibly discredits them to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:09 PM
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Okay but this assumption that poor guys have more personality or that middle class has less is totally stupid but very prevalent. Between two equally interesting lads, the one that just owns his condo as opposed to rents it has a strike against him. It says something pretty pathetic about common judgement abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:48 PM
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Not a horrible estimate. Since women can get laid with zero effort, you can just ask them how long they think "is a long time to not have sex". That is a massive indicator. If they just turned 25, were in 2 serious relationships for 1 year, started dating at 18, and they tell you 3 months is a long time, they probably had 4 partners per year. Two years accounted with only 1 partner. That would put them at roughly 22 sexual partners. Tried and field tested with some friends and people at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:21 AM
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It probably is his looks and height, there's just taller and hotter dudes in the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:11 AM
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Nobody ever forced me, I'm just saying what happens when people don't have parallel options. You also can't force me to stop bitching about it. You're just sensitive to the idea that a majority of men will scratch the itch with ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:02 AM
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Women just get the opportunity to delete tinder from their phone more often. The dude she selected doesnt even do this because he has not a single reason to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:00 AM
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Don't get a partner and save up for a good life, you'll be miserable! *writes memo for the yearly wage freeze
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:50 PM
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Screw that, fat people put strain on the healthcare system and eat up the $60k of tax dollars I spend every year. Not only that but they directly effect the shrinking the dating pool for finding a healthy companion. You're pretty ignorant for denying it being endemic with really obvious results.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:47 PM
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Women don't complain about fat men because average men are pigeon holed into fucking fat women. They say "not like I have other options" and fuck & chuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:41 PM
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I'd say you're still off a little. Billy beta could still make 80k a year and have half the year off, be physically active, have a few friends, own a 2 bedroom apartment in a high cost of living area, have $100k in the stock market and drive a new looking truck from 2018. He's still going to be a lonely mess of a genetic dead end in the eyes of the priviledged demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:35 PM
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One factor comes down to how there is a lot of discussion about how almost all paraphilias come down to deep feelings of inadequacy that have gone unchecked. Our online society is not remotely close to an environment there we build people up, and is partially based on shredding short, fat, weird, stupid, poor people, all races, basically anyone is a victim in some way etc I expect people to be living in a fairly sad state since having a stable and positive self view is increasingly uncommon thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:50 PM
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Bullshit, it's always an everything game. There's just some slightly different emphasis on traits over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:06 PM
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Granted you'll never know the exact number, but you'll definitely know the trend. This is exactly it. The trend dropping from 30 to 1 is pretty unlikely, and you're obviously more likely to get cheated on when the numbers are high. I dont see how people argue this. You'll basically know the trend after you're cheated on or dumped though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:28 PM
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Being buff probably is helping you but you don't notice it because you aren't meeting other thresholds. They might not care about you're musculature, but you'd be likely completely invisible if you were obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:13 PM
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The risk is that being secure, commiting to work and becoming secure is a great way to become absolutely invisible to women. You'll be labelled as boring if you own a house at 30. You're still at the discretion of women by and large that like dating multiple partners who are more exciting than you. I'd say building a castle by yourself will leave you wondering if your partner only wants your assets. I'd say focusing on looks (surgery, fitness, nutrition), fame or talent based status is going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:49 AM
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Not praised, but I have never met a cheater or deadbeat dad who is single for very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:19 AM
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I can't believe how people can hold such a hypocritical view and refuse to see how a height requirement is similar to a weight requirement. Then get mad when they're not taken seriously and not respected by the rest of society/people they match with. I'm also going to say it's not exactly the same thing because height is unchangeable and weight is. Neither has been a problem for me, but when I see a dating profile that says something so superficial, hypocritical and flat out stupid they aren't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:13 PM
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That's just the most recent. I'm finally done with this shit and sick of it all, the quicker I'm off this ride the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:40 AM
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I am referring mainly to women who make an average salary and really downplay how far ahead you get ahead with dual income.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:00 AM
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There is one question to staying holed up and working on self improvement. I have a similar story as you. I had a lot of attention and then gained weight. Over 5 years I got in shape, had some modest plastic surgery, bought a house, started a company, kept in touch with friends. Now I'm 30 and am accomplished for someone in my age group. Do you think you'll feel incredulous around your future partners because they wouldn't give you the time of day in the past? I'm a guy but this has actually bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:51 AM
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One issue is how many people buy the ideas they are fed. There is a lot of social constructionism on social media, and once it's drilled into everyone's heads hard enough, they cannot simply ditch the ideas and they become stuck in the echo chambers. Eventually people do vehemently believe that, such and such gender is all weak or has this negative trait. They will seek to pick it out in their potential mates even when it doesn't/hardly exist. I hate to end this with a personal experience, but a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:46 AM
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Although women can pay their bills as any man in the past could, aren't individual earners facing a majority reduced quality of life? Wages not matching inflation for decades makes your regular workers making $30k-$60k able to achieve the most basic of monetary aspirations like homeownership and a retirement without catfood on the menu basically impossible. I'm a single dude making $1000 per day by contracting and I still feel a bit poor sometimes. Yet I still keep seeing this whole narrative ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:08 AM
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This is this whole sub boiled down. Basically looks are everything, women share the good looking men regardless of commitment and there's a pile of genetic dead ends who might get some scraps. What a happy story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:12 AM
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The whole sugar baby thing and resigning myself to being a mere moneybag has no fucking appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:00 AM
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Less and less do every day. It's going mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:31 AM
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I'm 30 and have a 1% salary, the only things I look for is that a woman isn't obese , some kind of tinder prostitute, or a feminist who takes wants to make everything some uncomfortable pissing match. At thirty, I've decided that the time is up and I'll just accept society for what it is. Marriage is simply not an option anymore, I just don't have the time to filter through this landfill of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:49 AM
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I'm pretty sure some children are intentionally birthed. It will be more obvious once you're out of highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:30 AM
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I am such a life form.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:48 PM
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I didn't describe top tier. Or women have a different meaning of top tier now. I think you're onto something though, because my gripe with women is their horrible reasons for selection. Needs musical abilities, a killer social media presence, possibly a degree with no relevant job. It's going to be such a fucking joke when I pick up a guitar and suddenly get girlfriends when clearing half a million and staying healthy means fuck all. Such a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:28 PM
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Don't act like those standards hold up. I've made those all my life goals for over a decade and excelled in them, I have lots to show for it, but I can't even get a girlfriend. It's really frustrating at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:40 PM
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I'm objectively quite successful with a beautiful paid off condo in the mountains and I guarantee my dating pool has been whittled down so hard that I can't even get any dates. There is definitely a caste system, and I really feel bad for a guy who is totally average because they are screwed. You're saying it was never meant to be a caste system, but here we are. A lot of well off and successful men are going to face genetic death or die completely alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:35 PM
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The standards go up for both genders. It's just not as obvious on the male side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:28 PM
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No, they are an indicator of what they perceive success to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:28 AM
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Perfect post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:01 PM
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A lot of men do care and won't say anything. It's usually pointless to verbalize it, because it gets other people very vocal. Suppose a man had a choice to be in an LTR with either version of a woman. One version has slept with 50 men in her lifetime, and the other has slept with 2. A majority of men would be picking the low partner count woman. The same question regarding women picking a man with 2 or 50 partners, the question suddenly becomes more loaded because women select for more criteria …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:54 PM
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Anger+disgust=jealousy Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:35 PM
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Maybe the guy just wanted a monogamous partner. The non-serial type. Could be a little less about sex than you think too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:29 PM
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I'm not sure about not suffering a penalty for being sexually abundant in the 20's and 30's age bracket. It is almost guaranteed to breed some instability or fallout in most men, and I am referring to the man that the woman wants a BB relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 01:11 AM
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You know that regular dudes just see Madonnas and whores as different types of people for different times or uses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:01 PM
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Uh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:47 AM
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One the same note, most women shouldn't reproduce either. You are talking about the genes of the human species. I am certain that /r/Likunfanele would spawn a low IQ incel male or a some retarded fucksleeve that nobody would ever love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:04 AM
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I can get dates and get laid, but I can't ltr because I'm disgusted with the nature of women. I just fuck and chuck now, I feel great cutting off communication after the deed is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:51 AM
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If you fear the purge, it's because you know you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:45 PM
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https://youtu.be/c-8Ro8IOAL4 a woman just losing it because she doesn't have a bunch of men in her life anymore, freaking the fuck out. This one is golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:52 AM
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No, that's going to remain fairly constant no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 12:40 AM
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These are total shit options. Every guy has thought of what you've presented, and most are dropping out because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:40 PM
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I can’t imagine not committing because she had a lot of sex. She gets off on fucking a variety of people. Even if you were the best, she can get so much dick that you arent going to keep that ranking for very long buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:18 AM
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So a mortgage counts as debt right? This is where I get screwed. I was really lucky and got a 40% down payment from the stock market. I live in a high cost area my mortgage costs less than most people's rent. People assume it's the opposite. Dates all think I am some kind of perma-broke tryhard. I have a nice apartment in the mountains and make dividends that are like getting an extra paycheque every month. I think the perceived debt load has nuked my chances at dating, because I used to do fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 11:01 PM
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It wouldn't bother me if people were just more honest. If a woman is overplaying the field, fine. The fact that they can't admit they are being used, lose value as they sleep with more men, and nuke their chances of being loved later in life by this generation is what bothers men. If they seem at least cognizant of what they were doing it wouldn't infuriate others. It's just the constant rationalization that nobody can take anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:15 AM
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Low empathy? Try no empathy and often sadism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:21 PM
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Maybe for 2020 people should start calling it like it is and tell them it's because they're ugly, old, fat or whorish etc. and overplayed the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:19 PM
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No, deep down they don't know. If communication breaks down between them in a passive and non-negative way the woman probably thinks he's willing to marry her at some point in their lifetimes. I've seen that more times than I care to count too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:00 PM
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End it as early as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:57 PM
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On the flip side maybe it is justified. Guys with wealth status and looks are still the most likely to attract mates. It is a human genetic goal to strive to get the best mates. People mention the ones that don't pull it off properly because they look like pathetic failures. The ones that hit the desire of the other sex's whim because they gave themselves an advantage are viewed as successful, and simply don't come up in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:51 PM
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If they aren't all gold diggers, then why is it so uncommon for women to marry a lower earner. You can give thousands of justifications and bring in outlying exceptions to the norm, but the face value point is that women are generally gold diggers to the point of needing a man who earns more than them. The amount of gold diggerness is just a variable trait seen in most couples. Again, the man is still expected to make more. How much more depends on how much of a gold digger she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 02:31 AM
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I think there are far less people who become engineers and doctors just to get women than you would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:59 AM
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People on the whole are pretty damn poor though. I mean hasn't buying power and housing affordability only gone down over the years? I suppose were making two different points though, it depends on what your priorities are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:40 AM
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Yes, people on this thread dont seem to realize that the average north american median salary is like 40K, eating out is a small luxury when you most likely don't have much savings at the end of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:36 AM
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No problem and a valid answer, you just can't complain when people treat you like a slut in life for having numbers like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:05 AM
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Mainstream society denies that high n count or displaying high n count traits is an extremely common turn off to men. It's so simple that the two most common ones are obesity and being a "slut". Obesity for the physical turn off and being a slut for relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:50 PM
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You and every other broad trying to convince men to live a less than ideal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:09 PM
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Idk there's hot sluts everywhere, what are you on about? It's easier to bounce between single women who will probably never find love. Having orgies and group sex is not sex 2.0 levelled up for adults, it's a recipie for a dramatically shorter relationship in realistic cases. What your talking about exists for very very few people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:00 PM
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What's next, "freedom in slavery"? What your saying isn't convincing anyone against making obvious better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:45 PM
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I’ve never met any large pool of unattractive or middle of the road men who felt entitled to X, Y and Z in a woman, the way women of all strata consistently and exclusively want and think they deserve a high status man. So when can we just legalize freelance prostitution? I'd rather just have the cost of pussy drop so we could all not have to put up with this. Even countless celebrities have had their wives divorce them, wasting time when they could have been fucking countless women. Women are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:24 PM
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That's true, but it does feel dirty that you are inflating their self worth. You basically have to tell them you were using them directly in the end. They will still come back to you for sex, plus they won't get too carried away with themselves lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:18 PM
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Yes, bit having your standards artificially pumped up or letting it happen is basically criminal. The end result in their dating life is much worse than their projections lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:13 PM
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Ok. I am more so responding to you saying that once a guy has been with a pretty girl, they don't want a fugly girl. That is true, but why would it happen if they could land a pretty girl? Fucking steady different pussy is great. Why have a 3 some with boring pussy Becky when you could fuck 3 new ones and just kick Becky to the curb?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:59 PM
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The matter is taking 100 cocks, not too surprising on purple pill. Men don't care if there was dinner and a movie in between each dick lol. Tons of regular women are racking up prostitute tier n counts, even the sex worker in his thread said she barely hit triple digits. Tons of regular women have out shined her easily by like 22 years old taking a new dick ever 1-3 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:50 PM
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You underestimate the dredge of getting locked down to one boring pussy no matter how "hot" it is. You forget that men generally like a variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:47 PM
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Idk, its what I was talking about the whole time and you vehemently responded to. Conversation over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:32 PM
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Sounds like denial. Not every cock a woman takes means they are willing to marry her, only point I'm making. Don't know why you resist such a simple fact that anybody could accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:23 PM
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It applies that many of the men you had sex with definitely seen you as nothing more than a warm place to put their dick. They put in whatever effort to bang and afterwards you both move on, you leave assuming you have/had a chance but never know the answer since you head out to pursue better. He leaves relieved it only went so far. I actually feel this including when getting with women out of my league. Face it, lots of relationships are supposed to be nothing more than sexual and you're acting…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:10 PM
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That's exceptional, if you actually know your number you are lightyears ahead of like 1-2 billion people on this planet that apparently struggle with basic counting. I can actually respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:47 PM
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Men out of your league did exist. They are the ones who stopped calling you back after using you, and would never dream of actually committing. You are just unaware.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:35 PM
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Can always just get out a notepad and try to recall/itemize by number all the different times you had sex. I am starting to think a lot of people just mentally block or skew their numbers without every actually knowing a hard figure. Even I have to do it, otherwise I would not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:31 PM
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Lmao, I suppose asking how many partners someone had is too difficult a question. People need to specifically ask how many different dicks have been in someone's pussy, ass and mouth to get the real numerical answer apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:28 PM
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Not for me either, I am against it on a primal disgust level. Might be okay if both are parents already and the kids are both teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 03:46 AM
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Lol like the incels or whatever of today, the problem over the next couple decades is probably going to be marriagecel women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:58 PM
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Right on. Edit: Here's your answer boys, having $500k-$1M under 30 makes you a "striver" and look how snotty they act when you are. Don't ever disclose your finances. You don't owe anyone anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:15 AM
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Doesn't matter how, just make sure you'll be taken care of if something happens. Bonus if your family stays together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:09 AM
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I didn't say anything about shitty conditions. It's the opposite, I have a beautiful home in a HCOL area and have tons of cash. Are you stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:42 AM
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Yeah that's what most people believe. What you mean is that if theyre not actively spending a bunch of money in front of you, you don't think they're rich. Nobody does stuff like that anymore. You can pull money from investments out and spend them that day if you're not in the Stone age/have an investment app so I have no idea what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:41 AM
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Just get involved and don't jump into anything high risk as a beginner. You'll get knowledge over time on when to use different vehicles. The hardest thing is knowing that a lot people from our generation are actually going to just be alone into old age, so just fend for yourself and get covered so you can retire with dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:28 AM
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Ouch, that's a mindset that will burn a lot of people in later years. Depending on someone to pay your future is a horrible retirement plan. I'd bet less than 1:10 men are able to, and a good amount that could aren't willing to. Times have changed, and this problem will rear it's head in later years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:11 AM
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Well their family might live low key too, if their money is sitting in investments you would never know. I get mislabeled as some rent poor repair man living in too nice of an apartment. Women definitely think I am trying to get with them to split rent or something. It's pretty sad actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:01 AM
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They don't. They're not psychic. Some are extremely judgemental and jump to conclusions and think it's some type of gift. It's really just being wrong but with additional thinking. Another thing is that a lot of people don't think a guy is rich unless he has close to a million liquid, any less and being rich is not what you are in their eyes. I've heard this opinion from tons of people who struggle to have $10000 in their bank account to boot. I have a few hundred grand from investments, and own…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:54 AM
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There is definitely a BMI that once crossed, I'm not going to be interested in what they are selling. Introducing this would bring on a better user experience and actually might be more successful. Believe it or not, there are a good amount of men who won't date down 5-6 points. Making a product where women pair with men out of their league consistently isn't good in the long run, and there could be an unknown population that wants to search more realistic rungs for a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:50 AM
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Is that an attempt at humor?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:43 PM
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I just know that at any moment there’s a handful of men who would propose to me if I made it even slightly apparent I would be into it. Common egotistical delusion? I really doubt anyone is going to be very accurate at predicting whether or not a proposal is going to go down. Many, many amazing couples where both parties are certain they will be married fizzle out when it's time to do the deed. Thinking you can predict this is really absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:25 AM
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Good chance pickyness remains static but the amount of men that would consider being seen with them is greatly diminished.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 09:54 PM
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That's on the same level as me saying "Men do it with less frequency". Thanks for your insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 02:50 AM
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"Since it's less likely to end in serious injury" is such a common and idiotic rationalization. It's about as stupid as saying "Well, the guy doesn't have to use all of their strength when hitting their partner." Both are totally unacceptable, people starting to talk about strength or other semantics come off as being totally out of touch. There is always somebody b-b-bbut'ing. It's not about which one could be more damaging, it is the root action.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 02:44 AM
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