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| 2 | even if a guy understand a girl's hint towards the girl being attracted to them they may not reciprocate out of fear of misjudging the initial signalThe difference between flirting and friendliness exists mostly inside the woman's head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Yeah, I should care about how 'my presence' makes a woman feel.We need to stop enabling cowardice in women. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get?Women think that men get better dates since they have to work harder because they believe the world is fair. However, they're not completely off base, since men can usually tolerate more awfulness because they have lower standards and fewer options and because the rule of large numbers means they may be shielded from shitty women because they get lucky a few times and that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Dating women as bisexual/lesbian woman is far easier than dating as a heterosexual guy.Another day, another time the women-are-wonderful effect rears its head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationYou haven't seen SheRatesDogs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys think you could last dating for a man if you were given 5 years?They'd be fucked six ways from Sunday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 11:16 AM |
| 0 | What advantages does men have in the dating game?They're usually harder to kill than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men.damn bro, you should become an archaeologist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Incels deserve better.We should return to the time when everyone got called gay 😂 | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?The problem about male support groups is that they inevitably start discussing women's wrongs and you know that women can do no wrong! Sarcasm on the last part, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:50 PM |
| 3 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Kafka trap! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?In racing terms, it's a development war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?F) Getting women is harder than getting men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Men's higher sex drive and lower standards act as a safety net. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:19 PM |
| 15 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Men usually go sexless because they have no options, women usually go sexless because they have no options that are good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingThe halo effect doesn't care about sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own.The reason you don't hear women talk as much about men's N counts is because it's easier to get a low N count man than a low N count woman, there's lots more of them for reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menIt makes sense if they mean that they couldn't figure out a figure for these women. If that's the case, I take back what I said originally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:18 PM |
| 2 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Only if their standards drop in the process and they start valuing availability over getting the best they can possibly get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menThere are women that don't care about looks, but the reality is that most men probably aren't attracted to this kind of woman. ...and that most men are more attractive than this woman and would be dating way down if they dated her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menThere's no way in hell that 5'8" women are undatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The most important personality trait when it comes to attraction is humour for menHot guys are funnier even if they do exactly the same thing as less hot guys. Your humor can also be alienating, especially if you're not attractive enough to get away with anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:56 PM |
| 2 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?Motorsports can get pretty nerdy if you go deep into them so it doesn't seem that unusual of a combo to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?My sense of humor is pretty abrasive which makes my personality an acquired taste, but I think I would have been in at least one LTR. Whether I'd still be in one is another question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Do men lie about their physical preferences in women?I think I'm referring to the American system as I don't really know the European system. My point is that the guy in question prefers massive breasts but has no problem with normal sized breasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Getting Fuckzoned is worse than being FriendzonedDoesn't matter, still had sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Do men lie about their physical preferences in women?There's a big gap between men's preferences and standards, much bigger than the gap between women's preferences and standards. A guy might prefer a 5'7" redhead with F cups, but he will be perfectly content with a 5'4 black haired woman with C cups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 11:55 AM |
| 1 | When Red Pill groups and general manosphere spaces talk about how hard it is for men like them to get matches/attention on dating apps, why do they never bring up the gender ratio of users on those apps?Dating apps basically bring dating dynamics to their logical conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is almost entirely a result of external factors not an internal decision to be confidentAs with many other things, "confidence" is a euphemism for "attractiveness". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornThey're probably more prudish than the general female population and more selfish, which is why they think everything that doesn't directly pleasure them is bad. Coincidentally, "rough sex" is one of the most popular porn categories for women, so what you said about men being used to kinkier and more giving women sounds right. These women don't feel violated because they're having fun and because they recognize that an orgasm isn't the end-all-be-all of sex because they can easily get one by the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:31 PM |
| 0 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornI remember when I used to watch porn, I one day looked on the front page, and looked at the most popular stuff. It was all pretty vanilla. The reason I looked was because I'd been scrolling through FDS, and based on what a lot of people on there said, porn was now all pretty abusive and extreme. I think that FDS has a different (i.e. more bonkers) idea as to what constitutes "violence" compared to you. I wager they think blowjobs (especially if deepthroating and mild gagging is involved), anal, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 6 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornNah, they're just not attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Scrolled through r/MensLib and its disappointing.It's controlled opposition. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLipstick on a pig etc. Also how you're certainly guaranteed to end up better than you started, you're not guaranteed to end up good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI admire their optimism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Women of PPD, what differentiates men who are successful with women?Through both the halo effect and positive reinforcement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 01:09 PM |
| 0 | EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the differenceEven if you hard regulated, soft regulated, whatever, dating, sex, relationships etc behind closed doors we are never going to be able to control how much a woman actually loves and wants the man she is with. Wouldn't influencing the pool of available suitors for women influence how much they will love the men they're with? Your chances are better when you're competing with your social circle instead of the whole city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadbased and Kyliepilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe's hiding under your nose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 02:30 PM |
| 8 | What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-ThreadI wish men would drastically reduce the amount of attention they give to women, especially women they don't know and will never know. Simp less and more discriminately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Is there a married man that doesn't masturbate or watch porn?Yes, but he may not be as desirable as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Orgasm countThere's probably more women that have beat their meat into submission like EDP445 than men because because they use extremely effective sex toys. Take their toys away and they will need to work way harder to make themselves orgasm. Add SSRIs into the mix and the struggle only becomes bigger. It's also funny how use of sex toys by both men and women is blamed on men's failings. Yeah, women are perfect, that computes just fine, totally fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcementSo you discovered the halo effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Without qualifications, which problems do you sympathize with men for in dating that women contribute to?A lot of women expect men to be perpetually stoic even in the midst of blatant disrespect. They tend to assume that we're all these insensitive brutes that can put up with it. It happens both online and irl. Which is why they're surprised when men lash out via the manosphere after decades of browbeating. It gets even funnier when they assert that men should support each more, but if you read between the lines it becomes apparent that they want a specific kind of support: a kind that they control… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Are you <26M?Your only hope is that other, more attractive, people will age poorly while you will be relatively stable or they will be killed off. Drugs can help you out with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Think with your top head instead of your (proverbial since you're a woman) bottom head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Rough sexThey're the unseen victims of #me-too 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 06:21 PM |
| 16 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?Men don't have an in-group bias in favor of themselves like women do as they have a mild out-group bias in favor of women. Women heavily favor women, men slightly favor women. It's called the women-are-wonderful effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?Feminism worked because of our innate desire to protect women because eggs are expensive. Men's rights activism hasn't worked as well because it's about men, who are seen as disposable. The "shit happens, women most affected" meme is a result of our desire to protect women. Perhaps MRAs would do better if they played into this meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have funWhy take some random out to eat, dancing around in the hopes of getting laid when I could just give the $$$ to a women who will treat me how I want and give me pussy at the end? [...] that would definitely threaten the stranglehold on sex that women currently have. This is why many women are adamantly against prostitution, pornography and sluts; they make it easier for men to get sexual gratification, lowering women's bargaining power in the process. Hell, porn doesn't even require direct intera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueI don't totally agree with your point about tall girls, they're not really desirable and, depending on your height, you will still be taller than them so they should be happy, if they even care about that. But, really, what pisses young guys off is that they can't get their female equivalent to give them the light of day. And on top of that, they get accused of having too low or too high standards, sometimes both at the same time, which certainly doesn't help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 07:48 PM |
| 9 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Every time a woman tells you that you're not entitled to sex, tell her that she's not entitled to sex either but she got it anyway, that will really hurt some feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow's your car running? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's the ones that are obsessed with anime guys and gay anime porn that don't stay as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:04 PM |
| 5 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.But when you actually get down to the crux of it, and ask men to define "average" - they almost always describe a woman in her 20s who's fit/thim-slick, feminine, with a reasonably pretty face. Have you considered the possibility that the men complaining are in their 20s, fit or thin, masculine (not superhero-tier but definitely more masculine than the K-Pop singers some women lust over), with a reasonably pretty face? And that they're complaining because they can't get their female equivalent d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | What do you think actually helps men date?Sometimes self improvement is like a polishing a turd. A chrome plated turd that's polished to a mirror finish will always be a turd no matter what. People often overstate the effectiveness of self improvement because they don't want to admit that some people are hopeless (the amount of people that are hopeless is subject to debate). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Speaking from personal experience, what do never married woman over the age of 34 look like?There's no gym for your boobs, or your face for that matter 🤠 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:04 AM |
| 9 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?Perhaps this sort of emotional and sexual safety net is why single women report being happier than single men. Or maybe I'm totally wrong and their purported happiness is pure copium and chest thumping to distract us from the tears that fall into the bucket of ice cream they're holding. Few women will ever experience the kind of loneliness that men experience because of the aforementioned safety net. They just won't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one)I bet there's not a lot of them to go around and there are certainly fewer chubby chasing women than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 3 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.You don't understand, the men in their leagues are ugly to them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one)Some women are chubby chasers but telling fat men to bet on women's paraphilias sounds disheartening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:06 PM |
| 14 | Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one)You haven't accounted for the connection between personality and attractiveness (halo effect). Since women underrate men's attractiveness, they probably underrate their personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Is hypergamy real (some real life counter-examples).The red pill hypergamy is monkey-branching and it's not normal or healthy. I don't even think it's common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How to become the "bad boy"Indulge in your more assholeish side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:53 PM |
| 4 | The average man has poor dating prospects in comparison to the average woman, what is something men can do to improve their SMVAll the advice about making yourself looking better is valid (grooming, styling, exercise), but the closer you are to your attractiveness ceiling, the less quick fixes like a better haircut, skincare or better clothes will work. If you shower and your haircut is fine, your skin is clear, your clothes flatter you already, all that's left is exercise and plastic surgery, both of which yield no immediate results and require great investment and commitment. Of course, saying that people that take ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 5 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menA significant number of today's bisexual women will never have sex with another woman, they're just straighties that want to feel special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Men wouldn't lash out as hard because they wouldn't be systemically gaslit. Realizing you were bullshitted for most of your life is what hurts the most and what makes you put on the tinfoil hat and start wondering who stands to benefit by lying in your face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Women should not be wearing revealing clothing out in public if they are in a relationship.But I like going outside and seeing eye candy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 10:56 AM |
| 2 | The best way to get women is to surround yourself with women.The thing that's wrong with him is that he's not attractive to any of them, but the more they are, the harder it is to convince someone that lack of attractiveness is his only problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:01 PM |
| 6 | The best way to get women is to surround yourself with women.I'm not sure being surrounded by 10-12 women will work well. Having a wingwoman or two to exploit preselection bias sounds like a better idea and you won't raise any red flags or look gay. If you're mid at best, your best hope is with someone you spend a lot of time because people usually fall in love with those they spend a lot of time with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who want practical dating advice from women should listen to women who date both women and men."Women-are-wonderful" effect at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?Hoeflation: you get less for more! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:35 PM |
| 4 | Single men vs womenInformal harems with top-shelf men. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 6 | What will it take for people to genuinely care about male suicide, boys' education, fathers' access to their children etc.?Women being affected, because they're always most affected (sarcasm on the last part). | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Since women dont need men im sure we can dissapear for a couple of years.Didn't get banned, they chickened out. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 08:35 PM |
| 11 | Confirmed woman, Got invited to a group on FB, called 'I MISS THE DAYS MEN WENT TO WAR AND NEVER CAME BACK' I'm gonna say pretty confidently-There's about a 0% chance a group called 'I MISS THE DAYS WE COULD LOBOTOMIZE WOMEN FOR HAVING OPINIONS' would be allowed.Were they all asleep during GWOT? | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 10:24 AM |
| 0 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?They want them to bully creepy men until they become hermits stop bothering women. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | We got a live one.She needs Daddy Doug! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/18 10:58 AM |
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