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CMVclitorophagy/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:37 PM
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If you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife, from my personal point of view get an average man to marry you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:44 PM
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What’s the reason for men to grow their armpit hair out? Is it laziness? There are a zillion reasons to let the hair that naturally grows grow
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:15 PM
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these are good questions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:12 PM
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leg hairs perform a sensory function
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:44 AM
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armpit hair is adult not masculine or feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:34 AM
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I intend to keep making him feel like he did!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:25 AM
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my experience is that as long as you’re fit enough game matters more than attractiveness. Fun and funny has staying power. Men want a pleasant companion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:47 PM
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shallow women maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:43 PM
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emotional men are easy enough to deal with if they’re respectful and responsible. Men who can cry when they need to are better partners in my experience. Crying every day is a turn-off but crying because you really care about something is hot. Character depth is sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:43 PM
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emotions don’t go away when you hold them in unexpressed. People get ulcers and headaches and worse plus addictions, anger management problems and suicide. All humans are built to cry and talk and shout for emotional release and for communication but culture punishes boys and men so severely for showing any emotion but anger that they learn to hold it all in. Sometimes guys explode. There are benefits to hiding vulnerabilities but there are benefits to expressing feelings too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:39 PM
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The residual effects of the patriarchy are still very present in relationship expectations. In a relationship many men want or even expect expect sex, home cooked meals, laundry services, and emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:04 AM
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cop
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:58 PM
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with local politics that might not matter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:39 AM
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Showing that a woman chooses to be publicly united with you conveys status
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:13 PM
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nah none of these things would be comfortable for either of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:50 AM
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We’re so horny. We’re just not that visual, or libidos have breadth and nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:43 PM
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Imagine seeing the broad scope of womanhood across the globe as monochromatic?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:41 PM
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those old style thin plucked eyebrows were uglier to me. fake square eyebrows are weird but thick and natural is pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:40 PM
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I think the spread of HIIT and other mixed gender fitness options has been good for the overall cultural ideal physique. Strong arms and round butts look good on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:39 PM
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I’m responding to the question “where do you draw the line”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:10 AM
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lots of reasons but most of all, no need
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:07 PM
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not bad, just unpleasant in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:48 PM
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I’m just responding to the part where you said that those days of women responding to your personality are long gone as if only the world around you has changed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:38 AM
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I agree, there are many facets of attractiveness for example people who talk about landing a woman as is she were a fish are not attractive. I guess that falls under personality. Profanity is unattractive as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:35 AM
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abortion doesn’t have an effect on my decisions because I have never wanted one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:26 AM
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I have never been interested in casual sex with randos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:09 AM
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twenty years ago you also had more youthfulness that might be a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:03 AM
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If you’re talking about online dating yes but in the real world personality is prominent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:00 AM
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This sounds like something someone without a great personality would say though doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:59 AM
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There are so many exceptions to the rule that is hardly a rule. OP is commenting on this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:57 AM
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A man you can trust is so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:56 AM
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that must be sad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:19 PM
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Go ahead watch all the porn you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:35 PM
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lots
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:34 PM
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Sure that wouldn’t bother me. But I’m always in the mood, or at least willing to try to get there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:22 PM
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depends how honest and funny and fun they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:08 AM
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no porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:26 AM
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sort of. But also she’s going to be thinking about getting a bit older and being stuck with an elderly guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:29 PM
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female dating strategy. some people call it red pill for women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:53 PM
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depends on the relationship. Ideally you’re both the prize
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:27 PM
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he was going to have you pay for dinner and drinks too!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:54 PM
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Most kind pretty women attract abusers and weirdos along with decent fellows. It’s important to have filters
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:54 PM
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Maybe it’s not so much about respecting her as having trouble with envisioning her with all those other guys. I have heard this before. Maybe that’s insecurity but if so insecurity is commonplace
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:22 AM
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I laughed out loud. And then I wondered if there are any college courses out there on the red pill. There must be
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:54 AM
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This is informative. I missed it, did you say above whether you are single or in a relationship u/DeliciousPussyNectar ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:52 AM
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The stripper hit you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:48 AM
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Could you give us an example of a stripper lecture? Like what did you say and what did she say?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:47 AM
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Of course trans women belong in the women’s bathroom. That seems more or less obvious depending on how feminine they are dressing. Anyone who is saying trans women are real women knows this. The Black lives matter concept is much more than some political org. It’s a simple statement that lots of white people across the world grasp and are comfortable seeing and saying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:24 PM
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Who ended up as TERFs? same with BLM? what does that mean? Same as what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:02 PM
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I don’t get the connection to Black lives matter here. Women who say trans women are real women aren’t TERFs, not sure what you’re saying there either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:38 PM
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This is a system that many species use. The most successful males have mates and the less successful males don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:03 AM
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I mean, Beyoncé’s own song popularized the term. Its racial aspect is the main thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:44 PM
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The definition of Becky as I understand it is a basic young white woman with manageable hair. Has nothing to do with porn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:42 PM
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How is Beyoncé a Becky?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:53 AM
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these are really fair and reasonable reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:29 AM
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To me getting an STD would be a pretty big deal! What a hassle, especially the ones that never go away
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:53 AM
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It’s up to those women, not my business to tell anyone what they should do with their sex life. For me, I might not be in the mood at any given time but it’s nice to put a little thought into getting in the mood. Sex is fun and good for both of us, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:25 PM
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ewwwww!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:58 AM
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It sounds like you don’t intend to use protection against STDs. What’s your plan for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:27 PM
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I have not heard that idea that men will not cheat on a certain type of woman. As far as I understand it the cheating is located in the man himself and the blame falls on him. That’s how the people around me see it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:41 AM
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oh yeah that makes sense. Sad though!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:48 AM
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It says here “a whopping 80 percent” but I’m surprised that 20 percent of men didn’t cum at all. That seems like a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:41 AM
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Nothing holding me back, I’m really satisfied with my relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:24 PM
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She isn’t young but she can still be hot, have more sex skills than young women, and don’t underestimate the power of cooking skills. 21 year old men might not be interested but lots of men 25+ don’t want a child for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:09 PM
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15 percent body fat on a woman doesn’t have much in the curves department. r/slightcellulite is a popular sub. My point is that flaws are common, not that it’s impossible to have a body with no cellulite. A woman’s body might have no cellulite but then she might be too scrawny for lots of peoples’ taste. Humans with asymmetrical faces and weird scars can be hot. Thicc curvy women with slight cellulite can be hot. “Most people have shitty bodies” is a sad way to look at it, to me. I like confiden…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:29 AM
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That’s nice for you. However, cellulite is very natural and common in fit people as well as fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:01 PM
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Sure OLD needs to be a part of the discussion. My point is that everyone hasn’t outsourced romance to the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:05 AM
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that’s not how it works though. skinny women have cellulite
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:19 AM
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no cellulite is an unrealistic standard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:09 AM
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It’s popular for sure. I would agree that most young single women in America have tried online dating. But loads of women are not on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:08 AM
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it’s all over the place! definitely not just porn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:18 AM
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no I really mean all the media, not just porn. Sure porn in part of it but unrealistic body expectations are in commercials for everything, the weather report, all over. The world is full of fat people but you wouldn’t know it by looking at tv and movies and magazines and barbie dolls and comic books etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:18 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:12 AM
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I mean, shitty compared to unrealistic standards in the media. Most bodies have flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:11 AM
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That’s the thing though, everyone hasn’t outsourced dating. Most women are not on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:20 PM
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from my husband but not from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:58 PM
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Then men in this sun who have relationships seem to be much more in touch with the reality of women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:17 PM
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this made me laugh out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:14 PM
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why not say most women are like that, if we all know and agree that not all women are like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:03 PM
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lotta bums like this. I’ve seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:57 AM
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lots of us don’t take selfies at all or even bother with social media
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:53 AM
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It’s not 99% unless maybe if you’re looking at online dating. Lots of us don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:52 AM
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it’s not getting treated better. it’s getting targeted for approach more often
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:49 AM
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watching porn of fat women is not the same as marrying fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:38 AM
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the change has been dramatic, but I still think 90 percent is a big exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:25 AM
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women over 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:36 AM
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90 percent still seems high. Married women? Women over 60?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:12 AM
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This response makes sense. The power to leave his home and wife and family is just one aspect of a relationship. Equality can be real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:00 AM
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What do you think a red pill woman wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:54 AM
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it’s true. Redpill men don’t have much to recommend them, relationship-wise. For example “apply dread”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:53 AM
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Women? Women around the world of all ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:51 AM
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oh good! I’m glad you understand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:24 AM
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Can we define “a red pill man”? What are the criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:09 AM
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maybe that was too long. I’m talking about the word not the behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:45 AM
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Maybe I’m not being clear to you but When I do back and read my posts they seem logical, no straw. You are bringing all sorts of diversions into the conversation as I see it. My only point is that “pickup artist” is a term that women do not find attractive. This is in response to the original post. Women may be attracted to a man who thinks of himself as a pickup artist. If he says it out loud they won’t sleep with him. If a woman tells her friend “ that guy is a pickup artist” it’s not a compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:43 AM
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I didn’t invent this. Can you find some women who want to be screwed by a person who identifies themself as a pickup artist? Even one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:02 AM
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You can ignore the fact that the term suggests being thought of as an object and fooled. You can’t change the fact for the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:51 PM
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There’s no equivalent term for women. I am specifically talking about the term “pickup artist” not casual sex in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:48 PM
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It’s the pick up artist idea that women are not into. Even if she’s into the idea of casual sex, women don’t want to be thought of as one in a long string of pick ups by an artist. The term is embarrassing. It suggests being thought of as an object and fooled. The behavior might seem fine at first but a guy who thinks of himself as a pickup artist would not tell the women he wants to pick up because if he’s any good he’d know it’s a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:15 PM
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Sure some women enjoy casual sex. No woman wants to be a pick up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:15 AM
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they have all sorts of weirdos on talk shows, was someone looking up to these his and saying how great they are on tv?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:40 PM
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Yeah it’s always been a word for predatory men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:38 PM
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“pick up artist” has never been a compliment. This term has always been used for men who trick women into thinking they are serious when they are just looking to pump and dump. Women hated this years ago too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:38 PM
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it’s almost as if we are all human and more similar than we are different
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:48 PM
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Worse for whom? Worse as in cringey or worse as in exploitative? Context matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:30 PM
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When you have plenty of money she doesn’t have to scrub the toilet but now she has to supervise the staff. Homemaking skills are still relevant in upper class households the roles just shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:47 PM
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under RMV I would +kitchen/homemaking skills
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:21 AM
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I’m not joking when I say that the patriarchy harms men just as much as it does women. boys can be assaulted by authority figures and it’s dismissed as no big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:08 AM
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I love doing things with men, with no talking just doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:34 AM
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the repression of emotions for men and boys has been harmful. Also the negation of sexual assault on men and boys, as if it doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:10 PM
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this is the answer. men who get lazy get boring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:16 PM
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comfort and familiarity is hot, as long as the man is mature and caring. Jerks who act like man-children get boring. The more hot sex we have the more we associate the guy with hot sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:16 PM
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I agree context is everything. If the n count is very high it’s hard for me to find a context where it’s attractive in a partner for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:08 PM
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I like short men and prefer low n count. I don’t need a guy with a long trail of one night stands and crappy relationships dragging along behind him. Unless it’s a personal kink who likes imagining their partner getting all up in someone else’s orifices and bodily fluids? Not appealing!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:07 PM
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I disagree that men don’t care about marriage. You say it’s about a financial commitment but I think it’s about a domestic commitment. Hearth and home. Food and bed. Until men quit wanting children and start wanting to do 100 percent of the household management cooking and cleaning marriage is still going to be desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:41 PM
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This is a very common occurrence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:26 PM
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What about faces? the term “butterface” wouldn’t have arisen if healthy weight and decent figure were the only criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:15 PM
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I’ve never had trouble finding quality men to choose from. I’m pretty fit and only medium attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:23 AM
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I agree, he looks like he’s not doing well most of the time. Like he needs to get some sleep, lay off the substance abuse and eat some vegetables
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:56 AM
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He’s funny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:53 AM
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He looks so strung out sometimes, like not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:51 AM
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funny is a big plus
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:50 AM
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It’s entire human beings we fall for, the whole character not just the face and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:49 AM
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crying is an emotional outlet that releases stress. it’s healthy to cry when you feel the need. it’s attractive to be in tune with your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:21 AM
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those women are toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:09 AM
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When he’s really upset and feels an urge to cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:09 AM
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agreed. The last thing I want is someone who won’t/can’t show their true emotions. Especially as a father for my children
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:07 AM
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It’s not fine that you’re not supposed to show emotions. A man who cries at a sad movie is more attractive to me than one who won’t let himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:55 AM
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what about the trades though? Men still dominate there, they’re well paying jobs with a lot of security. College graduation does not guarantee that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:20 AM
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they may not be the same but they’re both unattractive to me. I don’t care what a guy’s face looks like if he acts like he’s got no drive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:16 AM
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Some places are. The older generation is larger than the new cohort of babies being born. The old people need more support and resources than the young people have to give
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:05 AM
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The research into happiness is interesting but it is only medium useful. Nobody asked me how happy I am and if they did I probably wouldn’t feel like telling them. You can only measure the happiness of willing participants
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:44 PM
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I’m talking about real human women though, statistics measuring demographic happiness are interesting but not comprehensive. If a man is a partner it is different than if he expects her to do everything. I promise you these are calculations women make I’m not saying that women want to be alone, I’m saying that the reasons women across the world choose to be in long term relationships are complex calculations. Attractiveness is one minor consideration. Lifestyle is weighted more heavily in the lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:41 PM
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Women grow hair though. The way that women’s body hair grows is feminine. It feels better not to shave in winter. You can still be feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/22 12:31 PM
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This is a good point. In America women can make their own money and live with friends. Unless living with a man feels like a fun partnership women feel better off without them. Being with men in America who expect the woman to do all the cooking and cleaning and household management is like having another job. If that job is added on to a full time job it’s exhausting. With long term relationships physical attractiveness becomes less important and lifestyle is more important. For these foreign w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:21 PM
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I like beards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:05 PM
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I do see a lot of men who dislike and distrust women here but it doesn’t seem like it does both ways to me. I think women who can stand it here probably like men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:11 PM
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Time frame matters. Five over a few years is low. Five over a few months is high
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:35 PM
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the question is for women about all other women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:04 PM
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congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:05 PM
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It is creepy to pay a lot of attention (and quite possibly money) on these women and then diagnose them with mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:47 PM
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Nah, families are still relevant. What are the positives of non-commital polyamory? Are there any long term positives?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:20 PM
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Are you asking them what their topics of interest are? Are you dominating the conversation? Women value intelligence, especially when it’s coupled with social awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:47 AM
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This is a huge reason why looks are not so important. When we are talking about hooking up for a one night stand with randos maybe looks are the main thing that’s important. When we are looking for someone to be with, an attractive personality is so much more relevant. Is he kind/fun/smart/honest/ good with kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:52 AM
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This sounds like a manipulative guy. Not worth it to me
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 10:43 PM
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ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:09 AM
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Why would you want to tell him about this? It seems like the last thing a man wants to hear about, how you felt about other men and what your chemistry was like. These are stories for your supportive friends. What is the benefit of opening up about your past? I mean saying “I’ve never felt this way about a man before” is fine but beyond that, why?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 12:31 AM
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This must vary widely. Snobby people still exist for sure but along with smashing the patriarchy and dismantling white supremacy, the whole wide left is becoming aware of classism. Socioeconomic class is still a thing but it has become tacky to judge people upon it. Plus, PhDs are a dime a dozen in the shrinking world of tenured professorship while plumbers and electricians are getting enticing pay offers. The tide is turning
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:26 PM
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This is demonstrably false. Blue collar workers have a reliable income and mastery. That’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:43 AM
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Deep voices are sexy. This is a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:21 AM
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certainly plenty of women do try a few times and then ditch the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:58 PM
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There are so many aspects of a relationship that are important. Sex is just one thing. Some people do it right away with someone they don’t know but plenty of us get to know and like someone quite a bit before getting intimate. I’d the sex is bad but the guy is great we might not feel like dropping him, we might want to give him a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:57 PM
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some men feel every suggestion as a criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:35 AM
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I don’t think men care much about the wall in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:26 PM
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so many men don’t want kids or they already had them with someone else and don’t want more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:44 AM
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The wall is fictional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:40 AM
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Giving boys explicit training in emotional intelligence might help. All kids of course but especially boys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:28 PM
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A lot of non red pill people have no interest engaging in the conversation with red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:15 PM
1

What are you looking for with this man? You call him your partner. How serious are you?
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 01:32 AM
0

certain women. Plenty of men are less shallow plenty of women are worse. I’m saying thank you for being so honest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:04 PM
1

you said “if men had the option” and I’m saying “if some men had the option” Think about the long long time our DNA has been evolving. Skinny has been in fashion for a few decades of unusual human behavior. over millennia curves have been more optimal than scrawny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:53 PM
2

This is the real value of this group. I believe you are being honest, thank you for revealing this ugly truth about you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:49 PM
1

Some men would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:07 PM
0

So many men are turned on by fat women but don’t want anyone to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:03 PM
1

Couldn’t there be a possibility that they would like to be with the fat girl but they don’t want to be ridiculed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:55 PM
-3

Women I know who are overweight report that men are interested in dating them and having sex and hanging out at home and indoors but will balk at going out and being seen by friends with a fat girl. Men are clearly attracted to heavy women but they’re embarrassed about it. As the slim dating pool shrinks, who will be the brave men who will face the world with fat women who are otherwise quality partners? Once some guys start, the others will come out of hiding
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:25 AM
1

As long as it comes out feeling even for both people it really doesn’t matter who does what.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:25 PM
2

How many of the men on dating apps are looking for a serious relationship though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:52 PM
1

If the relationship feels balanced, putting delicious food on the table and keeping a tidy home feels good. If the wife and hubs are both working long hours and he doesn’t help around the house, that sounds miserable. I’d rather be single in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:55 PM
1

being a homemaker is appealing to some of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:12 AM
1

There are a lot of factors that go into attractiveness. Smart is one, good looking is another, pleasant to be with is another. A smart person who’s abrasive can’t be saved by a handsome face
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:28 AM
0

No I’m not redefining intelligence I am defining “smart” How are you imagining could you fill out an IQ test without maturity skills and perceptiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:26 AM
1

IQ is not what i’m talking about when I say “smart” in terms of attractiveness. I’m not talking about educational level either. I’ll agree that it’s not very measurable by statistics . It’s an attractive trait made up of a blend of maturity plus skills plus perceptiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:33 PM
1

Who is doing all this IQ research now? I thought it was mostly passé in modern science because of there racial/class bias. How many of you are putting yourself in the IQ database? Who is testing for IQ and who is being tested? not me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:03 PM
1

Also what percentage of them is racist? That’s a big turnoff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:40 AM
3

I wonder if this ties into the epidemic of younger men with erectile dysfunction from excessive porn and the death grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:37 AM
2

Really? Women like smart men, in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:34 AM
8

right? a what happens on these trips and how often is she taking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:26 AM
2

depression is a turn-off but that’s because of the side effects like lack of companionship and a stack of dirty dishes. a man who cries at a sad movie or a funeral is still attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:20 AM
2

This is a great example of why this sub has too much focus on visual attractiveness as the important thing about relationships. Once you’ve been married to someone for a decade the way they look is not nearly as important as other factors: How well do they take care of themself? Do they take on their share of household duties? How funny are they? How much fun are they to be with? How thoughtful and considerate? How selfish? Do they have talents and hobbies that they work on and improve? Do they …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:54 AM
3

why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:38 PM
5

This probably depends what country you’re in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:33 PM
10

I don’t understand what you mean by two female ancestors for every one male
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:32 PM
1

The guy becomes attractive as I get to know him. An interesting kind person with skills and a fun attitude is hotter disregarding what he looks like or how tall he is or how much hair he has. If he can make me laugh and clean up after himself, melt. If he’s fit that’s good but sharing food is a kind of intimacy so a bit of a belly is better than a strict obsession with carbs and grams of protein. Terrible fashion or racism or hygiene problems are ugly turnoffs that have nothing to do with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:15 AM
3

Would it help you to get out of the house for some exercise? This can help you get recharged with alone time and release stress and he can get a chance to be the one to do the child care. It’s important not to hover or criticize when he does baby duties
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 06:12 PM
1

Have you been going to church? Do they have any service projects or study groups? Even if you just meet friends and not a partner at first the more people you get to know the better the chances of meeting more people.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/21 01:12 AM
3

it seems like you’re not really into it though. If what you want is casual sex you’re all set but you want more than that. And the more you ride the carousel the less chance of a solid relationship afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:47 AM
4

How are you trying to meet people? What are your interests? Do you belong to a religion?
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 11:05 AM
1

but the red pill specifically recommends being deceptive. If a man claims to be red pill it would not be wise for a woman to ever trust him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:20 PM
1

How would I know though? If he’s a redpill guy who applies dread he’s not going to tell me. The whole philosophy revolves around not trusting women so how could I trust him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:46 PM
1

Is that level of openness Red Pill? What about “applying dread”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:41 AM
1

I don’t have a personal problem, I’m fine. I get that you’re trying to argue against a cultural norm but let’s remember it’s not about me. It makes the man look immature and creepy. Maybe 36 and 26 isn’t too creepy depending on the people. But no matter what, the older the older men are and the younger the women the worse it seems. If “firm“ is his top relationship virtue that shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:38 AM
1

So she’s 20 then? And he’s 36?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:04 AM
7

From what I see, women who take care of themselves physically and emotionally, who have a pleasant personality, and who can cook, will be valuable in the dating market indefinitely. Mature men who are looking for a companion are usually not looking for a hot college student with no life skills or experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:33 AM
2

guys who are 35+ hitting on women in their early twenties look creepy. This isn’t for the sake of shaming, it’s a perspective that many of us have. There are pleasant pretty women who are 30+ and still “firm“
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:26 AM
2

Socializing these days is so tricky. Anyone who has an extra vibrant social life has to be careful not to be a super spreader, so probably most of us are pinched in this area, I relate to this myself. We have to try to make face to face friendship time happen. Religion/faith has the double benefit of the connection with God which can be the current that flows us along and also the connection with other humans seeking the divine alongside us. Fellowship
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 02:54 PM
3

That might help! At least he’s noticing you and wants you to be happy. Not every husband is like that. Do you have a religion or a faith? Do you get to spend time with friends regularly?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 01:57 PM
0

Work and four kids is a lot. Could you go to working part time?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 01:41 PM
2

personality matters. a fun guy to be with is better than a cringey handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:45 PM
3

Right. am I a plate he’s spinning, I would always be wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:01 PM
3

It seems to me that any man claiming to be Red Pill wouldn’t really want to be in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:00 PM
3

Anxiety is unattractive, confidence is attractive. He married you, he compliments your body even the breasts. Your job is to become comfortable with your body. Your mother is the problem not your boobs.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/21 01:45 AM
0

an average of once per day
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 07:18 PM
3

I get what you’re saying here. You’re not opposed to money, just extravagance for no good reason.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 01:32 AM
20

If it’s an addiction maybe it’s best not to support and encourage it
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 11:35 PM
8

These pills are not good for him!
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 11:33 PM
1

Choosing your personal style to attract women is off-putting. A sincere expression of personal taste is more attractive than posing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:08 PM
2

I wonder how the social demographics will change as the next generation comes up. The people who are choosing to have large families now seem to be more likely to be religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:28 PM
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Tradesmen are attractive. Skills are hot, hard working is hot. The politics do matter. If they are racist and misogynist, nah, big turnoff. But plenty of tradesmen are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:31 AM
2

Did none of these women get second dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:13 AM
8

This helps! If you are a member of a faith community, find a place where you can be of service. If you don’t have a community yet try out a few nearby and join in there. You can ask God for help. Pray for these gifts, patience humility etc. Every day make time. It doesn’t have to take a long time. Pray for people you encounter who need it too. In noticing and caring for the suffering of others compassion naturally arises. People love to be seen and listened to. When you meet people you want to b…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 12:08 AM
5

Are you religious at all?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 05:38 PM
1

Men who are concerned with how clean their sneakers are. Huge turnoff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:44 AM
6

The question asks “what do we get wrong about women?”. I’m answering that question. We don’t choose as a group. We are wildly divergent from each other. That is the biggest thing that red pill gets wrong about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:50 PM
4

We don’t pick men as a group
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:46 AM
1

It overinflates the importance of looks. It focuses on the short term conquest and dismisses the likelihood of happy long term monogamous relationships. It ignores subtleties
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:45 AM
1

Male pattern baldness is not unhealthy. Sometimes baldness has other causes. Sometimes it’s chemotherapy! As a look, no hair is just one of many hot styles. If the person seems strong and healthy, baldness looks healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:48 AM
1

What is different now? How has the ethnicity changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:45 AM
1

What about all the people who are uninterested in swipe dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:30 AM
0

right?! It depends entirely on what he’s like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:28 AM
1

These are all mine and also racism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:18 AM
7

nah still gross and unsatisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:30 PM
1

one reason is feeling unappreciated. It drains away energy for the relationship. A partner who looks at his woman with scorn/disgust causes a wound. Taking advantage of our cooking and cleaning while being distant and lazy causes a wound. Starting at their phone all day. Looking at porn and masturbating instead of having mutually satisfying sex. It’s not alchemy but relationships take maintenance. It’s a lot more about quality of life than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:04 PM
3

alcohol is a factor for many I think. Even people who don’t want to cheat do when they’re drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:00 PM
1

I agree. not a scientific study. I didn’t respond
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:43 AM
1

I don’t hook up with random people who don’t care about me. Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:16 AM
1

If he wouldn’t want to protect me then that’s a complete turnoff. I can protect myself pretty well though, woe to the person who thinks they’re going to hurt me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:02 AM
4

You might be surprised. There are plenty of women with standards this high
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:59 PM
4

it might not be that rare
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:59 PM
1

what makes you think they’re mainly unmarried?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 07:48 PM
1

what makes you think the women here are not married?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:16 AM
1

I know plenty of average women of decent quality who are not getting as many dates as they want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:38 PM
1

saying yes is not the same as not screaming and kicking and scratching. we aren’t talking about a woman who said “yes”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:31 AM
4

Sounds like harassment. No means no, it doesn’t mean try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:30 PM
2

I don’t get how you see this as equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:03 PM
2

no means no. a meek no is a no. a scared no is a no. a lack of yes is a no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:30 PM
4

no means no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:29 PM
1

the circumstances matter
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:28 PM
1

Do you have answers to any of these questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:25 PM
1

What ages are the women you’re hearing from so honestly? Do you think women around the world are all the same? Are you excluding any categories of women from your reckoning of “most” like for example any religions? Do women who tried it once and shuddered and never did it again count as women who “have casual sex”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:01 PM
2

but then how do you know, if they don’t disclose it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:33 PM
2

how do you know what most women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:18 PM
7

This rings true to me and really throws a monkey wrench into the idea that only the most attractive guys are having sex. Some medium to low attractiveness people are having tons of sex with multiple partners. It doesn’t fit into red pill world view but it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:58 AM
5

this seems true and also sketchy. Like a good way to catch something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:50 AM
7

nearly all women of all ages? Do you mean single women only or married and partnered women as well? Most women have sex but the idea that most women have casual sex seems unfounded to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:42 AM
1

I guess it’s a matter of opinion. Are you a man? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:53 AM
8

Do men become ugly at 35
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:58 AM
2

The works of humans is full of variety. I am saying it’s a symbol of commitment. It’s certainly not a chastity belt!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:06 PM
1

I see what you mean, but at least you can do it yourself at home pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:57 PM
1

being fit helps with the jawline. Remove that extra chin and most heads look pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:56 PM
2

It might not be a lie even, common law marriage rules are shockingly lax in many places
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:34 PM
4

I prefer not to put personally identifying info on here. I will say that personality integrity and mastery are way more relevant to my perception of attractiveness than anything visual. I will also say baldness is not a major flaw for me. In fact, plenty of men’s hairstyles are ugly to me and are flaws but baldness is always a safe bet. Like, with all the hair gone. Bald on top with long side and back hair is not a good look to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:32 PM
2

the jawline helps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:23 PM
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maybe things will change but lots of adults of all ages are out there having sex. The online dating world is super looks-focused but plenty of people skip online dating. Not everyone is young and not every young person is shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:22 PM
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Bald is just a low maintenance hairstyle. Bald with a beard on a fit man is totally hot. Better than plenty of tiresome guys who get fussy about their hairstyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:18 PM
1

Balding doesn’t look unhealthy, it’s just a hair pattern. Not equivalent to obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:13 PM
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I see your point, married people cheat. I am not saying the ring keeps people from cheating, just that it is a symbol of being taken. When a person is looking to cheat they often take the ring off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:16 AM
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People who don’t even know you respect a marriage more than a long term unmarried relationship. “My husband is very ill” vs “My boyfriend is very ill” It’s a demonstration of commitment that means something. A ring on a partner’s finger that tells the world they’re not on the market is a tangible symbol they’re not looking to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:10 AM
4

This is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:07 AM
0

I bet it’s some of each
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:34 PM
4

Lots of women subscribe to the “you can have it all” idea. Marriage, career, family, fulfilling hobbies. Is this possible? Having a lot of money helps but still
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:33 AM
2

that’s the thing though, how many women do you really need to find to bear your children? even if worthy women are rare, you only need to find and lead one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 11:31 PM
1

I wonder how many people who think the reason they can’t get dates is that they ugly when it’s really their politics and opinions that are a turn-off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:40 PM
1

good point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:38 PM
8

Of course they find each other attractive. Do you really think it’s makeup that causes beauty?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:56 AM
1

I’m not convinced that women look better with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:54 AM
3

lonely and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:36 AM
5

I find it interesting that you say women won’t want this because women need validation and validation from a robot won’t do much for them. But that men won’t care. Are you imagining this being a socially acceptable option that men will not be embarrassed of?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:35 AM
1

I get that there’s such a thing as relative attractiveness. But Red Pill discussions often assume that someone who is an eight is an eight no matter who they’re standing next to and what I’m saying is that it is not that clearly measurable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:57 PM
1

This is a debate sub and this post is about the argument of whether there is a universally applicable standard of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:36 AM
1

Does anyone have Aspergers anymore? I thought they canceled that anyway, this wins as the least convincing argument so far
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:52 AM
2

well thank goodness there’s life after college
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:50 AM
0

what’s funny here? I don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:54 PM
3

There is a vast array of college girls and how can you know what goes on being closed doors? That was my experience of college, lots of variation lots of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:53 PM
1

If there’s any beauty at all in the eye of the beholder then beauty can’t be quantified
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:50 PM
2

This makes sense. And it also brings up the idea that the youngest adult women are always going to be the most attractive. As men age many of them prefer their partner to be at a maturity level close to their own. Fitness matters, sure. but attractiveness has many facets besides youth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:49 PM
0

matter choice in animals and humans involves more than just looks though. Resources matter a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:46 PM
1

You think personality doesn’t matter at all? I’m not just talking about hookups I’m talking about relationships and marriage as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:45 PM
1

So you think everyone falls on an attractiveness scale but some people aren’t good at sensing it accurately?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:43 PM
1

I’m talking about real people in person though not photographs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:42 PM
1

We have a broad range of behavior though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:41 PM
-1

I’m talking about people in person in real life though not photographs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:25 AM
2

If I were to play my own devil’s advocate I would say well that’s why the scale only goes up to ten
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:24 AM
1

by what? Is there any beauty in the eye of the beholder or is it all in the beheld?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:23 AM
2

Yeah I guess that’s what I mean by good fit. Two people who have a preferred type that matches the other. Mostly true with the obesity thing but then there’s the whole feeder fetish. There aren’t enough of those to cover the number of obese singles on the market I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:21 AM
-1

I wonder how things will change as casting rooms begin to include more people who are not straight old white men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:04 AM
3

Can we ignore race?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:02 AM
1

I didn’t say every man. I said he might
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:02 AM
2

Hm. They do paint a picture of what people who use dating apps find attractive in a photo. But I’m talking about actual humans in person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:01 AM
1

Women need outside approval for their desires? This is confusing, what do you mean? We don’t have our own sense of attraction? How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:59 PM
1

Does this fact undermine the foundation of a pillar of the Red Pill philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:54 PM
1

Is beauty limited?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:52 PM
1

diminishing returns on beauty? Can you tell me what you mean? As I understand diminishing marginal returns, it’s like the first burger is really good, the second burger you want less and the value of the fourth burger to you is almost nothing, your appetite has been sated. But how is beauty like that? too beautiful and they become less attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:51 PM
3

right! I’m not looking for a number I’m looking for a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:47 PM
5

Women determine collectively what is attractive? Tell me more about that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:58 PM
4

Hmmm. Maybe that is more valid when it comes to one night stands. In the actual relationship market I think there is a broad range of looks that women go for and personality and lifestyle matter a lot more than red pill admits. "Every other man" might be grating, dishonest, cheap, rude, racist, etc. and he's blaming his relationship troubles on his looks and Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:53 PM
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I think there could be a general average when it comes to thousands of people, but can we really say that everyone can look at a woman and say with certainty "she's an eight" and know that everyone will agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:47 PM
1

I think it’s weird how attractiveness is seen as the main characteristic of a mate. Sure hookups can be like that but for marriage? Companionship, common interests and goals, family, food preferences, who cooks the food, children, career, money, travel, there are so many things. Attractiveness is one factor out of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:00 PM
2

some of us are an acquired taste
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:58 PM
8

This is ableist and ignorant. Aspies can be fun and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:58 AM
1

be civil, do not troll etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:01 AM
1

in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:22 PM
1

hm. The rules say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:06 PM
1

This sub is for civil discussion about red pill blue pill ideas. There’s a broad spectrum here red pink purple light blue etc. It’s not meant to be a flame war
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:52 PM
3

This is different in different cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:40 PM
16

The flinch and the like your father part. Listen to your gut I don’t think what you did was great but I also don’t want you to live the rest of your life with that hanging over you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 11:04 AM
2

Did you forget this isn’t a red pill sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:59 AM
2

I have a good idea of women. I’m talking about being partnered with someone over time here, not one night stands or FWB. Personality etc matters a lot more in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:28 AM
5

If he’s short he probably knows that. Same thing with ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:25 AM
9

Most people are not flat out ugly. And if some guy has some odd features, a fit physique, a positive cash flow and an easy-to-be with personality more than make up for that. Looks ain’t everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:06 AM
1

I haven’t seen any feminists saying that young adult women aren’t capable of making their own choices. Who is that coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:02 PM
2

It seems like he did have her consent to me. Where do you see that he raped her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:19 AM
3

he was rude to start swiping but also honest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:27 AM
0

What are you looking for here? Advice? Are you just venting?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/21 03:09 AM
5

Your ancestry has little to do with your value. Your attitude, your self care, your work ethic, kindness, femininity, discretion, cooking skills, levelheadedness, lack of drama, companionship, all these are more important
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/21 01:22 AM
2

Ask him questions about himself and listen to the answers.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 09:28 AM
–

yeah, I support you leaving it sounds like the right thing
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 05:36 PM
–

He has literally never spent any money on you ever? How old is he and how old are you? Crying is not going to help your relationship with him. He clearly does not care how you feel. This guy sounds rude and insensitive and hung up on his ex. Is there something fulfilling about this relationship that you’re not mentioning?
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 05:09 PM
1

Trans women have a hard road. It’s a dangerous life that I don’t think anyone goes into lightly. I am not afraid of them, in fact I would like them to be safe and protected.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 03:18 AM
1

yeah, some men want a partner
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 10:55 PM
15

I had a friend like this. He was charming and fun and he died young because of one of his lack of impulse control moments. I still miss him. but, as to your question about how to handle him- I don’t think you can. You can find ways to cope but he’s not going to change. Being with him will be like he is your child, forever.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 02:25 AM
1

What does “go for” mean? Try to hook up with or propose marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 12:57 AM
3

He doesn’t need to share your interests or be as pious as you. Find people at church to talk theology with, it’s good to have an active and interesting life outside of your relationship. That helps you not be clingy and dependent. It’s not quite clear to me what you mean about morality though. Do you mean that he’s ok with lying and cheating? Do you have any examples of what you mean? If he just doesn’t care about going to church that’s one thing but if he can’t be trusted that’s another thing e…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 11:59 PM
8

There are plenty of men who know how to be good roommates and clean up after themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 01:15 AM
4

Being on the lookout for the right guy is key. Work on yourself and stay looking, and the exact age isn’t that important
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 12:01 PM
11

Red pill channels are so harsh on women. You don’t ever have to be washed up. As time goes by more women your age will get married, gain weight, stop keeping up their appearance and become bitter and/or masculine in their personality. If you always work on yourself being pretty, feminine and pleasant to be with, you will never be washed up. Plenty of men want a women close to their age as they get older. To a 30 year old a 20 year old is hot but to a 50 year old she might be embarrassing or juve…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 11:59 AM
4

There are plenty of men out there for a decent feminine woman. Don’t let a feeling of scarcity bother you, just work on yourself and raising your own value
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 12:35 AM
7

one wonders how much data he has on the sex drives of liberal women...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:02 PM
4

Perhaps your broad statements like the one here about apolitical women are part of the reason women are not interested in you. That’s both rude and inaccurate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:00 PM
8

Discernment in the choice of romantic partners is ideal. The fact that we have to make choices is a Red Pill idea. This isn’t discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:00 PM
2

nah it’s just a variation not weakness. Bald men have more testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:58 PM
3

purple pull that supports? Was there a word missing there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:58 PM
14

yes, would much rather be alone than date a Trump supporter. don’t have to be alone though there are plenty of decent men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:02 AM
11

liberal women aren’t dating Biden either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:01 AM
25

Voting for him is an action
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:00 AM
2

baldness is not unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:21 AM
3

I love a chunky guy. Not drooping rolls or anything but skinny fellas do not do it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:18 AM
13

If he’s offended because you want to stay safe with a man you haven’t met before, at least you will know not to waste your time. It’s wise to get to know him first and he should know that
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 12:29 AM
-2

depends where you are located, in America evictions are about to be allowed again and so many people are going to lose their homes. Housing prices have gone up in lots of places and people are becoming homeless, maybe that’s what he’s thinking of
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 11:01 AM
2

Where are you located? What has stopped you from being in a relationship before?
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 12:59 AM
3

you know you’re not a terrible person. don’t waste any more time trying to follow someone who isn’t leading you the way you want to go
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 12:58 AM
6

There’s lots of time. There are many things you can do to improve your value and confidence. Nothing will be handed to you. Are you willing to put the effort in?
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/21 01:25 AM
3

good question
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/21 11:19 AM
4

nope that doesn’t sound awful. Men love blowjobs, it’s a nice gesture and a good start. Making yourself pretty for the working world and then taking it off when you get home sends the wrong message. It’s good to be comfortable at home of course, but it’s a good idea to put in a little effort to be feminine and pretty for him. Considering your figure is not a bad idea either. Taking care of yourself is attractive
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/21 03:18 AM
7

Hard to forgive infidelity and don’t bother trying if your hearts not in it. Figure that out first. But if your heart is in it you can come together and build a new relationship better than the old one. Baby steps. More blowjobs, if you’re not good at it get good at it. As for talking in general: If you can hold your tongue, do. Say only necessary and kind things. Freshen yourself up for him, be pretty in whatever way makes you feel feminine. For example.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 05:40 PM
35

I bet he was telling the truth about not feeling like the man. It’s not your fault if you didn’t realize you were doing it, our culture teaches women to emasculate men. If you can forgive him and want to work towards making him feel like a man you can do that. It’s not even complicated
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 03:00 AM
2

I mean maybe he wasn’t being mean, if you were dragging it out of him. But it still sounds like he was trying to protect himself from being emotionally vulnerable.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 02:56 AM
30

It sounds like he’s lying to hurt you. Boys are taught not to admit they have any feeling but anger and this one grew up to be a man who can’t deal with his feelings. He cares but he doesn’t want to be vulnerable so he’s lashing out at you instead. The best thing about this is that you don’t have to feel bad about breaking up, he did you a favor. Good to know before you waste any more time and energy on a guy like this
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 12:11 PM
3

I guess it depends who we are talking about when we say red pill men. Red pill women want strong masculine men who will be leaders in their families. Men who work hard to provide and protect. It’s a red pill archetype. but these men are probably not advertising themselves as red pill or posting on the red pill forums here. If you read the sidebar of the red pill subreddits you might see what I mean.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 12:19 AM
14

I think Red Pill men don’t think well of most women, tattoos or not. “All women are like that” etc I think some good men for a red pill woman like tattoos some don’t. Are the tattoos feminine? Where are they? Does he have tattoos? Popeye smoking a cigar on your butt is probably a nope. Flowers on your ankle that’s fine. Depending on the man of course
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 03:39 PM
5

this is important.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 03:35 PM
2

Is he using porn?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 03:22 AM
2

You say you can talk about anything together- could you talk to him about this like you did here?
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 02:32 AM
7

asking the new people questions about themselves and listening to the answers
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/21 12:10 AM
3

With him you’re walking on eggshells though
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 03:28 AM
15

Even if MIL is telling me to change formulas I can listen and nod politely ask her to tell me all about it and then go feed the baby whatever I think is best
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 06:46 PM
5

By move, I think they meant move your body not move to a new dorm
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/21 10:06 AM
6

that kind of thing is such a drag. I’m not here to rubberneck at dumpster fires
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 01:08 AM
33

This sub is explicitly not for complaining and it is for taking personal responsibility. Unhappy women are not welcome to mope around and blame others for their problems here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 12:24 PM
1

What makes you think I’m a boomer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:25 PM
1

really?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:15 AM
1

that’s what I meant by fun- easy to be with
/r/askTRP21/03/21 01:50 AM
1

maybe he’s fun
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:54 PM
2

That will be great then, so many options when you have time. Often the hands-on part of a recipe is not long but there is time in between steps that makes it easier when you’re home. For example dried beans taste so much better than canned but they take soaking and slow cooking. Homemade pizza dough is so much better than bought but out has to rise or sometimes even sit overnight in the fridge. A simple meal might be started two days ahead! but it’s really not that much work I think it’s nice to…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/21 12:32 AM
7

I would start by asking him, casually over dinner, to tell you a few of his favorite dinners. Does he like vegetarian protein options? Hearty soups are a great option for delicious frugal food. A meat or two and beans. Lentils with spinach. Homemade biscuits or bread elevates this meal. Salad with two proteins (chicken, cheese, nuts etc) Are you home to cook or will you be rushing after work to throw something together?
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/21 11:58 PM
3

I think it’s enough to be a part of this or any red pill subs. Quarantine
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/21 11:53 PM
2

I still follow it too. I actually support the moods of whatever group making whatever rules they want about who can contribute and who can’t. Moderating a group is voluntary work and if that makes it easier why not?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 08:23 PM
4

the mean way that people talk about their kids and their partner, I’m not here for that anyway go ahead and kick me out
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 06:29 PM
7

breakingmoms seemed complaint and gossipy. I’m more interested in doing the right thing myself rather than picking apart other people
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 05:20 PM
13

yes, r/blackladies
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 05:19 PM
1

Downvotes don’t hurt my feelings but I do wonder about the psychology of it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/21 11:53 PM
33

Yes on number 5. Women can retain market value into their elderly years if they stay feminine and fit and pleasant to be with bonus points for good cooks with brains. I was downvoted for suggesting this here before, and I always wondered if it was men or women who didn’t like the idea, and how old they were
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/21 08:15 PM
1

What does your intuition say?
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 03:18 AM
1

sounds like a solid guy
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 01:32 AM
1

I hear that. I think your flexible attitude and gentleness affected his ability to hear you and be your partner on this. It’s such a tricky task finding ways to get important unpleasant information to a tired man who wants to relax during his time off. It’s easy to come off like a nag. And then noticing the difference between being a warm landing place for a good man and being a doormat for an undeserving weakling who doesn’t deserve us. This takes presence of mind and intention. Most of the rel…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 01:23 PM
1

Luckily the world is full of many varieties of appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:35 AM
1

It said ugly not short
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:01 AM
6

a hard time isn’t the same as “actually we are going to take it easy at this party, bud” Your bf doesn’t have to be mean to stick to the plan you made with him. I support you going with the flow for your fella, I think that’s your point here. It just doesn’t seem like he’s paying attention to how your household is being affected by the friend. Giving support to an old friend is valiant and kind. Letting him turn into an insufferable drunk is not a help though. Good luck getting your home back to…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 09:38 PM
1

There is often substantial agreement but personal taste isn’t imaginary either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 09:26 PM
2

ugly is in the eye of the beholder
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 02:04 AM
9

Especially if he’s tired at night, this could help. And testosterone is higher in the morning.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 01:29 AM
9

try mornings
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 12:55 AM
1

Don’t apologize or complain! That’s not what you’re here for If you need to make a plan with him so that things go better in the future, that’s fine but wait until you’re not feeling upset and make it short and practical
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 12:54 AM
4

Apologizing all the time is unattractive, you can stop feeling like you should do that. Weight is more about diet than exercise so start with the food you eat. The lighter you are the easier it is to feel energetic. The sister sounds like a burden but she’s his so don’t complain about her. Try to build the relationship. The dog thing sounds like a real drag. The tattoos seem irrelevant, he knew you had them when he married you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 12:10 PM
2

Sounds like you need to just do a good job with the house and being a warm soft place. Be frugal and sweet and don’t bother him with worries
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 07:47 PM
1

This relationship has so much baggage. Why not just get out there and meet other people?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 01:21 AM
2

Is he seeing other people? How honest is he? Can he manage his emotions, especially frustration and anger? How is his relationship with his family, especially parents and siblings? Is he respectful to service workers? Do you have compatible opinions about porn? How is he with money (to me it’s not so much about how much does he make but more what is the ratio of how much he makes to how much he spends)
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 01:18 AM
2

It sounds like you’re still with him out of inertia rather than because the relationship is doing you any good. He doesn’t seem to be a good leader anymore. I would tell him if he doesn’t have what it takes to turn things around I won’t waste much more time waiting
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 01:09 AM
1

What do you do with your free time?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 01:01 AM
1

What if you are missing the chance to meet a man with the desire and financial ability to move you out?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 01:00 AM
3

I agree that this forum isn’t about attracting a guy who posts in the Red Pill reddit forums. Most of them don’t seem like good husband material at all! It just seems relevant in a meta thread like this. Maybe it would make more sense to just say plenty of men, and plenty of women too, don’t want children at all.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 12:57 AM
13

Plenty of men in the red pill forums don’t want kids at all
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 07:17 PM
2

and there are a lot of weak sauce blue pill men out there. No sense in settling
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 07:14 PM
2

Spend your energy becoming more intelligent and worthy. Take care of yourself don’t waste your time on comparing. When someone is wonderful observe her, but just to learn about being wonderful so you can be too. You say something about accusations- what are you accusing him of?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 01:43 AM
5

if you aren’t more pleasant to be with they won’t take you for granted, they won’t take you for anything they’ll take off. Your want them to love you but you don’t trust them, never mind love them
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 04:23 AM
2

He should be happy to provide meals for you. He sounds childish and selfish.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 04:20 AM
0

It’s a myth. You can be a high value babe when you’re elderly. Don’t wait in life, but don’t count on being desperate and lonely either. Be the best most fit and feminine version of yourself and you can sustain your peak indefinitely. Not everyone will put the effort in to do this so you will rise in relative value over time
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 04:17 PM
7

Sounds gross. Don’t do that again. Better to fap
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:13 PM
9

Don’t play hard to get, actually be hard to get. Have high standards, don’t play games. Men respect discerning women
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 01:35 AM
1

Dramaticism is alive! A little sweetness is ok
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/21 01:25 AM
1

You only need to wear what is comfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 01:02 AM
2

Yes, always put in an effort. This guy was a dud
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 12:58 AM
3

He doesn’t trust the courts and the government? What does that mean? How will getting married allow them to harm him? This is vague and weak
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 12:57 AM
4

talk less, blowjobs
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 12:53 AM
10

This is not very romantic
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 12:52 AM
1

Who is painting the narrative that men older than 30 are attractive to women in their teens and early 20s? Does it matter who women in their 30s are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:10 PM
7

in my experience this is something not all men do, and also it’s something they can choose to ignore if it arises in their mind. I “put a block up” like you said, I don’t want any other men and I don’t want to want anyone but the good one I have. If you have a good variety and frequency of sex he can choose to ignore any thoughts that that come. Don’t ignore his libido of course! Many men won’t choose to, they’ll flirt and cheat. But it is a choice, especially for a solid man with self control
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 06:34 PM
7

He does not sound like a good leader. He is expecting too much of you and so are you. It does sound like you are occasionally forgetful so sure you can develop better coping strategies but look how much you have on your plate! Doing little things for you when you are doing all the big things is not a good reason for criticizing you. If he makes money and you stay home it’s fair to expect you to keep house. If you both work full time and you’re going to school and he notices you forgot something …
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 04:38 PM
1

It’s not just you
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:13 AM
8

Why is it important to hold on to the idea that they’re different?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:03 AM
2

I do think it’s as high. Less satisfied by PIV but comparable level of drive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:02 AM
2

You don’t have to be a feminist to know abusive men are not a good choice. Is there more to this story?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 10:55 AM
1

It’s no good playing games like that. Why are you trying to take power? If you like him why not be honest? The idea here is to be feminine and pleasant. Maybe you’re in the wrong sub.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 01:06 AM
3

Blowjobs
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/20 11:50 PM
1

Tattoos are fine. If he’s spending all his time and money thinking about new ones that’s a red flag but just having them is no big deal
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 10:44 AM
6

This seems like an older man’s perspective. We shall see how it holds as time goes on. A man who worries about a woman’s past seems insecure and weak for asking.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 06:42 AM
1

Your past is none of anyone’s business. A guy who asks and worries about it is just insecure. You’re not even close to old and you bring a lot to the table. Be the woman today that he wants to be with and you’ll find him. Look forward not back
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 12:08 AM
2

They tear guys apart who fail or complain. Or who don’t follow the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:20 AM
2

Housework freaking counts. Good for you and for him
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 01:01 AM
8

For example “I’m feeling upset, could you give me a good hug?” Or if it must be about talking “all I want from you is that you act like you care how I feel. This is what that would look like:...”
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 02:22 AM
7

A half hour of talking is a lot. I wouldn’t look to this man for more emotional support than that. Probably you have to deal with your own feelings and just be clear about specifically what you need and want. Hashing it out endlessly is not going to get you anywhere
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 02:16 AM
8

You can deflect with a question. “What do you think is best?” or “How did you come to your ideas” Etc Most people want to hear themselves talk
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 02:10 AM
13

Seriously, what a creep. We are not blaming that one on the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 02:53 AM
2

Maybe you look alike? Eye color or something?
/r/askTRP12/09/20 11:19 AM
0

Talking about it definitely lowers men’s value to lots of women. If they found out they were “only plates” and had been assigned a number? Even if was a high number, ewwww
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:16 AM
1

What part don’t you buy?
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 01:04 AM
1

The average man could step it up a bit. Women don’t need to stoop anymore it’s true. But an above average man is worth keeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:40 PM
5

Psh I think that’s their insecurity talking. Pair bonding is both a hormone thing and an emotional thing and it works well in healthy relationships with lots of hot sex no matter what the history is. There’s a lot of incels who find red pill and when it doesn’t make them as successful with women as they want it to they look for someone to blame. Labeling the women who don’t click with them as sluts is an easy out
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 01:36 PM
2

There are a lot more people who don’t look at porn than looking at reddit would have you think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 10:04 PM
6

They might skip getting STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 10:27 AM
2

He’s not ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 10:26 AM
17

You’ll always be young to an older man
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 11:35 PM
1

Good list
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 09:23 PM
3

I love women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:22 PM
13

Enough sleep
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 02:10 AM
11

Most of the guys who post on red pill internet places are not marriage material. They’re jaded and nasty and judging from their posts they have a good chance of STDs coronavirus or both. They don’t believe in good women they think all women are cheaters. Why would they get married? Some brag about cheating on their wives. Ew A true leader does listen. You want to follow him because he’s smart and strong and works really hard on himself and his career. If he’s wrong he wants to know. You don’t wa…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 12:15 AM
19

Always be improving
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 04:00 AM
5

Dirty, naughty? Sex isn’t evil. Women like sex too, Reddit has many examples
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:39 AM
0

Living at home meaning your parents’ house? Sounds like a drag at 26
/r/askTRP03/09/20 01:23 PM
2

Can you go for walks in the neighborhood after dinner or on a Saturday morning? What if you were the one to make some cookies and take them around to the nearby neighbours in a reverse of the American tradition of bringing food to new people in the neighborhood
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 01:19 PM
1

There’s way too much attention given to looks. It’s important for one night stands and flings but in the long run looking for a partner personality and likeability are more important. Plus life circumstances, ethics, financial status, compatibility. Attractiveness has many facets besides looks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:11 AM
42

Women take heat for nagging but a true leader doesn’t elicit nagging because he does what needs to be done. Self motivation is hot.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 12:58 AM
2

Saggy compared to what though? High round ones are less normal than low and swingy. There probably normal
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 12:54 AM
29

Just plain general man hating is odious
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/20 03:35 AM
2

If this preposterous story is true this man is not your leader now and was he ever? It seems like your career/financial and health issues aren’t new. Of course you don’t have to be open to him dating other women. If you want to stay with him because his absurd nastiness turns out to be a weird blip, you can choose career plus hired help or homemaker. You can’t do both well, who can? As long as the housework is done it doesn’t matter who does it. If you’d rather professor, fine. If he can’t suppo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 01:46 AM
10

He’s not being the leader. She can do better. Just because she values traditional gender roles doesn’t mean she needs to put up with whatever crap he deals out.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/20 11:05 AM
5

It's good for their prostate to ejaculate every day. Just go for it, make it a habit. Personally I would rather it be in me than him all alone looking at random porn women.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 03:48 AM
1

Skirts
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 06:38 PM
6

I think it's gross. Maybe he doesn't realize how icky it is. I hope you tell him. There are lots of men out there
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 01:18 AM
6

Of course men will see it as related to body count. Showing off your body to strangers for their entertainment, to plenty of men, is within the spectrum of body count
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 05:24 PM
5

Many men will find it off putting
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 05:19 PM
10

Yeah. He doesn't care what you want. You can do better
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 11:41 PM
3

You can be a home maker. Find a husband who wants that and can afford it. Waste absolutely no energy worrying about this, spend your time becoming the wife he will want.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 04:35 PM
3

As he grows older he will see his parents by how they behave. If you show him integrity he will notice. And he will see her too. When they're little kids will just love you easy but at some point around adolescence they develop hypocrisy detectors. Be the best man he knows
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:41 AM
21

Is he a red pill guy? Sounds like he's applying dread. Yuck
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 01:10 AM
11

This guy is not a partner to you. It's not only men who can "next" partners. He's not going to get better
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 01:09 AM
20

When people tell you who they are, believe them
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 01:08 AM
5

This is true
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:25 AM
7

To me watching porn decreases his value by a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 12:14 AM
9

He might hurt you though
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 02:00 AM
11

No way. I would not invite her over again.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/19 02:49 AM
12

Also offer blowjobs
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/19 03:07 AM
10

Enthusiasm is hot
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/19 03:06 AM
1

Steroids do not make you look and feel better
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:17 AM
2

You get to choose what to say to him. I think lying is not the right thing to so. Ideally you find a way to tell the truth with tact
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:11 AM
5

Don't say a thing to him. Just be as awesome as you can and be grateful. Looks aren't everything, personality and nice boobs go a long way. Confidence is attractive, keep your dread to to yourself
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/19 10:57 AM
8

Yeah, keeping the makeup light and strategic is a good idea, he met you with none and was enthralled so he probably likes that better
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/19 10:53 AM
1

I would be glad that he was honest and it wouldn't bother me at all. But if he was RP he would know not to discuss this with you
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 10:50 AM
10

The US is big and there are many subdemographics. I don't think arm shaving is very common where I live, even among feminine women
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 11:32 PM
16

Arm stubble sounds unpleasant
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 11:29 PM
14

You don't need to wait for him, just go ahead and work out
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 08:02 PM
2

Yeah if the guy's depressed there are better things to do than drink
/r/askTRP27/04/19 11:14 AM
2

This sounds like awful sex to me. Maybe she faked sleep so you would stop
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:48 PM
2

Don't bother with him, gross
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 05:56 PM
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