You and I ought to seek the answer together. It's too big a quotation for one person to handle. Can you get in touch with her, setup a date (my place) and we can have her replay this horrific incident. If you don't mind you can pretend to be the kid that doesn't drink or do anything he isn't supposed to. ;)
Soooo, I'm going to say something controversial that I'm sure none here have thought of. Where was she when I was joining parties at my friend's homes!! Where!!! Where!!!!