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claptilley/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 04:13 PM
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First step is to stop putting yourself down. So you got some shit wrong. We all do. Constantly. Learn from it. Learn why it happened. Learn what was in your control. Read. Read. Read. Gym. Gym. Gym. Confidence grows from discipline. This is not a light switch. It is a lifestyle change. You got questions. Ask them. Dont preface them by calling yourself beta or faggot. Nothing of value happened when you did this. Not for us. Not for you.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 10:33 PM
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Thanks. Just exactly what was needed to start my day.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 12:49 PM
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You're insecure. That's okay. But was is a shit test. Think of it like this: Go to that bitches social media. There you'll see pics that improve her appeal to men. Women are master's of covering their flaws. The make up industry is a testament to this. My point is, play your strengths. Grow a beard. Make the shit you do right outshine and cover up your flaws. I'm 5'6". Imma get shit for being short. I can't help that. Never gonna be tall dark and handsome. That's cool. I'm quick witted, working …
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:42 PM
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Recommend reading "The Rational Male: Preventative Medicine". It explains what motivates women as they progress. In a nutshell, there are different motivations for different ages and self perceived SMV.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:44 AM
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She was soft nexted. Wouldn't stop. Hard nexted wouldn't stop. Message new ladies asking them "how her pussy tastes"? Called at 3 am...and just breathed...
/r/askTRP27/06/17 01:14 AM
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1 horse girl under my belt. All it took. Stalker for the good dick.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 03:54 PM
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1) The payoff isn't her man saying this, it's the attention and validation on social media 2) This can be entirely faked photo 3) She will swallow my load. Not his. Don't confuse praise with an ulterior motive of attention with respect. Read this. https://illimitablemen.com/2015/06/30/the-nature-of-women/
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:42 PM
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I really recommend reading Illinitable Men. Hit the archive button and start at the beginning. He has a sharp wit and blunt perspective. It really resonated with me in my times of anger. While it may be pleasing to imagine the wall coming and these women who squandered their value become cat ladies who no one wants. Beta thirst is a real issue. Read some betas in waiting posts from Rollo. Hell read both his books. The second one will break this down for you. There are countless societal trends w…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 03:08 AM
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Think of it. It's perception. In a plugged in matrix, blue pill defined world...these women are whores. Letting go of an ego investment is hard work. Some days it feels impossible. It is great you deleted social media. It's a distraction anyway. The shit whores do isn't going anywhere. If you read rollo' s work, you'll see him referencing a society that's gradually celebrating open hypergamy. So being pissed and hating them will get old fast. Being bitter stops personal growth. At the end of the…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:10 PM
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Yeah, anger phase. A big thing to consider is "whore" is a definition within the matrix. This a growing time. Keep reading the sub. Read Rollo' s work. Read Illinitable Men's work. There is some amazing guidance and insight throughout this community. You're anger comes from an ego investment into a society driven narrative of what a woman "should be". Changing your perception takes time. Remember, hypergamy is a hind brain operation. No woman wakes up with the purpose of riding the dick carousel…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 04:06 PM
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I have my first stripe on my white belt. I refuse to offer a bullshit excuse as to why I'm not training currently. I need to go back. I am however weight training 3 days a week, doing cardio 2. I could sacrifice 1 day a week to train bjj. Police training will give you ground, judo and better standing fighting confidence. Good luck, keep reading, keep lifting, and never stop working on you.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 03:47 PM
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1) Men in Uniform 2) Authority. Otherwise no job earning you income is a cuck job. Unless youre a fluffer in a porn set. The real challenge is never stagnating where you could improve. Sometimes a pay cut grants you other things. Like more off time to monk mode or personal fulfillment. Keep in mind this is your journey and what I take away from this community may not be what you take away. Our validation and acceptance is trivial. Alpha men, Beta bitches, and cuck describing anything but a cucko…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:28 PM
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A redditor once wrote...AWALT doesn't guarantee she will act a certain way, but she has the propensity to. Like the rule, "Treat Every Gun as it's loaded" doesn't mean every gun is loaded. With women and handguns, act accordingly. Don't give a gun a chance to hit an accidental target. Don't give a vagina a hard dick to fall on. Innocent or not. Can't happen if you decline. That said, being the messenger will absolutely backfire in this situation. She sucks his dick and if he's not unplugged can …
/r/askTRP16/06/17 06:13 PM
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I want it to be popular. I wish I had this wealth if information 15 yrs ago. Let's give guys a fighting chance.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 02:40 PM
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You should read some monk mode stuff on IM. Monk mode is more about proper utilization of time. Earning a living is proper utilization. If you're unhappy with your job. Focus on how to advance your career. Learn a trade. Read on colleges and education. There are many hat's we must wear. The burden of performance is on us. Monk mode in its simplest form is to utilize as much time as possible on self reflection , planning, and growth by implementation of the plan. I'm paraphrasing from "How to be …
/r/askTRP26/05/17 02:54 AM
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I live in a rural area in WV. The feminism isn't blasted in your face. So thats nice. There is no escaping solipsism or the hivemind. AWALT. I think maybe instead...you invest time in monk mode for yourself. What ever the fuck feminists do around you, fuck em. It's hard to do sometimes, but find like minded logical men to befriend. Investment in all this is your best recourse to the bullshit.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 09:09 PM
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Step 1. No negative shit. Calling yourself a loser doesn't change shit. But it is a negative energy loop starter. Step 2. Focus on you. Less social media more monk mode. Lift. Don't know how? Research. Then try. The process will help you reorganize your brain. Lifting is more about restructuring beta traits into self improvement at first. Any reason your on social media and not investing is an excuse. One you tell yourself. Don't allow it.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:25 AM
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Sex is a symptom. Not the goal. Continual investment in your value is the only choice. Shits hard, yeah dicipline is a motherfucker. Keep yourself on the pedestal. Not vagina. Remember every guide to monk mode advises to take some time to socialize within moderation. If this lifestyle were easy, you could preorder it from gamestop. It's hard. But living as a quitter is harder.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:14 AM
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She'll have sex. Maybe not with you.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:04 AM
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Well said.
/r/MensRights16/02/17 03:24 PM
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I read a ton of red pill, specifically Rollo Tomassi with his books and blog. Additionally I read illimitablemen.com. While they may have beliefs and study behaviors of women that do not show women in a favourable light, I don't find either one of them to hate women. The major difference between MRA and TRP to me is how they perceive things and which actions to take. MRA pushes for open discussion and a call for public acknowledgement of men's issues which society and the media ignore. TRP often…
/r/MensRights16/02/17 02:52 PM
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Amused mastery, mixed with insulting him as being juvenile. Illimitable Men had a post about the Jester Machiavalian. He seems like he's a weak version of that. Good news is you are a threat. Try reading 48 laws of power to advance in your workplace.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:58 PM
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It's a good start knowing your vices. It's now time for some tough love. Nothing any one says here will change things. You have read the books I hope. You have to spend your most valuable resource, time, improving. Join martial arts. Find the right people to infect you with their positive traits. Befriend them. Learn from them. Nothings going to change unless you make it happen.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 08:09 PM
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I looked to see where my state ranked. Sadly WV is behind.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:10 PM
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1) By being here. By asking these questions. You are opening a blunt can of worms. These blunt and strong worded responses are the stark reality you want to ignore. This is your gut feeling. You have a choice to call us dicks or you could listen. Read the sidebar. Realise no one is going to say what you want to hear. I will purchase you a copy of "The Rational Male". Message me your address. 2) By dating her, you are telling yourself this is what you are worth. The negative feelings you have are…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:50 AM
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Well said. I'm about 1.5 years into reading and have only started eating clean and exercise since February. I have to meditate often that the goals I seek are coming in time. This is the beginning. Never stop getting better. The last sentence of your post is now saved and will be my meditative focus if I begin to sway or drop the ball.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 02:31 AM
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No way. Part of your frame is who you are. Stick to your frame above all else. TRP applies to married life. Pick up the rational male books, and the hays translation to meditations. I have always thought of plate theory and multiple sex partners as a symptom of reaching your goals. It's very short sighted to think the end result is more sex. The end result is being the best person you can be. Playing your strengths, and finding a mate with less hypergamous tendancies are all values you can add t…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 07:29 PM
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Keep in mind hypergamy. There is no percieved constant in her mind. To say one build or another would change woman to woman, from day to day. Whatever build you're aiming for, play you're strengths and do it for you.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:06 PM
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Read no More Mr. Nice Guy. It addresses you on this front and probably many more were not discussing today.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 08:46 PM
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It depends on who are. That girl has sex without money. I guarantee it.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 02:29 PM
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Took me 3 reads to get it.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 07:50 PM
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Don't pay for what you can get for free. This goes against trp motives in my life.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 07:49 PM
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This is true. To sum it up....its a human trait. Just given the structure of society, it's easier, with more opportunities for Women to be Hypergamous. Remember AWALT is all women have the potential to be this way. We accept our path comes from earning everything. There is no pity for anything else.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 09:34 PM
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It means I state this is the path I'm choosing to go. She likes the idea, or so she says. In my defense I laughed in her face at her using the alpha term as a hamster tactic. Explained that she being a woman does not understand an alpha trait versus a trait that benefits her. I am failing. I own this. What have I done to lead? Nothing of note. I still have my goals, and chores that I can't get to as child is #1. I've set her down and demanded I have my time. She agrees but actions are different.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 04:40 PM
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I've not just asked. I've been a year at this. The approaches don't work because child safety seems to be a Trump card. She's safe in the response that I'll cave and watch the child. So she is in the control and has upper hand. I'm at a loss to apply an effective plan of action
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 04:31 PM
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For her lol
/r/askTRP09/02/16 03:45 AM
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My 6 month Preggo girlfriend at a Nelly concert.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 12:51 AM
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I'm naturally attracted to chubby girls. A big turn off for me is a skinny blonde. That said, we don't need to condone letting ourselves go.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 03:04 PM
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Good work. Keep at it. I couldn't imagine being in that exact situation.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:25 PM
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Jumping in the deep end is a bold approach. The new you should inspire, not enrage consistently.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 06:14 PM
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I do not lift. I strength train with push ups, pull ups, and squats for now. I have solid goals to get a gym in my schedule or buy equipment to do stronglifts asap
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:46 PM
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Series of events. 1) watching friends in custody battles 2) getting a married woman pregnant and dealing with the subsequent abortion. 3) I started being a whiney bitch and getting involved in MRA. 4) Red Pill post on MRA sub. 5) I've been a full blown lurker and reader since. On the journey of owning my shit since.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 02:43 PM
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I'm mostly a lurker, but would like to point out that, this concept, is being the best version of yourself for you. That creates tingles, and pussy. Being you and sticking to your core values above all else is an alpha trait. I know my goals are to acquire alpha traits but never compromise who I for what's desirable in a female frame.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 05:25 PM
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Eh, we split after high school, kinda mutual. Putting any effort into finding her11 years later to just be like, "fuck you" would give her satisfaction...the best fuck you I could ever give is to forget she exists. AWALT...by that...forgettable
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 09:13 PM
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I agree this being a possibility, I feel that her motives were more like a kid torturing an animal. Just what fucked up shit could she do and get by with.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 09:08 PM
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At 17, my girlfriend told " I should kill myself". She even offered to give me the pills to do it. Now, I don't believe her motive was attention, but more feminist hatred of men. She was fucked in the head and god knows I needed a big dose of the red pill to tell her to fuck off. It was a pretty dark time in my life and I remember how stripped of my manhood I felt with her. How embarrassingly beta I used to be hurts to even relive. Yet I felt it could add to the post seeing as though this is not…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:22 PM
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Thanks...as a mobile reader this helps
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 06:52 PM
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It is accurate, in general I find men's rights on this subreddit often discuss issues, custody, false rape, and we cite examples of why we need this. I'm sure there are some inexcusable crap that leaks in, but such is the internet. The mainstream media I simply do not follow. I don't believe or trust the govt, or the media to ever tell the truth. No. It would be a sway of power back in the other direction. To say all feminists are terrible man haters would be just as bad as what were trying to r…
/r/MensRights06/02/15 07:20 PM
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Thanks for being nice and practical.
/r/MensRights11/06/14 07:02 PM
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I know your not doing this for money. From a fellow father...you make a PayPal...ill donate...give your address ill western union it. In the spirit of Xmas I'd be honored to help.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 12:31 PM
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Never give up! How can we support you?
/r/MensRights11/07/13 04:01 PM
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And why is a man tethered to the will of a woman? It's her body, but he shares in the consequence. You keep it, and force us to pay you? Or you going to abort it, and force us to deal with it. Nobody wants to tell you what to do with your body, we'd just appreciate a say in our own lives.
/r/MensRights27/06/13 04:15 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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