clairebaire81 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Wow your DMs are so unique and special. We need to think of a comparable unoriginal "hey beautiful" to say to men. Or maybe we just say it back? Ugh nah that will probably backfire and they will take it as an opening to put their foot in the door...which I will now be closing in response to Hey Beautifuls!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/19 01:29 AM
3	FDS and Attachment Style: How I used to be anxious and at risk It very much does. Thank you! This is one of the most helpful discussions I've read and interacted with on Reddit and definitely the best that I've come across on the interwebs in a long time. Again, many thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 06:00 PM
4	FDS and Attachment Style: How I used to be anxious and at risk Thank you so much! I never knew what to search for in a doctor to get to this and your advice is spot on. I've recently found the.holistic.psychologist on IG & am enjoying her great program too. Many, many thanks!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 05:58 PM
18	FDS and Attachment Style: How I used to be anxious and at risk This is something I've wanted to work on with guidance from a therapist but I don't know how to seek it out. Do you have any suggestions on how to find a professional that can help with attachment styles? I'm willing to put in the work to understand how my past experiences have helped shape my attachment styles (and other psychology). But I also want to put just as much energy into looking forward vs dwelling too much in the past. Also thanks for the links; I'm checking them out next.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 08:34 AM
7	Types of Abusive Men: The Water Torturer Document document document! Email yourself vs taking paper notes. That way it is 'saved' forever and has a digital timestamp and I guarantee you 95% of the time the other person is not taking such diligent notes. Also you don't have to worry about losing them like paper notes and they have less risk of being intercepted/confiscated (and change your passwords to your email(s) frequently, ok?). I started this approach years ago for basic shit like BS convos with telephone companies that promise yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 07:47 AM
24	Do not stay with a man who talks about his ex or his past Jesus I just dated this man. And next on my reading list will be Why Does He Do That.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 07:33 AM
3	FDS Strategy: when he asks for polyamory, you kick him to the curb Brilliant approach!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 07:23 AM
16	Dating Report - W/E 1st Dec, 2019 This is really great and at the risk of sounding selfish, it's exactly what I need to read right now. I downloaded an OLD app last week and have been receiving alerts about matches but I just freeze up and overthink everything and then I don't touch the app! Your insight is helping me lighten up a bit about the whole thing. Thank you! Looking forward to more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/19 07:46 AM
7	MOID LURKERS: You better 👏🏼 shut 👏🏼 the 👏🏼 fuck 👏🏼 up until you PM at least 5 TRP PIECES OF SHIT that advocate literal violence against women before you address one more fucking FDS woman. YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT GENDER EQUALITY, YOU JUST HATE WOMEN. We're not going to die alone, you're going to die alone. We're going to die happy and they're going to die alone. Maybe that's why most women outlive the husband. We literally do not need them to survive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/19 10:16 PM
1	Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etc May print this out and put it on my fridge. Also beware of the smart ones that know which of these signs are telling. E g. They purposely will never use the word "crazy" when referring to other women bc they know how that immediately throws up a red flag to us. Or is too good at apologizing. As in it reads almost straight outta a book.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/19 08:11 PM
3	"Friends with benefits" benefit men only. "laid pipe like he patented it" amazing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/19 07:32 PM