cithus22 Archive

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1	Women are the victims. Stop yourselves men!!! I would like to see some sort of source. I agree that there would be a greater amount of social stigma surrounding male victims, but I still think when you look the number of studies conducted (including many which I assume survey anonymously) I think even if you account for that fact, there would still be a large majority of domestic violence commit by men against woman.	/r/MensRights	24/09/17 11:01 PM
1	Women are the victims. Stop yourselves men!!! I agree that that is wrong and should be changed. However though, the underlying social reason for that occuring is because a vast majority of the times that police respond to domestic violence incidents it is committed by a male. And no doubt, I am sure that at least a few time male perpetrators have called up police inorder to get their partner arrested simply for the sake of causing emotional harm. But these posters are not the same issue. The difference is that with what you are describing, …	/r/MensRights	24/09/17 10:47 PM
1	Women are the victims. Stop yourselves men!!! Sociological studies show that a vast majority of domestic violence is commited by men, against woman. It therefore makes to sense have advertising which specifically targets woman who are victims of domestic violence, and men who are perpetrators of it. They should be fighting against all violence, not just against woman It makes sense in our society to have seperate organizations/charities/institutes (what ever you want to call them) that specialize in combatting different social issues. You c…	/r/MensRights	24/09/17 10:19 PM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford How is there any room for misunderstanding Well clearly you have misunderstood what I have said. ...but no one defends it What exactly are you saying by this?.. I would defend someone that says that threatening physical violence is abuse. actual feminists do believe that the woman should readily be able to withdraw sex but still force the man's commitment, etc through the legal system. Its funny because when the lady was asked about the legal system's bias toward woman she said that she actually…	/r/MensRights	31/08/17 01:26 PM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford Ok well thats what I mean't when I said it. Its not exactly a difficult thing to misunderstand. Technically humans have evolved patriarchy because males who keep control over their partners (i.e. preventing them from reproducing with other males) have a higher chance of producing more offspring. That is why in nearly all cultures across the globe males are dominant over woman. Does that mean we can't change our behaviour? Not at all. I think its interesting that simply because I didn't explicitl…	/r/MensRights	31/08/17 05:26 AM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford I think you are exagerating her position. As I said before, it is abusive if the person wanting to have sex is threating to leave as a means of causing harm to get sex.	/r/MensRights	31/08/17 04:00 AM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford Not really. You can generally tell by the content and manner of private conversations between the two individuals. Simply choosing have sex with someone knowing that they feel uncomfortable about it is unethical.	/r/MensRights	30/08/17 09:41 PM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford I just think its unethical to have sex with someone if they are uncomfortable about it. If you are more willing to leave a relationship than recieve sex, it indicates that you don't have strong romantic connection with that person. This becomes decieteful if your only reason for being in the relationship is to recieve sex from your partner.	/r/MensRights	30/08/17 09:27 PM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford Because if you said: have sex with me or I'll leave you And they say: Please, I really don't want to have sex. In this situation you have three options: Leave the relationship. You don't get sex. She gets hurt. Have sex with her anyway. You get sex. She gets hurt. Stay in the relationship and don't have sex. You get a little annoyed and she is happy. This is definitly not an easy dilemma. But my personal moral compass would point me the 3rd option. If I really love someone, am I willing to make …	/r/MensRights	30/08/17 09:17 PM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford No you don't. Again, it depends whether your specific intention is to harm the other by leaving the relationship.	/r/MensRights	30/08/17 12:21 PM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford If you're making someone have sex with you and they don't want to its a form of manipulative behaviour. It may not sound like much but its how domestic violence begins.	/r/MensRights	30/08/17 12:13 PM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford I guess it would be wrong if your intent of breaking up was to intentionally hurt the other person inorder to recieve sex. So basically black mail.	/r/MensRights	30/08/17 11:52 AM
1	Melbourne school goes into damage control after students walk out on feminist guest speaker Clementine Ford I live not far from this college. We once had a woman's rights ambassador come in to run a workshop with some of the boys in my year level (yr9) of which I was included. she would ask questions to us like: "Raise your hand if you think hitting your wife is acceptable?" "Raise you hand if threating to dump your girlfriend if they don't have sex with you is ok?" And to her utter amazement, not a single person raised their hand. It goes to show, many preconceptions that feminists have about men sim…	/r/MensRights	30/08/17 10:08 AM