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I asked almost 300 girls right before social media really really took off and it was the best thing I could have done, in regards to knowing how to talk to women and especially reading her signs
/r/seduction12/04/25 10:46 PM
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I have the same issue, and just today I was able to flirt with a co-worker I really like for the fist time in weeks after reading this article he referenced in a post earlier. Read it right now, it's amazing. From the post: Something I learned from reading 60yearsofchallenge is the innate tension between men and women, which is always lurking beneath the surface but that we stupidly alleviate because of social conditioning (things like breaking eye contact). That being said, if you're not really…
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:30 PM
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This is a lot like Richard LaRuina, as far as I can recall. I loved his style, more physical and pragmatic, than all the other inner game stuff because sometimes you just gotta fake it till you make it (like OP did). I could never really relate to it though because I'm not a night club guy and I've been having trouble lately just being a little more flirty at all. But in the end, it feels more natural just to not focus on the talking so much and focus more on the physical vibe going on with the …
/r/seduction17/02/14 02:33 PM
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Thanks for this. Many people seem to frown upon this kind of canned stuff, but sometimes it helps to have this stuff to keep the flow going.
/r/seduction09/02/14 02:41 AM
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Nobody can say. Now I'm even more curious.
/r/seduction28/01/14 08:50 PM
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That applies to all moments always. I don't buy it hahah But still, thanks for your input. I just see it as a big last hurrah, maybe it'll bring a nice experience with someone. That doesn't exclude necessarily current activities :)
/r/seduction17/07/13 10:04 PM
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I still do. And it's obvious that these are generalizations. It's just 100 numbers. I know they aren't worth anything if I want to perfect the game and whatever, but despite all the knowledge we share about these things, I can't help but think that maybe, maybe the girl I'm gonna marry is among those numbers. So many pretty girls, it would be wreckless not to exhaust the possibility to talk to each and every one of them.
/r/seduction17/07/13 09:56 PM
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Maybe, but I know people here. They're reeeaaaally stuck up. It's hard to penetrate.
/r/seduction17/07/13 09:46 PM
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OOOH that's good!
/r/seduction17/07/13 08:40 PM
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I still do that with pleasure. But I don't want to not try it, one massive text to all of these numbers and see what comes out of it.
/r/seduction17/07/13 07:40 PM
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I don't think the Machiguenga people are similar to low income Americans. It just a more modest, and simple life style, something pretty foreign to American culture, to my understanding. Their simple life style is just part of the idiosyncrasy in Latin America. The countries that are different to that are the ones that have been morbidly economized, like Chile for instance.
/r/seduction28/02/13 04:56 PM
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I'm 1,75m, somewhere between average and good looking, and what helps a lot is that I have a deep voice. I'm shaky though, unless I catch myself off guard I'll start shaking a little (sometimes noticeably). But in general, as long as you keep eye contact and smile - not freakishly, but just naturally, as you would to a dear, long time friend of yours - it'll work, no matter how you look. Make it a game! I play the "no regrets game", every time I see a girl I sort of like, at some point a thought…
/r/seduction22/01/13 09:21 PM
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No, by NOT walking away, I'm only remaining there. But I'm asking, how do you noramlly force, within of what's reasonably possible, a connection? If it were only by my mere presence, we wouldn't be having this conversation.
/r/seduction14/01/13 04:59 AM
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And how do you normally achieve that connection beyond a little banter when, say, she's in a hurry? Do you have any hacks for that, beyond inner game?
/r/seduction13/01/13 06:02 PM
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Yeah but then it's not really useful advice now is it. Everybody is here to find it easier and more natural to have chemistry with women, telling the guy "Life experience helps" doesn't help at all.
/r/seduction13/01/13 07:16 AM
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What the fuck is that supposed to mean? "Life experience"? I don't get it.
/r/seduction12/01/13 11:41 PM
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I saw one in an article that was quite simple. The rundown is: Walk up. Make and hold eye contact. Tell her she looks great. Ask for her number. Don’t flinch. Walk away and call her later. I've been opening all these pretty girls lately without thinking about conversation much. I'm the kind of guy that'll start feeling attached to an interaction, so I'd rather just get the number, and give her more attention on the first date. But usually, it's good for practice to talk about anything unrehearse…
/r/seduction12/01/13 11:33 PM
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Don't post a pic of her to discredit her man, not classy.
/r/seduction25/10/12 04:33 PM
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Can you elaborate on the documentary style filmmaking? What exactly do you do about it, and how did you come to do it?
/r/seduction26/09/12 12:18 AM
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Dude, this guy is a 6 year veteran and probably one of the best in Europe. Everyone upvote so you ask him interesting stuff god dammit!
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:27 PM
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I'm struggling with similar fear (seeming creepy) since I've come back to my studies after a semester hiatus. We can wait for some wise sedditor for an answer together! /fistbump
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:06 PM
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But she engages him, in instances where a woman normally wouldn't if she weren't the least bit interested. "It's like there's a window to my soul", for instance.
/r/seduction01/09/12 07:07 PM
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But I'm not a jew, if that's what you're thinking He reeled her right in after the awkward silence was sort of announcing itself. Other than that, his advantage is mainly being a honey badger, but he does seek a lot value, and asks a lot of stuff putting lots of pressure on the girl. In the video, it shows that she can deal with that, and she gets flirtatious too, but in real life, no way. I tried the "how am I doing with the flirt so far" line myself a few times, with mixed results. Egh.
/r/seduction01/09/12 06:55 PM
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That's an awfully inappropriate answer for a mod.
/r/seduction15/08/12 04:13 PM
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Damn, I had a feeling this wouldn't end.
/r/seduction03/08/12 05:35 PM
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I had no idea that guy was in 3rd Rock from the Sun.
/r/seduction03/08/12 05:31 PM
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Interesting! I just wrote a back-to-school article about my university in Chile, but my approach is a little more social and less game-y. Don't you fear that trying to pick up too eagerly with direct approaches is going to give you somewhat of a less than ideal reputation?
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:21 PM
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What's your native language? If it's Spanish or German, let's see it!
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:11 AM
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I tagged you as College Gas Station PUA, so you have to make it! What gave me recently a huuuuuuuuge push was watching every fucking Simple Pick Up video those guys have. Once you see the way they get the number, it doesn't seem that scary anymore. Since then, I've easily doubled the amount of girls I talk to, and quadrup.. cuadrpubleded.. 4 times more numbres! Seriously, let yourself get inspired by this, this or this.
/r/seduction29/07/12 12:14 AM
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I smoked pot every day for about 8 months up until 2 months ago, and there was some overlapping between "PUA Training" and still being a pothead. I told myself, "I can do both, whatever!". But I'm sorry to inform you that for me at least, I just didn't push myself enough being high, and that way the learning curve gets much harder. Besides that, a potheads brain is wired to be thinking about future situations to smoke a bowl, and that is just not healthy behavior. That's by far the best thing I'…
/r/seduction26/07/12 12:42 AM
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I'm 23, and I don't even know how to drive. When it comes up, the dialogue is always the same: "OMG you seriously don't know how to drive??" "No, why would I? I take the bus, the subway or my super awesome bicycle to save the world from all evil." pause. smiles. "That's so cool!"
/r/seduction26/07/12 12:25 AM
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I don't get it. Elaborate!
/r/seduction25/07/12 12:06 PM
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Thanks for the clarification Eric! I'll certainly keep it in mind to evaluate my progress.
/r/seduction25/07/12 02:31 AM
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What exactly do you mean by saying "Trying to 'get this over with' doesn't work"? I don't really understand it, because it seems to me that just going out there and trying to make a fool out of myself, without regard to whether I'm directly or indirectly approaching, is really starting to work. I'm personally on the 1000-openers-quest myself. The first 5 to 10 ones where difficult, but as I'm approaching more than I ever would have, I feel that it's incorporating in my personality, and the time …
/r/seduction25/07/12 02:05 AM
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Make a decision right now: you'll do 1000 approaches with cute girls on the road to becoming a PUA. Go out and buy a pocket-sized little black book, and a pen. Make a habit of carrying those around always. Each time you do an approach, keep count, and write something down to remember the interaction by. 6: Girl in library, "I can't find my book please help me". Each time you have a moment to kill, take out your book and draw a lesson from each interaction. What you could have said better, how yo…
/r/seduction14/07/12 01:30 AM
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So what exactly does this entail? Just, as a general rule, instead of trying to improve your game especifically, fuck up gloriously for a while? Try new stuff so the inner self can get confident about what works and what doesn't? That's awesome! That's so counterintuitive. I find it intriguing because that's what I've been doing lately, with singing ridiculusly loud in public walking down the road for instance, or approaching sets without thinking very much about any specific game (unlike what I…
/r/seduction12/07/12 04:34 AM
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Have you tried telling a girl walking right at you "Hey, how have you been?" with a face insinuates that you know her?
/r/seduction12/07/12 04:27 AM
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upvote for original username.
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:12 AM
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You have to get to a mindset where you can think that even if she finds a reason not to be with you, it's not the end of anything. The next girl is around the corner waiting to be approached by you, right now, the instant you think "that girl is cute hmmm". I used to get the same feeling, and it sucks because you rationalize every nice thing she does to yourself, making you think that she's special... but she's not really special, you can't even know that until you've been at least living togeth…
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:11 AM
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Maybe a "foster program" would work somehow. If bootcamps work on the field, who says that this sort of date-coaching couldn't work, at least to some extent, via Reddit? I, for one, would at least consider "adopting" a ForeverAlone to show him the ropes. I'm not really advanced myself, but you learn by teaching.
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:01 AM
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This. I thought of one today myself but decided not to post until I have the guts to use it a few times. Then, my little nerdy reward will be sharing its success with this fine community.
/r/seduction11/07/12 03:58 AM
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I've done this for some time but it turned out to be a pitfall for me, because some of the things you guess can be true and that's a great hook, but normally (in my case) they're not, and since this stuff is random and not like a cold read, it breaks the little rapport you might have up until that point... what is this guy doing, he's just guessing stuff but has no idea who I am, that's kinda weird - and they just get turned off, because after some missed guesses there's no good comeback. I used…
/r/seduction11/07/12 03:51 AM
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So now I should go out and compliment 3000 people to get good at it. I'll do 10 a day, that makes 300 a month, for 10 months. I'll report back in April!
/r/seduction06/07/12 02:11 AM
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But how can you be intimate with her later, if you dropped that bomb beforehand? It's kinda like betraying her, isn't it? What if she gets back to that, when you kino or something? It's not like when a girl puts you in the friendzone because that's her default, she generally sees guys hitting on her and "doesn't think of them in that way". But when a man says that, it might be true, but it probably isn't if she's hot, and I feel that if she senses that, this whole strategy might backfire horribl…
/r/seduction05/07/12 02:07 PM
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I just ask for icewater My jaw dropped to the ground with the simple genius of that. The other day I was just about to post here asking what everyone drinks in the clubs so I don't need to drink liquor. Red Bull is cool, but expensive. HOW DIDN'T I THINK OF ICEWATER! This changes everything, thanks for the inspiration.
/r/seduction24/06/12 02:06 AM
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