| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 59 | How do I get rid of this thirst for validation? | clothes_are_optional | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 04:25 AM | |
| 40 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex? | clothes_are_optional | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 07:45 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Where are all the FRs?this is actually pretty awesome. fake or not, still good motivation. thanks | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the FRs?that doesnt work :-/ | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Tinder has given me 3 #'s...0 dates. Help please.don't call. its weird. i can maybe agree if you know the girl already (even then most girls are too awkward to answer a phone), but just being a guy from the internet? bad idea and she will not pick up. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 01:18 AM |
| -6 | To all the white knights out there: RSDOwen destroys a chode outside a bar (sort of x-post from r/videos)beyond fake | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 03:55 AM |
| 2 | [FR] What I did wrong / Still can't tell if she only wants to be friendsthis. just last week i was on a date with some girl and at one point we stared at each other, and im not exactly a pro but im kind of comfortable in my own skin, so i awkwardly asked her "do you expect me to kiss you right now?" and she was like "uh..no, i dont expect anything out of you" which made me retract a little and thought "man this is screwed", but then 5 more min passed the look happened again except this time i acted, and we made out for a long time. do, don't ask. | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 04:34 AM |
| 4 | [FR] What I did wrong / Still can't tell if she only wants to be friendsok so here are the facts based on what happened without looking at the pointless details which you actually have no idea whether are correctly interpreted or not. she flirts with you a whole bunch she invites you to hang out multiple times she comes over one on one to cook youre sitting next to her one on one in your apartment. nobody here can tell you what this girl is thinking my man. she could easily just be the type that wants a guy to just take action. or she could be a very friendly girl. … | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 03:51 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Meet HB9 at the beach. Date a few days later with f-close.I pulled out a copy of Ulysses, and we insulted James Joyce. Laughing at how ridiculous his style is, and laughing at how successful he was at making a work of art impossible to understand. i'm cringing at this whole post, but perhaps only because it's a mirror of how i thought i used to be some lyrical genius when i was a teenager. | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 04:32 AM |
| 2 | "How to hold a conversation like a man" IN FIELDit's so obviously fake | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 03:53 AM |
| 6 | [FR] 1. Not give a fuck 2. That is all.GUYS HES LYING, GET HIM | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] dress well, holy mother of god dress well.i understand what you mean, i'm just presenting another option. working on another part of you while handicapping yourself. it's a good way to progress | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 08:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] dress well, holy mother of god dress well.bad analogy. defense/offense is played in turn (assuming we're talking soccer, basketball, etc.) those two sides are always played and can't be ignored. you're never ALWAYS on offense. a better analogy would be a basketball player ignoring his speed and working on his pull up jump shot instead. one can be substituted for the other. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 07:51 PM |
| 2 | [FR] dress well, holy mother of god dress well.and as if some anecdotal haphazard experiment is going to suddenly change those people's minds. most of the guys (including me) that have any inkling of inner game just don't care too much about dressing in a sweater vest simply because it's uncomfortable. if i go out, i'll dress nicely, but if i'm running to the store or going to class (at least when i was in college), I would just wear whatever I felt like wearing and not dressing to get some glances from girls. in the end, what you say weighs… | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 05:49 PM |
| 5 | [FR] dress well, holy mother of god dress well.this is nice, but honestly, what's the point? is it not obvious that somebody that is dressed well will receive more respect? also -- since you're subconsciously expecting certain reactions, your final conclusion will be muddied IMO, since this is all subjective anyway | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 04:49 AM |
| 2 | [FR]Did everything wrong, still got a number, what next?http://i.imgur.com/awdIk.jpg | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 06:09 AM |
| 15 | Texting after first date. Right or wrong?http://i.imgur.com/XYjtH.jpg | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Whether to text or not?god that's amazing. i'm using this forever and whoever gets it will be bedded by me whether male or female | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 06:55 AM |
| 2 | I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past?are you me?...god that's weird. how's the acting thing going? | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 06:49 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Music Festival, Day 3: "Spit or swallow?", two #-closes.reddit | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 06:24 AM |
| -2 | Unified Theory of Interactions. Part 1 - Introductionis there really any point to writing this? i'm not trying to sound like a dick, but literally every book on pick up since the beginning of time has sounded exactly what you just wrote. it's just a rehash/paraphrase of every guide ever | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Male physical attractivenessthis is idiotic edit and they can take any value between (infinity, infinity) just because none of those numbers mean absolutely anything. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Arnold's 6 Rules of Success - YouTubethat was actually quite great. 10/10 | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How much am I missing out because I don't have tattoos? And why are tattoos attractive?i dont know why you assume having tattoos will automatically get you laid, but since you already have this preconceived notion about them, what was the point of making a post about this? | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How much am I missing out because I don't have tattoos? And why are tattoos attractive?youre not missing out on anything...most girls that have a requirement for a tattoo are usually not the type of girls that you have lasting relationships with anyway | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 06:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Rejections Galore in NYCi'll be completely honest and go against most of what people say here and say that this was hysterical. i got this whole picture in my head that you were ewan mcgregor from trainspotting and you had this i dont give a fuck attitude whether you got rejected or not saying completely outlandish shit to random girls. you want to fuck a girl? so you told her that. she didn't like it, you were clueless as to why because you know you're awesome, you shrugged it off and moved on to another one. obviousl… | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Advice for online dating request: Is it good or bad to post photos of yourself with attractive girls?i personally don't. it all depends on the girl. some love seeing guys with other hot chicks around them and that makes them jealous. i'm not into those types of girls so its perfect. from what i've read and from girls i know, seems to be a pretty unanimous don't. that doesn't mean dont upload pictures of you with a group of friends. just don't put up pictures where you're in the middle of two girls grinning, it usually doesn't work (at least on OKC in NYC) | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 05:45 AM |
| 6 | First timer ever. A girl just asked me and I said yes. Now what?"so do you hold hands?" dont do this...just grab her hand and hold it. While I'm holding her hand I plan on getting to know her friends and being super confident in order to set an appropriate frame. I am going to get them to like me. do this She is Korean/American and I'm fairly confident her friends are korean also. My experience with korean women is near 0. treat her like a female human being that you are attracted to. just...dont fuck it up, she asked you out, so flirt your ass off. hell you… | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Where do single women go?that's such an open ended question. there is no magical place all these single women flock. just go around anywhere, relax, enjoy the atmosphere and talk to girls. some will be single, some wont -- that's the way of life. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 05:37 AM |
| 2 | How do I get rid of this thirst for validation?i dont understand the point of this comment. i'll usually ignore the stupidity, but im genuinely curious as to why you'd think this would ever add to the conversation? | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this thirst for validation?got some pretty good responses here. thanks guys | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason)no, i agree that it can be xposted. i didnt realize you were a mod, i thought you were just being an annoying neckbeard. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 05:33 PM |
| 2 | The purpose of some techniques is to NOT work.cmon really , half an hour? i'll talk to a girl, but i make it within my power to find out whether she's taken within the first 3-5 minutes of convo. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason)dude, enough. you're embarrassing yourself, move on. moderators aren't special and sex is still part of seduction because if sex = bad, the girl doesn't come back. seduction should even be included in marriage as well, it's the key to a successful relationship. now stop telling me to go for a walk, when you are clearly angered by some force that may have disrupted the forum hierarchy. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason)you are clearly more riled up about this than i. good luck in your future endeavors. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Unintentionally became the creep in her lifeyou all honestly sound like youre 15-17 years old. at least from what i can tell from what you wrote. if you want to solve the problem, there's nothing better than communication. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Unintentionally became the creep in her lifeyou know you can just.........wait for it.........talk to her about it! | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 08:25 PM |
| 9 | Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason)this subreddit is completely fine for this. its called SEDUCTION. don't listen to anybody that has "pua" in their name. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 08:22 PM |
| 54 | [FR] Never kissed a girl before. Made out for about an hour.hickeys are permanent, dude, didnt you know?! | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 04:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pool hall K and #Closeread this whole thing in a southern accent | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 06:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - Monday Night Datefor the sense of conquest "Im_a_rapist" :) | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Highly effective textual deflakerhaha, i agree. but the girl im thinking of specifically is a shit texter but she was interested and she was fun in real life as well. chances are though, the girl isn't interested | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Highly effective textual deflakeryou're right to an extent. obviously there's no golden rule, thus there are plenty of girls that just suck at texting and are actually interested. it's happened to me before. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 09:03 PM |
| 6 | [FR] PlentyOfFish F-Close. Questions about pickup while on a date already, and making intentions clear.making intentions clear = being brutally honest and communicative. it's as simple as that. anything else and you've got a pissed off girl that thinks you're a liar/player. at least if you're honest, she can be pissed and move on if she's not on the same page. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 07:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Tuesday Night (Killing Time)great job, rapist! | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 05:40 PM |
| 46 | [FR] Girl Sunning in Park, Lying on Her Stomachcan i see you later? i'm blind. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 09:22 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Girl Sunning in Park, Lying on Her Stomachemails...i dont think thats a good sign..did she not have a phone number? | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 07:57 PM |
| 4 | For 2 years I've written about seduction and self-improvement. Now I'm giving it all away for free to Seddit this week.today you..tomorrow me.. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 09:50 PM |
| 5 | What is your "go-to" opener/routine/gambit?thats quite hilarious, actually | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 03:36 PM |
| 3 | (FR) Crashed and burned tonight.yeah...kino generally doesnt work if you're not in the vicinity | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 06:48 PM |
| 2 | On the recent influx of "thank you" posts (+ bonus "FR")Also, I wouldn't mind never hearing the "lesson learned: talk to everyone no matter where you are" advice again. About 95% of FR's have it. It drives me nuts | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I took my friend shopping, what a difference! (With pics)what's up with these ridiculously overpriced coaching sessions. $4,000 for some asshole to tell you to go talk to girls? that 4,000 better include a whole two weeks of like non stop going out, WITH some kind of hidden mic & camera attached so you and the "coach" can review everything after. god this whole community can either be great or it can really prey on the weak. | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 03:39 PM |
| -2 | How to turn conversations sexual?there are three things you never talk about: sex, religion and politics. | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Sending texts about the girl, to the girlthat's cool, but taking this exact situation without considering any outside influences such as your "beta level" , that wasn't very cool what she did. | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 03:09 PM |
| 1 | r/seduction, what subtle IOIs do you think guys miss the most?no point in trying to find the subtle IOIs unless you have years of experience under your belt. Even so, those guys can easily get it wrong. Just keep doing what you're doing and focus on the really obvious ones like touching. Every girl is completely different and if you notice something small you may have read here, it can easily just be something that's not what you think. Don't bother with these, trust me. | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Sending texts about the girl, to the girlseriously?...if she liked you, she'd just find it slightly flattering..and funny. doesn't sound like a very cool/interested girl | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Club BitchesOo i like this. thanks. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 11:29 PM |
| 5 | Club Bitchesi do agree with a lot of what you did, but the main thing that really sticks out to me is the fact that you opened up with the "you buy me a drink instead." I never understand the reasons for this. sure its playful, but its such a hit or miss that either a) she thinks its funny, or b) you're a cheap ass, good bye. i think because she automatically hated the fact that you were scouring her for a drink (even though she wanted one out of you), that she started being a bitch. this is why i hate brin… | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: Eye Contact is so Importantdamn, i like this. seems extremely sexual | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: Eye Contact is so Importantcan you explain this "triangle gazing" thing? | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How the Stoics Got Laid: 5 Lessons on Meeting Women From Stoic Philosophyis cicero good? | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How the Stoics Got Laid: 5 Lessons on Meeting Women From Stoic Philosophyi'm not sure what pseudo-happiness is. if what the person's writing makes sense, and you can use it for some kind of self benefit, then i don't see the problem. you can always just give it a shot. whats the worst that can happen? you think its bs by page 30? you can just drop it then. :) but if you want some writings by ancients that practiced stoicism, look into marcus aurelius and seneca. there are a bunch of others, but those are the main ones. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How the Stoics Got Laid: 5 Lessons on Meeting Women From Stoic Philosophyprobably around 2 weeks, i have amazon prime so i can just borrow it on my kindle. AFAIK, the borrow limit is 2 weeks. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 03:40 PM |
| 5 | How the Stoics Got Laid: 5 Lessons on Meeting Women From Stoic Philosophythe book "A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy" that he recommended seems to be highly praised on amazon. going to give it a read, and if its worth it, i'll come back to post here. thanks for the post | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 03:20 AM |
| 1 | "I get all my dates from Mutamate."tl;dr ? this is ridiculously long. i cant invest in this unless i at least know what it's about?.. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Well, fuck. I have Herpes. Help?I'm uncircumcised. I dont THINK I have herpes, but listen man, this shit happens to many people. You're not the only one. I'm always scared of that annoying "disease", but if you have a successful relationship with a girl, she shouldn't mind the fact that you can just take medicine for it. As far as I know/remember from sex ed, herpes is only really transferrable when you have breakouts, and assuming you take your meds--these breakouts should be few and far between. It sucks, but what do you exp… | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 03:44 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Friend literally says nothing, gets girls number.is it really so hard to grasp? he's good looking. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 03:39 AM |
| 1 | I found out she has a kid. Would love any kind of advice.kk thanks, didnt even realize askseddit exists | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I found out she has a kid. Would love any kind of advice.yeah, i specifically stated that i'm not trying to be a replacement dad at this point in my life | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 03:46 AM |
| 1 | I found out she has a kid. Would love any kind of advice.i didnt mean in that sense. i meant that i dont think i'd be able to handle someone with a kid at 19. even now, im kinda nervous about it. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 03:38 AM |
| 1 | I found out she has a kid. Would love any kind of advice.haha interesting. you've got balls. if i were 19 , i think i'd have ran. all the best | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I found out she has a kid. Would love any kind of advice.thats very interesting. thanks a lot, man | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I found out she has a kid. Would love any kind of advice.that actually made me feel a bit better. do you have any places you've read this from? | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 02:51 AM |
| 2 | I found out she has a kid. Would love any kind of advice.this is a self improvement subreddit as well, which i am trying to achieve. thanks for your pointless comment though | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Super fast flirting at dance classthis dudes got the right idea. just have fun! when you do, it'll naturally just come to you | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 06:17 PM |
| 1 | WTF happened tonight?it may very well be possible that she just wanted to challenge you a bit. shit like this happens. if she followed you to a diff place, she was clearly into you. either that, or she's a complete nut case | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 09:32 PM |
| 3 | How can I be more witty?read books, newspapers, watch movies..overall just be cultured. being witty isn't something everybody can be. but doing all those things certainly helps. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Simple Pickup [first] Uncut Footageyep. it was just that. she kind of wanted to kiss him in the back of her head, and he made the move. there is nothing in her body language that says that she was against what he did, except the running away. but the running away was just kind of "i cant fucking believe i went along with it, that was very slutty." | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Just when I think I'm doing everything right, she drops the boyfriend wordright. either way, he fucked up. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Just when I think I'm doing everything right, she drops the boyfriend wordyou can just continue being her friend. its always nice to surround yourself with women (even if they have bf's) | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 10:55 PM |
| 16 | Just when I think I'm doing everything right, she drops the boyfriend wordYour problem was that you didn't make it obvious that you were into her. You met her at a work event which could have easily meant that she was just trying to network. Or, she was thinking of you as an alternate and decided that her bf was the better choice. Either way, forget about her and move on. Learn from your mistake, which in this case was probably the fact that you didn't make a move soon enough. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?thanks for the elaborate response. i completely agree with you. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?that makes sense, but ive stated that she was down to do other things. if she really wasnt huge on sex, you could easily pick up on that if her libido sucked pre-marriage in terms of oral/anything else | /r/seduction | 01/01/12 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?i honestly have no idea when people say this as well. i can successfully bang mostly anything that moves (thats female), and either do it rough or gentle, or what have you. if you prefer one thing and the girl prefers another, would that really be enough to destroy a relationship? | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?thanks for your input. this all makes sense, but obviously as you've stated, for only the religious. it's cool to know that there are people with enough "discipline" to refrain. what about other things besides actual sex? | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?thanks man | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?i love this idea. i think we should start this movement | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?thats kinda what im thinking/hoping | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?i like this, thats true | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?good read. sorry to hear the cheating part, but im sure youre a better man now | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?how did it turn out? | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 05:07 PM |
| 8 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?hahaha. thanks. i like this answer a lot. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?hahaha. damned well better be. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:35 AM |
| 4 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?what about self choice? | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?well i mean, im not talking about "scoring" , i can respect such a choice (whether i think its retarded or not) | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:04 AM |
| 12 | Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex?thats a pretty good answer. but now that im sitting here and actually thinking about it, no matter how attracted you are to the girl, including her personality, sex would still outweigh the other two? | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:02 AM |
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