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| 0 | Girl Mentioning I seem NervousQuestioning yourself is what makes you seem nervous. If she can ask you a question like that and throw you off your game, you ARE too nervous, because you don't believe in yourself. You didn't think you were acting nervous? You likely weren't. Her perception of you doesn't equal your reality - you determine that. If you don't think you're acting nervous, you're not. Next time, shrug and say 'Do I seem nervous? I'm having a great time, I didn't notice.' It shouldn't matter to you. Nothing anyone … | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Cutting - another example of irrationalityConditioned behaviours are not immediately under our control, and willpower gives way to emotinal impulse in even the most controlled of men. I cut myself recently. I was diagnosed about 10 years ago as depressed, and now am considered to have Dysthymia. I take my health seriously, and have taken every step possible to get better. I lost 50 pounds and got into shape, changed my diet and lifestyle, undergo therapy often, taught myself mindfulness and how to meditate. I improve myself every day. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 09:06 PM |
| 7 | A quick word on frame.Robert Anton Wilson's theories on 'reality tunnels' really helped me understand the subjectivity of reality. Since you really can't be sure of anything beyond your perceptions, and your perceptions create your reality, you just think yourself into a reality where your frame is the total. The understanding that reality is always 'plural and mutable' was key to letting go of any need for exterior validation, and understanding that the 'frames' of other people are only 'real/objective' within their… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 07:48 PM |
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