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As a female, OOF. Man oh Man, the concept of 'pick me' is one that I find deeply misogynistic. The whole idea is that if a woman B disagrees with woman B, it's because women A is just trying to get male attention. Its premise is the concept that ALL women are a huge hive mind like the Borg and they all have the same opinions and ideas from womb to tomb, and the only reason that another woman can possibly disagree with other women is because of a man's influence. It's an infantilizing and dehuman…
/r/MensRights01/03/24 04:33 PM
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Yeah I agree with you, I looked this up and it doesn't seem like it has anything to do with gender, it seems like it would apply to spouses of any gender with low earning potential
/r/MensRights15/02/24 12:48 PM
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Absolutely this. I think so many men are so interested about sex but actually a lot of it is just because it's a way for them to get affection and touch.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 03:26 AM
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I'm a big fan of you and all your work and I love this post in general but I do want to say there's never a good reason to use a bad graph. Not having the axis start at zero is misleading and it undermines your point because there's no reason to mislead about this. The real numbers are bad enough.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 03:07 AM
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I wish I could take the credit for this thought just 'occurring' to me, but it didn't. I have a student who works in a NICU and he turned me on to reading a bunch of stuff about NICU and I recently read a paper about a Stanford study that talked about how black babies are less likely to receive steroids for lung development so I had it on the mind. This kind of data is only available because the state of California has this thing called the California perinatal collective or something like that …
/r/MensRights05/02/24 05:13 PM
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Here are a few stats Are attractive men more likely to hurt women? I don't think so. In fact, unattractive men are more likely to be physically aggressive: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656612001390 But attractive men are themselves more likely to be sexually abused then unattractive man. attractive men are more likely to be abused than unattractive men Converse to the perception that high status men are abusers, actually, being more high status than your partner mak…
/r/MensRights05/02/24 06:11 AM
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I think the idea that attractive men treat women worse than unattractive men simply isn't true. I think it's a misconception that is reinforced by narratives about the "plain / ugly guy with a heart of gold," and it's an idea that feels comfortable to people. But I simply don't find it to be true. It's not true and my personal experience and it's also not true in the research that I have read on the topic.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 06:00 AM
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And this is actually even bad for children of other races because the term causes doctors to associate infant fragility with a certain race and therefore possibly overlook it in other races
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:48 AM
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I actually say this all the time to conservative USA men that I know and conservative UK men that I know. I say: "don't try to force a USA woman into a traditional wife lifestyle that she doesn't want. Marry a woman from another country who wants to live that traditional lifestyle." It's way better to marry a woman who wants the lifestyle you want your wife to have than to try to change a woman. I've also said this to female friends of mine in the united states. I have a few female friends that …
/r/MensRights04/02/24 07:26 PM
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I made a comic about this that you might like. Feel free to DM me if you want to read it
/r/MensRights04/02/24 02:17 AM
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I honestly think it comes from the big players in this industry like Amazon and Facebook just not wanting to have to pay their workers and they know if they have double the hiring pool that will really drive down salaries
/r/MensRights10/12/23 11:02 PM
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I'm glad that this post was made. Thanks for making this. I think this is an issue that needs to be talked about
/r/MensRights10/12/23 10:46 PM
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I think that ALL MEN in the USA who don't like the USA dating/romance culture SHOULD date women from other places. Of course you should date and fall in love with who you want, how you want. If a man does not want the whole USA style thing, he is not doing USA women favors by trying to grit his teeth and bear it.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 08:54 PM
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as a woman, I think that the narrative of ''women spent ALL of history being TRAMPLED ON'' isn't even that empowering or helpful to women. It sidelines the real, important, and decisive roles that women played in history, in societies of the past. Also the idea that people ahve because women are not as extensively documented in the written historical record means they weren't doing things is kinda sexist in and of itself. It's just sloppy history that neglects alternative sources of information …
/r/MensRights16/11/23 01:50 PM
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Even if they pour a bunch of money into it and it takes a lot sometimes that can work out for them in terms of tax reasons. They made that whole Batgirl movie and then didn't release it because not releasing it meant they could write it off on taxes
/r/MensRights16/11/23 04:38 AM
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I feel like big studios are intentionally half-assing it with these 'girl power' movies (charlies angels reboot, new ghostbusters, ww 1984, the marvels, birds of prey). I could go on and on about how studios have made decisions that kneecapped these films before they even had a chance to be good. Making these shitty movies with female leads does not even benefit women, in my opinion- it just furthers the idea that female led films don't make money. I almost feel like studios are half assing it i…
/r/MensRights14/11/23 05:21 PM
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In my personal experience there are some women who have vaginal orgasms really easily from penetration with no clitoral stimulation, some women who have orgasms from clitoral stimulation, and some women who have both. So what you've written here lines up with my personal experience. The idea that women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm is silly. I literally know girls who can orgasm just by flexing their leg muscles with their legs crossed. There is tons of threads on Reddit discussing how wom…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:23 PM
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Yeah, that's how I feel. Like, even if men WERE really that butt hurt about makeup, which in my experience they aren't really, why would that even matter?
/r/MensRights27/10/23 04:04 AM
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That's been my experience. But when I talk to other people, a lot of people insist that men pressure women into wearing makeup. I have not experienced personally that men care.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 02:45 AM
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this is a thing that I, as a woman, struggle to comprehend about the culture. When women or anyone say to me: ''it sucks that women have to wear make up" I say ''but we don't. Unless you're like a model or an actress, you don't have to. No one is going to force you to wear make up.'' and then they say ''well yeah but if we don't wear makeup, men will criticize us.'' And I say "well, who cares what men think? They can die mad about it, right?" This is also my response when people talk about the b…
/r/MensRights27/10/23 12:41 AM
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I agree with you that the movement has in many ways torpedoed itself by centering too much on "women don't wanna fuck me" which has made it easy to discredit more pressing concerns.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 02:13 AM
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I do find it suspicious when a guy doesn't have his social media public/link or claims not to have social media, because that's usually what guys do when they're cheating. I think if she said it as a joke it's not something to take too seriously, but if she said it seriously, that's a hurtful thing to say. Ultimately the way you feel about it is the way you feel about it and no one can tell you that your feelings are wrong
/r/MensRights11/09/23 06:23 AM
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I actually made a comic about this very subject and if you DM me I can send it to you.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 06:08 AM
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Good. As a woman who would personally really rather be left alone in bars and clubs, I'm happy to hear that it's like that other places in the world. Women who push this narrative that men ought to be throwing themselves at strange women in public all the time aren't only making the world worse for men, they're making it worse for other women too.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 07:53 PM
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I think men in North America are in kind of a tight spot because there's just not a lot of healthy ways to express masculinity or be masculine. I live in El salvador, which is a country in Central america, and one of the things that I appreciate about where I live is that men have a lot of opportunities to be masculine in a meaningful way. I feel like in North america, men usually only have the opportunity to express masculinity through kind of silly and trivial things, often only through their …
/r/MensRights30/07/23 01:51 AM
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Thanks for sharing this video
/r/MensRights09/07/23 05:04 PM
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I think that I made a comic about this
/r/MensRights09/07/23 05:02 PM
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I mean I think that there definitely are people in the MRA community that hate women, but there's a lot of people just in the world at Large that hate women.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 04:55 PM
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I'm about 5'10 and I preferentially date men about 5'4. I'm not rich, but I'm successful enough to have become a homeowner at 30 on my own money, which is something that I'm very proud of. I find that people have very very strong reactions to me dating men who are about 6 in shorter than myself. First of all, people often try to cast it as some kind of a "fetish," or being somehow related to some kink lifestyle, but it's not. Something that is really gross that I really don't like is people insi…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 04:41 PM
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I don't think that men having low standards is a virtue or a flex. It's not something admirable in my opinion.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 05:24 PM
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I posted it here when I made it to get feedback to make a better one next year ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBmzJFnLywk&t=2s
/r/MensRights08/03/23 07:05 PM
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did you see the video I made for international mens day?
/r/MensRights08/03/23 06:04 PM
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I had a previous partner who committed suicide due to reproductive coercion. His mom had to bury him at 25. And she has to keep a straight face around the mother, in order to be able to see her grandson. I cannot imagine the level of self control she must have.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 03:30 AM
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Absolutely agree. And honestly, it's true for a lot of men as well: if they get emotional, that emotion overrides any reason / logic / ability to process more information. One of the things that they taught me about my degree in education program is how if people feel threatened, they're not ready to learn. It's kind of a Maslow's hierarchy of needs thing. Even if the thing that they feel threatened by isn't really dangerous to them, if that fear system is activated, they simply won't encode new…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 12:44 AM
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I'm a teacher. When I started teaching, I taught high school. But I later went on to also teach adults. When I'm teaching, and a student makes a mistake, or a student believes something that isn't true, or a student believes something that I find morally reprehensible, obviously I will take considerable time and effort to try and correct them and convince them of a better way. Let me show you two different ways that I could do this. I could say: "Karolina, this answer doesn't make sense and it's…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:00 PM
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I agree with your message, but I think the message might have hit better if you had worded it in a different way. Personally, I would have worded it something like this: "I think that the criticism / shaming of people's bodies is something that comes from both men and women. And I think people underestimate how hurtful and damaging it can be when it's coming from other women''
/r/MensRights11/02/23 10:18 PM
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I think people are allowed to have preferences but the issue is that people often assume they know the reasons that somebody has that preference, when they might not.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 10:18 PM
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i, as a person with a high body count, feel exactly the same way. The most important thing to me is that the body count is similar to mine. It makes a lot of sense to me that someone who's maybe only ever had sex with one or two people would desire a partner on the same page.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 10:17 PM
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I would be curious about the directionality of that relationship. If I had to guess, I would guess that sex means less to people who have more partners not because the more partners you have makes sense me less and less, but because if you are a person for whom sex means less, you're more likely to have more partners. Does that make sense? Personally, in my experience, sex was never particularly meaningful to me ever, not even from the beginning. And I seem to find that with other people with a …
/r/MensRights19/01/23 10:16 PM
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Honestly, I have a preference about body count, namely, the higher the better. If I can have that preference, why can't other people have a preference? Seems hypocritical to deny it to other people. Personally, I think the only way it's an issue is the reason behind it. For example if a man prefers a low body count because he himself has a low body count and wants to be on kind of equal footing with his partner, that's not a red flag for me. But if the man's desire for a low body count is rooted…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 10:14 PM
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I had a colleague who was accused by a student of touching the student's butt. Luckily they were in an area covered by cameras, so he was fully exonerated, but oh my god, I think a lot about what would have happened if there had been no cameras. He was so shaken by it. He quit teaching the next year. It was really sad. His students loved him.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 07:37 PM
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I personally choose not to drink or use drugs, and my partner does as well. The onus should not be on potential victims to protect themselves, but thus is the world we live in.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 04:54 PM
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I think sometimes when women say " oh God I hate men, theyre the worst" but then they keep spending time with men, it's kind of in the same way the teachers often say "oh God I hate teaching it's the worst" but then they keep teaching. They don't actually hate teaching. They don't actually think teaching is the worst. Saying that is just a way for them to blow off steam. Don't get me wrong, that might not be the healthiest thing to say to blow off steam, but I think a lot of times it is just blo…
/r/MensRights29/12/22 05:13 AM
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God tier reply
/r/MensRights29/12/22 05:10 AM
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I've lived with my partner for 4 years, and he and his kids are a different skin color than me. The amount of RUDE ASS QUESTIONS and INTERFERENCE we get when we are out together is awful. When I was a little girl, my dad like to spend a lot of time with us one-on-one, and it was the same thing. Not only was it a man with two little girls, he also has a darker skin tone than us. It was the same story.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 05:27 PM
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It is completely up to you. The advice would be to guard your heart and also strongly invest in other relationships. You marriage sounds very similar to my parents' marriage. My dad was completely taken for granted and came out of it a shell of a man. He slowly came out of it. He ended up getting married at 55, and my sister and I walked him down the aisle. So I would say it is possible, but not a given. I used to work at an old folks home and I knew quite a few little old men who had quite a fe…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 06:54 PM
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I think that this whole image in very well written and expressed so effectively. We should read, read it again, and think on it. I think the most salient point to me is about the armor being impersonal, and unwanted. It's not about you individually. It is worn for life.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 05:27 PM
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Definition of concept creep. Originally what man's planning is is a man explaining something to a woman despite the fact that she is more knowledgeable on the subject than he is. So an example of what man's planning originally was would be a male sports reporter explaining something about space travel to a female astronaut (in that case it wouldn't make sense to assume that he knows more about the subject than she does). But some people have begun to apply this term to any instance of men explai…
/r/MensRights24/12/22 01:38 PM
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The fact that the comment section is not condoning this guy, and is being honest with him, gives me faith in this sub.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 04:34 PM
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Personally I'm an ex Patriat / immigrant in Central America and I'm always trying to talk my dude friends who are struggling in the United States to moving overseas. I think there are so many people that are unappreciated/lacking perspective in their country of origin and would really benefit to get out there and see what the world has to offer. Unfortunately though, I think most of the men who are struggling the most in the United States are the exact same men who don't have the resources to ma…
/r/MensRights10/12/22 05:38 AM
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Thank You! I have been thinking about ways to incorporate messages such as text into the next one. One thing I considered was maybe asking some of the men to submit quotes or thoughts that could be included, or maybe writing something on a board and holding it up, although that's a little bit cliche. I have to decide whether or not that's a direction I want to go next year.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 01:39 AM
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To be clear, the reason that some of the clips are low quality is because I asked men that I know personally, that is all of the men in this video are men that I know, to submit me videos of them doing something that they think is important to them. I think next year, I'm going to try and actually record more myself, so that the quality is higher. I was actually kind of avoiding clips of doing things with other people, as such as with their kids, because I wanted the focus to be on the men thems…
/r/MensRights19/11/22 11:25 PM
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I kind of originally thought this many years back, when I was involved with the movement before it became public. However, after spending years in the community, I changed my opinion. I think that maybe at some point in the past the incel community was largely unattractive misunderstood loners who leaned on each other for support, but I think it eventually became largely something else. At the time when I left the movement, most self-identified "incels" I knew were no longer men who had never ha…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 03:39 PM
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I am a firm beleiver that legal is legal. While age difference relationships have more of a risk for power imbalance, it does not mean that all age gap relationships are unbalanced. For example,I know a man who is 35 dating a girl who is 25. So that is a power differential. BUt she makes more money than he does, so that is a power differntial that balances it out.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 03:06 PM
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I need English conversation partners for my students! Some of them are refugees and in dire need. And the best thing is that you can do it on zoom. Direct message if you are interested.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 10:08 AM
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Sure
/r/MensRights05/10/22 07:06 PM
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Thank you, as usual, my recompense for my honesty is going to be the same as it always is: being downloaded into Oblivion. But yeah I'm absolutely a believer, as you said, and not meeting people on and in telling the truth.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 05:32 PM
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Yes- I am not disagreeing with you.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 04:02 PM
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I personally do not seek out sexual relationships with men I find physically unattractive, regardless of their job, personality, whatever. Physically attractive is a must for me. Personally status and money are unimportant up until the point that it inconveniences me. So he can make less money than me- that's no problem. But if he shares a room with a family member and doesn't have a form of transportation, that makes my involvement less likely because it's just harder to maintain a relationship…
/r/MensRights05/10/22 03:23 PM
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I do choose ''no'' on most men. The percentage varies where in the world I am.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 03:17 PM
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There are so many things that go into this, and I think a part of it is the conception of a sexual partner as a staus symbol, or an indicator of one's own worth. This drives women to feel they need to get a ''top man'' because having a top man means that they themselves have worth. ​ I am a woman, and personally, I tune out 98% of men because I can. In a world in which I had less sexual agency, I would probably not have learned to just categorically ignore most men ( in terms of sexual attractio…
/r/MensRights05/10/22 03:15 PM
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There is no solution that does not involve leaving her, in my opinion. There is no reason for your wife to behave this way and you are not safe. I hope and I pray that You get away from her and to a safe place. Please begin to document these injuries when they happen.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 06:23 PM
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I both deeply agree with some points and deeply disagree with some points. In general, most of what I have heard from him is kinda ''duh'' for me- as in I agree, but I think most people agree/ already knew that.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 11:56 PM
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his easily misinterpreted reaction to swimsuit models sure undermines a lot of his better points, in my opinion. cannot agree more about bosy positivity for men.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 11:54 PM
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I see him as a person who has traditional conservative/religious beleifs for emotional reasons, and he uses at times some very clever and perceptive arguments to shore up those beleifs. I am reminded always of Michael Shermer’s quote : “smart people are very good at rationalizing things they came to believe for non-smart reasons.” In short, religious conservative dogma rationalized with evolutionary biologist info.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 11:50 PM
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yeah, Tate is just a con artist and clout chaser. They both appeal to the same set of needs, tho.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 11:46 PM
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For me as a human, there are some things that I find annoying about him, such as being an "outspoken free speech advocate" who sues people who criticize him. I think in general he's just kinda goofy and cringe and therefore an easy target. For me as a woman, there are some things I find frustrating about the message. Or perhaps, that the message is needed. Why do men apparently need a self help book to learn how to clean their rooms at the age of 19, when I was just able to clean my room without…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 11:44 PM
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I am going to ask one of my russian students about this
/r/MensRights29/09/22 11:39 PM
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I think that a lot of the generalizations you make about men are probably not true for ALL men, meaning not ALL fathers will contribute in these specific ways (ie, there are some men with no interest in sports). Even if the difference between on how you look parenting and your spouse does is huge, it is possible that there are couples where both spouses parent in more or less the same way, or in which the roles are reversed. I do not think that children raised by two women or by two men are at a…
/r/MensRights22/09/22 02:53 PM
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I think that there is a certain subset of men that never had the insecurity that they're not going to measure up sexually to other men: men who are really fucking good at fucking.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:53 PM
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You would be amazed how many people crawl up my ass and act like it's the end of the world that I am specifically interested in people shorter than myself. I've even seen some people online implying that this is pedophilic. Like....who cares?
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:50 PM
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I mean people do give a damn. People do give a damn about women's preferences. Short men are mad that women don't prefer them on average. But I absolutely agree, men can have whatever preferences they want. The thing that I find personally grating is when a person has a preference that is in short supply, but act like it's some kind of an injustice that they can't get the specific partner they want. Like a woman who only wants to date men who makes six figures complaining about not being able to…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:49 PM
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Especially women in the middle range. I think women with a low partner count are straight up about it, and women with an extremely high partner count are straight up about it (because they obviously just don't care). I think a lot of the deception lies in the middle
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:48 PM
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Yeah I don't consider this to be misogynistic at all. It's just wanting to have something in common with your partner. I similarly as a woman prefer to be with a man with a partner count similar to my own.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:47 PM
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I think it's untrue that virgin women are more attractive to all men, although they are more attractive to some men. I would say that preferring a virgin isn't inherently misogynistic, but it depends on the reasoning. If a man tells me that he prefers to have sex with a virgin because he himself is also a virgin and wants them to share their first time together, I don't consider that in any way misogynistic. If a man tells me that he prefers a virgin because female non-virgins are less valuable …
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:46 PM
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I made a couple of comics about the broader topic of lookism, that you might like.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:37 PM
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I thinks she for sure should, but for sure does not
/r/MensRights22/08/22 12:34 PM
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Yeah I don't expect my man to pay for anything for me, but if I had to start paying for things for his kids, I would feel very salty about it.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 05:14 AM
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I'm in a non Mono relationship with one man and one woman. Both of us women out-earn the man by a significant margin. He's an artisan who works very hard and is very passionate about what he does, but doesn't make a lot because he is an artisan. A lot of people assume that because he has two women living in his house with him, he's rolling in cash. But when people find out that we both make more than he does, they are shocked in a way that makes me feel sad. The fact that people can't conceive o…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 05:13 AM
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Honestly, based on what I've heard about her, I don't think it's worth getting back together. Unless there's something about you that you know that I don't know you could do a lot better. That being said, it's your decision. When you're telling the story to people, expressing your pain to them, frame it a little differently. Here's my suggestions. -instead of talking about bad things she did over the years, just centralized the problem on what your experiencing now: the absence. Being in the emp…
/r/MensRights18/08/22 08:12 PM
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Okay yeah, definitely, the way that you're telling the story doesn't paint you in a good light, at all. Like, once again, I'm not saying that you are in the wrong and she was in the right, but I'm saying that the way that you are telling the story does definitely paint you in a worse light than it paints her, and you're probably going to keep getting bad reactions from people.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 07:49 PM
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I mean hearing your story, just from an objective perspective, it does sound like you're hiding something. I'm not necessarily saying that that's true, it could just be that you have very bad luck, but it's hard to believe that someone would choose to stay in that relationship willingly for 8 years unless they were like, financially dependent on the other party. I believe your story and I feel very deeply for you, but I do understand why other people might not because it just seems very improbab…
/r/MensRights18/08/22 04:00 PM
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I made a comic about this exact thing and I am not sure if I am allowed to link it, becuase it is on facebook
/r/MensRights04/08/22 12:08 AM
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MRA people also call me pick me though. Or say I'm attention seeking /virtue signaling
/r/MensRights03/08/22 05:20 AM
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Most tenants are not allowed to make repairs even if they are capable of doing so. Weak gotcha
/r/MensRights01/08/22 08:58 PM
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I really like a lot about this article
/r/MensRights31/05/22 05:45 AM
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This is a very personal topic for me because I am a former forester and am from a forestry family. I am glad that many commenters are pointing out that this narrative is not helpful to men. Thanks to all the great commenters here.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 05:24 AM
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Doesn't it kind of make sense that women who have antipathy towards men would seek to make themselves unattractive to men, or at the very least, care less about being attractive to men?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 06:41 AM
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I actually made quite a long comic about this. If you would like to message me I will send you the link. I don't want to send the link here because it's on Facebook
/r/MensRights30/01/22 04:57 PM
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I think that FDS represents a fringe group of women. They even say that in their description. Lot of women get banned for espousing moderate views.
/r/MensRights13/10/21 05:46 PM
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I think you are overestimating the degree to which you and I share our values. I think that all conceptions of modesty / appropriateness in dress are cultural inventions, not absolute truths. Certainly, a group of people (ie, the Taliban) might decide that it's inappropriate to show hair. Another group of people might decide that it's inappropriate to show nipples, or wrists, or whatever. I think it's all arbitrary and made-up. So yeah, for me, being opposed to see through dresses is the same as…
/r/MensRights12/09/21 01:37 PM
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This is a place for men to get support for other men, not to be torn down by other men in my opinion
/r/MensRights12/09/21 01:26 PM
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I'm actually with Jack here. I think people should be allowed to dress how they want, and they should be allowed to wear their hair how they want. It's the same in my book
/r/MensRights12/09/21 01:26 PM
1

I'm so sorry that people are like this to you. Why are people like this? Because they see something in you that they don't have. They see confidence, beauty, and self-expression. They are jealous of you for having more personality and more confidence than they do. That's why they hate you. I grew up on an Indian reservation and at one point, I volunteered at a summer camp but was specifically for native American kids. One of the reasons this camp was set up was if native American kids went to no…
/r/MensRights12/09/21 01:24 PM
1

I am a woman and I do this almost weekly. but I guess that usually when I do it there is no one in the men's restroom, and I do not talk to anyone. I would for sure be in jail by now if I was a man.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:43 PM
10

It was not a secret at my sister's college, Wheaton. They are very open and public about having a 50 50 ratio. It is pretty common at Christian private colleges, as a "ring by spring" is a big selling point for that high high private school tuition.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 04:45 PM
0

I very much agree. I see so many posts that boiled down "look, this woman did a bad thing, therefore women are bad" and it's just not productive. I come here more for the posts about double standards in the law or disparities and how the same news source talks about crimes against men and crimes against women.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 01:06 AM
2

ONE MILLION PERCENT AGREE
/r/MensRights25/04/21 03:36 PM
2

i cannot give you a good reason. I am equally perplexed by this. I guess just traction, as it is so familiar to americans?
/r/MensRights09/04/21 02:14 PM
4

What am I supposed to do?
/r/MensRights01/04/21 01:49 AM
1

Oh, well I guess if words on the internet meet the bar of being part of the solution, then yes, I do do that. I am capable of that.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 01:48 AM
5

EXACTLY!
/r/MensRights01/04/21 01:46 AM
18

I don't know, it seems like a poetic quote but I don't think it is actually some kind of overarching truth about men or women. I feel like in the past it could be said that women influenced things subtly, behind the curtains, not ostensibly. But I think that today there are a lot of women out there taking charge and exerting a real power. I just don't think I'm one of them. To be in a position of power I would have had to have chosen a career path that makes hella dime. And probably also not liv…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 06:29 PM
78

I think you vastly overestimate my power. I live in a house made out of dirt. I do not have the power to de-platform anyone.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 04:51 PM
1

Please send me a DM
/r/MensRights01/03/21 09:32 AM
1

Be my friend too!
/r/MensRights01/03/21 04:05 AM
3

So this article is about a very similar realization on the part of another woman https://herviewfromhome.com/stop-being-a-butthole-wife/
/r/MensRights01/03/21 03:15 AM
-4

I agree with a lot of things on this sub, but this is quite a reach. 35 people on a reality show proves...... What exactly?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 10:13 PM
3

personally for me, I cant imagine being economically dependent on a romantic partner. It seems like literally the worst life choice. so it's hard for me to wrap my head around why other women, especially women with children, would want or consent to be economically dependent on a husband/ partner. That being said, finding a husband to maintain me is literally the one thing that I was conditioned to do for my entire childhood. That was the narrative that was pushed on me everyday by everyone that…
/r/MensRights10/01/21 10:19 PM
7

Hm. So I'm a ruthless careerist woman with zero interest in kids, but simultaneously I think it's 100% okay for anyone to be a stay-at-home parent. However, I do know a lot of childfree/ careerist people who loooooove to rag on and criticize stay at home parents. So I think I can speak to some of the reasons people do this: 1-the belief that it is unethical to have children at all (this is the most extreme position, but I do know people who believe this. 2-the belief that stay-at-home parents ar…
/r/MensRights10/01/21 05:25 AM
3

I think the whole push to get women into stem is originating from corporations that want there to be more people in stem so they can pay people in stem less
/r/MensRights20/12/20 01:54 AM
3

She's less than two and can't walk I think
/r/MensRights20/12/20 01:32 AM
1

Ecosia! it's a great search engine that helps the environment!
/r/MensRights18/12/20 07:35 PM
1

but it accomplished nothing
/r/MensRights09/12/20 08:39 PM
2

I think if it's an element of self-defense, it's not sexually motivated. In the same way if I am defending my home against a murderous lady intruder and I shoot a lady intruder in the titty, it's not sexually motivated, it's just an effective way to stop that person from harming me. but yeah, definitely guys getting kicked in the balls as a funny thing in TV and movies is not actually that funny. It's actually pretty messed up.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 09:23 PM
1

Both men's rights and women's rights are movements that acknowledge the fact that sometimes, discrimination is coming from inside the house. This acknowledgment isn't the entirety of the men's rights movement, but it is a part of that conversation.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 09:16 PM
1

That's a very good point and I didn't think about that.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 09:14 PM
1

In my personal experience, there was more female solidarity on paper and in the media, but less in real life.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 09:13 PM
1

I can't agree with this enough. I would even say if a woman is 95% sure she wants kids, she shouldn't have them unless that's 100%.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 09:12 PM
1

This is very true. This has been my personal experience, at least. I do get it from men, but I get it more from women.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 09:11 PM
7

"Nah, how about Women start approaching Men instead? I'd like to see a Society where that's actually a thing." SAME. Or at least less shaming from other women if you do make the first move!
/r/MensRights24/11/20 05:46 PM
1

Is that considered rape legally in India? I would not define that as rape. I mean lying is bad, but it isn't a crime. Also, they might have genuinely intended marriage, but changed their minds or did not have the finances to wed. I know some countries have wildly different definitions of what rape is. Like I think in Sweden if you stealth someone, it is rape.
/r/MensRights23/11/20 08:15 PM
9

Well whoever this skink is, I think that's she's got the right to want what she wants and value what she values. the only point at which it starts to grind my gears is when it is represented as "what women want" or what's " best for women"
/r/MensRights23/11/20 02:18 AM
10

I agree with you. Because men spend so much time "courting" instead of just putting it on the table, it creates a culture where women are just showered with this constant adoration, attention, and grooming. It puts one gender on a pedestal and casts the other in this state of weird perpetual audition. It's dehumanizing for both. Its the way things work in society today! But I think it could work differently.
/r/MensRights23/11/20 02:14 AM
15

I absolutely know this ain't the cultural party line. This ain't what every woman (or every person) wants. It's what I want. I guess that's an element of how I feel the idea of "treat wen how women want to be treated" is a fools errand.
/r/MensRights22/11/20 11:54 PM
3

Yes yes yes! That's even in a woman's best interest because birth control has so many side effects. YES!
/r/MensRights22/11/20 11:32 PM
26

I'm a woman, and if a man asks me if I want to fuck (at a bar, on the street, in DMs) I either say: A) yes B) no, but thanks for just asking me. This is what I WANT. I WANT men to be straight up and HONEST about what they want. The"pretend to be my friend" for six months dance is the OPPOSITE of what I want. Telling me I'm beautiful is just a waste of my time. I hate that society has conditioned men (everyone) to not be able to just SAY. WHAT. THEY. WANT. The protracted dance of mutual grooming …
/r/MensRights22/11/20 11:29 PM
6

I think the problem is when anything that isn't hateful denigration of men is immediately labeled as virtue signaling.
/r/MensRights16/11/20 09:47 PM
2

It is an issue of baby steps- or at least I hope.
/r/MensRights16/11/20 09:45 PM
-1

Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes!
/r/MensRights16/11/20 09:43 PM
6

Usually it just mildly annoyed me, but sometimes I get the big mad.
/r/MensRights12/11/20 08:08 PM
2

I am actually okay with less marriage.
/r/MensRights04/11/20 05:51 PM
-16

I don't understand the problem with Gillette
/r/MensRights01/11/20 08:28 PM
7

I commented on that one....
/r/MensRights26/10/20 07:53 PM
39

I'm a teacher and I hate "teacher has sex with student" headlines
/r/MensRights20/10/20 05:11 AM
1

Well, the movement has a little bit of an image problem. It's kind of like schizophrenia. Schizophrenia has never meant having multiple functionalities, but like ... 90% of people think that it means having multiple personalities. They're wrong, but it's such a widespread mistake that it goes unchallenged. I think that men's rights May undergo something of a euphemism treadmill.
/r/MensRights13/10/20 11:32 PM
3

I think that it's because in the public eye, men's rights has been conflated with some less savory movements, or has been misperceived as a trojan horse for persecuting women
/r/MensRights12/10/20 03:00 PM
7

I think it's possible with professional intervention but in order for that to work they have to have a motivation to want to change . and in most cases the motivation is like maybe going to prison
/r/MensRights12/10/20 02:57 PM
6

I also feel like it's doubly harmful because it's making it seem like polyamory is more for men's benefit than for women, which, I don't think is true at all. I have a lot of polyamorous people in my social circle and I don't really see it as being a thing really more for men or for women, but for both
/r/MensRights12/10/20 02:51 PM
27

Both men and women can perpetuate toxic masculinity and toxic femininity. Like if a mom tells her little boy that boys Don't cry, she is perpetuating toxic masculinity
/r/MensRights11/10/20 02:03 PM
1

Ohhhhh yesssss OHHHH YESSSSS
/r/MensRights11/10/20 02:30 AM
1

you deadass need to google conflict theory of education! You would love it.
/r/MensRights10/10/20 01:18 AM
1

I got my BA in psych which was bad enough.... and now I'm in EDUCATION. Honestly, when a field has so few men, I think a lot of the misunderstanding and bias is just born out of pure ignorance. Don't get me wrong, Loved what I learned. But the field has deep seated issues.
/r/MensRights10/10/20 01:17 AM
1

This is what I came here to say
/r/MensRights10/10/20 01:15 AM
1

Well it's true that victims of trauma are bad at giving statements, and may be confused, inconsistent, and rambling. BUT the idea that anyone would go forward with charging someone without evidence (apart from a single witness testimony) is madness.
/r/MensRights10/10/20 01:14 AM
2

This site is not my favorite but this article is right about a lot of points.
/r/MensRights10/10/20 01:11 AM
2

I tell my students not to do this because it can be taken as disrespect, and is particularly offensive to black men.
/r/MensRights10/10/20 01:06 AM
-1

uh w h a t
/r/MensRights10/10/20 01:05 AM
1

I guess I would not consider myself MRA, but I do like to be here because I can talk about issues that affect men without being met with the vitriol I would get on other subs/platforms. Almost anywhere else, any discussion of men's issues gets shut down with "hope you get picked sis"
/r/MensRights10/10/20 01:03 AM
11

Wow, this is terrible but also not a surprise to me given the exploitativeness of the US prison system
/r/MensRights07/10/20 02:31 PM
4

Here in El Salvador there have been several kids that have gained a claim for climbing trees to get connection to do their online classes.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 07:55 PM
1

I think maybe one of the reasons for this is that there are just so many more social scientists than human behavioral biologists. Wouldn't it be cool if we had more human behavioral biologists?
/r/MensRights06/10/20 02:17 AM
1

I mean, if I were potentate, minimum wage would be tied to industry or organization death rate/injury rate that would incentivize higher wages or less death. I know that is not a policy now, BUT I would like it to be. I would also be ok if minimum wages are set federally like by the Fair Work Commission down under. I also think their casual worker classification is a good idea.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 12:43 AM
1

Nobody decides these wages from a seat of power, except for the govts of nations and municipalities all over over the world (Sweden, Denmark, Iceland, Norway, and Switzerland on your team tho!). Andexcept for Devin Stockfish. Weyerhauser raked in 7.5 mill with less than 10k staff. Even a tenth of that profit would be an extra 8k for all staff if averaged. They could EASILY afford to be paying their packers more than 12 bucc an hour.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 12:36 AM
1

I'm sorry, I kind of assumed for some reason that you had gone through the school system? That was silly of me. It sounds like you might have a friend in John dewey, huh? If I had to make a prediction, I would say that they're going to start swinging hard for international students in high schools and universities. Cuz enrollments are dwindling with a capital d! But yeah, that's likely just going to be a smoother visa, NOT any sort of path to citizenship.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 12:27 AM
1

I'm aware of the fact that many skilled labor and manual jobs make a fortune, it's the ones that don't that I'm concerned about. For example, working construction in the city makes a good buck, but I still think that people who build houses in the country should get paid more money. My dad is an oilfield man (now), and one of my besties is a deep sea Fisher-person. But then again I also know a lot of people who once again, are lumberjacks, or pack apples, and make shite. Even though talking appl…
/r/MensRights06/10/20 12:21 AM
1

Oh yea, one of the nicest things about the Japanese school system. I used to live there, but I taught online. I could never hack it with those 60 hour work weeks. Their teachers go HARD. How do you feel “yutori kyōiku” reforms of 2011? Do you think that it is more in line with the sort of education you described above- more hands on and less nose-down-in-the-books? I know their PISA took a nosedive, but from what you have said, it sounds like you might be in the "PISA isn't everything" camp. I h…
/r/MensRights06/10/20 12:12 AM
1

I don't think it is a problem if the genders gravitate towards different careers, but I certainly think that they should not be barred or diverted. I also am on that kool-aid where I think that skilled and manual labor jobs (many of which are male dominated) SHOULD be paid more, especially considering the increasing volatility of the labor market, and the risk of personal injury. Teachers are paid shit, but our plight is nothing next to the plight of the lumberjack or the apple packer.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 12:05 AM
1

Oh I have read that site back in the US but for some reason it doesn't load on mobile here in ES.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 12:01 AM
1

Well, it makes sense that the curve would be flatter for boys, but hypothetically it should average the same, just like IQs.
/r/MensRights05/10/20 11:59 PM
1

I have personally experienced my male colleagues getting a lot of mistreatment and scrutiny, especially from parents and peers- not so much from kids. I hope that the field can be made more inclusive in the future. I think another obstacle for male teachers is that men are still expected to be breadwinners, and 60k a year doesn't cut it in many local economies. Also, I have noticed that the SOs of male teachers often make HOT DRAMA about any kind of socializing with the (predominantly female) co…
/r/MensRights05/10/20 11:58 PM
1

1- Yes! Absolutely! See my comment below about anonymizing the grading process. 2-I think that the way in which boys express emotion is in part innate, but also in part socialized (and whether or not adults are responsive to their expressions and emotions is a part of that). Tenenbaum is not a feminist scholar, rather a developmental psychologist. Aznar is also a psychologist and her research focuses on family dynamics and emotional communication in kids. She's also published on moral disgust. 3…
/r/MensRights05/10/20 11:56 PM
2

Yes! This is exactly why I'm a big advocate for randomization and anonymization in any and all grading processes. Unfortunately, a lot of progressive educational policies make this difficult to achieve. I'm also a big advocate of online education because it makes randomization and anonymization much more viable.
/r/MensRights05/10/20 03:55 AM
1

I've only been teaching 7 years, which is pretty short for what tends to be a lifetime profession. I think that I tend to be especially critical of Western systems of education because I received my teaching certificate from Beijing University, and have spent essentially all of my career working outside the traditional system. I am a big proponent for randomization and anonymization in education. I'm a big advocate of like, not knowing which students paper you are assessing when you are assessin…
/r/MensRights04/10/20 11:45 PM
6

Oh, absolutely. There is a robust body of research that shows that teachers: 1- call on male students more 2-talk to them more 3-use their names more 4- encourage and allow them to speak more (boys speak 5x as much in classrooms). This all SEEMS like good stuff for boys, but it actually seems to work out better for girls in the long run, possibly because they are less "coddled" by teachers, or are awarded more agency to problem solve solo. 2- In the home, mothers use less complex emotional vocab…
/r/MensRights04/10/20 10:02 PM
1

I appreciate you looking out for me. I've had considerable trouble using imgur in the past, possible because of the country I live in.
/r/MensRights04/10/20 09:53 PM
3

Have a look at this graph. Something interesting is that for both genders, test scores have risen powerfully and steadily, but boys continue to do worse. Also interesting is that "the gap" is seemingly neither widening nor shrinking. https://photos.app.goo.gl/7y1y6Zx9bVtEd4gcA
/r/MensRights04/10/20 06:20 PM
2

Hey, I'm a teacher. I want to see first of all that I am really deeply truly and sorry that this happened to you. No, not that this happened to you .... that someone did this to you. The portrayal of this kind of assault as being funny or even desirable in popular culture is a huge problem.
/r/MensRights03/10/20 05:27 PM
1

I mean, I don't think people who are convicted of rape should have to deal with any punishment unless they're convicted . so essentially, I'm against the " court of public opinion" thing
/r/MensRights03/10/20 03:24 PM
1

Well in my opinion they shouldn't have to deal with any punishment unless they're actually convicted
/r/MensRights02/10/20 02:11 AM
-5

I would be in support of it if that determination is made by evidence, but not if it's made by testimony. For example, that girl in Snohomish county in Washington State that was actually raped but ended up recanting due to pressure by investigators shouldn't have to register as a sex offender . but someone who is determined to for example, not being physically present with the supposed attacker at the supposed time of the attack would have to register, yeah.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 06:52 PM
-2

In the post it says that he, the husband, says there is no reason, he just has a feeling/fear
/r/MensRights23/09/20 03:21 AM
2

I mean, this isnt even the first show to do this. SVU has done it multiple times, ages ago.
/r/MensRights23/09/20 02:46 AM
1

I thought the shirt referred to man as in mankind
/r/MensRights15/09/20 02:39 PM
2

jimmy carter was straight up the best president
/r/MensRights13/09/20 05:42 PM
5

OP- I am so proud of you for not admitting. You have made the best choice for your life and your legacy. I hope you take this year to relax and care for yourself. Be proud. I was sexually assaulted by someone I know. It hurt. I still firmly believe that no one should be convicted on the testimony of a single witness.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:50 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:48 PM
1

good good news! Thank you OP!
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:48 PM
17

Well that is nasty and I do not like it. Hell to the no!
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:47 PM
8

I would honestly not forgive her. Never give up. Never stop defending your man. I wish I had fought harder when a man close to me experienced something similar. He died by his own hand rather than withstand it longer.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:46 PM
1

now, I am become MATH
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:44 PM
2

I do not think this would be considered toxic masculinity. "Toxic masculinity" is cultural norms that are associated with harm to society and to men themselves. It is not the same as masculinity. In the same way that synthetic cotton is not the same as cotton, despite that they both have the word "cotton" in the name.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:43 PM
1

Oh, thank you for sharing this. I love it so much! He is truly a blessing to earth. And so are you op!
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:41 PM
2

I feel like this is such a weird hill to die on- Would it really be that bad to have a transgender kid? It seems to me like he had two options: 1- accept that his kid in on hormones and maintain a relationship with the child or 2- get lots of attention from the media. It is wild to me that he chose the media attention over being able to have a relationship with his kid.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:40 PM
1

If you ever Miss it, there's lots of good options for teaching online. Some of my coworkers on the site I work for are retired teachers that literally just do one or two hours a week for fun. Yeah, the lack of accusations might be a part of it.
/r/MensRights03/09/20 01:25 AM
3

Well, I recognize it as a possibility that maybe there is something about me that other women don't like, so maybe a lot of the cattiness that I received was not something that all women receive- and there could be some male lumberjack who is having an experience like mine, because there's something about him that his coworkers don't like. I think that obviously, women are socialized to be better communicators and so tend to do well in workplaces where such communication is necessary or vital. I…
/r/MensRights03/09/20 12:54 AM
21

So, I used to work as a lumberjack, which as you may know, is the most dangerous job in the United States in terms of death rate. I had an absolutely fantastic experience, despite the fact that I was the only woman on the crew. All of my male coworkers were extremely friendly and professional. Now I'm a teacher, which is an overwhelmingly female dominated industry, and let me tell you, the level of cattiness that women have towards me and each other is a nightmare. I switched to teaching online …
/r/MensRights02/09/20 08:46 PM
4

I write a webcomic called "Hell is Other Women" and you would be surprised how many people try to report that for hate speech- often as not when their bio says "men are trash" o algo asi
/r/MensRights29/08/20 12:51 AM
7

Something that's really interesting is that I write a webcomic called "hell is other women' and people actually lose their minds over that. I literally got a 1 out of 5 review from a girl saying something about how the title of my webcomic is sexist, and her literal profile picture was the words "men are trash"
/r/MensRights26/08/20 12:38 AM
2

I had a student who was in his 50s and was a janitor. he had one kid at Harvard, one at Stanford, and the oldest was a doctor. Immigrants are the best.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 04:26 PM
4

I'm a woman and I hate this too, because the narrative portrays this idea that women are just like, scared of everything all the time and I don't feel that way . I feel like portraying women as perpetually helpless victims actually makes the more likely to be victimized.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 05:24 PM
3

I am glad that he got his bag
/r/MensRights16/08/20 06:24 PM
7

Yes!
/r/MensRights16/08/20 06:23 PM
4

I agree that men should compliment men more and women should compliment women more.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 06:16 PM
13

I super duper wholeheartedly agree with number four. I mean I agree with all of them, but especially number four.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 06:16 PM
13

I don't really see the "compliments that aren't compliments" as a problem, the problem is when I don't respond to them the way someone wanted me to, and the situation escalates. I think the problem is not so much the "compliment" itself, but the expectation of how it should be received.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 06:14 PM
-7

I guess the thing that people don't realize is when you have gotten the complement 500 times it's not really a compliment anymore to you. It's just a fact that point. Like when a person is 6 foot 2 they don't blush every time someone says "you're really tall" because they know. And someone has already said that to them 18 times this week.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 06:12 PM
2

Agreed
/r/MensRights16/08/20 03:09 PM
1

I wonder what kind of a solution OP had in mind, if any.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:40 AM
2

Am woman, can confirm. I use the men's bathroom all the time.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:38 AM
1

happy day!
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:36 AM
1

This has Barbara Coloroso written all over it .
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:36 AM
2

seconded . please
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:35 AM
1

It makes sense to me that women get in the habit of doing the lady sit because skirts.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:34 AM
2

the only one that comes off the top of my head is it is harder to get the snip snip
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:32 AM
2

I went to a brothel once for my birthday when I lived in Japan, but I have not since had the desire to return to one. I am not saying I do not have sex, I am saying that friendships are more important to me than the act of sex, or than people I pursue for sex that I am not friends with.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:29 AM
1

I support him fully.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:26 AM
2

hey, I used to live there. This is good news...sorta?
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:25 AM
5

Did you TALK to her on the street tho? If someone comes up and talks to another person, I do not really consider that catcalling or street harassment. Did you start a convo, or say "where are you going, girl?"
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:21 AM
1

I do not think that people virgin shame because they regret having sex. Also, sauce on the hard limit please?
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:20 AM
2

agreed.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:18 AM
2

I would like to point out that these studies have been subject to a number of challenges in data collection, because men and women tend to report inaccurately. Also from Pew: " There’s a significant gender gap in how mothers and fathers describe their household’s distribution of labor... fathers are generally more likely than mothers to say that these responsibilities are shared" -pew " Mothers and fathers in two-parent households differ in their perceptions of how they split certain responsibil…
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:16 AM
1

I am a woman who supports mens right. I can talk to your friend if they want to talk to me.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:59 PM
1

She and Jake Eakin belong together.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:57 PM
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yes. So many people act like rape culture is a myth, but this is it. This is rape culture.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:55 PM
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As a teacher, I have a LOT of thoughts on this. And there is a heaven of research on it. Just the interaction between gender and seat is a whole field. In the elementary years, teachers favor girls who sit in the front over their male peers in the front, and favor boys who sit in the back more than girls who do the same. This pattern reverses in the higher grades- in high school, teachers favor male students who sit in front, and girls who sit in the back. These effects are mediated by teacher n…
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:53 PM
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I think that friendships are more important than sexual escapades, at least for me in my life.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:51 PM
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DAMN that is a foolish headline.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:49 PM
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just tragic. This is truly gender based violence.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:48 PM
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She will FOR SURE do it again. it worked for her once, it will work again!
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:47 PM
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i came here to say that this is good and It makes me happy, thanks op. Also, why all the other comments so horrid?
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:42 PM
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I am in favor of women making the first move. That being said, I do not think that catcalling is a genuine attempt at a relationship, nor is street harassment.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:40 PM
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I think the fact that there are 150 males at conception for every 100 females makes it clear that no, not all mean are meant to reproduce. So I agree that the reasons are somewhat biological. But I think that the gap can be narrowed.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:38 PM
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I think that catcalling and street harassment are not really a genuine attempt to get sex or a relationship. I do not think that the people who do this really think that women are going to turn on their heel and say "take me now, you vocal beast!" That being said, I agree that the DELUGE of unwanted attention that women receive is intimately connected with the fact that as a whole, men make the first move. What is the solution? If men simply stopped pursuing women, presumably eventually women wo…
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:33 PM
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