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True
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:49 PM
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On dating apps after the first 10 demands for casual sex i log out. I never get to the possible man not asking for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:46 PM
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Relationships are terrible especially once you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:12 PM
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Not relationships. Casual sex. That’s it. Nobody really wants to be used as a receptacle. It isn’t the thrill you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:49 PM
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Some women do. Quite a few even marry ugly losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:42 PM
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I don’t. Some of the women who died were married though. I guess women just need to deny all men sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:39 PM
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I’m not blaming men, i just want to not die because i can’t get healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:19 PM
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When women do it, it is also entitlement. Just, 8/10 entitled people in ppd are men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:18 PM
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I don’t feel entitled to romantic options and 7/10 posts here are men whining about not getting casual sex, not women whining about not having romantic options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:08 PM
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Feminism doesn’t rule anything. Women are fucking dying because they can’t abort fetuses that are incompatible with life ffs thanks to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:07 PM
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Bullshit. Most women don’t even get an orgasm from casual sex. This is a fantasy of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:39 PM
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Men don’t acknowledge women’s issues. Who told you they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:39 PM
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I mean, that’s what men are always here whining about- they feel entitled to have casual sex with women who really aren’t having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:38 PM
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No, they don’t. Men want casual sex. They will literally say anything to get that. That’s why women give up on dating apps, screening thru all the fuckboys begging every woman for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:37 PM
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Women have it easier in being used as fleshlights by men and that’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:56 PM
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Men will pass over many women while chasing after Stacy and then be bitter because stacy didn’t want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:17 PM
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No, it’s because there is a woman available.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:46 AM
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What’s wrong with paying for services? I presume you get paid for services, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:46 AM
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My ex sister in law’s junkie boyfriend sexually abused my brother’s daughter and blamed my brother. He lost his kids for years. The boyfriend ended up raping a neighbor’s child and the truth came out about my niece but by then it had destroyed my brother’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:00 AM
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Most women have few options especially once they are trapped financially by being burdened with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:04 AM
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And men practice it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:32 PM
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Men may settle for their looksmatch but their intense entitlement will lead them to leave the minute something better comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:46 AM
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Ugly nice guys definately do this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:18 AM
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The problem is men think they are entitled to stacy, and then end up leaving someone good for someone they think is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:14 AM
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By age 50, 75% of men have become fathers in the US. Clearly, they are getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:33 PM
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The median married man is nothing special. The median guy with a girlfriend is not attractive, rich, or inspiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:28 PM
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I agree, nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:03 AM
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Except she’s going to use him for whatever she can get out of him, because she also doesn’t want to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:25 AM
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I mean, read what you just posted. the 35 year old woman also doesn’t really want some bitter, jaded, fat, balding middle aged man with prostate problems. The issue isn’t what you would ideally like. It’s that noone really wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:23 AM
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Which experiments are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:06 PM
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Most women aren’t fucking chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:29 PM
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If women were that into it, 90% of posts here wouldn’t be men whining about not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:28 PM
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I do. I just don’t create threads here making fun of anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:28 PM
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Most women aren’t that into casual sex. Dick isn’t consistently worth the hassle or risk of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:57 PM
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Probably alot of them are men who spent a decade chasing stacy and getting sexual gratification at glory holes or paying for it but you don’t care about that 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:57 PM
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This is so obviously false if you just go to any public event and look at couples
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:41 PM
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I don’t think you should settle for someone with an incompatible lifestyle either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:31 PM
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I relate to everything you’re saying. I’m from downstate illinois originally 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:30 PM
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Maybe it’s your geographic location? Anyway i’m sorry you’re dealing with this. Sounds like you’re down to date women you like of any age, and you seem like an interesting guy. Nothing inherently wrong with dating younger women either. Hope you find someone you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:26 PM
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Alimony is now only granted in 10% of divorces
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:09 PM
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Perhaps given the lifestyle of fit professional women your age, i have more insights into when we hit the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:08 PM
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Oh, I am too. Just, i seem to be able to find plenty of willing men within a decade older and younger than me who like me for me. I’m far from perfect and definitely accepting of men who are far from perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:50 PM
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I use AI everyday at work. It can’t do my job. Alot of stem is routine. Anyway i’ll be dead within a few decades, so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:45 PM
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Validation. Being able to tell himself he’s virile enough to snag a younger woman. Controlling someone. alot of times he has 50% custody of kids and needs a woman to dump his parenting work on. I’m not talking about you or anyone i have dated, just to be clear. This is about a specific type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:43 PM
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Quite the contrary, they are now moving into relationship services that AI is utterly atrocious at. The things that AI can do were always low margin activities. Half of medicine, engineering, and biological sciences absolutely can be automated away however.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:31 PM
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I’d say the older guys are also much more aware of the transactional nature of things- what he can use her for once she’s stuck and financially dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:29 PM
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Depends on the person. Younger men don’t really want to trap young women because then they’ll be stuck with responsibility too. Older men know how to play the game to work under the table, dodge child support, triangulate baby mamas, lie, etc. at least that I’ve seen in old men that have tried to trap younger women. The tables eventually turn though because most these old guys aren’t really attractive and some of the younger women they can get are trashy, so the girl ends up banging some younger…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:28 PM
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I was just at the gym and tons of older ladies were training. I mean, on average, lots of people are fat or “skinny fat”. The old guy with a beer gut might be lifting but he’s still fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:25 PM
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Most older men are also fat 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:23 PM
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Finance and accounting are also good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:23 PM
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Anyone deliberately seeking to chain a woman to them through her fertility or financial situation is terrible. Some older guys know how to manipulate women into financial dependence; fewer younger men do, or have the money to, but when it happens it is also wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:22 PM
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I dated men a decade older when i was in my late 20s and there was zero issues because i had a PhD and made good money. Noone thought anything of it. Where the exploitation comes in is when an older man facilitates financial dependence in a woman without a career or education for the purpose of making it difficult to leave. I have seen this happen as well. Once she is burdened with children it is unlikely she will ever develop a career and thus she is vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:19 PM
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I worry about young men as well. Nobody should be exploiting anyone. There are nasty old women doing fuck tours in places like gambia exploiting financially desperate men. Having said that, once a woman in her early 20s without an education is burdened with kids, the chance she is able to ever finish college and become financially independent falls dramatically. This is because women disproportionately are stuck with caregiving responsibilities for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:16 PM
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We’re talking about averages. You are probably substantially above average and you also simply met a woman you liked who happened to be younger. You weren’t out seeking validation by using financially dependent, desperate women way younger than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:13 PM
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Lmao. You’re kidding right? By 60, men have learned that noone wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:10 PM
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Most men don’t have money
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:10 PM
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He will be paying child support until he dies 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:09 PM
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Nobody wants the majority of men, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:07 PM
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Women are overwhelmingly burdened with caregiving for children and elderly parents. This is a well documented fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:06 PM
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Not the gyms and 5k events i go to 🤷🏼‍♀️ full of older women doing strength training at the gym and fit older women racing. At any rate, most older men are also fat and gross, and really cannot expect to attract quality women of any age. There are super hot guys of all ages, of course, but for every 1, there are 100 who never could pull women and still can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:05 PM
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Doesn’t matter. Older men are still statistically obese, have tons of baggage, and are undesirable to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:02 PM
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Well I’m with you on the forklift/skilled labor issue. STEM though doesn’t always pay well… and is becoming over saturated in some disciplines
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:49 PM
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Not at all. He is part of the legion of unwanted, surplus men continually posting in PPD out of loneliness and resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:45 PM
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The gym is full of women over 40 LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:44 PM
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Most men don’t improve. They get fat, bald, have mortgages, student loans, ex wives, kids getting ready for college, child support, erectile dysfunction, and prostate issues. They are also statistically obese. The fantasy that men will one day be more than they are now is very dangerous because it leads to disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:44 PM
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Nobody said otherwise. However, women ARE contributing financially, significantly so, many men aren’t making much from the jump, and women contribute more in terms of unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:39 PM
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I never said otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:37 PM
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OP is desperately hoping he will one day be valued by women when women are older. He won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:26 PM
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It’s the truth. I have a number of homies presently getting robbed because their ego was stoked by being able to bang a much younger women they NEVER would have touched years ago 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:16 PM
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So you don’t really care and aren’t doing anything to help those men finish their degrees?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:14 PM
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I’m not. Where it gets problematic is when you know the guy is a total asshole and he is lying to some woman without much life experience or who is desperate- but, that is bad no matter how old he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:13 PM
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There are exceptions but alot of time this is true. Also, the younger woman who wants him is not high quality. At 50, all 25 year old women look like they have quality- but really, these women have few options their own age for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:53 PM
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Because older men also have more baggage, and younger women of any quality also don’t want them. At a certain age, men start to associate a woman’s age with HIS quality. But often, the younger women he can get also have few prospects except to date him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:51 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:49 PM
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You don’t even know the difference between its and it’s. Start there first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:43 PM
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We do. There are so many unwanted men of all ages
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:42 PM
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What these older men don’t realize is that younger women do not want them either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:41 PM
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What are you doing to right it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:37 PM
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You do realize that over half if college students are women now and that women work? I contribute half so i get half 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:04 AM
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I think if that happens, you have the right to walk away. Even if you’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:34 AM
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Men never shut up about women who are overweight. People should date who they like and leave others alone. This includes women who rag about short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:08 AM
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People who are not sexually compatible should not be together. There is no need to shame anyone, IMO. If he or she don’t like what you like, walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:07 AM
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Replacement is 2.1. You be the 0.1 and fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:19 PM
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I don’t think it is a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:18 PM
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Men think if they keep spamming enough women, they will eventually win the lottery, nothing women do or don’t do will change that. Men (including you) don’t listen so you keep repeating this behavior that hurts all of you and then you’re here whining in ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:32 PM
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Those women aren’t forcing men to bombard every single woman with demands for sex. Men have nothing to lose by doing that so may as well try.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:21 PM
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Disagree. And these men are creating problems for other men because after the 5th solicitation for casual sex i exit the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:15 PM
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I consider them demands and i do not like being hounded for sex. If you were being hounded by women for money you would hate it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:13 PM
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I consider long winded guilt trips about how women owe them sex to be demands. Also, i can block them and i do but it becomes tiresome to use dating apps when you have to screen shit that men do over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:51 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:57 AM
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Yeah, weird shit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:29 AM
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They post shit under their own names
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:39 AM
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They demand. They insist. The lack of response does not imply they did not demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:39 AM
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No you wouldn’t. It isn’t happening to you so you aren’t going to understand how tiresome it is for people to demand to use you as a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:13 AM
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Have you ever made a profile of an unattractive woman to see the kinds of disgusting shit men send?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:18 PM
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Because women don’t have time to screen through 100 demands for casual sex to find 1 man interested in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:16 PM
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Her safety is absolutely not guaranteed. Stats show that divorced women with kids disproportionately end up in poverty. All men have to do is refuse to marry women who want to be SAHMs. That solves the problem. Alimony is only granted in 10% of divorces anyway. So do half the childcare and half of daycare costs, half the housework, have a prenup, and insist she works. But you don’t want that because you want someone to do all the unpaid shit work for you so you can get a bonus, promotion, retire…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:01 PM
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I don’t expect to be supported. I made sure i do not need to be, by not being a SAHM. You can google median income, credit card debt, retirement investments, and student loans. Most men do not have net assets that half of will support a family or make up for years of career progression foregone being some douche’s bangmaid and childcare provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:36 PM
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I don’t know why you think the median man has net assets that can support anyone long term. Are you unaware of how student loans, mortgages, and credit cards work? I have my own money and i would never be a SAHM, so you’re wrong, not surprisingly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:29 PM
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More lying men Alimony is granted in 10% of divorces and half of zero net assets is zero. No woman is going after the median man for money. Also, stop marrying women who want to be SAHMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:49 AM
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Alimony is only granted in 10% of divorces. Men really overstate their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:47 AM
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Half of zero net assets is zero and alimony is only granted in 10% of divorces. Also-stop marrying women willing to be SAHWs if you don’t want to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:46 AM
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I have to say, if i hadn’t seen my daughter physically removed from my abdomen in the surgery room, i would have had switched at birth questions and with my son I would not have blamed my ex for picking up a test at the pharmacy. There is just no fucking way these kids could have been the genetic product of the two of us, but here we are. I have no idea if he did and couldn’t care less. I cannot understand how women who know there is a possibility of more than one father live with the fear of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:30 AM
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I’m totally cool with men getting paternity tests. In many countries, such as the US, you can get one in any pharmacy for $29.99 and do the test yourself without even telling your babymama.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:17 AM
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If you are bothered by being used for dick, that’s understandable. I have never heard a man here complain about that. The complaints here are the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:51 AM
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Alimony is only granted in 10% of divorces. When he leaves, cheats, or abuses, women are left with nothing. Half of net assets of zero is zero. And she will have no career to fall back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:50 AM
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They don’t. They sacrifice their lives to have and raise your kids and get next to nothing in return. Why are men so entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:02 PM
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Why do men marry women who want to stay at home if being a SAHM is “not contributing”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:17 PM
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Women are simply lees interested than men in casual sex period. Men ideally would like to be offered endless sex from stacy, but they don’t understand this will never happen and in reality they too would get sick of being hounded by unattractive women who are willing to fuck anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:09 PM
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The majority of men on dating apps and social media who reach out to women really do do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:06 PM
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I actually do filter properly, thanks. The problem is that many men on tinder really are looking for casual sex. Seriously, ask any woman here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:06 PM
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On social media in particular i get swarmed and i think all women do. I don’t chase after chads at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:14 PM
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I work very hard but personally don’t like little kids and babies so i find that extremely difficukt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:08 PM
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All men are absolutely not dogs. I will not swipe right on anyone who expresses interest in tradwives, talks about their dicks, mentions shit about how great they are in bed, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:07 PM
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I know you don’t do that, and I’m really sorry it’s affecting you negatively but men really do that on dating apps. Ask women here if they agree. I know some amazing guys get passed over because it’s just so tiring to have men make it so fucking clear that you are only good for one thing. I don’t respond to these assholes btw, no matter how hot they are. IDNGAF, i am just never going to risk pregnancy or disease or assault for dick. It just gets demoralizing and then i stop engaging on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:34 PM
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I don’t have sex with men like this. It’s just that 75% of profiles on tinder are men spamming every woman on tinder with demands for casual sex, and women all know it. So this is why women aren’t engaging on social media or tinder but then men are all shitty and whiny because they aren’t getting casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:28 PM
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It is hard to filter through 100 men. I don’t have time. I close the app after 10 consecutive demands for casual sex or dick descriptions. Men like the idea of being desired by stacy. But that isn’t what is happening to women. If you got spammed by the equivalent of 100 really vulgar, gross women talking about their twats and demanding you pay for dates with them, you would get sick of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:24 PM
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Or, men could stop soliciting casual sex and spamming every woman on dating apps with demands for sex and talking about their tongues and dicks. You aren’t going to get laid that way, it’s like winning the lottery, and then men get frustrated by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:20 PM
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You may care about women’s pleasure but most guys in dating apps and social media want to hit and run. Even if they care about women’s pleasure, statistically women take tons of risks with casual sex and do not expect an orgasm. MEN think being desired for their body is great, and maybe it is, because women don’t fuck sheep, goats, and holes in bathroom stalls. Women know very well that a man wanting a sentient fleshlight simply means a man wants a hole, and doesn’t really care who it belongs to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:10 PM
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Actually, women get called whores, sluts, bitches, cunts, and so forth all the time for leading with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:02 PM
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They are not at all a minority of the engagement women get in online dating and social media. It is a vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:01 PM
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Men want validation and an orgasm at the expense of women because a man using a woman for holes is not validating for women and because women are much less likely to even get orgasm out of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:00 PM
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Yet, women are spammed mercilessly for sex on social media. It is NOT a straw man argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:43 PM
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Because they have absolutely no regard for what women want. They are entitled and they believe their lives would be perfect if women constantly hounded them them for sex because they’re envisioning stacy and not the unattractive women they disregard every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:08 PM
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I mean the internet is full of men whining that they can’t get free casual sex at someone else’s expense. Surely men are now aware of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:02 PM
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Women are not spoiled for choice. Most attention women get is from men seeking holes. Women don’t want to be used for holes anymore than you want to be used for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:59 PM
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Men are entitled to work from women they deem unworthy of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:58 PM
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They want validation and an orgasm at the other party’s expense and in their infinite entitlement they turn into OP the minute they don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:57 PM
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They can’t be celibate if they’re parents. Anyway, if furries can find each other, men who want to be SAHPs can find someone. It’s all just excuses. Men do not want to do unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:09 PM
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Then men don’t really want to be SAHPs that much. They want women to do unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:26 AM
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You would need to marry the right person if it is that critically important to you. Most men really cannot afford a sahm either but women manage to find a man that will make that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:36 AM
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Well, a third option, which men refuse, is sharing the unpaid labor
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:50 AM
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What i described is absolutely work. It is unpaid and unacknowledged work that you refuse to do because it is unpaid. You sitting in an office all day paid is also not really work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:50 AM
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So, you don’t actually want to be a SAHP. Exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:49 AM
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Men have political and economic power. Fight to change perceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:48 AM
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Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:48 AM
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Cool, then you need to find the right woman so you dan stay home. There are plenty of professional women out there,keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:44 AM
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Tell other men to stop spamming every available woman with demands for casual sex. I have no time to screen through 100 dick pics to find 1 who might or might not by lying about wanting a female body to masturbate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:03 AM
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Women can choose from 100 men who want casual sex. By and large women are not looking for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:02 AM
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What about all the times men do that? Leave their SAHM with half of their shitty net assets that is worth 6 months of pay because they had an FHA loan with no equity to start a new family with another woman? STOP MARRYING SAHP IF YOU DO NOT WANT A SAHP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:58 AM
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Women are not favored in divorce court. Alimony is mowed only granted in 10% of divorces and is not gender based. SAHPs are given their rights in divorces- as a terms of YOUR AGREEMENT to have a SAHP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:57 AM
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And let’s be clear. If being a SAHP was so great, men wouldn’t be fighting so fucking hard to make sure they never have to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:55 AM
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No contract is right. That is exactly why women are so vulnerable. Your employer is bound by labor laws. Your partner isn’t. Your contract does not mandate you work 24/7. No wage. Now you’re learning. No boss. Sure, if you want your marriage to fall apart, the school to be calling about the kids, the state getting involved, and your home to be filthy. Samps are definitely subject to being “fired” as well; that’s why they disproportionately end up in poverty. You can be an entrepreneur and all va…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:53 AM
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Women think he won’t cheat, abuse, or make life unbearable either, and they’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:09 PM
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Men aren’t working their asses off. Women are in the workplace too, we know it isn’t 24/7 like dealing with small kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:07 PM
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What rich husband? The median husband isn’t rich and he doesn’t do much at work either Half of what? You think men have all that money to split? Lmao Also, alimony is now only granted in 10% of divorces and it is temporary. Most men don’t make enough to live on alimony payments. Who do men think they are????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:05 PM
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All women work. SAHparenting is work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:00 PM
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Women file the majority of time because they are left with no alternatives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:59 PM
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The problem is that most women have tons of men demanding casual sex, so it becomes tiresome to screen through them all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:25 PM
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Not me. I ain’t doing that shit. Taking those risks for dick? Pass. I’m not in a position to lecture others on sexuality though and i also know men don’t give a fuck about women’s safety either, they want to control for personal gain. And the bottom line remains, men are far more interested in and get more from casual sex than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:06 PM
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Then live by your values and leave others alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:04 PM
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Men would love to control women’s sexuality because they can no longer force women to fuck on command the way they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:45 PM
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I’m sure men can get orgasms without casual sex 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:44 PM
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Also, whenever a man opines that women should stop having casual sex, it is ALWAYS because that man is bitter other men are fucking some woman he feels entitled to fuck. Always. It’s about some man not wanting to feel inferior to some other man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:43 PM
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I mean, i don’t presume to tell men who to fuck. It’s really up to them, but the problem is they refuse to take accountability, like whining that women must police them as gatekeepers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:42 PM
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Maybe men should stop engaging in casual sex first, and then share their unsolicited opinions with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:55 PM
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Of course it changes things for women. Men have casual sex because they expect validation and an orgasm. Women know men will literally bang a hole in a bathroom stall so the validation isn’t there, nor is the orgasm, and only she faces the risk of her body being impacted by pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:32 PM
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Yes, if you are being sexualized and treated as less than human, it absolutely sucks. However, many men in ppd tell me they would LOVE to be used for sex because they want validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:22 PM
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Women face far greater risks from casual sex and are unlikely to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:21 PM
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They orgasm less from casual sex than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:21 PM
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It sucks because you have to screen through men who exclusively want to use you for their own personal sexual benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:02 PM
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It isn’t 2 AM where i live. The world doesn’t revolve around you and your time zone. You made a demand, i explained why your demand is illogical, we do not know the same people so you are going to say I’m making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:39 AM
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The husband of the woman in the office next to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:36 AM
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YOU can’t find someone to marry you. Unemployed losers DO get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:35 AM
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Changing the goalposts; spamming
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:34 AM
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My point is that your claim was incorrect. Unemployed losers do marry. Millions of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:34 AM
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Anecdotes aren’t data. Your claim was that unemployed losers cannot marry, not whether i am married to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:33 AM
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To divorce him, she had to marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:32 AM
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Changing the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:32 AM
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Changing the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:32 AM
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Spamming and changing goalposts- as expected
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:31 AM
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She married him. Your point was that these men can’t get married, and now you’re changing the goalposts as expected
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:30 AM
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I provided the evidence 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:29 AM
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What do i have to do with it? This thread is not about you or me personally. Your point was not that i married this or that person but rather that unemployed loser men can’t get married, which is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:28 AM
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You don’t know they had careers. You just know they MAYBE had some shitty job they lost because they can’t get up for work in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:27 AM
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You don’t get to issue orders. I already provided an example of 2,000,000 such couples. Here is more https://www.washingtonian.com/2021/12/03/more-and-more-women-are-paying-alimony-to-failure-to-launch-ex-husbands-and-theyre-really-really-not-happy-about-it/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:27 AM
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Yet, you can’t keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:26 AM
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We don’t know the same couples so how would naming them help 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:26 AM
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You said unemployed losers can’t marry. 2,000,000 managed to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:24 AM
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Since your attention span is too short for you to follow the thread properly, here it is again: https://www.americanprogress.org/article/women-breadwinners-men-unemployed/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:24 AM
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I’m not on call 24/7 for some twat on reddit 🤣 I posted an article with estimates of 2 million such women, but i’m sure you’ll move the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:23 AM
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What are you talking about? We do not know the same people in real life 🤣 2 million American women married to unemployed husbands. Can’t necessarily say they’re all losers though, folks do lose jobs. https://www.americanprogress.org/article/women-breadwinners-men-unemployed/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:22 AM
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I know several and all you have to do is look around. Yes, loser men often marry loser women, but they do manage to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:18 AM
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Yes, they absolutely do get married. LMAO, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:10 AM
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You assume i am not protecting the country (neither are you. There is no draft). You told me if i was in the land (apparently referring to the middle East conflict you mentioned) i would want to be back home and pregnant. You are wrong on both counts because you actually know nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:09 AM
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Agree completely. My bio mom lied about who my bio dad was and it had serious effects in my life including not being diagnosed with a gene linked illness until i was 38 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:08 AM
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I AM ALREADY IN THE MIDDLE EAST YOU CLOWN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:06 AM
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The academic research told me that. These studies have been posted here repeatedly showing that men marry in their educational and social class. Unemployed loser men also get married all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:06 AM
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I didn’t back out now, i am willing to be drafted, i am already protecting the country professionally AND I AM AN EXPAT IN THE MIDDLE EAST.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:05 AM
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YOU don’t care. MEN, statistically, marry women who are from the same socioeconomic and educational class. Men leave pregnant women all the time for all kinds of reasons. Quite a few leave sick wives and wives who stop providing unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:03 AM
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We do not have a draft and i oppose the draft for both genders. I made that clear already.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:02 AM
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Men can stop starting wars, joining street gangs, and forming terrorist organizations and then the incidence of violence will go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:01 AM
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I am protecting the country. I am a counter-terror finance specialist. I don’t start wars and i oppose conscription of all people. But my profession does, in fact, protect all of us from harm caused by terrorists who are predominantly men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:59 AM
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Of course they care if she has a degree. People statistically marry within their own social and educational class. YOU may not care, but MANY men care. Most women are not stacy and are not able to get by on their looks. If your reference point is a stacy, no wonder you are getting this wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:58 AM
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Women are also treated with indifference if not contempt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:56 AM
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There should not be a draft. Take it up with the president, who worldwide is likely to be male, and those in political power, who are also statistically male.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:54 AM
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They want validation and an orgasm. The receptacle doesn’t matter as long as they are willing to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:53 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:51 AM
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Men are still very in denial about advanced paternal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:51 AM
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They absolutely care if you are mediocre. You never stop hearing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:48 AM
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I am more productive than the men at work for the same pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:48 AM
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I would absolutely prefer to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:47 AM
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The orgasm gap is well documented. If men did not anticipate an orgasm, they wouldn’t be demanding casual sex in large nun versus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:29 PM
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Then stop badgering women for casual sex 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:28 PM
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It is easy to find sex where the man gets an orgasm and i don’t yet i take all the risks of getting pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:55 PM
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Since women do not expect an orgasm from that, and run the risk of pregnancy and/or disease, most will rather pass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:53 PM
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That’s what alot of men are looking for 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:53 PM
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Maybe 1%. I have to screen 100 to find the 1… forget it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:22 PM
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“Or demands for casual sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:43 PM
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I don’t. Quite the contrary. Rape is a serious crime regardless of perpetrator/victim gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:43 PM
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Men are on welfare too. As are the male minor children if deadbeat fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:12 PM
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I close tinder the minute i recieve 5 dick pics or demands for casual sex in a row. The one guy seeking a LTR may be buried under 99 dick pics and i just don’t get to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:25 AM
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Women do not get 100 matches for LTRs per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:09 AM
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And this is true for average women too. It is easy to find a man willing to use you for validation and to masturbate in. Finding someone who likes you for you is very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:25 AM
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Are you chad though? If not, you are proof average men can find women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:18 AM
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70% of profiles on tinder are men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:15 AM
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Stop chasing stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:14 AM
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They lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:13 AM
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Finding someone to use you as a fleshlight is easy. Anything else absolutely sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:13 AM
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Also; most “single dads” have help from women in the family or girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:50 AM
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Yet, custody in most states is now 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:50 AM
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What % of children are raised exclusively by a single father?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:47 AM
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The evidence that children of single fathers do better is a direct result of base rate bias. The percent of children raised exclusively by single fathers (no grandmas, girlfriends, sisters stepping in) is miniscule so it is impossible to generalize to the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:47 AM
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Sterile civilization > marital rape
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:59 AM
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Birth control was available in the past. Every single place on earth where women have alternatives to replacement TFR, they choose the alternatives, which is clear evidence that women do not really want the incremental child past 1 or 2. Testosterone falls when men are around small children because otherwise they would be out of the home rampaging and impregnating other women rather than helping with the children they recently had. Chaining women to fertility is the only hope subpar men have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:44 PM
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“Women must be enslaved because it is the only way i can avoid rejection.” -100% of men who are pronatalists/antiabortion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:57 PM
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When we chain sexuality to fertility we get dead bedrooms. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:54 PM
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Many women never wanted kids, they had no choice in the past and now they do. If taking care of kids was so great, men wouldn’t be trying so hard to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:53 PM
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He said he is going to interview ex partners. That’s insane, and if a woman said she was doing that to a man there would be outrage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:53 PM
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This guy is literally advocating stalking women’s ex partners, but i’m the problem, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:10 AM
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He has no hope of anyone marrying him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:26 AM
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Women are also not safe at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:46 AM
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Masturbation doesn’t offer the ego boost. Men fuck glory holes, sheep, and blow up dolls, they don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:43 AM
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Men literally fuck glory holes and fleshlights. Stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:42 AM
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Right, because they aren’t, and you can’t force your way into making people pretend they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:41 AM
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Men fuck glory holes and fleshlights. Stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:41 AM
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That is not what the research shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:06 AM
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If cleaning wasn’t hard, men would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:07 AM
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I thought you wanted a prenup. I agreed to a prenup but i guess that still isn’t good enough for you because you want a free bangmaid. What a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:37 PM
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Again, because you’re having trouble- i don’t want your shitty $60k. I have my own money. I’m not ruining my career to wash your underwear is what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:27 PM
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Even the beta simps will walk away if Stacy comes along. No man is without risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:05 PM
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I make plenty of money and i agree to a prenup. What do i need to gold dig for? Your shitty median income of $60k does nothing for me, now do your own cleaning and laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:04 PM
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How long do you need to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:01 PM
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I meant to say 30. 40 is too late for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:01 PM
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What gold digging argument? I support prenups, i just don’t support men extracting private rents from women in the form of unpaid labor. If we agree we split things financially, then we also agree to split the unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:33 PM
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They don’t care. Their entire concern with fertility is trapping women with mediocre or worse men because it’s the only way they can get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:32 PM
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Doesn’t matter. If you really care about peak fertility with no medical intervention, you need to get started around 40. Women’s fertility doesn’t really decline steeply until late 30s, and most people only want 1 or 2 kids anyway. But men need to be more informed about the risks associated with advanced paternal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:30 PM
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Why don’t more men take care of their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:05 PM
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Poor women have no real alternatives for human capital
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:04 PM
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Here’s the reason- you will sacrifice your life and in the end your marriage will end and your ex husband will get 50% custody and you will have made all the career sacrifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:04 PM
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If taking care of kids was so much better than alternatives, men would do it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:02 PM
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The benefits outweigh the costs TO YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:01 PM
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Too much risk and unpaid labor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:00 PM
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Parenting isn’t shit work, cleaning the toilet, laundry, cooking, running errands are, maybe changing diapers l. It is, in fact, unpaid work that falls primarily on the woman, and when you divorce he will still get 50% parenting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:32 PM
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Jesus you must be tiring, overdramatizing everything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:29 PM
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I want it to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:53 PM
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Absolutely. I’ll take care of my shit, he takes care of his, i’ll kick in my half financially, we both sign a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:52 PM
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Because i don’t “know that”. I don’t believe that. I’m going to assume you’re very young and losing your virginity is the most important thing that has happened to you, and over your life this will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:51 PM
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I presume your life went on after you lost your virginity and sex began having meaning again for you? I certainly hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:35 PM
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Ok but he wants a prenup 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:34 PM
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Also, 50/50 on laundry, cooking, cleaning, childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:30 PM
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Not at all, just based on observation, you should keep karma in the back of your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:27 PM
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Same, but to be clear, since we leave with only what we earned, i cannot cripple my earning power with unpaid shit work in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:37 AM
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It is much better for all rights and responsibilities to be established up front. Want a prenup? Great, then all unpaid labor will be equally divided.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:36 AM
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The good news is, with your mentality, you will be divorced within a decade as well. Why are you seeing a divorced person if you really believe a person can only have a proper wedding once?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:32 AM
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Try 50. Absolutely no problem. The world is full of surplus unwanted men hoping for any woman to tolerate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:30 AM
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You better hurry then. Male sperm quality starts declining in mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:29 AM
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Men want exactly who they want. They don’t want who anyone else thinks they want. The moment anyone Stacy adjacent is available to them, all of their so called values fly out the window. Anyone else other than who a man tells himself he is entitled to is a placeholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:32 AM
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Oh and community dick simply proves that if you lower your standards enough, someone is available. That doesn’t provide the validation men want, because it’s essentially the same as paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:43 AM
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Oh, the best available option for men is no woman at all. That’s why it’s so funny when they hypocritically demand sexual purity and restrict the pool even further. Noone said they owe women anything. They are welcome to join the legions of surplus, unwanted men in the world. The reality is that men don’t care about sexual purity. If they did, the reasons they claim to care would apply to them to. They are simply angry that some woman they felt entitled to fuck didn’t want them, and now they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:42 AM
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I mean men just pay. There is an entire economy centered around accommodating men’s desires for a hole. All men have to do is pay. You’re missing the point- either purity is important to men or it isn’t for the reasons they state. The reasons they state involve pair bonding and infidelity and both of those apply to men too Also, nobody of any quality wants community dick for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:04 PM
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Either you value purity or you don’t. The same studies men cite about promiscuity and pair bonding and infidelity are true for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:39 PM
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Average guys need to stop chasing stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:00 PM
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Everyone settles. Stacy won’t fuck you at 18, 28, 38, 48, 58, 68, or 78.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:00 PM
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Nah. They will eventually find some economically desperate or vulnerable woman to abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:55 PM
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Not with sex. If you would bang anything that moves, and then you act morally superior, you’re just a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:32 PM
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If men care about purity, they will apply it to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:31 PM
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Having no standards and a high body count doesn’t make a man morally superior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:34 PM
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Bullshit. Of women willing to have sex with them they will sleep with 80% and some also have sex with women who don’t even consent, as well as glory holes and escorts. Just because fewer people want you doesn’t make you morally superior or less of a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:06 PM
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Men should stop sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:32 AM
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Just postpone sex or a relationship until you have vetted. You wouldn’t want to compromise your sexual purity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:31 AM
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It means that just because some man is willing to use you as a hole, it does not imply you are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:47 PM
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So do that up front
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:46 PM
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Pay for sex if you want it. You are not entitled to use other people’s bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:52 AM
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Your error lies in thinking a man being willing to fill a hole implied the person attached to the hole is attractive, when it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:51 AM
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Again, a man being willing to use you for holes doesn’t imply he finds you attractive. It means he wants a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:50 AM
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Nobody said that but you. If you value sexual purity, be pure. No matter who you are. Don’t have sex or get involved with anyone who does not meet your preferences. Clarify up front what you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:18 PM
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How is it better to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:12 AM
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More than likely if he’s the kind of guy to wait 2.5 years then this sexual purity issue would have been front and center from day 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:35 AM
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That’s cool. If men are so pressed over casual sex and sexual purity they should wait until marriage for sex and vet all potential marriage candidates very, very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:34 AM
3

Yes, and as i said: deal breakers should be clarified up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:20 AM
3

Then demand the information up front
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:17 AM
8

All deal breakers should be clarified up front. and how is that poster and what he would or wouldn’t do relevant to the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:16 AM
6

Yeah, the problem is that it wasn’t a priority for him because he wanted to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:07 AM
3

Where does it say he told her he wouldn’t date a woman who did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:07 AM
8

I have read the thread. He didn’t care enough to ask up front about body count because he wanted to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:54 AM
6

He is throwing away his sexual purity by having sex with a woman he isn’t married to and doesn’t know well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:53 AM
9

How could she know he wants to know when she started dating him if he didn’t ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:53 AM
3

Then she wouldn’t tell him now either. You’re making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:52 AM
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She didn’t lie 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:51 AM
2

She didn’t lie though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:48 AM
10

Isn’t it better to show that up front and not waste your and her time? Also, why betray your values? Clearly sexual purity is important to you. Don’t throw away your own purity on a woman you cannot marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:48 AM
14

Why wouldn’t you have asked about that before having sex with her then if it was a deal breaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:09 AM
1

Sure men can. Appeal to other men. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:41 PM
1

Most women don’t really want casual sex to the extent men do. It’s simple supply and demand. Being used for holes is not the thrill men think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:40 PM
1

Ok. I agree with you, sex with women does nothing for men. Accordingly they should stop spamming all women with dick pics and demands for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:39 PM
1

Ok. I agree with you, sex with women does nothing for men. Accordingly they should stop spamming all women with dick pics and demands for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:39 PM
1

There is always a man to find any given woman attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:38 PM
1

I have a “need” for $1,000,000 and a mansion in the south of france, so what? Nobody owes you validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:37 PM
1

That’s what you claim, but women know that these same men are aroused by any and every woman on tinder. It means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:37 PM
1

Yet, many men have argued with me that they DO want to be used as a hole so they can get validation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:36 PM
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No, average men do not have way more to offer. At a minimum the average man gets an orgasm and the average woman doesn’t, so he is not in a position to demand submissiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:53 AM
1

Or, realistically, nobody wants these men because they have nothing to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:53 PM
1

No. They are whining that they can’t even get low quality women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:04 PM
1

No they aren’t. They are all about how you have to be Chad to get a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:07 PM
1

Men are also not ATM machines. I oppose men being used as such strongly. Women also work and need to contribute financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:06 PM
1

90% of such posts are men whining that women have a huge advantage over men in dating and relationships and it is impossible for average men to find anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:31 PM
1

Women also don’t want to be submissive. Why should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:30 PM
1

Sure, and women aren’t the ones here chronically whining they can’t find anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:29 PM
1

OP said submissive. Lots of guys here agreed with subservient. Anyway, average women would rather be alone than be either to the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:22 PM
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Average men ARE good enough for relationships with average women. My problem with OP is he explicitly demands women be subservient.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:55 PM
1

OP asked women to be subservient. That’s why i responsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:45 PM
1

Most are not RP. Most are men who felt entitled to some woman who fucked someone else instead, and their ego won’t let them get past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:53 AM
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I don’t think i’m better than anyone. I’m just not worse and there is no reason for me to be subservient. So it’s better for me and them to remain single, and i don’t know why you’re arguing over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:49 AM
2

You seem to waste alot of time arguing with women you think are low value 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:42 PM
3

You’re mad because women neither need nor want you. I can understand how distressing it is to you that you can no longer rape your wife or control her fertility. Sucks to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:22 PM
1

Even if i was, you aren’t capable of protecting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:18 PM
2

Oh, $60k is the median income, many men make less. If we aren’t worth the change you bring home-Then go your own way and stop lecturing women on what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:18 PM
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It’s sad how all men think they offer is their shitty median income of $60k and with gen z and alpha even that miniscule leverage is disappearing. Personally, i’d never recommend a woman count on a man to provide for pr protect her. She’ll be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:02 PM
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Great. More and more women are financially independent and your average douche isn’t going to protect anyone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:00 PM
1

“. having qualities or an appearance traditionally associated with women or girls.” Is that it? What does that mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:04 PM
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I think it means different things to different people. I think most men like to throw around meaningless vague terms and don’t like to explain what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:55 AM
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That’s such a generic answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:45 AM
3

I still have never gotten a straight answer from a man about what “feminine” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:44 AM
2

We are talking about mediocre men. You aren’t mediocre. You treat women well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:09 AM
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Yes, she will stay single. You don’t need to be a slave to some douche to shit out kids. The world is full of surplus, unwanted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:16 AM
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A majority of adult women now are single. Clearly, they don’t want to be a slave to some douche, but you can keep hope alive, i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:14 AM
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If he could get his needs met through some other means, 90% of the posts here wouldn’t be men whining that they can’t get consensual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:13 AM
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Such a woman is going to get an absolute loser. She will never “get the best of a man” by being subservient because he really just wants a bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:11 AM
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I didn’t decide for every woman. I’m saying that for many women, being alone is preferable to being “subservient” to some mediocre man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:01 AM
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Look at the increasing numbers of women remaining single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:43 AM
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She will choose to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:17 AM
10

No woman wants to be submissive to the average man. Some woman is maybe willing to tolerate the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:15 AM
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Submissive to the average man? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:06 AM
1

What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:12 AM
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A man willing to use a woman as a sentient fleshlight does not reflect value to a woman, even if you think it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:12 AM
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Doesn’t matter. If a man wants a hole, your level of attraction doesn’t matter. Be a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:11 AM
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I have, and i don’t need OF for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:09 AM
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Of course they get that from men. Men never shut up about how women are never good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:40 PM
1

Who cares? A man wants a hole, be the hole
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:57 PM
1

The same men are giving the same “validation” to every available woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:57 PM
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They aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:56 PM
2

You are desperately trying to avoid what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:38 AM
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It’s a fucking job. These women are monetizing YOUR weakness for sex work, that is all. You can do the same, just you have to find someone interested in paying you for it, and it probably isn’t women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:49 AM
2

Do niche gay shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:52 AM
2

Ability to what? Make an OF? You can too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:40 PM
4

Most men are also not that great so no surprise they go after 2s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:50 PM
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It doesn’t make women feel better to know men are spamming every woman in tinder with dick pics, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:49 PM
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99.9% of women do not have OF. Shame on you if those are the only women you have interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:05 PM
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There is no validation in unsolicited demands for sex and dick pics that are sent to every other woman on tinder any more than it is validating to be chosen by a nigerian prince to launder money in emails
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:40 AM
1

Life expectancy now is over 80. We no longer lose 25% of children by age 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:34 AM
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The median man at 40 is a less attractive version of himself at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:33 AM
1

The life expectancy was 50 in the 1700s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:31 AM
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We presently live long past youth and no longer lose 1/4 of our offspring to hunger or disease. You are overdramatizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:30 AM
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Yes, we are. Only 10% of divorces involve alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:20 AM
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It isn’t a “power imbalance” unless men and women both want unsatisfying casual sex with randoms and dick pics. They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:19 AM
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I didn’t say all men are financial abusers. In fact, an advocate for women being financially independent and men finding women offline, as most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:26 PM
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Most women aren’t looking to “fool around” or at least not that often with randoms from the internet. Social media and online dating are great for getting unsolicited dick pics and demands for sex but this is not the thrill men think it is. Women are very well aware that the same guys are spamming all available women scrambling for a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:19 PM
1

It isn’t really about you personally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:08 AM
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He had really trashy women who wanted him in guess. There are also alot of Stacys who get whatever they want from men despite being horrible and abusive 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:22 AM
1

Well, another way to look at it that you would rather pay than rape or abuse to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:04 AM
1

I think you can know. But if you feel you can’t, stay celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:24 PM
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I wouldn’t. He can find someone not being trafficked. Or, he can remain celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:09 PM
1

You didn’t outline, you made assumptions that might not exist. Sex work is work and her body, her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:06 PM
1

It has nothing to do with me. If women don’t want to fuck you for free, what are the options?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:41 PM
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A man will almost always have an orgasm with a mediocre woman. Mediocre women have sex with mediocre men because that is the price they gave to pay to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:40 PM
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Then remain celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:39 PM
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It’s either that or not have sex, the choice is yours
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:38 PM
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Regardless of the cause, mediocre men offer nothing to mediocre women. On the other hand, a mediocre woman gives the mediocre man an orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:00 PM
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Then don’t get laid. Up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:52 PM
1

You are racist, sexist, ageist, and specist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:51 PM
1

Calling people sexual outlets is vile, hateful, and misogynistic actually. Who cares if sexuality can be changed? You are just an outlet. You think women are just outlets. You are no more attractive to women than gay men are to you, so if you think everyone is an outlet, it doesn’t matter who plugs the holes, right? What matters is some man wants to plug a hole, and thinks women are an outlet to serve that purpose. If that’s the case, then you also serve that purpose. Let men use you for holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:25 PM
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If that’s the only choice i had 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:23 PM
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These guys are whining they can’t get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:11 PM
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It isn’t vile, hateful, or misogynistic. If you are a sexual outlet, let people use you for holes. That includes people you aren’t attracted to, such as gay men. You’re just an outlet, what is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:11 PM
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No it isn’t. If you’re just a sexual outlet, let people use you for holes. I am not a sexual outlet so i will not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:02 PM
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No. The median woman will not orgasm from sex with the median man. Statistically-The median man will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:58 AM
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You might be, and if so, you’re welcome to let gay guys use you for holes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:57 AM
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The average man is by definition mediocre ane provides subpar sex and entitled to nothing more than subpar quality sex with a mediocre woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:46 AM
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Because why would they pay for something they feel entitled to get for free
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:45 AM
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People are not “sexual outlets”. Just pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:45 AM
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I actually talked with her and she was so excited. In my home state, OSHA forklift certification takes 1 day of training and can be obtained at age 18. We went over the career forecasts, job requirements, and pay and were amazed. I have no idea why these jobs are not mentioned in schools to young women, who usually get shoved into cosmetology or early childhood education vocational programs in the US. We are expats and she attends school in the british system where you take GSCE (college prep) s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:22 AM
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RP men will continue to be unattractive and unwanted by Stacy in their 30s and beyond. Eventually they will settle or end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:22 PM
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They have financial interests and are willing to pretend to like you. American men are also unappealing to foreign women. Foreign women care enough about $$$ to pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:26 PM
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I know so many passport bros who are currently being robbed blind by their wives and it is so fucking funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:23 PM
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She wants younger, hotter men and is also settling for his fat bald old ass. I think we need to stop lying to younger people: everyone settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:16 AM
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99% of this is anger that a woman some man felt entitled to fucked a man other than him and now all women must pay. Let them go to other countries. I have several colleagues who got absolutely financially brutalized/robbed by their “pure, traditional” green card wives from Eastern Europe and Philippines.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:55 PM
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I never said i like men to act it out. OP claimed that’s what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:26 PM
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Everyone settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:33 PM
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If the ratio was 70/30 and women/men with a bunch of loser women begging for sex, men wouldn’t be going after loser women either and it has nothing to do with the 80/20 rule or male hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:43 PM
0

Again- it would be more even if profiles were less overwhelmingly male and if half the males weren’t spamming every female whining for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:41 PM
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The fact that 75% of men by age 50 have been married is proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:34 PM
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This is not the 80/20 rule. 80% of women are not going for 20% of men. This is classic base rate bias. Only 30% of profiles are women to start with; every woman is mot going to go after 5 men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:34 PM
1

Again: tinder is 70% men Rating on ok cupid has nothing to do with who gets laid irl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:14 PM
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Only 30% of profiles on tinder are women. Of course they’re going to go for the corresponding number of attractive men, plus they have a ton of morons sending dick pics shilling for casual sex that doesn’t benefit women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:13 PM
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Where do the stats say that the 80/20 rule occurs in niche dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:26 PM
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I haven’t seen any evidence in the niche dating apps showing that men don’t get hits. Try the old fuck app and see if women reply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:08 PM
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70% of profiles on tinder are men. What do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:49 AM
1

Men chasing stacy again
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:44 AM
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They talked to him, right? Why assume it’s just his looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:43 AM
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What are the consequences of that preference exactly? If he pays for the date, he is owed sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:42 AM
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Again- all i have power over is myself. You’ve made it clear that whatever i do will be wrong. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:42 AM
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I think if people want to loudly complain about the flaws in others, they probably need to be less sensitive about people not liking what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:34 AM
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Men never shut up about what they don’t like in women. The issue comes in when some lardass man argues loudly that he is entitled to a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:10 AM
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So now people shouldn’t say what they like and don’t like? If i say what i like, i’m an asshole and everything i say is law If i don’t say what i like, i’m a people pleaser. Just say everything women do is wrong unless it is what you want them to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:09 AM
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People like what they like. So do men. Some men get really hostile when a woman insists on splitting the bill on dates, even though men endlessly whine about having to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:08 AM
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I pick sides. If i don’t like something, i say it. Isn’t that what you’re whining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:36 AM
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I disagree that not liking something is “immature”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:40 PM
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People can be grossed out by whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:53 PM
1

Ok but nobody ever said friends are a substitute for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:47 AM
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Princess Charlotte will also have her pick of men. LOOK MEN ARE HYPERGAMOUS THIS ANECDOTE PROVES IT
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:48 AM
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Most guys in PPD seem to be endlessly whining that no woman wants them of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:32 AM
2

Janet reno
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:53 PM
2

I haven’t counted. Realistically, not everyone you or i want is going to want us. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:52 PM
2

He says he’s already having sex (for pay) and had friends. He doesn’t want that. He wants sex without paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:51 PM
1

That’s the way it goes for most of us
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:46 PM
2

Then you are in no rush
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:46 PM
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Or if gay guys kept nagging him to let them use him for holes. He’d hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:36 PM
0

27 is a bit late for kids? LMAO, how many kids does he want? Most gen Z men only want one or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:33 PM
1

Oh FFS. How is finding someone economically desperate enough to pretend to like him any kind of solution? I guarantee he can find someone decent in whatever country he is in. He hasn’t met anyone HE likes yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:32 PM
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Nobody ever said friendship is a substitute for romantic relationships to my knowledge. Mostly, friendships offer support and make you less alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:30 PM
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You’re only 27 ffs. Don’t give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:11 PM
2

He wants sex without paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:10 PM
2

If you’re lonely, friendships can help
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:07 PM
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Men are still more likely to commit crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:05 PM
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I already have a PhD, in a quant field. I’ve been on the grad admissions committee at 2 carnegie 1 schools That’s how i know how fucked up it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:05 PM
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Admissions already is extremely subjective, and add to that systemic cheating in some places on the GRE, GMAT etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:04 PM
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You nailed it. It isn’t just indians though. How the process “should be” is unfortunately not how it actually IS, and when some individuals have managed to accumulate sufficient numbers they completely circumvent all oversight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:03 PM
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Indeed. Once in positions of power, individuals tend to balkanize and aggressively favor admitting their countrymen and for grad programs the admissions criteria are extremely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:47 AM
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Because in many cases we will export a legitimate defense threat abroad. Also, our criteria for admission to grad programs are absolute trash, especially at the doctoral level. I know this because I’m currently on the admissions committee for our PhD program.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:46 AM
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Are you ok with many grad programs not admitting a single domestic (US citizen) student?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:32 AM
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Chasing stacy and then whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:45 AM
3

I prefer the coffee date for the first date to anything else and i insist on paying my half so I can vet the individual. You’d be surprised how many men absolutely HATE this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:40 AM
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He’s also lying. No woman told him he should already be in love with her. She said no and now he’s mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:00 AM
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Are you obligated to do coffee dates with women you find repulsive and have no interest in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:57 AM
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No, it isn’t. It is run by men and as positively focused on men as ever. Because you are defensive you are overstating any criticism of men. Clearly you are triggered. Your whole post misassigns women’s failure to dematerialize when not in your service to misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:19 AM
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But there are millions of threads here about how women past 30 hit the wall and those past childbearing age are worthless. Just take a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:17 PM
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Many men here have it covered. That’s why OP is paralyzed with fear- men have incorrectly convinced her they will one day have value and she won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:10 PM
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I guarantee nobody knows about international toilet day- but i have to say, indoor plumbing is fucking critical to health and quality of life so perhaps you should not look for ways to whine and be insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:52 AM
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You don’t see it because you only care about messaging that makes you personally feel bad or insecure. You should limit your exposure to corporate media if you find it triggering
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:46 AM
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How small is your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:46 AM
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The average older man is simply a less attractive version of him in his prime but with baggage, debt, and prostate problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:43 AM
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Men literally spend their entire life dehumanizing women both offline and online as proven by black pill men who can’t handle rejection by a woman he feels entitled to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:39 AM
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Blah blah blah im an entitled angry little american man no woman on earth wants with a small dick and erectile problems, youre a bitch! You men have such interesting things to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:37 AM
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Then why do they whine every intl women’s day?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:41 PM
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Constantly reiterating that women are never young enough, attractive enough, good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:41 PM
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OP brought up incels, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:40 PM
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I never stop hearing from men how great they are and women contributed nothing, so why would that day be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:13 PM
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I know lots of men who have benefited from therapy. I can tell with your attitude that you do as well, but since you are clearly so judgmental, they would never share that with you 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:12 PM
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Inevitably on international women’s day, i hear men whining about no international men’s day, so obviously, the special day is important to them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:08 PM
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How is it relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:07 PM
3

You reached a conclusion after one time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:07 PM
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That’s bullshit. You have never seen the inside of a psychology master’s program and it’s so fucking obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:50 PM
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You really don’t need permission from mommy or sissy to celebrate whatever you want or offer support to other men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:49 PM
1

Perhaps the women you seek out 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:49 PM
1

All you need is 25 years and you should be able to propagate the message that it exists and can be celebrated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:48 PM
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Women only demonize your hobbies when they preclude you from handling your responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:38 PM
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Go to a male therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:37 PM
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It was established in 1992. Lmfao, you’ve had over 30 years to stop whining about international women’s day and celebrate international men’s day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:31 PM
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But that’s very selfish. You only care about yourself and not all the other suffering men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:29 PM
3

Or, you can take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:29 PM
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Why don’t you deal with men’s mental health on international men’s day and everyday? What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:22 PM
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It’s amazing how every international women’s day, men whine about there being no international men’s day, even though there is, they just didn’t care enough to google it LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:18 PM
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The corporate media treats women like shit too. You control your consumption of corporate media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:17 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:17 PM
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Your mom maybe cares Your dad probably cares Outside of that absolutely noone else cares- and that is really why you’re angry. You’re desperate for validation, and it isn’t a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:14 PM
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Especially why bring up modi?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:12 PM
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In the 1950s women couldn’t open checking accounts. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:11 PM
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You made up 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:10 PM
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Incels spend all their time trash talking women on the internet because some woman they want won’t fuck them. Nobody wants men like this to ruin anyone’s life with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:09 PM
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It’s always the same story. A woman you felt entitled to had sex with someone you feel superior to and now you have dedicated your life to putting down all women who won’t give you validation. You don’t need permission from mommy. Go be single. Do whatever the fuck you want- literally noone cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:08 PM
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Go be single. What are you waiting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:04 PM
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I don’t know. I see attitudes changing alot with gen Z and alpha, though. Now it’s men that age whining about being single instead of women whining about wanting marriage. It’s interesting and i think it has to do with women in these age groups knowing they have to be financially independent from the jump and not wanting more than 2 kids at the absolute max.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:10 AM
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Agree completely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:08 AM
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Yes, put constraints in place regarding buying prada purses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:04 AM
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Again- the trends everywhere but denmark indicate the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:38 AM
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Alot of employers do. It has to be mandatory for both parents though or it defaults to women and in turn contributes to the wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:14 AM
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Doesn’t matter. Women not only are increasing participation in male dominated fields, they are also majority in some. They are now 1/5 of engineers as well. Give it another decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:13 AM
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Even better. No need to stay at home at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:12 AM
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Women work all kinds of shitty, un-prestigious jobs. These are jobs that cannot be outsourced and don’t take a ton of years of education.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:11 AM
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Over half of all med students in the UK are women. I haven’t heard of women abandoning med school or engineering in the netherlands or Germany either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:02 PM
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We have a skilled labor shortage in the US and i really hope we can get more women informed about how important these jobs are and involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:42 PM
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Scandinavia is a very tiny % of the world. Over half of all med students in pakistan, the US, and the UK are now women. Denmark has less than 6 million people and the US and pakistan have over 200 million and 350 million so it’s clear cherrypicking to focus on Scandinavia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:40 PM
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Cool. Has your warehouse gone to high schools to recruit? Or CDL programs? Do women know these job opportunities are there and what they pay? Personally i think operating a forklift is badass. I can see my 13 year old daughter really loving something like that. I’m assuming your workplace is a good place to work. My best friend is a construction engineer and men often made her profession miserable for women on the work site. My own profession is currently 80% men and i love it, more and more wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:35 PM
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What exactly do “girls claim”, and how do you know their claims aren’t true?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:37 PM
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Indeed, more and more women are entering male dominated fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:37 PM
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By all means they can decide, i am simply pointing out facts. SAHPS will never recover financially or professionally if (when) the marriage ends. And that’s if there is a marriage- morons also become SAHPs to boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:36 PM
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I think you have made up a one in a million scenario to fixate on and men with that kind of net worth should get prenups
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:34 PM
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I am not convinced this actually happens. Perhaps men should put it into prenups.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:24 PM
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Sure. There should be mandatory parental leave for both parents. Then men can stay home after the women go back to work for a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:24 PM
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That has to stop. Women are doing more than pulling their weight- they’re doing all the unpaid labor and they need to channel that into careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:23 PM
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I brought up assault and discrimination and you pretended these things don’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:22 PM
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Men also should never stay home. Alimony is granted in only 10% of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:05 PM
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I’m not sure it is “allowed”. I don’t know of it actually happening. Perhaps anyone this happens to should address it to the court. You’re claiming it’s allowed, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:04 PM
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Women absolutely must stop staying at home with kids. Both parents work, split the housework 50/50 and contribute to childcare. It’s just too risky. You will sacrifice your career, skills development, retirement contributions, benefits and when the marriage ends it will be shit like this about how you deserve nothing because you agreed to stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:00 PM
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It seems like it or you wouldn’t be whining about anti discrimination and rape laws
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:55 PM
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Do you have any statistics on what % is spent on prada bags? And what about his golf club membership and girlfriends which he pays before his kids’ school expenses?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:55 PM
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If men don’t do these things, why do the laws bother you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:58 PM
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Look at the median household income. The vast majority of men don’t have that kind of money even if they weren’t paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:58 PM
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Divorced women with kids end up worse off than men with kids. Alimony is no longer gender based and does not occur in 90% of marriages. No woman should exit the workforce and stay home. It is too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:05 PM
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Is it that hard to not rape or discriminate for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:03 PM
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Yes, so long as men don’t assault or discriminate in hiring
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:23 PM
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Meanwhile, men outside france can go to the pharmacy and get a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:19 PM
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We do. Women all over the world contribute to organizations that help women in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:18 PM
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Why don’t you rally the french men to protest? There’s a riot every time i visit france. What are you doing to support spanish and chilean members?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:15 PM
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Sure. I wasn’t criticizing your country, my mom is a foreigner and i never judge her country germany. Just, people (like you) talk alot of shit about things they are completely ignorant about. Sounds like your family court is a mess. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:14 PM
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The 10% stat is nationwide. 80% of custody cases outside the 50% are mediated and the mother getting 50% custody upon agreement with the father. When men approach the court they nearly always are awarded custody. don’t criticize America without the facts 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:25 PM
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And yes, in my shitty, burger loving country- alimony is no longer gender based and only occurs in 10% of divorces and most states have 50/50 custody rules too. Sorry you haven’t reached where america has. 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:11 PM
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Where? What countries are you referring to? He has every ability to go to a pharmacy and get DNA test. Why shouldn’t he support the kids HE MADE?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:10 PM
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Statistically it is women with kids who end up in poverty. Alimony only occurs in 10%’ of divorces and your shitty child support payment doesn’t cover half the cost of raising the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:33 PM
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Alimony only occurs in 10% of marriages and both parties need to pay for the kids. Stop lying. Your shitty child support payment does not cover the cost of raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:29 PM
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Statistically, divorced women with end up in poverty. Statistically, women have way more to lose from marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:27 PM
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Women who use men suck. Men who use women suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:24 AM
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People who use other people suck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:22 AM
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Men are stopping women from getting abortions right now. Who is stopping men outside france from getting a test?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:35 PM
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What is stopping you, outside of France, from doing a test? Meanwhile men are blocking millions of women from getting abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:34 PM
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Well, you’re the ones trying to take away abortion rights, so… 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:33 PM
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Because men seem upset about it and women don’t. Start with yourselves first. Of course, this problem only exists in france so for the rest of the 3,966,000,000 men on earth, they can go to the pharmacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:00 PM
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Then you need to mobilize french men to protest this injustice ASAP. You can do it, the french love strikes and riots. What are you personally doing to help other men in france? (Nothing.) Men everywhere else are not being stopped. They’re just scared of their baby mamas to ask for a test, or too cheap and lazy to go to CVS and get one for $29.99.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:31 PM
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Stop telling everyone how many people you fucked. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:49 AM
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Do a search in PPD on the word God or biblical
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:00 AM
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They seem post about the biblical role of women alot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:02 AM
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They hate MGTOW. jesus told them all women must breed and be bangmaids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:55 PM
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Lots of them admit it, including here in PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:53 PM
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There is a WGTOW movement and men hate it because they feel entitled to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:23 AM
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Marriage offers no advantages to anyone. Alimony is only awarded in 10% of divorces. Women need to stop sacrificing their careers to raise kids and do housework because when the marriage ends the lost income, benefits, and advancement will never be recovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:21 AM
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The manosphere exists to monetize men’s egos by telling them it is women’s fault they can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:19 AM
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And i have spelled out clearly that this is a private matter, not a state matter, that you can resolve privately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:54 PM
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It is not an undue burden on individuals. It is your private business. It is your relationship and it is your child. If you do not trust your babymama, get a test and do it. You do not need the state interfering in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:31 PM
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Noone is stopping men. Go to the pharmacy and get a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:49 PM
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You general, not you particular. If you are going to have your partner, test then problem solved. You have demonstrated clearly why the state does not need to be involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:29 PM
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Yes, i didn’t raise the issue of abortion, i just responded. Again: Marriage should not automatically confer paternity. Men should not sign birth certificates until they are sure they are the father. Men can get a DNA test at the pharmacy for $29.99 in the US. It should be legal in all jurisdictions. If women lie about paternity they should be attached for damages in a fraud case. I truly don’t know how women live with this kind of lie because it is VERY risky and it will blow up lives. My daugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:45 AM
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I already said clearly i do not agree that marriage should automatically confer paternity. This should be changed legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:17 AM
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Again: you think guy who cheated with her doesn’t know she had a kid? Maybe if it was a ONS. In an affair he damn well knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:16 AM
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There is no other argument. Noone is stopping you from doing a test, so do the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:14 AM
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You want the state to get involved in everyone’s lives because you are scared of your babymama.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:02 PM
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Here we go again- at the very bottom of all of this is that you are angry some woman you felt entitled to have sex with had sex with someone else and not you. It’s the woman’s fault for cheating. It’s the other guy’s fault for dumping his responsibility on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:59 PM
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For every defrauded man, there is a biological father enjoying life at the expense of another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:26 PM
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Don’t sign the birth certificate until you get a test. If the mother is livid so be it. I have no idea why you need to tell her. The state doesn’t need to step in just because men are scared of their babymamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:02 PM
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What makes you think bio dad didn’t dump his responsibility on other men? Men love to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:00 PM
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You can get a DNA test at CVS for $29.99, why would i take a risk and lie? I would assume he already went to the pharmacy and got a test and did it. I wouldn’t reproduce with some loser who can’t figure out how to do that without being a little bitch and demanding the state require it because he’s too much of a douche to go to CVS and do a test LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:00 PM
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What is the question? You want to verify paternity, the tools for you to use are available to you. What is ridiculous about you using them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:57 PM
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Get it in writing. Otherwise it’s he said, she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:56 PM
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I want to understand why men can’t go get a dna test at the pharmacy for $29.99 and quit making their private business a problem for everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:48 PM
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If i can’t woman up and tell the truth about paternity i deserve a fraud conviction and damages. I have no sympathy for manipulative women in this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:44 PM
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One that can go to CVS, get a DNA test, and carry out the test without dragging in the state to rescue him from his untrustworthy sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:44 PM
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No, it dumps the cost on society. It costs $29.99 at CVS. It’s YOUR problem with YOUR babymama, spend the $30 or borrow it or whatever. If you can’t man up and do that because of “society”, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:52 PM
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It is both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:50 PM
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Not answering the question “did you fuck anyone else” honestly is deception because she knows condoms can fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:49 PM
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The failure rate of condoms is nontrivial and everyone knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:47 PM
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Yes, meaning she lied about paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:42 PM
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His question is if she had sex with another man within that time period, not whether she thinks she had safe sex. Even of she used a condom there is a failure rate. Ask these guys how they handle paternity fraud cases. There are tons of other lawyers advertising these services so it is clearly possible. https://www.dupageattorneys.net/amp/practice-areas/paternity/paternity-fraud/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:41 PM
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You didn’t give any reason that isn’t resolved by concerned parties getting the test done themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:39 PM
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There are literally lawyers that advertise paternity fraud capabilities https://www.dupageattorneys.net/amp/practice-areas/paternity/paternity-fraud/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:38 PM
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She had a reason and she’s being deceptive about the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:36 PM
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No, the fraud is what is criminalized. The infidelity is just the topic of the deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:34 PM
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It doesn’t need to be mandatory because for those to whom it is important, it can be achieved at low cost by themselves by going to a pharmacy. You want the state to rectify your trust issues and cowardice and this is not the job of the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:29 PM
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Have it notarized
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:27 PM
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The intent to deceive is what is required. By saying there was no other sexual partner the intent to deceive is present
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:11 PM
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The simp just needs to get the test from the pharmacy, noone is stopping him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:11 PM
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Women can’t go to a pharmacy and pick up a no rape shield, the way you can get a DNA test, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:04 PM
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That would not answer the question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:03 PM
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Then they can go to the pharmacy and get a DNA test. Not society’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:02 PM
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Get it in writing, as i said: “can you confirm that there are no other men you had sex with between these dates?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:02 PM
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Get it in writing, as i said: “can you confirm that there are no other men you had sex with between these dates?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:01 PM
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You’re the one making personal attacks, because you cannot answer a simple question: why can’t you just go get a DNA test if you’re so concerned?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:00 PM
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I’d never reproduce with a man who is too much of a pussy to go buy a DNA test from CVS and use it without causing a bunch of drama. I also couldn’t care less of he does. Don’t project your weakness on other men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:55 PM
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Men are too afraid to ask for a paternity test so they want the state involved in every birth. That’s what it comes down to. You have every opportunity to demand a paternity test and you have every opportunity to get one at the local pharmacy. You don’t want to do that because you’re scared of your babymama.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:53 PM
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She doesn’t have to prove she knew who the father is. He needs to prove with a preponderance of the evidence that she lied about there potentially being other fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:51 PM
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So, they’re scared of babymama? That’s on them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:48 PM
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European countries also have restrictive laws in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:48 PM
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You can pursue a defamation or fraud claim
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:47 PM
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Same as any kid with a bio dad who dies or goes to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:46 PM
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You can ask if she had sex with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:44 PM
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Adultery is not illegal. Fraud is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:43 PM
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Why can you not go to the pharmacy and get a test?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:42 PM
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What exactly is “social suicide”? You don’t trust your babymama so you need the state involved because you’re too scared to get a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:42 PM
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What exactly is “social suicide”? You don’t trust your babymama so you need the state involved because you’re too scared to get a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:42 PM
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Definitely get it in writing by your partner that you were their only sexual partner before the baby is born so you can demonstrate intent to deceive. It is not unreasonable to do the test before you sign the birth certificate. I agree that being married should not automatically confer paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:18 AM
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Bio dad needs to pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:34 AM
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She knew she fucked more than one person and if she lied about that when directly asked, you have evidence of deception
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:33 AM
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Go to the pharmacy and get a test and do it before signing the birth certificate. What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:32 AM
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Because men don’t want to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:31 AM
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“I had a vasectomy” “I am infertile”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:30 AM
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It can be prosecuted as fraud if there is a preponderance of the evidence that she was asked if there could be another potential father and lied. Best get these things in writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:29 AM
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Abortion is now restricted in nearly every state.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:28 AM
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If anyone cheats and transmits a disease it should prosecuted as assault
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:27 AM
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Same as any civil fraud claim. However: there needs to be a preponderance of the evidence that there was knowing deception. Make sure you get it in writing that you asked if you are the father and were told no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:26 AM
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So go to the pharmacy and get a DNA test and test the kid. Simple. Don’t sign the birth certificate until you do that. Nobody is stopping you from doing a DNA test.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:53 AM
3

We all use roads and police and fire departments. I didn’t fuck your babymama. You work out your own trust issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:52 AM
0

Don’t sign the birth certificate until you test.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:19 PM
1

Find a kid in the neighborhood and pay them $50, split it between both partners
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:10 PM
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Just go get the test from the pharmacy and do it. Why do you need to tell anyone? Put your big boy pants on and go to the pharmacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:09 PM
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So exercise your right by going to the pharmacy, getting a DNA test, and doing the test. I didn’t fuck your babymama so why am i paying for your test? You pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:01 PM
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He should get men to protest the law in france. He needs to mobilize people. I see the french rioting daily. They should handle it. However, i doubt he is part of the 34 million/8,000,000,000 percent of the world that is french men. Barring that he can get a DNA test at the pharmacy and do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:58 PM
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Are you in France?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:42 PM
-1

Sorry. Don’t sign the birth certificate until you get the results
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:33 PM
0

Don’t sign the paternity test until you get the results
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:32 PM
3

Who is stopping you from finding out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:32 PM
0

Well, you wouldn’t have to wait 18 years to disengage from the child, right? And you wouldn’t have to sign the birth certificate 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:22 PM
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Every man can get a DNA test from the pharmacy and test any kid that is arguably theirs. Do it immediately after birth so the thread from yesterday about the 18 year old won’t apply to you. My kid looks nothing, NOTHING like me and if i hadn’t seen her physically extracted from my abdomen during a c section i might think she was switched at birth. And if she was and i found out 18 years later i would still consider her my daughter. I might still sue the hospital though. Men defrauded about pater…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:21 PM
5

What is stopping you from going to the pharmacy and getting a paternity test and doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:15 PM
1

Lots of us do. What’s so hard about cutting the grass??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:22 PM
9

Community dick is not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:09 PM
3

It’s bad because you had no volition. It’s bad because people are not their parents’ property. Again, if you think it is not bad, is this how you want to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:35 PM
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Yes. You asked what’s wrong with it. You should be able to answer that question based on whether you want someone to marry you because they are forced by their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:27 PM
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Do you want to marry someone forced into marriage with you or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:22 PM
7

You want to marry whoever your mom wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:07 PM
3

He wants free no strings attached sex on demand with no effort on his part and most women aren’t into charity work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:09 PM
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In the old days your family arranged your marriage and you shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:06 PM
2

The problem isn’t guys who willingly pay or who say up front it’s 50/50. Guys like you aren’t the issue. I have dated guys like you, and if he won’t let me pay this time because he is polite i will insist I reciprocate maybe by cooking for him, taking him for dessert or drinks, or arranging a special date later and paying. I’m not going to allow anyone to feel taken advantage of. The problem comes in with guys who insist on paying just so they can get leverage. I prefer to pay my part to avoid t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:35 PM
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Fine, but you aren’t the one whining about paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:43 AM
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Because you’re misrepresenting the dating scene in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:24 AM
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Where does OP bring up broadway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:45 AM
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Women have to a large extent stopped dating and men are angrier than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:32 AM
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Even in the US the first date isn’t a broadway show. You have some wrong ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:23 AM
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LMAO! Europeans date. It isn’t the sexual free for all you are pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:12 AM
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Absolutely, i want someone who sees me as an equal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:36 AM
1

Where? In much of the world people are railroaded into marriage early on by families.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:13 AM
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Many men want the leverage ex ante to guilt women into sex so they prefer to pay for dates. They will never ever give up this leverage and they will never voluntarily reduce their chances of getting sex. They will never announce up front that dates will be split because they do not want to restrict the pool of women who might otherwise fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:54 AM
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If women are involved
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:44 AM
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I’m not the one generalizing, OP is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:43 AM
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The video was made by an Australian advertising agency to market the effectiveness of the agency’s social media marketing abilities. The manosphere propagating the message was the best thing that could have happened for them. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:22 PM
0

What percent of men carry their weight at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:14 PM
3

When i insist on paying for dates men get angry and call me a feminist and say I’m trying to be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:13 PM
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Is men’s weaponized incompetence in housework and child care also benevolent sexism? They should also be treated as equals in these matters
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:22 PM
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Ex ante, men like the benevolent sexism of paying for dates because they like the financial leverage they think will get them sex. If paying for the date doesn’t yield sex, well then they don’t like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:20 PM
1

The existence of a model is not proof of OP’s claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:05 AM
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You said “the feminist claim”. This is an extreme view, that women are ALWAYS to he believed on the basis of no evidence and there is no presumption of innocence. Extreme views do not characterize “feminism”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:04 AM
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Are these feminists in spain women or men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:08 AM
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Some women in spain = an entire political party??? Some women in spain = “feminists”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:47 PM
1

Policing paradigms have changed, especially as police and legal systems began dealing increasingly with IPV between same sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:05 AM
1

I’ve observed the opposite with 3 of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:14 AM
2

This used to be true. And most DV resulting in injury is still man on man or man on woman. It is no longer true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:47 AM
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Some women having an extreme position is not “feminism in spain”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:00 PM
2

So you found a handful of people in spain and you have decreed they are the spokespeople for feminism? Fine then, all men believe you should be able to rape your wife because a few men online say that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:06 PM
1

Yes, women who say they do not want to pay taxes are also told to move to somalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:29 PM
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I’m a woman and also paying taxes for kids that aren’t mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:28 PM
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That one study of female teachers -in chile- does NOT show what you think it does. It actually shows that after you control for work effort and attitude there is no gender bias in grading. I have refuted this study so many times citing the actual text of the robustness tests section Since you cite this study, i now know you are an active consumer of hard right, red pill media which continually lies to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:27 PM
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You have obviously seen something on tiktok that makes you believe this. Where do you find this shit? I acknowledge that men are struggling and that life isn’t easy for anyone. The economy is shitty, there is no job stability, everyone is disposable in this society. Absolutely fucking true. Women are also struggling in every fucking aspect of life. Their ability to control their own fertility is being curbed in many places legally even when it threatens their lives. Women still do a disproportio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:24 PM
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You know nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:52 AM
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No. The OP is not about male sexlessness everywhere on earth throughout history whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:22 PM
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Alot of women don’t have casual sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:21 PM
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Women aren’t delusional. Losers on old/instagram spamming every single woman begging to use them for holes isn’t validation. We know it isn’t about us, it’s about him seeking a sentient fleshlight to make him feel good about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:29 PM
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Bullshit. The “attention” women get is guys desperately scrambing to find any sentient fleshlight they can use for 2 minutes to feel validated. That isn’t the attention most women want. It isn’t a compliment either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:27 PM
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Because he cannot get anything else no matter how great his mom and OP think he is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:26 PM
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Sounds like OP wants to fuck him and can’t understand why women don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:24 PM
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Again: what happened throughout human evolution is irrelevant to any of us today. Women had no volition. They had control over fertility. Today, by age 50, over 70% of men have had a kid in the US. You have shown nothing to indicate that only 40-60% in recent history, globally, or in any other context reproduce. This was the claim i refuted, because it’s wrong. You can continue to be a pissy, condescending twat- but your claim is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:08 PM
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Men have low standards when they want to use someone for holes. They feel entitled to way better for anything more. Most women don’t want to be used as holes and it is tiring to screen through all these men seeking holes to find one that is worth spending time with. A date doesn’t entitle anyone to sex - even if you pay. If you want sex because you’re paying, go to a professional. In my opinion dates should be split 50/50 so men don’t feel entitled to use women as masturbation devices. However, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:13 PM
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The mortality rate of men under 50 is very low. Stop reaching. Most men manage to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:07 PM
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Then he should have said he is discussing all human evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:06 PM
1

This is what people say when they can’t win an argument 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:05 PM
1

You think that, and most people who think that simply haven’t had enough life experience to know that they also do not have the deep wisdom or insight or fortune telling abilities they think they do. Many many decent, rational divorced people and single parents have failed to predict who their partner would be a decade on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:04 PM
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You cannot always predict how people will be years from now. People change and relationships end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:59 PM
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I know lots of men who thought that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:58 PM
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Too time consuming, and the expected payoff to women from casual sex is low
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:57 PM
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A majority of single dads is an idiot decision to impregnate that has ego and recklessness too, right? Why is your hostility reserved only for women? Or, maybe it’s just that people have relationships with people they like and it doesn’t work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:45 PM
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Why would i waste time tweezing through a bunch of douchebags who just want a sentient fleshlight?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:44 PM
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That’s not what happens for most single parents. This is what you perceive happens because you feel entitled to some woman who fucked someone you think you ate superior to, but not you. I know this because you are not at all pressed over men actively choosing women who emotionally stimulate them with toxicity and reproduce with them hoping to fix them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:43 PM
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Have you ever seen deadbeat dads? They aren’t hot. This is exactly what i mean- you’re mad some woman fucked some guy other than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:38 PM
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LMAO. You think “nice guys” and “nice girls” don’t put on a convincing act? Do you think people don’t change over decades? Do you think this way about divorced men with kids too? “Wow what a loser for not predicting who she would be 20 years later”? Of course not. Your contempt is reserved only for single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:38 PM
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You think you have perfect foresight and will choose a partner who will never leave? Jesus, the arrogance of youth to think you have this skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:33 PM
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If they are “worse” people they were also worse before having kids. Kids don’t make people worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:31 PM
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Aging does not imply that your equally aged male partner won’t want you. Nobody wants your male partner either. It is exclusively women being terrified about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:24 PM
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The fact that no women wants them stops them from dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:23 PM
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Alot of men are angry that men they think are worse than them get laid by some woman they want and become permanently unhinged because of ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:18 PM
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This is something that needs to change societally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:16 PM
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Yeah, and most people aren’t looking for fat balding middle aged men with prostate problems either. Nobody really wants most men of ANY age, much less older. It shouldn’t be a paralyzing fear where people are terrified.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:09 PM
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You found 1 woman who believes there is a wall. There isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:49 PM
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People are not in the wrong for getting a divorce. You cannot forecast at 25 what people will be like at 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:48 PM
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Women don’t have the exclusive right to leave for no reason. Men leave all the time just because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:45 PM
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What does 86 have to do with anything? The only claim i disputed was 40-60% for men, not 50000% for female cockatiels or -5000000 for amoeba
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:35 PM
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Age 50 subsumes ages -50 If you’re going to have kids, you probably had them by 50
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:33 PM
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Men have always complained that women aren’t doing all they want on demand for free. It’s what they do. Young men are just frustrated they cannot coerce financially and rape their wives without consequence as in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:27 AM
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If the guy i responded to meant globally and historically, he should have said that. He didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:24 AM
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I wasn’t the one using stone age/agrarian society data, so you don’t need to tell me about the uselessness of using that data. The 74% data is from the US census. The link is above. Feel free to examine the details behind the data. As for why 40-50 years old: most men who are going to have children will have done so by then. If you have had a child by 30, then obviously, that child did not disappear when you reach 50. If we include men aged 50-100 then an even higher % of men manage to reproduce…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:23 AM
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Endlessly chasing women way out of their leagues physically who use them for money and then whining about paying for dates but not getting sex. PPD is full of these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:34 AM
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Ok, then they aren’t alive to feel persecuted by all these mean hypergamous women, right? They’re dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:49 AM
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Or, she doesn’t feel like screening through 10000000 dick pics on tinder or going on 1000 dates to find one guy who isn’t looking for holes. I know tons of guys personally who are constantly chasing and rejected by Stacy who are chronically sexless and now blame women for their inability to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:43 AM
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Why are so many men bamboozled by Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:40 AM
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As have i. You are committed to believing wrong things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:39 AM
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In wars, women historically were often allocated to the victors. Again: we cannot account for every single anomaly, this is about averages. The reality is that throughout history, and still today in many places on earth, the average woman does not control their fertility to varying extents. They did not have the luxury of deciding who they reproduced with historically. They were property in both law and practice until 100 years ago and even today in practice in many places. Presently, the vast m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:39 AM
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The US.gov link should give it away?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:50 PM
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You haven’t proved your claim right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:50 PM
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You made an unqualified claim, which was wrong, about 40-60% or men reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:06 PM
1

Where in your initial statement did you explicitly state “the world”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:05 PM
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The sources you gave are irrelevant for the reasons i have explained. Provide your source for your claim that only 40-60% of men reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:19 PM
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Where did you ever say “the world”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:18 PM
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You made a claim and now you want to run away because you can’t back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:18 PM
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Cite your sources then. The census data is linked above
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:24 PM
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You have never shown ANY source for your claim. It is you who are not convincing anyone. Most men do reproduce. Over 75% of men in the US have a child by age 50. What happened in the stone age is irrelevant. Until 100 years ago, women were literally property. Historically, they were traded like animals. They had no control over their fertility. Right now, today, 75% of men in the US have reproduced by age 50. You want to ignore that because it doesn’t fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:22 PM
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Until now, all you have done is pretend 40-60% of men reproduce. That false claim is what i responded to. I am glad you finally acknowledge that you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:04 PM
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From what you can see based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:02 PM
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Finding men who will masturbate using your body is easy for women. Nothing else is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:21 PM
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Most people have kids. Some people have multiple babymamas and babydaddies. Most people of both genders manage to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:44 PM
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You don’t have to dig at all. The data linked clearly shows that 75% of men aged 40-50 in the US presently have kids, not 40-60%. Most men reproduce. If an additional 5% more women have kids, it does not imply that men overwhelmingly have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:43 PM
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According to the US census only 24% of men aged 40-50 are childless. I have already posted the link. 76% of men, by age 50, have reproduced, even if this is mot consistent with your priors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:25 AM
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Women don’t want to get 100000 dick pics requesting sex on demand from which the man will get an orgasm and she won’t. Do you want to get spammed by women seeking to use you as an ATM machine?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:23 AM
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Well, they can stop badgering me for sex then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:13 AM
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Yet, over 70% manage to reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:13 AM
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40-60% is simply incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:05 PM
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All of them are. They also aren’t as hot irl as they look in their pictures. 70% of people on dating apps are men and the majority are circling through every available woman seeking a sentient fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:04 PM
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Women are very well aware that the legions of men spamming them to use them for holes are also spamming every other available woman for the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:03 PM
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Yes, the people NOW represent the reality we confront NOW. Trying to make arguments from when most men women had no control over their fertility is irrelevant. Most men- overwhelmingly- manage to reproduce. Your argument is that only 40-60% of men reproduce, which is wrong. Perhaps 75% of women today manage to shit out at least one kid. This doesn’t change the fact that you are wrong about the incidence of male reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:01 PM
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Women historically and in much of the world today had no power over their choice of partners or fertility. They were treated as cattle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:49 PM
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I am not able to go back in time so this is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:45 PM
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It’s literally the census. Go ahead and show your data then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:04 PM
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Only 24% of American men aged 40-50 are childless. https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/publications/2019/demo/P70-162.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:54 PM
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Quite the contrary, there are so many lonely unwanted men available
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:52 PM
1

It isn’t all or none. Nobody ever said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:51 PM
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People can long for whatever they want. Way too many men feel entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:23 AM
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Over 70% of men reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:47 AM
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You found one person who is not being exploited by some entitled western douche. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:47 AM
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At someone else’s expense. It’s not enough to just give them what they want to shut them up anymore. They need to hear how great they are as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:46 AM
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Why would they pay for something they feel entitled to get for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:22 AM
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This is an outright lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:22 AM
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There are tons or poor women in these countries - what are you talking about? It’s clear that you have no idea what goes on in places like manila. There is a difference between guys who date abroad in general and passport bros, I agree with that. For an example of how passport bros think, go to the subreddit. They make it clear they intent to exploit very poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:34 PM
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It’s been part of lots of feminist movements for decades, including Code Pink which indeed did the pussy cap thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:03 PM
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They have fought to eliminate it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:22 PM
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Feminists absolutely fight against the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:19 PM
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I don’t care if they “win”. I’d love to export all of them. That doesn’t make them not predators. I’m not talking about guys who meet women abroad who they like here by the way. I am specifically talking about men who purposefully exploit desperate women with the intention to abuse them. You can find many such men bragging on r/passportbros.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:10 AM
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I’m an expat and have been to those places. They absolutely go to rural areas and there is desperate poverty in cities like manila as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:08 AM
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I never said women outside the west are stupid. I said some in poor countries are despair due to a lack of economic opportunity which is absolutely true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:06 AM
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Where did i say it’s wrong for men and right for women to exploit people?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:05 AM
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Of course you can. Passport bros flock to places with high poverty where women have few options to have a decent quality of life in any way other than tolerating abuse by some man with the hopes of getting a passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:26 PM
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It’s a unique perspective men have about women’s sexuality that makes abortion different from cancer. Most pro life men eventually get around to admitting that they want to control punish women for having sex by denying them control over their fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:55 AM
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Incels perceive they are victims because women they feel entitled to won’t fuck them. They think it is unfair that women they want won’t fuck them and that women owe them sex. Yet, they don’t feel obligated to accommodate gay men who want to fuck them, even though it is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:17 AM
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For alot of these guys they become unhinged the minute a woman they feel entitled to won’t fuck them and dares to want someone other than them. I noticed a strong correlation between men being strongly pro life and having had a woman escape their control through an abortion as well. They don’t give a fuck about abortion, they just want to make sure no woman can ever escape them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:39 AM
1

Mean, median, standard deviation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:33 AM
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You’re avoiding the question. You have 4,000,000,000 women that you could potentially fuck. Gay men have a small fraction of that, so if a gay man wants to use you for holes, why aren’t you obligated to make his life more fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:06 AM
1

Of course it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:28 PM
1

Fantasies are not reality. In terms of reality though tons of guys have experience on the DL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:06 PM
2

Reasons for what? I am merely pointing out that women’s standards aren’t actually that high. Disappointing, mediocre or worse, men still manage to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:04 PM
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Straight men have same sex rape fantasies too. A fantasy has nothing to do with whether women had any choice in marriage historically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:49 PM
2

Some do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:40 PM
4

Do whatever you want. Just, don’t expect to get any action and don’t whine when you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:05 PM
3

No, i didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:51 AM
2

Women were, legally, PROPERTY of their fathers and then husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:50 AM
1

Is life unfair to gay men because they are only 5% of the population or not? Are you obligated to let gay men use you or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:50 AM
2

200 years ago you would have had an arranged or forced marriage and raped your wife while she laid there because she had no choice or, if you had any self respect you would pay for sex elsewhere to spare her death by childbirth after the 10th kid you couldn’t afford to feed. You were not the 1%. Your life would not have been what what you think it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:38 AM
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I didn’t say incels have bad genes or shouldn’t reproduce. You are making shit up. I said noone is obligated to reproduce with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:36 AM
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What “flaws” are you referring to? That’s the way society was. Women were property up until 100 years ago and still subject to coerced marriage in many places worldwide. Up until recently women were still pressured to get married young. That way some man had access to sex, and marital rape was legal. That has stopped in the west, which is why you can’t get laid. Still, look around. Shitty, useless men reproduce every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:26 AM
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Ok. Well, i hear there are some wars on- men are doing what you believe they were made to do worldwide. I don’t know what you mean by a select few. Most men had no real power over their lives either. They worked some shit job in agriculture, war, mining, or manufacturing and then they died. Nobody gave a fuck about them either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:22 AM
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I don’t think anyone “deserves” to be unwanted due to anything they’ve done at all. I just don’t know what you want women to do about unwanted men. It’s unfair that gay people only have 5% of the world to choose from. That doesn’t imply they are owed sex by straight men to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:17 AM
2

Ask the guy I responded to what he means by “incel”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:14 AM
4

The person i responded to asked why there are incels and I responded. He used that word, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:58 AM
6

Of course. Mediocre women who think they are entitled to “chad” are also fucking delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:50 AM
2

Are you an incel? Most incels I have ever met are driven by rejection by some woman they felt entitled to who escaped their control. They can’t take criticism or rejection because they’re weak and so they seek a way to blame women so they can avoid looking at themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:49 AM
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Also, historically, most men had no choice either. They married who they were told to marry and their wives begrudgingly had sex with them because they had no choice. Most men slaved their whole lives under shit conditions to feed all the kids their wives had no choice but to shit out, and then they died.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:47 AM
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Entitlement is why we have incels. Throughout history, mediocre men got married because women were property and had no choice. This created a sense of entitlement on behalf of men, and incels resent that they cannot get what they want from women by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:44 AM
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I hope it decreases the population of people who think they are geniuses but believe stupid shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:39 AM
3

As can you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:41 AM
3

I pay the police to do their job. I am not asking them to protect anyone for free. I don’t care if they are a man or woman, and i don’t request male police.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:24 AM
3

Cool story bro I have a concealed carry license and tactical training but i’m glad you have something to feel good about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:09 AM
2

I’m not triggered at all. You seem to have trouble understanding that people pay for services.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:08 AM
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As i said, i also have a gun. I appreciate the police though. I hope you do something with your life to get the validation you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:43 AM
3

There are also women cops. You seem to really any kind of validation that you have value. This is a dangerous mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:37 AM
4

When i call the police i don’t ask for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:30 AM
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It’s not like you’re going to be able to defend anyone so don’t worry about it. I pay the police through taxes so presumably they can do their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:15 AM
1

Let it all out 🤣 Thank god men like you no longer have any real power over anyone- just foaming at the mouth ranting on the internet because you got rejected by some mid woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:36 AM
2

Such an angry little man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:32 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:31 AM
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This is the social issue. Men want wives who stay at home to do all the unpaid shit work but then won’t be honest up front by getting a prenup because nobody in their right mind would throw away their lives to be a servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:30 AM
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Men are so emotional. Smile more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:28 AM
-1

Sounds like you’re bitter that your failure to plan has consequences, but that’s typical redpill shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:35 PM
1

Nobody actually cares about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:34 PM
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I have a 9mm so i didn’t ask you to protect me from rape. You wouldn’t be able to protect anyone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:33 PM
0

Anyone who doesn’t have a prenup risks paying alimony. If you don’t get a prenup and you marry someone you let stay at home, put your big boy pants on and pay alimony and child support. Those were your stupid choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:37 PM
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Child support is no longer gender based and it is not alimony. Stop fucking lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:35 PM
4

Another angry little man with rape fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:34 PM
5

It’s true though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:36 PM
0

Only 10% of divorces involve alimony. Stop lying. Divorced women with kids disproportionately end up in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:35 PM
3

Yes. Women could divorce in islam a thousand years ago. Catholic women still cannot to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:29 PM
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Well, we all know why you can’t get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:25 PM
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No, you do not have the right to steal from others. I am entitled to use my body as i see fit so long as it dies not take away your autonomy- as are you. I do not owe you a fucking thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:47 PM
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Yes, that’s what i said. If you want something you need to provide something of value instead of demanding it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:26 PM
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You can pay for sex. Whether you are happy about paying for it is up to you. Women are not your slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:44 PM
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You can think other people owe you sex and/or money- but they don’t. You will spend your life miserable that you didn’t get things you were never entitled to to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:33 PM
2

They aren’t. What more proof do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:22 PM
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Why does it need to be opposite sex? Let some gay man validate you. Let me guess, YOU don’t want to be used as a fleshlight by someone YOU aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:22 PM
1

Men need to understand that being used for holes isn’t the thrill they imagine it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:20 PM
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Men are not ATM machines Women are not sentient fleshlights
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:20 PM
1

What benefits do women get from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:19 PM
42

Nobody is entitled to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:05 AM
1

Why would anyone know who men fuck unless he tells them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:16 AM
2

They are paying for sex, not being liked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:15 AM
1

Men want casual no strings attached sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:14 AM
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Their body, their choice, so long as noone is being coerced. I’d rather people pay than mislead people or use the political system to railroad women into early marriage so men can get sex, which is what they are trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:14 AM
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You feel vilified by simple biological realities associated with men getting off at someone else’s expense? Why are men so fragile?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:34 AM
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Also, women pointing out that men (in general, not you and your partners in particular) benefit from sex disproportionately isn’t “humiliating men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:33 AM
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There are tons of posts here whining about not getting free casual sex, blaming women for banging chad, etc. look around. What is a VERY interesting observation is that you feel persecuted by women not ignoring the fact that you want free benefits with nothing in return. That’s exactly the entitlement i’m referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:32 AM
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I didn’t blame men for the orgasm gap, i simply pointed out a verifiable fact that you fully anticipate an orgasm and women don’t. Therefore when you go into a casual sex encounter you fully anticipate an orgasm and women don’t. If MEN didn’t anticipate an orgasm, they wouldn’t provide charity sex for women, they wouldn’t be so fucking thirsty, and they wouldn’t be whining about not getting sex on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:30 AM
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They aren’t here whining because they’re happy to fuck many chicks. They’re here whining because they feel persecuted that they can’t get sex on demand from whoever they want in the moment with nothing to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:41 AM
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Who blamed men for anything other than being on here whining about not getting laid- WHICH THEY DO?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:07 AM
2

If 70% of OLD participants were women, do you think average women would have a chance on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:05 AM
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Why are these sexless losers here in a debate subreddit if they don’t want to debate??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:52 AM
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70% of participants in dating apps are men. What do you expect? If 70% on dating apps were women, men would raise their standards too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:51 AM
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It’s a debate forum. Literally says that in the subreddit name. Let’s be clear- you (or maybe not you in particular, but a huge percent of the men posting here) post or reply to posts whining that women are unfair to you because they won’t have casual sex with them on demand. These men want sex (from women who you are attracted to) but you don’t want to pay for it in any way. You do this fully anticipating an orgasm, which she is not likely to get. These are in fact sexless losers, and what’s wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:50 AM
2

Where are the posts here where fat ugly women argue that you owe them sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:42 AM
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You are well within your rights if fat ugly women are posting in a fucking debate group that they are entitled to sex with you to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:27 AM
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80% of PPD is men whining that they can’t get laid. Then men like you come here and say you expect services from women for free. Then, you get pissy because nobody is supposed to say out loud that you suffer from an entitlement mentality, whine about it, and say it’s actually my fault for participating in a debate group. Now you know why there are legions of unwanted surplus men in the world not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:26 AM
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What is cruel about what i said? You want something for cheap from people where you offer nothing in return. Then you complain. Do you feel others are entitled to services from you that, ex ante, benefit only them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:14 AM
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Ok, but when you try to get discounts you aren’t always successful, so guys shouldn’t be constantly whining about not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:11 AM
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I don’t know how many virgins bang other people after a breakup. Maybe 99%? The backup QB knew who she was and was happy to smash. Perhaps he should have remained sexually pure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:52 PM
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So stop all this engaging with women in any way other than purely transactional. You both get what you want, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:39 PM
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Stop listening to women. Just open your wallet and pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:36 PM
3

You can pay for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:15 PM
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Just pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:15 PM
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Then pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:15 PM
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How do you know if she was a virgin or not? All promiscuous women start out as virgins. Again, what about the backup QB who fucked his friend’s ex? What about his sexual history?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:39 PM
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You did read the OP? Go tell him not to bring up sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:06 PM
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She was no longer a virgin. She had sex with stafford, then they broke up. How many virgin men would bang the QB’s ex girlfriend? Maybe that’s a better question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:05 PM
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So you think if she had been a virgin before she banged stafford, she wouldn’t have… what exactly? Told people she fucked the QB? Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:50 PM
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NFL players frequently do cheat. Yet, you aren’t questioning what they do, just what women do. You’re also creating a problem that you don’t know even exists. She banged some guy while she was single. Even if she was a virgin when stafford met her, when they broke up, she was probably going to bang someone else. You also don’t seem to have a problem with what stafford or the backup QB did sexually at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:29 PM
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Right, men own the policies on their wives. Fewer women own policies on their husbands. I guess the wives get social security. 2009 study https://acsjournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/cncr.24577 Another study https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22956304/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:27 PM
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I didn’t say he was a cheater. I said they broke up and when people break up, they’re single. YOU’RE the one claiming she cheated because she fucked someone else while she was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:20 PM
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The 2009 one is about MS as well. And the benefits “stick” to both. Presumably, men collect insurance policies on their wives as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:19 PM
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I wonder why, if it’s a problem to HIM and not to YOU, that he’s not pressed over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:16 PM
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The 2015 study that was retracted was not the only study showing this. The 2009 study found the same thing: “Gender disparity in the rate of partner abandonment in patients with serious medical illness”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:42 PM
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Very very rarely. I also have friends who ended up paying alimony to deadbeat ex husbands but i’m not pretending it’s the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:40 AM
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Men don’t give women “space to be human” LMAO. What a crock of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:55 AM
0

Actually- Men abandon sick wives in alarming numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:54 AM
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Noone will ever be loved the way they really want. That’s the reality. Men want this perfect virgin and also whore exclusively for him who contributes financially and does all the unpaid labor and is selfless and asks for nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:54 AM
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No, i’m assuming so because they had broken up and when you break up you can do whatever the fuck you want. Are you assuming he was celibate while they were broken up and he was single? If not, what was the agreement between the two of them about who it was permissible to fuck? Why do you care when stafford clearly doesn’t? Maybe he and his backup QB bang all the same women and they get off on this. Maybe that’s why he DOESN’T want a virgin. He’s into sharing and whatever other shit. Maybe if he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:18 AM
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How do you know what the men here did? One banged his homie’s (ex) girlfriend apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:16 AM
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Like all these NFL players don’t cheat? Maybe we should worry more about men’s pasts. Who did he bang when they were “on break”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:15 AM
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This is bullshit. You’re lying. Of the 10% that get alimony the overwhelming majority stayed home to raise kids or supported the partner in building a business. If some fucking moron marries a trophy wife or pool boy that works out all day or lays around, they should have gotten a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:34 AM
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Except when you have kids, it isn’t cleaning once a week at all If childcare, cleaning, and cooking was no big deal, men would do their share. Also, if men don’t think stay at home parents really do anything, stop marrying people who stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:43 AM
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How do women do more work at home while still working outside the home? Easy, stay up late, get up early, and forgo other things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:41 AM
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We cannot go back in time so it is irrelevant what happened historically
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:39 AM
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Stop dating women who make less
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:29 AM
1

Very very few single men have full physical and legal custody of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:07 AM
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Yes, i want to go by this metric. The working partner agrees to these terms: even if there are no kids, the partner who is at home supporting the career of the partner working for pay, could, in sone tiny part of that 10% of divorces where there are no kids, get alimony. DO NOT MARRY OR HAVE KIDS WITH SOMEONE WGO STAYS AT HOME AND DO NOT STAY AT HOME. Seems very clear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:07 AM
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Classic base rate bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:06 PM
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Men and women can get alimony if the agreement was that they sacrificed their career to raise kids and support the other partner’s career. That was the agreement KNOWING the party that sacrificed their career and retirement contributions could end up in the 10% that gets compensated with alimony. If this is unacceptable to you then do not marry someone who wants to stay at home and do your half of the unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:37 PM
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He will have to pick up tiring unpaid work his wife currently does. He will lose on demand childcare Why would he do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:31 PM
2

Absolutely women do more childcare and housework
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:15 PM
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Men will have to do childcare and housework once the wife is gone. Why would they want to do that if they don’t have to? There is a cost to men to doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:01 PM
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Alimony is no longer gender based and presently only occurs in 10% of divorces based on some sacrificing a career to stay at home- so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:55 PM
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But even when women work equal hours outside the home, they are doing more work inside the home to the point where it impairs women’s careers. Also, what your dad did is irrelevant. We are not going back in time to marry your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:50 PM
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Unpaid work isn’t women’s work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:34 PM
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They have nothing to gain from divorce until they line up another woman to do unpaid work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:53 AM
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Why assume that the woman has a problem? Men drop women they don’t like all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:19 AM
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The majority of redpillers i know got that way because a woman they wanted to control got out of their control and left them, or because a woman they felt entitled to sleep with fucked someone other than them. The mentality is that sluts are women who have sex with men other than them. Similarly, most pro life men i know have had the experience of a woman they wanted to control permanently escaping by getting an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:58 AM
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The article is published by an industry source. The ultimate source of the data is statista. https://www.businessofapps.com/data/tinder-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:32 PM
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OP thinks he is nice or has a friend who is nice to OP. OP or the friend are not really nice and some woman rejected them and now OP wants to blame the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:50 PM
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I’ve witnessed firsthand guys that pretended to be nice and definately were not and then whined like the OP that women lost interest because they are nice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:47 PM
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https://datingzest.com/tinder-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:43 PM
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Dating apps are 70% men. Perhaps this is not the right way to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:55 AM
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Gandhi could have easily gotten laid. He made a vow of celibacy. Modern western men could never voluntarily achieve anything at that level. Look at you clowns trying to overthrow the government a couple januaries ago. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:42 AM
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And the median western man is still unattractive to most women who aren’t desperately poor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:31 PM
1

You think western women cannot achieve $60k on their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:01 PM
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Just let all the incels know that their 60k isn’t why they aren’t getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:44 PM
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Really? Because 99% of the posts here are men whining that they cannot get laid because western women demand 6,6,6
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:34 PM
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Most of you don’t have standards. You just want to make women feel small enough to settle for you because you know you have nothing to offer and you want to make women feel bad that you can’t get laid as revenge for not giving you sex on demand. Actually- there are men with standards who are clear about their standards up front rather than starting relationships or having sex with women and only THEN deciding she isn’t up to your standards. Anyway nobody owes you approval. Nobody has to agree wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:31 PM
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What are you not understanding? Western women don’t need to sell themselves to survive. Passport bros are counting on finding a partner exploiting that there are women that desperate. These women don’t love them, and these guys don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:19 PM
2

And yet, a paper from 2018 of actual Koreans shows what i’m saying is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:04 PM
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The academic research is not feminist sound bites.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:03 PM
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We won’t be alone. There are plenty of men worldwide and many at home with the self respect to not exploit desparate women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:01 PM
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No, i’m saying western women aren’t as desperate due to zero opportunities so they don’t have to put up with your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:19 AM
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They are willing to settle for much lower quality men for the option of getting a passport
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:01 AM
1

I’m saying alot of men exclusively use women to avoid parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:53 AM
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Expectations of women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:37 AM
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Gender bias as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:37 AM
1

Yeah but it has to be way way poorer for women to be desperate enough to put up with passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:36 AM
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A relationship and a man in her life are the same thing and she can now get financial security on her own. What exactly do you offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:11 AM
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“Gender equity issues…” But hey, what do Koreans know? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5860778/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:10 AM
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Ok. Let’s ask some koreans https://www.chosun.com/english/national-en/2024/02/10/JGHD46ZZMJE6PGAZZJEJEPGL54/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:06 AM
1

What do you have to offer your child’s mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:58 AM
1

Ok. Well, most women who are willing to chain themselves to a man also want monogamy so i guess the fertility rate will continue to fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:58 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Korean women do not want to be trapped into a redpill fantasy and they are staying single ON PURPOSE. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-68402139.amp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:57 AM
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One reason Korea is failing as a society is because nobody wants to get married and have kids in a work-obsessed highly masculine culture. It is way too stressful for men and unfulfilling for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:32 AM
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They can’t even get laid, they can’t correct the course of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:30 AM
3

Men do not want to do unpaid labor. It all comes down to that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:29 AM
1

Perhaps since men are committing suicide more than women they should get on antidepressants
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:26 AM
3

Children need mothers = i don’t want to do the unpaid labor required to raise children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:24 AM
1

At a minimum they have a western passport and enough money to support himself in the Philippines. She’s going to fuck some broke guy anyway, may as well try for a passport too. It is sad how passport bros are lying to themselves- but not really my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:22 AM
1

They aren’t wanted by anyone. They have something to offer poor, desperate women who want a better life. So do western women. ANYBODY with a western passport can bottom feed and exploit poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:02 AM
1

Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:48 PM
1

Of course they bring guys here LMAO. And that isn’t even the issue, my point is there are literally billions of men worldwide available who will be more than happy to get the opportunities available outside their home countries. More men do it because like i said, the west simply has a huge surplus of unwanted men with nothing to offer financially independent women. They have no choice but to feed off of economic desperation abroad. Women are not that desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:15 PM
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Gross. Women need to view themselves as partners and contribute. Men are not ATM machines. This is dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:46 PM
1

How would they get the passport if not marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:10 PM
1

You’re kidding right? Literally billions of men from South America, the middle east, the Indian subcontinent, and Africa would love to get money, sex, and a western passport- just like a bunch of southeast asian and eastern european women would. There isn’t a woman alive who hadn’t been spammed by such men on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:58 PM
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Foreign women are relatively poor and have few opportunities to improve their financial situation on their own, so his measly $60k looks good. Western women can also easily go abroad and get used for money and passports by men seeking opportunity. Don’t let the availability of desperate people make you think you’re worth something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:24 PM
1

Actually, the guy who is a 2 and gets a woman who is a 4 will never stop telling her she isn’t good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:01 PM
2

Men who think they are 5s are actually 2s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:59 PM
1

But they don’t. Women overwhelmingly settle. Look around- complete, mediocre losers get married and have kids. The median income is like $60k; the median man is still getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:56 PM
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The main problem is that many men feel entitled to women they will never get -because the median man simply has nothing to offer in a society where women are financially independent. They actually do not respect women at their level, either because they do not see themselves for what they really are or because they simply feel entitled to someone hotter. So they settle, but then they keep seething with resentment because they think “chad” is stopping them from getting someone hotter. This entitl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:40 PM
1

It isn’t bad. The problem is they despise any woman willing to be with them because they believe they deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:34 PM
2

The problem is that the average man has little to offer anyone. What they “want” is irrelevant. What they can get is relevant. They can either be alone or they can settle for what wants them, the choice is theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:28 AM
5

I don’t want to pass on your values, that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:27 AM
1

What do you want women to do to make you not cause violence and chaos? By the way, young men in islamic countries that join terrorist groups have every access to women. They typically marry young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:06 AM
2

Why do people struggle so hard with averages?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:55 AM
8

Then they cheat on miss boring plain girl (who also has a career)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:38 PM
6

Observation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:24 PM
10

Sweet nice girls get fucked over everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:08 PM
24

There are legions of unwanted men. They desperately want to intimidate women into settling for them so they can get laid, and the biggest threat to them is women who don’t need to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:02 PM
4

I said the AVERAGE 40 year old man isn’t inspiring anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:43 PM
1

I mean, by definition, i said AVERAGE, not all 40 year old men. Averages permit outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:28 PM
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Anecdotes are not data.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:39 PM
10

The average 40 year old isn’t inspiring lust in anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:23 PM
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The problem is that most men are never really attractive at any age and this doesn’t improve over time. Giving men false hope is dangerous. The 19/20/21 year old women willing to bang old guys are not that high quality. If they were, they’d get hot guys in their primes… middle aged men think these much younger women are great simply because they are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:21 PM
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They didn’t. My architect was a woman. I don’t care who operated the forklift. You are angry because you offer literally nothing and noone wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:41 AM
1

Being wrong about literally everything makes you a low value man, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:22 PM
2

Need men for what? I have a mechanic, own property, hire carpenters and cook my own food. Many women who are propositioned early are busy with higher education and careers. It’s not hard to find a man to proposition you. There are literally 4 billion men in the world. In my experience there is always some man available willing to bang/date/marry you- this is as true at 30/40/50 as at 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:52 AM
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Because it’s true, and both sides need to be heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:50 AM
1

I agree that in today’s world with emancipated women and contracts there is no need for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:46 AM
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Noone can afford to be a homemaker now. Look at the men replying here-a woman will sacrifice her whole career for a man and his kids and in the end when he leaves or makes her life so miserable she leaves he will say she is entitled to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:46 AM
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Absolutely the same for women, except when he has his midlife crisis she is stuck with kids and he isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:56 AM
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LMAO!!! The world is full of low value surplus unwanted lonely men. Now you want to restrict the pool to women under 26?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:54 AM
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Your assumption is wrong. Women do not leave for BS. Also: if she gave up her career to take care of your house and your kids, she is entitled to 50/50, and if you don’t think so get a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:51 AM
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Fleeced how? Are you whining about alimony again?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:24 PM
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You think you are so much wiser and you have perfect foresight. If that is the case, you don’t need to worry about no fault divorce, it won’t apply to you at all, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:35 PM
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How are they more stable?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:34 PM
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It’s that you think you know way more than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:22 PM
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And the number of men paying it is also becoming negligible
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:22 PM
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I’m saying it’s fucking stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:08 PM
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Again: we have someone who in other posts, is saying he is fine with no fault applying to emotional abuse situations as well because then he can just get revenge and waste his life that way. It’s fucking STUPID.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:04 PM
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What are you talking about? You think you have deep insight into others and i promise you, you don’t. Not now, and not projecting decades into the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:03 PM
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And that’s terrible. That’s my point. It’s also an outright LIE and alot of people don’t want to live a lie. Alot of men here seem to think THEIR life won’t be wasted by trapping a woman in a marriage she doesn’t want to be in. They’re fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:02 PM
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Why bother? How is not renewing better than divorcing? Just so you don’t have to admit to being divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:00 PM
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You find the case that being married to someone who absolutely hates being around you would be grounds for divorce “weak”? LMAO, i hope you don’t find out the hard way that this will destroy you and your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:59 PM
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The problem is, he’s saying that ONLY adultery would have consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:58 PM
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You suffer from the illusion of control. YOU are the one who will “vet properly” and nothing will change for decades. YOU will be happy with starfish sex for decades YOU will never seek affection elsewhere …sure. I’ve heard it all before from men who end up divorcing their wives without legal cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:57 PM
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Actions are driven by how a perceives themselves and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:52 PM
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Men who oppose no-fault divorce: Imagine being married to someone who is only with you because of moral obligation and the law as a prison. She scowls when you touch her. Ignores you. No intimacy, no validation, no affection, no companionship. She cannot stand you. She fucking resents you because she can’t leave. She fantasizes about other guys and starts to resent you even more. It’s a dead bedroom. To avoid fault she lays there during sex. She makes it clear she cannot stand sex with you. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:51 PM
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Your poor children stuck in the middle of this. But, enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:42 PM
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Great, keep fighting. Keep blowing all your time and money in court, keep being miserable just so you can demonstrate fault, and she will too. Much preferable to walking away. I feel sad for your poor kids
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:41 PM
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They want the financial leverage ex ante, but ex post, only want the obligation if she performs exactly as THEY envisioned her acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:40 PM
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Nope. It is people learning over time who their true self always was. You do not yet have the life experience to understand this and you suffer from the illusion of control. This will be correct over the course of your life, at great cost to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:39 PM
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Have you ever had to live in a bad marriage due to “moral obligations”? Have you ever been in a relationship where the other person was only with you due to “moral obligation”? It can happen to you, too. Would you be happy? You know your wife can’t stand you, but is trapped by moral obligation to stay with you. No intimacy, no affection, nothing, just her holding out until you can’t take it anymore and now she can demonstrate fault because you cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:37 PM
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I did. He mentioned cheating. I commented on things less easy to prove but still horrible to live with. He then ignored me and said some bullshit about revenge in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:34 PM
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How is it possibly preferable to live separate lives than to simply divorce and move on? It makes NO LOGICAL SENSE. Why would anyone want to waste their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:33 PM
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And some women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:36 PM
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People absolutely do change over decades. People absolutely do learn to hide anger issues. People absolutely do manipulate others into believing they would never lie, cheat, or abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:35 PM
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Because many make the mistake of forgoing career progression in order to have children and raise them. This needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:34 PM
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Again, you have to prove emotional abuse. Is this how you want to live your life, recording people, baiting them into arguments, trying to collect evidence for court while still being married, etc? Because she’s definately going to be the same to counter your claims and she is going to accuse you of emotional abuse too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:33 PM
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Yeah, people don’t stay the same forever. This is delusional thinking. You will simply have many more miserable lonely married people who hate each other in the absence of no fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:31 PM
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Alot of men are about to be VERY unhappily trapped in marriages with women who hate them, unable to divorce or have affairs or whatever else it is they ordinarily do when have a midlife crisis or feel entitled to something more out of life. No fault divorce might mean it is harder for them to leave you. It doesn’t mean they won’t ruin your life, just you also cannot divorce them without cause. Hello dead bedrooms x 1,000,000, LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:26 PM
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Women nowadays are much more financially independent. That’s what redpill men are so pressed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:23 PM
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Pro sports players should get prenups
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:22 PM
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You’re assuming men come to the table already successful. They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:21 PM
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As long as women no longer stay at home and out of the workforce and the couple contributes financially equally to any assets they buy- even if that then means they never buy any assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:19 PM
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The answer to no spousal support is noone staying home with kids EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:17 PM
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Women absolutely need to stop that and they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:17 PM
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Men do not want 50/50 custody. Few fight for custody. Most simply agree in mediation to dump the kids on the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:16 PM
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Alimony is also no longer gender based when it’s granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:15 PM
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So it your wife emotionally abuses you, no way out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:14 PM
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Men want to go back to the days when they could cheat and women couldn’t leave because they were trapped financially
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:09 PM
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Ok. Well… 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:02 PM
1

I have alot of Filippina homies here and growing up in Chicago. Nobody knows how to have a pool party better than them 😁 There are plenty of great available people here, just people are not here for the long term. It’s a great place to live though, presently enjoying the long holiday weekend in Dubai!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:53 AM
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UAE
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:48 AM
1

Yeah, that’s another issue, 100%. You are right that your kid should be your priority. I wish more people felt that way. Way too many people cannot seem to have to survive without a relationship at all times 🙄 I don’t want to involve anyone in my kids’ lives to any extent. When they hit 18 i will feel more comfortable living my life, but for now that’s a hard red line. That’s only a few years away, plenty of time after that. I’m also an expat, and i love it here but the situation here is pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:20 AM
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No. I’m not opposed to meeting someone but I’m very busy with work (also studying for an industry certification), kids, health. I know I cannot invest the time properly in any kind if relationship so I have not been looking whatsoever. I still lack the emotional vacancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:46 AM
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It is not “known”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:34 AM
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Men in their 20s are too busy chasing Stacy and using non-Stacy for pleasure and experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:33 AM
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Statistically, women are no longer doing that. They make up over half of college graduates and are focusing on financial independence. Men don’t like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:33 AM
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And the fertility rate has fallen. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:32 AM
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You have sold yourself an incorrect narrative to avoid accepting that you are the reason you can’t get women outside of your league physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:24 AM
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Right and the good news is, what happens to them is no longer our problem. We can now have the kind of lives we create for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:22 AM
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Men directly benefit from the unpaid labor of women, and even “decent guys” have been taught they are entitled to this. Unfortunately, that is the reality. Many “decent guys” are also liars when it comes to what they will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:20 AM
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The systematic bias is in women leaving careers to do unpaid labor that benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:25 PM
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In which state is FULL custody awarded to mothers by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:33 PM
2

Alimony is no longer gender based.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:30 PM
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Noone should be drafted. However, men cannot demand women be drafted and then at the same time block every effort of women to be in combat roles. Everyone has a timeline for contraception. For women, depending on which state she is in, her timeline is either equal to the man’s or within a few weeks of the man’s. His timeline ends when he forgoes control of his genetic material by injecting it into someone else’s body. Hers is whenever the men in the state legislature she lives in terminates her …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:28 PM
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Haha yeah mine also came from a rich family. He never had any potential to fail in life. Daddy or i had his back his whole life, and when I finally took the kids and left his dad tried to bribe me by dangling a couple million in inheritance. But his dad should know better, because dad and i are self-made professionals. I hope his dad leaves it all to charity. He made his kids’ lives way too easy and in trying to instill self-respect, the little shits became arrogant and entitled. Douche bags kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:45 PM
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You’d be surprised how shit has changed. His dad, my brother, also got custody 20+ years ago because their mom fucked up really bad. For my nephew, nowadays, custody in many states is 50/50. He contested on the grounds she was trying to move out of state with the boyfriend and she got supervised visitation. In this case, she essentially was neglectful and did not show up to supervised visitation. Then, she got pregnant by the new boyfriend and basically lost interest in the older kid. Otherwise …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:08 PM
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I am glad we both escaped. 🥂some of these people Re very psychologically violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:03 PM
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Oh yeah, i had to do most of the housework but he wanted everything done a specific way LMAO. It was never up to his standards. 90% of the childcare work and of course he was hypercritical of that too. I always made half the household income, had to account for every penny. Then, i had to initiate and fully plan every vacation, activity, etc and of course it was never up to his standards. I had to initiate sex most the time, that was another little game he would play, demoralize me by saying no,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:02 PM
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If some gay guy kept whining to straight guys how unfair it is he can’t get laid when he wants, yes, straight men would absolutely tell him to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:45 PM
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If i see shit like that where people are talking about culls i will call it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:44 PM
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Men would and have done way worse when a gay guy presumes to approach them for sex. You know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:29 PM
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As for me, kind of the situation was similar to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:28 PM
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Ok, if you have an updated study, let’s see it. Look what happened to you is fucking WRONG, and yes, i have absolutely seen it happen to guys. I just helped my nephew get full custody of his kid because his dumb bitch wife refused to do ANYTHING and neglected the kid for some guy she was banging on the side, and ended up with an intolerable domestic situation- and he won. We all fought for him and still are, trying to help jn any way possible. I hope for ANYONE that ends up in that situation the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:27 PM
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And yes, in this very group, men have said women deserve to have their reproductive rights taken away because some men cannot get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:23 PM
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Men are offered sympathy but they are not satisfied with that. What more do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:22 PM
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Then what is it men want exactly? Sympathy? What will make you happy? Women and straight men do not want to do charity sex so other people can feel validated. What is it you’re looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:57 PM
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But it IS entitlement. What exactly do you want from women? I don’t think sympathy is enough. Men will not be happy unless they get sex from whoever they want. Life sucks for lots of people. Only 10% of the population is gay. 45% of the population is available to straight men, only 5% for gay men. How much time to you spend feeling sorry for them? Do you owe them sex because their lives are hard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:54 PM
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The statistics cited are for women who also work full time, not for women who stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:36 PM
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They don’t pay someone to do it. It is disproportionately dumped on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:35 PM
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It is unfair that only 5% of the world is gay men. This restricts their pool of partners and this is unfair. Should straight men be forced to not reject gay men who want sex with them, just because the situation is unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:28 PM
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I feel sad you struggle to get laid. What exactly do you want women to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:21 PM
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No, they don’t. “About 91 % of women with children spend at least an hour per day on housework, compared with 30 % of men with children. The latest available data shows that employed women spend about 2.3 hours daily on housework; for employed men, this figure is 1.6 hours. Gender gaps in housework participation are the largest among couples with children, at 62 p.p. (Figure 15), demonstrating an enduring imbalance in unpaid care responsibilities within families[2] . “
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:18 PM
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An hour DAILY, and just on housework. “About 91 % of women with children spend at least an hour per day on housework, compared with 30 % of men with children. The latest available data shows that employed women spend about 2.3 hours daily on housework; for employed men, this figure is 1.6 hours. Gender gaps in housework participation are the largest among couples with children, at 62 p.p. (Figure 15), demonstrating an enduring imbalance in unpaid care responsibilities within families[2] .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:14 PM
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Many women work as many hours or more. Then come home to another full time job because the guy won’t pay for things he feels entitled to get for free
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:13 PM
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What woman is he paying to do it exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:02 PM
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Men don’t want to pay for a maid. Why would they pay for services they feel entitled to get for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:00 PM
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Good luck finding a man these days who can fix your computer or do car repairs LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:00 PM
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The statistics on who does the majority of childcare and household work overwhelmingly show that it falls on women. You are 100% right that some guys get fucked on this and to you and them i say: i am sorry. You have suffered the same way many women have. I am not going to tell you that you should’ve chosen better, just going to say i am sorry because you didn’t deserve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:33 AM
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Well, most DO do their dishes before marriage because otherwise they won’t have any clean dishes. There IS a change after marriage and there is a reason for that. They have been led to believe their wife or girlfriend takes over all these shitty unpaid tasks in exchange for the honor of having a relationship. It may also be the case that never having had to be responsible for any childcare or household tasks in the family setting, they underestimate the amount of work involved and it’s just easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:12 AM
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