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Thanks for the response, I honestly agree with you that she's checking out. I have 2 follow up question: She knows we are not exclusive. And she knows I am moving in August. She also stated she doesn't want to get in a relationship with me, and she's not ltr material so I don't want to either. Why would she want more commitment from me if I'm leaving in less than 2 months? Is this girl a lost cause as in should I just hard next? Or do you think there's any point in trying to hang out with her ag…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:01 AM
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The past two times she's said "I think you only use me for sex" and doesn't want to smash.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:16 AM
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UPDATE: She gave me her number. I guess she didn't mind? Lol
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:42 AM
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I go to bars right next to parks and ask after the date if they'd like to take a walk in the park. I then escalate there. The bar is for showing my funny/outgoing personality, once I've built rapport I take them to the park and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:20 AM
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Repetition and successes here and there. Once you've scored a few times you know rejection is just part of the process to get to the goal. Nowadays I don't care if I get rejected, sometimes if I get rejected harshly it'll get to me but understand that everyone gets rejected. Even extremely good looking dudes. It's part of the game, embrace rejection.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:13 AM
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I'm assuming my pics aren't the problem if I'm getting a lot of matches?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:22 AM
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Ok got it. So I'm not saying anything "wrong" but I'm coming off a bit boring and I need to be more interesting?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:11 AM
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Still waiting on response. I just wanted to see if I did anything "wrong" per se or just any tips of my overall game. But thanks for the tips.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 11:58 PM
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I usually do drinks, ice cream, coffee or bubble tea for a first date
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:58 PM
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I actually did have plans but I guess she doesn't know for sure but that's a good point, I will keep that in mind for next time. If she doesn't text me and I hit her up should I "explain" myself or just act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:13 PM
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Yea but sometimes she says she'll call me later and she never does. I didn't want to make it seem like I was going to be waiting for her all night to call me so that's why I asked what time?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:25 PM
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Unfortunately I think I am. I tend to do couply shit(nice dates, doing them favors) even with girls I don't see myself long term with because I kind of enjoy relationshipy things.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 04:53 PM
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Not sure if sarcasm or not? Haha
/r/askTRP04/06/21 01:33 AM
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The thing is I don't want to get her more invested into something that will not turn into a relationship. Maybe it's the inner nice guy in me but I don't want to break hearts unnecessarily, especially cause this girl is a nice girl and cooperative for the most part, I just don't want to be with her long term. But hey if the best path forward is to wait for her to bring it up then ok.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:38 PM
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Haha don't do this though seriously.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:53 PM
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I was in the same situation haha. I told plate I was fucking other girls and she said "I don't want to be exclusive, but I don't want you fucking anyone else." Unfortunately I didn't know redpill back then so I didn't check her. I basically just lied to her and said "sure I won't fuck other girls"
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:50 PM
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I would go no contact personally, unless you have lost feelings and just need to bone.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:15 PM
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I wouldn't look too much into it but due to my prior experience with this type of text her interest is probably low. If I were you I would say something like "yea sure. let me know what days you're free next week and we can go from there" puts the ball in her court while showing you're not necessarily going to bend over to fit her schedule.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:19 PM
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She also left me on read on Sunday when I told her to "let me know when you're free this week" so doesn't mean all that much in our relationship. Is there anything structurally wrong with what I said though?
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:39 PM
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Or should I just wait for her to hit me up again?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:05 PM
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Yea but none as consistent as her
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:04 PM
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So what "should" I have done?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:12 PM
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Well she technically apologized that Friday, she rescheduled to Sunday but then I just canceled cause I was still pissed. It's mostly cause she's been flaking a lot lately.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:51 AM
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So she flaked Friday, and called me today so 5 days. Last time we talked was on Sunday
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:32 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:31 AM
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I did the right thing by calling it out though right?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:21 AM
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Yea I've been kiss rejected on the first date before as well and I've ended up banging the girl later.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:48 AM
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That might be the situation I'm in now. I'm guessing j should go no contact for as long as necessary?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 09:35 PM
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So I can change my behavior if necessary
/r/askTRP18/05/21 09:05 PM
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I would either, grab a drink near your place or go grab some ice cream / go on a walk in a park near your place. If you go on the walk, sit down on a bench and try to escalate. If you grab a drink just ask her to come to yours after, put on some Netflix and it should lead to sex.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:53 PM
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Yea I get where you're coming from, especially cause you were with her for a year. But yea I think it's better for you to move on and of you wanna catch up with her then shoot her a text
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:50 PM
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Honestly, you guys are in different countries so what's the point in continuing this. If you really want to hear from her, text her bro but regardless you need to move on.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:40 PM
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I would just try one more time with the intention of banging.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:37 PM
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Depends on how badly you want to smash. I don't think it's a bad idea if you have the money and are that horny but it could end up being a snowball effect.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:35 PM
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