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Always have been
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:18 AM
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Try ashwagandha. High cortisol levels inhibit testosterone production, ashwagandha significantly lowers cortisol. It doesn't "increase" your testosterone per se, just rebalances it if you have high cortisol (not that unlikely with how the world is right now). You can get 20%+ increase in test, and same for DHEA-S (an androgen). Has anti-anxiety and anti-depressant properties as well. It has been a game changer for me
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:57 PM
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I simply push his head away and drive home with my FWB. Should've just did this earlier in the night
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:42 PM
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If she's giving you a heads up she will be late, that's fine, I will late. Dipping after 30 minutes with no heads up is understandable. The absolute max I would stay is 1 hour, and that's only if I'm having the date somewhere I can enjoy by myself anyway and I effectively just treat it like a fun solo adventure. That's why I set all my first dates around something I can enjoy by myself.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:37 PM
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There's a guide in this sub somewhere, basically you just mass follow 1000 accounts that are most related to the stuff you post (fitness, cars, whatever) and use popular hashtags related to that stuff. That should get you at least 100 follows and even more if what you post is good. Look at the followers/following of girls on instagram. They do this shit all the time
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:15 PM
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You're braindead if you're in your 20's and not using instagram as social proof. If your life is genuinely exciting and fun, the amount of "effort" to make posts amounts to spending 1 minute taking pictures when you're out living your life. Even if you're totally anti social media. At least try to live your life like you could put it all on social media and be proud of it.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:11 PM
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This is very true. Girls in their 20's use instagram as a vetting tool. If you actually live an interesting life, having a place to store pics/vids of that life will amplify your SMV by a ton. You don't even need a lot of followers (though it does help). Having a collection of cool pics/vids of your life to show a girl can have her obsess about you. You can show pre-selection by posting pics of you out on dates. Even just you not posting a story on a Fri/Sat night can cause plates to hamster ("w…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 03:23 PM
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If you can fully trust yourself to not check all their stories and not get emotionally triggered when you see a picture of her in your feed, IMO you should keep them on your social media. It's a powerful display when they notice you are never watching their stories and never blowing their phone up when they post a thirst trap or picture to trigger your jealousy. And they ALWAYS notice. When her friends ask her if you've been trying to text her or get back together, she'll have to tell them nope,…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 02:35 PM
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Train BJJ instead
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:30 AM
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if you can't even fight a belligerent drunk, learn to fight and no, you don't have to fight him. just knowing you can take care of him will automatically give you the power to disarm the situation
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:27 AM
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The only time I've seen girls act like this is when they're on such high doses of SSRI's they have zero sexual function and are essentially robots emotionally.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 01:30 PM
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Cologne connoisseurs all know this. When you know you smell great and know other people can smell you smelling great, it boosts your confidence by a fuckload. If you have a daily driver cologne, even only getting 1 compliment every few weeks is enough to keep upping your confidence. Highly recommend.
/r/BlackPillScience04/11/20 11:17 PM
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minoxidil maxxx
/r/BlackPillScience04/11/20 11:10 PM
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It's not saying women find intelligence sexy (they don't, as most studies already show this) Smart = easier to manipulate them Aggressive = more likely to actually manipulate them
/r/BlackPillScience04/11/20 11:06 PM
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bloatmaxxxers life fueling
/r/BlackPillScience04/11/20 11:03 PM
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If she doesn't offer a reschedule, ignore all of her texts that aren't her asking to hang out again
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:17 PM
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Ashwagandha significantly lowers cortisol which strongly inhibits test production. If you're stressed or even a daily caffeine user, it can be a game changer.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:23 PM
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Tinder is only good if you're looksmaxxed and have amazing pictures. Otherwise it's only a mediocre supplement to day/social life game. Dating apps like Hinge are better for guys who are goodlooking but with shitty pictures. The question-style format makes breaking the ice way easier, and because Hinge has an undertone of it being for relationships, chicks respond to messages and meet up a lot more than tinder. When we go on our 'date' (drinks/coffee), I treat it the exact same as a date with so…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 10:51 AM
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If the dude was the one to break up with her, she's 100% still gonna fuck him and send him nudes for months afterwards. Even if she broke up with him, after 1-2 months there's a good chance she'll start doing the same thing. Whenever you plate a girl fresh out of a relationship, this behavior should be 100% expected.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:22 PM
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b a s e
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:44 PM
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You showed too much: Availability (responding too fast and with too long of texts compared to hers, agreeing to hangouts whenever she asked) Complimented and touched her (even just putting your hand around her shoulder) too much Ultimately - you became too beta in her eyes. If a higher value guy came in her life recently, that's an added reason too.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:12 PM
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closer to 10-12% bf >>>>> closer to 200-230lb
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:57 PM
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In person cold approach 1000 girls in 1 year until you are so comfortable talking to and getting girls that you realize you can replace a girl like her with another one in a month. Dead serious. The only reason you get jealous and emotional is because you're deathly scared of losing her because, even though you're currently with that hot chick, you think you can't get another hot chick like her in a month.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:12 PM
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The best way to counteract that is to build a life (or fake a life) where you're so unavailable they believe you literally can't afford to take days to finalize logistics. So they can't afford to play that game. If you've been texting her daily with mostly fast responses (and/or a lot of compliments), you've driven her attraction down by showing how available you are. Next time she texts you, wait 2 days to respond to mirror her flakey behavior, even if she says she wants to fuck you that night.…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:09 PM
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I took Lexapro for 1.5 years. It's touted as one of the least side-effect heavy SSRI's. Even on the lowest dose, I still had zombie sides and my dick essentially didn't work for 8 months (head totally numb and couldn't cum). I will never touch it again. Try Silexan (sold OTC as "Calm-Aid"). It comes in packs of 30. In clinical studies it's as effective for anxiety and depression treatment as some of very common SSRI's like Prozac and even benzo's like Ativan, but with virtually no side-effects e…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:19 PM
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Don't say anything at all. Turn off read receipts for her. Completely stop messaging her and liking her shit (like you have been).
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:35 AM
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Regularly cold approaching means you're already in the top 5-10% of men to actually do so. You've literally passed the biggest hurdle by starting to do that and still doing it. Aim to max all your stats at least 50% better than current (body, hairstyle, skin/acne, fashion, etc.). And keep going. Tinder/Hinge is purely photo game. Swaggy "professional" looking pics get the best results. Your pic quality literally degrades unless you edit it to specifically for the app (this is where the "professi…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:32 AM
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Good starting point, wrong execution. Why would a man who knows he can get another girl just like her within a month say, "Sure, hit me up when you are available" to a LTR who's all of a sudden demoting him? She found another guy she wants to fuck. I'm not sure how to go about this either but being all, "It was just 1 year, hit me up when you're free it's cool!!!" is not the way. Every man reading this can tell she just found another guy she wants to fuck. So call her out on it in a non-emotiona…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 01:11 AM
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approach and talk to 1000. "exposure therapy" exists for a reason. just gotta do it
/r/askTRP18/10/20 01:07 AM
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Give up on her. Take it as an accomplishment that you were able to attract her. Aim to plate 2-3 girls at her level or even 1-2 points below. When you do, you'll 1) Not give anything near as many fucks about her, and 2) You'll realize you can attract girls like her over and over again. You attracted her, didn't you? It isn't a miracle. Go get it
/r/askTRP17/10/20 11:45 PM
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Yeah this. If you have a "small" amount of followers, that alone will turn her off and make her flake. Even a moderate amount won't really do anything for you. When I get this message I auto treat her as a flake, respond with absurdity then go more distant and short msgs, and maintain a backup plan to do something else. If she demands social media she's 100% going to be boring as fuck either way. This is why in-person approaches are so much more successful. They get to see and hear you upfront, …
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:46 PM
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Be seen with/go on dates with girls. Improve your life (think small; even working out and eating right for 30 days will cause a big improvement). The first one is the most important. Even if you're only seeing 2 chicks and both are 1-2 points below the one you have oneitis for, you'll still give 100% less fucks about the oneitis.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:36 PM
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I went through something similar to you very recently. You need to expand your scope on things and look back on all the huge improvements you've made. stable job new car good coworkers not super depressed anymore lost 25 lbs quit smoking cut shitty friends It's not going back to the shitty way it was before. You've just normalized your achievements to the point that they are your baseline now, and are now noticing more responsibility you can take on for others around you (supporting your parents…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:41 PM
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Whenever you want, ideally keep them within 10-15 minutes walking distance from your pad
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:23 PM
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Love Spicebomb but I never get any compliments on it compared to the compliments I got during the summer using cheaper scents like Aqua Di Gio or Ferrari Bright Neroli
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:21 PM
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You keep resetting because you're trying to take on too much in too short of a timeline. I highly suggest you just see a younger male therapist around your age and get him to help you hone in on what goals you should be achieving and keep you accountable. They're fucking great at it. Great at helping you get over your anxiety/fear of approaching girls too (Exposure Therapy is a thing for a reason). Good luck bro
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:31 PM
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Don't stretch yourself too thin. Focus on 1-2 necessary goals at a time until they become your new standard. All of your goals are admirable but you need to take charge of what is more important, otherwise you'll be taking on too much at once and will be way more likely to give up (basic human nature, nobody can take on that much all at once) For you, that would probably be 1) Improve your living situation (move out even if it's into a 'bad' place, it's still magnitudes better than living at hom…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:24 PM
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Disagree with comments about "don't compliment." Women love when dudes who approach with a compliment like yours - as long as she thinks the guy is hot and he does it with confidence (complimenting like a chad and not a simp). You shouldn't have walked away in the first place. But her coming back to continue the conversation is a good sign. When you asked for her name, you should've held your hand out to shake, and held her hand for a lot longer than you think (like 10 seconds more). Then said s…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:55 PM
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Or. All else fails. Imagine this current girl taking the absolute steamiest, most explosive, dump in the game. That’ll knock her right off the mental pedestal. Not for me it won't
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:34 PM
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Check out "Good Looking Loser" posts/vids, like this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2Vd5ysY38A Both these dudes went through the same thing too. Been there many times myself.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:44 PM
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You haven't been with enough girls as hot as or "cool" as her yet. Probably don't truly believe that if she broke things off today that you could find another girl just as good as her within a month (which you can if you have true abundance mentality and zero approach anxiety). Every man who gets with their first chick they consider on their level (or higher) ends up with oneitis and acting the way you do. And it always ends with becoming a needy pussy and fucking it up. After you fuck this up (…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:39 PM
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Doesn't matter how hot you are - if you give the chick "boyfriend material" vibes during your first few interactions (first meet/getting her number), that's how things will go. It's not necessarily a bad thing. Those chicks usually stick around for a while once you bang (which you will, after 2 dates or 3 dates MAX). But if you want to fuck a chick right away, you need to go full on and escalate from the very first interactions. Like you're trying to fuck her the same night you met her. Aka scum…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:33 PM
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You'll have to figure out if this applies to you... but if in her eyes you're a legitimate top tier dude that checks all boxes for boyfriend material, she'll force herself to not fuck on the first date for the sole reason of not wanting to be seen as a slut with weak morals. If she frames you as boyfriend material based off your initial interaction/profile, that's simply what's going to happen. Even if you escalate things when she comes over, she will clamp down on not doing anything, no matter …
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:26 PM
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Same thing I posted in the other oneitis thread: You have oneitis. I went through the same thing. Almost every guy who gets with their first bombshell will end up getting needy and blowing it up. If you want her back, you have to stop contacting her completely. Sharpen up your game and start hitting on new girls again to gain your confidence back that you can get with a girl as hot as her again in the future. Lower your standards and date multiple girls 2-3 points below your oneitis to build you…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:12 PM
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Send a handful of messages back and forth, then you tell them a day/time/location to meet up with your number included. If they're down they're down. Only use online as a supplement to your day game
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:03 PM
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Social media game is real and works amazing on girls who are in that "friends of friends" area. Where neither of you have really talked before, but maybe you both know some of the same people. Just don't flood it with useless stuff, like those guys who post song titles to their stories every single day. If you only post every other week, and it's always something genuinely cool/fun/makes you look sexy, then you'll get way more views. You'll condition everyone to automatically think, "Oh damn I h…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:44 PM
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You have oneitis. I went through the same thing. Almost every guy who gets with their first bombshell will end up getting needy and blowing it up. If you want her back, you have to stop contacting her completely. Sharpen up your game and start hitting on new girls again to gain your confidence back that you can get with a girl as hot as her again in the future. Lower your standards and date multiple girls 2-3 points below your oneitis to build your confidence back up. If one hot chick finds you …
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:23 PM
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You probably didn't win her roommate over when you went there. If you don't turn her friends on, the girl will question being with you. This doesn't mean you have to hit on her infront of your date. Just simple flirts, holding eye-contact, holding her hand for a bit longer after the hand-shake.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:15 PM
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> Masters degree 1 year online master's of finance >built new condo put plants in leased condo >German auto '04 jetta
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 05:43 PM
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