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circusmeerkat/r/seduction06/08/15 04:03 PM
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circusmeerkat/r/seduction25/07/15 11:16 PM
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yeah, I know what you're saying. I try to be funny and keep it light in the convo. Nothing too over the top. Once I've established a decent connection for OKC, and the convo has flowed a bit, I suggest we meet up or something. Some girls just don't respond well though; just gotta move on from there.
/r/seduction20/10/17 01:19 PM
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Nah dude, not ugly at all. From what I hear, TInder is garbage for dating so I wouldn't get upset over that lack of success there. I used tinder for like a day and saw too many familiar faces; it was very off-putting so I uninstalled. As for OKC, I've been doing good considering that my profile / pics are shit. It really helps to message a girl something that's based off of her profile. Also, girls that are online are more likely to answer.
/r/seduction20/10/17 01:12 PM
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This is a lot of fun for both parties
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:20 PM
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I mean if a girl just flat out said "Let's get a place", I would immediately jump on the opportunity ( I'm a dude ). That being said, I'm not the type of person to force a girl to hookup with me, not even remotely. However, I can't speak for the rest of the male population. There are some sick people out there. You found a great, honest person; you got lucky, but I've heard some horror stories. I don't mean to scare you, but sometimes, you gotta trust your gut.
/r/seduction17/07/17 12:43 PM
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That's great man, I bet she isn't wrong. Keep on keeping on!
/r/seduction15/02/17 02:53 PM
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I just started to read Models. That sentence really solidifies the concept of non-neediness. Great post!
/r/seduction03/12/16 02:27 PM
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My buddy is crazy good at this. It does help that he's a good looking dude, but it is really insane how he just bangs girls on the first meeting. I asked him what he does exactly and he says he assumes "it's on" when he matches with a girl on tinder. When he meets with a girl, he'll talk to her for a short time, then go in for a kiss or something. gg after that.
/r/seduction25/11/16 06:33 AM
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I like the Woody Allen quote to end such a thought provoking post. I wonder how many opportunities I have missed out on just by staying in to watch movies lol.
/r/seduction18/09/16 02:07 AM
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I'm going to share my experience as a college student. I have since dropped out to pursue other ventures, but that is a story for another time. So, when I entered college for the first time, I knew absolutely no one. This was the best thing for me since I had the opportunity to reinvent myself. It was imperative for me to make friends with those who I felt would be great to party with; and that is what I did. Pretty soon, I was going to parties left and right. It was great for many reasons, but …
/r/seduction12/09/16 05:31 PM
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Your anxiety sounds kind of bad. Have you considered maybe trying some form of medication?
/r/seduction30/08/16 03:24 AM
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You're not alone man. Please don't do anything rash. Your life is just beginning. I was personally a late bloomer in the sex department and there is nothing wrong with that. Nothing at all. Sex isn't the finish line; life goes on. Don't put the pussy so high on the pedestal. The most important thing that you can do right now is work on yourself. PM me if you need anything.
/r/seduction31/12/15 01:10 AM
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Try checking your diet out. You can also try an exfoliating mask with cucumbers on your eyes to reduce that tired puffiness. If all else fails, try looking up some male make-up online.
/r/seduction29/12/15 12:13 AM
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Give em hell next time man. You got me pumped for this coming weekend.
/r/seduction29/12/15 12:10 AM
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Good shit my dude. Keep it up!
/r/seduction15/08/15 11:55 PM
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Here
/r/seduction15/08/15 03:39 PM
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I'm glad! Good luck with everything.
/r/seduction15/08/15 03:38 PM
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"The first thing I've noticed is what I call "fear of an audience" -- When you approach the girl, the best thing you can do is stay completely focused on the interaction in front of you. Not only will this help the conversation, but it also helps to block out the anxiety of people watching/listening to you. In reality, the people around you don't give a fuck about what you're doing. You can try to reframe the situation too .. "These people will think I'm a champ for going up to this girl" .. etc…
/r/seduction14/08/15 09:19 PM
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New York
/r/seduction14/08/15 09:12 PM
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This sounds great dude. I'm in.
/r/seduction14/08/15 09:03 PM
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You look good dude, you're not ugly. My suggestion would be to get a new hairstyle and maybe get your eyebrows waxed.
/r/seduction06/08/15 02:19 AM
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Hey dude. My advice would be to go up and strike a convo. It could either be indirect/ such as asking for directions, or direct - just going up to her and telling her that you had to stop her because you thought she looked nice/has nice shoes/ a cool dress, whatever. From there you can talk to her for a bit and maybe try and get her to go for a cup of coffee/drink right then and there. If not, talk to her for a little then tell her you would like to take her out for a drink sometime (preferably …
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:54 PM
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What's up my man. My advice is to just dive and don't let that fear stop you from having a good time. I wasn't too experienced with hooking up with girls during my first year, but I sure acted like I was. That mindset puts you at ease, and actually makes you good. Ive gotten compliments that I was a good kisser despite the experience. It seems like you're having no problem attracting girls so just have fun. Continue going to parties and interacting.
/r/seduction29/07/15 01:23 AM
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When you speak to an attractive woman, or any woman for that matter, the best thing you can do is stay present. Go in well dressed and groomed and focus on what she is saying. Just relax and have fun. You're going in to the interaction and putting her on a pedastal. You want to refrain this mindset in such a way that you think to yourself, "I'm going to talk to this woman and see if she qualifies to be with me"
/r/seduction28/07/15 03:08 PM
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Thanks for the advice man. Good luck on the date.
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:01 AM
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I just went on a date for the first time in a while last week. I kind of fell into the interview trap for a little, but not as much as I expected. I tried to make more assumptions about her (instead of just flat out asking questions) and tease her on info that she gave me. I have to suggest though - try and sit close to her and directly across. I couldn't really escalate physically because of that distance between us. BTW, I just made a tinder today, where did you find the advice to make you pro…
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:00 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3q7oKcFiYig around 4:30 he starts talking about it. And later one throughout that video.
/r/seduction28/07/15 05:50 AM
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I'm watching an video with all the RSD instructors right now. They're saying exactly this dude.
/r/seduction28/07/15 05:17 AM
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Just text her hey its <name>, and set up a date!
/r/seduction26/07/15 08:51 PM
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You're going to want to be confident regardless. You have to realize that not every girl is going to like you, and that is 100% okay. Keep going out, projecting your confidence, dress well, and you'll see results. Practice and persistence is key.
/r/seduction26/07/15 03:35 PM
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Thanks for the advice
/r/seduction26/07/15 06:00 AM
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I appreciate it man.
/r/seduction26/07/15 06:00 AM
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Hey man don't be so hard on yourself. My advice is to keep approaching. Now I haven't done night game recently, but I have been day gaming. Things have been going great for me, and that's coming from a minority. My first approaches were shit, but practice make perfect. Try working out and work on that inner game. Girls will see that and become more receptive.
/r/seduction26/07/15 05:43 AM
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Seems very similar to me. I'm having a hard time with the whole sexual advance too. I have mild social anxiety which hurts my flirting at times too, but lately I have been pushing through it. I have been trying to push my boundaries and get out of my comfort zone. All I have to say is that we have to push ourselves, and not be afraid to sexualize the interaction. Easier said than done, but the more we try it the easier it will get.
/r/seduction26/07/15 05:17 AM
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My friends aren't good wings at all, so what I've been doing is going out during the day, while getting things done, and day gaming. I've met a few girls so far, and been on a couple dates. Try doing that. I guess you can go to a bar at night and try to meet people there too. Also, go on meetups. Maybe you'll find some new people there.
/r/seduction25/07/15 11:40 PM
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Go to the party dude! House parties are a great way to meet people/girls. Alcohol will be flowing, so the atmosphere will be nice, relaxed, and fun. If you don't go, you'll probably regret it. That fear that you feel it's just telling you that this is something you should be doing. Have fun !
/r/seduction25/07/15 11:21 PM
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