clickmagnet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene? If I recall correctly, Models itself also recommends therapy.	/r/seduction	09/07/25 11:03 PM
17	Old school tip: The Brad Pitt Rule The effort to reschedule is the key point. Women will let you paddle that canoe by yourself forever, if you don’t let them ghost. It’s easier than admitting they don’t want to meet you. Brad Pitt rule is a way to contrast actions you’re observing with the actions of someone who is interested at all.	/r/seduction	19/04/23 06:39 PM
20	STOTD - I could out drink you, any day Too smart. Depends on girl to get a joke she probably won’t. But it works on me!	/r/seduction	11/02/18 12:40 AM
2	FR Probably the worst date I've ever been on. Solid. I can't stand that behavior and I'm glad you told her off.	/r/seduction	04/04/17 12:06 AM
1	Why guys aged 30-40 are usually more desirable to women than younger men. As if that would make a difference. Have you ever really looked at Asian women?	/r/seduction	06/02/17 12:33 AM
13	How to best absorb all the stuff taught in Models? Me too. Somewhere in there he says, you'll put off taking action, because you need to prepare a little more, and then you'll decide you need to read this book again. Some of you may have already done that. And every time I read it again, I think, fuck you.	/r/seduction	29/11/16 05:48 AM
1	Left my number for a waitress on a receipt, and she texted me. HELP! Ask her out, and then stop talking. Just the facts, or you'll fuck it up, at least I know I would.	/r/seduction	18/06/16 04:00 PM
1	Tinder: Been using it for months, 0 matches. Me too. Way longer than three months. I'm not gross. Online dating is just horseshit, that's all.	/r/seduction	01/02/16 06:59 AM
0	Other good books like "No More Mr. Nice Guy"? to read? Charisma Myth is weak tea. I stopped reading after the suggestion to wiggle my toes before talking with anybody.	/r/seduction	14/11/15 06:06 PM
1	Maybe someone in Canada can help? I'm on a serious downward spiral emotionally right now with toxic thoughts and experiences, and have no idea where to begin. I'm exactly where you are emotionally, except I'm white, and of normal height and perfect weight. So we're probably both full of shit. Let me ask you some questions I ask myself when I know I'm full of shit: First, just how many women have you actually tried to talk to this month? For me that number is 1. She flaked hard. But it should be 10. I play in a band, I surf and travel, 10 rejections in a month should be an attainable goal. You're in college for god's sake, I think 15 is a reasonable nu…	/r/seduction	01/09/15 08:04 AM
2	How to get over this sick feeling that women inherently hate me? I often feel the same, but whenever I do I recall something Marc Manson wrote, it was something to the effect of learning not to believe your own bullshit. Maybe there's some magical, untestable force we project that sends women packing. But more likely, there's more we can do to work on ourselves. Very definitely, there is more I can do to increase sample size. My own bullshit line is that there aren't any nice girls in my town. And I base that on having met about two. snp I wish there was a pi…	/r/seduction	23/06/15 07:00 PM
2	Going from a HB9.5 to picking up girls not as attractive I sympathize, my worst girlfriend was also the hottest. I went through a revenge-dating phase which it sounds like you're still in, and was similarly annoyed by the virtual impossibility of going hotter. Today I like a binary rating system, I think it was Mark Manson's idea. 0 means you're not attracted and one means you are. Anything else is a pedestal. I also had a therapist actually encourage me to compare other dates to the super hot ex, but to do so in a fair way that compares ALL the quali…	/r/seduction	28/11/14 07:49 PM
10	How would I know the difference between a hard no and a soft no right before sex? Freeze-out is a win win. If she's really shitting you, then it calls her out and puts the initiative in her lap. And if she's really not into you, you don't risk rape charges.	/r/seduction	09/03/14 10:24 PM
7	My OKCupid experiment is over. FINALLY was deleted/banned. x-post /r/OKCupid Your response rate was comparable to my own, whereas I was writing carefully crafted and individualized openers. Respect, sir!	/r/seduction	07/01/14 02:13 AM
3	Is online dating a bad idea for a dude who is trying to get back into the game after a LTR I found the exact same thing. I've been on and off OKC and plenty of fish for years. You're right, you can't generalize, but this pattern was wearing me down: 1) flirt, chat 2) have long conversation by phone and discover a plethora of common interests 3) ask girl out, get the answer "maybe" 4) never hear from her again Always there was a next woman just around the corner, just out of reach, just busy that week or out of town or some shit, never taking the initiative themselves to suggest a diff…	/r/seduction	30/12/13 07:46 PM
1	Girls in cars? Less risk, same result if you just pin the number under her windshield wiper and wink. Less ballsy than opening the door, but also less criminal.	/r/seduction	14/12/13 07:22 PM
1	Seddit is changing my life!! no girls yet though :( I've never noticed any kind of concentration on any one part of a mountain. Timing, however, that could help. If it's your demographic (18-30ish) join a ski club. U of Lethbridge, Calgary, Edmonton, all have clubs open to the public. Those trips are a gold mine. Bust Loose and Downhill Riders in the public sector. Also, watch the event calendars of local mountains. They've always got something on. Demo day? Free face painting for the kids? Useless. Retro ski day? Decent band playing? Dynamite! S…	/r/seduction	12/12/13 01:38 AM
7	Seddit is changing my life!! no girls yet though :( Start snowboarding. Singles line on the ski hill is not a half-bad spot to meet women, you get a captive audience for 15 or 20 minutes, in a place where conversation is normal or even expected. You get a built-in time constraint. And anyway, snowboarding makes Alberta livable in the winter. Problem is, even face to face, it's really hard to tell whether they're hot under their goggles and winter clothes. Or even whether they're 18.	/r/seduction	10/12/13 08:17 PM
9	How do I escalate kino on a movie date? Stuff movie dates for escalation. If I take a girl to a movie it's because I want to see the movie. If I want to make progress with the girl it's the worst possible venue. For one thing, you don't get to watch the movie if you're making out, so why pay for a ticket? For another, she's gonna taste like buttered popcorn, and so will you. That's cool on popcorn, not cool on a human. There's that stupid divider between the seats to make everything awkward. If she shoots you down you still have to si…	/r/seduction	01/12/13 08:07 PM