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Not relationships. Casual sex. That’s it. Nobody really wants to be used as a receptacle. It isn’t the thrill you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:49 PM
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Some women do. Quite a few even marry ugly losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:42 PM
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I’m not blaming men, i just want to not die because i can’t get healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:19 PM
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When women do it, it is also entitlement. Just, 8/10 entitled people in ppd are men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:18 PM
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I don’t feel entitled to romantic options and 7/10 posts here are men whining about not getting casual sex, not women whining about not having romantic options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:08 PM
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Feminism doesn’t rule anything. Women are fucking dying because they can’t abort fetuses that are incompatible with life ffs thanks to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:07 PM
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Bullshit. Most women don’t even get an orgasm from casual sex. This is a fantasy of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:39 PM
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Men don’t acknowledge women’s issues. Who told you they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:39 PM
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I mean, that’s what men are always here whining about- they feel entitled to have casual sex with women who really aren’t having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:38 PM
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No, they don’t. Men want casual sex. They will literally say anything to get that. That’s why women give up on dating apps, screening thru all the fuckboys begging every woman for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:37 PM
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Women have it easier in being used as fleshlights by men and that’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:56 PM
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Men will pass over many women while chasing after Stacy and then be bitter because stacy didn’t want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:17 PM
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My ex sister in law’s junkie boyfriend sexually abused my brother’s daughter and blamed my brother. He lost his kids for years. The boyfriend ended up raping a neighbor’s child and the truth came out about my niece but by then it had destroyed my brother’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:00 AM
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Most women have few options especially once they are trapped financially by being burdened with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:04 AM
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And men practice it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:32 PM
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Men may settle for their looksmatch but their intense entitlement will lead them to leave the minute something better comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:46 AM
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Ugly nice guys definately do this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:18 AM
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The problem is men think they are entitled to stacy, and then end up leaving someone good for someone they think is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:14 AM
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I agree, nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:03 AM
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Except she’s going to use him for whatever she can get out of him, because she also doesn’t want to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:25 AM
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I mean, read what you just posted. the 35 year old woman also doesn’t really want some bitter, jaded, fat, balding middle aged man with prostate problems. The issue isn’t what you would ideally like. It’s that noone really wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:23 AM
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Which experiments are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:06 PM
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Most women aren’t fucking chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:29 PM
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If women were that into it, 90% of posts here wouldn’t be men whining about not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:28 PM
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Most women aren’t that into casual sex. Dick isn’t consistently worth the hassle or risk of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:57 PM
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Probably alot of them are men who spent a decade chasing stacy and getting sexual gratification at glory holes or paying for it but you don’t care about that 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:57 PM
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This is so obviously false if you just go to any public event and look at couples
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:41 PM
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Alimony is now only granted in 10% of divorces
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:09 PM
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Oh, I am too. Just, i seem to be able to find plenty of willing men within a decade older and younger than me who like me for me. I’m far from perfect and definitely accepting of men who are far from perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:50 PM
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Lmao. You’re kidding right? By 60, men have learned that noone wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:10 PM
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Most men don’t have money
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:10 PM
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He will be paying child support until he dies 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:09 PM
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Nobody wants the majority of men, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:07 PM
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Not the gyms and 5k events i go to 🤷🏼‍♀️ full of older women doing strength training at the gym and fit older women racing. At any rate, most older men are also fat and gross, and really cannot expect to attract quality women of any age. There are super hot guys of all ages, of course, but for every 1, there are 100 who never could pull women and still can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:05 PM
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Doesn’t matter. Older men are still statistically obese, have tons of baggage, and are undesirable to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:02 PM
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Not at all. He is part of the legion of unwanted, surplus men continually posting in PPD out of loneliness and resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:45 PM
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The gym is full of women over 40 LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:44 PM
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Most men don’t improve. They get fat, bald, have mortgages, student loans, ex wives, kids getting ready for college, child support, erectile dysfunction, and prostate issues. They are also statistically obese. The fantasy that men will one day be more than they are now is very dangerous because it leads to disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:44 PM
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I never said otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:37 PM
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OP is desperately hoping he will one day be valued by women when women are older. He won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:26 PM
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It’s the truth. I have a number of homies presently getting robbed because their ego was stoked by being able to bang a much younger women they NEVER would have touched years ago 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:16 PM
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So you don’t really care and aren’t doing anything to help those men finish their degrees?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:14 PM
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I’m not. Where it gets problematic is when you know the guy is a total asshole and he is lying to some woman without much life experience or who is desperate- but, that is bad no matter how old he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:13 PM
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There are exceptions but alot of time this is true. Also, the younger woman who wants him is not high quality. At 50, all 25 year old women look like they have quality- but really, these women have few options their own age for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:53 PM
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Because older men also have more baggage, and younger women of any quality also don’t want them. At a certain age, men start to associate a woman’s age with HIS quality. But often, the younger women he can get also have few prospects except to date him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:51 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:49 PM
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You don’t even know the difference between its and it’s. Start there first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:43 PM
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We do. There are so many unwanted men of all ages
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:42 PM
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What these older men don’t realize is that younger women do not want them either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:41 PM
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What are you doing to right it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:37 PM
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You do realize that over half if college students are women now and that women work? I contribute half so i get half 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:04 AM
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I think if that happens, you have the right to walk away. Even if you’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:34 AM
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Men never shut up about women who are overweight. People should date who they like and leave others alone. This includes women who rag about short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:08 AM
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People who are not sexually compatible should not be together. There is no need to shame anyone, IMO. If he or she don’t like what you like, walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:07 AM
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Replacement is 2.1. You be the 0.1 and fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:19 PM
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I consider them demands and i do not like being hounded for sex. If you were being hounded by women for money you would hate it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:13 PM
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I consider long winded guilt trips about how women owe them sex to be demands. Also, i can block them and i do but it becomes tiresome to use dating apps when you have to screen shit that men do over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:51 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:57 AM
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Yeah, weird shit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:29 AM
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They post shit under their own names
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:39 AM
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They demand. They insist. The lack of response does not imply they did not demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:39 AM
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No you wouldn’t. It isn’t happening to you so you aren’t going to understand how tiresome it is for people to demand to use you as a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:13 AM
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Have you ever made a profile of an unattractive woman to see the kinds of disgusting shit men send?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:18 PM
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Because women don’t have time to screen through 100 demands for casual sex to find 1 man interested in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:16 PM
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More lying men Alimony is granted in 10% of divorces and half of zero net assets is zero. No woman is going after the median man for money. Also, stop marrying women who want to be SAHMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:49 AM
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Alimony is only granted in 10% of divorces. Men really overstate their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:47 AM
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Half of zero net assets is zero and alimony is only granted in 10% of divorces. Also-stop marrying women willing to be SAHWs if you don’t want to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:46 AM
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If you are bothered by being used for dick, that’s understandable. I have never heard a man here complain about that. The complaints here are the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:51 AM
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Women are simply lees interested than men in casual sex period. Men ideally would like to be offered endless sex from stacy, but they don’t understand this will never happen and in reality they too would get sick of being hounded by unattractive women who are willing to fuck anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:09 PM
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I know you don’t do that, and I’m really sorry it’s affecting you negatively but men really do that on dating apps. Ask women here if they agree. I know some amazing guys get passed over because it’s just so tiring to have men make it so fucking clear that you are only good for one thing. I don’t respond to these assholes btw, no matter how hot they are. IDNGAF, i am just never going to risk pregnancy or disease or assault for dick. It just gets demoralizing and then i stop engaging on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:34 PM
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I don’t have sex with men like this. It’s just that 75% of profiles on tinder are men spamming every woman on tinder with demands for casual sex, and women all know it. So this is why women aren’t engaging on social media or tinder but then men are all shitty and whiny because they aren’t getting casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:28 PM
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It is hard to filter through 100 men. I don’t have time. I close the app after 10 consecutive demands for casual sex or dick descriptions. Men like the idea of being desired by stacy. But that isn’t what is happening to women. If you got spammed by the equivalent of 100 really vulgar, gross women talking about their twats and demanding you pay for dates with them, you would get sick of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:24 PM
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Or, men could stop soliciting casual sex and spamming every woman on dating apps with demands for sex and talking about their tongues and dicks. You aren’t going to get laid that way, it’s like winning the lottery, and then men get frustrated by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:20 PM
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You may care about women’s pleasure but most guys in dating apps and social media want to hit and run. Even if they care about women’s pleasure, statistically women take tons of risks with casual sex and do not expect an orgasm. MEN think being desired for their body is great, and maybe it is, because women don’t fuck sheep, goats, and holes in bathroom stalls. Women know very well that a man wanting a sentient fleshlight simply means a man wants a hole, and doesn’t really care who it belongs to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:10 PM
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Actually, women get called whores, sluts, bitches, cunts, and so forth all the time for leading with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:02 PM
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They are not at all a minority of the engagement women get in online dating and social media. It is a vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:01 PM
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Men want validation and an orgasm at the expense of women because a man using a woman for holes is not validating for women and because women are much less likely to even get orgasm out of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:00 PM
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Yet, women are spammed mercilessly for sex on social media. It is NOT a straw man argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:43 PM
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Because they have absolutely no regard for what women want. They are entitled and they believe their lives would be perfect if women constantly hounded them them for sex because they’re envisioning stacy and not the unattractive women they disregard every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:08 PM
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I mean the internet is full of men whining that they can’t get free casual sex at someone else’s expense. Surely men are now aware of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:02 PM
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Women are not spoiled for choice. Most attention women get is from men seeking holes. Women don’t want to be used for holes anymore than you want to be used for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:59 PM
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Men are entitled to work from women they deem unworthy of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:58 PM
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They want validation and an orgasm at the other party’s expense and in their infinite entitlement they turn into OP the minute they don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:57 PM
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Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:48 AM
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Women can choose from 100 men who want casual sex. By and large women are not looking for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:02 AM
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Women think he won’t cheat, abuse, or make life unbearable either, and they’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:09 PM
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Men aren’t working their asses off. Women are in the workplace too, we know it isn’t 24/7 like dealing with small kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:07 PM
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What rich husband? The median husband isn’t rich and he doesn’t do much at work either Half of what? You think men have all that money to split? Lmao Also, alimony is now only granted in 10% of divorces and it is temporary. Most men don’t make enough to live on alimony payments. Who do men think they are????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:05 PM
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All women work. SAHparenting is work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:00 PM
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Women file the majority of time because they are left with no alternatives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:59 PM
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I’m sure men can get orgasms without casual sex 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:44 PM
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Maybe men should stop engaging in casual sex first, and then share their unsolicited opinions with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:55 PM
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Of course it changes things for women. Men have casual sex because they expect validation and an orgasm. Women know men will literally bang a hole in a bathroom stall so the validation isn’t there, nor is the orgasm, and only she faces the risk of her body being impacted by pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:32 PM
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Yes, if you are being sexualized and treated as less than human, it absolutely sucks. However, many men in ppd tell me they would LOVE to be used for sex because they want validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:22 PM
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Women face far greater risks from casual sex and are unlikely to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:21 PM
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They orgasm less from casual sex than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:21 PM
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It sucks because you have to screen through men who exclusively want to use you for their own personal sexual benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:02 PM
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Agree completely. My bio mom lied about who my bio dad was and it had serious effects in my life including not being diagnosed with a gene linked illness until i was 38 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:08 AM
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The academic research told me that. These studies have been posted here repeatedly showing that men marry in their educational and social class. Unemployed loser men also get married all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:06 AM
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I didn’t back out now, i am willing to be drafted, i am already protecting the country professionally AND I AM AN EXPAT IN THE MIDDLE EAST.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:05 AM
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YOU don’t care. MEN, statistically, marry women who are from the same socioeconomic and educational class. Men leave pregnant women all the time for all kinds of reasons. Quite a few leave sick wives and wives who stop providing unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:03 AM
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We do not have a draft and i oppose the draft for both genders. I made that clear already.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:02 AM
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Men can stop starting wars, joining street gangs, and forming terrorist organizations and then the incidence of violence will go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:01 AM
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I am protecting the country. I am a counter-terror finance specialist. I don’t start wars and i oppose conscription of all people. But my profession does, in fact, protect all of us from harm caused by terrorists who are predominantly men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:59 AM
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Of course they care if she has a degree. People statistically marry within their own social and educational class. YOU may not care, but MANY men care. Most women are not stacy and are not able to get by on their looks. If your reference point is a stacy, no wonder you are getting this wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:58 AM
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Women are also treated with indifference if not contempt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:56 AM
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There should not be a draft. Take it up with the president, who worldwide is likely to be male, and those in political power, who are also statistically male.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:54 AM
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They want validation and an orgasm. The receptacle doesn’t matter as long as they are willing to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:53 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:51 AM
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Men are still very in denial about advanced paternal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:51 AM
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They absolutely care if you are mediocre. You never stop hearing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:48 AM
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I am more productive than the men at work for the same pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:48 AM
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I would absolutely prefer to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:47 AM
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The orgasm gap is well documented. If men did not anticipate an orgasm, they wouldn’t be demanding casual sex in large nun versus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:29 PM
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Then stop badgering women for casual sex 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:28 PM
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It is easy to find sex where the man gets an orgasm and i don’t yet i take all the risks of getting pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:55 PM
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Since women do not expect an orgasm from that, and run the risk of pregnancy and/or disease, most will rather pass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:53 PM
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That’s what alot of men are looking for 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:53 PM
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“Or demands for casual sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:43 PM
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I don’t. Quite the contrary. Rape is a serious crime regardless of perpetrator/victim gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:43 PM
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Men are on welfare too. As are the male minor children if deadbeat fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:12 PM
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I close tinder the minute i recieve 5 dick pics or demands for casual sex in a row. The one guy seeking a LTR may be buried under 99 dick pics and i just don’t get to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:25 AM
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Women do not get 100 matches for LTRs per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:09 AM
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And this is true for average women too. It is easy to find a man willing to use you for validation and to masturbate in. Finding someone who likes you for you is very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:25 AM
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Are you chad though? If not, you are proof average men can find women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:18 AM
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70% of profiles on tinder are men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:15 AM
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Stop chasing stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:14 AM
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They lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:13 AM
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Finding someone to use you as a fleshlight is easy. Anything else absolutely sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:13 AM
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Also; most “single dads” have help from women in the family or girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:50 AM
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Yet, custody in most states is now 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:50 AM
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What % of children are raised exclusively by a single father?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:47 AM
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The evidence that children of single fathers do better is a direct result of base rate bias. The percent of children raised exclusively by single fathers (no grandmas, girlfriends, sisters stepping in) is miniscule so it is impossible to generalize to the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:47 AM
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Sterile civilization > marital rape
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:59 AM
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Birth control was available in the past. Every single place on earth where women have alternatives to replacement TFR, they choose the alternatives, which is clear evidence that women do not really want the incremental child past 1 or 2. Testosterone falls when men are around small children because otherwise they would be out of the home rampaging and impregnating other women rather than helping with the children they recently had. Chaining women to fertility is the only hope subpar men have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:44 PM
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“Women must be enslaved because it is the only way i can avoid rejection.” -100% of men who are pronatalists/antiabortion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:57 PM
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When we chain sexuality to fertility we get dead bedrooms. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:54 PM
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Many women never wanted kids, they had no choice in the past and now they do. If taking care of kids was so great, men wouldn’t be trying so hard to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:53 PM
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He said he is going to interview ex partners. That’s insane, and if a woman said she was doing that to a man there would be outrage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:53 PM
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This guy is literally advocating stalking women’s ex partners, but i’m the problem, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:10 AM
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He has no hope of anyone marrying him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:26 AM
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Women are also not safe at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:46 AM
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How long do you need to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:01 PM
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I meant to say 30. 40 is too late for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:01 PM
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They don’t care. Their entire concern with fertility is trapping women with mediocre or worse men because it’s the only way they can get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:32 PM
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Doesn’t matter. If you really care about peak fertility with no medical intervention, you need to get started around 40. Women’s fertility doesn’t really decline steeply until late 30s, and most people only want 1 or 2 kids anyway. But men need to be more informed about the risks associated with advanced paternal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:30 PM
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If taking care of kids was so much better than alternatives, men would do it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:02 PM
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The benefits outweigh the costs TO YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:01 PM
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Too much risk and unpaid labor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:00 PM
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Parenting isn’t shit work, cleaning the toilet, laundry, cooking, running errands are, maybe changing diapers l. It is, in fact, unpaid work that falls primarily on the woman, and when you divorce he will still get 50% parenting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:32 PM
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I want it to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:53 PM
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Absolutely. I’ll take care of my shit, he takes care of his, i’ll kick in my half financially, we both sign a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:52 PM
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I presume your life went on after you lost your virginity and sex began having meaning again for you? I certainly hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:35 PM
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Ok but he wants a prenup 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:34 PM
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Also, 50/50 on laundry, cooking, cleaning, childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:30 PM
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Not at all, just based on observation, you should keep karma in the back of your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:27 PM
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Same, but to be clear, since we leave with only what we earned, i cannot cripple my earning power with unpaid shit work in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:37 AM
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It is much better for all rights and responsibilities to be established up front. Want a prenup? Great, then all unpaid labor will be equally divided.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:36 AM
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The good news is, with your mentality, you will be divorced within a decade as well. Why are you seeing a divorced person if you really believe a person can only have a proper wedding once?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:32 AM
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You better hurry then. Male sperm quality starts declining in mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:29 AM
1

Men want exactly who they want. They don’t want who anyone else thinks they want. The moment anyone Stacy adjacent is available to them, all of their so called values fly out the window. Anyone else other than who a man tells himself he is entitled to is a placeholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:32 AM
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Average guys need to stop chasing stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:00 PM
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Everyone settles. Stacy won’t fuck you at 18, 28, 38, 48, 58, 68, or 78.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:00 PM
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Nah. They will eventually find some economically desperate or vulnerable woman to abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:55 PM
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Not with sex. If you would bang anything that moves, and then you act morally superior, you’re just a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:32 PM
2

Having no standards and a high body count doesn’t make a man morally superior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:34 PM
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Bullshit. Of women willing to have sex with them they will sleep with 80% and some also have sex with women who don’t even consent, as well as glory holes and escorts. Just because fewer people want you doesn’t make you morally superior or less of a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:06 PM
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Men should stop sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:32 AM
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Nobody said that but you. If you value sexual purity, be pure. No matter who you are. Don’t have sex or get involved with anyone who does not meet your preferences. Clarify up front what you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:18 PM
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That’s cool. If men are so pressed over casual sex and sexual purity they should wait until marriage for sex and vet all potential marriage candidates very, very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:34 AM
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Then demand the information up front
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:17 AM
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All deal breakers should be clarified up front. and how is that poster and what he would or wouldn’t do relevant to the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:16 AM
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Yeah, the problem is that it wasn’t a priority for him because he wanted to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:07 AM
3

Where does it say he told her he wouldn’t date a woman who did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:07 AM
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I have read the thread. He didn’t care enough to ask up front about body count because he wanted to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:54 AM
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He is throwing away his sexual purity by having sex with a woman he isn’t married to and doesn’t know well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:53 AM
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How could she know he wants to know when she started dating him if he didn’t ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:53 AM
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Then she wouldn’t tell him now either. You’re making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:52 AM
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She didn’t lie 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:51 AM
2

She didn’t lie though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:48 AM
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Isn’t it better to show that up front and not waste your and her time? Also, why betray your values? Clearly sexual purity is important to you. Don’t throw away your own purity on a woman you cannot marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:48 AM
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Why wouldn’t you have asked about that before having sex with her then if it was a deal breaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:09 AM
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Most are not RP. Most are men who felt entitled to some woman who fucked someone else instead, and their ego won’t let them get past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:53 AM
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You seem to waste alot of time arguing with women you think are low value 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:42 PM
3

You’re mad because women neither need nor want you. I can understand how distressing it is to you that you can no longer rape your wife or control her fertility. Sucks to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:22 PM
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Even if i was, you aren’t capable of protecting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:18 PM
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Oh, $60k is the median income, many men make less. If we aren’t worth the change you bring home-Then go your own way and stop lecturing women on what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:18 PM
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It’s sad how all men think they offer is their shitty median income of $60k and with gen z and alpha even that miniscule leverage is disappearing. Personally, i’d never recommend a woman count on a man to provide for pr protect her. She’ll be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:02 PM
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Great. More and more women are financially independent and your average douche isn’t going to protect anyone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:00 PM
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I didn’t decide for every woman. I’m saying that for many women, being alone is preferable to being “subservient” to some mediocre man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:01 AM
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Look at the increasing numbers of women remaining single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:43 AM
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She will choose to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:17 AM
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No woman wants to be submissive to the average man. Some woman is maybe willing to tolerate the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:15 AM
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Submissive to the average man? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:06 AM
4

Most men are also not that great so no surprise they go after 2s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:50 PM
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It doesn’t make women feel better to know men are spamming every woman in tinder with dick pics, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:49 PM
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There is no validation in unsolicited demands for sex and dick pics that are sent to every other woman on tinder any more than it is validating to be chosen by a nigerian prince to launder money in emails
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:40 AM
1

Life expectancy now is over 80. We no longer lose 25% of children by age 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:34 AM
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The median man at 40 is a less attractive version of himself at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:33 AM
1

The life expectancy was 50 in the 1700s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:31 AM
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We presently live long past youth and no longer lose 1/4 of our offspring to hunger or disease. You are overdramatizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:30 AM
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Yes, we are. Only 10% of divorces involve alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:20 AM
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It isn’t a “power imbalance” unless men and women both want unsatisfying casual sex with randoms and dick pics. They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:19 AM
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I didn’t say all men are financial abusers. In fact, an advocate for women being financially independent and men finding women offline, as most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:26 PM
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Most women aren’t looking to “fool around” or at least not that often with randoms from the internet. Social media and online dating are great for getting unsolicited dick pics and demands for sex but this is not the thrill men think it is. Women are very well aware that the same guys are spamming all available women scrambling for a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:19 PM
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Regardless of the cause, mediocre men offer nothing to mediocre women. On the other hand, a mediocre woman gives the mediocre man an orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:00 PM
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No. The median woman will not orgasm from sex with the median man. Statistically-The median man will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:58 AM
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The average man is by definition mediocre ane provides subpar sex and entitled to nothing more than subpar quality sex with a mediocre woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:46 AM
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RP men will continue to be unattractive and unwanted by Stacy in their 30s and beyond. Eventually they will settle or end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:22 PM
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They have financial interests and are willing to pretend to like you. American men are also unappealing to foreign women. Foreign women care enough about $$$ to pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:26 PM
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I know so many passport bros who are currently being robbed blind by their wives and it is so fucking funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:23 PM
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She wants younger, hotter men and is also settling for his fat bald old ass. I think we need to stop lying to younger people: everyone settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:16 AM
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99% of this is anger that a woman some man felt entitled to fucked a man other than him and now all women must pay. Let them go to other countries. I have several colleagues who got absolutely financially brutalized/robbed by their “pure, traditional” green card wives from Eastern Europe and Philippines.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:55 PM
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I never said i like men to act it out. OP claimed that’s what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:26 PM
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If the ratio was 70/30 and women/men with a bunch of loser women begging for sex, men wouldn’t be going after loser women either and it has nothing to do with the 80/20 rule or male hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:43 PM
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Again- it would be more even if profiles were less overwhelmingly male and if half the males weren’t spamming every female whining for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:41 PM
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This is not the 80/20 rule. 80% of women are not going for 20% of men. This is classic base rate bias. Only 30% of profiles are women to start with; every woman is mot going to go after 5 men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:34 PM
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Only 30% of profiles on tinder are women. Of course they’re going to go for the corresponding number of attractive men, plus they have a ton of morons sending dick pics shilling for casual sex that doesn’t benefit women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:13 PM
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I haven’t seen any evidence in the niche dating apps showing that men don’t get hits. Try the old fuck app and see if women reply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:08 PM
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70% of profiles on tinder are men. What do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:49 AM
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Men chasing stacy again
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:44 AM
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What are the consequences of that preference exactly? If he pays for the date, he is owed sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:42 AM
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Again- all i have power over is myself. You’ve made it clear that whatever i do will be wrong. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:42 AM
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I think if people want to loudly complain about the flaws in others, they probably need to be less sensitive about people not liking what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:34 AM
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Men never shut up about what they don’t like in women. The issue comes in when some lardass man argues loudly that he is entitled to a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:10 AM
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So now people shouldn’t say what they like and don’t like? If i say what i like, i’m an asshole and everything i say is law If i don’t say what i like, i’m a people pleaser. Just say everything women do is wrong unless it is what you want them to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:09 AM
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People like what they like. So do men. Some men get really hostile when a woman insists on splitting the bill on dates, even though men endlessly whine about having to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:08 AM
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I pick sides. If i don’t like something, i say it. Isn’t that what you’re whining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:36 AM
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I disagree that not liking something is “immature”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:40 PM
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People can be grossed out by whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:53 PM
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Ok but nobody ever said friends are a substitute for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:47 AM
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Princess Charlotte will also have her pick of men. LOOK MEN ARE HYPERGAMOUS THIS ANECDOTE PROVES IT
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:48 AM
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Most guys in PPD seem to be endlessly whining that no woman wants them of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:32 AM
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Janet reno
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:53 PM
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He says he’s already having sex (for pay) and had friends. He doesn’t want that. He wants sex without paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:51 PM
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That’s the way it goes for most of us
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:46 PM
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Then you are in no rush
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:46 PM
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Or if gay guys kept nagging him to let them use him for holes. He’d hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:36 PM
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27 is a bit late for kids? LMAO, how many kids does he want? Most gen Z men only want one or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:33 PM
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Oh FFS. How is finding someone economically desperate enough to pretend to like him any kind of solution? I guarantee he can find someone decent in whatever country he is in. He hasn’t met anyone HE likes yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:32 PM
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Nobody ever said friendship is a substitute for romantic relationships to my knowledge. Mostly, friendships offer support and make you less alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:30 PM
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You’re only 27 ffs. Don’t give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:11 PM
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He wants sex without paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:10 PM
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If you’re lonely, friendships can help
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:07 PM
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Men are still more likely to commit crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:05 PM
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I already have a PhD, in a quant field. I’ve been on the grad admissions committee at 2 carnegie 1 schools That’s how i know how fucked up it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:05 PM
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Admissions already is extremely subjective, and add to that systemic cheating in some places on the GRE, GMAT etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:04 PM
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You nailed it. It isn’t just indians though. How the process “should be” is unfortunately not how it actually IS, and when some individuals have managed to accumulate sufficient numbers they completely circumvent all oversight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:03 PM
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Indeed. Once in positions of power, individuals tend to balkanize and aggressively favor admitting their countrymen and for grad programs the admissions criteria are extremely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:47 AM
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Because in many cases we will export a legitimate defense threat abroad. Also, our criteria for admission to grad programs are absolute trash, especially at the doctoral level. I know this because I’m currently on the admissions committee for our PhD program.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:46 AM
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Are you ok with many grad programs not admitting a single domestic (US citizen) student?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:32 AM
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Chasing stacy and then whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:45 AM
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I prefer the coffee date for the first date to anything else and i insist on paying my half so I can vet the individual. You’d be surprised how many men absolutely HATE this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:40 AM
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He’s also lying. No woman told him he should already be in love with her. She said no and now he’s mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:00 AM
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Are you obligated to do coffee dates with women you find repulsive and have no interest in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:57 AM
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But there are millions of threads here about how women past 30 hit the wall and those past childbearing age are worthless. Just take a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:17 PM
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Many men here have it covered. That’s why OP is paralyzed with fear- men have incorrectly convinced her they will one day have value and she won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:10 PM
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I guarantee nobody knows about international toilet day- but i have to say, indoor plumbing is fucking critical to health and quality of life so perhaps you should not look for ways to whine and be insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:52 AM
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The average older man is simply a less attractive version of him in his prime but with baggage, debt, and prostate problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:43 AM
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Constantly reiterating that women are never young enough, attractive enough, good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:41 PM
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OP brought up incels, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:40 PM
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That’s bullshit. You have never seen the inside of a psychology master’s program and it’s so fucking obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:50 PM
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Women only demonize your hobbies when they preclude you from handling your responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:38 PM
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Go to a male therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:37 PM
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It was established in 1992. Lmfao, you’ve had over 30 years to stop whining about international women’s day and celebrate international men’s day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:31 PM
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But that’s very selfish. You only care about yourself and not all the other suffering men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:29 PM
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Or, you can take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:29 PM
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Why don’t you deal with men’s mental health on international men’s day and everyday? What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:22 PM
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It’s amazing how every international women’s day, men whine about there being no international men’s day, even though there is, they just didn’t care enough to google it LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:18 PM
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The corporate media treats women like shit too. You control your consumption of corporate media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:17 PM
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Your mom maybe cares Your dad probably cares Outside of that absolutely noone else cares- and that is really why you’re angry. You’re desperate for validation, and it isn’t a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:14 PM
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Especially why bring up modi?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:12 PM
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In the 1950s women couldn’t open checking accounts. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:11 PM
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You made up 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:10 PM
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Incels spend all their time trash talking women on the internet because some woman they want won’t fuck them. Nobody wants men like this to ruin anyone’s life with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:09 PM
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It’s always the same story. A woman you felt entitled to had sex with someone you feel superior to and now you have dedicated your life to putting down all women who won’t give you validation. You don’t need permission from mommy. Go be single. Do whatever the fuck you want- literally noone cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:08 PM
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Go be single. What are you waiting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:04 PM
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I don’t know. I see attitudes changing alot with gen Z and alpha, though. Now it’s men that age whining about being single instead of women whining about wanting marriage. It’s interesting and i think it has to do with women in these age groups knowing they have to be financially independent from the jump and not wanting more than 2 kids at the absolute max.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:10 AM
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Agree completely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:08 AM
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Alot of employers do. It has to be mandatory for both parents though or it defaults to women and in turn contributes to the wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:14 AM
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Even better. No need to stay at home at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:12 AM
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Women work all kinds of shitty, un-prestigious jobs. These are jobs that cannot be outsourced and don’t take a ton of years of education.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:11 AM
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Over half of all med students in the UK are women. I haven’t heard of women abandoning med school or engineering in the netherlands or Germany either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:02 PM
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We have a skilled labor shortage in the US and i really hope we can get more women informed about how important these jobs are and involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:42 PM
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Scandinavia is a very tiny % of the world. Over half of all med students in pakistan, the US, and the UK are now women. Denmark has less than 6 million people and the US and pakistan have over 200 million and 350 million so it’s clear cherrypicking to focus on Scandinavia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:40 PM
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Cool. Has your warehouse gone to high schools to recruit? Or CDL programs? Do women know these job opportunities are there and what they pay? Personally i think operating a forklift is badass. I can see my 13 year old daughter really loving something like that. I’m assuming your workplace is a good place to work. My best friend is a construction engineer and men often made her profession miserable for women on the work site. My own profession is currently 80% men and i love it, more and more wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:35 PM
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Indeed, more and more women are entering male dominated fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:37 PM
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By all means they can decide, i am simply pointing out facts. SAHPS will never recover financially or professionally if (when) the marriage ends. And that’s if there is a marriage- morons also become SAHPs to boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:36 PM
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Sure. There should be mandatory parental leave for both parents. Then men can stay home after the women go back to work for a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:24 PM
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That has to stop. Women are doing more than pulling their weight- they’re doing all the unpaid labor and they need to channel that into careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:23 PM
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Men also should never stay home. Alimony is granted in only 10% of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:05 PM
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I’m not sure it is “allowed”. I don’t know of it actually happening. Perhaps anyone this happens to should address it to the court. You’re claiming it’s allowed, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:04 PM
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Women absolutely must stop staying at home with kids. Both parents work, split the housework 50/50 and contribute to childcare. It’s just too risky. You will sacrifice your career, skills development, retirement contributions, benefits and when the marriage ends it will be shit like this about how you deserve nothing because you agreed to stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:00 PM
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Do you have any statistics on what % is spent on prada bags? And what about his golf club membership and girlfriends which he pays before his kids’ school expenses?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:55 PM
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Look at the median household income. The vast majority of men don’t have that kind of money even if they weren’t paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:58 PM
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Divorced women with kids end up worse off than men with kids. Alimony is no longer gender based and does not occur in 90% of marriages. No woman should exit the workforce and stay home. It is too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:05 PM
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Meanwhile, men outside france can go to the pharmacy and get a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:19 PM
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We do. Women all over the world contribute to organizations that help women in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:18 PM
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Why don’t you rally the french men to protest? There’s a riot every time i visit france. What are you doing to support spanish and chilean members?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:15 PM
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Sure. I wasn’t criticizing your country, my mom is a foreigner and i never judge her country germany. Just, people (like you) talk alot of shit about things they are completely ignorant about. Sounds like your family court is a mess. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:14 PM
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The 10% stat is nationwide. 80% of custody cases outside the 50% are mediated and the mother getting 50% custody upon agreement with the father. When men approach the court they nearly always are awarded custody. don’t criticize America without the facts 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:25 PM
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And yes, in my shitty, burger loving country- alimony is no longer gender based and only occurs in 10% of divorces and most states have 50/50 custody rules too. Sorry you haven’t reached where america has. 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:11 PM
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Where? What countries are you referring to? He has every ability to go to a pharmacy and get DNA test. Why shouldn’t he support the kids HE MADE?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:10 PM
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Statistically it is women with kids who end up in poverty. Alimony only occurs in 10%’ of divorces and your shitty child support payment doesn’t cover half the cost of raising the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:33 PM
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Alimony only occurs in 10% of marriages and both parties need to pay for the kids. Stop lying. Your shitty child support payment does not cover the cost of raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:29 PM
12

Statistically, divorced women with end up in poverty. Statistically, women have way more to lose from marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:27 PM
5

Women who use men suck. Men who use women suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:24 AM
2

People who use other people suck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:22 AM
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Stop telling everyone how many people you fucked. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:49 AM
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Do a search in PPD on the word God or biblical
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:00 AM
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They seem post about the biblical role of women alot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:02 AM
3

They hate MGTOW. jesus told them all women must breed and be bangmaids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:55 PM
1

Lots of them admit it, including here in PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:53 PM
18

There is a WGTOW movement and men hate it because they feel entitled to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:23 AM
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Marriage offers no advantages to anyone. Alimony is only awarded in 10% of divorces. Women need to stop sacrificing their careers to raise kids and do housework because when the marriage ends the lost income, benefits, and advancement will never be recovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:21 AM
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The manosphere exists to monetize men’s egos by telling them it is women’s fault they can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:19 AM
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Yes, i didn’t raise the issue of abortion, i just responded. Again: Marriage should not automatically confer paternity. Men should not sign birth certificates until they are sure they are the father. Men can get a DNA test at the pharmacy for $29.99 in the US. It should be legal in all jurisdictions. If women lie about paternity they should be attached for damages in a fraud case. I truly don’t know how women live with this kind of lie because it is VERY risky and it will blow up lives. My daugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:45 AM
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I already said clearly i do not agree that marriage should automatically confer paternity. This should be changed legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:17 AM
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Here we go again- at the very bottom of all of this is that you are angry some woman you felt entitled to have sex with had sex with someone else and not you. It’s the woman’s fault for cheating. It’s the other guy’s fault for dumping his responsibility on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:59 PM
1

For every defrauded man, there is a biological father enjoying life at the expense of another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:26 PM
2

What makes you think bio dad didn’t dump his responsibility on other men? Men love to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:00 PM
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Get it in writing. Otherwise it’s he said, she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:56 PM
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I want to understand why men can’t go get a dna test at the pharmacy for $29.99 and quit making their private business a problem for everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:48 PM
1

Have it notarized
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:27 PM
1

The simp just needs to get the test from the pharmacy, noone is stopping him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:11 PM
1

Women can’t go to a pharmacy and pick up a no rape shield, the way you can get a DNA test, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:04 PM
1

That would not answer the question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:03 PM
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Then they can go to the pharmacy and get a DNA test. Not society’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:02 PM
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Get it in writing, as i said: “can you confirm that there are no other men you had sex with between these dates?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:02 PM
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Get it in writing, as i said: “can you confirm that there are no other men you had sex with between these dates?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:01 PM
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I’d never reproduce with a man who is too much of a pussy to go buy a DNA test from CVS and use it without causing a bunch of drama. I also couldn’t care less of he does. Don’t project your weakness on other men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:55 PM
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Men are too afraid to ask for a paternity test so they want the state involved in every birth. That’s what it comes down to. You have every opportunity to demand a paternity test and you have every opportunity to get one at the local pharmacy. You don’t want to do that because you’re scared of your babymama.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:53 PM
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She doesn’t have to prove she knew who the father is. He needs to prove with a preponderance of the evidence that she lied about there potentially being other fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:51 PM
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So, they’re scared of babymama? That’s on them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:48 PM
2

European countries also have restrictive laws in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:48 PM
1

You can pursue a defamation or fraud claim
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:47 PM
1

Same as any kid with a bio dad who dies or goes to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:46 PM
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You can ask if she had sex with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:44 PM
2

Adultery is not illegal. Fraud is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:43 PM
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Definitely get it in writing by your partner that you were their only sexual partner before the baby is born so you can demonstrate intent to deceive. It is not unreasonable to do the test before you sign the birth certificate. I agree that being married should not automatically confer paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:18 AM
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Bio dad needs to pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:34 AM
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She knew she fucked more than one person and if she lied about that when directly asked, you have evidence of deception
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:33 AM
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Go to the pharmacy and get a test and do it before signing the birth certificate. What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:32 AM
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Because men don’t want to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:31 AM
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“I had a vasectomy” “I am infertile”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:30 AM
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It can be prosecuted as fraud if there is a preponderance of the evidence that she was asked if there could be another potential father and lied. Best get these things in writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:29 AM
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Abortion is now restricted in nearly every state.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:28 AM
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If anyone cheats and transmits a disease it should prosecuted as assault
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:27 AM
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Same as any civil fraud claim. However: there needs to be a preponderance of the evidence that there was knowing deception. Make sure you get it in writing that you asked if you are the father and were told no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:26 AM
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So go to the pharmacy and get a DNA test and test the kid. Simple. Don’t sign the birth certificate until you do that. Nobody is stopping you from doing a DNA test.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:53 AM
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We all use roads and police and fire departments. I didn’t fuck your babymama. You work out your own trust issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:52 AM
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Don’t sign the birth certificate until you test.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:19 PM
1

Find a kid in the neighborhood and pay them $50, split it between both partners
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:10 PM
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Just go get the test from the pharmacy and do it. Why do you need to tell anyone? Put your big boy pants on and go to the pharmacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:09 PM
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So exercise your right by going to the pharmacy, getting a DNA test, and doing the test. I didn’t fuck your babymama so why am i paying for your test? You pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:01 PM
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He should get men to protest the law in france. He needs to mobilize people. I see the french rioting daily. They should handle it. However, i doubt he is part of the 34 million/8,000,000,000 percent of the world that is french men. Barring that he can get a DNA test at the pharmacy and do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:58 PM
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Are you in France?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:42 PM
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Sorry. Don’t sign the birth certificate until you get the results
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:33 PM
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Don’t sign the paternity test until you get the results
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:32 PM
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Who is stopping you from finding out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:32 PM
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Well, you wouldn’t have to wait 18 years to disengage from the child, right? And you wouldn’t have to sign the birth certificate 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:22 PM
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Every man can get a DNA test from the pharmacy and test any kid that is arguably theirs. Do it immediately after birth so the thread from yesterday about the 18 year old won’t apply to you. My kid looks nothing, NOTHING like me and if i hadn’t seen her physically extracted from my abdomen during a c section i might think she was switched at birth. And if she was and i found out 18 years later i would still consider her my daughter. I might still sue the hospital though. Men defrauded about pater…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:21 PM
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What is stopping you from going to the pharmacy and getting a paternity test and doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:15 PM
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Lots of us do. What’s so hard about cutting the grass??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:22 PM
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Community dick is not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:09 PM
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It’s bad because you had no volition. It’s bad because people are not their parents’ property. Again, if you think it is not bad, is this how you want to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:35 PM
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Yes. You asked what’s wrong with it. You should be able to answer that question based on whether you want someone to marry you because they are forced by their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:27 PM
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Do you want to marry someone forced into marriage with you or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:22 PM
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You want to marry whoever your mom wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:07 PM
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He wants free no strings attached sex on demand with no effort on his part and most women aren’t into charity work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:09 PM
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In the old days your family arranged your marriage and you shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:06 PM
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The problem isn’t guys who willingly pay or who say up front it’s 50/50. Guys like you aren’t the issue. I have dated guys like you, and if he won’t let me pay this time because he is polite i will insist I reciprocate maybe by cooking for him, taking him for dessert or drinks, or arranging a special date later and paying. I’m not going to allow anyone to feel taken advantage of. The problem comes in with guys who insist on paying just so they can get leverage. I prefer to pay my part to avoid t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:35 PM
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Fine, but you aren’t the one whining about paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:43 AM
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Because you’re misrepresenting the dating scene in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:24 AM
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Where does OP bring up broadway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:45 AM
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Women have to a large extent stopped dating and men are angrier than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:32 AM
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Even in the US the first date isn’t a broadway show. You have some wrong ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:23 AM
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LMAO! Europeans date. It isn’t the sexual free for all you are pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:12 AM
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Absolutely, i want someone who sees me as an equal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:36 AM
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Where? In much of the world people are railroaded into marriage early on by families.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:13 AM
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Many men want the leverage ex ante to guilt women into sex so they prefer to pay for dates. They will never ever give up this leverage and they will never voluntarily reduce their chances of getting sex. They will never announce up front that dates will be split because they do not want to restrict the pool of women who might otherwise fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:54 AM
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If women are involved
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:44 AM
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I’m not the one generalizing, OP is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:43 AM
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The video was made by an Australian advertising agency to market the effectiveness of the agency’s social media marketing abilities. The manosphere propagating the message was the best thing that could have happened for them. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:22 PM
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What percent of men carry their weight at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:14 PM
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When i insist on paying for dates men get angry and call me a feminist and say I’m trying to be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:13 PM
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Is men’s weaponized incompetence in housework and child care also benevolent sexism? They should also be treated as equals in these matters
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:22 PM
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Ex ante, men like the benevolent sexism of paying for dates because they like the financial leverage they think will get them sex. If paying for the date doesn’t yield sex, well then they don’t like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:20 PM
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Some women in spain = an entire political party??? Some women in spain = “feminists”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:47 PM
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Policing paradigms have changed, especially as police and legal systems began dealing increasingly with IPV between same sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:05 AM
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I’ve observed the opposite with 3 of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:14 AM
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This used to be true. And most DV resulting in injury is still man on man or man on woman. It is no longer true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:47 AM
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Some women having an extreme position is not “feminism in spain”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:00 PM
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So you found a handful of people in spain and you have decreed they are the spokespeople for feminism? Fine then, all men believe you should be able to rape your wife because a few men online say that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:06 PM
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I’m a woman and also paying taxes for kids that aren’t mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:28 PM
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That one study of female teachers -in chile- does NOT show what you think it does. It actually shows that after you control for work effort and attitude there is no gender bias in grading. I have refuted this study so many times citing the actual text of the robustness tests section Since you cite this study, i now know you are an active consumer of hard right, red pill media which continually lies to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:27 PM
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You have obviously seen something on tiktok that makes you believe this. Where do you find this shit? I acknowledge that men are struggling and that life isn’t easy for anyone. The economy is shitty, there is no job stability, everyone is disposable in this society. Absolutely fucking true. Women are also struggling in every fucking aspect of life. Their ability to control their own fertility is being curbed in many places legally even when it threatens their lives. Women still do a disproportio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:24 PM
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You know nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:52 AM
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Alot of women don’t have casual sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:21 PM
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Women aren’t delusional. Losers on old/instagram spamming every single woman begging to use them for holes isn’t validation. We know it isn’t about us, it’s about him seeking a sentient fleshlight to make him feel good about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:29 PM
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Bullshit. The “attention” women get is guys desperately scrambing to find any sentient fleshlight they can use for 2 minutes to feel validated. That isn’t the attention most women want. It isn’t a compliment either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:27 PM
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Because he cannot get anything else no matter how great his mom and OP think he is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:26 PM
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Sounds like OP wants to fuck him and can’t understand why women don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:24 PM
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Men have low standards when they want to use someone for holes. They feel entitled to way better for anything more. Most women don’t want to be used as holes and it is tiring to screen through all these men seeking holes to find one that is worth spending time with. A date doesn’t entitle anyone to sex - even if you pay. If you want sex because you’re paying, go to a professional. In my opinion dates should be split 50/50 so men don’t feel entitled to use women as masturbation devices. However, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:13 PM
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Too time consuming, and the expected payoff to women from casual sex is low
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:57 PM
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Why would i waste time tweezing through a bunch of douchebags who just want a sentient fleshlight?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:44 PM
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Aging does not imply that your equally aged male partner won’t want you. Nobody wants your male partner either. It is exclusively women being terrified about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:24 PM
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The fact that no women wants them stops them from dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:23 PM
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Alot of men are angry that men they think are worse than them get laid by some woman they want and become permanently unhinged because of ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:18 PM
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This is something that needs to change societally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:16 PM
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Yeah, and most people aren’t looking for fat balding middle aged men with prostate problems either. Nobody really wants most men of ANY age, much less older. It shouldn’t be a paralyzing fear where people are terrified.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:09 PM
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You found 1 woman who believes there is a wall. There isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:49 PM
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People are not in the wrong for getting a divorce. You cannot forecast at 25 what people will be like at 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:48 PM
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Women don’t have the exclusive right to leave for no reason. Men leave all the time just because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:45 PM
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Men have always complained that women aren’t doing all they want on demand for free. It’s what they do. Young men are just frustrated they cannot coerce financially and rape their wives without consequence as in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:27 AM
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Endlessly chasing women way out of their leagues physically who use them for money and then whining about paying for dates but not getting sex. PPD is full of these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:34 AM
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Ok, then they aren’t alive to feel persecuted by all these mean hypergamous women, right? They’re dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:49 AM
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Or, she doesn’t feel like screening through 10000000 dick pics on tinder or going on 1000 dates to find one guy who isn’t looking for holes. I know tons of guys personally who are constantly chasing and rejected by Stacy who are chronically sexless and now blame women for their inability to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:43 AM
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Why are so many men bamboozled by Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:40 AM
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Finding men who will masturbate using your body is easy for women. Nothing else is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:21 PM
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Women don’t want to get 100000 dick pics requesting sex on demand from which the man will get an orgasm and she won’t. Do you want to get spammed by women seeking to use you as an ATM machine?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:23 AM
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All of them are. They also aren’t as hot irl as they look in their pictures. 70% of people on dating apps are men and the majority are circling through every available woman seeking a sentient fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:04 PM
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Women are very well aware that the legions of men spamming them to use them for holes are also spamming every other available woman for the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:03 PM
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It’s literally the census. Go ahead and show your data then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:04 PM
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Only 24% of American men aged 40-50 are childless. https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/publications/2019/demo/P70-162.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:54 PM
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Quite the contrary, there are so many lonely unwanted men available
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:52 PM
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People can long for whatever they want. Way too many men feel entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:23 AM
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Over 70% of men reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:47 AM
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At someone else’s expense. It’s not enough to just give them what they want to shut them up anymore. They need to hear how great they are as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:46 AM
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Why would they pay for something they feel entitled to get for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:22 AM
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This is an outright lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:22 AM
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There are tons or poor women in these countries - what are you talking about? It’s clear that you have no idea what goes on in places like manila. There is a difference between guys who date abroad in general and passport bros, I agree with that. For an example of how passport bros think, go to the subreddit. They make it clear they intent to exploit very poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:34 PM
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It’s been part of lots of feminist movements for decades, including Code Pink which indeed did the pussy cap thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:03 PM
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They have fought to eliminate it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:22 PM
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Feminists absolutely fight against the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:19 PM
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I don’t care if they “win”. I’d love to export all of them. That doesn’t make them not predators. I’m not talking about guys who meet women abroad who they like here by the way. I am specifically talking about men who purposefully exploit desperate women with the intention to abuse them. You can find many such men bragging on r/passportbros.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:10 AM
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I’m an expat and have been to those places. They absolutely go to rural areas and there is desperate poverty in cities like manila as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:08 AM
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I never said women outside the west are stupid. I said some in poor countries are despair due to a lack of economic opportunity which is absolutely true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:06 AM
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Where did i say it’s wrong for men and right for women to exploit people?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:05 AM
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Of course you can. Passport bros flock to places with high poverty where women have few options to have a decent quality of life in any way other than tolerating abuse by some man with the hopes of getting a passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:26 PM
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It’s a unique perspective men have about women’s sexuality that makes abortion different from cancer. Most pro life men eventually get around to admitting that they want to control punish women for having sex by denying them control over their fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:55 AM
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For alot of these guys they become unhinged the minute a woman they feel entitled to won’t fuck them and dares to want someone other than them. I noticed a strong correlation between men being strongly pro life and having had a woman escape their control through an abortion as well. They don’t give a fuck about abortion, they just want to make sure no woman can ever escape them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:39 AM
1

Mean, median, standard deviation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:33 AM
1

You’re avoiding the question. You have 4,000,000,000 women that you could potentially fuck. Gay men have a small fraction of that, so if a gay man wants to use you for holes, why aren’t you obligated to make his life more fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:06 AM
1

Of course it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:28 PM
4

Do whatever you want. Just, don’t expect to get any action and don’t whine when you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:05 PM
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No, i didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:51 AM
2

Women were, legally, PROPERTY of their fathers and then husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:50 AM
1

Is life unfair to gay men because they are only 5% of the population or not? Are you obligated to let gay men use you or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:50 AM
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200 years ago you would have had an arranged or forced marriage and raped your wife while she laid there because she had no choice or, if you had any self respect you would pay for sex elsewhere to spare her death by childbirth after the 10th kid you couldn’t afford to feed. You were not the 1%. Your life would not have been what what you think it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:38 AM
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I didn’t say incels have bad genes or shouldn’t reproduce. You are making shit up. I said noone is obligated to reproduce with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:36 AM
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What “flaws” are you referring to? That’s the way society was. Women were property up until 100 years ago and still subject to coerced marriage in many places worldwide. Up until recently women were still pressured to get married young. That way some man had access to sex, and marital rape was legal. That has stopped in the west, which is why you can’t get laid. Still, look around. Shitty, useless men reproduce every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:26 AM
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Ok. Well, i hear there are some wars on- men are doing what you believe they were made to do worldwide. I don’t know what you mean by a select few. Most men had no real power over their lives either. They worked some shit job in agriculture, war, mining, or manufacturing and then they died. Nobody gave a fuck about them either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:22 AM
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I don’t think anyone “deserves” to be unwanted due to anything they’ve done at all. I just don’t know what you want women to do about unwanted men. It’s unfair that gay people only have 5% of the world to choose from. That doesn’t imply they are owed sex by straight men to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:17 AM
2

Ask the guy I responded to what he means by “incel”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:14 AM
4

The person i responded to asked why there are incels and I responded. He used that word, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:58 AM
6

Of course. Mediocre women who think they are entitled to “chad” are also fucking delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:50 AM
2

Are you an incel? Most incels I have ever met are driven by rejection by some woman they felt entitled to who escaped their control. They can’t take criticism or rejection because they’re weak and so they seek a way to blame women so they can avoid looking at themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:49 AM
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Also, historically, most men had no choice either. They married who they were told to marry and their wives begrudgingly had sex with them because they had no choice. Most men slaved their whole lives under shit conditions to feed all the kids their wives had no choice but to shit out, and then they died.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:47 AM
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Entitlement is why we have incels. Throughout history, mediocre men got married because women were property and had no choice. This created a sense of entitlement on behalf of men, and incels resent that they cannot get what they want from women by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:44 AM
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I hope it decreases the population of people who think they are geniuses but believe stupid shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:39 AM
4

When i call the police i don’t ask for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:30 AM
4

It’s not like you’re going to be able to defend anyone so don’t worry about it. I pay the police through taxes so presumably they can do their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:15 AM
2

Such an angry little man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:32 AM
-1

This is the social issue. Men want wives who stay at home to do all the unpaid shit work but then won’t be honest up front by getting a prenup because nobody in their right mind would throw away their lives to be a servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:30 AM
-1

Sounds like you’re bitter that your failure to plan has consequences, but that’s typical redpill shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:35 PM
1

Nobody actually cares about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:34 PM
6

I have a 9mm so i didn’t ask you to protect me from rape. You wouldn’t be able to protect anyone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:33 PM
0

Anyone who doesn’t have a prenup risks paying alimony. If you don’t get a prenup and you marry someone you let stay at home, put your big boy pants on and pay alimony and child support. Those were your stupid choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:37 PM
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Child support is no longer gender based and it is not alimony. Stop fucking lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:35 PM
4

Another angry little man with rape fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:34 PM
5

It’s true though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:36 PM
0

Only 10% of divorces involve alimony. Stop lying. Divorced women with kids disproportionately end up in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:35 PM
3

Yes. Women could divorce in islam a thousand years ago. Catholic women still cannot to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:29 PM
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Well, we all know why you can’t get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:25 PM
2

Yes, that’s what i said. If you want something you need to provide something of value instead of demanding it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:26 PM
5

You can pay for sex. Whether you are happy about paying for it is up to you. Women are not your slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:44 PM
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You can think other people owe you sex and/or money- but they don’t. You will spend your life miserable that you didn’t get things you were never entitled to to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:33 PM
2

They aren’t. What more proof do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:22 PM
23

Men are not ATM machines Women are not sentient fleshlights
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:20 PM
42

Nobody is entitled to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:05 AM
1

Why would anyone know who men fuck unless he tells them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:16 AM
2

They are paying for sex, not being liked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:15 AM
1

Men want casual no strings attached sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:14 AM
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Their body, their choice, so long as noone is being coerced. I’d rather people pay than mislead people or use the political system to railroad women into early marriage so men can get sex, which is what they are trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:14 AM
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You are well within your rights if fat ugly women are posting in a fucking debate group that they are entitled to sex with you to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:27 AM
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80% of PPD is men whining that they can’t get laid. Then men like you come here and say you expect services from women for free. Then, you get pissy because nobody is supposed to say out loud that you suffer from an entitlement mentality, whine about it, and say it’s actually my fault for participating in a debate group. Now you know why there are legions of unwanted surplus men in the world not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:26 AM
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What is cruel about what i said? You want something for cheap from people where you offer nothing in return. Then you complain. Do you feel others are entitled to services from you that, ex ante, benefit only them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:14 AM
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Ok, but when you try to get discounts you aren’t always successful, so guys shouldn’t be constantly whining about not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:11 AM
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So stop all this engaging with women in any way other than purely transactional. You both get what you want, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:39 PM
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Stop listening to women. Just open your wallet and pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:36 PM
3

You can pay for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:15 PM
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Just pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:15 PM
3

Then pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:15 PM
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Right, men own the policies on their wives. Fewer women own policies on their husbands. I guess the wives get social security. 2009 study https://acsjournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/cncr.24577 Another study https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22956304/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:27 PM
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I didn’t say he was a cheater. I said they broke up and when people break up, they’re single. YOU’RE the one claiming she cheated because she fucked someone else while she was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:20 PM
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The 2009 one is about MS as well. And the benefits “stick” to both. Presumably, men collect insurance policies on their wives as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:19 PM
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I wonder why, if it’s a problem to HIM and not to YOU, that he’s not pressed over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:16 PM
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The 2015 study that was retracted was not the only study showing this. The 2009 study found the same thing: “Gender disparity in the rate of partner abandonment in patients with serious medical illness”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:42 PM
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Men don’t give women “space to be human” LMAO. What a crock of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:55 AM
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Actually- Men abandon sick wives in alarming numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:54 AM
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Noone will ever be loved the way they really want. That’s the reality. Men want this perfect virgin and also whore exclusively for him who contributes financially and does all the unpaid labor and is selfless and asks for nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:54 AM
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No, i’m assuming so because they had broken up and when you break up you can do whatever the fuck you want. Are you assuming he was celibate while they were broken up and he was single? If not, what was the agreement between the two of them about who it was permissible to fuck? Why do you care when stafford clearly doesn’t? Maybe he and his backup QB bang all the same women and they get off on this. Maybe that’s why he DOESN’T want a virgin. He’s into sharing and whatever other shit. Maybe if he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:18 AM
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How do you know what the men here did? One banged his homie’s (ex) girlfriend apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:16 AM
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Like all these NFL players don’t cheat? Maybe we should worry more about men’s pasts. Who did he bang when they were “on break”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:15 AM
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How do women do more work at home while still working outside the home? Easy, stay up late, get up early, and forgo other things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:41 AM
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We cannot go back in time so it is irrelevant what happened historically
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:39 AM
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Stop dating women who make less
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:29 AM
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Yes, i want to go by this metric. The working partner agrees to these terms: even if there are no kids, the partner who is at home supporting the career of the partner working for pay, could, in sone tiny part of that 10% of divorces where there are no kids, get alimony. DO NOT MARRY OR HAVE KIDS WITH SOMEONE WGO STAYS AT HOME AND DO NOT STAY AT HOME. Seems very clear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:07 AM
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Men and women can get alimony if the agreement was that they sacrificed their career to raise kids and support the other partner’s career. That was the agreement KNOWING the party that sacrificed their career and retirement contributions could end up in the 10% that gets compensated with alimony. If this is unacceptable to you then do not marry someone who wants to stay at home and do your half of the unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:37 PM
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He will have to pick up tiring unpaid work his wife currently does. He will lose on demand childcare Why would he do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:31 PM
2

Absolutely women do more childcare and housework
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:15 PM
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Men will have to do childcare and housework once the wife is gone. Why would they want to do that if they don’t have to? There is a cost to men to doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:01 PM
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Alimony is no longer gender based and presently only occurs in 10% of divorces based on some sacrificing a career to stay at home- so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:55 PM
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But even when women work equal hours outside the home, they are doing more work inside the home to the point where it impairs women’s careers. Also, what your dad did is irrelevant. We are not going back in time to marry your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:50 PM
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Unpaid work isn’t women’s work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:34 PM
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They have nothing to gain from divorce until they line up another woman to do unpaid work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:53 AM
2

Why assume that the woman has a problem? Men drop women they don’t like all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:19 AM
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The majority of redpillers i know got that way because a woman they wanted to control got out of their control and left them, or because a woman they felt entitled to sleep with fucked someone other than them. The mentality is that sluts are women who have sex with men other than them. Similarly, most pro life men i know have had the experience of a woman they wanted to control permanently escaping by getting an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:58 AM
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The article is published by an industry source. The ultimate source of the data is statista. https://www.businessofapps.com/data/tinder-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:32 PM
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OP thinks he is nice or has a friend who is nice to OP. OP or the friend are not really nice and some woman rejected them and now OP wants to blame the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:50 PM
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I’ve witnessed firsthand guys that pretended to be nice and definately were not and then whined like the OP that women lost interest because they are nice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:47 PM
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https://datingzest.com/tinder-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:43 PM
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Dating apps are 70% men. Perhaps this is not the right way to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:55 AM
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Gandhi could have easily gotten laid. He made a vow of celibacy. Modern western men could never voluntarily achieve anything at that level. Look at you clowns trying to overthrow the government a couple januaries ago. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:42 AM
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Most of you don’t have standards. You just want to make women feel small enough to settle for you because you know you have nothing to offer and you want to make women feel bad that you can’t get laid as revenge for not giving you sex on demand. Actually- there are men with standards who are clear about their standards up front rather than starting relationships or having sex with women and only THEN deciding she isn’t up to your standards. Anyway nobody owes you approval. Nobody has to agree wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:31 PM
2

And yet, a paper from 2018 of actual Koreans shows what i’m saying is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:04 PM
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The academic research is not feminist sound bites.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:03 PM
1

I’m saying alot of men exclusively use women to avoid parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:53 AM
2

Expectations of women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:37 AM
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Gender bias as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:37 AM
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A relationship and a man in her life are the same thing and she can now get financial security on her own. What exactly do you offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:11 AM
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“Gender equity issues…” But hey, what do Koreans know? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5860778/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:10 AM
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Ok. Let’s ask some koreans https://www.chosun.com/english/national-en/2024/02/10/JGHD46ZZMJE6PGAZZJEJEPGL54/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:06 AM
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What do you have to offer your child’s mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:58 AM
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Ok. Well, most women who are willing to chain themselves to a man also want monogamy so i guess the fertility rate will continue to fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:58 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Korean women do not want to be trapped into a redpill fantasy and they are staying single ON PURPOSE. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-68402139.amp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:57 AM
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One reason Korea is failing as a society is because nobody wants to get married and have kids in a work-obsessed highly masculine culture. It is way too stressful for men and unfulfilling for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:32 AM
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They can’t even get laid, they can’t correct the course of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:30 AM
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Men do not want to do unpaid labor. It all comes down to that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:29 AM
1

Perhaps since men are committing suicide more than women they should get on antidepressants
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:26 AM
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Children need mothers = i don’t want to do the unpaid labor required to raise children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:24 AM
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Gross. Women need to view themselves as partners and contribute. Men are not ATM machines. This is dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:46 PM
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Foreign women are relatively poor and have few opportunities to improve their financial situation on their own, so his measly $60k looks good. Western women can also easily go abroad and get used for money and passports by men seeking opportunity. Don’t let the availability of desperate people make you think you’re worth something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:24 PM
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Actually, the guy who is a 2 and gets a woman who is a 4 will never stop telling her she isn’t good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:01 PM
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Men who think they are 5s are actually 2s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:59 PM
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But they don’t. Women overwhelmingly settle. Look around- complete, mediocre losers get married and have kids. The median income is like $60k; the median man is still getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:56 PM
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The main problem is that many men feel entitled to women they will never get -because the median man simply has nothing to offer in a society where women are financially independent. They actually do not respect women at their level, either because they do not see themselves for what they really are or because they simply feel entitled to someone hotter. So they settle, but then they keep seething with resentment because they think “chad” is stopping them from getting someone hotter. This entitl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:40 PM
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It isn’t bad. The problem is they despise any woman willing to be with them because they believe they deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:34 PM
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The problem is that the average man has little to offer anyone. What they “want” is irrelevant. What they can get is relevant. They can either be alone or they can settle for what wants them, the choice is theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:28 AM
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I don’t want to pass on your values, that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:27 AM
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What do you want women to do to make you not cause violence and chaos? By the way, young men in islamic countries that join terrorist groups have every access to women. They typically marry young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:06 AM
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Why do people struggle so hard with averages?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:55 AM
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Sweet nice girls get fucked over everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:08 PM
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There are legions of unwanted men. They desperately want to intimidate women into settling for them so they can get laid, and the biggest threat to them is women who don’t need to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:02 PM
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I said the AVERAGE 40 year old man isn’t inspiring anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:43 PM
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I mean, by definition, i said AVERAGE, not all 40 year old men. Averages permit outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:28 PM
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Anecdotes are not data.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:39 PM
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The average 40 year old isn’t inspiring lust in anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:23 PM
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The problem is that most men are never really attractive at any age and this doesn’t improve over time. Giving men false hope is dangerous. The 19/20/21 year old women willing to bang old guys are not that high quality. If they were, they’d get hot guys in their primes… middle aged men think these much younger women are great simply because they are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:21 PM
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Being wrong about literally everything makes you a low value man, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:22 PM
2

Need men for what? I have a mechanic, own property, hire carpenters and cook my own food. Many women who are propositioned early are busy with higher education and careers. It’s not hard to find a man to proposition you. There are literally 4 billion men in the world. In my experience there is always some man available willing to bang/date/marry you- this is as true at 30/40/50 as at 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:52 AM
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Because it’s true, and both sides need to be heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:50 AM
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Absolutely the same for women, except when he has his midlife crisis she is stuck with kids and he isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:56 AM
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LMAO!!! The world is full of low value surplus unwanted lonely men. Now you want to restrict the pool to women under 26?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:54 AM
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You think you are so much wiser and you have perfect foresight. If that is the case, you don’t need to worry about no fault divorce, it won’t apply to you at all, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:35 PM
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How are they more stable?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:34 PM
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It’s that you think you know way more than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:22 PM
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And the number of men paying it is also becoming negligible
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:22 PM
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I’m saying it’s fucking stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:08 PM
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Again: we have someone who in other posts, is saying he is fine with no fault applying to emotional abuse situations as well because then he can just get revenge and waste his life that way. It’s fucking STUPID.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:04 PM
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What are you talking about? You think you have deep insight into others and i promise you, you don’t. Not now, and not projecting decades into the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:03 PM
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And that’s terrible. That’s my point. It’s also an outright LIE and alot of people don’t want to live a lie. Alot of men here seem to think THEIR life won’t be wasted by trapping a woman in a marriage she doesn’t want to be in. They’re fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:02 PM
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Why bother? How is not renewing better than divorcing? Just so you don’t have to admit to being divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:00 PM
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You find the case that being married to someone who absolutely hates being around you would be grounds for divorce “weak”? LMAO, i hope you don’t find out the hard way that this will destroy you and your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:59 PM
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The problem is, he’s saying that ONLY adultery would have consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:58 PM
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You suffer from the illusion of control. YOU are the one who will “vet properly” and nothing will change for decades. YOU will be happy with starfish sex for decades YOU will never seek affection elsewhere …sure. I’ve heard it all before from men who end up divorcing their wives without legal cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:57 PM
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Actions are driven by how a perceives themselves and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:52 PM
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Men who oppose no-fault divorce: Imagine being married to someone who is only with you because of moral obligation and the law as a prison. She scowls when you touch her. Ignores you. No intimacy, no validation, no affection, no companionship. She cannot stand you. She fucking resents you because she can’t leave. She fantasizes about other guys and starts to resent you even more. It’s a dead bedroom. To avoid fault she lays there during sex. She makes it clear she cannot stand sex with you. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:51 PM
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Your poor children stuck in the middle of this. But, enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:42 PM
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Great, keep fighting. Keep blowing all your time and money in court, keep being miserable just so you can demonstrate fault, and she will too. Much preferable to walking away. I feel sad for your poor kids
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:41 PM
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They want the financial leverage ex ante, but ex post, only want the obligation if she performs exactly as THEY envisioned her acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:40 PM
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Nope. It is people learning over time who their true self always was. You do not yet have the life experience to understand this and you suffer from the illusion of control. This will be correct over the course of your life, at great cost to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:39 PM
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Have you ever had to live in a bad marriage due to “moral obligations”? Have you ever been in a relationship where the other person was only with you due to “moral obligation”? It can happen to you, too. Would you be happy? You know your wife can’t stand you, but is trapped by moral obligation to stay with you. No intimacy, no affection, nothing, just her holding out until you can’t take it anymore and now she can demonstrate fault because you cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:37 PM
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I did. He mentioned cheating. I commented on things less easy to prove but still horrible to live with. He then ignored me and said some bullshit about revenge in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:34 PM
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How is it possibly preferable to live separate lives than to simply divorce and move on? It makes NO LOGICAL SENSE. Why would anyone want to waste their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:33 PM
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People absolutely do change over decades. People absolutely do learn to hide anger issues. People absolutely do manipulate others into believing they would never lie, cheat, or abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:35 PM
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Because many make the mistake of forgoing career progression in order to have children and raise them. This needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:34 PM
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Again, you have to prove emotional abuse. Is this how you want to live your life, recording people, baiting them into arguments, trying to collect evidence for court while still being married, etc? Because she’s definately going to be the same to counter your claims and she is going to accuse you of emotional abuse too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:33 PM
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Yeah, people don’t stay the same forever. This is delusional thinking. You will simply have many more miserable lonely married people who hate each other in the absence of no fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:31 PM
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Alot of men are about to be VERY unhappily trapped in marriages with women who hate them, unable to divorce or have affairs or whatever else it is they ordinarily do when have a midlife crisis or feel entitled to something more out of life. No fault divorce might mean it is harder for them to leave you. It doesn’t mean they won’t ruin your life, just you also cannot divorce them without cause. Hello dead bedrooms x 1,000,000, LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:26 PM
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Women nowadays are much more financially independent. That’s what redpill men are so pressed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:23 PM
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Pro sports players should get prenups
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:22 PM
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As long as women no longer stay at home and out of the workforce and the couple contributes financially equally to any assets they buy- even if that then means they never buy any assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:19 PM
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The answer to no spousal support is noone staying home with kids EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:17 PM
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Women absolutely need to stop that and they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:17 PM
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Men do not want 50/50 custody. Few fight for custody. Most simply agree in mediation to dump the kids on the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:16 PM
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Alimony is also no longer gender based when it’s granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:15 PM
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So it your wife emotionally abuses you, no way out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:14 PM
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Men want to go back to the days when they could cheat and women couldn’t leave because they were trapped financially
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:09 PM
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And the fertility rate has fallen. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:32 AM
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Men directly benefit from the unpaid labor of women, and even “decent guys” have been taught they are entitled to this. Unfortunately, that is the reality. Many “decent guys” are also liars when it comes to what they will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:20 AM
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The systematic bias is in women leaving careers to do unpaid labor that benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:25 PM
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In which state is FULL custody awarded to mothers by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:33 PM
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Alimony is no longer gender based.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:30 PM
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Noone should be drafted. However, men cannot demand women be drafted and then at the same time block every effort of women to be in combat roles. Everyone has a timeline for contraception. For women, depending on which state she is in, her timeline is either equal to the man’s or within a few weeks of the man’s. His timeline ends when he forgoes control of his genetic material by injecting it into someone else’s body. Hers is whenever the men in the state legislature she lives in terminates her …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:28 PM
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If some gay guy kept whining to straight guys how unfair it is he can’t get laid when he wants, yes, straight men would absolutely tell him to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:45 PM
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If i see shit like that where people are talking about culls i will call it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:44 PM
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Men would and have done way worse when a gay guy presumes to approach them for sex. You know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:29 PM
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And yes, in this very group, men have said women deserve to have their reproductive rights taken away because some men cannot get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:23 PM
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Men are offered sympathy but they are not satisfied with that. What more do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:22 PM
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Then what is it men want exactly? Sympathy? What will make you happy? Women and straight men do not want to do charity sex so other people can feel validated. What is it you’re looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:57 PM
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But it IS entitlement. What exactly do you want from women? I don’t think sympathy is enough. Men will not be happy unless they get sex from whoever they want. Life sucks for lots of people. Only 10% of the population is gay. 45% of the population is available to straight men, only 5% for gay men. How much time to you spend feeling sorry for them? Do you owe them sex because their lives are hard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:54 PM
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The statistics cited are for women who also work full time, not for women who stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:36 PM
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It is unfair that only 5% of the world is gay men. This restricts their pool of partners and this is unfair. Should straight men be forced to not reject gay men who want sex with them, just because the situation is unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:28 PM
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I feel sad you struggle to get laid. What exactly do you want women to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:21 PM
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An hour DAILY, and just on housework. “About 91 % of women with children spend at least an hour per day on housework, compared with 30 % of men with children. The latest available data shows that employed women spend about 2.3 hours daily on housework; for employed men, this figure is 1.6 hours. Gender gaps in housework participation are the largest among couples with children, at 62 p.p. (Figure 15), demonstrating an enduring imbalance in unpaid care responsibilities within families[2] .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:14 PM
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Many women work as many hours or more. Then come home to another full time job because the guy won’t pay for things he feels entitled to get for free
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:13 PM
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What woman is he paying to do it exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:02 PM
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Men don’t want to pay for a maid. Why would they pay for services they feel entitled to get for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:00 PM
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Good luck finding a man these days who can fix your computer or do car repairs LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:00 PM
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Oh really? With increasing tech and automation, most of us have had and continue to have huge changes in job requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:45 AM
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But most women DON’T have kids with the bad boys. Normal everyday “nice guys” have also been raised with deep entitlement to a wife that will do all the unpaid work related to them and their kids, and also contribute financially by working outside the home. Accordingly, once you have kids, as a woman, you are stuck until it is absolutely unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:44 AM
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If the work is commeasurate with childcare and not marriage, why the fuck is only women doing it?? Divorced men with shared custody and single fathers would also do it so they should do it in the context of marriage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:36 AM
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You do know that “nice guys” (unattractive losers) also leave. There is literally no man you can trust to have children with. This is why the fertility rate is so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:31 AM
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Women leave after trying everything possible. Men have nothing to lose from staying in a marriage where they treat their wives like shit. They lose from having to do all the childcare and shit work when they divorce and have shared custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:24 PM
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Why would i be an unmarried mother at all? Married women are buried under both work and household obligations and men are not doing their share.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:23 PM
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What a crock of shit. Men leave ALL THE TIME. The poverty indicators are full of women with kids some mam left.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:28 PM
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Women feel rejected all the time. It often occurs after having kids and being dumped for someone else, which is a far harder hole to dig out of than not getting a sate. Obviously it affects our mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:20 PM
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False hope. Being sold the dream. Wanting to “do the right thing” and have kids in the context of marriage. Marriage no longer provides long term security or companionship. It is a terrible deal for many men and women, although men are able to scavenge some unpaid labor in terms of childcare for kids they will get equal access to in many states now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:16 PM
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You cannot logically expect everyone to immediately see your value or be attracted to you no matter how great you believe you are. We all deal with rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:37 PM
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“the hospitals won’t hire me as a brain surgeon even though i think i’m qualified, how can i deal with the rejection?” “The airlines won’t hire me as a commercial pilot even though i can fly a cessna, how can i deal with the rejection?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:33 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:37 AM
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Mediocre men will never turn down sex for any reason. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:35 AM
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It isn’t picky to want to enjoy spending time with someone. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:18 PM
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I am not picky, i am speaking generally. Personally, i have found plenty of good guys, but people are not interchangeable parts. Two really cool people might not be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:15 PM
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No, they don’t. Finding a man to use you for holes is not hard but finding someone decent to enjoy life with really is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:11 PM
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What is not factual in what I’m saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:35 PM
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Do these men get spammed with dick pics and images of hideous women, knowing full well these same people are sending the same shit to every other man they can find?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:08 PM
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Because tradwives benefit men. Why would men complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:50 PM
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Men are not really attracted to a wider range of women if we’re being honest. Men are willing to use a wider range of women to masturbate on because they are assured an orgasm from casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:48 PM
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The risks to women of casual sex are much higher than for men and the chance of an orgasm from casual sex are magnitudes lower than for a man. Casual sex with unattractive men is basically charity work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:32 PM
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“Recent history” including thousands of years where women were chattel and ownership of women was routinely transferred between men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:23 PM
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Straight men want alot attention from women they want to fuck. Women they are not attracted to and gay men should remain silent and invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:21 PM
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Not even unattractive. There are legions of surplus, unwanted men of all ages, and many of them are reasonably attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:49 AM
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15 years ago men didn’t spend all their time scouring for sex on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:48 AM
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Relationships end. That’s not on you. What is on you is to just pay for sex if that is all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:01 AM
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Right, women do not have the same appetite for casual sex. They take huge risks and they are not likely to have an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:01 AM
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It’s very offensive to assume that women who won’t fuck you will later use you as a retirement plan. Let’s alert the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:59 AM
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Because you’re complaining that you shouldn’t have had to wait. What exactly is your solution then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:06 AM
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How can sex be less scarce to them unless women let them use them for holes? Why don’t you just pay for sex so everyone gets what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:00 AM
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No, you apparently do because you’re whining about not getting casual sex from women who only want sex in the context of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:45 AM
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Stacy won’t fuck him. He’s mad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:42 AM
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Why are so many more men than women on dating apps then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:40 AM
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If only women wanted you for a backup retirement plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:39 AM
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So the solution is for women you’re attracted to but who aren’t attracted to you to let you use them for holes? Otherwise, all women are penalized for not letting you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:37 AM
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Again- you only think being used for holes is a compliment because nobody is trying to use you for holes. A man being willing to masturbate on you doesn’t mean he finds you desirable. It means he wants validation from masturbating on someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:45 PM
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I wish for one second gay men had the entitlement to bang you that straight men do with women. You would then understand how tiring it is to filter through 1000 assholes seeking sex to find the handful of decent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:25 PM
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You have to screen through all the dick pics to find the good ones
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:53 PM
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It’s simply an observation of men on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:39 AM
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Feminism is stopping you from getting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:15 PM
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You can want whatever you want, but you are not satisfied with that. What you want comes at the expense of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:41 PM
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Of course. It can’t be them, because they’re perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:49 AM
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Men don’t want the responsibility that goes along with their entitlement to sex with whoever they want whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:26 AM
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Most people are never really appreciated or desired for who they are. Men think having someone want to use them as a sentient fleshlight means that they are desired, and it doesn’t. It means some man wants a hole and validation along with it, and doesn’t give a shit what human being that is attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:24 AM
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Just this guy. Women everywhere will tell him to fuck off of any alternatives are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:02 PM
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How do you know? What did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:23 PM
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Wherever women lack the economic power to tell him to fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:51 AM
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Look at the TFR, it’s well below 2 among educated people. The set of people who don’t want kids, or put them off as long as possible is NOT a small subset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:31 PM
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People end up at their level
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:29 PM
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You said unmarried. Unmarried doesn’t imply she didn’t have an LTR she didn’t end because it didn’t work tor her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:29 PM
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Children actually ruin your best years. This is why nobody wants to have them anymore. If they want kids, they want only one or two- so no need to start in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:19 AM
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Most men are high on the desperation totem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:18 AM
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Alot of men and women nowadays don’t really want kids at all or are indifferent… it’s not a small set of women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:17 AM
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And of course a woman having a career other than education is a red flag to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:55 AM
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There are always men willing to commit in exchange for access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:55 AM
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Marriage really isn’t for everyone. Kids are a huge drain on money and time and every aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:45 AM
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Or, she was busy working on a career or advanced degree. Or maybe she’s gay. Or maybe she didn’t meet anyone worth marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:44 AM
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You assume that a woman is unmarried because some man doesn’t want to marry her. Women have the financial power to not have to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:30 AM
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Most people eventually gravitate to their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:28 AM
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I’m confused about how one approaches their grown ass 18 year old and tells them what the right kind of porn is. Dead serious. I’m ready to have all the conversations about the dangers of thinking porn is reality and the dangers of porn, and I’m listening to what you’re saying. having done all that, how does one effectively lecture their adult child on what the “right porn” is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:02 AM
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What is “the right porn” exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:00 AM
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Isn’t being “hands on” with older teenagers’ (16-17) internet access helicoptering???? At 18, they’re legally adults so not sure what they can do at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:55 AM
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What exactly do you want women to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:38 AM
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The expectations aren’t solely on men. It’s just only men bitching about not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:37 AM
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What can gen x parents do to be sympathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:36 AM
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Or, she found someone else and lost interest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:35 AM
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Yeah, sure. A woman with a bunch of male redpill opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:46 AM
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Yet another man has an opinion on what women should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:22 AM
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Noone will admit that they really hate parenting either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:19 AM
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Some of us are not compatible with people who are ultra religious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:52 AM
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It isn’t about what’s available, it’s about what they want, and most do want casual sez
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:42 AM
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Men prioritize casual sex. Most women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:28 AM
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There are not two types of women over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:22 PM
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What a coincidence! Women i know have realized that most men are boring in social settings as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:04 AM
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Sure. That was my question: you never mentioned being a wife or mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:23 AM
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What value do you bring?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:22 AM
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If that’s what you think, but if you’re being honest, you know there are some people who are very content to sit back and let someone else do all the work while they just sit back and leech off them. Personally, I don’t have much respect for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:16 AM
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It’s not about “buying”, it’s about contributing. It’s about partnerships being a two way street. And it’s not about dinner, you want him to pay your rent too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:13 AM
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I don’t know you. What about you is worthy of respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:12 AM
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No, we fought for the opportunities you always had and took for granted. It just seems that way to you because you took it for granted. Within a decade of my lifetime women needed a man’s permission to open a bank account. This isn’t about CEO quotas that don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:11 AM
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Nothing as long as you offer something in return, I guess, and treat the other person with respect rather than viewing them as an annuity. I mean, there’s a sucker born everyday willing to implicitly pay for sex. For me, i prefer to be treated as an equal. I have a career and my own money, if i am a real partner i need to contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:09 AM
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Men are not ATM machines and women are not sentient fleshlights or bangmaids. Some of you people, i swear. Have some respect for yourself and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:06 AM
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Why do you want to be a fucking drain on people? Why can’t you carry your own weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:04 AM
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I look at it as respect for someone who views me as an equal and on my end it is to demonstrate that i am a partner and not a dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:40 AM
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Not enough to equalize SAHP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:01 AM
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I have insisted on paying my half and repeated been called unfeminine m, masculine, and feminazi. Men want the leverage of paying to guilt a woman into sex but they pay upfront and then get angry if they don’t get sex afterwards l.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:00 AM
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🤮 Idiots. This is a clear path to poverty and no, we don’t. Women want to be financially independent on some man? Then why the fuck did we fight so hard for financial independence?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:58 AM
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Men don’t want to do unpaid labor
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:56 AM
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Why did we fight so hard for equality if we expect men to pay for everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:55 AM
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They don’t care. A man wants something. The wish must be granted or the world is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:54 AM
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It it’s so easy, why are men so desperate to avoid doing any of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:56 PM
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If men thought the chance of them having an orgasm with a random woman was 20% or lower, they’d never bother to leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:52 PM
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Men expect to get an orgasm no matter what. Women don’t, so they are naturally going to be more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:24 PM
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Men use hypergamy to rationalize why Stacy won’t fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:16 AM
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Yeah right. If a man doesn’t want to fuck you or have you been his mommy, you have no reason to exist as a woman. And the minute you provide the services he wants he expects you to dematerialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:50 AM
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No criticism here, you have every right to do that. Your body, your choice 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:45 AM
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Ultimately, everybody settles. There just aren’t enough stacys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:27 AM
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Noone owes anyone anything. If you don’t want to approach, don’t approach. The problem men have is that women increasingly can take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:26 AM
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A big part of that 40% of men that “have potential” by 30 already have a ton of baggage and/or debt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:32 AM
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No, i’m saying that the post isn’t relevant to 99.999% of men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:47 AM
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The problem is the hubris involved in many men’s thought processes. THEY will be the 0.1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:22 AM
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Which is 0.1% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:21 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:43 AM
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“I’m 21. Stacy won’t fuck me and noone else is good enough for me. Is there any hope?” “Yeah bro when you’re 35 all these stacys will be desperate for you.” 15 years later, still sending dick pics on dating apps whining in PPD that stacy won’t fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:53 AM
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Women only want 1 or 2 kids -if that- and there are many options to avhieve that without marriage. Now that women are increasingly financially independent they will choose alternatives to settling for losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:51 AM
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Most 20 year old women do not want the median older man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:47 AM
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There are leagues of unwanted, surplus men of all ages. Women are not desperate after 30. Most men do not get more attractive as they age either. They get less attractive and while they might make more than they did at 25, the median income is not impressive. Men need to quit lying to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:45 AM
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Sure, most people will be settled for. Women know they aren’t stacy and men know they aren’t chad. Realistically most people have little to offer and they end up at their own level. When women won’t fuck, you’re angry and when they do, they’re run through. Better to just always say no. Now you know why the “dating situation” is what it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:21 PM
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You are going from casual sex to relationships and back again. You want casual sex and then you are mad that the women you fuck are “ran through”. Of course women shouldn’t take issue. most men will not ever build themselves up anyway. Most will never actually be desirable to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:33 PM
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Maybe it seems that way to you but for casual sex most women really don’t want to be assaulted or murdered… so no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:43 AM
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For casual sex? Whatever increases the probability of an orgasm for her. That’s only fair right? He isn’t doing charity work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:06 AM
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Based on the number of dick pics and outright solicitation i beg to diffee
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:43 AM
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Men wrecked dating apps by thinking it is a vending machine for sentient fleshlights to fall out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:58 AM
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If you actually meet people, you’ll be shocked at the volume of absolute losers who get laid. Also, and i don’t know how many times i need to repeat this -you will orgasm no matter what. She is unlikely to with casual sex. Having sex with randoms is basically charity work for her, and being used as a sentient fleshlight for you to masturbate in so you can feel validated at low cost is not the thrill you think it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:39 AM
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Women in the US do not go after the top percent of guys. Your premise is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:26 AM
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I work with him, he doesn’t harass me personally. He’s professional in the workplace (and good at his job). He’s not a bad person, just a bit delusional. I’ve tried to hint around that he’s misreading their interest in him talking at them, but he really thinks he gets positive signals from them and won’t hear otherwise. The women he annoys are people in a common interest group we share (not in the workplace). Also, nobody wants to push him over the edge emotionally, given that he already has a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:24 PM
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It’s more a failure to see themselves for who they are. I think he really thinks women want him or want to be bothered by him when they just want him to go away. I mean, like most older men, he’s fairly unattractive even to older women, i’ve never even seen women his own age spend more than 10 minutes with him talking at them without getting annoyed. He’s the median 50+ guy, median income, credit card debt, divorced with a teenager, on top of that has a drinking problem. These are young professi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:16 PM
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What surprises me is that these old guys don’t realize how gross they are perceived as. I have a good friend in his early 50s. He’s fat and has baggage, debt, and a drinking problem. He is ALWAYS pestering younger women i know, and they hate it. They literally joke about drawing cards to see who meeds to give him a pity fuck. He’s a good guy, but these women are professionals with their own money and lives and are looking for someone their own age without all the baggage. I can’t tell him the tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:54 PM
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What younger women don’t have school or jobs??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:39 PM
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No, they don’t. Women exist to provide services to men. Beyond that, noone cares about women. It is easier for women to find someone to fuck them, it is not easier to find someone to make them a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:45 AM
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Willful ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:47 AM
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Quite the contrary, many women are their sons’ biggest enablers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:36 PM
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Nobody believes me either and i’m a woman. I definitely hear you, and I’m sorry. I was a victim of serious abuse by bio mom and people never want to believe women are capable of abuse. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:24 PM
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The women I am referring to from the Philippines are comparing their views of western men to philippino men. IN THEIR OPINION, western men are preferable for them and for western women. It says NOTHING about Emirati men. I hope you can comprehend this time. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:44 PM
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I’m talking about filippina’s opinions on why they date western men versus their opinions of THEIR OWN locals. For whatever reason this triggered you to the extent you started profile stalking. Twat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:14 PM
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Also, fuck off with your profile stalking LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:51 PM
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Lots of outrage for a man who cannot even read properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:50 PM
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I’m not talking about emirati locals, i’m talking about philippino women with western men and their views of western men vs filpino men. Please read carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:49 PM
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I’m an expat in a very diverse country in the middle east. I have alot of filippina friends who really like western guys because they say they’re more open minded and more interested in their partner’s satisfaction filippino guys- and these are educated women with their own money, not looking for a sugar daddy. Local guys have much more regimented gender expectations and this doesn’t appeal to my friends or to me as a western woman. The american/european guys that date my friends like them becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:16 AM
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Everyone is shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:15 AM
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I am an expat (woman) in a very diverse country and I feel sure I can find at least one person of every nationality to love, including my own. I have tons of friends, BFF is a Filipina, who date western guys. It’s not a big deal whatsoever. They guys and my friends are awesome people who met someone they liked. The problem with passport bros is that they clearly state that they want a submissive financially dependent person who will do what they’re told and they can’t afford or attract a bangmai…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:14 AM
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Foreigners don’t speak English? LMAO It’s a second language in much of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:43 AM
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Bullshit, that’s like saying people that work at mcdonald’s like eating fast food. It’s a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:28 PM
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🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:11 AM
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That’s great! Next time a man starts whining here about how easy it is to get laid on dating apps, i hope you will correct them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:04 AM
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If anything, women have stopped responding on dating apps BECAUSE they know all the men there are trying to use them as fleshlights. Half the posts on PPD are men trying to argue that women should be flattered by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:57 AM
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lmao! I also know a guy that believes prostitutes and escorts are genuinely attracted to him. We all laugh at him. They get paid to pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:47 AM
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Don’t know about others but i support legalization and regulation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:44 AM
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I say the same to women who chase shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:01 PM
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I know lots of men who want SAHMs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:01 PM
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Whoever is the SAHP makes a decision to irreparably harm themselves financially and in the end when the marriage ends, their contributions aren’t even respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:00 PM
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Yes. Noone should EVER be a SAHP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:20 PM
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Because women are more likely to give up their careers for a man and kids than a man for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:19 PM
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Well, women DO suffer. Most interactions with men cause some level of suffering or misery, so what more so you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:14 PM
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When i insist on paying for dates men get mad and tell me unfeminine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:09 PM
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Why should anyone suffer more!?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:08 PM
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Only 10% of divorces currently involve alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:07 PM
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Seriously, i’m happy for you both. I am really glad when good men and women find each other and set an example of a healthy relationship for kids this age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:31 PM
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But i meant it seriously, what you have is rare, i’m glad you found it, and good for you 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:25 PM
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How old are you? I presume you don’t have jobs and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:24 PM
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It’s nice you believe that, really
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:20 PM
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Many are married by 40. The rest don’t have women throwing themselves at them like men imagine they do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:19 PM
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Men and women also settle. People settle. Men in their 20s feel entitled to supermodels and learn the hard way that stacy doesn’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:18 PM
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They will pick you when you are old because most men are never attractive to women at any age. The world is full of lonely, surplus men nobody really wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:10 PM
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Nobody really wants 40 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:09 PM
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The woman you marry is not going to be your ultimate Both men and women settle at their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:08 PM
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Most men are never really attractive to women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:07 PM
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Most women that men end up with aren’t the ideal or first choice either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:57 PM
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It’s actually men who have been complaining about all dating apps, not women. Women are turning away from dating apps in general. Alot of women are simply exiting the dating scene. There are plenty of articles on why. https://time.com/6978361/celibate-women-shaming-essay/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:55 AM
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Bumble has been around for 10 years while tons of tech companies have failed. Women have made the first move just fine on bumble for a decade— whole generation. I posted an article here somewhere about how gen z uses dating apps differently. The entire space is changing. People are also sick of dating apps and meeting people elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:32 AM
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We do message first. Bumble was successful for 10 years. They just don’t message YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:09 AM
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https://www.npr.org/2024/05/06/1249296671/bumble-dating-apps-women-opening-moves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:09 AM
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The generation has changed and people’s use of dating apps has changed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:07 AM
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And bumble has been massively successful so far. The generation has changed and people’s use of dating apps is changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:57 AM
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You cannot compare revenue of one company to EPS of another company
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:27 AM
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Why? Let’s talk about all the companies men have run into the ground. Or if you want to talk about dating apps, let’s talk about how men have made tinder into a cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:18 AM
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Again: you’re spamming. Pick one thread. Revenue and EPS are not the same thing. You do not understand even the most fundamental things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:17 AM
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Another man who does not understand the differences between revenue and EPS Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:16 AM
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Revenue growth does not imply EPS growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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Revenue growth and EPS growth aren’t the same thing. You do not understand the most fundamental things about business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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Lots of bankruptcies announced every year of companies run by men. Bumble isn’t one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:14 AM
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Two reasons: 1- they believe women should be seen and not heard so pearl is too loud tor them 2- women who a man doesn’t want to fuck should be invisible to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:12 AM
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Q1 2024 was already over before the change was implemented. It was announced on April 30. lmao, more proof men don’t understand business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:11 AM
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LOL, first quarter 2024 had already finished when the change was announced
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:10 AM
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Don’t cherry pick and also you need to control adjust for industry factors- finance 101. Why are men so terrible at business?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:08 AM
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Go back the last 10 years and include pre-IPO funding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:07 AM
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No, it doesn’t. Men are on here 24/7 whining that they can’t get matches on tinder because men overwhelm women in numbers, spam women, and women bypass 80% or whatever of them. Men “leading” on dating apps has literally led to market failure FOR MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:07 AM
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They mainly approach and pursue holes, on dating apps anyway. Their LACK of leadership has turned tinder into a cesspool for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:02 AM
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If they never initiated it wouldn’t have been able to successfully IPO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:01 AM
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Proof that men are entitled and self obsessed and can’t lead: https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2023/11/06/business/wework-bankruptcy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:00 AM
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It didn’t fail. It vastly outperformed most tech companies in the same era that never even came close to IPO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:59 AM
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They aren’t leading. They’re spamming women with dick pics on tinder then running in here to whine that no women want to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:58 AM
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Why has bumble been so successful if women can’t lead? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:57 AM
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Bumble has been incredibly successful for a decade. It had a successful IPO when most tech ventures didn’t even make it to late stage funding. There has been a generational shift over the last decade and bumble is now adapting. From what i read here in PPD, tinder and okcupid aren’t working for men either. Perhaps this is because men can’t think beyond their dicks and feel entitled to sex with women way out of their leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:56 AM
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What maturity and stability?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:20 PM
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What numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:18 PM
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No, everyone doesn’t know this. Most older men are fat, balding, and have prostate problems. Actually, most men are never really attractive to anyone. I always find it funny how men gas each other up about this and at yet can’t get laid even in their primes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:42 PM
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Why waste your time on all this? Are you 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:50 PM
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Perhaps he should find someone he likes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:46 PM
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No, they don’t. Average women are working and contributing financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:22 PM
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The fact that she’s hot enough that he’s compelled to fucking pay her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:20 PM
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I already said i cannot tolerate women who use men financially and that i cannot be friends with people like that somewhere in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:19 PM
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Ok, then let her know that and stop shoveling over money and then whining about being used
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:17 PM
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Right, because you aren’t trying to fuck men and getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:15 PM
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As should ugly broke ass men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:15 PM
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He isn’t willing to accept remotely good looking women. He wants Stacy, who can make demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:14 PM
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Not in rural Philippines or thailand
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:13 PM
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Women suck too. Somewhere in here i said that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:13 PM
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If he was going after women in his league they would know they can’t shake him down for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:10 PM
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Look at all the men posting here about how women should be SAHMsz
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:01 PM
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I don’t tolerate women who think a man should pay for everything. I can’t be friends with someone like that. And yes, it is also important to tell women who date losers over and over that their normal meter is broken. Same with men. Stacy doesn’t want the median guy. Move on and find someone who likes you for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:38 PM
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Men are doing everything they can to railroad women back into being barefoot and pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:36 PM
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You aren’t what each other needs and alot of the time not what you want either. It’s an on and off shitshow. Let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:31 PM
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Women in the west have independence and money of their own. They don’t have to tolerate loser men or bad relationships. That’s what i mean. They cannot keep women who aren’t desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:29 PM
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Not fear. They want to pay for dates so they can guilt women into sex. Men can pay for sex outright. Straight guys don’t feel obligated to let gay guys use them for holes. Women aren’t obligated to let straight men use them for holes either. That doesn’t mean it is gatekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:26 PM
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They feel entitled to something they can’t afford without finding desperate women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:21 PM
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When women date shitty men i tell them the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:21 PM
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Most men are not attractive at 40. Passport bros hoping their passport and meager income will make them more attractive to women with no other options and a low quality of life elsewhere. Having said that, there is nothing inherently wrong with dating or marrying women you meet abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:43 PM
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Because he apparently has to pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:37 PM
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Looks like another man who is chasing Stacy and doesn’t understand what’s going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:36 PM
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What leverage do women have?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:35 PM
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Why? That’s what they want and they get shitty when they don’t get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:31 PM
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That’s my point: DON’T PAY, state up front that you will be splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:06 AM
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So by your definition any woman who dates or marries someone they don’t meet online is settling? This is why you’re struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:23 AM
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Again-this may be true of the women YOU aspire to, but not in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:21 AM
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This isn’t true 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:41 AM
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Stop lying. This is based on two poorly done studies of swiping on a dating app. This has nothing to do with who actually dates/has relationships with/ marries anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:41 AM
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Sure and i am sure your girlfriend also enjoys doing things to make you feel special. It’s a give and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:40 AM
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It’s always best to start off with clear expectations. Anecdotal, but me and women (and single dads!) i know with teen girls are telling them you pay your part. The economy has changed, half or more of college students are women, and women are taking greater roles professionally. Time to raise our girls for the place they will occupy in the world. You would think men would agree. However, alot of the backlash we see from men is due to men wanting economic leverage over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:36 AM
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The minute she won’t pay her half on the date, it is over. No reason he cannot state this rule up front- unless he is trying to buy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:28 AM
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The problem is, you deem even women way better than you as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:27 AM
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There is a big range of women way outside your league between stacy and fat hideous women and you know that too- just your ego has convinced you otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:26 AM
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The guy wants women who are physically way out of his league so he hopes to buy that. You don’t want the quiet part said out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:22 AM
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We all want $1,000,000000 and a condo overlooking the Mediterranean sea in the south of France
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:21 AM
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Stop dating these kinds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:16 AM
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Relationships end for other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:53 AM
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Don’t surround yourself with shitty women. Your choice in women as friends also sucks. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:52 AM
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No, it doesn’t apply to most women. It’s stupid, vague blanket generalization that gas nothing to do with most women. If you are honest with yourself this is about you being rejected by some woman you felt entitled to. It always is. And if you aren’t bothering with women you do not have access to these insights based on observation anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:46 AM
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But deep down you know this does not apply to women. This applies to some woman who used you, and you’re bitter about that. You wanted a woman way outside your league and you got rejected or used. It ALWAYS goes back to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:41 AM
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That’s my point- they shouldn’t. I never ever ever do this. I insist I will pay my half, but alot of guys then get really angry and accuse me of “trying to a man”, be a feminist, unfeminine, emasculating them. They don’t really act like they would act if your view of the world is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:39 AM
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Of course! And some do agree because it’s fair in modern society and in this economy. “You get me next time” is also cool and if he says that i make sure the whole thing is on me next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:38 AM
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Because they want leverage to demand sex. Men pay up front to get sex. Then if they don’t get sex they are angry they paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:31 AM
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He wants Stacy, who is way out of his league physically, and needs to rationalize why she doesn’t want him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:30 AM
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Yeah and when you insist on paying your half on dates, men get angry at that too and call you a “feminist” or “masculine”. They want to have that leverage of paying so they can demand sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:29 AM
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“Stacy only wants me for my money! Why can’t i find a good woman?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:27 AM
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Straight out of the redpill playbook
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:13 AM
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I want to know who to avoid. Redpill men, by and large, wasted their youth chasing stacy, and when they decide to settle down, suddenly they think regular women are acceptable. That would be ok but they have formed rationalizations about why stacy didn’t want them, so they have turned bitter in blaming women rather than themselves. I’m not interested in used goods with baggage or in healing men i didn’t break.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:55 AM
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But they will literally fuck anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:23 AM
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The hatred comes in when he doesn’t get what he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:38 PM
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So many men in this group think men being willing to use women for holes is a compliment to women. If gay men bombarded straight guys with dick pics and demands for sex, they might understand better that being viewed as a sentient fleshlight is not a sign that anyone genuinely likes or wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:37 PM
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It really isn’t positive reinforcement. They will literally bang anything that moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:42 AM
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And you think you can provide access and status with that? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:41 AM
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Most men make the median wage by definition and gave debt. You are not the men running the country, you are worker drones and there is no status in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:41 AM
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Look at the median income and median debt. Men cannot provide access, status, money, prestige other than juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:47 AM
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Most women don’t whore around and especially not anywhere close to what men seem to fantasize they do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:21 AM
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I don’t judge others for wanting to use people as fleshlights nor am i (or you) obligated to be used as a fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:21 AM
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Women get tons of very explicit offers for sex and sex alone on dating apps. They spam all available women to increase the chance of finding someone to fuck. It is not a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:00 AM
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So if 100 gay guys tried to use you for holes, why don’t you fuck them all? Maybe they’ll blow you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:35 AM
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Women don’t want to be used as fleshlights. Men think that’s a compliment because that’s what they want. It’s unfortunate that you aren’t constantly badgered by gay men sending you dick pics and trying to use you for holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:14 AM
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It means some man is willing to use you as a fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:24 PM
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Most men lack the ability to provide any of that, yet the majority of men still find a way to get laid and reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:29 PM
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Getting likes on a dating site does not translate into anything meaningful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:28 PM
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Love and affection are not handed to women. Men think women should be honored that men will fuck them. Having a man willing to use you as a fleshlight isn’t the thrill men think it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:28 PM
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If you are ever ill or laid off you will very much regret saying this. Some people have no life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:34 AM
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Tradwives are lifestyle social media marketers. Zero of them post content cleaning the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:32 AM
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Zero paid wage income. They provide a bunch of unpaid services for men and their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:31 AM
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The vast majority of women are not gold diggers. The vast majority of men also don’t have gold to dig- although some will finance a partner with debt. If men weren’t chasing Stacy, this wouldn’t be an issue at all. Some men like completely transactional relationships with women way out of their league physically, but want to be able to pretend that they are desirable so they effectively lease women who indicate that they are amenable to such relationships. The relationship provides money to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:28 AM
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Bullshit. People bond over shared grievances worldwide. Nothing is as tragic as a privileged western man with a hangnail or cold. Men worldwide are literally supporting 5 malnourished children doing slave labor and here you are whining online all day that you are asked to wash your own dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:45 AM
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Most women work and this is increasingly the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:37 PM
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They don’t complain more. They simply have the ability to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:27 PM
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Men don’t pay for everything in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:25 PM
3

I don’t have 2 spare minutes free
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:33 PM
5

It is unfortunate that you and those like you are getting lost in the volume of spam emails looking for sex. It isn’t fair that you are penalized for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:04 PM
3

I’m sorry. I misspoke because i was doing a bunch of things around once : the majority of men ON DATING APPS are looking for fleshlights. Not men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:31 PM
3

The vast majority of men are looking for a human fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:46 PM
3

Ask any woman how many unsolicited dick pics they get?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:08 PM
0

You should try meeting women offline
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:07 PM
7

There are many more men on dating apps than women. Men on dating apps spam whatever women are there merely to increase the chance of sex. Naturally, women will get more matches than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:06 PM
4

Women know that most messages are sent to obtain sex, not “dates”, which is why there are far more men on tinder than women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:05 PM
1

I don’t have to do anything you want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:03 PM
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Nobody has time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:52 AM
4

On tinder? Men on tinder are looking for lifelong partners? Then why are they sending dick pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:00 AM
4

Men are just looking for a sentient fleshlight so pretty much anything is acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:31 AM
6

You and your penis will soon enough age out of any semblance of attractiveness to fertile women and you will join the legions of fat bald old men with prostate problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:53 AM
5

Women don’t want to be used as fleshlights. Noone cares if some guy is willing to fuck them. It isn’t the compliment men think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:51 AM
3

The problem is there are far more men on dating apps than women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:50 AM
6

This is the entire problem, mediocre men who aspire to be in the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:49 AM
5

Messages have nothing to do with anything. Neither does a man being willing to use you as a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:48 AM
7

Men chase stacy and stacy is chasing chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:46 AM
3

It is possible that most men on okcupid are rates as below average looking because women are evaluating their profile appearance with men they observe offline
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:45 AM
0

Any solution that involves men doing unpaid labor is unacceptable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:39 AM
3

Do you want women to stay home and raise kids and do all three shitwork or not? If so you need to provide. If not you need to split the unpaid work and financial contribution. What alot of men want is her to do all the unpaid work and still contribute financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:38 AM
1

Easy to explain, he dangles cash out and Stacy chases it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:23 PM
1

Germans seem to be involved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:50 PM
2

Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:32 PM
3

Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:32 PM
1

Do most men have that many offers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:58 AM
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Men get so angry when women are financially independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:57 AM
3

Right, so i doubt they want to pay for AI either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:25 AM
8

I pay quite a bit in taxes. With more and more financially independent women, your ability to use this as a lever is falling. Also, i presume you take all available deductions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:25 AM
2

Robots and AI are replacing men as well. They better hope they can still afford a virtual partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:49 AM
5

The % of the female population that has successfully monetized being instathots or OF is minuscule. They will have to find something else to do, noone cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:49 AM
2

Alot of men don’t want to pay for things they feel entitled to get for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:46 AM
8

Ok great! Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:45 AM
10

Let the market decide
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:15 AM
4

To be fair, from what i understand about porta potties from living in Dubai, the clientele is highly diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:14 AM
8

This will affect sex workers and noone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:14 AM
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While to many men who are chronically online, it may seem that all women are on onlyfans, but actually it is a minuscule part of the working female population. If men want purely transactional relationships where they pay, they can get that without AI. The problem is they don’t want to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:13 AM
2

Since it’s 50/50, are you staying home for 2 years with your next kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:54 PM
2

Many men will do anything to avoid unpaid labor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:54 PM
1

You really, really want to be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:46 PM
1

If they don’t directly attack me, i leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:44 PM
1

My point is that women aren’t as pressed over men’s opinions as men are over women’s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:32 AM
11

Perhaps because women find it nearly impossible to leave terrible marriages where they are miserable. This is not a sign of “success” and it has nothing to do with virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:19 AM
11

Not really. But if it’s a value to you, you should remain a virgin until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:46 AM
1

I believe that if this is a firmly held conviction for you, you should stick to it and the right woman for you will share your values. The wrong woman will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:48 AM
12

There are tradeoffs to all decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:45 AM
1

I’m a gun owner so pray you don’t come across women like me in the woods. Oh and- many cops, lawyers, and judges are now women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:42 AM
13

I have already seen men saying they prefer bears to women for a number of reasons including false rape allegations and false paternity claims. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:37 PM
1

The idea that if they just wait long enough, men will be swarmed by beautiful young women also comes from incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:11 AM
0

I’m so glad i have a male college student telling a female faculty member that my life experiences didn’t happen -but i’m used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:10 AM
0

Women’s scholarships most often DO carry requirements. You are either uninformed or you’re lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:50 AM
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Man: here’s a problem Woman: how can i help? Let me do unpaid work for you to find a solution. Man: NO YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO AGREE WITH ME THAT I AM THE VICTIM NOT SHOW ME A SOLUTION pretty typical
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:48 AM
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It took 2 seconds to find a list of scholarships dedicated to men and i also asked you if you personally have contacted both your university and your college level (such as the college of business). I’m trying to help you since you say you have confronted a legitimate barrier to your education but apparently that is not what you wanted. You want to complain about something, and you don’t want a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:47 AM
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A 2 second search also revealed this: https://www.scholarships.com/financial-aid/college-scholarships/scholarships-by-type/scholarships-for-men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:42 AM
0

Some of the scholarships are more modest, but they matter. It doesn’t take millions at all to make a difference. I max out my contributions under tax law for this purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:40 AM
0

There are also professional organizations like Shriners that have male only scholarships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:40 AM
1

Have you gone to both the university and specific college to look? Dead serious i’ll never forget we had one that went unfulfilled for years for a male of North African descent and obviously many fraternities (which women cannot apply for).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:39 AM
0

These are also private donations so if you are pressed start a scholarship of your own
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:27 AM
0

I am on the scholarship committee at my university and have been on others. There are male only scholarships as well. There are a ton that are never filled because there are no applicants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:26 AM
0

Good for you and your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:07 PM
9

Only 10% of divorces involve alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:30 PM
9

Found the deadbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:18 PM
8

10% of divorces involve alimony. Over half of divorces are mediated with the man dumping the kids on the mother. Stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:16 PM
3

Only 10% of divorces presently involve alimony at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:13 PM
7

Nobody really wants the majority of men at any age, and as they age, they don’t improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:48 PM
3

Most younger women are repulsed by gross old guys going after very young women. Most older guys can find a very young woman if he lowers his standards enough or is willing to accept something completely transactional. That doesn’t mean everyone else- including male friends his own age- aren’t laughing at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:47 PM
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Any man is capable of “pulling” younger women if he is willing to lower his standards enough. There is always someone who needs cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:44 PM
1

Older women are not looking for men who are embarrassing themselves running after girls under 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:42 PM
2

I will criticize an older woman banging a freshman any time i hear about it. Legal doesn’t imply ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:41 PM
1

I have never ever heard anything like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:40 PM
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All people can be irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:31 AM
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Ex ante, i can’t know which category of male i will encounter. There are 4,000,000,000 billion men on earth and 1% of that is a non negligible number of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:13 AM
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Not at all, i couldn’t care less what you think. Your logic is a result of your experiences, we have not shared similar experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:11 AM
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Fear is based on logic developed through experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:59 AM
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Men are really, really irrationally emotional over this. Ca down, smile more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:57 AM
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You aren’t at any serious risk of being raped and killed by women. If you had a serious risk of being raped or killed by men, you would view this differently. One week with a male serial rapist in your neighborhood running amuck and this answer will make more sense to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:56 AM
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You think the answer is illogical because your feelings are hurt that women consider men a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:54 AM
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And women want their emotional hurt over 1000000 things to be acknowledged as well. Even if women say i’m sad for you that it upset you, that won’t make you happy. Men won’t be happy until women tell you what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:54 AM
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Of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:20 AM
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This is the 100000th thread on the subject in twox and i don’t really know why men feel so pressed over women understanding their feelings on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:12 AM
1

Over half of all college students are now women. Why wouldn’t the number of women in c suites go up? None of this implies these women were not as qualified as male counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:11 PM
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What % of women have their jobs due to DEI
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:46 PM
1

Just pay for sex directly then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:22 PM
2

Your entire premise is that women act entitled to things from men when men think they should get sex from women in exchange for nothing in return so men should just withdraw totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:19 PM
2

Then why are you whining about entitled women who won’t fuck you? That’s basically what this is. “All men should stop dating or having sex because some woman was entitled and wouldn’t fuck me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:17 PM
1

I’m just telling you what men do, like you’re telling us what women do. Men whine about paying IF they don’t end up getting laid. But if a woman takes that leverage away from them, they really don’t like it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:15 PM
1

He does want to date them, he’s mad they won’t date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:13 PM
0

When i offer to pay for my own food i get called masculine and unfeminine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:09 PM
0

Most men can’t get older unfit and unattractive women either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:07 PM
1

Why do you expect women to bang you when they find you unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:07 PM
1

Why are you chasing entitled women who want to use you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:06 PM
1

He is angry that a woman he wanted to fuck wouldn’t fuck him. That’s all this is. The drama is her not letting him use her as a sentient fleshlight in exchange for not so much as an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:00 PM
1

Most men can’t get husky middle aged women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:59 PM
1

Why don’t you just pay outright?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:58 PM
0

Men don’t want to pay for things they feel entitled to get for free
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:56 PM
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And yet, women are working harder than ever to get things for themselves and men are unhappy about that too because they want levered
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:54 PM
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I think an entire generation is now using the app and the use of online dating has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:27 PM
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This company did far better than the vast majority of tech companies that never even reached the IPO stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:17 PM
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But you’re wrong. Bumble was wildly successful to most tech startups for a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:14 PM
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If women were seeking “sneaky sex partners” they’d be sending unsolicited bob and vagene pics. That’s not what is happening. The expected value of a random sex encounter for women is negative because it is statistically unlikely she can even get an orgasm out of it. Men have nothing to lose because they expect to at least get off in a sexual encounter no matter how bad he is in bed. Women can’t know up front if he will be good or bad in bed, men are mainly looking for the ego gratification of be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:12 AM
1

That’s a problem caused by the volumes of men looking for sentient fleshlights. Personally i get overwhelmed with the identical message sent by casual sex seeking men so i cannot use these apps. My standards do not include 6,6,6 and my criteria on looks is not strict so my best bet is to find men with similar interests offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:08 AM
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LET THE MARKET DECIDE many startups founded by men, especially in the tech sector, fail long before their IPOs and many more thereafter, and many of these failures were started by men. Bumble has been around for over a decade in a competitive space and has benefited successful. If it is no longer meeting the needs of the new generation it must adapt or die. Capitalism without failure is like religion without sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:05 AM
0

Hypergamy is not well documented. These claims are based on a couple studies of women swiping on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:02 AM
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Hahaha yeah. What most men on dating apps willing to offer is the woman having a meager chance of an orgasm while getting gets off no matter how bad he is in bed. Good relationship->single-> what is likely to be bad sex. And then i keep hearing here in purple pill debate that men want validation on top of the unreciprocated orgasm… you’re also supposed to pretend you want bad sex and thank him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:59 AM
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They do. Most men on dating apps are only looking for a sentient flesh light so they get passed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:49 AM
2

Alot of them in this group really are whining about never getting laid, word for word.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:08 AM
4

And your celebrity crush is probably stacy. So what? Only pure men and women deserve sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:54 AM
4

Most men are in here whining they can’t get laid at all. They aren’t self respecting to begin with and shrinking the pool of women willing to fuck them pretty much ensures they will never, ever get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:40 AM
6

Same for women, I’m tired of these men who have been run through. I propose a complete ban on sex outside of a legally registered marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:39 AM
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I’m fine with that. The chads also shouldn’t be getting laid. Only pure men should. The rest are leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:38 AM
2

Alot of people here with a virginity fetish will be very disappointed when they are 50 and single to find out that they dedicated so much emotional energy to things that don’t really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:42 AM
5

Yeah all men who aren’t virgins are unworthy of sex, agree 100%, women need to quit settling for leftovers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:39 AM
1

Enjoy being single
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:57 AM
1

Wow. Doing all your shit unpaid work and paying rent? She was stupid to not get her name on marital assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:48 AM
6

This says more about the women you target
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:56 AM
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Way too many men here are in their early 20s and have nothing to do but pester women on dating apps and then rage when women won’t let them be used as fleshlights.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:55 AM
1

Alimony is only granted in 10% of divorce settlements and your shitty child support payments don’t cover the costs of raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:41 AM
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