cirsca Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Tumblr Blog about Seduction. First Post seems legit		cirsca	/r/seduction	07/02/12 09:31 PM

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1	When should you tell a girl you don't want a relationship? You don't explain to her that "I am talking to you to screen if you are cool enough to hang out with me" when you open her but that is the emotion/frame that you are setting. You don't explain to her "I want to have sex with you", you simply just have sex with her. Every step from stranger to lover is riddled with emotional choices and relationship dynamics which you use your actions and your attitude to portray without giving her an ultimatum with your words. My question was why is it not being…	/r/seduction	01/12/15 06:09 PM
1	When should you tell a girl you don't want a relationship? hey man, if it works for you then I support you doing it for ever more. Different strokes. My only question for you not so much answer but just think about is why is the relationship the only part of the feelings you are giving her being verbalized so definitively?	/r/seduction	30/11/15 10:51 PM
2	I [24 m] don't know where or how to begin Read 60 Years of Challenge's stuff and actively go out and fail. Fail a lot. Stop trying to not fail and start trying to fail. Try to get blown out. Try to make her be rude. Stop playing it safe. Just stop thinking and start doing.	/r/seduction	30/11/15 09:17 PM
1	When should you tell a girl you don't want a relationship? I want to get out of the way that I was not looking for a relationship just someone to have fun with This projects the underlying message of "I cannot handle ambiguity and tension so I am going to tell you logical stuff". I'm not sure if that is the vibe you are trying to create between you two or not but that is the frame/vibe/relationship you are creating. What I usually do: She texts often/wants to hang out often, the first time she texts me during the day, I just text back saying "Hey, I'm s…	/r/seduction	30/11/15 09:16 PM
1	When should you tell a girl you don't want a relationship? Don't bring it up unless she asks. The reason why girls are looking for a relationship is mostly because you are probably giving off boyfriend vibes early on (talking about more than "come here to fuck at 9pm"/logistic texting, hanging out without having sex, etc). If she brings it up, answer in a way that sets polygamy in a positive light, not in a way that puts monogamy in a negative one. You want to build up the idea of the relationship you want without tearing down any ties she has to the ot…	/r/seduction	30/11/15 10:24 AM
2	Mental Breakthrough (Nice Guy) - Seeking Validation I seek validation from girls. How can I turn this around, to the much more attractive quality of giving validation to girls? By giving validation to everyone. By instead of seeing the interactions you have with girls in particular but people in general as not a "what can I get from this" but rather a "how can we enjoy this experience together". Validation feels great and of course we all seek it and need it time to time. But the truly confident people, the ones that we are all trying to emulate,…	/r/seduction	30/11/15 10:14 AM
2	K closes, but cold trail afterwards Kiss closes break tension, which should always be our #1 no-no. What are you trying to accomplish with a kiss-close besides being able to say "I kissed a girl!"? Second, they are flirting with you when they either 1) want attention (value vampires) or 2) wanting sex (DTF/Greens). How do we find this out? By escalating, hard and fast. We do not settle for the kisses and often times find ourselves pushing the girl back if she tries to kiss us or mid-kiss to BUILD MORE TENSION between the girl and …	/r/seduction	30/11/15 10:11 AM
25	"The rating scale is a pedestal. The concept of “high value” is a pedestal. Coming up with special lines is a pedestal. ... Believing you have to treat her differently in any way is a pedestal." This is a really hard thing to quantify but I will try my best. Note: Everything I am about to say is purely me regurgitation things I've read/heard online from others. Very few things are my original idea. So if I say something that sounds like "so and so" it's probably from "so and so" 'Nice Guys' want validation. They are nice because they WANT something from the person they are being nice to. A Man gives validation. It is the same action coming from a totally different state of mind or "fram…	/r/seduction	10/02/13 12:05 AM
1	New personal rule - Only hitting on HB7-HB10 even though my success rate will vanish. Anyone with experience from hitting higher than their comfort zones? What you will come to realize, and I think 60 talks about this, is that you have a number every time you go out. You have a number of people that you have to talk to in order to get a lay. My number is 8. So on average, I have to talk to 7 different sets before I get a lay that night. What happens is that the hotter girls you talk to, the larger that number gets. If you can deal with putting in the time and effort, this is a good plan. However, just know, this is going to suck. Major penis.	/r/seduction	09/02/13 10:56 PM
1	Has anyone done any experimenting with substances before going out? I have tried THC and MDMA to help me overcome my "AA". They work at times and other times they hinder. I wish I could give more advice. I will say that the areas that I took MDMA for party usage were some of the best lays and the easiest lays I've ever had, but I think that has volumes more to do with the venue/setting than anything else.	/r/seduction	09/02/13 10:52 PM
1	Has anyone done any experimenting with substances before going out? But those times when you take 5+pts a night are the craziest stories to tell!	/r/seduction	09/02/13 10:48 PM
23	"The rating scale is a pedestal. The concept of “high value” is a pedestal. Coming up with special lines is a pedestal. ... Believing you have to treat her differently in any way is a pedestal." This is the greatest advice I've seen anywhere. Been repeated every few months on forums and such, but it hardly gets any hype. You are a fucking man. Treat everyone with respect and as if they are the most important person to you while they have your time. This will do wonders not just for your sexual game but your social game and in your working environment.	/r/seduction	09/02/13 10:47 PM
1	[College Advice] Sit next to random people on the first day and make friends Pretty freaking solid advice here mate.	/r/seduction	15/01/13 09:13 AM
2	We are her to learn about seduction, but how do you successfully end it so that there isn't any awkwardness or bitterness left of anyone's part? From reading some of your comments here, I take it you're from a small-ish town that has tight knit social circles. My advice on how to deal with this? Move. You really don't want to have to deal with social circle game in this setting.	/r/seduction	08/12/12 08:12 PM
1	[Case Study] Let's dissect this text conversation I had a couple nights ago and see how it could have been better. First thing: What are you trying to achieve through texting her? Are you trying to get a date? Trying to get laid? Trying to show her how funny/cute you are? Figure that out and then each and every text should be focused on achieving that goal. It seems that you are trying the cocky/funny side and missing it a little bit. Second, look at the time stamps. You are texting back withing seconds of receiving her texts and she is taking ~5min to text you back; You are sending novels and she is sending…	/r/seduction	08/12/12 08:11 PM
2	What is your success rate from approaches to phone number? When I was going for numbers, it was around 1:4 would give me the number, but those were very flaky (as most college girls are). When I'm going for just straight ONS, 1:8 usually, maybe 1:5 if I am at a party and it's pretty full of DTF gals.	/r/seduction	08/12/12 08:04 PM
-1	Is there thing in the PUA community as "Hail Mary" move? Field tested for when you are at your place or in your car and you can just tell that it is going to die out and you have nothing else to do: PYCO: Pull Your Cock Out. It works about as often as you'd think it would (rarely) but hey, when it does, it's hysterically fun.	/r/seduction	08/12/12 08:02 PM
2	I am 15 years old. Should I be reading these? I'm going to just go ahead and say no, you shouldn't be worried about girls at 15. You should be worried about if your team is going to win the big game next week, if you are going to get an A on your finals at the end of the year, etc. You're a kid Enjoy it. Live life to the fullest. Get some amazing stories and learn to enjoy life now. Girls will always be around and you can always become better at it later. I wish I wasn't so hung up on girls when I was in school; it would have been such a be…	/r/seduction	08/12/12 08:00 PM
4	Escalation tips The biggest tip I could give on escalating is to ALWAYS BE DOING IT. From the moment you say "Hi, I'm Cirsca" to the moment you try to put your penis inside her, be pushing physical boundaries. It's hard to go from ice to fire in terms of kino. Start with a handshake and holding onto it for a moment or two too long. When you want to make a point, tap her on the shoulder/arm. When you are talking, place your hand on her knee for a second or two. Always be trying to find ways to push the boundarie…	/r/seduction	11/10/12 10:46 PM
4	How to Compliment a Woman the Right Way Solid advice, but I think that this is pointing at something larger that should be worked on instead of "how to compliment someone." He hits on it at first, saying : Are you complimenting to take value or give it? That is the biggest thing here. You can say whatever you want to say, however you want to say it, as long as it is giving value, not searching for it. As men, we have value and we search for people suitable to give that value to. That mindset alone, the giving value over wanting value,…	/r/seduction	11/10/12 10:44 PM
4	What's an easy way to find out if a girl has a boyfriend? simple answer?	/r/seduction	10/10/12 06:08 PM