clamchowderz Archive

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1	What to say back to a girl who rejects you when you try to kiss her on the 1st date? not sure why you downvoted...this is pretty much spot on.	/r/seduction	09/10/14 02:56 AM
1	What to say back to a girl who rejects you when you try to kiss her on the 1st date? not always, but girls do reject on a purpose even if they want to kiss. i like to do the whole '3 attempts and if she declines each one, she definitely doesnt want to kiss'...the past two girls ive dated, both rejected me the first time...i ended up kissing them on the forehead. but at least they knew i wanted to be more than friends and that i wanted to kiss them. timing has to be right though, that's important IMO. To answer your question and assuming youre attempting when saying goodbye, i'd …	/r/seduction	09/10/14 02:55 AM
0	I made the first move and kissed this girl but.. mmmm...try kissing her again and see what happens. was this her first kiss? when you kissed, did she kiss you back?	/r/seduction	21/08/14 05:22 AM
1	How do i make it work with girls who dont text often? i hate texting. the girl I'm 'chasing' is a text-er. ugh. give her a specific time/place and wait for her to confirm...ideally a day or two before the date.	/r/seduction	31/07/14 05:11 AM
1	[FR] First date in another country with a local girl. Shot down when asked for a kiss at the end, but she definitely seemed amused and flattered. Why not for the 2nd date to go for the kids? She didn't reject you, she was just ..taken aback? My weakness is that I wait for the perfect time, which can be from date 1-4...some girls like to take things slow. I'd take her out again.	/r/seduction	13/07/14 12:23 AM
1	Will living alone deter my social life and maybe effect my ability to pick up girls? living alone was when i scored the most chicks and had the best time. living with a roommate sucks. girls are into coming over to your place, not you and your roommates place.	/r/seduction	15/02/14 04:25 AM
1	I'm fine with approaching girls in most settings.. but I can't do it at a bar/club. And now that I'm out of school, I'm really struggling to meet new females I'm in a similar situation minus the no girls at work. I see plenty of them and talk to as many as I can. However, a bar/club is a different venue and has changed a bit (or i've changed) since I was in my early twenties. I'm 26 now. Girls are always in groups with other groups dancing and giggling and being loud - it's tough. I'm in the "when I don't pursue, is when they come' mindset now...	/r/seduction	19/07/12 01:19 AM
2	Art of Seduction I agree. The book is not so much relate able to this current time, but still shares basic principles. The "send mix signals" concept wont work in a bar/club, but it is good to be aware of/know how to handle certain situations should they arise. A good read, only if you're willingly to take the time to learn about the history of seduction. Learning how seducers before you preformed will only make you that much more powerful, in the long run.	/r/seduction	25/03/12 04:58 AM
1	avoiding the friendzone? Update 2: Ignored girl at work. Girl repeatedly tries to communicate with me, writes me a hand written note and wants to hang out all the time. I've given her "bits and pieces" of my "old self" however I've made myself busier and unavailable more so now. Time will tell what the effect will be, but the ball seems to be back in my court.	/r/seduction	23/03/12 05:21 AM
1	Breaking the Friendzone I agree +1	/r/seduction	23/03/12 05:16 AM
1	Breaking the Friendzone "You are paying for stuff, and aren't getting anything out of it" -- This is THE worst...shit aint cheap nowadays, at least give me something!	/r/seduction	23/03/12 05:14 AM
2	How to friendzone a girl? yup, girls love guys who "working hard towards a goal". I can hear it now, "Omg, he's working in construction to pay for his master's!!" *giggle giggle giggle. sigh...girls annoy me sometimes...	/r/seduction	19/03/12 04:23 AM
2	After text anxiety, anyone else experience this? Need help overcoming it, asap. I'm actually highly considering signing up!	/r/seduction	18/03/12 02:47 AM
2	How to friendzone a girl? "told her i do construction job on the side to help pay for my masters" sealed the deal right there;)	/r/seduction	18/03/12 02:45 AM
1	avoiding the friendzone? very interesting situation you're in as it mirrors my most recent experience. I also "waited too long" as some would say to make a move and I did so, purposely. Work is an entirely different situation, which means you have to play your cards very very carefully. In my opinion, being her friend first gives you a huge advantage and does not necessarily put you in the "friend zone" automatically. For me, my "friend" and I (who recently went on a ski trip together -- was disastrous), basically spent…	/r/seduction	18/03/12 02:18 AM
1	Friend-Zoned myself, if I make a move and things don't go as planned how can I play it off? you could try, "...I just wanted to see if you were a good kisser".	/r/seduction	18/03/12 02:06 AM