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| 2 | Is it over or a shit test?Both are fine. Either way its a learning opportunity. This isnt your wife. Feels bad to feel like you did something wrong and fumbled but without honest feedback its just gonna lead to spiraling. I can tell you that hyper-focusing on amount of time between responses and putting everything on this one girl will lead to emotional heaviness she can feel. Subconsciously anyone would pull back even more. Try to put yourself in the shoes of a girl who is put under pressure when its supposed to be fun.… | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Is it over or a shit test?I cant tell you that but lets just assume no and go from there. Hit up other friends or girls and it’ll be a pleasant surprise if she hits back. Become more secure being alone as well. No one wants to be responsible to babysit a guy they just started talking to. Gotta build on yourself first before girls start flocking. | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?I mean yeah you can tell when vibes change but the more needy you get the more you’ll be off putting. Who knows whats going on her end. Ex came back, grandma died, depressive episode, bored. Either way being annoying is gonna make it worse. My advice: try to imagine what a secure healthy communicative person would do and copy that Nothing wrong with a hail mary if you actually lost them but you might push people away unnecessarily by getting desperate. | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Is it over or a shit test?Yall know shit tests arent real. No girl thinks “oh im going to do this opposite action on purpose as a test and if he does the correct action then ill fuck him” Assume everything is subconscious and honest. unless like very avoidant and traumatized. | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Women keep telling me I have ‘good features’—what are they referring to?Bone structure. Make sure you dont get fat or those features will be hidden! | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | 26, haven't been dating, struggling coming out of my shellTyping out thoughts helps. This post helps. Taking small actions. Journaling. Tracking mood. Sleeping more. Exercise. Ofc i struggle doing these things too lol. When you give up on society you stop taking care of yourself as well. | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub - Why if you go on a first date with a guy and there is no spark. Its over and there's nothing the guy can do about itBro have you never turned down a girl you didnt like? It feels like that. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 12:49 PM |
| 3 | 26, haven't been dating, struggling coming out of my shellYes withdrawing from society and dating due to feelings of inadequacy. Been there. Recommend slowly starting to date and do normal activities without putting expectations on them as a form of healing. Maybe a little at a time. While also working on your mental health. | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 08:06 AM |
| 10 | A simple technique to talk about anything with girls when your life is ordinary, repetitive and boringToday i got into a war with some kids using branches as swords and guns and remembered what it felt like to be a child for a second. Enthusiasm and wonder are very important. | /r/seduction | 13/09/25 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How to be chased and valued moreTherapyyy | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 12:09 AM |
| 16 | My Learnings from Dan Bilzerian, StirIing Cooper & Michael Sartain’s ProgramsLet me know how that 20 girl party goes | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Ask her out again after she couldn't make it?Couldnt hurt! I personally need to be invited twice to make sure someone likes me lol | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 08:24 PM |
| 2 | No Job and Broke—Should I still date?Honestly yeah. Once you give up on social activities and appearance you’re fucked for jobs too. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 02:39 AM |
| 2 | A relationship will not make you happy, this is whyIf you are unhealthy you will subconsciously gravitate towards other unhealthy people. Or bring down your partner. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:48 PM |
| 3 | The reason why women hate men that chase themYou would hate if it if a weird uggo kept chasing you too. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 02:46 AM |
| 5 | approached a girl after a date and boyfriend/husband came up and told me to fck offLmao other option is you fight this random guy and then what. You win the girl and feel like an alpha? Take a step back and look at yourself. | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 05:30 AM |
| -2 | I’m 31m, is it unethical to go after a 23yr old girl that I know?If you have to ask.. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 08:18 AM |
| 2 | How to multidate girls that you are friends with?Dont date your friends | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 05:29 AM |
| 3 | College Campus is still a gold mine. 34yr old back after five years Day GameCmon man | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 05:54 AM |
| 0 | Should I consider learning line dancing to get girls?Cmon man | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 07:35 AM |
| 44 | If most women look away immediately as soon as you lock eyes with them, is this is good indicator that you're ugly? (NO COPE ALLOWED)Post pic and I’ll tell ya | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 12:53 AM |
| 21 | Why am I getting ghosted after meeting at bar/clubThey sober the next day lol | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 08:19 PM |
| 1 | anyone know any good sites to find women? other than the mainstream appsMost girls i know dont go on dating apps | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How to text women without doing Vc and get them to be yours?Lmao wtf meet in person then. Otherwise they could just text an ai. How do you know who youre texting? Could be a fat guy. Your voice cant be heard easily? Why would someone want to date that. Sounds sketch. You could be catfishing too. | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 05:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you stop being thirsty?Stop viewing women as prizes or high value. Get a girlfriend for a while. Look internally. Work on self esteem and dont look for external validation. Surround yourself with people who arent thirsty losers. Include girls in your friend groups. Get laid a few times and learn how humans are all similar. Put yourself in their shoes. If you were a girl would you want a predictable fuckboy texting you dumb shit? Can you tell if theyre attracted to you? Work on self awareness and perhaps therapy. If yo… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 06:26 AM |
| 4 | How do you stop being thirsty?Stop viewing women as prizes or high value. Get a girlfriend for a while. Look internally. Work on self esteem and dont look for external validation. Surround yourself with people who arent thirsty losers. Include girls in your friend groups. Get laid a few times and learn how humans are all similar. Put yourself in their shoes. If you were a girl would you want a predictable fuckboy texting you dumb shit? Work on self awareness and perhaps therapy. If you are autistic then you will need to adju… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Me M/22 wants to meet up in real life with F/22 for a trip but I need to convince my best friend to join me for it work.I dont have any advice but this is the plot of the movie sex drive so maybe make him watch that movie with you | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?Depends on the amount of validation i need at the time | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 09:44 AM |
| 1 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.I think we’re getting distracted by op picking up girls in malls lol. I did not expect to get questioned this hard. | /r/seduction | 07/07/23 06:12 AM |
| 41 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.Well spiderman isnt actually a spider. Im not actually a pedo, i was just bitten by one during puberty and now i can sense them. | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 07:23 AM |
| 11 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.Yea my pedo senses are tingling | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 05:30 AM |
| 2 | why do I only attract women I fucking hate?Probably your terrible personality lol | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned.Not just women lol. I used to do this. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to utilize my personality for good resultsThis post sounds like it was written by an alien. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)The fact that you counted is sad interesting. Props for having the energy tho. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Why would you even put engineers and businessmen in the same tier as doctors lol | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:33 AM |
| 2 | This is terribleBig mood but then after the 20th girl and youre still not happy you will fall into a pit. And none of the girls will stay with you because you get bored of them. Because youre not truly happy and cant give real effort into a relationship. And girls you do like too much will also not like you because once again youre not truly happy with yourself. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:31 AM |
| 16 | Steal my pick-up technique for going to clubs - works wondersThink it would work at preschools too. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one weekYep its like exercising instead of love making | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:16 PM |
| 10 | Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one weekZoloft makes me asexual. Couldnt give a damn about putting the energy to do this and couldnt finish in bed if i did. One of the most common side effects. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | I think i'm friendzoned, should I fucking go for it anyways?Don't fuck up your friendships man | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | How can I make sure I’m the best option she has?Take out the other options. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Roommate avoids me nowI would try to speak and clear the air, awkward roomates suck. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 2 | For guys that hook up often, do you still watch porn?Even when i was dating i need dat dopamine | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreYep you've matured out of it. This shit will never replace actual self love. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meThen you will be judged for that in relation to functioning people who act their age. If you dont care more power to you. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meThen they will be judged for that. Thats the point of this post. Normal people dont date kids sorry. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Thailand?Go fuck some hookers then? Its closer. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:58 AM |
| 9 | Thailand?Cmon man.. Sex tourism is the worst. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 08:24 PM |
| 4 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.Sounds like burnout. Either that or you dont have your routine down yet, usually takes a month to get into the flow of something. Doing all of those at once does sound exhausting. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meBut most of the time thats not true. The exception doesnt prove the rule. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 09:56 AM |
| 193 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than me32 to 27 isn't bad. But when 30 dating 18 is at completely different stages of life. Nothing to talk about and different maturity levels. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:42 PM |
| 32 | First ever got approached. Think I handed it well, got her snap but what do I do now?lmao this some middle school shit | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?I heard in Russia they love asians. But then you'd have to move to Russia. Anyways, if you move to another country for a small chance of getting women then I don't know what to tell you. You will not be happy wherever you go. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 05:34 AM |
| 2 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.Get better pictures. Ask one of your friends whos good at photography to take a few for you. | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 3 | How Being Introverted Can Get You GirlsI figured it out, someone with social anxiety gets drained by conversation because of how much extra work it is for them. I don't think anyone is actually charged from conversation, just maybe less drained. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 2 | I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful.good stuff | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 11:56 PM |
| 9 | Why am I instantly unattracted when women show interest ?I have low self esteem and anytime someone shows interest in me I think something must be wrong with them. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Is this a weird first date?Assembling furniture is great. Some people actually like to do it (not me) and if the date goes bad, then you'll still have put together furniture. Win win | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Ultimate List Of Date IdeasIt works great, first you can establish comfort at the grocery store picking out ingredients. (also its a more neutral meeting spot) The drinking helps loosen up and makes the cooking more fun. Plus its generally accepted to drink wine while cooking. My favorite part is when both people are a little tipsy and we just start throwing random ingredients into the recipe to see what turns out good. Then after you have a nice meal and go from there :) | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Ultimate List Of Date IdeasDrunk cooking is my go to | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Lesbian here. I took her bra with me when I left her place.Keep that shit. I have a collection of earrings that girls have left behind. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Girls who I tutor.Hmm, well if the girl reports you for following her on ig after that could get you in trouble too. Maybe you'll just have to meet them organically around campus and say hi when you see them. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 05:40 PM |
| 16 | Girls who I tutor.Offer your email or fb if they have any more questions. Professional and leaves the door open. Do NOT randomly follow them on ig after. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 05:36 PM |
| 24 | Is it wrong to hit up women on 23andme?Wrong? Yes, but when has that stopped anyone before? | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 04:56 PM |
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