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i think youve nailed it quite perfectly. it targets western men bc western men have created this whole dating culture the way it is and now theyre upset and turn to redpill
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 11:37 PM
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no such thing as a shy guy.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 08:44 AM
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btw.. red pill ideology is not false. it explains human nature. what we must understand is how to then accept this reality without falling into delirium and losing control of our lives. the same way a man will NEVER opt for an obese and unattractive female is the same way a female will NOT opt for a broke and perhaps unattractive male. this is just how nature is. you can either learn from it, or run from it. ofc loyalty and love etc, GROWS within a relationship and neither of us should be walkin…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/20 02:20 AM
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honestly for me it would just be being a mamma’s boy - shows that he still isnt ready for responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 02:39 PM
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question.. how did you get your flair like that? lol did you do it yourself or did you ask a mod?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:08 AM
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HAHAHAHHAHA socks is rightt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:41 AM
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wow she looks amazinggggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:22 AM
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HAHAHAHHA YESSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:26 AM
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eating a whole MEAL in front of someone you’ve never met IS intimate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:50 AM
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what i was saying HAHAHHAAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:11 AM
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why are you being so rude omg chill
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 12:10 PM
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HAHAHAAHHAHAH WHATTT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:44 AM
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this is also a big question that i have lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 09:43 AM
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lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:18 AM
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men are the gatekeepers of commitment.. so it only makes sense that they do the payments etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:01 PM
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lol about men not caring that much about women leaving the house.. pls lets not be intellectually dishonest. men have been throwing a fit for a long time about equality now. men’s only actual power over women was their finances as youve stated in your own answer.. and according to you they provide nothing else. so women working acc made men have to step up and provide and not be tyrants.. ive been taught to expect better from men that is not just finances.. the west has made everything monetised…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 01:26 AM
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this is such a warped view... if im dating to marry then i will a 100% be more careful who will be impregnating me. idk if you mena the way western women date bc that it is completely different but in cultures where marriage is important and the man is the head of the household - there are natural expectations that you have stated above. and these cultures dont believe in abortion also.. lets not pretend men have more to lose in relationships than women who is leaving her family to be with him a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:01 AM
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you didnt bring up very good arguments bc women have to choose carefully who they will get old with.. and whose babies they will give birth too. and that is a forever thing..wdym by modern technology getting rid of women’s need for selection.. what technology?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 07:25 AM
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you can if you want to go around in circles and emasculate men while masculinising women or you can accept the differences and learn to coexist.. your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:36 AM
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i feel like it has a lot to do with what women have to lose in relationships for eg. her youth, her body (bc of pregnancies) and naturally we have to be more selective than men. also bc men don’t naturally require that much from women for eg. they just want someone who is “nice, motherly and shuts up” and that, in and of itself, is not easily found lol but its still a standard nonetheless. we shouldn’t be comparing apples to oranges here, women require different things, men require different thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:33 AM
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my mental state was already in a bad place but RP made it 100% worse. it took time and unlearning to get over it tbh but i do acknowledge that it has good parts in it and shouldnt be completely rejected
/r/ExRedPill30/08/20 12:28 AM
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so what that last paragraph in mind.. would you be okay with a fat unattractive woman, if it meant she was loyal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 12:12 AM
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but why do you think emotionally investing in someone who hasn’t proved anything worthwhile should be encouraged? shouldn’t we be teaching people not to enter their feelings so prematurely in the process? feelings come later but livelihood is always based on logic for eg. what youre saying then applies to a broke man with not even a sofa to his name, and the advice youre giving states that any girl should allow her feelings to dictate how she feels about him and thus be in a relationship with hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 11:09 PM
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how so? why do you think logic fails relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:52 PM
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TRP was onto smth when they said watch who a woman makes friends with... and a woman’s friends can either give her life or kill her with lies.. very sad that we look down on honesty and self-responsibility. i wish this sub was more “what can we do better” instead of “everyone else can go suck one”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:46 AM
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you should write a book on this!! this was so interesting to read ty for your insight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:56 AM
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yesss!! they want to switch places is right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:47 AM
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this is very insightful acc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:44 AM
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exactly alot of men have the madonna-whore complex and cant get out of it. thats why we do things to please God and not men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:43 AM
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well its not cringeful.. its just human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 11:50 AM
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okay, ill keep that in mind for next time :) ty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 10:56 AM
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is it possible for you to change the flair to CMV.. I didn’t know what it meant before I made this post so I didn’t want to clutter. But it really is a question and not smth CMV- related, but if you can change the flair - please do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 10:38 AM
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my apologies, i posed it as a question bc it is. idk how to phrase it in a neutral way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 09:47 AM
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https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/magnetic-partners/201403/sexual-masochism%3famp Sounds like bunch of reaction formation to me, good luckz
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 05:46 AM
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kind of unrelated but could you pls expand on what a seductive aura entails?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:52 AM
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idk how to agree elegantly so im just gonna say YES YES YES
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:38 AM
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exactly!!! what ive been thinking, this is precisely where i have rifts from TRP. men live ice women and then when those icy women are also sexually open - suddenly shes an undiagnosed BPD who is not in control of her emotions. when really, i would say she played her cards exactly the way he would’ve played it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:34 AM
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hmm thats interesting to know. i guess it really is the philosophy: you want what you can’t have and you have to recognise it and work with yourself to remind yourself of abundance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:31 AM
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yes i agree with what you’ve said regarding the cold coquette. i think attachment style comes into play bc he does mention that someone who is completely fulfilled cannot be seduced.. and also pavlov conditioning in regards to withholding affection can make the mommy-son dynamic play.. thats what i meant by “controlling emotions” hope that clarifies it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:30 AM
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this is a very well-rounded approach and i find myself wondering the same thing... if “natural” attraction would just be unattractive eventually is hot/cold is the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:26 AM
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theres also biological factors to this submissive nature
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:05 AM
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this makes sense too, i was thinking it had a lot to do with attachment style too but like someone pointed out.. i think a lot of what TRP teaches is not gendered and can be applied equally to the other side but the connotations on the female’s part would be derogatroy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:03 AM
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this makes a lot of sense, ty! I did feel like a lot RP is not gendered specifically the stuff about focusing on your purpose and kind of “attracting” instead of chasing and the part about porn makes sense too. ty for your insights 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:00 AM
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You asked a bullshit question Leave
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:56 AM
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says that everyone on the internet thinks they’re good at Freudian psychoanalysis continues to say “don’t gate-keep psychology” Your entire paragraph has contradicted itself. No one is losing touch with reality, i am simply stating a fact. People don’t always say what they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:46 AM
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I also have no clue where you got the idea that men secretly being masochists explains a lot of TRP. That makes 0 sense. A woman who strongly projects the "cold coquette" archetype would be used for a fuck, not a LTR. Clearly, that’s not what I meant. Like you’ve mentioned in your other comments.. denying this reality doesn’t make women “more stronger”, it is simply pointing out a reality. and so if TRP is adverse to this reality, it would explain why since they are secretly masochists and gatek…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:42 AM
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You ask most women if they want to live in a male dominated world they'll say no I don’t think you understand how deep the human psyche goes if you believe everything people say at surface level is what they acc mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:37 AM
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what part of “no egotistical or bs answers pls” did you not understand? that was not my question at all.. but anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:32 AM
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so there is a masochistic nature in men? would you care to elaborate on what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:59 AM
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nah you must be old or smth lol.. if youre in your 40s-50s that makes sense. but im in my 20s and 30 yo are starting to get into TRP and so are very young boys (16-20) all thru PUA advice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:52 AM
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... lots of people know about TRP. you might have been living under a rock. TRP is in response to feminism... and a very extremist view at that. both are at fault. TRP is not perfect and neither is feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:39 AM
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both TRP and feminism have poisoned relationships. As i’ve heard someone say before, “red pill women are better than red pill men and feminist men are worse than feminist women”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:31 AM
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this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:30 AM
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this is probably the most well-rounded view ive come across
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:29 AM
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yes yes yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:43 AM
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this is very very true and I’m totally a newbie on this sub but im already seeing a lot of toxic behaviours from women who don’t want to take responsibility for letting the LVM get away with so many things. LVM exist bc women let their behaviour slide under the rug and dont recognise that what we permit is what we promote. It’s a simple concept. Unfortunately, a lot of the time we see “you can do better sis” but its not in regards to the woman’s own behaviour but in her choices of men... problem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:39 AM
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i love when we make men mad 🥰🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:30 AM
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!!! this comment is so so important. if anyone has read the art of seduction, it says that men secretly enjoy masochism and sadomasochism in relationships even if they say they hate it. my theory is that even in divorce settlements when men “complain” about her taking 50%, its not really a complaint about the justice system but acc about how they “fell” for her and they vent. i like what you said about “how do they keep falling for “bipolar” women... if youre truly a RPM, and cant resist women t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:29 AM
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yes yes i have its infecting young boys like 17 yos too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:17 AM
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no ❤️ this aint it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:15 AM
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honestly my view is that if hes asking you to pay half the bills and you are kinda the breadwinner... i wouldn’t completely put my trust in him either. just bc he hasn’t allowed you to be in your feminine, he’s allowed you to pay half the bills so why not have half the say? being a RPW doesn’t mean you don’t stand up for yourself. its a good thing you dont completely trust him. Idk how RPM live their lives and how they think its biologically okay to let a woman split everything down to the middl…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 12:40 AM
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i guess you are tight about it cutting thru alot of the bs... I apologise if it seemed that I was trying to “be the right woman” for every guy that I was talking to.. that is simply exhausting and pick-me behaviour. I was asking how does one evaluate if he assesses you as the right person for him during the process i.e right woman
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 11:51 PM
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Hi, thank you so much for taking the time to give such an important response. I was wondering how you discussed living arrangements with your husband.. do you guys live alone or do you live with his parents and how has that experience been for you? Since that is one of my non-negotiables
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 10:32 PM
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i guess desperate vibes was the wrong pretence.. i more so meant how to still come across as charming during the process and without intimidating the guy
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 11:34 AM
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many “men” get marrie dout of pressure from families esp if its arranged so even if they are physically married they are just as emotionally unavailable as a single dude who doesnt wanna get married
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 11:33 AM
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i listen to Asha C (yt) and Karine Alourde (yt)- her content is okay. otherwise, mindfulattraction 2.0 (yt) karine is a little more traditional and sometimes gives RPW content but shes more focussed on femininty
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 02:26 AM
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acting out of insecurity definitely cancels out good intentions. Because good intentions are truly good when there is no expectation of reciprocation for eg. in this case, his love and attention at the expense of her self-respect. good intentions is like having strength. if you dont have strength and you preach about “peace” it is not because you are a peaceful person but because you are a meek and weak person who cannot fight. whereas if you knew how to fight and yet still choose to advocate fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:40 PM
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hahhahaah yesss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:15 PM
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BENEFITS UPFRONT, TRUST LATER HOW DO I SCREAM THIS AND PASTE IT ON MY HEADBOARD YASSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:14 PM
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not really. alot of what girls do regarding paying for dates or even whatever OP in the picture does is out of insecurity and not pure intentions. alot of girls are so desperate to keep a man; they would do ANYTHING to keep him and what OP did is representation of that. good intentions have nothing to do with it, its a way to try to keep the man interested by saying “hey im willing to do X, Y Z for absolutely NO commitment bc i dont respect myself” it really comes down to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:05 PM
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vetting is a process where both men and women ask questions that indicate a person’s ability to be in a long-term relationship (LTR), in this case it was marriage
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 06:03 AM
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yes yes yes, she allowed herself to be used. why are we building men up and then getting mad that they’re complacent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:27 PM
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he would be the primary breadwinner. I agree with whatever you have said, however, my question is what is your opinion on mommy boys or “men” who think that moving away to start a new family means that his wife is trying to separate him from his mum? Although the finances were the real problem, he kept bringing his mum up. logically speaking, do you think a new marriage can survive with six people (three being his adult 30 yo+ siblings), his mum (who is very attached to him and vice versa) and a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 10:40 PM
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omgggggg 😭😭😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:53 AM
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honestly i was so damaged by my year 8 crush who absolutely humiliated me for liking him that my unconscious just became unimpressed by men entirely. also we dont NEED men like they NEED us, so that always soothes me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:55 AM
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Yeah im not arab, but i am brown so the “man” im talking about does fit the criteria. and i completely agree regarding the red flags stuff, if im seeing this codependent relationship with his mother now - its bound to get worse
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 09:39 AM
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youre definitely right. they pretty much “leech” off of each other. she admits she “needs” him and it definitely is her responsibility to push him away at this stage but I think he should also recognise it and fix that codependence
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 07:40 AM
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I mentioned that he does have siblings in the post, he is although, the youngest so I think that does come into play
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 07:29 AM
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i agree, and i come from the same culture. unfortunately it isn’t rosy at all, if you ask the DIL how she truly feels, she’ll always tell you its better to live alone with your husband and get to know him. The girl is the one that always has to “adjust” and “sacrifice” even though technically she doesnt have to do any of that. It’s bc we always expect the woman to sacrifice for the sake of her husband, but its an unnecessary burden that turns both husband and wife off each other and impacts thei…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 05:06 AM
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thank you so much girl ❤️ this is so sweet 😭😭
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 02:11 AM
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I respect men who can distinguish between their mothers and their wives. He was definitely not doing that, instead he told me I was trying to “steal” him (his words) and that is how you know he is not ready for a commitment. Every man should have a strong bond with his mother, that’s how he will know how to treat a woman. However, if a man starts thinking his wife is trying to compete with his mother for his affection, there is something wrong with that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 01:56 AM
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I apologise if I’m misinterpreting.. but what exactly do you mean by this? Are you saying “onto the next” or are you saying “next” as in im not using the correct terminology?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 01:53 AM
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YES YES YES YES, thank you so much. you have lightened my burden and made me understand things from a perspective of someone who has lived with a mommy’s boy. its not cute at all, and you are right in saying that building a new family, requires a different type of relationship entirey. But he made it out to be as if I was competing with his mum and trying to “separate” him from his family when honestly I wasn’t. It’s like you’ve said, it’s not about “abandoning” your current family, but instead …
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 01:52 AM
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Yes, thank you. These are the exact things that ran inside my head. I gave him more logic than I did emotional reasons for why it would be a bad idea but he was still thinking like a single man. And when I asked him how he was going to help with the kids, he asked me “What do you want me to do?” And I was left confused bc I’m only 20 and not in any hurry to have kids but he was. However, he didn’t have any game- plan. It was very upsetting that such a great and wholesome dude could be so tone-de…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 12:32 AM
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so do we just accept the beta and thats it..? is there really no way out?
/r/RedPillWives13/08/20 02:47 PM
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how do you suggest women deal when this happens? i understand what you mean with topping from the bottom... but how do you insert that thought of dominance in your man?
/r/RedPillWives13/08/20 04:53 AM
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