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| 20 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themPart of me wonders if they are confusing arrogance with confidence, or if they really mean Charisma when they say confidence. It's only perceived as arrogance if you don't meet the competency threshold to be acting confident. The competency threshold in this case being looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsAll dating/sexual relations are is a popularity game. What that looks like is making others look like shit either passively by being more physically attractive, richer, sexually experienced. Some people are friends with people less attractive then them for this very reason. It's strange that no one talks about this except for those in the know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 10:46 AM |
| 2 | I firmly believe that physical attraction is the most important thing in datingIt’s not the most/only important thing but it is the first important thing. At that point why not just say it's the most important thing? If it's the FIRST important thing surely that makes it the most important thing, no? Why are you trying to avoid saying it's the most important thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?Not trying to sound rude but why do you speak like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:28 PM |
| 5 | The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuineIgnore them. If you help someone who dropped a pile of documents and they don't say thank you or any sign of appreciation for the gesture you did they'll have you believe that you're not actually a nice person because you expected them to say thank you. "A tRulY nIcE pErSoN wOuLd HaVe DoNe It OuT oF tHe NiCeNeSs Of ThEiR hEaRt. You are not actually a nice person because you expected something as simple as a thank you. Hmph!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalWhat am I complaining about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalMany people who think they are extremely ugly might suffer from body dismorphia instead. Not saying that's you, but I can't tell without seeing what you look like. I've seen guys talk about facial deformities, then post decidedly average pics. I hear you. There's definitely no shortage of people with body dismorphia and have very miniscule problems that they are over analyzing. Those people should get some help and are just sabotaging themselves. Unfortunately I suffered from the opposite and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalguys are average or slightly below average and they can absolutely look good if they took the right steps. As I said before if they are slightly below average or average looking your advice is really helpful but the thing is people don't lead with "this is for average and slightly below average guys". They just generalize and say men should do xyz and so those who are like me and need surgical intervention follow this advice and find out the hard way that this advice doesn't help or the benefits… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 08:35 PM |
| 10 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalFitness, dressing well, hair style, facial hair, skin care, etc. can do wonders for making you look good. Granted you have a decent bone structure on the face. None of what you mentioned is going to do wonders for someone with recessed jaws, crooked nose,asymmetrical jaws,bimaxillary protrusion, downward growth instead of forward growth. To fix these things requires surgery and that costs a lot. But yes let's just tell below average guys to do what you're recommending because clothes, haircuts, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 07:22 PM |
| 8 | Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internetyes men care more about looks then women, i agree This lie needs to stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis made me laugh way more than it should have.😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Looks don’t matter to womenExplain Jeremy Meeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 07:16 PM |
| 2 | "Men are allowed to have preferences, just don't be rude about it" Is A LieI'm actually curious what's the reason behind it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 05:47 PM |
| 3 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?The crazy thing to me is that a lot of people actually think like this. The idea that looks can take you so far is foreign to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Asking GF to delete old nude pics from social mediaYou already have the answer to your question. You've answered it yourself. Are you asking here just to reaffirm what you already feel regarding the matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous....I didn't think I'd get this kind of response. You've been through a lot huh? Though if I'm being honest I can't wrap my heard around how you ended up in that situation. You must have been madly in love with her for you to be with her for as long as you did. Don't know how long you were with her for, tbh I'm scared of finding out so I won't ask. Now back to the hypothetical…. If I absolutely had to choose an LTR with one of these two twins, I would pick the free spirit. If things went bad, I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 10:04 PM |
| 2 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous.Yeah I read that part. I was just saying I'll only pick the single mom if she was a widow instead of being divorced. I'm curious who you'd pick though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 02:45 PM |
| 3 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous.You're not making this easy are you.😅 I wouldn't pick either but if I had to it would be the single mom under the assumption she is a widow. The father can't be alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.He probably got it from you saying this: As grad students whenever we feel ready to flip our shit on the freshmen we are reminded (and remind each other) that these are basically kids we're dealing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.I just chuckle whenever I hear discussions about this topic. I'll tell you what I observed in high school. The girls in grade 8 would date guys in grade 10 and 11, when they were in grade 9 and 10 they would date guys in matric and when they were in grade 11 or matric they would date guys who are in university and finally those women in university would date men who have already secured a good paying job. And the crazy thing people don't talk about is how some of these girls would lie about thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Do we underestimate the toll rejection takes on you?Thank you for the kind words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 03:43 PM |
| 7 | Do we underestimate the toll rejection takes on you?She had her group of friends do it for her. I don't want to get into what exactly happened. I just mind my own business now, even if it means I'll be alone. Don't want to ruin what's left of my mental health.😀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Do we underestimate the toll rejection takes on you?that being romantically rejected activates the same amount of mental pain receptors as being slapped across the face. Honestly I feel it has to be worse than that. I still have ptsd from rejection. So yeah... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible to find men who do not put a huge emphasis on looks?Speak for yourself. We are just fine being alone, Very interesting... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to lookmax?It really depends on the person. •If you are fat but have a good facial structure underneath, you just need to lose weight and get a low enough bf% to show your facial structure. •If you are a healthy bf% but are still unattractive the problem lies with you skeletal structure. You will need surgical intervention jaw surgery, genioplasty, rhinoplasty etc... There are levels to it how much or how little you have to looksmax really depends on your base stats. If you are really average as you say yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 05:23 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Sadly, objectifiying women is the only thing that works(at the start).Genuinely curious. Where do you get the energy to entertain people like the dude you are replying to? As soon as I saw the " 6'4 but my 5'5 friend got more play then me" I would've have stopped replying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination.It's why I don't give a shit about colourism. It's only being addressed be cause it affects women as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:32 AM |
| 2 | AMA, obese american SEAmaxxing in the phillipines.Mad lad👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 07:26 PM |
| 2 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)Jesus Christ. What did I just read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:40 PM |
| 7 | It is much harder to be a conventionally attractive man.I'm not posting this to say that all jaw surgeries will turn out like this. These results probably fall under top 20% of successful surgeries. I'm just trying to point out that there may be hope. Of course you would have to have a decent facial structure to work with and a good surgeon to get these kind of results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 11:57 AM |
| 9 | It is much harder to be a conventionally attractive man.and it probably wouldn't give you that strong chiseled jaw anyway, so you would just give thousands of dollars and 2 years of your life to do nothing. https://www.reddit.com/r/jawsurgery/comments/shgwxk/6_weeks_postop_djs_genioplasty_and_wisdom_teeth/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button https://www.reddit.com/r/jawsurgery/comments/kmvt4r/heres_my_5_month_post_op_djs_genioplasty/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Is confidence really tied to dick size?What do you mean by that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 06:21 PM |
| 12 | Is confidence really tied to dick size?Humanity has a history of ascribing quality of character to unrelated bodily traits, that you are born with and cannot change. Classic examples would be gender, ethnicity, height, skin tone, race or disabilities. We just haven't reached the point of recognising that dick size is just another case of this. Perpetuating these notions in jokes, insults or narratives establishes them as truths in the public consciousness, and a lot of people suffer because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | What are true red flags in a potential spouse?weaponized incompetence Woah, could you elaborate on that one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"missing one isn't good enough. I think it's more so missing the immutable things on her list as they hold far more value. Height, face, etc... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 06:56 PM |
| 3 | With all of the back and forth and speculation here, at the end of the day the overwhelming majority of the dating difficulties men experience and conflicts between the genders are due to one simple fact - men are way hornier than womenHe's not arguing that beauty isn't objective. He's saying that ratings are irrelevant when it comes to real life interactions if they don't reflect the type of people you should be attracting. Even if you say someone is a 4/10 it doesn't mean shit if the people they are able to attract people that are 7/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?baby talk, Baby talk? What's that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 07:00 AM |
| 5 | Why is every one thinking height is being so important??its not like you are needing to be tall correct?? you are just needing to be TALLER THEN THE WOMAN?? so this is why im not seeing this is being a big problem or any thing?? You just don't get it. It's not about being taller than her it's about being taller than the other men she can choose from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta BuxI mean isn't called familial love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 12:37 PM |
| 56 | is it realistic to expect men to just be confident if they have faced a lifetime of rejection and isolation?It's not realistic. Even faking confidence isn't. The problem is this attitude on incompetent and unattractive people is offensive. There are no hero stories where the character is fat and ugly. There are no champion stories where the winner is an awful bitter failure at everything else. Confidence has to come from at least the plausibility of victory. If an obese man is confident about beating Usain Bolt in a race, that confidence is not attractive. A competence threshold must be present for co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Straight women are not attracted to men, they are attracted to certain men.Bro I'm genuinely curious how you kept asking out women a 100 times with the results you were getting. I asked out one girl and still have PTSD from that. I hope you reply isn't going to be it's a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men get sex bot?Are you being serious? You can't be asking that question with a straight face, I mean look at this! The so called future being repalced by sex bots is a joke lmfao. https://youtu.be/_kh5P6AeKQ8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Solution to Short man ProblemsNo. Just no... "It's not about being taller than her it's about being taller than the other guys she can choose from." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | There is no difference in how attraction works between the sex'sQuality is subjective 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:35 PM |
| 12 | Is it that hard to be top 20% anyway?If things were really as simple as: So if one is to looksmax and achieve: Athletic body type (top 30%) Straight, white teeth (top 50%) Clear, youthful skin (top 50%) Well-dressed, clean, smell good (top 60%) Frequent good haircuts (top 80%) Every guy would be doing this. Doing what you mentioned will never take someone from a 5/10 to an 8/10. Do you think how attractive you are in the face that malleable? The only things that can do that are surgeries and that is expensive, how many guys can aff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:20 PM |
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