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30 but still look like I’m 25. Baby face for life
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:37 PM
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Thanks that’s exactly what I plan to do after being redpill woke for 2+ years now and having RP tendencies even at an early age. I support and allow them (my friends) to live the life they want to and will still be there for them if they unfortunately end up divorced.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:59 PM
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Will do ty
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:51 PM
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Great commentary thank you
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:50 PM
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I didn’t say I feel like it was the right thing for myself. I am just curious what other trp members have felt about their own experiences surrounding their friends. Perhaps I didn’t phrase my question well.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:50 PM
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people are the 5 people the hang out with most
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:37 AM
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Start making her think ur cheating on her back
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 03:32 PM
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i'm assuming you're not in orbitor stage yet...if that's the case, then you should ask her out just you and her, grab drinks. If being too direct will scare her off, then make it very casual. sounds like you already have the odds in your favor if she is willing to spend extra time with you over others. Maybe she's out of your league but you can easily win her over through maintaining frame, being the cool alpha, and being dgaf
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:00 PM
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my pleasure, i am willing to help...if you really didn't care you probably wouldn't post it on the internet. i think maybe you need to ask yourself what you really want. it seems like you wanted to be serious with her but also didn't. could that have caused her to stray? either case, she sounds like it was a lot of trouble (bipolar, high n count, etc). you can bang these type of girls but not LTR.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:39 PM
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well if you really didn't care, then you would refer to her as a 'plate'. but you said you are 'devastated', 'sleepless', or depressed in a way. that implies you cared about her. if you treated her as a plate for 3 years, that would be fine. but you seem deeply troubled by the break up...implies you were emotionally invested.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:32 PM
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sorry i dont think your ex was LTR material. if you want to know what a real redpill woman is about, go to redpillwomen subreddit...its definitely not HIGH Ncount....you would be best to avoid women who behave like redpill men. she left you because of abs? that's ridiculous bro. i think you'll be fine but you need to figure out how to pick stable women not whores.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:24 PM
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if you are redpill, then you will recover fine. I think a more important question to ask was what went wrong? was your last LTR a bipolar, high-n-count, whore? or did you simply become to beta? what was the cause of the problem? identifying these root causes and addressing them will help you find a better LTR or help you become better LTR material. Vetting is key. Don't LTR someone who is not LTR material...applies to yourself as well.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:58 PM
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I've been in a happy LTR for more than half a year since becoming TRP woke and I can totally relate. I have had moments of "beta", loss of frame, showing too much emotion to her. However, as long as you have maintained alpha,TRP qualities, strong frame more than 90% of the time, then she will not throw everything out for small hiccups, assuming she's a smart/stable girl. Logical women (RPW) will see things this way. However, if you start to consistently lose frame, become needy, and an emotional…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:23 PM
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I'm curious if you vetted her like a true RP. It sounds likes she may have some daddy issues, attention seeking issues, possibly high N count. This is evident in her inability to empathize from your perspective, playing the victim mentality when confronted, unwillingness to respect your opinion (or lack of a bonding factor)... All red flags that you should've stayed away and that she was not LTR material to begin with. Learn from this and move on.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:19 PM
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From experience, you have a point. Let's say you have 2 equally high SMV women: One that deflects sex for several dates, LMRs vs One that will sleep with you the first night. It's easy to say that "oh man my SMV has gone up" but you can also assess the underlying issue...which is that one probably had a strong parental upbringing, stable family, good relationship with father, holding out for a strong alpha male and avoided the CC in her earlier years. The other has depression, rode the CC for ye…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:40 PM
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you could argue that Channing Tatum did chase one girl for 9 years. he only recently got divorced from her.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 01:41 AM
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i must be considered creepy for dating a 24 year old female. For reference, I am 29 male
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 08:26 PM
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you sound like you are way more emotionally invested than she is. it should be healthy balance. before you do something for her, ask yourself, would she do the same for me? If the answer is no, then don't do it.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:57 PM
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That's why leasing is the better options. trade in every couple years for the newest.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 10:47 PM
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always be ready to demote (emotionally detach) or walk away if necessary if you catch her misbehaving. maintaining the power to walk away will keep her interested, assuming not all hope is lost.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 10:24 PM
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you are way more emotionally invested than she is. detach yourself. do things for yourself. are you hitting the gym? do you have your own social circle? do you still do your own hobbies as you used to? Those feelings of jealousy, anxiety are all feelings you created in your own head. Her actions may very well be objectively normal. Think rationally through those emotions. are they truly justified? For example, has she cheated on you before from texting a guy/Instgram DMs? No? Then why would you …
/r/askTRP08/03/18 10:31 PM
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I agree and after longer consideration I removed the thought. My inner game/frame was solid at the time of occurrence but was shaken few days later when we weren't together. Thanks for your advice though.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:10 PM
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I like this. I believe she is applying a form of dread within this shit test although undeserved. I was thinking along those lines too earlier today...like "these dudes are dating hot models, your a pump and dump at best " all said jokingly with a smile. Extreme but I could tone that down.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:45 AM
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Living together or cohabitating usually leads to the demise. There is no more mystery , no need to try. She has access to you all the time. I lost a lover before because we saw eachother too much and the attraction interest level faded (on both our ends). Words don't mean shit if they can't be backed up by action. Women are masters of this...saying one thing and choking on another mans dick the same night. It might be time to call it quits. This vacation is a chance for her to escape from you...…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:42 AM
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Is there some extra context? How has the relationship been? Sex life? Does she still worship your cock? It might help us to identify the root cause of her action and assess whether you are truly fukked.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:34 AM
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I like this "ignore" action plan to the whole thing. Similarly to what I did but I definitely could have done it better.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:24 AM
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I do relate to your sentiment hence why I even posted. But based on trp knowledge of alpha frame, it's only disrespectful if we place that emotional value to it on our own. No one can control how we feel, including disrespect, unless we allow them to...so an abundant alpha would not be phased by her statements. Perhaps I felt insecure in that moment. Yes hypergamy is at play here but why should I care? If it happens, it happens. Thanks for sharing your perspective. It allowed me further analysis…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:23 AM
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Great feedback thanks. Makes sense. It is definitely a need to show dominance that comes from an insecurity on her part. But in the right way.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:24 AM
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To me, "reigning her back in" shows too much emotional investment or wanting to "control" her...or I am wrong here?
/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:31 PM
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I've responded to these situations by just ignoring and being unphased almost like an internal "sure Do whatever" attitude. Just curious if there is better responses. Thanks for your reply.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:31 PM
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I started to ask why, in my younger years, i was drawn to hot BPD women. reflecting back, it all came from within... you have some insecurities about yourself that are stopping you from getting the stable hot women who are bitches, shit test, but treat you like gold and emotionally calm. work on SMV, abundance mentality, frame, and be able to catch the red flags earlier.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:48 PM
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i support this. most of my gfs are all 8+ and have orbitors all the time. the more emotionally unstable ones jump from guy to guy quickly, within a week. some guys last long, some guys don't. there are also emotionally stable women who are perfectly fine being single, independent, and hold out for the right man to come along. ultimately, all girls are surrounded by a sea of men. the varying degrees of value of these men depends on the girls own value. conclusion? you have to get lucky..with timi…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:43 PM
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This is why most beta male can't handle paying for it. If you are alpha, understand that its a transactional relationship, get your pussy from them, then leave them, there's no reason why anyone shouldn't pay for it, especially if traveling to the philippines. It's the easiest way to access it, gain some abundance mentality, get rid of that sexual tension, and go back to your home country a renewed man. feel what it's like to have two girls (or more) suck your dick at the same time, shower with …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 06:02 PM
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It all has to do with brain chemistry. For example, you start fapping two times a day, you're mind keeps trying to chase that high. the very moment it doesn't have it anymore, you start to feel depressed. Your baseline excitement level has been altered. This is the same reason why kids who watch porn have to keep chasing that high, up until the point where they are watching anime porn and tentacle porn, because the normal stuff just doesn't do it anymore. I notice a significant increase in anxie…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:57 PM
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Many animals naturally live and travel together in groups called herds. Goats, sheep, and llamas, for instance, live in herds as a form of protection. They move from one fertile grassland to another without an organized direction. Don't be a sheep.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 11:24 PM
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don't tell her directly what the boundaries are because this is beta, but show her your willingness to walk away the moment those boundaries are reached.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 11:15 PM
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i do understand your point of view, but I also am of the mindset that Redpillers are very self-aware and know how they are perceived. We, as RPers, know when our behaviors are "beta" or demonstrating lower value as soon as we take a step back and look at events objectively. To your point, it is hard to tell this about someone through a post...but....This is part of RP. Knowing when sometimes you are beta, and when to step up your game.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 10:37 PM
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Biologically speaking, they know they can not win physical struggles/conflicts. So they resort to the emotional and psychological warfare, which they have mastered.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 11:53 PM
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I think it's worth mentioning that you also changed your diet. Muscles don't just appear from lifting but a combination of diet, lifting, sleep. Lift big, eat big, grow big
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:24 AM
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Blatantly saying monogamy is bad is a false statement. There are plenty of redpillers able to sustain interest in relationships. It's called dread game. Example, Rollo . Nonetheless, your friend sounds like he's given up. Lesson: don't be bluepill
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 07:57 PM
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all things in life require a bit of hazing...dating that high SMV women (shit tests), joining a new group (being the butt of the joke), learning something new (hours of studying), joining a sports team (brutal conditioning). Just don't compromise your integrity and what you are willing to tolerate. But understand that if there is no struggle or turmoil, then was it even worth it>?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 09:28 PM
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This works exactly the opposite, too. I've dated women who are at or above my SMV for both short and long term...Usually it's the ones far below SMV that are desperate and fight super hard for you. Hell, you could even tell them you're dating other girls but they will still want you. A hot, 8,9 with abundance mentality, emotional stability, and high self-esteem usually will not approach men. Why you ask? Because she does not have to take that risk. She has 100 betas that get boners just from her…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 09:04 PM
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agree, i think there was some sort of loss of frame and perhaps how he worded it. his tone, attitude, and frame at the time he said it would've been a good indicator...or she was a super hoe, in which case there was no hope to begin with...and he would've pumped n dumped her anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 03:30 AM
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looking forward to the rebuttals here, but I do understand your current emotional state. Everything appears jolly, especially since you are only <2 years deep. This woman's treasures still make you shoot loads of gold. She treats you like a god. You find no red flags (yet). Although having had 30 sexual partners, I do think you have some idea of advanced level game and you know what you are doing. It's still dangerous waters.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:37 PM
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Don't start a post with your age, only setting yourself up to be ridiculed. That said, some great points but friends will also betray you. If you haven't experienced having a bro stab you in the back over some chick or by hiding their true intentions then you are inexperienced. Be careful who you share your deep information with
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 01:35 PM
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If you catch yourself even slightly reverting back to your beta, pre-programmed societal beliefs, find that one article that will snap you back into TRP. It's an endless journey of self-improvement and you will read and reinforce concepts/ideologies more than once. Help those are around you who are Redpill inclined. Forget about the Bluepilled betas stuck in their own pitiful cycles.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 08:24 PM
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talk to other girls. you'll realize they're all the same.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 09:24 PM
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self-esteem doesn't get enough attention around here. Most of the high SMV women already have high self-esteem, hence why they shit test, and prove you are the man you say you are. At the core, it is TRP. If you want a high SMV, or high self-esteem woman, your own self-esteem must be higher than hers to give her a reality check. maintaining frame is also self-esteem. not letting anyone change your perception of yourself, what you stand for, and what your boundaries are.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 07:42 PM
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Great points. I recognize them as shit tests and ignore. "You'll be lucky if there's a next time..." is best responded with "So I met this sandwich today on the subway..."
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 05:14 PM
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Walking away is harder when you're dating HB 8s-9s but if you can do it, you will drive them crazy. It's much easier to walk away from someone who is few points below you. Women will inflate their egos as another shit test. Things you may hear from High SMV women include "I am way higher than you in market value" "I still have options" "I will probably eventually leave you" How to navigate this is to remember your TRP knowledge...abundance, dgaf attitude, frame control, AWALT, you are the prize.…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 04:15 PM
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This. A girl who cannot maintain stable, lasting relationships with her friends can hardly do so with a man. Likewise, a girl who only has fickle relationships will most likely think rightfully so about the one with you.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 06:38 AM
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Well said. Basically remain the same redpilled man she was originally attracted to. Maintain frame from the start until it's over. Don't turn into a oneitis beta
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 04:54 AM
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point 2 has been discussed numerous times in manosphere and here on TRP. it's not a theory it's obvious.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 05:43 AM
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Yes it separates the real alphas from the betas in disguise. True emotional detachment.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 05:01 AM
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I say it's ok to say 'good bye' and disappear for few days...then restart convo as long as you've already built some interest from her. works like a charm. shows you are busy but the difference between that and ghosting, is that you demonstrate the ability to walk away. silence doesn't necessarily state that.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 07:53 PM
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I have found this to be very valid in the different types of women I've dated ranging in different esteem levels. Some TRP theory confirms that high self-esteem girls at the top (9s,10s) usually have lower n count because they are more picky and anyone beneath them would not give them the tingles. Whereas the 6s,7s have slightly more option.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 06:54 AM
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you got outframed. best to move on.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:57 PM
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get a grip man. looks like you still have some work to do on becoming a true alpha. at least you faked it long enough to get some action, but doesn't seem like your confidence is coming from within, but rather externally. You can still NGAF while in a LTR or spinning only one plate... just remember that she's not yours, only your turn. In addition to that, she's definitely not LTR material, based on her dating history. If she monkey branched to you (ie, dated you while still maintaining a boyfri…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:49 PM
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This is a never ending strategy...ignore your plate, then ignore her as your girl, then ignore her as your wife, then ignore her grave
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 11:18 PM
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Consume redpill with some skepticism. A lot of posts are biased with one-time personal experience, rather than an accumulation of knowledge. There is some (actually quite a lot) validity to this post but not absolute.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:12 AM
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It is 100% supposed to be a double standard...because a key that can open many locks is a "master key" but a lock that can be opened by many keys is what would be considered a "shitty lock".
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:08 AM
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How is doing volunteer work a red flag? That demonstrates a strong value of caring for others and society
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:05 AM
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I can stand by this since I have a baby face myself. I have also seen my face at different BF% levels. Putting on more muscle , reducing body fat, and having more testosterone naturally makes my face more manly. Eating junk, not lifting, and not staying lean makes the baby face come back.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 03:48 PM
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no escalation is not a big deal if she is interested in you enough. she may think you have strong frame and play by your own rules. on the other hand, if she's a tinder sloot, she may move on to the next. text her and see how it goes.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 06:28 PM
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look for a new job. also, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 06:26 PM
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I soft nexted my ltr by keeping her around until she really set me off. Just start thinking them more of a sex object than an actual companion.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 06:23 PM
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reminds me of my manipulative, lying ex. I had a similar experience. monkey branching women always have it coming...especially the next dude who thinks she is HB9 when any ex would easily say she's an HB3 because of her emotional insecurity and issues. This type of women is perennially depressed and tries to fill the void with sexing up the first thing that gives it an ounce of attention...once a guy is used up, it's on to the next. they will never find happiness.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 09:32 PM
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