ciurana Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	married Never sleep with a woman who has more to lose than you if an affair is discovered. The corollary: don't sleep with married women who do it behind their man's back. There's plenty of women out there into swinging and hot wife and whatever. I lived for 6 months with a Swedish woman with her husband's full knowledge. He was cavorting with his mistress, she was cavorting with me, everyone knew where everyone stood. Otherwise, don't go there.	/r/seduction	08/07/26 10:18 AM
10	married I slept with a significant number of married women over the years. The opportunities are all over the place if you seek them. It goes for both genders. The general rule is to never sleep with a married person who has more to lose than you if the relationship is illicit/without the spouse's knowledge or blessing. The potential fallout isn't worth it. And don't get emotionally involved. Cheers!	/r/seduction	08/07/26 05:47 AM
16	Men over 60: Be honest. Has your sex drive or sexual appetite changed from when you were in your 20s? 59 here. I had a full endocrine panel 3 weeks ago, liver function, everything. The doctor told me that whatever I’m doing, keep doing it. No ED, very frequent sex, testosterone at 9.51 ng/ml, normal globulin. Those are numbers expected in an 18-22 year old man. I practice game, pulling women age ranges 35-50. Most of my girls are gym rats (I’m an athlete) and professionals (e.g. most recent is a psychologist, previous is a lawyer). I don’t have any intention to stop the seduction game. My wife s…	/r/seduction	28/12/25 07:36 AM
1	Getting An Ex Back? Please move on. It won't be the same as before. On her side, she may be confusing loneliness and rejection from the other person with love for you. You'd be a handy shoulder to cry on. Comfortable and familiar. Stay friends, if you want, for the long run. Let her be for the time being.	/r/seduction	02/12/25 02:14 AM
7	I feel my age is a -ve factor I'm more than twice your age, and I keep increasing the body count. You need to devote energy and time to it. Avoid serializing if you want to have fun with lots of partners. If you are into the game for finding a life partner, then you should ignore the body count and work on your relationship aspects. Game gives you confidence to not get all wrapped up in a single relationship. If you have good game you know that, even if you end up divorced, you have the tools and self-confidence to go increa…	/r/seduction	16/11/25 05:34 AM
13	Any experience in Thailand? Greetings. I live here. Stay away from the Pattaya entertainment district (where all the whoring goes on) and try the dance clubs or actual social events. There's a sizable expat community here and in Bangkok that you can leverage for social interaction. My most fruitful hunting grounds have been various social mixers organized by the many international chambers of commerce. In the last 3 months, the British and German chambers hosted mixers in Pattaya. In both I met beautiful women with whom I …	/r/seduction	07/11/25 08:48 AM
1	For those who have pulled from the gym what was your approach? Go after the trainers, not the clientele. My yoga trainer is super hot, and we became friends after I booked a few lessons with her. That was a great path. I've done it in a few cities (I travel a lot). Cheers!	/r/seduction	24/10/25 03:56 AM
3	What has been the best places to create an opportunity to meet women and date them ? Art galleries. Business networking events. Hobbies/clubs. Everywhere you see women, find an excuse to speak with them.	/r/seduction	22/10/25 12:27 PM
2	been thinking about moving to thailand and making one night stands part of my daily routine The only way you’ll practice game here is if you hang out with the actual expat groups and hiso (high society) Thai ladies, which requires the same exact skills as everywhere else in the world, with minor social tuning for local customs. Mongering in the red light disreicts or with Thai Friendly freelancers will only stunt your seduction skills because all those engagements will be transactional. I live here and have a business development plan around high technology and automation. I engage wit…	/r/seduction	19/10/25 04:34 AM
2	How many of you are from the U.S., and do you worry about false accusations? Nothing beyond keeping messages and stopping if she says “no” because her inner slut alert went off. Make sure she’s always comfortable around you. The prime directive is: Don’t Be An Asshole. Usual precautions follow, but obey the prime directive. There’s no woman, no matter how pretty, sexy, smart, intelligent, tall, chesty, short, funny, crazy, etc. is worth engaging your asshole mode if she does something you don’t like or flakes or doesn’t reply or whatever. There are plenty of other women.…	/r/seduction	15/10/25 04:59 PM
1	Is Pickup Dying? I believe, and have considered trying to collect some data, that social media and porn are driving men away from pickup/seduction because it takes work on themselves and on social skills. On-line distractions provide instant gratification. Some transfer that instant gratification to real world situations -- they seek sex and companionship with instant gratification. I live in Pattaya, Thailand, infamous for its red light districts and adult entertainment offerings. The city has a lot more to off…	/r/seduction	25/09/25 09:39 AM
6	Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not? Not so much cold approach as creating the conditions to meet women in the course of daily activities. It's super easy to break the ice and start a playful/flirty conversation if you have something in common to discuss. I slowed down when I met my now partner of 14+ years, but I still play the game. For me, it's all about not letting seduction skills get rusty. We lead an active social life, and I create opportunities to engage with women just to see if I can still pull them in. I'm an older guy,…	/r/seduction	20/06/25 10:58 PM
1	How to be a F*ckboy in 2024, an Official Guide Great point! Dejection is super easy to avoid if you have backups because you know you have the same or better waiting a turn. Cheers!	/r/seduction	10/08/24 07:35 AM
16	How to be a F*ckboy in 2024, an Official Guide Good guide in general, I'd update a couple of things: Three-day rule: true for Tinder/other on-line, but not hard and fast. Fine tune your social skills because it may happen on the first outing if you start gaming her in person. Add: don't do serial dating. Book as many women as you can and meet as many as it makes sense for dates. Add: back ups. Schedule multiple events on a given day (e.g. Saturday afternoon outing to a museum with one, Saturday evening date with a different one). If either f…	/r/seduction	07/08/24 06:57 PM
1	Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned. I’d say I try my best to please my partners/have a good time in and out of bed. The point of my comment was really to shift focus from serial entanglements. Serialization, in my opinion, is anathema to the seduction game. Based on my experience and those of friends, the fastest way to finding a long term, fun, compatible, trustworthy partner is to not serialize and explore as many women as possible. When I felt frustrated, lonely, and had long dry spells was when I was too focused on finding The…	/r/seduction	23/10/22 05:04 AM
2	Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned. This makes sense — that’s the reason why you do NOT serialize dating. Have 2-5 girls in different stages of connection, and enjoy sex with them as they get to that stage with you. It will give you mor variety and comparison points, so that you can choose to engage long term with the one who best fits you. I don’t mind waiting for sex with any particular one, but learned a while ago to not date serially. That leads to neediness and frustration. That was the strategy I followed until I settled wit…	/r/seduction	22/10/22 10:19 PM
3	I get a lot of obvious approach invitations from women of some cultures. Is it a cultural thing or do I just not appeal to some women? Hello there. I believe it’s a combination of the subconscious signals you put out, and the girls’ culture. In my case I get few IOIs from Latina women, almost zilch from white American women, varying mileage with various Europeans, but lots of IOIs, phone numbers, etc. from Slavic women. It’s no secret among my friends that I like tall Russian, Belorussian, Ukrainian ladies the best, and they even joke that if there’s only one Russian girl in a big gathering we will have found our way to each ot…	/r/seduction	22/01/20 11:48 AM
-1	Got a girl's number when she had a boyfriend. Whats your favorite response to "I have a boyfriend"? "That's fine, I'm not jealous. Does he know how lucky he is to have you too?" Number back to you, expect a call or text soon from her.	/r/seduction	03/04/15 04:50 AM