citizenc Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Had a girl flake out on a second date in a row. Texted her "maybe I'll see you around sometime". Right decision?		citizenc	/r/seduction	22/04/13 02:08 AM

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6	"Don't shit where you eat." TL;DR: Don't get involved with someone with whom you don't have control over contact. That means your neighbor, someone in your friend circle, your workplace, your class at school... you get the idea. Things end up one of two ways: either you get married (unlikely), or you break up. And after the breakup, if you have to see each other every day then things will be awkward for everyone.	/r/seduction	31/07/14 04:23 PM
3	Except for having confidence, decent looks, being funny and not being poor, what else should a guy have/know to improve his chances with beautiful girls/women ? Oh, I can certainly teach you how to be handsome. 32/m here, used to be a pudgy, weak basement-dwelling computer nerd. I didn't take care of myself, wore clothing that didn't fit, and had the personality to match. Want to be attractive to women? EASY. 1) Strengthen your mind -- Read things of consequence. Novels, long-form journalism, poetry. Philosophy. Read works that provide a challenge, to strengthen that atrophied lump you call a brain. 2) Strengthen your body -- Be active. "Go to the gym" …	/r/seduction	22/07/14 05:53 PM
3	Except for having confidence, decent looks, being funny and not being poor, what else should a guy have/know to improve his chances with beautiful girls/women ? 32/m here. Depends on what you mean by "beautiful". Are you referring merely to aesthetics? Or something deeper? Aesthetic beauty can be taught, but having a beautiful personality cannot. That being said, in short? Be interesting. Do things that make great stories. Go rock climbing. Back woods camping. Go teach strangers to juggle. Buy a ukulele. Take up archery. Read a lot. Learn about a topic that interests you, and become passionate about it. Reading reddit? Not interesting. Playing video gam…	/r/seduction	22/07/14 01:49 PM
1	Classy responses to "I have a boyfriend." Is there something wrong with that?	/r/seduction	12/07/14 09:52 PM
1	Classy responses to "I have a boyfriend." "Ahh, all the best ones are taken. :)" Then continue the conversation, and befriend her, because any man's life is ameliorated by the inclusion of women of quality.	/r/seduction	12/07/14 04:16 PM
2	Don't tell a pretty girl how good she looks in the first couple dates/hang outs Maybe not her appearance, but Jesus. Are you really advocating NOT communicating that you find her attractive? Wtf dude. If you go on a date with her, then another, then another, and you HAVENT communicated that idea then you're friend zoning yourself. She will think that you don't see her as sexy or attractive. FFS. "You know, you really have a sexy laugh." "That dress looks fucking awesome. It's like it was made for you." "Wow, your smile is sexy as fuck."	/r/seduction	24/04/14 05:12 PM
2	What are the steps when you find a girl that you want to make your girlfriend? 32/m here. Depends entirely on your personal style, and the social norms of where you live. Myself, I'm Canadian, so many will find the super-direct route to be off-putting. Fortunately, the vast majority of communication is non-verbal; exploit the shit out of it. :) Find little ways to communicate your interest in her. Find little ways to show that you're thinking about her. Above all, find a way to communicate that, while you don't NEED her, you WANT her. That being said, if you want her to be…	/r/seduction	30/03/14 03:31 PM
3	How do you flirt with a beautiful, hot girl that is obviously getting hit on by many other guys? Pretty girls like to be told they're intelligent, intelligent girls like to be told they're pretty. :-)	/r/seduction	08/11/13 03:39 PM
1	5 Reasons Why She Flakes The author lost all credibility at "give out there number".	/r/seduction	27/09/13 02:05 AM
50	23/M - From crippling anxiety to successful first date EVER I'm (31/m) fairly successful with the ladies. Dates, kino, k-close, f-close, the whole deal. I still get nervous before going out on a date with a woman. The knot in the pit of my stomach, second guessing myself, all of it. But ya know what? I've learned to LOVE that feeling. I use it as a source of power. Energy. Motivation. That feeling? That's when you KNOW you're at the edge of your comfort zone. And that's where life is. Good job, fellow dudebro. :) Keep it up!	/r/seduction	22/08/13 05:35 PM
1	What are some good hobbies? 31/m here. Archery. Trust me.	/r/seduction	20/08/13 04:44 AM
1	Seddit, how is it best to approach women who are clearly in a conversation with their friends without appearing creepy? Be nearby. Eavesdrop until you have something legitimate to contribute to the conversation. Say "excuse me, but I couldn't help overhearing... were you just saying blah blah? because snuh snuh snuh!"	/r/seduction	17/08/13 06:55 PM
9	I'm too fucking quiet. I'd encourage you to check out Nick Sparks - How to hold a conversation like a man	/r/seduction	30/06/13 04:27 PM
2	Best move when a girl flakes and doesn't respond to your text asking her out? With no reply? Delete her number and move on. Shooting her a quick "Hey, I didn't hear from you so I went ahead and made other plans" can't hurt either. Oh, and you actually SHOULD make other plans :P	/r/seduction	29/06/13 10:15 PM
3	Billy's Guide to Learning Pickup I feel as though "take care of your shit" should be first. :)	/r/seduction	29/04/13 03:19 AM
30	Building attraction with "text game." The unexplored frontier. Don't ask her what she's doing. Don't harass her. Don't pester her. Remember, YOU are attracting HER. Pestering her with crap like that will drive most women away. Source: the woman I'm seeing explicitly said that to me. "My friends are like 'he doesn't text you all the time? that's awsome!' and I was like 'I know!!" If you text her all the time then that sends the message that you don't have anything else going on in your life. TELLING her something via text, without really expecting a response…	/r/seduction	04/03/13 10:22 PM
0	the only response to getting blown off Plans are at 7pm, you text her that morning. Still haven't heard from her by 6.30? One more text: "I didn't hear back from you, so I made other plans. Hope we can connect another time!"	/r/seduction	19/02/13 11:07 PM
14	What is a good first date location / activity and what advantages does it have over other places? He said first date, not third. The first date or two should be spent out and about. (I have a first date tomorrow -- I'm taking her for drinks, then to an NHL game.) Third dates are for when things have progressed beyond "do we have things to talk about" and "do we have any rapport whatsoever". :) But yes. Third date? Cook her dinner. Time it so that she arrives while you're preparing -- and make sure you have some things she can help you with in the kitchen. Open a bottle of wine. Laugh. Flirt.…	/r/seduction	11/02/13 12:24 PM
24	"You probably couldn't handle me". How does one handle this blatantly obvious shit test? \|"you're right, in 2 weeks you'll stop being exciting and just want to spend time in the farmers markets." Upvote. Best response in this thread so far. =)	/r/seduction	26/12/12 03:49 PM