climeate Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
93	Don't be a pickmeisha for male friends, either!		climeate	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 05:12 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Wish I knew this before. Sure, sometimes there is something wrong with your libido. But I wouldn't count on that from my experience lol. Whether you're not sure, go see a doctor sis <3 Agh so true! I was starting to wonder if I was only into women. No, he just had a death grip and no interest in initiating sex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 04:58 PM
7	Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intention That's a good point. I think having so many female "friends" also exposed his LVM status to his exes. He was the type that couldn't stand being single. I bet his exes got a whiff of that pathetic trait + the fact that he had backups and bailed. Smart women, lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 06:18 AM
7	Did anyone here end up coming to their sentences about the guy they were currently in a relationship with and promptly dumped him after finding this subreddit? Same. I realized that I don't even miss him even after being friends for years. That's how draining he was. God bless FDS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 11:36 PM
35	Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intention I wasted years on a male "friend" only to find out that he had been keeping me around as a potential dating option. All his relationships while we talked crashed and burned. Wow dude, who wouldn't want a piece of that?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 07:47 PM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020) Hate to say it, but truly being friends after a breakup almost never works. Especially if you break up with him and he's upset about it. Also, you should be able to detect if he's LV or HV after knowing him for awhile. If you think he's HV and decide to go for it, just know there's a risk of losing the friendship if it doesn't work. Good luck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 06:04 PM
45	You can already tell what’s in the comment section. “But men get abused too and women are more abusive “ I’m so honestly sick of them Good intuition to leave. It's sad how there are even memes about guys punching holes in walls because it's so common.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 05:01 PM
7	You can't change someone: why vetting is your superpower I wish there was an easy way to tell whether FDS behavior is whipping a HVM back into shape, or if his shitty behavior is a sign he was LVM the whole time :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/20 09:00 PM
4	The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explain This book is a godsend. My teenage years were isolated, so I got my dating advice from male-centric forums and anime. They taught me to be a pickmeisha extreme (make cookies for the guy you have a crush on!) and forgive abusive behavior. This book is a great reminder you can still be nice while putting yourself first.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/20 06:08 PM
38	Newbies reposting other highly rated posts It's a tactic used by karma farming bots once a subreddit gets big enough. Then, when they have enough karma, the account gets sold. I'm guessing that since we hit 50k we've become a target :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/20 06:03 PM
15	How Have Men Reacted When You Told Them They’re Bad At Sex? My ex threw a tantrum to try and make me trash my vibrators. This was the same guy who literally refused to touch my downstairs because it "feels gross when it's wet". Thank god even at peak pickmeisha I had the sense to hide them until our breakup.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/20 07:16 AM