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articlecjheart1234/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/24 07:22 PM
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Lol yeah I got banned from a subreddit because I had the temerity to say men should try actively to date instead of just trying to make friends and hoping a date relationship will just form spontaneously. There's only one way of thinking about things that's tolerated apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:13 AM
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She made the rape accusation *because* she found him creepy. She said that exact word: "she said Pierson was “creepy” and she had seen his truck before in the shopping center when she worked there, police said." So she felt creeped out and because of that she felt justified in making a fake rape allegation, hoping the police would arrest him. And they did. They played right into her hand, and it took them a whole month to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:46 AM
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ROFL, it reminds me of It's Always Sunny, where Dennis attracts the women, and Frank picks them up after Dennis is done ruining their self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:42 AM
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Bucks County born and bred, baby! Representing the 215!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:36 AM
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This incident happened locally to me: https://levittownnow.com/2024/05/20/woman-fabricated-attempted-rape-kidnapping-cops-say/ I'm actually going to be driving to that exact area tomorrow lol. But this is an incident where a woman felt creeped out by a man, called the police, and made up a story about he attempted to rape her. He was arrested and in jail for 30 days while the police investigated and found he actually didn't do anything she said. When police confronted her she said Pierson was “c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:49 PM
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The notion that we should "believe women" needs to die. This man was arrested and thrown in jail because the police believed a story instead of evidence. We should not throw men in jail because a woman has a story. It would be nice if all women told the truth and we could imprison only guilty people based on their word alone, but that's not the world we live in. We gave some extreme deference to women in the wake of MeToo, but like I said, they abused that power, so that ship has sailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:43 PM
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Thank you for your detailed response, it's kind of what I expected. Meaning that a man reading your response can't discern how to not be creepy, because there's no real definition. It's all in the eye of the beholder. You described a situation where a guy didn't do anything wrong, just asked you a question, you gave him an answer, he took another shot, but gave up quickly and left you alone and you both went on with your days. This seems like the best case scenario. And yet your perception of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:37 PM
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Okay but that's pretty glib and dismissive then. The situation isn't "bad things happen" the situation is "random women can weaponize the violence of the state against random men without a shred of proof, causing loss of liberty". That does sound like a stray bullet. But it's a problem that can be solved by taking that very unfair and strong power away from women. They've proven they are not fit to wield it without abusing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:06 PM
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Yes, and also men should have an exit plan if they are living with a women, who decides suddenly that she wants to weaponize the state against you. They will come to your house and kick you out, with no recourse. Men in that situation are thrown out onto the streets, they lose their job, and women can do this without any proof, just as the woman in the linked article got a man jailed for 30 days without any proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:48 PM
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Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:46 PM
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Define being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:44 PM
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Feminism tells us male and female are fine for adjectives: male writer, female singer. To call someone a male or female is dehumanizing though, because that terminology is used to refer to animals. We have the words man and woman to refer to humans. That she referred to men as males and women as women should tell you how she views men. It's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:41 PM
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Interesting comparison of women to stray bullets. Very accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:32 PM
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Fuuuuuck that's where I live. PA has terrible laws for men, women routinely weaponize them here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:22 PM
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Lol now you're going in circles. Seems like you're kinda obsessed with Rollo tho... is it that you actually find him attractive and you don't know how to admit that to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:36 PM
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lol you really are a frat bro. Never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:28 PM
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Oh, trust me, this whole thread was settled the moment you made an ad hominem attack against someone's looks. Maybe that passes for argument at the frat house, but not in debate, sorry. PPD is purple pill *debate* not Pi Pi Delta.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:20 PM
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I never said I'm an "expert" that's another logical fallacy - straw man. Do you know what logical fallacies even are? I'm starting to question again that you're not a teenager. Are you sure you're 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:14 PM
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Well I'm saying you *don't* have to take your chances there. I did this messy dating in high school and college but after that finding friends is too hard, you can't just make new ones easily. It's safer to actually date to date, instead of going through all the work to get a friend group only to risk it. But you're right if there's someone you're friends with that you want to be with romantically, sometimes you have to take a chance. The friends -> lovers transition is very tricky to navigate, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:10 PM
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Let's summarize: You haven't offered any advice to men who are struggling The only argument you have provided is fallacious You haven't dated in over a decade so even if you do offer advice it's out of date by half a generation You don't actually know what RP is and you agree with some of it You haven't had any dating struggles, so you can't relate to men who struggle You are keen to tear men down who don't meet certain physical ideals. Lovely hashing that out, you're very insightful. I think I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:04 PM
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Again, I haven't heard of this guy before today, I haven't even read a single thing he's written or heard a single thing he's said. My beliefs come from *my* personal experience on the dating market in 2024. But if he's right he's right. You on the other hand have no experience on the dating market today. At all. So why is anything you have to say even relevant? No one gives a fuck about me. You are spending your time here posting to me and posting to the lurkers. You want them to take you serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:37 PM
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This is a factor the "find a hobby, make friends, stop looking to date intentionally and then you'll find love" advice fails to take into account. Let's say you follow the advice, you get a good group of friends, everyone likes you, you start getting close to one of the women there, and you get into a relationship. Things are great. Wow, that advice really worked! Until you break up. Then the friend group is split, people are forced to take sides, and the women all take the woman's side. The men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:12 PM
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Yes I’m a frat guy who married a girl met years later that happened to be in a sorority. Again, you haven't even dated this decade. Last time you dated, Online Dating was actually good and OKCupid was a legit app. You have no relevant experience to offer men struggling in 2024. I mean, let's here it. You have so much to say about what doesn't work, let's hear what you tell those "young bucks"? What's the advice you give them? You said you were posting still for those who read into the thread thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:58 PM
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I’ve never once in my life had a man say to my face “men like thin women.” Never. But I know it’s generally true because I observe culture. Your first problem is you're looking at media. Media is not "what men want", it's a projection of a physical ideal coming from a capitalist enterprise. If you want to know what men find attractive, look at what porn is produced and consumed. You will surely find tons of skinny young women, but there is also a huge market for any kind of body type. Small, tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:39 PM
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I find women attractive if they're attracted to me. I'm a huge flirt like that. As for age, I mean, that works itself out, as mostly women around my age are attracted to me, no matter what age I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:10 PM
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It gets harder for everyone after college, autistic or not!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:08 PM
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Same. lol thought this person was a child, turns out he's a man in his 40s arguing like a teen, posting pictures of men and saying "ew" as if he's made a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:09 PM
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Lol so you're a frat guy who married a sorority girl, who hasn't been on the dating market in over a decade. And you're here telling men how it is out there dating? How is your experience and advice relevant at all to men who are struggling? Jesus you want to get into a pissing contest? It's not a pissing contest, it's that you came into this debate arguing that because of a way a man looks, he can't be listened to. So when that is your position, *you* better be ready to back up your words. Your…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:04 PM
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Not an answer. And the rest?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:26 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:23 PM
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I see, so you're a kid without much dating experience telling us all how it is? Got it. I notice you don't want to tell us how old you are. How many relationships have you had? How many partners? Are you currently partnered? For how long? How long has your most successful relationship been? A year? I mean, you want to say RP is a scam based on a couple pictures of some guys you found (which doesn't prove anything at all but we'll just move past that), what do *you* look like? The reason I know R…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:06 PM
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How old are you? If you're not a woman, you definitely sound young by the way you are arguing. You're making a lot of assumptions about me and the other poster and you call them facts. And most of your actual arguments boil down to "look at him, he can't be right..." you just proved that red pillers don’t even know what the red pill is. No you've proven *you* don't know what Red Pill is, because Rollo and his writings do not *define* RP. It's not prescriptive. If you want to boil down RP to an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:48 PM
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There is no emotion here. Just hard facts This is what the other poster was saying. You say things like "no emotion here" but then your post is filled with calling someone a loser. Whether or not you think he's a loser doesn't matter to me. It shouldn't matter to anyone else looking at the facts. But it matters to you and that's interesting. A man with that kind of history becomes a loser who writes a self published I mean... we're talking about him here. He's notable enough to spawn debate and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:24 PM
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Why is that funny? The whole point of RP is advice for virgins that actually works, as opposed to advice from women for virgins that doesn't work. Looks like he's had a range of experience to include a BP woman, which gives him insight on how twisted and sick women can be. Number one thing RP teaches men is women are not "wonderful" they are varied people just the same as men. I'm sure he was tortured by that woman. He lost his brother so he understands mental health in men and how that intersec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:08 PM
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What are you trying to show with this? A man with that kind of history knows all about how women are. I have to agree with the other poster, you're arguing with emotion instead of logic. And besides, I have no idea who that guy is, I had to look him up to see some people call him "godfather of RP" but so what? Men come to RP through their own experience. I've never listened to a person like Andrew Tate, but I do listen to my brothers who have had experience dating, and when we all come together …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:00 PM
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This is actually a good thing because it means RP is right. You expect this with ideologies because it's very hard for people to admit they were wrong, instead they just adopt the ideology and pretend they haven't changed their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:51 PM
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This is actually a good thing because it means RP is right. You expect this with ideologies because it's very hard for people to admit they were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:49 PM
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Well good luck in your 30s, I think everything I said still holds. From 21 to 30 there's a gradual declining in socializing as you go from dating wonderland in college to dating desert -- as friends get married, people start families, your career becomes more demanding, health issues start copping up, life starts catching up with you. There's a reason r/datingoverthirty is its own subreddit apart from r/dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:22 PM
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I'm not a woman but I think this is my first advice for you: Stop asking women for advice about what works for dating women. They have no idea at all -- women can only tell you what works for them personally, and their advice is usually tailored for men they already find attractive; whereas men have the benefit of experience. My advice to you after you work on your appearance, is don't strive to be macho, but instead strive to be less feminine. Those are different strategies. You just want to di…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:03 PM
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Yes, and my point is that for OP, his entire college experience is a social venue, so his advice gleaned in dating wonderland about how easy it is does not apply to most people's situations. YMMV. How old are you? When you're 30+, social venues are few and far between, the majority of people *in* those social venues are not in your dating pool, and of the people in your social venue in your dating pool close to zero are attracted to you for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:51 PM
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I have ADHD, Autism, OCD, CPTSD, Bipolar, GAD.... yeah dating is tough for me sometimes but it's actually not because on top of all that I'm attractive. It's true you have to hide all of these things when dating. But although they can be a curse, they can be a blessing as well. The problem autistic men have in dating is not that they have trouble with all these social cues -- all men have trouble with this shit. Autistic men just have to learn that women are lying when they say what they want --…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:34 PM
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Not really. College is a special place because you're all young, experimenting, have few obligations outside of school work, live in close proximity, similar background, something automatically in common (going to the same school), know people in common, have tons of down time, etc. These conditions don't exist anywhere else or at any other time in your life. Once you get to your 30s, it's much harder. The people you see every day aren't randos you can date, they are colleagues you have to work …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:21 PM
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If you want to communicate with men, and men tell you men are very literal and need to be told things explicitly or else they won't assume, then you should listen to men instead of saying "men just need to read my mind, what's so hard about that?" Women don’t tend to say “I want a man who fucks me right” but you understand that’s an unspoken truth right? It's really not. There are all kinds of women out there. Assuming that all women have an unspoken "I want a man who fucks me right" at the top …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:12 PM
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Ooof yeah, women have some whack ideas about men and sex. The comment that lady made to me was after I turned down her advances early on in the relationship because I wasn't ready yet. This was after she told me "I want to take it slow..." so I said "great me too!" Well slow for her meant like a week, I said I needed longer, so of course it was something wrong with me as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:05 PM
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fr, I just want to meet a nice woman who is sane, single, not pining over her ex, and is actually nice to me. Last woman I dated called me a f*g, so yeah, a nice woman would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:54 PM
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It's interesting to me you separate nice and attractive, because that's true: being nice and being attractive are two different things. It's true that given equal levels of attractiveness, one can get a leg up by being nicer. But one can also get more attractive by doing a lot of other things that will have a better ROI. That's why the advice is to forget about being nice. If you want to put it into equation terms: overall_attraction = log(niceness) * physical_attraction ^ confidence One point i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:46 PM
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People need actionable advice. This is a humble brag bordering on ableism with the degree you're digging into autistic people. College is one of the easiest places to meet people and date. It's literally Disneyland easy mode for dating. Your advice does not work in the real world for people having problems with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:04 PM
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Statistically you'd lose that million then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:32 PM
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In dating. My point is that having a history of getting kicked out of buildings and arrested doesn't really stop one from being successful with ladies. In fact, that's the profile of a man who is getting laid. What I mean is, if I give you two men: one who is bookish, quiet, and does what he's told; another who is loud, garish, and often gets in trouble for what he says and does; and I tell you one of these two men is getting laid, you only have one guess, and if you guess right you'll get $1 mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:03 PM
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"The problem with these men is they don't have a personality that is attractive to women.... a personality that is caring, considerate, altruistic, etc." I think the broad issue here is that we have an extreme contradiction that has societal implications. If you tell men that a caring, considerate, altruistic personality is not attractive, men are not going to strive to be those things. But we *want* men to strive to be those things because they are good for society. How do we bridge that gap? S…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:38 PM
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It's how you know red pill is right, even women just admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:31 PM
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I'm all that, but also with a flat stomach. The flat stomach isn't enough either. You also have to be playful, and kind of mean and dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:27 PM
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You missed the third category of nice guy, who *is* a nice guy, and got intentionally strung along by a woman for validation, dinners, rides, outings, and generally filling the boyfriend role until a more attractive man comes along. Then she fucks that man until she's tired of being abused by him, and eventually comes back to the "nice guy" who treats her well. When the nice guy eventually loses patience with her, he might get very angry at the way he's been treated, and end the friendship. At t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:21 PM
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Depends on the society you want to build. If you don't reward people doing the bare minimum, and you also don't punish people for being disruptive and offensive, then people are going to behave accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:13 PM
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"The problem with so-called “nice guys” is they think acting nice toward women should earn them a woman." Men don't "think" that, they are *told* that. When women say "I wish I could find a nice guy" men listen. They are very literal. So when a man is nice and a woman says "No, not like that, I didn't mean you *just* have to be nice, it's implied that you have to be hot as well, duh. I'm not gonna date an uggo, ew".... it's a very frustrating thing to learn. Because the time spent between hearin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:57 PM
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It's not even a secret. Also we all know women in that situation don't have it that bad, they just have an absurd standard and aesthetic that needs to be maintained to make them happy. Women can't stand to see a man happy playing video games on his lawn chair in his living room with no pictures on the walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:58 AM
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The first is a failed marriage. The second if it lasts we can give it to them. But more than two and it's like... why even bother? At that point it's just a long term relationship with a complicated exit. Four makes a mockery of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:54 AM
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So, asking again, in this context is it justified for a black man to be wary when interacting with white people? If you want to personally act in a bigoted way to maintain your own safety go for it, no one is going to stop you. But there is no "oppression" clause for bigotry. Bigotry is bigotry no matter your reason for it, no matter how you dress it up. We recognize that bigotry is a bad thing because it prevents social progress. And that's exactly what you're advocating for with your post. Bec…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 01:54 PM
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The point is it's not 99%, and you're naive or in a bubble to think that what has come for a lot of other people doesn't have a good chance of coming for you. There's a mass shooting every other day in America. 1 in 5 Americans have personally been victimized by gun violence. 50% know someone who was victimized. Everyone thinks they won't be a victim until they are. Point is a crisis can arrive at any time, and guess whose job it is to handle things when shit goes down? If you're a man, it's you…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/24 07:18 PM
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This is the same guy who was making fun of redpillers (Rightfully so) cause they always talk about protecting yourself or your gf in a life death scenario as proof of why you need to be ''masculine'', when it obviously will never happen to an average person. But the script obviously flips when talking about women. If you live in America, don't think gun violence won't affect you. We revert straight back to our gender roles in a crisis. I've definitely been in that scenario (mall shooting) and I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/24 05:27 PM
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Yeah, I tried dating a low earning woman, and I was fine providing for her, but she couldn't get over the fact that I was paying for all the dates and she couldn't contribute anything. Said it made her feel like a "sugarbaby". I was more than fine with it, and fine staying in, and I never pressured her for anything, but it was just too much of a disparity for her to handle. I dunno if any men feel like that but I don't think they'd frame it as feeling like a sugarbaby lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:41 PM
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OP seems to have a very fairytale view of love and relationships. Based on trust, mutual respect, and a deep unyielding love. It's something Disney has been selling little girls since even I was a kid and it's never not been a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:22 PM
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Notice how in these discussions it's always "*I* would never do that and I'm sorry some woman somewhere hurt you, but blaming *me* for this problem just because of my gender is an affont to my character and anyone who does so shall be catapulted from my life!" Meanwhile, if women say something about "all men do X" or "kill all men" and men push back, we hear "well if you're so offended by it then you're part of the problem and exactly who we're talking about! Ask other men to do better if you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:08 PM
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I just think it comes down to far more men willing to parent an immature woman than women willing to parent an immature man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:28 PM
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And here's the short circuit I predicted, imploring us to end the debate at the status quo where men are unknowingly raising children not their own. How "fair" do you think that is? I'm not talking about me or my preferences in any of my posts. I'm advocating for the man who trusted his wife the way you want and you say is necessary for a relationship, and whose life turned out to be a lie because she betrayed him. How do we as a society fix that problem? Surefire way seems to be requiring biolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:17 PM
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Maybe because I'm sick of hearing the r word, it's been used against people I love maliciously, and I think people who use it deserve to be called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:59 PM
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I said men are more likely to commit violent crime. Do you disagree with that? No, but if you take that statistic and run with it to the extreme of "therefore we must be wary of all men as if they are capable of committing violent crimes" then you're entering the world of illogical paranoia. Bigotry is "obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction, in particular prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group". Do you think tre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/24 02:56 PM
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I look at it this way -- I've been a feminist for 15 years, and now I'm not thanks to their overreach. I'm not the only one by far, but I am one of the latest. To me, that's the pendulum swinging back. I was sympathetic to the cause of feminism for a long time, and I believed in the message of equality. But they're asking me to believe my lying eyes and ears and I can't abide that. So I'm not a feminist anymore.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/24 01:25 AM
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It wasn't a "mistake" in that this outcome is exactly what was intended.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/24 01:05 AM
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lol yeah she was ready to tell this poor man these things and everyone had to tell her what a bad idea that would be and how much it would hurt him. She was only thinking about what he could do for her and how he could fit into her life, she didn't even stop to think if this man wanted to be treated that way. Callous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:02 AM
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The thing is you gotta love and lose first before you can make a call. Situationships aren't dispositive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:06 PM
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But you're not *actually* in both boats because the other boat is "can't get a relationship and is therefore alone" not "is alone".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:55 PM
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Thinking about this more, I think it has everything to do with the paternity test topic. Hear me out. That she's not a stranger is the point. 100% of the perpetrators of paternity fraud are trusted and loved by the victim. There's no way to tell a woman who is going to defraud you and ruin your life, from a good woman, because in the former case they hide themselves until its too late, and you trust them implicitly. That's why bear vs. man came to my mind. I often heard the following argument: "…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:51 PM
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Board and card games are always a blast with the bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:35 PM
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Except they're actually not, and it actually just makes you look ignorant and small.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:33 PM
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What toxic dynamic? The dynamic where the woman says "trust me blindly, don't ask any questions, don't think for yourself, facts offend me, if you search for the truth we are done!" That toxic dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:26 PM
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Yeah, this is why I suggest men break up with women who are afraid of being raped. It's something that only happens to a tiny fraction of women at the hands of terrible men. Really shouldn't be worried about it in general unless you're irrational and paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:58 PM
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This is the part women can't comprehend. 100% of the men affected by this situation trusted their partner completely. So when they say "Don't get in a relationship if you can't trust your partner" that only short circuits the discussion at the expense of men who are victims of paternity fraud. Following that advice doesn't do anything for them and just benefits women looking to defraud men. The only logical action is for men to advocate to other men to insist on these tests. Over time, if enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:56 PM
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"unfounded paranoia" What makes it unfounded more than say.... a woman trusting a bear more than a man in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:50 PM
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love it when people just casually drop the r word, wonderful. Can't even spell it right, congrats on owning yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:43 PM
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unless he’s also into those things and social awkward himself. And there are plenty of them! Far more autistic men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:06 PM
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"women have trouble finding a good husband she’s attracted to and compatible with." That's my point with the initial post is that men will be attracted to autistic traits. They will find compatibility with them because they have a provider and protector instinct. Many many men are okay with providing for and caring for a woman like she's a child, and that's what many autistic women actually need, so there's compatibility there. Women by and large are not okay with caring for men as if they're ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:03 PM
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I like this analogy much better than the no water vs salt water one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:49 PM
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lol why do you have to make this personal? I do fine with dates. I was married for 12 years to someone severely mentally ill, and she's already on to her next victim. You're right they should all probably stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:46 PM
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Like I said YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:41 PM
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It's true, more men are willing to be daddy to their wife than there are women willing to be mommy to their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:40 PM
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I don't think men have lower standards for dating. For example, I married my wife with schizoaffective disorder not because I had low standards -- she was quite a catch in terms of her accomplishments at the time. We divorced not because I treated her poorly -- quite the contrary it was she who cheated. So my view, and it's just my view from my experience and the people I know, is that mentally ill women find partners despite their illnesses and lose their partners *because* of their illness-rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:40 PM
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In my circles it's autistic men looking for autistic women similar to them and wanting a relationship with them. Typically though, autistic women find a different kind of man more attractive, and they will hold out for a relationship with that man instead of the autistic man who is into her. They've written movies and books about this exact dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:23 PM
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That's pretty much my point, yeah? You know 4 women I describe and they can all get relationships, one of them even got married. I can think of 4 men I describe and they're all single and meeting at the comic book shop tonight to play MTG. I'll be joining them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:20 PM
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Woooow. That's the whole thread right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:00 PM
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No way, you just have to lean into the masculine side of autism instead of the childish side. The masculine autistic man does what he wants when he wants for reasons that are his own, but he still looks to build consensus in that space because he's a leader and he knows leadership is best done by example. People follow him because he's competent and he knows what he's doing, because he's cultivated an absurd level of mastery and expertise in one area. He thinks logically and rationally not givin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:53 PM
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If you are a cute 30 yo autistic virgin *woman* who enjoys video games, cosplaying, watching anime, and you live at home with a dead end job, you will have no problem dating and there are men looking to wife exactly that archetype. If you are a cute 30 yo autistic virgin *man* who enjoys video games, cosplaying, watching anime, and who lives in his parent's basement with a dead end job, you radioactive in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:34 PM
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https://digitalcommons.chapman.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1056&context=psychology_articles This shows that a plot of BMI and height for men and women. Very interesting results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:28 AM
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Happening is real time right here: https://np.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1fq2bnz/falling_for_my_friend_whom_i_never_thought_was_my/ 39F: "He is not the typical masculine type that I have always been with. He honestly felt like a gay best friend even though he is hetero. I just felt so safe with him, unlike any man I’ve ever known. He is sensitive, intelligent, communicative, we have similar sense of humor, similar passions, and deep conversations."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:59 PM
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"Men" is a group of 4 billion people, you can't generalize like that. If that's how some women think, it's straight bigotry. Men overwhelmingly are not dangerous and never harm anyone. Thinking that any man is possibly the worst man feeds into the "the fear of crime gender paradox" as the OP of this thread put it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/24 11:24 PM
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What I found is that terminally online women picked bear because it was a meme, and women in the real world who see and interact with men but hadn't heard about the meme picked men, because it's literally what they do every single day, and they were actually thinking logically instead of going with the majority opinion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/24 10:29 PM
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But that's the whole point -- that being a foot shorter and 70 pounds lighter doesn't actually make you more susceptible to crime according to actual crime rates. Being a man makes you more susceptible to crime. So why are women so scared all the time? Well we all have our explanations for that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/24 10:22 PM
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Yes, my ex tried to frame me, used the law to do so. Received zero repercussions even though she wasted everyone's time and money, and also tried to ruin my life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/24 10:18 PM
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This relates to a tactic I employed at the end of my marriage when my I literally couldn't do anything right - gray rocking. Men are doing this at a macro level now that the abuse is becoming macro level due to feminism's overreach.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/24 03:37 PM
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It's true, but this is an important distinction that a lot of people don't get. You can't just look masculine in your photos, you have to move in masculine ways, say masculine things, sound masculine, and maintain only masculine body positions. I remember a reel going around a couple weeks ago of some guy talking about how he dominates his chair and the bags he's carrying to be masculine, and people were ripping him for how dumb that was. But seriously, there are masculine ways of moving and wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:15 PM
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You: "dating is ridiculously easy for women" Also you: "She buys her own drinks because she's worried about getting date raped" Maybe not so easy, eh? I also have a sister who is a blonde hair, blue eye, 5'7" former cheerleader and we are twins, and yeah I can see she has an easy time getting 100+ matches and instant dates whenever she wants. But she's still not married at 35 despite a string of boyfriends. Deadbeat -> musician fuckboi -> alcoholic -> psychopath -> emotionally unavailable -> geo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:24 PM
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Or from waiting for me to leave to work and poisoning my pets. Damn did that happen to you too? I mean, mine weren't poisoned but my ex decided to set my cats free one day when I was gone. Luckily my cats are of the "scaredy" variety and just hid under a bush next to the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:28 AM
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I feel like maybe you're not old enough to realize how creepy the 30 yo men saying they want 18 yos are. The only thing that needs to be said in response to a 30 yo going for an 18yo is "ew". I'm sorry if this comes off as harsh given your age, but teenagers are just.... not interesting, and they look like children to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:23 AM
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there's a very high chance you get taken to the cleaners for doing nothing wrong because everyone just assumes the woman can't have been the issue. lol that's me and my exwife. At one point even the judge was saying shit like "I assume we're here today because you've stopped paying spousal support" and I had to be like "no actually we are here because I've been paying more than I should and I need an adjustment" My story is that I was the sole income, and also responsible for most of the househo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:54 AM
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That doesn’t mean racial dynamics are anywhere near the same as gender dynamics. I agree, but I was not arguing they were. Analogies are appropriate especially when the things are not the fully same, but there are similarities in that matters of prejudice do arise. The data proves things. The statistics. The studies. Empirical evidence. I take your point in a general sense, but two things. First, I'm glad you bring up data because that's usually how prejudices form. We take something we don't pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:21 PM
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I feel like what happens is you have people who want fair and equal, and others who are out for blood. Those out for blood maintain the "we want equality" line until there's an opportunity for overreach, and then they change their tune. That's when the movement splinters when those who want equality can't sit back anymore. Also, it seems to me the college enrollment gender gap is something that feminists are really trying their best to ignore, they will point to issues in other areas, but they a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 12:58 PM
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You can't say people think you're entitled because they don't know you when you're posting things like this: "Men have to be a little entitled to women". If you think you are entitled to women, people are gonna pick up on that and call you entitled, especially when you spell it out so clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:54 PM
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It is, but not for the reasons you lay out, and also I don't think you're the right person to be making this argument given your post history. Probably reflect more on why people are calling you entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:23 PM
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I hadn't heard about that before! Is there a canonical example?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:49 PM
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I don't disagree. But ingroup bias is different from prejudice. In-group bias: "I'm not open toward you because you are not familiar to me." Prejudice: "I'm not open toward you because I believe a generalization about you formed through inherent biases and misapplication of logic."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:49 PM
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Thank you for your thoughts, I like the ramble because I have a lot to relearn given my dating history. I will say the women's college dance major was actually pretty chill, it was 2010 and before smartphones. Before all the purple hair. She had a lot of good points and I saw the challenges she faced. Before her, I was a typical brash, cocky, self assured 19 year old and she was attracted to me. As soon as I moved over to her POV and she moved in with me, she was done. I didn't take the lesson t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:22 PM
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Which are not necessary, but a choice on your end that has nothing to do with what women choose to do. I think the entire lesson of feminism, at least as I've come to understand it over the last 15 years, is that you cannot fight systemic discrimination through individual or even localized community action. Fighting systemic discrimination requires a mobilization at the societal level, and we couldn't put that burden and expectation on individual women. This idea is precisely what *led to* the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:59 PM
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What I had said in another post is having read plenty of male-oriented erotic fiction, I don't find that the women represented in those works are all 110lbs with DD breasts. Sometimes, yeah of course. But actually stories feature a wide range of women of all shapes and sizes. And you can contrast this with the excellent point another poster made, that if you go to the romance books subreddits, you'll find women asking why all the men are 6'2 with huge dicks and 7 digit bank balances. You will no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:43 PM
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Ah, I think we have a different idea of what "community" means here. Yeah, I think there's nothing stopping men from calling each other up and going bowling. But I feel like that's a straw man argument because no one is saying men don't do that - men call each other up and go bowling all the time. It's very easy to agree with that, and hard to refute. The kind of community I am talking about and envisioning for men requires resources, resources which are currently being deployed for women that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:32 PM
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Actually I misread your argument so my response is off, but you also misread mine so I'll address that first. I didn't say "women are selfish are bad" -- when I said "Because what are they doing besides helping themselves?" the "they" in that sentence refers to men. -- Let me respond to a correct reading of your comment though: As I interpret your statement, you're asking: how is it zero sum? It's not but at the same time the discourse is creating that. It'd be fine if it were just women doing w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:17 PM
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Why are you so intent on trying to exclude people from this sub? You don't seem very willing to engage in debate with your dismissive attitude and one line responses, so maybe purple pill *debate* isn't the place for *you*?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:47 PM
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I have such a hard time figuring these men out, because I used to think I was pretty feminist, but I would never have engaged in that kind of performative dormatting, even when I was dating the women's studies dance major from the local women's only college. What are the internet randos getting out of it? I feel like it's that outgroup bias the OP was talking about at work in full force. And yeah, you do notice the head patting from women when those dudes start popping up "Thanks for being one o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:42 PM
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This sounds like he's sensitive about generalizations No that sounds to me like he's appropriately pushing back on harmful stereotypes about men, and I applaud him for it. You're calling him "sensitive" which seems like a judgement and is offered as insult I guess? Which isn't cool if you are trying to put him down that way. It's the equivalent of saying "man up", which I hope you can appreciate is an expression of internalized misandry ("toxic masculinity" although I don't like that term) on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:24 PM
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Obviously people relate to her or her works wouldn't be so timeless, but really what are they relating to? Seems to me they're just relating on a fantasy level. See that's the thing is that the genre is really "female love fantasy", not "romance" as if what's represented in the books is actual romance. It's just as unmoored as "male space fantasy".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:38 PM
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I don't know any of what you said, it sounds like some D&D shit but I'm intrigued lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:35 PM
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Yup, that's some serious internalized misandry right there being displayed in that post. Really proves OP's entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:09 PM
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A network of people formed in hours/minutes is not a friend/support network. OP was talking about actual connections, not that. And we all know children and kids make friends faster than adults, we are talking about men here not boys or teenagers. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:07 PM
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How does what women do amongst ourselves directly prevent men from doing whatever amongst themselves? Because what are they doing besides helping themselves? Helping women and harming themselves (some also harming women sometimes).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:56 PM
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Yeah, there was this brand of man during "Man vs Bear" who would pop up in every comment section to be like "I can't believe men don't understand why women would choose the bear! These men are the problem!" I'm like bro... we need you over here. It makes me really appreciate the women who can see our point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:51 PM
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Some will, the narcissistic ones. Men do that to. In general I am envious of the friendships my female friends have with one another, but at the same time they don't have the 30 year relationship I have with my boys, so it's not all bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:46 PM
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He wasn't being sensitive, he was pointing out a hypocrisy. No one except a racist would ever feel okay saying "The reason I am more open, trusting, giving, helpful and friendly towards white people than black people is because white people don’t try to *insert racist belief here that generalizes black people based on the behavior of a few*." So for a woman to say the equivalent about a man seems like misandry to me. Can you explain how it's not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:35 PM
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To some extent they are correct; we need to build our own communities because no one else is going to do it for us. On the other hand, I will say, for a long time I devoted myself to female efforts instead of male efforts. So you are also correct, in that we can't build our own communities if we've been coopted into helping them build theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:31 PM
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Yeah, I came around to that thought when I was responding about Bridgeton in another comment. The dude is rich nobility. He's an 1800s English billionaire archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:29 PM
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I've watched Bridgerton, and I agree to some extent it's more in line with P&P than modern romance with the 6/6/6 dudes. But at the same time it still falls *squarely* into the billionaire trope. As a woman, what is your insight into Bridgeton as to why it's an appealing fantasy for other women? I admit I'm pretty dense so I might be missing a lot of things obvious to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:18 PM
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My ex wife told me for 10 years that she doesn't like big muscles on dudes. As soon as I left her and started working out, she's commenting on how good my body is looking, which she never did during our marriage. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:13 PM
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Jane Austen never married and never had any serious relationships, and yeah lived 200 years ago. But let's turn to her for dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:11 PM
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not even that many usable pickup lines we could obtain from it. Right, because the whole book is about a woman being attracted to her ideal fantasy man. He doesn't need a pickup line, he just attracts her telepathically and knows her inner soul immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:07 PM
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Literally everyone "has" abs. They are only visible with low body fat percentage. Like.... verrrrrry low, to the point where it's hard to maintain for long periods given the diet you have to eat. What you saw were malnourished men, not men with well defined muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:02 PM
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Yo, literotica has more balanced and realistic content about love and sex compared to the romance section in B&N. On Literotica you will find description of every kind of woman. Sentiments like "maybe a little overweight but in all the right places" are common. Short women, tall women, fat women, skinny women. Descriptions of breasts span the spectrum from small to large. You can find every kind of woman from submissive DDLG to a Mommy Dom. Not so at B&N, scan the covers they are all Fabio. Thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:59 PM
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I have. The male protagonist is always tall, mostly brooding, and usually emotional unavailable. But always tall. I read one ("The Love Hypothesis" by Ali Hazelwood) about a grad student who kisses her professor without asking him, and then starts a relationship with him. The book opens with her just kissing him without even asking, because I guess when you're a women they let you do it. Within the first two pages we know precisely three things about this man: he is tall (the author eagerly esta…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:40 PM
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Feminists claim that the Bechdel Test for films is an insight into the male psyche; when they write female characters, men end up having them only talk about the male character, their romantic relationship with him, and their only role is to advance the plot for him rather than to be full and round characters in their own right. By comparing this to what you had said, I was implying that the fact when a woman in your life doesn't ask you about yourself, doesn't concern herself with your hopes/dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:27 PM
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Lots of single women are allergic to normal/healthy relationships and feel uncomfortable, angry and icky when involved in one The avoidant ones, for sure. When a woman with an absent father and a string of abusive boyfriends meets a man who is patient and kind and understanding, her first thought is "he must be gay", and she loses all attraction. She mistakes constant anxiety for "butterflies" and says things like "I usually know right away whether I'm into someone or not", and then is surprised…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:02 AM
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lol, this is like the Bechdel Test for films, where you look to see if two female characters talk about something other than the main male character
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:58 AM
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She doesn't have to cheat, she just has to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:47 AM
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That's fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:07 PM
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Exactly! I can understand when women all have a story like this about men harassing them and making them feel uncomfortable, they can feel like men don't understand how prevalent it is. #MeToo was so important to women because it was finally a chance to get men to realize "Hey, this thing is happening to us and it's a problem that needs to be fixed!" Yeah, okay agreed! But then when you say "Okay, we've been working on this MeToo thing for 7 years, in the spirit of feminism and equality, can we …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 09:05 PM
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So I had it a little confused, but the law says that in order to be a 55+ community, 80% of the units must be occupied by at least one person at least 55+. I think they can be 100% 55+ if they *want* to, but practically I think it works out that being 100% 55+ isn't ideal. https://www.hud.gov/program_offices/fair_housing_equal_opp/fair_housing_act_housing_older_persons
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 09:00 PM
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Yeah I can agree with that, I don't like any punching. But if I'm thinking more along the lines of a group of women getting together and forming a support group around tech. That's great. And then they form a conference where they present papers to each other. I love it, I can get behind that. Women's shelters, women's clinics, all good ideas where I think it's fine to discriminate and say "No Boys/Men Allowed". None of that is punching anywhere. The problem comes when the women's conference bec…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 07:57 PM
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It's true, I don't think something being "discrimination" per se is a basis to object to it. My broad perspective of left-vs-right wing gender thinking here is that the right believes "you shouldn't discriminate because it causes distortions in the steady state society, which is the ideal society since is was arrived at through an organic process." contrasted with the left wing perspective that "it's okay to cause distortions (discrimination) to correct imbalances in the steady state society bec…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 07:43 PM
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I guess they were trying to say you shouldn't think like that in the first place if you don't want to end up in the situation that you're in, and he's got a point. But the situation before was also bad, and by doing what we did, we actually did improve things across the board for women. But at some point you've done enough, and people don't know when to stop.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 07:30 PM
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Agreed, although I admit I don't know the mind of a child well enough to know how they'd feel in these situations.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 07:07 PM
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It is. That's why I said it's important to stop that thinking eventually. The objective was achieved, mission accomplished, let's dial back now. But the kind of thinking I'm talking about here is the addition of spaces, not subtraction -- we shouldn't take things away from boys only to give them to girls.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 07:05 PM
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Why does expressing one's true and honest feelings mean that one doesn't care what another thinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:03 PM
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Yes and no. I mean, I don't think a kid walking by this place will make the connection and think he's a cockroach. But.... the fact there's a "Ministry of Women" in Canada that handles all the men's issues says a lot to the population about who is valued by the government.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 06:48 PM
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A 55+ retirement community has every right to turn away a 25 year old trying to move in. Something I learned is that at least in America, they do *not* have that right. In actuality, these communities reserve a certain (low) percentage of their units for younger people to comply with housing discrimination laws. It used to frustrate me so much that all the new housing in my area was 55+ when I was looking for a house. But I take your overall point that not every space should be open to everyone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 06:42 PM
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I will say, since this is a left wing sub, I'm okay with discriminating to correct gross imbalances, *temporarily* and that's the important part. For example, if there's an industry with 90% men and 10% women, it's okay to have a group for just the women so they can find solidarity and comradery. A support group for women with 1 women and 9 men isn't going to support women effectively. But you have to stop eventually, and it should probably be sooner than you think, because otherwise it just gro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 06:39 PM
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lol Canada has a ministry of women??? Let me guess, there is no ministry of men, and the ministry of women is supposed to handle men's issues, amirite?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 06:24 PM
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I’ve had crushes on friends many times. I repress the feelings and they go away. Whose to say they're not doing that? Sometimes it doesn't work though... I mean, if it were that easy I don't think anyone would be having this discussion. And why are you reducing this to lust? No one said anything about lust. We are talking about a situation where you've gotten to know someone so well you actually like them and want to pursue a relationship with them, not just fuck them. From the OP's scenario: "H…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:21 PM
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When I was being physically and emotionally abused by my wife, I had to leave the house. She got to stay at home, and I had to keep paying on the rent because it was under my name. All the bills were in my name and I had to keep paying them or else it would have impacted my credit score. I had to sleep in my car because I couldn't afford to live at a hotel. What do men do when they don't have cars or friends? Well they sleep on the streets or in the park. Oh, and I presume transmen and transwome…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 06:17 PM
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That's reasonable, I can see how you would feel that way if you take it as "without the possibility of fucking, im not worth getting to know otherwise" But I think what people are talking about is the situation is where the man has *already* gotten to know you, and in the course of doing so, caught feelings. That actually is the opposite scenario -- that you are so worth knowing beyond fucking that they want to fuck you. Try this on for size: "We've been friends for a long time, and I love our f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:12 PM
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They start as friends. Over time, he wants more than a friend. She still just wants a friend. He expresses interest in being more than friends. She doesn't want that. He moves on leaving room for her to find a friend because he can't offer that to her. Nothing in that scenario implies he doesn't care what she wants. He's just can't give her what she wants. How do you imagine this scenario should play out? He stays quiet, forever living in a state of limbo and blocked from finding a suitable roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:30 PM
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He's just living his best life. Why do you think he should prioritize her happiness over his own? Moreover, why would she as a friend expect that of him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:16 PM
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Friends don't last forever. If something is one way and changes, it doesn't necessarily mean it wasn't real to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:00 PM
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This 100%. I was hanging out with this woman and I thought we had a pretty good thing going friendship wise. We'd talk about everything and chat every day about deep topics. Then one day she hit me with this line: "I don't think I'd even be talking to you if I didn't work from home, I'm just so bored all the time." without any hint that could be taken negatively by me. 4 months of talking to me every day because she's bored? I thought we were friends... dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:56 PM
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No, that *is* the point. Women don't actually mind if their friend who they are attracted to expresses interest in them. It's only the ones they aren't attracted to who they get upset about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:44 PM
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YES. This right here. I heard *zero* peeps about women and children prisoners being rescued first in Gaza. I heard zero peeps about Ukraine restricting men to fight, while women are fleeing and leaving their husbands on the front line to find relative safety in Poland. Zero feminists said "Hey.... that's not equality. Why are the women allowed to leave while the men are sent to die on the front lines?" No, they are *happy* about that situation. They will never advocate for a draft of women, let …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:47 PM
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I agree with your general point, but what does this have to do with autism? You can't call someone autistic just because they have bad logic. It's not true that only autistic people are that naive. Sometimes people are manipulated, sometimes they are ignorant, sometimes they are young, sometimes they are just wrong. There's no reason to call out autism specifically. Women and bluepill men may or may not be autistic when they say such things, but you don't know, so by attributing their naivete to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:37 PM
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Yeap, even if they are drugged and forced into sex, that's not seen as rape by men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 01:01 PM
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I'm pretty sure if every man who spoke out about his encounter with psychopathic/narcissistic women, we'd have our equivalent of the #MeToo movement. Every man I know has been abused by a woman. Every single one. Of course we can't do that because of #MeToo; they'd say we are just DARVO-ing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 12:01 PM
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Average women wouldn't be able to friendzone average men in favor of hotter guys if all men collectively raised their standards. Thus depriving her of all her options. It's really simple. How do guys like you not get it? The kind of collective action you're talking about isn't possible in a population of 4 billion. Think about it, let's assume every man collectively raised their standards as you suggest. Then there would be a lot of women looking for men. All a man has to do at that point is low…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:46 AM
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You and me brother, we are birds of a feather. I wouldn't take it back either, I like who I am today, and at least I know my what I'm capable of enduring. Most people aren't tested like that. Keep hanging in there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 06:39 PM
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There's no way I'm ever putting myself through anything like that again. I'm not going to go out of my way to 100% avoid ever interacting with women. I'm with you there! Especially about avoiding the tiniest hint of a red flag, because I almost made the same mistake again. I started talking to a woman after my ex-wife, and she was just as unstable. That thing imploded when she called me a f** because I reminded her of her ex-bf who used an anal vibrator despite me not being gay nor owning an ana…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 05:11 PM
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Your story sounds a lot like mine. Was she bioplar? My wife was BP1 and she said and did a lot of the same stuff to me as your GF did to you. It started early when she would abuse me emotionally with hot and cold games -- one day she was in love with me, the next she was threatening to leave me. Then we moved across the country for a job and things got worse. I got up at 7am, biked to work because we couldn't afford a car due to the move, worked till 7, biked home, and then I'd be expected to ma…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 04:01 PM
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I'm sorry about what you had to go through, I've been through something similar that has led me to a similar perspective. For me, my ex wife weaponized courts against her ex, and then me. I saw it happen in a justified way when we first got together, her ex would be calling and texting her all day, automated thousands of times from different numbers to the point she couldn't use her phone -- pure harassment. So she went to court and got the equivalent of a restraining order, and for that proceed…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 12:08 PM
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