clevercardinal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	What is Social Value?		clevercardinal	/r/seduction	11/08/14 11:24 PM

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1	Reportedly, making a woman feel like she's the most important person in the world can do wonders for your game. However, when I do it, people tell me I look like a lovesick puppy dog. Help? There are a lot of misleading dating advices. Most of these services earn money from people that are socially unskilled, therefore, easy to trick into thinking they're having success. Most websites claiming to "show your intentions straight" also suggest you to approach "hundreds of women". If you approach 100 women and 1 sleeps with you and then deorbits and never talks to you again... well, most of those socially unskilled men are happy with that. Don't be like that. Learn that true success is…	/r/seduction	11/08/14 07:54 AM
2	How to let her down gently? I recommend just befriending her lightly. Not like, super friends. Unless she's totally not in your social circle and you're sure she won't be seen for atleast 1 year. Otherwise, have a nice chat until it dies. Next time you go out and are trying to flirt with a woman, you'll have a bunch of women greeting you actively and being around yourself. That's, unless she's really unpretty.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 07:39 AM
2	How to let her down gently? Depends. I would usually answer chat-killers, like "Good!" If she tells a story "Hahaha." Something like that. She'll get bored and just you two didn't snap during chat.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 07:38 AM
1	Breakfast First Date Yep. All good. It's actually a SUPERB place to take her.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 06:52 AM
4	Flirting Games: Which are your favourites? Usually there's one or two guys who end up being so drunk that instead of saying that they like it or something, they just raise the thumb. And then there's guy taking snapchats of the funny things that happen.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 05:20 AM
7	Flirting Games: Which are your favourites? Haha, of course! Although, it depends on the setting. Younger audiences = some sort of punishment (ends up in kissing and extreme making out, Facebook-worthy). Older audiences = paying the drinks! Haha, just joking! Yeah. There's a bunch of other fun games. This one is quite fun because usually the snapchats with the people raising the thumb end up being quite fun.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 04:30 AM
2	How to approach a movie as a first date? Hey. If you BOTH share movies as a like, it's good. It depends on your goal. If you REALLY want to have sex in the first date, you would need to set your cards on the table. Before the date set up some very heavy and deep conversations that get her telling her own stories. Make sure she does the talking, the idea is to come across as a great listener. Then, before the theater, some social touching never does anything wrong and during the theater you would need to do your main moves. But if you'r…	/r/seduction	11/08/14 04:14 AM
1	Do looks actually matter There's this thing I call 'social value'. It's defined as that thing that "spark" interest in the opposite gender. Think of when you're looking at a group of women. Imagine there's three groups: 1) Physically unappealing girls that don't approach anyone and look extremely shy. 2) A group of slightly bukly girl, blonde, at a party talking to every single man they meet. 3) A group of 10s sitting on the bar of a party, surrounded by a group of fit men. If I told you, "pick whatever you want and you…	/r/seduction	11/08/14 02:47 AM
1	I place 95% of my self-worth on whether or not I can have sex with beautiful women. I have had two tinder dates in a row that just did not pan out into another date. My self-esteem is in the toilet. I once thought of myself as good at seduction but have lost all confidence recently. I'm stuck. I mean that most Tinder dates are women searching for something: relationships, sex, fun, experiences, friends, boost their ego. Either way, you need to stand up to this expectations by being one of the best experiences she'll get. I've been told that I'm hard to forget thanks to my stories and my style. It's something that really boosts me up, to know that people remember me because they think I'm quite a cool, funny and attractive guy that tells great stories. This behaviour also gets you to g…	/r/seduction	11/08/14 02:03 AM
1	Ask her about her friends Superb idea. Specially because it gets HER to tell HER stories. Which makes you come across as a great listener at the same time!	/r/seduction	11/08/14 01:15 AM
3	I place 95% of my self-worth on whether or not I can have sex with beautiful women. I have had two tinder dates in a row that just did not pan out into another date. My self-esteem is in the toilet. I once thought of myself as good at seduction but have lost all confidence recently. I'm stuck. Oh man. That's not right. Your game should be based on a very strong foundation! You see. Think of the things that make YOU worth dating. How much? Okay. I'm sure you know what 'social value' is. If not, it's basically the things that make you 'social-worthy' by a woman. If you see Leonardo DiCaprio on a bar, you'd chop a finger just to slam a chat with him. That's social value. Social value is built on these pillars. The stronger your social value, the most likely a woman will, first of all, ac…	/r/seduction	11/08/14 01:12 AM
78	Flirting Games: Which are your favourites? I have one I made up with some friends during college time. It might not be a 100% flirting game and more a drinking game, but I still find it useful. It's basically perfect for when you're in a big group and there's a girl you're interested in, but it's quite hard to speak 1-on-1 with her. It's called the 'Facebook game', or for more mature settings, the 'Like game'. Basically, you pass the coin to someone and she/he has to tell a story, a joke, show a photo, something. People have to say if th…	/r/seduction	11/08/14 12:36 AM
1	Going 5 days to Buenos Aires. Any tips? Not really! Most places in South America are not strict with that. Specially bars. Discos might get you some trouble. Locals are the expert in these matters and they will tip you the best places to visit. There -are- places that are free of age, and of course there are places that are not. G'luck!	/r/seduction	11/08/14 12:18 AM
2	Has anyone ever re-seduced their ex after a break-up? Awesome piece of advice. Entirely true. I wouldn't return with any of my exes, though. If you/she/he decided to end the relationship, it was because of something going wrong. I can think of very specific and strange cases where I would consider going back with an ex.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 12:06 AM
2	Going 5 days to Buenos Aires. Any tips? Provecho! Spanish females are much more open to meeting there. Usually, there are places people go to party and drink. You should definitely visit some of the most popular discos and bars. Meeting people there is relatively very easy and fun! Ah, and make sure to mention you're not from Buenos Aires, and that you're a tourist. You'll see why ;) Buena suerte!	/r/seduction	11/08/14 12:01 AM