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I've been where you've been with an ex, at about your age. I had too much anxiety to leave her but knew I was essentially to good for her because of her alcoholic/narcaccistic ways. Credit card debt to boot. Trust me, you must get out of this, you cant marry her. You will regret it and be a sad chump in your thirties. You can take your time though. Just keep following the MRP plan, keep self improving, because the better you get, you'll start to notice the grass getting greener more and more.. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 03:00 AM
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Stay plan is (was) the same as the go plan. Sidebar, lift. Be a good dad.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 06:32 AM
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You haven't unplugged yet. Took me a good year of reading and lifting.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 11:10 PM
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You already know what to do. Assume it's not yours. Don't commit to anything. DNA test as soon as he's born GTFO, sidebar, lift, move on with your life.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 11:08 PM
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You are a weak piece of shit. We had planned to spend a day together cooking. Naww that's cute. This was the topic of our texting for the better part of three weeks. Gross. Texting is for logistics only. Unless you're a woman. I explained that I didn’t fly home a week early to hang out by myself. DEERing like a needy little bitch. "I thought we were going to spend the day making this together”. You are a needy, dependant bitch. You seriously sound like a woman shit testing her husband. I explain…
/r/askMRP06/08/18 01:33 AM
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AWALT. Don’t get sucked in. When she’s dribbling this shit - go do something worthy. Oldest teenager in the house.
/r/askMRP19/07/18 10:58 AM
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I'd rather have the last 3 minutes back.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 06:39 AM
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Too much DEERing
/r/askMRP14/07/18 11:53 PM
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What a wall of shit. When she starts this shit laugh at her and walk off and go do something worthy or fucking divorce her, jeez. Who has 3 hours to listen to emotional dribble?
/r/askMRP14/07/18 11:46 PM
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Long winded comfort test. Dont respond over text, think of a good response in person, re-assure her and give her a big hug. Be an oak, not an asshole.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 03:39 AM
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Another classic case of not doing the work or understanding. Women will respect a man who deserves it, or disrespect a man who deserves it, AWALT. The fact that you put up with her doing this shows you arent worthy of respect, therefore, she will continue. You DEER, you have a very weak frame, like seriously you're posting on the internet because of a womans words... And I bet you dont lift. Could you go out and get laid by someone else tomorrow if you wanted to? Do you think Leo Dicaprio would …
/r/askMRP12/07/18 03:35 AM
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You seem to be doing ok for 6 months in. Keep working hard. Stay plan is the same as the go plan. She’ll either latch onto the thousand foot rope or she won’t, either way your sex life will improve, whether it’s with her or not. You know by now you should have responded better to her comfort test: “well you wouldn’t give me a reason to leave, would you?”.
/r/askMRP07/07/18 11:28 PM
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You’re a weak piece of shit. Do the fucking work. I bet you don’t even lift. You’re too busy gaming and watching porn. Get out of her frame, read the sidebar, get to the gym, grow the fuck up and stop giving a fuck about her attitude
/r/askMRP07/07/18 11:22 PM
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You're on the right track, albeit you've left it a little too late. For now just keep focusing on you, keep lifting, keep in your frame, keep increasing your SMV. Keep spending time with your daughter and being a good dad and don't get sucked into your wifes frame. You'll find as time goes on if you work hard and a little dread sets in, the 1000 foot rope theory will come in. She'll either come along and get her act together quick smart, or she won't and you'll move on. Either way if you stick t…
/r/askMRP29/06/18 12:59 AM
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Bump
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:54 AM
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You are a weak piece of shit and you know it. That is the most disgusting needy behaviour i've ever seen in my life (by you). Whether she fucked him or not you'll probably never know. But if you try and reconcile this, how can you ever forgive yourself? Do you have any small bit of self respect? If you ever kiss her again will you wonder if you are tasting that guys cock? She might be on her best behaiviour now but deep down she'll never respect you again for being a needy bitch who chases her a…
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:46 AM
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You're a weak piece of shit. You just made things worse. Slow down. Forget about sex for now, because she isn't attracted to you. With you jumping at the offer of a bite of cookie you're rushing it and therefore flustered and your mind is elsewhere. If you've been watching porn in the last 3 months that wouldn't have helped either, quit that shit. Your best approach is yes, STFU, pass shit tests, lift. I wouldn't even bother trying again later. Stop being dependant on her for sex. Work on yourse…
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:26 AM
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This is the right answer. I tried for years to ask my wife to do shit, id argue with her, get butt hurt etc, threaten her etc. This related back to dread. Once you’ve upped your SMV, and slowly and subtly implemented dread, just start doing the shit yourself, don’t ask her, just do it. If your SMV is higher than hers and you have a good frame, she’ll start to think “shit, does he even need me?”. My wife even started to straight out say it to me.. Now She keeps the house in top order, will even t…
/r/askMRP16/06/18 12:31 AM
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She acts like i don’t respect her at all Once again, why do you give a fuck. And I don’t want her to feel that way Her problem, not yours. I know I shouldn’t Give a fuck about her feelings but I do care about her. Her feelings are her problem, work on yourself. I told her just leave if I she’s going to act crazy about me having a Conversation with people. Deering, just get on with your day. She’s like “I’ll do this and that to you. See how you like it” Again, why do you give a fuck, perfect time…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 02:47 AM
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What a wall of shit. You know this is all your fault right? Nine months into our relationship I reluctantly moved in with her. I said yes to a move because my apartment was invested with beg bugs from my neighbors being FIFO works. Your choice. Three months later she was pregnant with our first child. Your fault, you'd know that RT always states contraception is your responsbility. Two years later our second child was conceived in a three-week span. Yet another screw up. Well atleast you know th…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 02:22 AM
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You're a weak piece of shit. "She", "She did this", "she said this".. Why do you give a fuck? Once you learn to not give a fuck about anything she says or does, i guarantee you, you will be happier and have a better relationship. You can not argue logically or rationally with a woman who is driven by emotions, it'll never work. The reason you AA, AM, STFU etc is because what she has to say is emotional dribble and you know it, dont give any credit it to it by responding rationally, you will just…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 02:08 AM
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I had to log on to comment on this. While Tony is the boss of the family and gets a lot of strange, in many ways he is not alpha at all. He's a immature, emotional, unstable baby on the inside. He's unhealthy, throws tantrums, is immature, emotionally unstable, jelousy issues, you name it. He displays the exact opposite of RP traits. He doesnt lift, he drinks and does drugs, he cheats, he gets jealous over Carmela and other women, doesn't display any OI, his work and family is a mess. He's alpha…
/r/askMRP07/05/18 12:47 AM
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My wife is certainly the type to really shit test me hard if I lost my job. There have been rolling redundancies at my work for 3 years now, and she’s even thrown out shit tests on the possibility that I could lose my job. I realised it would be tough if I lost my job but she wouldn’t be there for sympathy. Back then I thought I need 3 to 6 months pay sitting in a bank account, for when/if I lose my job. Which I have just recently achieved. That way, if/when I lose my job, I can act cool and con…
/r/askMRP16/03/18 10:42 PM
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This was my wives classic go to, to win any argument, and it used to work for her. I’d change my tune and say don’t be stupid and convince her to stay. Once I started saying go for it, I’ll even help you with the papers. She hasn’t said it since.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 10:36 PM
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I went through this. It lasted about 5 days of silent treatment, a couple long long SMS's (which I ignored). Just keep going about being your OI happy self. Don't get frustrated or break frame over her ways. Don't even DEER by telling her 'you don't appreciate her threats to leave'... It'll blow over and she'll get in line.
/r/askMRP12/02/18 07:51 AM
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I don't think money is the real issue here, why don't you be honest? If you can afford a 2500pm house and 600pm car then you can financially afford for your wife to take a weekend away. And if you really can't then you've fucked up your finances along the way. The truth lies in your last paragraph. I remember when I used to be you - Actually giving a fuck what my wife did. Let her go. But start working on yourself, your finances, your leadership, OI, the sidebar.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 04:52 AM
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Exactly the same as my situation, pretty much word for word.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 01:15 AM
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We don't argue any more.. Whenever she tries to start one I laugh at her and walk off and go and do something cool.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 01:13 AM
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I've been here, it's so close to my situation so I felt obliged to log on and comment. I cheated on my spouse, she found out, obviously everything went to shit.. But yes, months later I was in that territory of doing everything and anything for her and walking on egg shells and allowing her to control my life and my phone because of what i'd done. Provide proof and receipts and evidence of things I was doing. Eventually, this didn't work, and I got sick of her expecting it. So one day after abou…
/r/askMRP19/12/17 02:48 AM
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Agreed, I'm not there yet. I will continue working.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 07:51 AM
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TBH I don't really care, the same will apply. But yeah I guess we will find out one day in 5 or so years.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 07:49 AM
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I don't view this as a one time solution, but I do certainly see it as something that clearly has power and works better than anything I'd previously done. It's the truth, if she's going to act like a bitch over these trivial things then I don't want to be with her anyway, I've clearly told her this and it seems to have given her a wake up call.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 07:17 AM
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Ultimate goal obviously isn't to get rid of her, or I would have done that already. My ultimate goal is similar to everyone elses (I think) - Be happy, have a good life (including sex life) and be the best me I can be. As per previous posts, I am working, and have made progresses, but yes still have a long way to go, especially after my mess up when she went on holiday for 5 weeks. Lifting and personal care is easy and something I have always done. My career and finances are doing very very well…
/r/askMRP27/11/17 07:14 AM
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I am starting to see that. The waterworks don't work on me anymore, nor does the threat of divorce either. Admittedly though, they used to.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 07:08 AM
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In the event of her leaving me, it doesn't really make a difference to me when she gets her citizenship. We'll either break up and she stays here or we break up and she leaves the country. Plus that's at least 5 years away.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 07:06 AM
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Someone nailed it the other day when she flipped out when I turned the air con off. “You need to be willing to burn it to the ground.”
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/17 09:52 AM
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And yes she does completely flip out over the smallest shit. That naming incident was on Monday. It’s now Thursday and she still hasnt spoken to me. That’s why I’m thinking this is sided with maybe some BPD or something. Who the fuck does silent treatment for four days because I don’t like one name?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/17 09:51 AM
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Yep this makes a lot of sense, it’s all true. I do have anxiety about her leaving yet I’m the one with all the power, money, career etc. I know I need to work on frame. She’s from Guatemala
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/17 09:50 AM
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Appreciate the comment. But can you re-write it all knowing now that we don’t have kids? Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/17 09:19 AM
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Third OYS As per the previous, i've been around for a year, seen many positives but I'm still no where near where I want to be. Body/looks/finance/career/style is all good. But, I have struggled so much with frame and I haven't implemented game or dread. Literally only this last week, after a lot of reading and direction from reddit/books/youtube have I really started to internalize frame. I would call this past week a good one because I've been happy, worked out and had sex a few times, despite…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 01:04 AM
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I feel I am always fun and happy. I don't really get moody or butthurt. I didn't show any butthurt to my wife about the aircon. I just victim puked about it. Def some first world shit. But the point of the post is representative of what its like when your wife doesn't respect you.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 04:50 AM
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I said I'd been studying material for a year. Not writing OYS posts for a year.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 02:16 AM
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I have fucked up frame I believe due to my upbringing. I try too hard for other people to be nice. I have read all of side bar except for SGM. I've read other books too, like I just finished Extreme Ownership and Codependancy no more.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 02:13 AM
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Yep this is perfect. Thanks for this.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 02:11 AM
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Sorry where's the butthurt over aircon?
/r/askMRP17/11/17 02:11 AM
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Yep. This is the comment that I relate to best.
/r/askMRP16/11/17 07:33 AM
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I was about to say this..
/r/askMRP16/11/17 02:52 AM
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Second OYS Been around for a year though. Same old story as everyone but saw massive improvements around 9 months in. But I fell off the wagon after a recent trip away by SO this last month or two. Body and finance has never been a problem. The major problem in my life is frame. I have been a weak piece of shit the last month or two (And prior to swallowing the pill). (I posted about it in last weeks OYS). Completely in her frame. Wondering what she's doing. Wondering what mood she is in. Trying…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 01:13 AM
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Stats: My first OYS post. Swallowed the pill a year ago. 6 – 9 months later saw vast improvements in life, sex life and SO being generally happier and not such a harpy bitch who despises me. Things were really good there for a bit. The good: Career and finances and body/looks are all very good. Coming up to a year since swallowing the pill, things were looking very good. Sex life was great once again, any room, fancy dress and role playing. But a recent trip from my wife made me fall off the wag…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/17 06:56 AM
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You aren't going to like a lot of the comments on here, but please trust in them and you will have a better life, I promise you. I've been where you are before, I wish back then I had the head start you now have. As painful as it's going to be right now, let her go. She is no longer attracted to you. Let it end kinda on your terms, it won't hurt as much. You'll be better next time. Stop watching porn, go get some cialis from the docs. Lift, let her go, study TRP and you'll be back on the horse i…
/r/askMRP06/11/17 08:54 AM
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You know what you need to do. Setup any support function she needs, like her parents or whatever and get the hell out of there. Be so thankful you don't have kids with her.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 12:26 AM
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I never reply on this forum, just post and read, but I decided to log on because your story is so similar to how I was 10 years ago with my first girlfriend (and fiance). Back then, old me would have ignored every single comment on here and thought everyone was jerks. Thankfully I am a different person now. I hope you take the advice. Put a hold on the plans to marry for now. You can even tell her that. She doesn't seem to think of me as a mate that other women would want. I'm assuming that's lo…
/r/askMRP07/10/17 12:05 AM
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No, It's not possible. I dont make her live anywhere. Plus she prefers it here to the city, she says so all the time. She actively wanted the move, has more friends here (tight knit town) and earns more money here. Plus i dont have to fly away for work anymore.
/r/askMRP14/08/17 05:46 AM
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Yeah ok I hear you on her relative SMV. But mines still higher than any other male here, I can tell just by going down to the local pub and looking at the rednecks here. If hers was so much higher than mine then she would have left when I called her bluff. I think in this town her SMV is higher because of more males, but I don't think it's really a market for her as I can remove her from it very quickly
/r/askMRP11/07/17 11:26 AM
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I don't think my status would completely keep other men away. A big one is, she knows she's outta the country in 72 hours at a phone call. She has built friends and a life here now. Again, not saying it's impossible, but it's difficult, and I monitor her phone/movements. And yes obviously her conscious choice too not to cheat
/r/askMRP11/07/17 09:56 AM
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Call me naive. But I disagree on her marker value. There are men in town yes. But we are a well known couple, I am the boss. She is the bosses wife. Not saying it's impossible. But the opportunity isn't there as we're all at work at the same time and off work at the same time. Plus someone would be risking losing there job. As well as that. She knows if she ever did anything like that, it's one phone call to immigration saying we're over at she has 72 hours to leave the country.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 09:18 AM
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