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Its projection they don't see the other guy as a person just tool for their validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:00 PM
3

Unless a man has some sort of pseudo cuck fetish there's no point in him still being friends with a girl they're in love with and watch her be with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:22 PM
1

Here's the truth anyone who has to use niceness as a crutch doesn't really value it and it leads to resentment when they don't get the results they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:23 AM
1

Because the average woman isnt worth "working hard" for in order to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:28 PM
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Women can have whatever preferences they want whether or not they can get it is another thing and its not a mans fault if they cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:21 AM
10

Passport bros just need to shut up and do their own thing and stop trying to get approval from people that hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:43 PM
2

Nice guys just have feminine traits that women dont like about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:21 PM
8

Women on reddit hate "nice guys" because they are "nice guys". They remind them of the parts of themselves they dont like. Its projection and every criticism is basically them talking about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:14 PM
2

Lets see a man that was sexually abused by his mother turns into a womanizer and strings along a woman thats mentally disabled then knocks her up and dies? People would hate the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:02 PM
1

No one is genuinely good but I think most men atleast try to be decent human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:29 PM
0

Women dont love men that cheat but if he has everything else on point she might tolerate/forgive him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:46 PM
-1

Attraction really only comes to two things in this case. Is he reliable? Is he worth bragging about? A mans character has nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:53 PM
5

No you're just missing the point im making. I'm not saying the critics were right. I'm saying the existence of critics doesn't prove anything by itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:34 PM
4

Nikola Tesla and Abraham Lincoln both were competent men that were dismissed/disliked by a large amount of people in their day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:20 PM
5

It's not just about being seen as competent. People judge confidence through their own subjective standards. Someone can be both confident and highly competent and still be dismissed by people who don't value the same traits. No one is universally respected nor liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:07 PM
1

No even jesus wasnt agreeable so why would you think its a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:40 PM
7

This whole nice guy phenomenon would go away if women didnt try to moralize their dating choices. If I want to date a woman with red flags im not gonna tell myself shes a better person than a girl with green flags I dont desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:22 PM
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Alot of people here are disingenuous so people sometimes overthink and try to read between the lines when its not always needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:31 PM
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Men do but men in general are usually more stubborn and dont take advice from people they dont respect even if they are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:57 PM
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Women hate "choose better" because to them there is no better option. Its not about having a man that treats them well its about having a man they desire treat them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:51 PM
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Because women who aren't crazy and hot arent ignored by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:10 PM
3

In 2026 theres no excuse to be in the friendzone. If you like a girl ask her out if she rejects you move on. If she offers friendship? Move on unless she can be an asset in your life in someway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:55 PM
3

Because loyalty thats never tested doesnt mean much and at the end of the day a woman wants a guy she can brag about and rely on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:04 PM
2

I would because thats obviously cheating what I mean is outside of the context of a relationship no one cares about women using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:10 PM
1

No one cares about women using male escorts its a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:06 PM
3

Women give advice based on the baseline of attraction being met already. They dont give advice on how to get to that baseline in the first place. That is why men say they give bad advice. Its like telling someone to get in shape but not giving them a good workout and diet plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:20 PM
9

Reminds me of this show I watched where this woman was sleeping with a guy and he told her straight up. "I might be garbage but you're the one that likes to roll in it."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:11 PM
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Nah its cowardly when it comes this post for example when a woman calls a man gay what she really wants to say is "you're a sissy cocksucker" she just doesn't have the heart to say it so she has to frame it in a way to make the man look like the bad guy. If you're afraid of repercussions its best to keep your mouth shut period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:54 PM
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Insults are based off of intent. The issue is that alot of people are too cowardly to be bold about it and try to gaslight saying it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:39 PM
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A woman's dream guy is always a contradiction. A handsome hypermasculine dude thats sensitive to her feelings, charming, funny, and conveniently lets her fuck other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:26 PM
1

If a woman doesnt respect your boundaries she doesnt respect you. Having boundaries doesn't mean people are gonna care about them. Now if you want to enforce your boundaries you have to have power but thats a different conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:45 PM
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Terms like nice and good are purely contextual. A rabbit is nice because its harmless a German shepherd that doesn't chose to maul your face is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:47 PM
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No because being a woman has its own separate problems and its not like they appreciate any advantages they might have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:05 PM
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Just because you're someones dream partner doesn't necessarily mean that they will treat you well that's a common misconception. For some people its just a person thats hot that let's them do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:57 PM
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You sound like the "nice guys" women complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:50 PM
2

It comes from finding one thing to be confident about and then another and so on. Basically giving your brain a positive feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:43 PM
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Because reddits definition of being "honest" is giving people a powerpoint on why they shouldnt date you its silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:28 AM
3

If youre insecure about it and tell the whole world about it yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:26 AM
1

You still have to have the qualities of the men she actually chooses. The trick is to be "less bad" not completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:30 PM
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I mean at the end of the day if you're vague about what youre looking for people will form their own conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:05 PM
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Because if thats all they wanted they would already have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:28 PM
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Men wanna get laid morals are good and all but it really isnt a selling point by itself when it comes to romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:07 PM
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You shouldn't need a "pass" to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:05 PM
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Its only simping when its one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:59 PM
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I dont think most people care as long as the other person isn't being a bitch or asshole about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:23 PM
1

The nice guys finish last narrative comes from the fact that they are too cowardly to actually go after what they desire and it expands outside of sex and relationships. They're afraid of taking risks, afraid of letting their intentions known with a girl, and afraid of not being liked so much so they dont even have a personality. Hes not the type of person someone wants to rely on or find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:49 PM
3

Well being in the friendzone is bad for a man because the woman this scenario is taking advantage of the mans love for her benefit without giving anything back in return. A man being friends with a woman is fine because he doesnt see her as a love interest and doesn't want anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:44 PM
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Because alot of young men have this thing where they believe that people in large give a fuck about what they do or think so they are afraid of actually living their lives and taking risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:32 AM
2

Women tend to give bad advice because their advice is based on what benefits the girl more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:44 PM
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Your comment is one all men should read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:05 AM
1

She was a victim there's nothing to forgive but that doesn't mean that people are obligated to date her. Trying to moralize rejection is a fools errand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:18 PM
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A simp is just someone who puts another person on a pedestal and treats them better than that person treats them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:10 PM
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Its all about control women dont like men that "forget their place" shes lashing out because now she has to make a decision that most likely will have him leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:07 PM
2

Confidence is attractive if said person likes you or of you back it up with something. If they dont or you cant they either are neutral about you or find you obnoxious. In other words confidence is the baseline not a magic switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:39 PM
2

Incels dont even want to pay for sex because they have both a inferiority and superiority complex when it comes to their virginity. They put sex on such a high pedestal that they pretty much ensure that they'll never have it. Because if they do, then they'll lose their entire identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:19 PM
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Theres no such thing a woman only has clarity when it comes to the men they dont want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:30 PM
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Its more of a young guy thing. Eventually men stop asking because one they realize that most likely they arent gonna get an honest answer and two it makes them look insecure. What matters more is the type a man a woman sleeps with not some number.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:48 PM
2

You can be nice you just cant give off the vibe of being harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:39 PM
1

Caring implies that you give someone a second thought. Women dont care about passport bros they just dont like men that go on unhinged rants insulting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:28 PM
1

You dont have to become an asshole you just cant give off the vibe that you're harmless and that being nice is your selling point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:55 PM
1

I think most women would be weirded out if he did tell them that when it wasn't asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:11 PM
1

Yes its called being affably evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:12 PM
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Insecure people feel the need to justify their choices. Instead of saying I like bad boys or whatever and keep it moving they have to write 10 paragraph essays as to why nice guys are actually worse human beings based on nothing. Its honestly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:53 PM
1

"She said she was sorry she wasn't treating him badly!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:40 PM
2

More so the first girl here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:13 PM
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From what I've seen the only women who shame men for using sex workers are men who they dont find desirable. When it comes to attractive men they either look the other way or pretend it doesnt happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:57 PM
1

Nothing wrong with being nice it just cant be your selling point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:56 PM
14

If a woman makes you feel insecure you're free to leave her life is too short to try and convince her to respect you. She either does or doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:58 PM
2

Men dont hate women that like bad men. They hate women who like bad men and shit on men that arent bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:34 PM
3

This should be obvious but alot of dudes on this sub think that telling a woman that youre "undesirable" is a good thing and act suprised when they pick someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:40 PM
1

You’re stressing over the opinions of people who wouldn’t think twice about you. Most of them are self righteous hypocrites anyway. Sex isn’t sacred it’s just a thing humans do, not a prize or a moral test. Just an activity that people do for all kinds of nuanced reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:07 PM
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There's always an option just pay for it if it really bothers you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:52 PM
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I dont get why men that believe dont just pay for it if youre undesirable you dont get brownie points for not paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:05 PM
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When it comes to paying for sex its less about the act itself and more so who does it. If a woman thinks a man is loser either way he doesnt get brownie points for not paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:26 AM
3

This is a non issue because if a woman is into the guy she wont think that he's the type to use them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:25 PM
21

Being called husband material is only a compliment if she finds you desirable otherwise it doesnt mean anything. Women usually say it in the context of rejecting a guy softly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:23 PM
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When it comes to alot of things from a woman's perspective its more about who does a certain act more than the actual act itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:00 PM
1

When all you have to offer is being nice yes you finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:33 PM
1

This post was removed for circlejerking she doesnt want to debate she just wanted people to agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:13 PM
-1

Baggage is only a problem when you try and make other people carry it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:57 PM
17

I think a huge issue is men not knowing wether they’re truly nice guys or assholes. Most men fall somewhere in the middle if we are being honest and besides most of the times those labels are meaningless. You're nice until you say "no" and you're an asshole until you say "yes"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:41 PM
4

"Too perfect" is just a nice way of rejecting someone. No one is gonna reject someone they really feel is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:07 AM
2

Dont be nice its performative. Be decent as in have common courtesy for others but never go out of your way to treat someone better than they treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:37 PM
1

Women dont honestly care about it. I guarantee you if passport bros and whoremaxxers kept quiet about things no one would give them a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:17 PM
1

Its all innate shit from our caveman days our lizard brain tells us that a woman that sleeps around cant be trusted long term because of fidelity and paternity issues. Its the same reason why women dont desire passive nice guys because he cant be trusted to protect her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:19 PM
3

It was sold that way so well off men could have women look the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:24 PM
16

Outside of common courtesy a woman's comfort isnt your problem. You'll go crazy trying to do things the "correct" way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:10 PM
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The best policy is to be decent. Never treat people any better than they treat you. Its not worth the effort of trying to prove that you're a nice person its a fickle label people take away when its convenient for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:00 PM
1

The only thing that matters is what you're getting in the relationship what she did with other dudes doesn't matter. If you feel like your needs aren't being met leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:26 PM
1

Confidence is only attractive if people feel like you have a reason to be. If you dont people will be neutral at best or treat you with disdain at worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:35 PM
1

No because a woman that cheats deep down doesnt want to be forgiven. If a man takes her back she would respect him even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:22 AM
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I got a question, why do y’all never have all this energy for the dudes that actually do you wrong? Like you gotta project it on random dudes that don’t know you from a can of paint. Because what they really want is validation for their choices in men so they have to demonize the guys they dont want in order to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:52 PM
0

The tea just exposes the type of men the weapon that use it sleep with. The green flag guys arent the men they choose so it's a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:39 AM
14

Yeah when it works out its "I wanted this" when it doesnt its " he took advantage of me"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:23 PM
3

When women say they want a man that's vulnerable they mean vulnerable in a way that projects strength not weakness. Its less about what you've been through and more about what you overcame.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:23 PM
2

In a ideal world people would stay in their lane. Good girls would date good guys. Criminals would date Criminals and so on. The issue however is that alot of people dont really chase love they chase experiences. Once I heard a woman say that fucking bad boys builds character that's all that I needed to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:46 AM
27

I dont think most men that sleep with sex workers advertise that. The same way cheaters dont advertise that they are cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:37 PM
0

Yes the only reason this narrative of only losers pay for it exists is so woman will look the other way and focus on the men they dont want instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:40 PM
16

The biggest lie ever told was that only undesirable men pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:57 AM
6

They are reddit is full of guys that think self sabotage is noble.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:11 PM
0

Alot of people on reddit like to romantize self sabotage under the guise of being noble or being honest. Its like no you arent a good person for telling people you are a loser you're just a self loathing fool that feels like you arent worthy of anything good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:59 PM
11

Nah dating someone under the guise of doing them a favor just causes resentment on both sides. When men say choose better they mean women that ignore obvious red flags but choose said men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:09 PM
6

Pretty much no one cares about your preference just dont shit on others for not falling under it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:14 PM
10

Don't try to be friends with someone you want to date. At best be an acquaintance that way if you ask them out and they reject you neither side gets hurt and she can't use the "you were only friends with me to date me" excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:49 PM
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Confidence is just having the mindset of thinking that you're worthy of going after what you want. It doesnt guarantee success and it doesn't mean that everyone is going to like you. It also shouldn't go away completely just because of the opinions of someone that doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:55 PM
5

Its not about whether you're a dickhead or not. The basis for sex and relationships is always desire or benefit. A unattractive dickhead can still get play if a woman feels like there is a benefit to sleeping with him. If a guy lacks both then he gets nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:47 PM
1

Being nice is ideal but it cant be the only thing going for you. The bare minimum has always been either desire or benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:43 PM
2

Dude true confidence comes from thinking you're worthy of pursing whatever the hell you want out of life. What it's not is crying because a woman said something bitchy to you. Anyone can make a cutting remark that doesn't mean you break down because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:57 PM
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The bar is low if women find you attractive but since women don't find most men attractive the bar doesn't even apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:39 PM
1

Yeah it's best to not be friends with someone you wanna date. You should be an acquaintance at best that way if you get rejected you move on and neither party gets hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:40 PM
16

"You're a nice guy." Translation: you're boring and I can't find anything worthwhile to compliment you on. Womanese is implications that are vague and can mean anything. Direct communication leaves no room for interpretation at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:12 AM
3

There's no need to date a woman with a ex that is always connected to her and a woman who more often than not still in love with said ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:08 PM
1

Because alot of guys get validation from earning things. In reality no one really cares and they would think you are weird for sharing the information.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:01 PM
12

His biggest mistake was not doing all this stuff behind closed doors with actual professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:14 PM
1

I'm basing my answer more so on dating a woman with a bitchy attitude. Not necessarily a woman that's abusive. Which is what OP is implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:21 PM
1

The first one because her "disrespect" isn't really malicious if she does in fact love you. It's like a woman calling her man a loser and she doesn't plan on leaving or cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:37 PM
1

Yeah this is the way there is and between being honest and being too honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:23 PM
7

This is the only right answer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:33 PM
3

Remember 365 days? Lmao a rich handsome mob boss kidnaps a woman and makes her fall in love with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:44 AM
3

In the sequel that everyone hates he does end up with a beautiful woman. Which undid the message of the orginal movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:12 PM
7

More like enjoyable to be around. I've been around assholes that are a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:38 PM
8

Gaston just wanted what he couldn't have. Didn't he have blond triplets after him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:31 PM
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People don't get this mentality from Disney they get it from people not giving them real advice on how to actually get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:27 PM
7

Being "extra nice" means nothing if the man isn't attractive to said woman. There is no overcompensating for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:13 PM
3

I mean men already don't have to be nice to get sex and relationships from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:15 PM
9

It's not about what people think it's about what they do. Of course most people consciously won't think that an unattractive person is a bad person but if they otherwise treat them with disdain what they think is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:11 PM
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When a person makes their trauma your problem instead of treating you like an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:16 PM
5

Men usually can joke about anything. I've noticed that most women comedians only talk about how much of a hoe they are or their vaginas. It gets old very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:22 PM
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The "icks" are just excuses women come up with when they aren't into a guy. Don't put so much weight into it. Nothing you do will ever be good to the wrong woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:59 PM
1

Because there is no validation in paying for it.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/25 03:06 PM
16

It's bad advice because it's not actually real advice. Telling someone that they need to do the bare minimum in order to get something just makes them lazy and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:02 PM
3

I guess it only becomes an issue if they don't treat you as individual and expect you to act a certain way in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:30 PM
13

Because alot of times women aren't real friends with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:06 AM
12

It never should've been a theory in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:05 AM
3

No strings attached
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:21 PM
6

Well they kinda have to be nice if they want a repeating client.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:51 PM
1

There has to be a base level of attraction for it to turn into love. Otherwise they are just a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:02 PM
7

A guy being wholesome isn't enough to make him dateable if that's all he has going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:21 AM
1

Sexy type of vulnerability "I was a war orphan and I did alot of things to survive that I'm not proud of." Unattractive type of vulnerability "I'm a short guy and I'm insecure about it."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:12 PM
1

Depends on the guy and how much masculinity tokens he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:07 PM
8

Some people still consider that "lying" they feel entitled to know everything about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:24 PM
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I don't have to if she wants to open up she will if she doesn't well she was never really there in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:33 PM
0

My rule is that ill be as transparent as my partner is. If she wants me to be a open book she's gonna have to be. It's only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:09 PM
7

It's because it's their entire identity. They know deep down even if they did have sex nothing would change about them and that scares them. So it's easier to put something they can't have on a pedestal.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/25 01:30 PM
1

Because making people laugh and being laughed at are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:57 PM
7

This tactic doesn't work anymore the cat is out of the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:39 PM
1

It depends on the context. If you desire the guy and say it it's fine if not it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:18 AM
1

If she's shown attraction to me it's a compliment if she hasn't it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:04 PM
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They do they just play by a different set of rules. Otherwise they get taken out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:43 PM
0

Two different men do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:53 PM
2

People do lie especially if it goes against the image they are trying to project. A person who claims they aren't shallow aren't going to admit to finding someone attractive for superficial reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:42 PM
2

There's no such thing as toxic masculinity because being a jerk isn't gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:57 PM
1

True but if you are it's appreciated a hell of alot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:17 PM
1

It's not niceness that's a turn off it's being nice as a form of submission that's a turn off. The trick is to have your kindness come from a position of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:45 PM
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Men do tell other men to choose better though. Then they get called insecure and sexist or whatever the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:50 PM
1

Family doesn't even love unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:19 PM
1

It's no different than female lead shows where the girl is bland and has attractive men after her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:48 PM
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People don't really care about your preferences. People only get mad when you shit on others that don't fit them. I'm not saying you are doing that specifically but it's a pattern I've seen on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:50 PM
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No one owes anyone anything just don't bitch when people walk away and get their needs met elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:21 PM
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Eh I mean it can be true in alot of cases but you can still have those qualities and not be a virgin. A socially awkward or ugly guy can just use escorts for example. A mentally ill person can still get laid on the basis that they are good looking and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:12 PM
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It's mainly the thought process a woman may have as to why a man is a virgin past a certain age. Most of the time it's never good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:34 PM
1

Quote the full quote next time and read what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:42 PM
0

Everyone is shallow to a degree. If you're only an asshole with nothing to offer you won't get play. If you're only nice with nothing to offer you won't get play.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:31 PM
1

Nope wanting someone attractive is normal asshole or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:41 PM
1

People want what they want not logically what's best for them. A woman can find a good man on paper but if she's not attracted to him what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:27 PM
2

I've learned that most people don't care really about your preferences. People only get upset when you say them and then shit on others when they don't fall under it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:24 PM
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Ill say a Man because if your wife leaves you for a woman she wanted something completely different if she leaves you for a man she wanted something better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:42 PM
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Confident and smart women do just fine. Confident smart and insufferable don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:22 PM
1

I mean what's the alternative? The guy getting jealous of the man you date and making passive aggressive comments about your choices? Women don't like Xander Harris for a reason. Sometimes it's best for both people to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:22 PM
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Expecting someone to stick around when you don't or can't give them what they want is childish. There's nothing wrong with a guy leaving a friendship when he gets rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:53 PM
3

There's no way to hold another person accountable for anything bad they do unless you have power over them in some way. Telling an abuser that abuse is wrong does nothing if ultimately that woman still goes home to him the same night and still loves the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:05 AM
2

The safe choice that she finds desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:19 AM
1

If a guy can be attractive enough to get away with being a jerk then being a jerk isn't a deal breaker being ugly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:48 PM
1

The issue is that women want men who they are already fucking them to do this when it obviously isn't a deal breaker for said guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:14 PM
2

It doesn't happen that way there's plenty of men that get with "hoes" just to realize they aren't hoes for them. "I'm not that girl anymore teehee."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:00 PM
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This whole nice guy paradox is quite frankly a waste of time. The truth is that it's just a term women came up with to justify why don't find a certain type of man attractive by trying to psychoanalyze people they don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:07 PM
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They lie because their image is the most important thing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:55 PM
1

Most people don't give a damn about understanding others. People usually just make snap judgments and move on with their lives because you aren't important to them. Explaining your perspective is a waste of time more often than not because it comes off as approval seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:37 PM
46

Confident and ugly turns into "arrogant" or "overcompensating" really quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:03 PM
2

Eh the girl in the video just comes off as a traumatized mentally ill woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:29 PM
1

Sure if they learn the first time but usually too many negative experiences just turn into women into chronic victims or bitter jaded people and maybe even both.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:48 AM
2

Let's be honest would women even give men how to get laid advice if they ask? Or would they just it's not their job to help you get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:01 PM
3

Yes the same way a cherry on the top of a milkshake helps but it's not the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:07 PM
24

Empathy alone isn't gonna get a man a relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:50 PM
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No it's not alot of people care more about projecting a image instead of being what they actually claim to be. It's good and useful advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:02 PM
10

I remember seeing a woman taking it and she basically said she wanted to fuck all her male workers for no other reason than just to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:03 PM
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Because alot of women have this idea that if they don't want you no woman should. They also don't like men they feel undesirable being able to "cheat code" their way into another woman's pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:50 PM
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Who are these women boycotting? The men that they already don't sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:34 PM
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Women usually don't give men advice that mainly benefits the man at the woman's expense when it comes to sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:06 PM
3

woman like men that are sensitive to their feelings not men that are actually sensitive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:13 PM
1

Look unless you're a historical figure no one is gonna remember you in a hundred years no matter what you do. Men are valued by what they can offer a woman. A man that is a former fuckboy that stops being one for her sake can offer said woman validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:41 PM
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He could take up a traditionally masculine hobby like boxing. Women on a subconscious level want a man they feel can protect them if need be. He doesn't need to display it but he can mention it causally in a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:49 PM
4

Usually when a woman says a guy is too nice she's basically saying that she thinks he's too soft and lacks a certain edge to him or that he isn't being authentic. He gives off the vibe of trying to get her to like him instead of being himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:24 PM
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Basically a guy who has good qualities but not attractive qualities that women get aroused by. A man can be as virtuous as Jesus but if he can't turn a women on he's gonna be seen as unfuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:21 PM
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The whole bad boy thing is context based and completely arbitrary. It's less about what is done and more so who does it. Women will say Jax teller is a bad boy and walter white an irredeemable piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:29 PM
8

I mean you can have high standards and still be promiscuous it's not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:26 PM
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You're right no woman cares if a Don Draper type sleeps with prostitutes. The men they shame for using them are the ones they don't want anyway so it doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:22 PM
8

Woman constantly say that their sexual past isn't a man's business so men that went on a escort binge shouldn't feel obligated to tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:26 PM
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Nah this is something women worry more about. If I really like a woman I don't care if other people don't find her attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:22 PM
4

Not me but I've seen women on here say that whenever a guy complains about "chad" doing immoral things. Something along the lines that unattractive men are just mad they can't get away with treating women like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:08 PM
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If they do women call them jealous losers if they don't women complain about them not calling bad behavior out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:59 PM
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They are but it doesn't happen as often so people don't care to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:46 PM
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Nope the only detector women have is whether or not they find you attractive if they don't they'll look for any reason to try and justify it. A woman can hate you for the same reason she loves another guy for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:10 AM
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Powerful women usually want men more Powerful than them. Men lesser than them they might entertain for amusement or "needs" but they'll never really take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:06 PM
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It's all mental gymnastics to not appear shallow to others. She won't say the reason she rejected a guy is because he's a ugly fat ass. She'll say it's because he's an asshole or soft or too nice or creepy or evil or whatever is convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:23 PM
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It doesn't say anything because it doesn't describe anything. It's the most empty form of compliment someone can give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:48 PM
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Being nice doesn't mean anything if the woman isnt already attracted to you. It's not something that makes you anymore attractive or less attractive than you already are it's a neutral trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:33 PM
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If anything younger women are harder to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:09 PM
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Men that fall under this category shouldn't bring it up because women take assumptions as fact 9/10 anyways. Why plant that seed in her head that you're a loser or there's something off about you? Alot of men's problems would go away if they just knew when to shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:56 PM
4

They get caught lying because they exaggerated or lied about something that could easily be proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:13 PM
4

Women want the option to be able to get away with it it's biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:03 PM
1

There a tons of educational videos online about how to please a woman in bed so there's no excuse for a virgin to be a lousy lover in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:43 PM
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Nothing turns a woman off more than a guy implying that he's unfuckable so I don't know why he would volunteer this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:13 PM
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They only look down on what they know and how would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:40 PM
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Men don't want bad girl sluts they want a bad girl that is one only for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:08 PM
12

Better to be the man they complain about over being the man the complain to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:21 PM
8

Being called a fuckboy isn't a insult if they reward said fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:25 PM
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Anyone who feels the need to put you in your place for daring to like yourself more than they like you is an asshole that you shouldn't be around with anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:18 PM
4

All relationships are to a degree they just can't FEEL transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:24 PM
3

If you're attracted to them but they are like a nurse or lawyer or something it's fine imo but alot of dudes stay in the friendzone with basic bitches that work at Starbucks which is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:27 PM
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Loved yes been loved back? Results may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:48 PM
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Why would a man pay to get rejected when they can get rejected for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:27 PM
2

I'll rather get no compliments than something that's not genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:52 PM
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Alot of guys don't realize this but if a woman doesn't care about your compliments she doesn't like you. It's not about what you say it's about who says it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:14 PM
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Women are experts at giving non compliments and playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:10 PM
1

5/10 women value commitment over sex anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:41 PM
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If you don't reward what you want you don't deserve to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:48 PM
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Chris Evans could hit her up with a "wyd" text at 2am and she would take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:31 PM
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Reminds me of hawks and endeavor from MHA.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:40 PM
3

Makes sense if men aren't allowed to be victims they will by default be seen as assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:27 PM
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Simple it's because they don't get validation nor bragging rights from sleeping with a prostitute. Also they claim they want an actual relationship with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:52 PM
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Men in general don't get the luxury of being victims which is why so many men end up less empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:20 PM
4

I agree if a woman likes you your flaws are either downplayed or reconstructed as something positive. If she doesn't your flaws are either exaggerated or just seen in a negative light.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:29 PM
21

What happened to the so called woman's intuition?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:09 PM
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If she's still with the guy and doesn't plan on leaving her complaints mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:04 PM
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It's just women gaslighting themselves into believing that unattractive men are worse people than the ones they sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:30 PM
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People treat ugly and confident people as annoying arrogant pests because in their mind they say "Where does this guys ego come from?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:14 PM
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It she treats him like shit she settled
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:41 PM
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Insecurity comes from somewhere usually if a man is insecure it's either because of something a woman has said or done to him. Alot of people are too lazy to even pretend to be good partners these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:57 PM
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The only losers in life are those who don't go after what they want because they care about too much about the opinions of people that don't give a shit about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:45 PM
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I don't mind a woman making me wait if she's consistent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:33 PM
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Someone who gives more than they receive with little or no reciprocation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:11 PM
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Usually men find out their girl had a wild past if she is still surrounded by people she shared that past with or with people who know about it. Eventually it comes to light. Wild women are friends with other wild women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:54 PM
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I always took it as don't treat people any better than they treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:13 AM
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Theres nothing wrong with being in the friendzone if she's actually brings something of value in your life. If she's a nurse, lawyer or has connections that interest you cool. If she's just some basic bitch that works at Starbucks move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:15 PM
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Nah being nice is a trait it's not actually a real standard. The bare minimum is being fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:10 PM
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I go by a mans actions attractive or not but if that's the narrative you want to go with that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:11 PM
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Usually when men berate men for being scumbags yall always respond by just saying that they are just jealous of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:33 PM
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shes gonna conveniently ignore this post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:31 PM
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Women like that usually create narratives in their head to justify dating or sleeping with said men. It's easier to demonize people you don't find desirable than those you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:54 PM
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Trauma is a very powerful thing. If this is a way a man copes consider it a blessing the alternative is him going on a homicidal rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:59 AM
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No promiscuous women get commitment all the time if they have pleasant personalities. For all the shit men talk if he can find a woman that fucks him well and treats him right he will overlook alot of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:22 PM
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Those men are just talking shit everyone conveniently has high standards online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:00 AM
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I thought women had a 6th sense for these things thats what they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:52 PM
4

I mean who do you think is more likely able to afford escorts? Some broke loser in his mothers basement with no job or a guy that can actually pay for it because he's a functional member of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:20 PM
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men who got that route usually want women that are out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:32 AM
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Even if they get the "perfect" man they'll still self sabotage because he will make her self conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:13 PM
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High class escorts in the US usually arent trafficked. Alot of them do it on the side ive seen nurses with an OFs sell sex on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:16 PM
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The thing about confidence is that its only attractive if people feel like you have a reason to be confident in the first place. No one cares about how confident a loser is. They'll just tell themselves that the person is projecting false bravado.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:37 PM
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Insecurity is just another buzzword to shame men now. It's a kin to saying I dont care about your standards take whatever bullshit I offer anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:58 PM
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Yes either she likes scumbags or shes not worth shit herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:37 AM
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You can only enforce boundaries from a position of power. People who break boundaries dont care about your boundaries in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:03 PM
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Social skills are important but if you are lacking in any of those other areas it doesnt matter. What is most important is having the whole package or atleast be well balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:40 PM
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This is why care based morality is evil folks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:26 AM
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Because they are fantasy and have no base in reality. I mean if a guy wants to be a tall handsome guy that's a vampire, a sex god, and a billionaire hes welcome to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:41 AM
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It's because Men and women have different definitions of what a loser is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:34 PM
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yeah no most men dont want to be assholes to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:30 PM
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A man that's only nice to her isnt nice hes just a guy that is whipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:51 PM
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Most people dont disagree with the red pill they just dont like the way things are said because it makes them feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:49 PM
2

I mean is it really a settle if they never truly had the attractive guy in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:40 PM
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Even if that were to happen and their clients were only Calvin Klein models most women still wouldn't accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:33 PM
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Yeah but who cares people who end up in shitty relationships will weed themselves out from those who want to be in healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:44 PM
5

The worst thing a man can be is harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:36 PM
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Unfortunately a few people have basically given up on them because they are a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:35 PM
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Being in one abusive relationship is fine two is bad luck but three or more? Yeah that's when you have to look at yourself. People are only as good as they have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:14 AM
2

Look you can do whatever you want but what you cant do is dictate how people SHOULD react to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:54 PM
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If a man is dumb enough to admit it yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:31 PM
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That's a smut novel though. Oh the handsome billionaire bad boy had such a tragic life. It's a woman writing her sexual fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:21 PM
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Yeah this is a response to those late bloomers and autism posts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:24 PM
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Most men that experienced that keep it to themselves because people care so little about it they even make jokes about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:41 PM
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I mean woman already dont do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:37 PM
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Women on here claim that average guys arent kinder they just cant get away with being assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:59 PM
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You dont if you want to cry in a womans arms make sure it's not with the woman you are sleeping or want to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:32 PM
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Live your life and stop taking what mentally ill women on a niche subreddit say seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:23 AM
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Therapy doesnt work for men because men are problem solvers talking about our issues just pisses us off more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:44 AM
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Our ancestors were on to something when you leave people to their own devices most of them self sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:36 PM
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Things like virtue and decency have nothing to do with attraction. People want you to be these things because it makes the world a better place not because it'll help you get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:17 PM
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Alot of what is smooth and charming comes down to attraction. If a girl isn't into you they will just say that you are a cornball that's trying too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:08 PM
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My thing is this a man doesnt owe a woman anything just because she slept with him. If a woman wants to sleep with a guy she needs to do it because she wants to not because she has ulterior motives like trying to get commitment or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:12 PM
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He has a point being a chronic victim is not a good thing and usually when you try to help them they end up hurting you as collateral damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:07 AM
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Its good advice but it has to a be attached to something otherwise people wont care about how confident you are you will just be seen as an annoying pest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:35 AM
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Nothing wrong with passport bros what is pathetic is how many of them want approval from folks that don't care about what's best from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:23 PM
0

Having a red flag is bad having no red flags is also bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:18 PM
3

A woman would date a guy who visits escorts if he is already desirable. Besides how would she know unless the guy actually tells her? Having preferences that depends on someone telling you things they aren't obligated to tell you is a waste of time worrying about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:37 PM
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Because most men dont want to pay for sex it doesn't matter if it's legal or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:20 PM
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Nothing will change most men dont want to pay for sex whether it's legal or not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:19 PM
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Contrary to belief escorts say that most of their clients arent sexless incels that live in their mother's basements but men that are functional members of society that can actually afford their services.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:15 PM
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Most advice is shitty in general because the giver usually ignores the context as to why their actions worked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:28 PM
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Yeah we train our minds to think a certain way subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:50 PM
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The attraction has to be there in the first place for it to build up. Usually when friends become lovers its because the foundation of it was based on flirting and sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:26 AM
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Personality is 1/3 of the picture. Looks and behavior are the other components.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:52 PM
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Life isnt about "should" its about "what is" its your job to protect yourself as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:11 AM
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People tend to subconsciously surround themselves with people that confirms their worldviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:47 PM
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exactly if people think you are a loser it doesnt matter how confident you are they will just turn it into a flaw
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:38 PM
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Choosing you implies that there was a dramatic love triangle and you got picked. In reality it's more so her settling for a guy because the one she really wanted didnt want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:40 PM
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There is no universal way you will eventually have to piss off someone if you want to be respected. Care less about being liked and care more about surrounding yourself with people who want to do right by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:20 PM
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Look if a woman doesnt like you nothing you do will be right so theres no point in stressing over it. Too many guys care way too much about what some random girl thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:32 PM
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Ah so the bar is low for men's behavior when it comes to men they find attractive(which looks also tie into) yeah no shit. My point is that there's a threshold that has to be met before behavior is even considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:46 PM
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A mans looks usually determines how his behavior is perceived the game was always rigged to a certain degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:32 PM
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Because men find the majority of women fuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:07 PM
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I overheard one of my coworkers basically saying that your 1st marriage is for love your 2nd marriage is for what that person can offer you. Shes currently twice divorced and a single mom of two.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:56 PM
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At this point in my life I care more about the type of men shes been with more than the amount. Asking a woman's N count is a waste of time anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:45 AM
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They always give off the vibe of having one foot out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:50 PM
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Lets be real people will label you whatever they want if its convenient. If you have self respect someone will say you have an ego problem. If you are assertive someone will call you stubborn. If you are confident someone will call you overcompensating. Too many people get caught up on labels when they come from those that want nothing to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:43 PM
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Assholes get women In spite of being assholes not because they are assholes. If you are an ugly guy that has nothing going for him it doesnt matter what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:55 PM
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Bad boys are usually the type of guys that would get the pussy regardless if they were nice or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:01 AM
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The difference is that one has attractive qualities the other only has good qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:58 PM
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Realize that most people you meet Dont think about you much if at all Dont care about you Will never see you again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:12 PM
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Eh even if a guy is respectful about it people will assume he has those preferences for negative reasons. Dont want a woman that sleeps around = you're afraid you cant compare to past lovers You want a woman that's younger than you even though both of you are of legal age = you want to have power over her You dont want a fat woman = you're superficial You dont want a woman who is still friends with her exes = you are insecure and have trust issues Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:31 PM
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Genuine kind guy = agreeableness I like Spineless nice guy = agreeableness I dont like Guy with a backbone = disagreeableness I like Asshole = disagreeableness I dont like It's not that complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:15 PM
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This has always been woman speak for I dont find you fuckable so I have to attack your character so I wont look or feel shallow for rejecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:24 PM
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Eh men dont get to be victims so yeah they shouldve chosen better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:00 AM
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The only difference between an asshole and a man with a spine is that one has disagreeableness you dont like and the other one has disagreebleness you do like. Labels change on a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:30 PM
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You can be vulnerable once in blue moon if you have enough imaginary masculinity tokens. The problem is that alot guys want to be vulnerable with a woman that already thinks they are a little bitch to be begin with and act surprised when it doesnt go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:15 PM
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Because most people dont take a womans words at face value so they dont think they really hate their husbands. Its less about what women say and more about what their actions tell you. There's a difference between them calling you a loser and treating you like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:50 PM
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Because a lot of them pick men based off of how they make them feel being a good or bad person is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:41 AM
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It's legal because they are apart of the economy the real reason prostitution isnt legal is because uncle sam cant profit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:10 PM
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A woman that thinks a guy owes her anything just because she slept with him is like a guy that thinks a girl owes him something just because he's not a jerk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:04 PM
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wanna know a persons character see how they treat someone they dont want anything from
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:35 AM
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Sometimes victims need to be blamed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:11 AM
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It was always bullshit woman dont have "Creep" radar they only have a "I dont want to sleep with you" radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:06 AM
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Based comment At the end of the day if a woman doesnt like you and you do something positive she will reconstruct it into a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:03 AM
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Its why indifference is the worst position to be in atleast the guy she hates makes her feel something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:39 AM
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Its always been an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:23 AM
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Personality only matters if you can get over a womans looks threshold. An ugly nerd would have to compensate in other ways to get women. Being an asshole wont work if he doesn't have something going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:22 AM
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Women dont want a harmless guy they want a guy that can be harmful to others for her sake if need be. Take up something that is traditionally masculine like boxing or something to give yourself that "edge".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:13 AM
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Being called husband material doesnt mean much if you yourself dont plan on getting married anytime soon. Its basically a term used to reject a guy nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:05 AM
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Depends on the type of friend the guy is. Is he the type of friend that you have a sexual past with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:16 AM
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another reason is that for alot of women being a victim is a flex a genuine good man cant give them that he makes them question themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:38 AM
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its not the bare minimum its only a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:49 PM
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A boring woman is a consistent woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:31 AM
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Sounds like they want a boyfriend to me. Stop expecting flings to be anything more than flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:21 PM
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Eh women dont need men to think a certain way for them to think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:14 PM
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No its the other way around your looks and what you offer influence how people perceive your personality its called the halo effect. No one is gonna date or sleep with a person just because they have a good personality or values alone its not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:52 AM
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Personality is important but its not as important as looks and what you have to offer the other person. Looks > what you offer > Personality > Values
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:15 AM
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You only know the difference if you don't find them attractive. If a hot guy was only being nice in order to get into your pants you conveniently wouldn't notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:36 AM
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Because women as a whole arent harsh on men that sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:20 PM
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Becacuse blaming a man for being shitty doesnt do anything if that shitty guy is still getting what he wants from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:19 PM
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Yes because a woman that isnt emotionally invested in you is a woman that truly isnt there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:49 AM
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Because a womans virtue is valued by default by men a mans virtue is only valued by a woman if he has the something to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:34 PM
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I've never heard a guy complain about his gf/wife being a "slut" for him in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:54 AM
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If the only thing a woman can describe you as is being a nice guy it means there's nothing she finds interesting about you. A woman being indifferent about you is the worst spot to be in when it comes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:54 PM
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Attractive people are more likely to be narcissistic because more people give them reasons to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:56 PM
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This post sounds like someone who is trying to sound righteous in rejecting someone they dont find attractive it's a non issue. Morals has nothing to do with who gets love and who doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:24 PM
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People only appreciate kindness when the other person is from a position of power anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:39 AM
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He doesnt have to tell her like a woman will never tell a guy here true body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:55 PM
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Wear your heart on a sleeve.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:37 PM
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Confidence is only attractive if they feel like you have a reason to be confident otherwise you are either delusional or overcompensating. The thing is though being confident should be more about how you see yourself not mainly about trying to attract people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:24 AM
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A hitman with a good heart maybe like Richard Harrow 🤷🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:44 PM
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I just find it convenient that women only know a guy is a douchebag or "not really nice" when they arent attracted to said guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:12 PM
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At the end of the day women choose with their bodies anything else is either lies, excuses, or gaslighting take your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:09 PM
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People justify their dating preferences and demonize what they don't chose as a way to cope with their decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:27 AM
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I remember a guy saying that hes ok with a woman making him wait he'll just sleep with other woman on the side because he assumes shes doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:47 AM
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Quasimodo didn't get Esmeralda so why would a man want to be like that? If anything they should want to be like Phoebus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:25 AM
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They want a nice guy that has an edge to them. The thing is that you have to show her this in someway otherwise she's going to put you in a certain box. This is what nice guys dont understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:20 PM
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Yes the male fantasy is to slay the monster and get the glory the female fantasy is to tame the monster. Its why beauty and the beast is the gold standard for a female lead heroine story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:43 PM
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This comment reminds me of felicity from arrow no she isnt a "nerd" shes a model with glasses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:28 PM
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I also heard that it didnt work in other countries because for one the sellers tend to get more shady clients that don't care about being arrested and two the sex workers actually have to cater even more to the buyers now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:39 AM
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Confidence - "I like you and you have a reason to be full of yourself." Arrogance - "I dont like you and you have no reason to be full of yourself." The main difference between confidence and arrogance really comes down to whether or not the other person likes you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:54 PM
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A womens type usually doesnt change. If she has a history of dating bikers shes not going to all of a sudden start dating a guy that works in IT unless shes looking for a provider or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:16 PM
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When a guy tells you he doesn't want any kids or if he doesnt offer you any kind of long commitment such as marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:58 AM
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The insecurity has nothing to do with sex it has everything to do with commitment. Alot of men want to sleep with their favorite pornstars even when they know for certain they have been with bigger and better. Most men however dont want to commit to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:32 PM
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Its flopping because of the slow pacing and the story not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:20 PM
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You just have to frame things in a way that wont make you look weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:44 AM
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Yeah pick me's actually get picked nice guys don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:21 AM
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I wouldn't recommend it unless you are fine never being 1st place in their heart. People romanticize the dead especially when they didn't have any closure with said person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:56 AM
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Being held accountable more =/= being respected more. Especially when being held accountable is tied more to a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:45 PM
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This is why you should never characterize yourself as being good or nice to begin with. All you are going to get are people who hold you to standards they don't hold themselves to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:53 PM
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I don't know man ruining your life for a piece of ass isn't worth it there's a reason most guys aren't the examples you've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:22 PM
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If a guy said that promiscuous women aren't worth the time and effort to commit to you would most likely call him judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:45 PM
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If you want to know what sex feels like it can but if you want genuine love and affection then yeah I agree but that's a different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:23 PM
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The easiest way to get by this is to not tell people you are one or if its really bad for your mental state visit a few different escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:05 PM
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What would you do if they enjoyed giving oral to their exes but don't like doing it with you would that be a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:11 PM
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Make this a post bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:33 AM
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This youtuber has an open relationship and the rule is that he isn't allow to hook up with someone unless she does and im like whats the point? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:21 AM
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if you punch 304 in a calculator and flip it upside down it spells "hoe"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:30 PM
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There's no such thing as a "creep" radar only a "I dont want to sleep with you" radar. Whether or not a guy is actually a creep is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:36 AM
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That's because the men you cheat with usually just wants some ass without the headache he's the one winning in his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:38 PM
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No because she wont be honest so its a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:36 PM
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If anything bad happens to you as a man its either because you were too dumb, too weak or just unlucky pick your poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:54 PM
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Both are shit but ill be more pissed at her cheating on me with a man because that would say I'm inadequate to her in some way. If she cheated on me with a woman its more of a "she wanted something I couldn't give her." sorta thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:20 AM
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Of course they can but that doesnt mean they are gonna change for you. It's best to deal with people who are already what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:32 AM
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ill say its more so narcissism than a savior complex. If he changes for her its because shes special and is better than all the women that came before her. That feeds her ego. If he doesn't change he's just a jerk and its not her fault the relationship didn't work out which protects her ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:34 PM
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That's just her way of justifying not dating decent men. Its a kin to me saying all women are cheaters so I might as well date a sex worker because that way I know what im getting myself into.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:19 PM
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But that doesn't mean they are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:09 AM
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A guy using escorts isnt going to change what women already think of him. I doubt women would care if John Hamn or Henry Cavill used any. If a woman thinks a guy is a loser for using one she already didn't think much of said guy in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:33 PM
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You can be a nice guy but you have to have an edge to you. Maybe you're a nice person but also a boxer or in the army. In the back of a woman's head she has to think that you have some masculine qualities that can used when shit hits the fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:31 PM
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What if asks you for one before you two even have a kid that way you wont be blind sighted?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:52 AM
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It really depends on the guys age and why he's a virgin. I'll say around 24 is when men enter the danger zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:57 PM
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Men dont ask because women would just say "Its not my job to help you get laid or how to be a fuckboy." There was a post on here about a guy asking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:04 AM
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The reason why those women love bad boys is because bad boys dont make them feel self conscious about needing to become better people. No need to blame yourself when you are with someone worse than you. It's a mix of both a victim complex and a savior complex. If he changes for her she feels special if he doesn't it not her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:55 PM
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which is silly because if he does change he'll no longer be the man she fell in love with and she'll dump him anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:04 AM
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A high N-Count is only a red flag if it's due to past trauma and the need for external validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:29 AM
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That's just an excuse plenty of people fall in love with someone they already know is a bad person. The issue is that red flags don't mean anything if red is your favorite color.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:31 AM
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If its ok for women to lie about how many guys she's been with its ok for a man to lie about his "experience"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:31 AM
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If that were true so many women wouldn't be in abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:55 PM
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Open relationships don't tend to work due to people having pride and egos. Jealously and insecurity is a powerful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:39 PM
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"Like" isnt a good term to use its more so they are attracted to qualities douchebags might have. Liking someone has nothing to do with love romance or respect.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 05:09 PM
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If everyone was hot there would just be a new standard to judge everyone by.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:51 AM
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People only appreciate kindness when it comes from a position of power in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:32 PM
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No its because evolutionary speaking if a woman slept around there was no way for a man to know if that child was actually his. Its just how a mans lizard brain is wired. Its also why chaste women were valued more historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:42 PM
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Its because our lizard brain tells us that if a woman sleeps around there is no way to know if our off spring is actually genetically ours. That's basically the evolutionary reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:30 PM
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Paying for sex isnt going to change what women already think of you. If you are desirable enough they will over look it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:12 PM
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Or they would cheat on their husbands with those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:00 AM
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Women that sleep around tend to regret it on some level and virgins tend to regret not sleeping around its a never ending cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:29 AM
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also take a shower and be kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:05 PM
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Meh he's a celerity ladies would be all over him regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:32 PM
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Men should workout, be charismatic, and have something of value to offer to a woman. A guy having a "good" heart isn't enough when it comes to romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:40 PM
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Wouldnt a parent only love their child because of the condition that it's their child?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:18 AM
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The truth is that being nice isn't an attractive quality its only a good quality to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:39 PM
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No not if they have a history of dating a certain type. People usually settle for stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:33 PM
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Yeah it's not how many guys shes been with it's more so the type of guys shes been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:28 PM
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Personality only matters when you past a certain looks threshold for said individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:25 PM
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Lets be honest women want a man that's desirable and if a guy paints himself as being undesirable hes not doing himself any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:09 PM
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I wasn't talking about that scenario read my comment again slowly next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:17 PM
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The issue men complain about is when she does enjoy those acts but not with the guy she is with because for whatever reason the current guy doesnt bring out that raw primal passion past men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:02 PM
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Yes and anyone who says otherwise better be prepared with the possible consequences if they go through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:29 AM
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Because he no longer is the man she fell in love with in the 1st place and will then leave him. Its basically a catch 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:21 PM
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I partially agree with you. I agree that being nice has nothing to do with a girl finding a guy attractive but lets not pretend that its somehow a standard needed for a girl to date or love a guy because its irrelevant. When a girl says that being nice is the bare minimum she's being disingenuous otherwise toxic and abusive men wouldn't be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:07 AM
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What I mean is that being nice is a bonus its a good quality to have but it has nothing to do with attraction. Which is why its not a standard when it comes to romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:16 AM
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Being "nice" isnt the bare minimum in fact its not a standard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:25 AM
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Exactly no one cares about your confidence if they already think you're a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:24 PM
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It's part ego part insecurity. If the relationship works out she can feel special if it doesn't work it's not her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:00 PM
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Badboys come with built in excuses for why the relationships didnt work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:00 AM
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Sure it just means that the person doesn't love them enough to not cheat and a lot of peoples "love" isn't really worth all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:08 PM
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That's because woman want a guy that chooses to be loyal someone that can cheat but wont instead of a guy that's loyal because no one else wants him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:21 PM
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I like the sweet kind nice types and the stoic silent girl type. So basically someone like Aerith from FF7 and Leona Heidern from KOF. Balalaika and bayonetta are two women that I really like too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:10 PM
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That's because they care more about being right than being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:53 PM
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The way I see it your confidence has to come from something that you cant lose. Look at it this way your confidence cant from the fact that you have a hot girlfriend but if it comes from the fact that you were able to get a hot girlfriend you are on the right track.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 03:18 PM
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They dont care about women "liking" them they just want to get laid.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 07:18 PM
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Men want to slay the monster and women want to tame the monster. It's why beauty and the beast is the most quintessential heroine story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:33 PM
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There tons of them some involve being a villain and getting away with it and others involved making a dreamy guy change for them like every other girl failed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:38 AM
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It's not enough to teach, most people need incentives to do the right thing and that takes years if there is no instant repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:06 AM
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Would you care if your man got his emotional needs from other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:43 AM
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It just means she wants a guy that cares about her feelings it doesn't mean she wants a sensitive emotionally available guy. If she wanted to date a woman she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:03 AM
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My bad I mean nice rims
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:07 AM
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Being nice is like having nice rims on a car do you want it? Sure. Is it necessary to get from point A to B? No. Edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:46 PM
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The problem is that they are still attracted to them on a primal level. They might have outgrown them for relationships but that doesn't mean they wont still sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:35 PM
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It honestly doesnt matter either way because they both undesirable for the most part. Besides it's not like he has to tell her as long as he doesnt have anything it shouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:59 PM
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Yes but he has to realize that it's just sex and nothing more he should also keep it to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:49 PM
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No dont romanticize unrequited love. Your mental health is worth more than their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:37 AM
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Personality only matters if there is a base level of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:47 PM
7

Being the experimental guy for example if all her exes were the complete opposite of me I'd be weary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:35 PM
0

Exactly average people are really the ones that are ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:29 PM
1

I'm sure that was only said to make it look like an "accident" theres too many many coincidences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:42 PM
4

Yeah look at David ortiz he thought he could sleep with a drug dealers wife and get away with it because hes a hall of fame baseball player and got shot and almost killed over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:31 AM
7

Yes because being a passive viewer is different from actually dealing with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:55 PM
1

Men for the most part are hung up on the girl they never got but that unusually comes from a lack of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:50 PM
2

Its actually a woman giving you a child just because a woman gives you her body it doesn't mean she will give you her womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:32 PM
1

I never said that people should. Context is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:18 PM
5

It's not a compliment if they dont tell you wants nice about you. It's a filler word.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:34 PM
7

If you ask "well what's nice about me?" It puts them on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:06 PM
0

The issue is when they shame men that they never wanted in the first place for those preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:29 PM
10

Yeah the word "nice" doesnt actually mean anything. What's nice about me? She cant tell you because you have nothing worthwhile to complement on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:17 PM
1

Theres nothing wrong with a woman being hypergamous the issue is the system that enables it on a much grand scale and before anyone mentions it no I'm not saying we should go back to the middle ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:43 PM
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Men subconsciously see other men as competition so we tend to lack much empathy towards other guys unfortunately. Even if a man helps out a guy he will only give the guy enough tools to be right below him at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:12 PM
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Betas just need to be emotionally detached from women if they feel like they cant get loyalty or respect from them. Hating them or loving them aren't gonna do them any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 11:30 PM
1

Dont tell them that they want a guy like tim tebow and a guy like that is extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:12 PM
1

Women in general dont care about a man's N count as much as they pretend to they care more about the context of that N count more than anything. If the man in question is attractive enough he can be a "hypocrite" when it comes to what he wants whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:42 PM
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The thing with confidence is that it's only a starting point no one cares how confident you are if they think you're a loser if anything they will think you are arrogant for daring to like yourself more than they like you. Confidence with competence is delusion which is why just saying "just confident bro" doesn't necessarily work if you don't have anything to match it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:37 PM
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The reason why so many guys have issues with having female friends is because their friendship have nothing to stand on other than "shes cute". So what if shes cute does she offer you anything? Emotional support? Social Connections? If you're friends with a girl for superficial reasons of course there isn't gonna be any actual substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:31 PM
1

Depends on if the person likes you or not it's the same thing with confidence and arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:13 PM
1

As long as it highlights how attractive you are. The type of vulnerability women want " I feel guilty about killing a guy in a bar fight because I'm sure he had a family that loved him." The type of vulnerability women dont want "I'm insecure about my dick size and I feel like you are gonna leave me because of it."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:37 PM
4

Yeah kindness when it comes from a place of submission isn't desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 04:54 PM
2

She knows what hes saying shes just being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:26 PM
2

Cheating isnt a mistake and you can forgive someone and get rid of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:15 AM
1

Appreciation does not equal love nor attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 06:48 PM
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Poly relationships will never be the norm because people have egos and are selfish by nature it's not sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 08:46 PM
1

Your issue is that you are projecting how women think onto how men think. If a woman is "using" men for sex and hes enjoying it he doesn't give a damn if hes being "used" in that regard. Woman are the ones that get upset about being only seen as a piece of meat from the opposite sex men couldn't care less which is why it's not the same dynamic. Obviously I wasn't being serious with that quote but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:35 AM
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A woman cant use a guy for sex because shes doing him a favor. "Ok girl get on your knees open up and use me!" See it doesn't sound right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:05 AM
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Because woman already break up with the guy months before she actually tells him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:01 PM
5

If you're going to be friends with a woman she has to actually offer you something the problem with a lot of guys is that they become friends with a girl that they just find pretty but that's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 07:59 PM
10

Yeah you can't apply celeb relationships to the masses both sides are highly sought after so the rules are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:09 PM
35

This begs the question if a woman had her beauty and youth for a 100 years would her preferences change?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:16 PM
1

You'll be surprised how many virgin girls want men with experience not with prostitutes obviously but experience none the less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:40 PM
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The problem with the word "nice" is that it doesn't mean anything it's just placeholder. Its like telling someone they're a good person without saying what's actually good about them because you can't think of anything to give them a compliment about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:59 PM
2

Being nice is only weak if it comes from a place of submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:34 PM
3

Say it louder for the people in the back!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:24 PM
1

She is right about the word "nice" though its a placeholder word that doesn't mean anything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 04:16 PM
2

It's better to be selfish and unattractive than it is to be selfless and unattractive since people are going to shift the goalposts either way. Selfish jerk or Doormat which would you rather be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:01 PM
1

It's not better but at the end of the day you just cant expect a woman to tell her son that. "Yes Jimmy be more like my abusive cheating womanizing ex sure he was a piece of shit but he got laid alot." She wants her son to be a "better" person it doesn't matter if hes a celibate loser that women dont respect as long as hes still objectively a better person than said ex shes ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:50 PM
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Women fall in love when they do things for men not the other way around. You have to make her invest first if you cant do that it'll never be a serious relationship you will just be a placeholder at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:42 PM
2

No woman wants her son to know that shes like every other woman they want him to put her on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 04:14 PM
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I get what you're saying but women dont actually have to try that hard to be desirable whether her father is around or not, now being respectable is another thing. The main issue is that Women for the most part can only go by their own perspective. Being sweet kind and sensitive works for her so in her mind it should work for a guy. Besides, It's not like people are necessarily proud of what they truly find attractive so they lie to themselves. A man asking a straight woman how to get girls Is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:57 PM
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Women dont raise their sons into the men they lust after it's like how men want to bang strippers but wouldn't want their daughters to turn into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 08:19 PM
4

Creep is just a label women use for any guy they dont like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 09:36 PM
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Americans have this weird view on sex they glorify and sexualize everything but at the same time are a bunch of prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:00 PM
1

My thoughts exactly but these men want validation basically bragging rights which doesn't mean anything because no one truly cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:24 PM
1

The issue with the word "nice" is that it actually doesn't mean anything its more of a placeholder you use when you cant think of a word to describe someone. If someone describes you as "nice" you ask them what's nice about me? That way you force them to give you an answer and save yourself alot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:52 PM
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