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| 2 | Anxiety and depressionGot it. I'd still quit the escorts, get a routine of good diet and exercise and get your energy levels up. Think something like "I have the means and the power to access sex anytime I want via escorts, but I also have the power to focus instead on the things that will permanently make my life better." After you fix the mental side and are not operating out of a position of desperation, you can look at your dating options here or elsewhere in the world. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety and depressionIt's an emasculating, humiliating experience when a woman leaves with the kids, but escorts are almost never the right answer. Probably need more context - how many dates are you getting a month? How well have they gone? That should give a rough idea of how marketable you are in your area. I don't think you should move closer to the kids just to be around them. It won't fix the self-worth problem. This woman uprooted your life and by moving to where she is, you're capitulating to a terrorist and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 10:53 AM |
| 4 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.It's well within both your rights to get as much information as possible about the other. I can see how it leads to a tense, interrogative atmosphere, though. I don't think she's particularly crazy, but if it's been a year and this is how it's going, you need a different approach to finding quality women. I can tell you from experience that where you meet a woman matters a lot. If you found her on an app, expect to be treated like an expendable commodity. If you met her at a bar in an exotic loc… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Dating AgainAdverse selection. Think about it - if they were reasonably attractive and really looking to build something real, what are the odds they're single? The good ones get snapped up extremely quickly. If you can't find women through your hobbies, consider travel to expand your horizons on life or discover a market more favorable to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 07:45 AM |
| 3 | Update. Quickly learning how awful my family is.Use a crisis to figure out which of your family members are supportive and which are not. Be ruthless about permanently cutting out the unsupportive ones. I've done this with two family members about a year ago and it has proven to be the correct move. It seems you have to remove a lot more than two, though. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Will be deleted.I'm of the firm opinion that if you date a woman and she leaves for whatever reason she is from that point worthless to you as a partner. Divorce her and figure out the co-parenting to minimize child support owed. A story: I have a buddy who called it off with his ex-gf a while ago. She technically has a new boyfriend, but she will drive 3 hours from her city to go sleep with my buddy basically every other weekend or whenever he wants. That's the kind of desire you want out of a woman. Nothing e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 07:12 AM |
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